Earning her trust, again | Man 2 Man

[@SimplyFitwithJay]

Once a man cheats on you, even if you forgive him, you never look at him the same again.

[@OItsSasha]

That's why you leave him alone to go run the streets.

[@kimsmith819]

You're so right and domestic abuse works the same way

[@gracem6064]

That’s the truth! You never see them the same again. I wonder if it has something to do with trust ? However; as a woman I can tell you trust does play a part but , there’s another feeling you have when you look at him that never goes away ! Sad but true 😞

[@Mrs_Canary]

Facts. Tried 2 stay with a man n my 20s that cheated. I never trusted him again.

[@AndreaAlvarez-cf4tp]

That's rite TG I feel the same way about women getting naked an dance in front of lots of people to see , because I grow up in a Christian home ,I was made to think that only fast or loose women do things like that,but now I know better so I don't judge

[@rosielawson-poole9685]

Most men mess up but don't want to do the work and what it takes to make it work. So they just move on to the next woman. Leaving a trail of wounded and scarred women. SMH!

[@shymultimedia]

Dang, ain’t that the TRUTH! My ex husband is just like this

[@mymakersdaughter6041]

Facts!!!

[@mayasheartdesiire]

Sad truth

[@lifeventures6651]

Agreed. You cannot betray your spouse’s trust, just say sorry and think things will go back to normal. There have to be consequences for their actions in order to maintain respect. Men and people in general respond to consequences, NOT mere words like “if you do it again, I’m leaving.” I give ONE advance warning from the start of a relationship to stay loyal/honest. Then I govern myself accordingly if they get out of line. I learned that from my father. Once I actually applied it, the dating world became much better for me.

[@mymakersdaughter6041]

@@lifeventures6651 Agreed! I gave my grown boy a warning after he said he was sorry. He did it again and I left. Blocked him from everything. He missed out big time!!!

[@kristinbrittanysmith535]

I am so delighted to hear that some men are reaching out to TG for answers. This gives me hope that there are men in the world that are willing to do the work!

[@ellaesparza3151]

It’s unfortunate that they’re reaching out after the indiscretion. Nevertheless

[@Dr.Elaine1]

“No ifs, ands or buts in an apology.” TG

[@CarmenLifeCoach]

It takes maturity, growth and a real man to admit mistakes and work to make things right. You can see the place you hold in someone's life by his willingness and efforts to repair things, to learn and understand the correct ways. Sometimes trust cannot be earned back once lost, especially when the other person knew that what they were doing was a dealbreaker and hurtful to you. Other times, if you forgive, do it from your heart and don't hold the mistakes against them, just make sure they've proven a change with actions and they know if they do it one more time, they lose you because your heart is not a toy for anyone to play with.

[@sexygabby30]

Yeah because some will admit and say sorry but will still be a dr. Jelkel and mr. Hyde.

[@CarmenLifeCoach]

@@sexygabby30 Correct, thank you !

[@reinaquisha9418]

I'm on a one and done with blatant disrespect....👋🏾👋🏾👋🏾

[@Dimples3434]

I really appreciate Tony being so honest. His transparency! True definition that a man can change 🙌🏾🙌🏾

[@chicsocialitee]

I was cheated on during my pregnancy and it forever changed me. He spent years, YEARS trying to convince me that he was different. I just could never look at him the same again. Many people can move forward following infidelity and its so commendable and a testament of God. I just couldn’t.

[@chloethemessenger]

This happened to me too. Just awful.

[@chrisparker6249]

Great heart to heart for men! Keep the content coming brother.

[@dricka2150]

13:45 he said : “my jeans smelling like all kinda booty” 😩😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 Tony needs to do stand up comedy because I done rewind that part 12 times and showed my whole family now we literally in tears 😂 lol

[@rolandarobinson5241]

😅😭😭😭

[@bettytriscris8694]

😂😪😂😪😂😪😂😪😂😪😂😰😰😵

[@pat4eva09]

When Tony put that bass in his voice, talking to his son. I love to see it.

[@usonjecheonga8751]

A man gets it together when he hot a real woman who says it upfront that she ain't there to deal with a mess....when you tryna change she will support you....you cant force a man who dont wanna change to do so...a man has to make the choice and a woman will help

[@stacynicole1059]

holes in the socks!! that is DEEEEP. the exact moment I was like where is that like button

[@rohneshamhorne]

The Jeans story was soooo funny!! 👖👖😂😂😂

[@zinaa3450]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 its the “new blue 👖” for me

[@shegotstandards]

Wow! This is such great information even for me. The Bible says that a brother offended is harder to be won than a great City. It's hard to win back people when you have broken trust. These g e m s that are being dropped is so true. Trust truly has to be w o n back. Personally when someone has misused my trust it's very hard to let someone back in because my heart becomes closed.

[@dai5angel]

A good conversation Tony G. I really believe that if you truly love someone you have to be willing to do the work.

[@Blynn-y2]

😂I can’t stop laughing.. A new pair of Jeans smelling like booty😂 Another great teaching as always 💯

[@Ms.Haleyy]

🤣 that story sure did take him back too, you see the upset it his eyebrows

[@qscott888]

Blessed Good Friday to everyone. Just officially joined The Blessed Tribe. Tony, your ministry has truly blessed me through so much these last couple of months. Thank you

[@marciahill6659]

Actions shows and speak louder than words!! Be consistent and keep your word as a man it’s plain and simple

[@IshanaeS]

Founding CEO of the dazzling dimes is taking me 😭😭😭😭😂 like I cannot see Uncle T out here like that.

[@Dimples3434]

Right !! I was not ready for that 😂😂😂

[@MissTracy-Ann]

He got too much wisdom on the game to not have gotten it out the mud 💯

[@mymakersdaughter6041]

@@MissTracy-Ann So true!!!

[@lifeventures6651]

Oh yeah...he’s talked about it a long time ago on some of his videos. You know them ladies was going crazy over him and them eyes, so no surprise he got some girls to do it. Definitely before he got saved. That’s why we cannot see any residue on him like that now. Brother Tony had the ladies back then until he got his queen 🙌🏾 God changes people if they want to.

[@IshanaeS]

@@lifeventures6651 I know I’ve been following him for a long time still find it unbelievable tho 😭

[@promisingrose8730]

I’m ready for tonight’s episode.

[@yellow8818]

Jeans 👖 smelling like all kind of booty!!!! LOL 😂 Tony is hilarious!

[@shamalama29]

LMBO!!!!

[@nikkyshamz2696]

His good jeans 🤣🤣🤣

[@charleneschannel2570]

The bottom line is... GONE ABOUT YO BUSINESS.....read the shirt!

[@lydiarobinson4738]

THIS!!!

[@keziahbrutus]

yass, need me one of those 🔥

[@mariadaskalakis9317]

Being this transparent is going to change that many more lives - inspiring!

[@tracyrose8829]

Do not let anyone come in between you and your relationship goal. Get them back to you and make their love strong like the ocean

[@tracyrose8829]

I can connect you to someone who helped me attract my ex partner back to me after separation

[@tracyrose8829]

What.xap

[@tracyrose8829]

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[@cheekscheeks5840]

Hello everyone you definitely speaking the truth . Men can be selfish and only think about self .

[@konthegollc6747]

Thank you @TonyGaskins for you honesty and guidance VA ❤️

[@lthesouthernbelle]

Love the transparency Mr. Gaskins

[@jenniferwebb6741]

"Real true love is Not found but created" TG

[@pat4eva09]

Hahaha, Yea my husband is from Polk County, FL too. Haines City. That's why I can relate to TonyG so much, reminds me of my husband. They make most of em real down the way there.

[@HeEmpressMe]

I’m dying 😂 y’all was young, wild and free.

[@InTheRecoveryRoom]

God bless you Mr G!!.. we love ur ministry and look forward to hearing your perspective .. many blessings

[@manij1913]

These my good jeans 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I just can’t with this strip club story

[@DD-mg2se]

I'll NEVER go to one..and if I ever have a partner going..I'm done.

[@sadelynn2235]

Yes, I am late but here now. Right on time for bed time story/video. Be blessed.

[@chloethemessenger]

Wow Tony. This message was deeper than the ocean 🌊 😩😂✔️

[@tanitawatson8307]

Not.. “Cyber-NET🙄” 😂Tony is real life hilarious😂

[@love7loyalty-MHA]

I'm here on this good ol Friday

[@angelgooden4317]

If you violate our marriage, just saying “I apologize “ is not good enough. Your actions must change.

[@keziahbrutus]

Tony I'm proud to say I ordered the book 😁

[@tiffineyena7001]

Why Tony say his cousin ain't never get right..even after all that church. Lol!😁

[@ladyrcreation4702]

Thank God the men are listening

[@sharonhall7439]

LISTEN MEN!!! PLEASE

[@IamJayTetsuo]

22:30 - 23:30: I agree to an extent. God used the worst of the worst to get his message out, to let people know his love is real. When it comes therapy, you can’t really put your life in the hands of one who has “holes in their socks”. While giving wisdom, you take a portion of that energy with you. Whether it be negative or positive, that is the side effect of the coin flip. I just feel like if I give my life and issues to a therapist or relationship guru, I gotta know all around that I’m not spending my money on an investment that May backfire on me & have looking like goofy in goof troop

[@tee190]

Rubbing all them on my jeans😂Tony oooo

[@suzy3360]

🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@mochabrown2145]

im learning more and more about you tony lol im from orange county family moved from polk county and i definitely did not know you were the founder of dazzling dimes which i was asked to be apart of back in the day...thats crazy lol have a blessed day tony and thanks for the videos

[@cheekscheeks5840]

Communication is the key when that’s gone there’s nothing else. They make u wait while they playing house with past relationships kids where they do that at .

[@Badgy4l.l_]

28:50 I completely agree because a man is going to know how much it’s going to “cost” him to make that same “mistake” again.

[@stephaniemodkins4624]

This video made me laugh. Hope “Jaxn” is watching it (also Tiny). Glad you tell your own business.

[@sexygabby30]

Bingo!!!!!

[@tellnolies8530]

NEVER!! Once that trust is broken then respect follows shortly after bye 👋 boo

[@eddie90059]

I really appreciate this video Tony, God blessed your ministry continually.

[@sylviasalcedo8569]

Happy Good Friday family!

[@tinaj1772]

Blue Jeans!!🤣🤣 🤣 You're so funny Mr Gaskins! Thank you for your message💯🙏🏾

[@bre_s9164]

I agree. This was a great message……… and we all have egos/narcissistic tendencies. But whether we choose to live in our egos or not makes a HUGE difference.

[@Mrs_Canary]

Thank you for your ministry!.

[@prkzoomin6994]

Count your blessings not your problems.

[@KrystleLaughter]

Thank you for your example.

[@YodyMarie2011]

I'm cryiiiiiiiinnnnnnnggggg about the jeans part 😂🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣

[@jacquelinewilliams6572]

U see what happened with that man 🤥. He cheating on his wife. Tony know the game!!

[@kikikiki3216]

I love how he can cover every topic without saying too much..

[@TheBabyface716]

Omg! I live in Polk county 😅

[@ladii5tar]

Not these my good jeans 😂😂😂

[@justlillian__]

Great Advice Coach!!💪🏾

[@bosslady874]

Wisdom on wisdom!!! 👏🏾

[@roshundareed2516]

Booty jeans😂🤣🤣 gots to be more careful 😂

[@kikikiki3216]

You know what,how did tony know that I needed this message? Just the other day I was embracing My boyfriend from behind as he just returned from work and he was sending a lady an address and the message that preceded that was a row of 3 love hearts sent from the person he was speaking to... I confronted him and he initially try to water it down and say it's nothing serious... I connered him real well, he admitted and now he's asking for us to work things out.

[@True2U08]

Look at tony's shirt.

[@kikikiki3216]

@@True2U08 hmm

[@love7loyalty-MHA]

This video is GOODT 👏🏾🙌🏾

[@beefaye18]

Ugh umm...not "my good jeans" 😂😂😂😂😭😭😭 Im dead

[@blackbutterfly3565]

Tony new jeans Screaming

[@Denise_Cocoa]

That shirt is hilarious Tony lol loved the message too!

[@evlinboghozians3695]

This my good jeans 😂😂😂😂

[@kimsmith819]

Polk County is very popular. Grady Judd is your Sheriff. It's big time in Polk County

[@Isa-Amor]

Country....

[@talkswithrochelle8200]

Great message!!

[@cemplygloria6261]

🗣Not on the good jeans! Lmbo

[@noirfit9721]

LMBO!!!! The story of the finger in the stripper booty took me outta here😂😂😂 Tony a whole fool lmbo

[@angelnebula8278]

My mother in law such a piece of work she encourages her son to be unfaithful.

[@kimberlybarnes799]

That is so wrong. I am so sorry.

[@beefaye18]

Damn....

[@nikkyshamz2696]

That's a shame , thankfully her son can get left

[@VJ-zw7xz]

That’s awful

[@iamginawilliams5441]

Tony's stories is so funny

[@Candaco2000]

Hey Tony!! Right on time!!

[@Best-ThingYouNeverHad]

This might be my favorite video of all time 💪🙌

[@tracyrose8829]

Do not let anyone come in between you and your relationship goal. Get them back to you and make their love strong like the ocean

[@tracyrose8829]

I can connect you to someone who helped me attract my ex partner back to me after separation

[@tracyrose8829]

What.xap

[@tracyrose8829]

+ 2348119132200

[@antoinettesherrod1895]

Got the book TG.

[@kourtneyrichards3180]

Happy friday

[@TiaraByrd88]

You got me spending the money on the Down payment on the house to a fraud 😂

[@keirwilson5691]

"Finga in the bootie of a stranga"👎🤏👃

[@sharonhall7439]

oh yesssss;this is on point

[@mooooobetter]

always on time

[@jaenorth2654]

Thank you!

[@sylomef]

OH MY!! The story about the strip club and why they got quickly ushered OUT has me crying!! My stomach muscles hurt from laughing 😅 🤣

[@dn-cp6sh]

Tony, is there such a thing as checking a man too much? When does it get to the point where a woman is viewed as too high maintenance? Thanks.

[@caramelfox4807]

Men sometimes slip up and make slight mistakes but if it's constant then he is testing you or deliberately making the errors.

[@agadonk]

Or he just not the one for you

[@ashleycbla]

I know you asked Tony specifically but I think it depends on what it is that is being called high maintenance. Having to continually check a man on any type of abusive behavior of course, is not considered high maintenance. If you’re checking your man on something that makes you feel disrespected or self degrading, I would not call that high maintenance. If it’s something materialistic then that could be high maintenance.

[@christyfallinger8716]

Blessed be

[@dana5257]

What would be some examples of actions to earn trust back?

[@Yesitsmandisa]

You know damn well you ain’t think the strip club was nasty when you went alone the second time 😂

[@PeaceBeStill-]

😅😅😅

[@kathylofton4530]

😆😁🤣😂

[@katalystinkpresents...4493]

I lived in Polk County.

[@SC-trix]

Hi! How can I buy this t-shirt? Thank you very much for your content. The book is excellent.

[@sheilazimmerman3905]

So, God said you tryin me like a baser! No more Grace for you. The Grace is off of Ya.....😂😅🤣😂😂🤣🤣🤣🤣 Ok Tony! 👍😅😂🤣

[@andreenmckay443]

I wondered what other reputable, live by what they preach men life coaches thought about the whole Derrick Jaxn situation. From what I gather Tony is saying you can still learn from him. Ok, ok.

[@tinajones1932]

Listening.

[@lindadrake8372]

Yes Tony we reap what we sow?

[@LadieTasha]

Present 💜

[@tiffineyena7001]

Tony, I woulda thought the same thing, that u was tryn to cheat on me. Lol!

[@benjamincrooms5041]

👍👍

[@Breanne_M]

The OG’s deff know about the strip club stories 😂