Dumped My GF After She Pushed for an 'Open Relationship'-Now She's Begging to Get Back!

[@NochanIsMe]

the moment she asked for an open relationship means she is asking permission to cheat on him openly.

[@galanoob7222]

And maybe even did already or she had someone in mind already, both is cheating in my book. Edit: I wrote this at minute one.. that escalated quickly

[@WPFLAWLESS]

She wanted an open relationship so now she's open to dating whoever she wants. I hate when people around op say 'well maybe you misunderstood ' ...she said she wanted an open relationship. TF else could that mean?

[@wesxd5292]

And when they accept, it's more irritating that it's like the one who asked for an open relationship can date/sleep with whoever they want but as soon as the one who agreed to open does the same, suddenly the relationship must be closed

[@ARcinder]

People can be removed from the SA list?! It should be a lifelong sentence.

[@S.Uranus]

✅️

[@darthbiscuit]

s1: she knew she was at the end of her prime years and was her last chance to shop around s2: I honestly have no idea what the friend was thinking. That is truly insane

[@Shotty_Gamer]

If your partner brings up an open relationship, it's already over

[@1naoll]

Story 1: Open relationship = cheating Story 2: In the U.S.A. once put on sexual assault, you stay on it. Many women who have a child from rape see the trauma every time they look at the child, not everyone can raise the child. Your friend knew what happened and dated the offender? What is wrong with her? Best thing to protect your child was to leave and you did.

[@harrymiller7517]

Two options, she either has someone in mind, or she's already cheating and just wants to legitimise it... OP made the right choice.

[@Maninawig]

Story 1: before the big reveal, I thought that her friends might have convinced her to test his loyalty with "how fast he agrees." But even then, I cannot vouch for staying.

[@willgroody5296]

Story 2 NTA and I would’ve with friends and family posted public socials about how they don’t want to hear how hard it is for her wedding ruined I’d put “How can you ruin a wedding to a child s#x offender” and you find it both disgusting and abhorrent they’re supporting them, maybe people should watch their kids around all these supporters. Sit back and then watch all those ‘supporters’ suddenly back track faster than Quicksilver

[@goatkiller666]

S2 - Would that every story on Reddit had a boring ending. We’ve all heard the Chinese curse, “May you live in interesting times.” Yes, that’s someone wishing bad for you. So I’m fine with boring.

[@Trinidad679]

She was already cheating on you

[@funtimegenshin6973]

You can't stop a cheater from cheating, but you can put an end to the relationship.

[@kelupthegnome2871]

Story 1: I agree with what OP did, his solution was the best. That being said, lets have a little fun with it. He could have said, " Sure, but that means your being downgraded to a casual dating partner. No more boyfriend treatment. We can go out and hook up, but get your stuff out because casual partners dont stay here." No matter her answer you hold your position and downgrade her.

[@blackfire6009]

He taped a minor, you cannot let him in the proximity of a minor, no matter what the lax law of the UK says. They care more about excusing the criminal than protecting the victim those people

[@NotSleepy-r5y]

What she wanted was a "backup plan." She wants to keep you around but "explore her options."

[@CharlesJohnson-y3r]

When they ask for an open relationship she is already contemplating it and using it as an excuse to cheat. She found someone else.

[@livdawson4216]

S3: don’t take it down 😂 what is she gonna do? Go around town asking everyone to remove what her kid doesn’t like? The real world doesn’t work like that… either avoid the house or face his fears, but come on, this is what is wrong with our society, we make our kids weak and feed their insecurities and delusions, and well… here we are, in this “Black Mirror” type s#it… Grow up lady, and help your kids as well, otherwise this will get worse…

[@christianbenn316]

She want's to get back after getting dumped no way & not a 2nd chance after such a red flag being raised she made the decision so it's her loss.

[@georgegarvey7338]

She is already cheating.

[@scaredpaul540]

She want you back because Chad throw her away after he had his fun...

[@lawrenceobeng-hp2fh]

4:56 Eyyy No Diddy

[@JoJo-si9ws]

Story 2 : The "father" religished his rights so he does not have a say

[@jetset808]

if i was helping a woman raise her child as her significant other and she kept saying its my child and you cant do this or think that. I would just leave her to do what she wants. I get that she is trying to protect her kid but at a certain point you just destroy the relationship by using the context to steal all the power in the relationship. Then what is the point if you can't truly express yourself anymore. I'm not even Christian really but telling a Christian to submit to her before God is a deal breaker.

[@Kiwi_NZ610]

I think open relationship is a red flag.

[@dmburns555]

Open Relationship = I'm Not Enough For You.

[@bluebirdbeliever1777]

Oof this story is a big Oof loves lol

[@nachtwaya8721]

Justified

[@PlayTypeGaming]

He made the right decision, no girl should talk about that type of S when in a relationship. Move on.

[@VergilTheLegendaryDarkSlayer]

Last story NTA I would've got red food dye and put it on the hands to make it look more scary

[@edenfieldjason]

Story 3, kid is a coward

[@justaboringvegetarian449]

"I didn't mean it..." Then why did you say it???

[@MaliaMydnight]

That skeleton story. 🙄 Please admit you're "not like other girls" but still "quirky" harder. 🙄🙄🙄

[@demonic_myst4503]

16 isnt a minor in uk for consent laws

[@Clouded-Logic]

I believe that is the lowest age of consent in the US, but IIRC regardless of age of consent, so long as the child is under 18, a parent may press charges.

[@spike6487]

She stated that she was 15 and he was 21.

[@demonic_myst4503]

@@spike6487 im bad at maths

[@demonic_myst4503]

@@Clouded-Logic yea actualy lmost most common 18 is only aoc in 10 states most rest are pretty evenely a ross 16-17

[@demonic_myst4503]

@@Clouded-Logic charges wouldnt go anywhere their is no federal age of consent the laws people confuse for federag aoc dont state they are aoc but are about sexual tourism which is the act of going to a state or country with lower aoc to get laid its ilegal you ant go to a state with 16 aoc qith your 17 year old gf to have sex ifnyour state has a aoc of 18 and other law is on eplicit images which is same as uk law 18 for images even in parts where 16 is aoc

[@cameron765]

Who else watches these stories on 1.5x speed

[@saadsaleemmalik8531]

1.75 :p

[@cameron765]

@@saadsaleemmalik8531 Your a demon 😈

[@MysticMae21]

I watch on x2 and wish I could do faster...

[@cameron765]

@@MysticMae21 . If you got an Android you can get the KZbin extender and it goes up to 5X

[@Anubus3030]

Something is very strange about story #4.

[@alperenbaytimur]

ok the moment this guy talked about dating an other guy, I just knew I didnt want to lister anymore to this woke shit

[@jackchop1576]

exactly. Only lesbian porn themes are okay to you.

[@Thedrivebye]

Lose the comments bro