Horses or People, Communication is Key

[@ereze923]

Real story: After finishing my military service, I took a job as a cattle rancher. The owner had no problem with me being inexperienced and taught me the basics of horse-riding. During one of the learning sessions i had trouble making the horse listen to me, instead of doing whatever he pleased. Seeing my frustration, my teacher taught me something I'll never forget: " He is not listening to you, because he can tell you are insecure. The commands you are giving him are too ambiguous and lack conviction, thus you dont give him the sense of assurance to trust you enough as his rider". At the moment I heard that, I realized I had lived for so long under an organization (Army) that scolds the horse instead of the rider. Since then, I aspire to give people under me a sense of assurance, rather than seeking it from others

[@dawnwilliams8766]

Thanks for your service and sharing!

[@angle_conscious9876]

Just what I'd expect from the army Sincerely - a Marine. 😉

[@ereze923]

@@angle_conscious9876 Actually I'm not from the US, but that goes to show how how it's always the same BS lol

[@Alloniya]

I was learning riding a horse and she never listened to me. Know I know why

[@mellonhead9568]

so profound !!!

[@vitomccartney]

You are a gift to Earth, Sir. Thank All Father for you.

[@PrayRosaryDaily]

God*

[@vitomccartney]

@@PrayRosaryDaily whats the difference?

[@PeachDragon_]

​@@vitomccartney the all father is Odin which is a Nordic pagan god, not the christian god. It depends on your faith, if you're pagan Odin is the king of gods so thank the all father fits

[@vitomccartney]

@@PeachDragon_ you my friend are operating on low frequencies and missing the point entirely.

[@PeachDragon_]

@@vitomccartney you asked what's the difference and i explained it to you

[@josephphillips3352]

I’m not a cowboy but damn your advice helps me with my wife, life , and our horses. You are giving me fatherly advice. I’ve never had a father in my life. Thank you 🙏

[@WaterMelon-Cat]

This comment is unrelated to this video but I saw your clip on morality and cheating. I was cheated on by my long time gf. She was cheating on me with my best friend behind my back after meeting him for a month. All my friends knew about it and hid it from me. I was actually genuinely a good bf and I was so stunned I never would have imagined. When I confronted her she never even acknowledged it was wrong just said things like "you wouldn't understand" my best friends had no remorse either and my friends who knew told me "it wasn't my business so I didn't tell you" it amazes me how people will do such terribly disgusting things because they don't "feel" it is bad or because they feel fine doing it. Keep word being feel. It is horrible to do but they "feel" like it is justifiable.

[@persevere777]

As much as i think the internet ruined the world , individuals such as yourself are presented to me out of the clear blue, with all the noise thats out there we forget who we are and forget our beliefs and convictions , i was born in '65 so i remember a life of honesty loyalty ,and respect between indviduals. Today that is no longer the case, but you and your channel gives me enough hope not to give up as of yet, thank you sir!!!!!!!

[@aussiehillbilly]

i wasn't a horse person but i knew i was a dog person. i bought a property out west. it had a large backyard, i figured a horse couldn't be too much different to a dog. i was right. within a year i was riding that horse.i could sear it and stop and go. a harness, no saddle. it was basically one of my dogs but ride able. during parties He would steal tobacco and drinks. He would let the dogs sun bake on top of him. Loved that horse.

[@SuperKeithers]

XD thats a beautiful story

[@jamesweber9557]

His knowledge of the animals is incredible!

[@stevenfoulger6066]

Most horseman now a days are teaching this on some level. Everyone just has their own way of explaining it.

[@lucianofranca9809]

You should be considered a national treasure man. I'm from Brazil🇧🇷🇧🇷🇧🇷 and I've been learning English for 3 years now, completely by myself and I use your videos to practice my listening skills, And be able to understand what you say and absorb a little bit of your knowledge is amazing. Be able to learn amazing things like that in other language is a rewarding feeling. it's really worth learning a new language to get access to amazing content like this. Thank you so much 🙏🙏🙏

[@ArthurMarrero]

Eu sempre sinto que os brasileiros perdem esse conteúdo, eu quero compartilhar os vídeos e não posso, eu tenho que resumir em português tirando uns 90% do conteúdo do vídeo

[@aquylesmatheus5270]

Salve!!

[@lucianofranca9809]

@@ArthurMarrero Eu sinto a mesma coisa! Chega ser frustrante as vezes.

[@ArthurMarrero]

@@lucianofranca9809 isso

[@carloscjr23]

I got you I'm mexican, I have been diving myself in the English language for almost 10 years and I completely understand, once you understand the people you find a whole new world of information, tutorials, content, nothing compared to what you have at home, despite how old and cultural our countries are, is just not the same after it.

[@YawnGod]

To communicate, one first must have something to say.

[@n0namenate]

agreed but in a relationship or interaction of any kind, there is always something to say and something that must be communicated. without good communication, the relationship/interaction is dead

[@YawnGod]

@@n0namenate Textbook.

[@Lee86THUNDER]

Never stop learning. Great thing to live by for every aspect of life.

[@manuelpiras1941]

This man spreading wisdom in such a simple way is blessing. Greetings from Sardinia

[@betoso97]

Grande Bro meno male no sono l'unico italiano

[@a.teague4837]

I like the way you think sir, and communicate. You ever think of running for president? (Right, that's what I figured.)

[@lorenzrosenthal119]

21:00 that story about Mexico was hilarious. Thank you!

[@operationandy]

My first girlfriend was a rider . I took care of two of her horses after a while . (Rainy days ) (cold days) and most afternoons I’d clean the stalls and feed . But there was this old horse . Joe He was old and I was young . Green but I showed compassion. That horse never cantered . But after a while he let me learn how to canter and ride. He tossed me a couple times but I couldn’t get angry I felt stupid . But I think Joe respected the way in handled it . Walked him back to the stable . The next day was just me and him. I saddled up and we rode for almost an hour . He actually let me learn to canter. Best feeling in the world. Joes dead but this brought me back .

[@ChristianRock62]

Brother, I have admired your videos for some time now, and as a poet and an old-school heart similar to yourself, I just wanted to pen a poem in your honor as a thank you gift. God bless. The Horseman A man bred from the common earth, with wisdom swelling like grapes on tender vine, has this era found a treasure of rarity and worth, like perspiration laving a bottle of aged wine. I feel the words of his heart assuaging my quaking bones, for there is yet hope in a crack of manufactured concrete, for then nature's light shall shine forth and take back her throne, and archaic life shall again be complete. A man betwixt the power of horses both wild and tamed, with teachings inflamed with passion beyond compare, for by his lessons shall your pride be pricked and mamed, if you but apply it within to mend and repair. Through the corridors of times have we seen such men come and go, be it men of grandmasters, pantomimes or renowned fame, but fewer be those with rudiments of prudence, intergrity and honor, as the horseman of red earth's flame. Within his soul are melodies heard of songs devoid of lunacy, like an owl perched on the cold branch beneath the moon, for he seeks not the limelight of the peacock but chants usefully as the quiet ballad of the lune. Please do learn of this humbled poet, for the benediction of his ways will touch thy anxious and busy mind, cease from the professionals who of love do not know it, and learn of the horseman of red earth prime. -A.K.George

[@LivinginPrinceGeorge]

Beautifully written!

[@chemistryinstruments7156]

Great poem

[@HopesAlive4Knucks]

What a beautiful dedication.

[@ChristianRock62]

Thank you. I just hope he read it!

[@morganphillips8634]

Very impressive

[@RATIOS780]

Oh,Mama is a Lucky Woman

[@cactuspatti405]

100% correct especially when you add a mule to the mix. And dont worry about posting lessons. People always want the real experience and will pay to get away from home for that experience.

[@patricklee7241]

I will pretend my father is the horse. We almost always argue 5 minutes after a talk. Which is why I don't talk to him much. But I've always said it has got to be a communication issue. He doesn't understand English grammar as I do I guess but I make fun of it and I tell him, "Why don't you understand English? You've been living in the United States for over 60 years! Far longer than I've been alive!" But, I know it's wrong to say. This is exactly what I needed to hear sir. Thank you for this talk. This helps me to remember it's also up to me to speak in a manner he can understand.

[@comeyouspirits]

I don’t even ride, but everything Dwayne says works in some area of my life. Thank you, Dwayne and this community. Charlie in Australia

[@D.E..]

I've praying for wisdom, and God answered my prayer today, by listening to this. Thank you.

[@GAJ1968]

Yes

[@dianapolitron7868]

Thanks papa :)

[@Myglowtips]

You are sent to us, for such a time as this. How blessed we are.

[@Taylorclassicbullies]

You are a man of integrity The world is a little better off with you in it sir Keep being you

[@glk316]

I'm never around horses but I have learned a lot from this wonderful video. Not only about horses, but people as well. Appreciate your videos. Keep up the great content.

[@louisecassidy5991]

When you breed your own, ride your "keepers" forever and develop that relationship, you can tell what they are thinking, what they would be saying. I am in Australia. Tapestry was almost human. Out droving I'd got off for a few minutes. When I mounted she went about 5 paces and baulked. Huh? Camp's ahead, horses in camp, I'm dawdling on the tail. I dropped the reins, gave her a nudge, she turned back and stood over the stockwhip, which I'd not even noticed I'd forgotten to pick up. Another time she jumped off a trail, looking uphill, stopped. I let out a loud cooee, two mountain push bike riders came down braking hard. She baulked one day when I ducked my head to go through an underpass tunnel, clearly saying to me "This is not safe if I have to manoeuvre!" I agreed with her, she was ears up and going through before I ducked. We went topside and negotiated heavy traffic, Your horse is not credited with such thinking, but such becomes the relationship when you read them. And never forget, there is far more money about than horse sense. Money can buy horses and trainers, but horse sense? That comes from reading your horse.

[@Andrea-kx1rb]

Wonderful message as always! My dad passed away 2 years ago and I always received great guidance and life advice from him about so many things. Been watching your videos for almost as long and appreciate you sharing your wisdom and your calm delivery.

[@TruckingPiper]

The dry Creek wrangler stool I do enjoy your videos I’m a truck driver and listen to your videos while I am driving keep it up you and Momma stay safe and hope school goes well this year God bless the trucking piper

[@shanenelms9740]

Thank u sir for letting the wranglers and kids come to the cowboy church on Easter morning it was truly a blessing to meet them and hopefully will see u guys soon and would love to to see u guys come back and visit and worship again love u guys and have a blessed day

[@KR-os6nn]

Cowboy church ❤. I love this! God bless you and your generosity sir.

[@shanenelms9740]

@@KR-os6nn if ur in the Sheridan area we would love for u to come visit us

[@KR-os6nn]

The level of empathy you have is so enlightening. Thank you 🙏

[@zdenekpilc]

Great speech as always sir. Thank you for video !

[@impek667]

Omg, I'm Portuguese and find it so cool that you speak some Spanish 😆😆 awesome

[@snappers_antique_firearms]

There is a lot of wisdom in your videos.

[@LuisRodriguez-sc1oq]

🇺🇸🇵🇷🇵🇪😎 Enjoy all your videos..keep um coming!!

[@SparkofCreation132]

Its always a good time listening to you talking about anything

[@benjaminjohnson1864]

Charter Oak Shade, and Habano are two of my favorites of all time!

[@billrichards7838]

You are a KZbin sensation now Dwayne!!! -- I don't think you need to worry -- People will still come to the school to learn from you in person, just to meet you, and have a 3D experience that KZbin just cannot replicate -- and these videos will promote and bring more people to your school for the full experience! I work in the internet marketing industry and this is what we have seen for years with popular channels that also have "physical" business locations. The channel doesn't "cannibalize" the physical "brick & mortar location" it actually promotes and exponentially amplifies the physical locations customer base -- and in your case it would be "wood and hay"...instead of "Brick n Mortar" ;) LOVE THIS CHANNEL!!

[@TeoOfficial_1]

I live with 50 horses here in Florida.. and I own 4 my self .... my life is spirit of the horse 🐎

[@Sam-fy9gj]

Always love your wisdom. I’m 22 and it feels like your my dad giving me a good talk every time lol

[@aleczachreson]

I've been going through some communication issues with my herding dog, he's got some fear issues and I've been responding with frustration and sometimes anger. Thanks for this, I'll remember this talk next time I'm working with him on the herding stuff.

[@Tactical_Hedge3409]

I had a rough day with the rams yesterday. They seemed to be deliberately making it hard. They just don't like their hoofs done.

[@BlueSideUp77]

There are some in my profession who could benefit from listening to this video. We deal with crisis and worst days, and knowing how someone is communicating with you in those moments is critical to understand. We must remember compassion just as much as we have clear or direct communication.

[@canehillar]

Dwayne is a passionate and adventurous entrepreneur who has always been fascinated by the great outdoors. He founded the Dry Creek Wrangler School in Tennessee, where he taught people from all over the world how to ride horses, herd cattle, and live like cowboys. Thanks to his unique teaching style and commitment to preserving Western values, Dwayne's school became a favorite among visitors and locals alike. Recently, Dwayne made the bold decision to move his entire operation to Wyoming, where he hopes to continue his mission of spreading cowboy culture and sharing his love for the land. As you can tell from the stunning landscape in his latest video, Dwayne's new location promises to be the perfect setting for his school, which will teach aspiring cowboys and cowgirls how to ride, rope, and live like real, authentic Westerners. If you're planning a trip to the West anytime soon, don't miss the chance to shake Dwayne's hand and experience the thrill of wrangling under his expert guidance. His school is sure to be a highlight of any Wyoming vacation, and you'll come away with great memories and a newfound appreciation for the Western way of life.

[@teokastelan2930]

No video in 10 days ? I am looking forward to another one. I hope your health and family is good. I am starting my own business and I’m happy and terrified at the same time. Your video “Living the dream” help me a lot. I think I listen this video 10 times. Godspeed.

[@KR-os6nn]

Thank you sir. Much respect for you. Thank God for this man and his family and horses!

[@salparedo]

Thank you Dwayne! God Bless brother

[@killer.rocknroll]

You’re still like a rock when I realise that I have been acting like a river. Thank you

[@lorenzrosenthal119]

No wonder you're so chill. Just look at that landscape.... 👁👄👁

[@AtypicalFarm]

I’m not proud that I disliked one of your videos. I have to say that I’ve watched a ton of your content and it is gold! This video however, may be the best video on KZbin!

[@aldemir-lugo]

This is some good advice always learning something new and yes people need to look themselves in the mirror before criticizing others but that peepee dance got me 😂

[@trinabaker3186]

The best explanation possible. Thank you. I wish more people could figure this out with their horses and children.

[@John_Connor556]

26:14 let em know! Appreciate you Dwayne, God bless 🤙

[@bhagmeister]

The insight of a man who knows… TY, Dewayne. My friend and trainer just steered me to the book “If I Were To Train A Horse” by Jack Brainard. Early in the book Jack advises (the trainer) to be aware of four behaviors in his/her horse and to deal with it in a timely and appropriate manner: Fear, Boredom, Confusion, and Temper”. Communication is certainly key. Love your closing Gospel….. 🍸

[@tracyannbanks123_12]

Most horse men now a days are teaching this same lesson in some states

[@tracyannbanks123_12]

Id love to know you better, thats only if you dont mind cos you seems to be nice and also sound lovely with your words

[@Veronika7777]

Excellent treatise on communication. Thanks, Dwayne - that horse-talk stuff was a really good analogy and makes all kinds of sense now that I think about it. I'm not a newbie with cigars but I'm still going to try that Charter Oak Connecticut Shade. Much appreciated, Sir.

[@billbernard2966]

Dwayne, this was my favorite video. When I was a novice rider my instructor put me on a horse named Gypsy. A beautiful 1/2 Morgan mare. I communicated with this horse so well She knew what I was thinking and I knew what she was thinking. I LOVED this mare. She knew exactly what I wanted to do and sometimes she wanted to do something different. I was trail riding with my instructor. She decided to go into a full cantor with no warning. Gypsy thought ‘wow, this looks like fun’ so she took off. Instead of pulling back I just let her go and went with her rhythm. I knew what she wanted and I let her have her way. She loved being groomed and treated like a beautiful lady. She wanted me to have a couple carrots for her too, or she would step on my foot if I forgot them. It was so special having that experience. I’m older now and my riding days are gone. I was wondering if you had a similar experience and I can see that you certainly have. THANK YOU! God bless your work

[@davidjoshua]

Great video. Your statement on 'Horses are always talking, we just ain't always listening', hit home. God is always talking, we just ain't always listening, came to mind. Gonna go now and try them 20 push ups... (haha)

[@laurelsayer7557]

Really enjoyed this video on communication, you're a natural born communicator yourself. Thank you.

[@gmontana001]

Watching from Abq NM! I watch ur videos back to back while im working. Thanks for all the wisdom and guidance Dewayne. Much Love n blessings to you, your family and horses!

[@carpo719]

Much love my man. Thanks as always

[@Padronfan]

“Pound sand” I’m going to use this saying more in my life!

[@jat2319]

Thanks for the content. Best wishes and take care.

[@LukeN3]

Dewayne’s word is impactful to anyone whether they ride horses or play with a game controller

[@emersontayten]

Great video as always Dewayne. We always say communication is the key. Cheers 🍻 👏 ✌ 🥂

[@samueljlarson]

Brilliant. Could listen to you for hours.

[@vinnyjamea96]

I would love to work on a ranch and learn. Communication is key. Great video Sir. I'm 66 I just hope I never get kicked by the horse.

[@kikitaube-hansen]

What a wonderful video again. Let´s talk about it - All I want from my peers, friends and family.

[@bramjurres1400]

what a beautiful view

[@skychanie1484]

I don’t have a dad to teach me life lessons like this. I’m young, and navigating adult life mostly on my own. I’m really happy I found this page, thank you. You tell it straight, and that’s rare. I don’t want to enable myself or place responsibility of my actions or communication on someone else, but I’ve done that before because of pride and fear. So this is nice to hear

[@rztricky]

This is exceptionally important and a rare conversation. Very rare when men take into consideration the cliches about holding feelings back etc. What’s more key is that you don’t insult us by outright saying this, but this is the heart of the tree in my opinion. Even those of us who actively communicate or work to do so with patience and empathy, miss the story and point of the big boss horse. It’s arrogant for us to hear something or acknowledge a communication on face value. We may be ignorantly forgetting we are unaware of our conversationalists entire language, let alone intent. Assume the best in all people and we all must slow down our conversational pace, to allow time to have more confidence that we are understanding the true message and trying to assure we understand it. That’s the first simple sign of mutual respect.

[@gltam1057]

I truly enjoy your videos and your words of wisdom !!!

[@mellonhead9568]

Wow look at that scenery !!!

[@tyronerogers9138]

I can say this same thing about home dogs hunt dogs as well you learn the language and they learn you back....the best exchange of living organisms and it all comes behind respect first thanks again brother Dewayne 💯

[@Peter-od7op]

So happy you help out all

[@bellaluna7012]

good video. Monty Roberts is one of the best horse communicators i have ever seen. i worked in the racing industry for a long time and he taught me so much. He has done amazing work with horses and helped with equine communication. I became very good at re habilitation due to his communication methods.

[@ivtec4fun55]

thank you, much appreciated, I lack in this area of life, working on being better everyday.

[@cristianferretti6967]

Wholesome man. God bless you

[@williambruening4845]

You handled the cigar criticism elegantly. Well played sir, well played.

[@joefletcher8271]

U seem to always hit the nail on the head sir We thank u

[@Prophetic_Passion]

I've trained directly under the brightest international prophets and a pastor who memorized the Book of Revelation. Your interpretation of the world, life and Godly character is anointed with such wisdom and delivered in such humility that the Lord sent me here. You are transforming the world and ministering life wherever you go. My deepest thanks and blessings upon all who have the honor and privilege to meet you. You truly are a great man, Mr. Dewayne Noel.

[@kenzomountain-oq8wk]

You're so great. You have taught me so much. I owe you Dwayne. Lmk if you need anything.

[@liberty9986]

I learn English by listening your course 😅

[@Rimrock300]

you will end up talking like a cowboy. A good well spoken cowboy. Nothing wrong with that)

[@andrewfetterolf7042]

"If we ever stop learnin we need to sell the horses and get a 4-wheeler" that made me chuckle

[@caucasian_asian2380]

Learned this from huntin and hanging out with my three cats and my dog first horse I rode came very natural

[@emmanuelwolfmusic410]

what a beautiful view, there is peace in solitude.

[@Miguel.Rosado7224]

The communicator and the communicatee are individuals that participate in a communication process in order to deliver and receive a message. They do exist. I remember taking this back in elementary school. Thanks for the video señor. By the way, enjoying at this moment a Perdomo 10th anniversary Maduro Sun grown. Cheers.

[@nahanng7791]

The background view is so beautiful

[@gilbertoquirarte9035]

I thank God I came by your channel. God bless you sir.

[@missusmoon3867]

I learned to trust my horse's sense of self preservation. And my own.

[@japhyjim]

Thanks, Dwayne. I'm enjoying a premium hand rolled as I listen to you now (Unlit). Learning to slowdown in my older years and enjoy these from time to time.

[@joshfloyd7755]

Good on ya! Im glad you have taken an interest in young men! I never thought of treating people the way i treat horses

[@RagnarLothbrok2222]

We love you brother 🫱🏻‍🫲🏼

[@agiftofcompany]

Perfect Timing. Thank you, my friend.

[@MuleSkinnerWS]

That was beautiful, Uncle Dewayne!

[@derekmurray1462]

Simply fascinating ☘️

[@daniellemongin9790]

Yes, thank you. Very helpful for my husband and mines relationship.

[@jamesmetzler2031]

Whole lotta great information and advice - again! Thank you, Sir.

[@Raiderhater-m7k]

You're a good man and we need men with knowledge like you I'm almost 50 myself but with that being said I love the trees the rivers and lakes. You should see where I live in Washington State yeah it's grossly liberal but yeah it's a beautiful state it's so green.

[@IronFurball]

Thank you very much for sharing your lessons and experiences with us online

[@amosonyoutube]

another awesome video dwayne :)

[@damienkordom]

Love your videos all the way from South Africa

[@martilynnsmiles]

Good stuff!

[@idkguy1986]

Thank you wise and kind sir