Dumbing Yourself Down To Socialize With People? (Self-Sabotage!)

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[@spiritualrenaissance]

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[@JC37indiana]

Hi there how are you

[@JC37indiana]

Where are you from buddy? I'm in Indiana

[@JC37indiana]

I'm okay

[@JC37indiana]

@SacGeoTV I some time agree

[@Anangelfromabove]

Thx so much!!!

[@cleener]

Never dumb yourself down, go visit Nature, she is more intelligent than you can imagine. A true survivalist makes their own medicine, I learned from Nature.

[@reignz6968]

Very true

[@percubit10]

Nature is always hea,ing. Plant medicine is alweays the best.

[@the.tom.complex]

🌞 Nature is the teachers of the arts. She is quite trippy, beautiful, etc. she holds many secrets, but we must listen. Really listen. Lots of noise out here. Way too much noise. You will realize how much unnecessary noise and thoughts are jammed in our head on a everyday basis. Nature helps us eradicate all those thoughts/noise/doubts, etc. She wants us to get back to her. She wants our company. 🌞

[@rigel2112]

Nature thinks you are only useful until you reproduce. Nature isn't always good for humans.

[@pamus6242]

💯💯💯💯🙏🙏🙏

[@jillgaumet8416]

My self esteem used to depend on a lot of friends, a full social calendar and constant conversation. Now I prefer my own company most of the time. I only enjoy people who are enlightened and detached enough to talk about all subjects from all perspectives without getting triggered.

[@spiritualrenaissance]

💯

[@nikitaw1982]

I'd love to condition my self to be able to appreciate a book. If i was smarter with I.T i would turn off the wifi at 8pm and the tv too so either meditate or read books.

[@RenoLaringo]

When you're a sensitive and curious person, it's VERY difficult to socialize without dumbing yourself down. You make people feel uncomfortable and they usually dislike you. So you end up having to accept living a lonely life, which is not always that easy.

[@some_oldsoul1129]

SO TRUE, and it took a Long time for me to realize it's not necessarily me

[@spiritualrenaissance]

me too 👍

[@nospoon4799]

Interestingly your life can be richer and more productive without dumb people weighing you down.

[@robertcarter6887]

Yes, not socializing to me is easy and peaceful. People around me don’t like it. ( neighbors) demand attention.

[@kenandrieling5885]

When you try to get to know someone and you realize that they are just trapped in a miserable life and trying to waste their years until they die

[@hanzketchup859]

"If you could kick the person in the pants responsible for most of your trouble, you wouldn't sit for a month." -Theodore Roosevelt

[@Doug2311]

The worst for me is being around “friends” that seem to enjoy conflict…

[@Evilevilmonkeyy]

lol humans

[@moretimeneeded56]

Are these the “friends” that have an opposing view on everything you comment on?

[@nicolasalexander408]

Friends is FIENDS with an 'R'

[@Matlockization]

You can always do the impossible and leave 'conflict friends' to find better ones !

[@fasted8468]

Its like wrestling or sparring :) people who enjoy conflict can defend themselves well. People who always avoid conflict, well... They lose when its important. For lack of practice. I was raised in a home terrified of conflict. And the result was me letting people walk all over me for years. I just gave up on any idea of success in this life time. The better i did, the more masters i had! The more others messed up, the more free they were! I wish i could teach the whole younger generation to stand up for themselves in the way i was DISCOURAGED from. Its possible to learn but it stinks doing it

[@enough1494]

I am such a loner, I avoid people. I shop at 6-7 am, no one there. Even at the park I park in the back, hahahaha, I really don’t like most people! Hahahah 😂😏🙏🙏🙏💕

[@spiritualrenaissance]

lol

[@zzkkkrjjeeeii]

That’s perfectly valid

[@user-lj4xs4gn8u]

Nothing wrong with that.

[@darrylsanders6056]

How do you feel about yourself?

[@enough1494]

@@darrylsanders6056 most of the time, at peace, making art is my refugee. I do feel very tired lately, a lot of personal loss, in the form of humans in the past 6 months. But, I am blessed safe and at peace! Best to you as well.

[@covengad]

"Enlightned ones are like trees. They do not call to anyone nor send anyone away. They give shelter to whoever cares to come, be it a man, woman, child or animal. If you sit under a tree it will protect you from the weather, from the scorching sun aswell as from the pouring rain, it will give tou flowers and fruit. Whether a human being enjoys them or a bird tastes them matters little to the tree. Its produce is there for anyone who comes and takes it." This is beautiful quote from Anandamayi Ma. Equanimity, in solitude and in company, is Enlightenment, my friend be humble.

[@IFYOUWANTITGOGETIT]

Schopenhauer advised that it can be prudent to sometimes appear less intelligent than you are when dealing with less intelligent people. He argued that revealing one's full intelligence in such contexts might lead to misunderstandings or resentment. Schopenhauer believed in tailoring one's communication to suit the understanding of others to maintain harmony and effectiveness in interactions. This advice reflects his broader philosophical views on the limitations of human understanding and the benefits of strategic interaction.

[@BlowinFree]

I like that and I tend to do this instinctively 👋

[@user-ho4nw5sf3w]

I really do prefer to remain silent and appear the fool. I've had what I thought was some pretty dumb people teach me a lesson in humility.

[@user-ho4nw5sf3w]

I feel strongly that you confuse being highly educated with being highly intelligent. They are not the same.. Besides this, your whole comment is a refusal to dumb yourself down. It worked.

[@angelwings7930]

I do that. It makes things go smoother and also I feel better not making them feel uncomfortable.

[@angelwings7930]

@@user-ho4nw5sf3w Yes. I believe you can learn something from just about everyone.

[@dennisberlips6090]

Moving away from the herd is a sign of progress. I didn't stop smoking weed until I was 55(62 now)but it didn't stop me from the things I wanted to do. When I was 26 I took mushrooms for the first time. I was totally unprepared. During this experience I woke up. I saw my trauma and received forgiveness all in one evening. Everything changed from a 2 dimensional experience to a infinite dimensional one. The best moment of my life. I think most people don't explore themselves and the world because they have a unconscious fear of the endless depth that they will encounter. Safe travels and keep your faith high.

[@some_oldsoul1129]

I think it's the reason why these symbiotic substances remain illegal. People are much easier to control Before they free their mind.

[@jim-se5xc]

The well where the herd drink is poisoned. Nietzsche.

[@Lacroix999]

Not all drugs are to get away from reality.

[@SheilaMaudBell-ov4hd]

Breakaway from the matrix. It can be tough to start but the longer you tread the path the easier life becomes.

[@Mantelar]

That matrix can’t be unseen. And there’s no steak option/memory wipes in real life.

[@dasnoman4962]

@@Mantelar no but you can just leave it….the matrix is the system itself not our actual realm

[@_Arugula_Salad_]

Mine has only become harder and harder, more betrayals, more suffering. I’m now homeless again thanks to my own millionaire mother

[@TomVable]

Thank God for the internet and finding like-minded introverts. Indeed, God made us this way and that is absolutely fine! And thank my parents for.never forcing me to join a youth movement or sports team❤ Indeed, you don't have to fit in. I like working in the garden, drawing, going for walks, music, model railroading... INFJ, small percentage indeed 😊

[@jfo3000]

Fellow INFJ here. It's great being alone. Lots of alone time allowed me to become a fairly decent musician and engineer. Introspection is wonderful, and probably most folks don't engage in it enough.

[@sarah.j.777]

I used to do this constantly because *many* people become easily intimidated > defensive > passive-aggressive if a person behaves intelligently. I also cannot stand gossip or drama which are the main conversation topics between most women to make themselves feel "better". I finally realized in my thirties that I was tired of doing that, and tired of forcing myself to be around these types of people at all, even if they're family. 90% of my interaction with others is now goal-based. I'll get together with someone for lunch to discuss the details of a business venture, or I meet with the ladies at church to organize and deliver the community outreach donations, or I join exercise classes at my gym. This is how my interaction with others takes place now, and my entire self feels much better.

[@Matlockization]

I think you live up there in your head. Why don't you open the window and let some fresh air and sunshine in !

[@grawakendream8980]

@@Matlockization too bad you can't just take her word for it, and have to project your own negative thoughts on to her

[@Matlockization]

@@grawakendream8980 I don't know why anyone would let the negative thoughts of others (whether real or imaginary) influence their daily life, is all I'm saying.

[@grawakendream8980]

@@Matlockization i'd would say you do also, and may not be conscious of it

[@Matlockization]

@@grawakendream8980 Well, it sure sounds like some people just have too much time on their hands and an over stimulated imagination that can only cause detriment to themselves and the people they deal with.

[@karenoyama8950]

I have always enjoyed my own company. Never joined groups in school. For a long time I wondered if there was something wrong with me because of this. Now I realize it’s because it’s not necessary for my happiness. Peace. ❤

[@msway836]

You are so right about the Dumming Down Process, I learned at a early age probably like 12-13yo that no matter what you say or do people are going to have an issue with you because they dont feel comfortable or intimidated by you. So, I came to the Conclusion I DONT GIVE A DMMM ANYMORE....I feel and live better once I got that Donkey off of my back...

[@Jason.L.M.]

I really believe us humans are suppose to be living a indigenous type of life. Being in harmony with nature. I believe you are a modern day Shaman brother. You have that magician archetype. Love ya Bro!

[@spiritualrenaissance]

💙

[@percubit10]

I feel the same way. I hate Isolating and I just want to spend time in nature. Some people are just annoying.

[@JustMe-ob3nw]

My “divine” connections got lost and never found me 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@Tea4Texas]

I agree. Small tribes working together to live in nature. Imagine how little time for mental illness. 😢

[@percubit10]

Magic is the way we come alive.

[@drivingadventures9020]

When I was little, I remember not wanting to socialize with family members or kids in school, but I pushed myself to do it. Afterwards, I always felt very bad because the people I forced myself to socialize with never failed to say something negative to me or about me. My sister, from a very young age, never cared what any of them thought. She never tried to impress family members or friends. She never cared what they had to say. She used to say that our family members were not good. I remember her saying this when she was 11 yrs old and I was 9. She told me that they didnt care about us. She was right. Years later when she was a teenager, she started to show signs of schizophrenia. Those same family members that she warned me about shunned her, made fun of her, and some never talked to her again.

[@GuacamoleyNacho]

Majority of people wont bother to talk or even say hi to mentally ill people, but they will more or less say hi to disabled people. It is a fact that Mentally illness given less priority, less concern, less empathy than Disablity by cold society.

[@grawakendream8980]

she probably showed signs of schizophrenia from the negligence of the family system. what symptoms did she start to exhibit and how is she doing now

[@drivingadventures9020]

@grawakendream8980 Yes, our mother was an addict and a lot of other bad things that affected my sister's mental health when she was little. I noticed that she would usually be down or depressed and not want to play with me sometimes. I guess it was depression. Also, when she was 11 yrs old, she was gang raped by older teens. She had to testify against them. This caused her depression to worsen. I remember she would lie in her bed under her blanket for hours in the dark in our bedroom. My mother never got her therapy. I know this is a lot of personal info to give out, but I truly believe that these events caused her to have schizophrenia. She is doing ok now. She does better when she is in a peaceful environment and not so good when things are stressing her out or she is surrounded by negativity.

[@drivingadventures9020]

@grawakendream8980 when she was 16, she started to hear voices and talk to herself. She would tell me that the devil was following her. One night, she started screaming that the devil was in a magazine in her room talking to her. She ran out of the house in her night dress, and she was picked up by police then hospitalized, and we were told she had schizophrenia.

[@grawakendream8980]

@@drivingadventures9020 i feel like schizophrenia is the mind trying to support itself, when the body experience extreme distress trauma & neglect

[@birchsongsltd.6831]

Never have, never will. Being alone is demonized.

[@bobgoodnoe4583]

Something can be learned from everyone. It’s a mind set. If you replace anger/fear with curiosity much can be learned from even the people you feel the most distant.

[@AGENTARMES]

Totally agree

[@bean7]

💯

[@earthwindfireable]

Yes, I have sabotaged and destroyed myself to socialize. No more. I'm on the Monk Path (haha, I'm a woman), and I've never been happier. Freedom, untrapped, not a slave, Yay.

[@spiritualrenaissance]

..:)

[@SWS1493]

I totally relate to that.

[@TravisTellsTruths]

Me too ❤

[@brandon6577]

I became resentful when I fully realized life was putting me on a course that would isolate me from most. But the inner truth becomes too clear to try and abandon it. Just makes you more grateful when those divine connections appear in your life in the future

[@gabrie.lila85]

I resonate massively

[@primordia8133]

Amen to that

[@steady2wheels]

Same but reverse, I was a little annoyed when I realised I was supposed to be more around other people

[@jackroberts416]

Well said

[@neelprakash5393]

This message really hit somewhere deep in my subconscious. Because for the longest time I thought I was an insecure, introvert who just couldn’t get along with the collective. Yet again, you have saved me from my own mind Yash! 🙏

[@uanditopia2239]

y so myopic? Could it be ihey were insecure extroverts who just couldn't accept non-mimics like insecure introverts who, ironically, have the same problem?? See at the core how much we are all alike?

[@uanditopia2239]

Love and acceptance, Everyone. (Smile)

[@calebquimby]

This is why I have always liked looking within. The outside will always give their perceptions and self limiting beliefs of what is possible compared to trusting oneself.

[@monster-tc1nz]

man i get along with kids so much better than adults. "most people can socialize" well most people are insane😂

[@Iriebobo78]

I agree with most of what you've said in this video. Took me 40+ years to get there and finally just stop dumbing down to fit in and be myself. Me, nature, animals equals happy life. Respect my brother ✌️🏾🫶🏾👊🏾

[@johnsiu7217]

It took me a long time to be ok with not trying so hard in a social setting. We can’t expect everyone to care, but it’s really nice when you find the ones that do.

[@iamsoohappy]

Yea, I unsubscribed to white coats for almost 2 decades now. Last time I went for stomach issues...they ran all the tests and said they didn't know what was wrong and slapped me with some bills 😅😅😅😅 told them I was fasting and they thought I had an eating disorder🤷‍♀️🤣 when I said it was for spiritual reasons...they were at a loss of words.

[@spiritualrenaissance]

lol

[@Jack-gi8lv]

I used to be overweight and then I started fasting. My partner at the time and many of my friends told me I had an eating disorder. Now I'm fitter than any of them. You gotta do you.

[@nicolasalexander408]

Morons with certificates

[@itsjustme9354]

Resonate with your videos. On a spiritual awakening waking up big time ,jab free,nearly off my anti depressant that never worked ,off the booze we've all been conned and brainwashed time to wake up guys and start thinking for yourself don't follow the crowd! New Zealand 🇳🇿

[@Rollacoastertycoon]

Took a break and now im back for more lessons. This is GOLD!

[@danu6718]

How this popped up in my timeline right now is truly amazing. I love it. Thank you.

[@dexkode5558]

this video came at the right time, I've always questioned if I have social anxiety or if I simply don't have a lot in common with a lot of people, and each time I'm around them it's just a hassle and the friction just make feel too tired and I get headaches, but when I'm with my tribe it's just effortless

[@logothaironsides2942]

School is responsible. Peer pressure. Once you fit a group, they are your 'friends'. The closer you fit, the more friendly they are. Multiply that by the whole of school life and you have been conditioned to comply with the crowd . Its how advertising works and why it doesnt work on home schooled kids. See the happy kids playing with the latest plastic tat, want to fit the group? get your parents to buy you the tat. See the happy family using the new machine, buy the new machine, show your neighbours you now have it, be a happy family and someone to aspire to....

[@nikitaw1982]

more granparents should home school if the right temperament.

[@elywananda]

Perfect! I think a lot of us know this stuff from a very early age, but we are forced into conforming to the fakery of it all. That's probably a big reason for a lot of the generalised unhappiness a lot of us experience.

[@Davinagoddess]

@1:04 “i stopped drinking because to me it tastes like piss” 😂😂😂 funniest thing I’ve heard today

[@highfrequency1483]

You make me feel less alienated, I resonate with you a lot yash. The way you think is how i think and i never could find words to express the inner feeling. It gets challenging at times trying to stay grounded and not feel like im "crazy" Specially living in the U.S society here is full on consumerism and distractions theres so much lack of self awareness. Ignorance indeed is bliss but life has to have both sides of the coin in order to exist. Thank you for your insights.

[@Moksha0108]

This is me exactly as you talk about in the video about yourself. I trust nature 100% more than people (most of them) because wildlife feels much more genuine, although nature uses trickery and camouflage too. This Friday I did partake in a workplace come together just because 95% would attend, I was a wreck afterwards and needed this whole weekend in isolation. But I’m happy and at peace now contemplating the important questions not many are interested in. The best answer in no answer.

[@spiritualrenaissance]

👍

[@petrprochazka1696]

So true!! 👍I used to drink and take pills just to fit in! I thought about myself as a misfit. Now I know how wrong I was. Thanks a lot Yash! Well said! 👍💙🙏

[@mustafa.s3946]

Remaining sane in this world and even wise, intelligent and rebellious is so beautiful and great to say the least! i love you! One of the things that help me in societies madness besides osho's talks is eckhart's saying "The ego in you focus on the ego in others rather than seeing through it and not giving it reality" and his saying that the only appropriate response to the illness (ego) is compassion Our nature is intelligence, creativity, rebellion, joy, consciousness, truth and more, i wonder how people are so skillful to continuously cover this things in them 😂 But thanks to this experience i not only come to terms with death but long for it, but not in a deepressive but a celbretive way!

[@spiritualrenaissance]

🙂

[@Newfoundmike]

​@@spiritualrenaissance😂went to the Shrink he said why r u here ? My wife treats me like a Dog ! How long has this been going on ? Ever since I was a puppy! Sounds like you need some serious Couch time ! I'm not aloud on the Couch 🤣🤣🤣❣️

[@spiritualrenaissance]

lol

[@Alex722]

I know funerals are going to be weird for me... Everyone feeling they lost the world and I'm there what you mean we're gonna have party all day when we leave too lol

[@heidieggo]

Perfect thing for me to hear! I am almost always just-sitting in and pretending to listen like I care in the midst of conversation, mostly with family, I can feel and see with their body language how little interest they have in anything except their own self Importance, that they are “patiently” waiting for whomever is speaking to stop so they can carry on with what is most important. Sometimes I listen and find it amusing, other times i just disengage and everyone is well aware and chalks it up as , oh, that’s Heidi, she is ADHD. 😅What I realize is that I am so utterly bored with how important everyone is, I’d rather poke both my eyeballs out with an ice pick than pretend to really care, mostly family get togethers,( Mormon) always a million people buzzing around, at least. Over the years I’ve come to realize I have almost nothing to really say to anyone, because no one really cares more than what they have to say next. I’m either listening, or literally walk away😅 especially with family. Haha. However, anytime I have a one on one with anyone, and it is heartfelt authentic and even if it is about them, but it is authentic and they want to be heard, I will listen and care and hold space almost endlessly. I do care and love engaging in deep meaningful conversation. Even if it is with someone who is incapable of seeing past the tip of their nose. If it’s one on one and they are being true, I actually really enjoy this particular space and time and can engage fully. I’m appreciating this bit more than you know. I’ve always been so hard on myself for being this way. Like I need to try harder to be kinder and more understanding. Deep down I do realize what everyone or anyone really wants is connection. Unfortunately we confuse it with self importance in order to be accepted, with acceptance we can connect. , and or, Feel the connection . Well, in our separation and ego this is how we believe it to be so. But it’s a necessary part of coming back and not the essence of our being. It’s a nonstop mind F?!”@ for me. Wanting to be understanding and kind, but not wanting to engage in pretentious inauthentic spaces.

[@johnburke5771]

Lovely angle dude , it’s a life’s work but people like yourself lead the way , I stopped drinking 4 years ago and I love hearing wise words from any person who I can learn from , thankyou 😊

[@JonathanJones33332]

Your real talk is really refreshing. Its the things nobody tends to mention but everyone knows deep down. Im very similar in that I struggle to just dumb myself down to fit in with societies model of socialising. Its just vibrationally out of wack to people who are attuned to a higher frequency

[@yuliyay3612]

If someone still lives in a society and between people -his task can not be not talking to people. His task, most probably, is to get down from his pedestal and talk to those “mortals in lower frequencies”. He will find out that a lot of people are deeper than they look, but they didnt trust “his highness” enough to open up. Of course, we need to discern when its the case and when its not. But thinking of ourselves that we are somewhat higher than ALL people - is a very lonely and scary place to be. Look at all the comments - deep people are all around us, living same normal lives as we do. We just dont know that they are same because we are still clinging to the idea of separation.

[@spiritualrenaissance]

Yes, The mind and ego can use anything as an excuse to be arrogant. Nobody is above the need for vigilance to remain humble.

[@gabrie.lila85]

That’s why it’s so important to live as our authentic selves, so we don’t wear the mask in order to fit in, if we show up as ourselves, it gives others permission to do the same and we’re more likely to connect on deeper levels. This is still a work in progress for me but one I’m committed to 🙏🏽

[@zzkkkrjjeeeii]

Yeah no one is better because they are “spiritual”

[@Doctor.Dentista]

I don’t know who you are, but this was on my home page. I read the title and my mind was blown. I still haven’t watched the video. I’m only commenting on the title! It’s true!

[@the.tom.complex]

🌞 Totally get where you are coming from. I’ve always been an extrovert but not in the sense where I “love” talking to people. *Action* was my way of “speaking” loudly, because I knew from a young age that I was “the light” anyways 😉. I only spoke when I needed to. But I also realized as I got a little older I was seen as “introverted” by my fam and other peers. I would disagree because I was just never interested in talking about wordly and lowly things. Just the same old drivel over and over again. Nothing new. I am all about new ideas, making connections, uplifting, inspiring, taking things to new heights, etc… And exactly, it’s not about “I’m better than you” or “get on my level”, it’s just that people like to lash out or label people because they don’t understand *themselves*. They justify their reasonings based on their lower mind/ego. Life is a mirror 🪞. We project our own misunderstandings and problems on others, because WE don’t know or love ourselves. ✌🏽

[@deans1224]

Glad to know we’re not alone in this

[@Milesian1918]

Most people are so immersed in the material and only care about how much money they have, what they do for a living, who they know, and how they look. I cant even relate or join in conversation with someone who only talks about social status or possessions. I have found myself thinking that mindset is utterly repulsive to me. I used to be just like that. Its hard to be conscious in this world of materialism but you cannot un-know something nor would I ever choose to return. I do find myself longing to be alone and feeling completely drained when I'm forced to spend time with people. I no longer need recognition or validation for anything..Im levitating and absolutely no-one is watching and I couldn't be Happier ✌️💯🧘‍♀️

[@iacopocappelli3626]

totally agree. I just got back from a party and I'm exhausted because I tried to interact with people in a way that doesn't belong to me. Most of the time I don't know how to communicate to someone without feeling uncomfortable, maybe because I just don't want to! However, my desire now is to have a romantic relationship with a woman but the whole courtship game seems completely senseless to me! this makes me suffer a lot

[@websurfer5772]

Look at dating as job interviewing. Read tips about it online and then get to work. You'll find your special one if you keep trying. It was right as I was about to call and cancel my first date with my now-husband that I kept finding myself hanging up before I could dial to put off the date. So I went and it was the best date I've ever had. You just never know, but you're not gonna find out until you try.

[@ElephantWhisperer222]

“It” does not make you suffer a lot, you are making yourself suffer a lot.

[@youtuber-cc8sx]

Can completely relate. I have to resort to method acting.

[@jewel2022now]

I think be yourself, if you find interest...show some. If it seems like it's coming back a hell "yes". Then slowly ramp it up. See how it feels for both parties. Be fun, be creative. Too many boring copy cat relationships.

[@jewel2022now]

@@websurfer5772 I don't agree. Just have fun with all people and if something clicks between 2 people, move forward and see what else happens

[@ricardoraulino-guitar]

That’s so accurate, Sir. Your wisdom is very appreciated. Greetings from Portugal

[@brandon6577]

🇵🇹💙🙏

[@neilthornely9713]

I LOVE not being involved in gossip. As soon as it happens, I just say something like 'yeah sorry I don't really like talking about people like this'. Some small part of it is ego, but the other part is being able to look people in the face and know I've been real with them, or at least defended their honour to some extent, not because I owe them any loyalty but just because that's how I roll. And I hope other people do the same to me, and some of the might.

[@ayumisae6864]

Exactly that and isn’t it such a waste of our time also, instead of focusing on other things

[@imalrockme]

I saved this video under my YT playlist "Health", because it really is a health matter. Thank you for your posts.

[@deans1224]

You hit everything right on the nail! Thank you for your knowledge man 🙏🏻

[@Mustafa07233]

You know it’s gonna be a good day when yash uploads 😏

[@NinaAndCoco]

Oh this came into my feed at exactly the right time. I was wondering why I’m always on the outside never fitting in. Sometimes it has bothered me and I wonder if it’s them or me that’s the problem. Sometimes I think it’s for the best and being on the outside is the best place to be. I too feel fake when I’m with my friend group. I don’t fit in and I don’t have anything in common with them. I would never discuss my spirituality with them, ever. So when we do get together I don’t have much to say and they talk non stop. I may as well not be there at all because they wouldn’t understand me anyway if I was myself with them. I just feel uncomfortable. I do like them, it’s not that I dislike them, but I like them better from a distance 😂. I feel like I’m here to observe rather than participate in social situations.

[@thesunshineblissproject]

Resonate with this.

[@jbscornerstore]

Big time!

[@user-yn6zo4wp5b]

❤ to you brother Stay in nature, embrace that still life. That soothing ocean 🌊 tone is the gateway. I’m lovin it. No need for human words or explaining human suffering while sitting on a beach of life. It’s the best place in the construct.

[@Mr.Bojangles12]

Uh weed helps me sit here and listen to you, I've found it calming in a very unnerving world,in short cannabis is sacred

[@Spiritualsoulja]

lol my ego dislikes being around people, so i stay in mostly, for the same reasons its not worth draining you're energy to listen to their thoughts, and mental concepts, and see them acting it out, and identified with their roles in culture/ society. I got better things to do like be around animals also.

[@54yllow]

Wow! Somehow precisely what I needed to hear today, thank you!

[@satorianimal6666]

Yes !!! I am a loner I enjoy being in nature away from toxic negative people engaging in degenerate behaviour

[@killingtime4250]

I find that exposure to the uncomfortable gives me more understanding. It's all nature...don't forget.

[@BusyAir]

You can please some of the people, some of the time. The rest of the time, they'll please themselves.

[@earthman4020]

Yep! My mom stopped wantitng to go to get togethers because the hour and half driving trips (especially in winter) weren't worth it; no good conversations because of constant interruptions.

[@websurfer5772]

What were the interruptions?

[@lvh888]

I had to say this... around 7:36 minutes you talk about "socialising" and "people saying hi to you". I don't want to sound cocky, because there is no pride in sayin this.. but I've been so good for people and so helpful and kind, while feeling (truly inside) miserably... that a lot of people greet me on a daily basis. Maybe 5, maybe 15... depends how my days go. I know people in my area, from stores, from clubs, etc. But they all seem to enjoy talking to me more than I enjoy talking to them. Some people even (literally) walked away when I spoke about deeper subjects like Spiritualism or etc. I tried to keep up with the social norm, because of my mother (she is a super socialised person, very outgoing and happy. But with a strong will). And I always admired that more than my "anti-social" dad who was just about work, his own thing and "negative" (yes alcohol too..) So when smoking weed, I feel more okay with being "social" while I truly don't enjoy the conversations if they don't grow my Soul or as an experience as this human being that I play in part now. Even 1 time my ex thought I had a group waiting for her after a huge fight, because (her words) "you know so many people, I thought they all knew about our fight the last week". I never laughed so hard, like wow... is that what people think of me? That I abuse my kind Soul to group people to harm others? I like to grow, to laugh, to learn and to play... I'm not here for the drama, however the MORE people I met in my life, the BIGGER the drama became. My message to you all is..... it feels GOOD to be recognised, welcomed and greeted by many, where ever you go... but it's not normal to be this social. It's fun for them to greet you, but it doesn't help you grow as a person. Find 1 or 2 people who suit your Soul well, who you can truly learn from and teach things and you'll be much happier 🙂 I hope this helped a little bit

[@user-lj4xs4gn8u]

Thanks for sharing @levivanhees236 . It help a lot!

[@Jason.L.M.]

Us old souls seem to be an endangered species lol

[@spiritualrenaissance]

...:)

[@DanielLee-pl5vo]

im just starting to realize my friends are on a whole different world than me and i cant keep trying to fit with them like things havent changed for me

[@Deuteronomy31.6]

Finally, someone who understands

[@byroworld92]

Thats true being a introvert can be misleading to extroverts who dont understand our social behavior.

[@spiritualrenaissance]

👍

[@briansaiditsoitmustbetrue4206]

Question.... If you don't like to "Dumb down" yourself to socialize... Keep away from these people.... I am 52 years old and I got rid of ALL my toxic friends... I don't need them... My life is 10x better without the "Drama"

[@anthonyfiolet8930]

Everything you seek is inside you ❤

[@ChristineNicoleCoaching]

I appreciate how authentic you are in how you share!

[@rachelmoore5079]

Yes I have the same experience. It’s ok to not fit in. Thanks for sharing ☺️

[@Tabascosause]

I enjoy talking about Linguistics and Foreign languages, Mind-mapping, Mnemonics, Semiotics, Philosophy etc. People say I'm to deep, but it's odd for me not to talk about in-depth things like Mathematics and Geometry. I remember when I was 9 talking about how multiple Religions must have discovered Geometry in their own specific cultures and created things using Geometry and Mathematics. Made fun of a little. Now everyone talks about it after Isolation from COVID

[@2Kaleth]

40 years clean and sober here. I don’t go hang out with folks dedicated to getting blasted. I do go to family events. There’s a lot of family addiction patterns. My job isn’t to judge them. They are where they are supposed to be on their spiritual path in life. I am responsible for my own feelings. A large part of my spiritual state is if I’m in my “good/bad” mind. If I’m in my noticing state, I will see that I am largely responsible for my own feelings by how I label my experience and world. Many spiritual teachers have described this as meeting people where they’re at. Doesn’t mean I have to indulge in their activities, or, hang closely. But my husband and I do express our love of them by being interested in their world and their state of being, detach with love, and, when the altered states progress to where we’re uncomfortable, we politely excuse ourselves and go to bed. As it happens, we’ve been available when they find they need to address their addictions and when they start desiring to live a different way. Compassion and love are powerful.

[@theresarenee]

Hello. Wonderful talk. God does not make junk.

[@Blooodhail]

I noticed I’ve done this in the past, I’m in my twenties and am just now starting to realize how juvenile I acted with past people just so that I can socialize with them, and once I was by myself I felt exhausted. I’m happy with 2 or 3 good friends. I hope to find more I can connect with.

[@anonymousbyname1121]

These doctors have shares in the medications they prescribe. My hair was falling out in clumps my doctor told me to get prp treatment next door each treatment cost $2,500 then I found out he owned the centre. I went to the chemist and purchased a $20 anti fungal treatment which stopped the hair fall.

[@DaysOfDarknessUK]

Spot on with the whole getting labelled thing.

[@artempanchenko878]

“And if he made you not, then he is going to take care of you” - thank you for saying this 🙏

[@paulone-off7286]

This is brilliant and very relatable. People used to criticise me for going on holiday alone, but at the same time some would say "I wish i could do that but I don't have the confidence ". I found that odd as I considered myself to have little confidence. Anyway I preferred it as I didn't have to deal with the same people for say 2 weeks, too much for me. If I spent time alone it was fine, if I met people I liked then we would connect. I would also meet people who I'd very quickly know I didn't want to spend much time with, so the one encounter was enough. I always felt uncomfortable in social gatherings of large groups and prefer a decent one to one connection, this i can have with different people at different time's and still keep my own time. Although that said, since moving last year I've actually found myself quite isolated. Perhaps struggling with trying to make new friends at my age, seems like too much hassle.

[@leafster1337]

if u find the right friends u can be yourself and theyll be ok with it bc thats their frequency and what they give off vibes with u. i mean its self explanatory, friends enjoy u and u enjoy them. if it isnt that way, then it isnt meant to be

[@IntentionRetention]

I’ve been watching you for some time and I came across your channel when I really felt I was separated from any so called normal person. I’ve always needed substance and meaning and depth when socializing with people. If things were boring or just talking about sports or things outside of self. I’m dealing with difficulty even finding the desire to talk to friends and family, because without all of their addictions and temptations they’re so dull and boring. I’ve found myself completely indifferent, but as I’m now 26 I’ve been actually blessed to have this extra sense of awareness that there’s more to our experience than just going to parties having sex with girls and doing drugs to cover up a void to numb are true selfs. I’ve found that I never could fit in with mainstream people and now the older I’m getting it’s completely okay and I don’t even care. I found myself just watching some people in my life go about their habits and it’s almost like watching a circus of people not realizing nothing they do is actually free will. You give me a space to feel like I connect with someone even it’s through this meta space. Much love! Thank you for doing what grace has asked of you! You’re helping people in so many ways. I’ve been able to let people play out their habits as they wish and understanding that’s karma they need to burn and not try to always say things that never seems to land for mainstream people.

[@philphilphil]

"When we talk to people, we should talk to them in accordance with their intellectual capacity, their conceptions, and their mode of thinking. Only thus can we hope to understand each other and be understood."

[@spiritualrenaissance]

👍

[@Angel-Vianne]

My understanding of what I've just heard sounds like a monk who is balanced when in the monastery ( and the environment is controlled) but as soon as they go the market ( leave the place they perceive as safe) they can't cope. I see no benefit in this. For me I am my safe place and it comes with me wherever I go. I'm confident that whatever situation arises ill deal with it... as I've done every other time. Sure I live in the mountains in the Scottish highlands by the sea. I need this as my daily environment surrounded by nature. Its my reality check. I also have my life in a place where for the most part I can choose when to spend time with people and when to not. And getting this balance right is what works for me. Am I everyone's cup of tea? Nope... but sure what do I care... I'm a coffee drinker :-P

[@user-cx6wo8rr2i]

One should learn how to feel secure of loving the company of himself, only then one can find out that there is no need to dumb itself down, or to be accepted, or to tolerate others via drugs or alcohol. But mainly most people's problems is that they refuse to accept who they really are and pretend that they can transform or become someone else even at an old age and they keep trying to adapt and fit in because they figure others have much better lives or more interesting ones. Meaning, people should not hate their own minds and try to occupy someone else's . This is a good video.

[@susannahollyblossom5064]

Hi.I agree.It was refreshing to hear it laid out,reminding those of us scattered among the "other"minded majority.I return to sender,smudge,etc and stay immersed in nature with furbuds,songbirds,etc and nonvisible loving family too.TY for posting this.Enjoy.👍🛸

[@glennrobinson7193]

I have said the same thing, I don't like all the pretentiousness, the facades, and the airs, and being something you're not to try and blend in. If I feel I can't be the real me with my real thoughts, and be like a little kid, I feel uncomfortable and suppressed. "To thine own self be true".

[@Emily-md2wq]

Your channel came across my algorithm last week during my dopamine fast. I’m so grateful to receive your insight. You have confirmed my truth and that I am on the right path of balance. ✨🌷

[@user-qj6lt7ir4u]

I already know exactly what you mean. I had to intentionally dumb myself down because I could no longer deal with the world anymore. The only ones who could understand what I was trying to offer were the MIB, and it actually got very dangerous to know too much. Ignorance is bliss!

[@spiritualrenaissance]

👍

[@autofocus4556]

You sound crazy

[@miraclefromthemud]

This was just what I needed to hear today, thank you 🙏🏼

[@user-ho4nw5sf3w]

I'm sensitive, and highly intelligent. I have never nor will I ever dumb myself down so others can keep up.That is like asking a top athlete to throw the game, so the other side doesn't loose. Now the trouble starts when you start to rub their nose in their stupidity. Most don't deserve it, they are doing the best they can, and it truly is a waste of time to do it to those who do deserve it.

[@dragginmedown]

So you like to try put people down who you think are dumber than you?

[@Ciprian-Amarandei]

Are you arogant and talk loudly so that everyone can admire your intelligence?

[@user-ho4nw5sf3w]

@@Ciprian-Amarandei Yes, I am arrogant. Very proud to be. I grew up talking loud, my father was deaf.

[@dragginmedown]

@@user-ho4nw5sf3w proud to be arrogant? Thats not very intelligent. You sound like a narcissist. Jog on

[@jamesp3428]

You described my entire life; I thought I waa the only one

[@AGUSTINMARCH]

Yash I work at a brewery bar I'm the manager, dont have to talk to clients much except for charging them the bill But I still live 5-6 nights a week on an inconscious enviroment I dont drink, smoke, or use social media, and im 25 What helped me was starting a prayer and meditation practice and a martial arts practice But I still struggle sometimes with inconscious people and tolerance ¿ Do you or anyone have any experience like this? Im asking for help to increase compassion for others while at the same time keeping my distance EDIT: Nevermind. I understand. I only needed to listen to Yash with my full attention. This is training for me

[@AGUSTINMARCH]

@real4522 will do so I already have a good spot 2 blocks away from home In the past I would hate on these people but then wouldn't balance out with nature nor my inner nature. Just would take the low vibration home with me

[@Pim-pu5dj]

I once heard Yash say that one thing you can do is ask God to help you make the best of your situation and see how you can serve all the people you come into contact with at your job, while at the same time praying for another job, a new situation. Make the best of where you are now, and stay open for a new situation. Hope this helps.

[@AGUSTINMARCH]

@@Pim-pu5dj asking Grace for help... and rooting ans grounding myself in nature... will do both, thank you beautiful souls

[@rachelross5829]

Wow! No social media at 25! That's impressive!!❤

[@tia904]

Nature for sure. With sunshine. That place you mention being small, dark, noisy. Also, good music.

[@Glagnarz]

Thank you for everything you do, I am finally re-connecting with people who share my experience of life, and make me feel less isolated and alone.

[@WildPearlTarot]

I'm so glad I found your channel. Thank you so much.

[@lewkaplanski7616]

One of my favorite sayings that I'm happy to say I came up with (at least I think I did as far as I know 😂) "Keep it real, or keep it real far away!!!

[@neosho3953]

You make a great point about doctors and hospitals. Almost everyone I know who wae admitted to a hospital either never came out, or experienced further complications. Granted these were people later on in their years, but once they get a hold on you it can be difficult to escape.

[@spiritualrenaissance]

yes. sadly...

[@sauravbasu8805]

But also I have a feeling that people who are more deep,sensitive, experienced with life, deeply artistic,intelligent , have to deal with me as well. Unabashedly, I bombard them with questions, to know, to understand, and to enhance myself. If I am intelligent, it should be a challenging endeavour for me to find out such people rather than yawning in company of 'dumb' people and complaining about it.

[@Ellie.12866]

Meyers-Briggs - INFJ - The rarest personality type.

[@ministry77]

Pray to the Creator of everything. It will fill the void. Praise Elohim!

[@CedarRoofsOnly]

Two hands working are better than 1000 hands clasped together in prayer. Just breathe...

[@Aqaue]

Your videos always find me at the right moments, any struggle i deal with here you come with some sorta antidote. So thank you, and I hope you never stop making these.

[@geoffthomson1686]

I relate closely to what you're saying (without using the word god). Thanks for your wise insights bud :)

[@alihussein5414]

Yesterday my mom got mad at me because i didn't get down to say hi to our relatives who came to visit us.

[@spiritualrenaissance]

..:)

[@blackcat-zw5im]

So relatable. I always use my space to isolate myself for peace and quietness. My real mom patronized and brought up unnecessary drama on me.

[@RSTactical]

They might think you don't want to see them. Do you though

[@alihussein5414]

@@RSTactical i don't actually, it's not something personal or anything but i just don't see the point of interacting with them anymore, i just want to be alone, it's peaceful.

[@mrtrev4496]

You must be young. I was the same, but I now realise family are important for practical reasons, and they're the only relationships that need so little maintenance. It's worth doing the bare-minimum demanded by your culture. As a social animal, you should see this as your duty. It's also good for your brain to do things you don't want to do, especially the occasional social thing, and family members are the safest and easiest place to practise this.