“ I don’t hate people, I just like it when they’re not around.” - Charles Bukowski
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
I see the nature of the world. Instead of feeling drawn to people, I feel withdrawn. God has a remnant, who's not of the world (Thank God). I like the Ps.68:6 verse
@jasmineglein3721 Жыл бұрын
That is so funny! 😂
@willoughby1888 Жыл бұрын
@@dennismclaurin1487 "God sets the solitary in families; He brings out those who are bound into prosperity; But the rebellious dwell in a dry land." Ps.68:6
@SamuelBlack84 Жыл бұрын
I do hate people
@anotherdamn6c Жыл бұрын
@@jasmineglein3721 It wasn't meant to be funny. Your laughter at a sombre observation sadly strengthens the loner's resolve.
@brownin3292 жыл бұрын
I never had a problem with being alone. I had a problem with people who try to disrupt my life and cause problems because I choose to be alone.
@Mistanyycguy2 жыл бұрын
I have friends i like to catch up with from time to time but being alone most of the time is the way to go. Being around people all the time tends to take me away from the goodness of life and can bring unnecessary complications
@kahlodiego52992 жыл бұрын
👍🔥
@BlazRa2 жыл бұрын
@@JinroTheCorpse Look to China to see that on display
@dehsa382 жыл бұрын
Women who get pissed at you because they can't get you to chase them...
@BlazRa2 жыл бұрын
@@JinroTheCorpse fuck that shit man I'm not chasing women I'm chasing greatness I'm not falling for the Sirens of poverty those fucking bitches That try to seduce you and then hold you down keeping you broke
@FelixSkura2 жыл бұрын
Nothing is worse than being surrounded by people and still feeling lonely.
@nvmffs2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, tell me about....the problem as I see it is that people these days are utterly incapable of empathy. And I mean real empathy. Yes, the sight of an animal being hurt before them would probably make them feel bad for a few minutes but that's not real empathy. They just felt bad because it happened before them. They wouldn't lose their sleep over it. I do lose my sleep when I know that someone/some animal needs me or that I can disappoint them in any way. Naturally, emapthy is much more than just concern for the sufferings or misfortunes of others. It means actively trying and being able to imagine yourself in their place. And that's the biggest obstacle it seems. Nobody's trying. What's worse, that seems to exacerbate with age.
@Johny40Se7en2 жыл бұрын
Robin Williams said that, and I believe he was right. More often than not, that's caused by toxic relationships and wanting to please others too much. Steady on with the agreeableness 😅😝
@brownin3292 жыл бұрын
I'm sure people who have been heinously killed or wrongly imprisoned would disagree with that.
@smc19422 жыл бұрын
I've been there ALL my life!
@seagullguitarist77732 жыл бұрын
listen to blackbear - alone in a room full of people
@thirstonhowellthebird2 жыл бұрын
I’m a hermit and I love it. The sad thing is people get offended and think that you’re being a hermit means that you’re not liking them or you’re a snob or you think you’re better than them. It’s all a big misunderstanding. We just simply prefer to be alone.
@radattk31452 жыл бұрын
nah you're probably just a selfish, cold petson who doesn't care about anyone else.
@ValeriaPezzino2 жыл бұрын
@@radattk3145 what makes you conclude that one's preference for their own company is a sign of total indifference to other people's wants and needs? Besides, wouldn't you say that life itself is a selfish experience? Everyone is tending to their own desires, as much as we like to sugarcoat it. Life is lived in the 1st person. That still doesn't imply that we don't care about anyone else to me though.
@MrErock72 жыл бұрын
@@radattk3145 projection?
@Well-Put2 жыл бұрын
@@radattk3145 🤣
@NN-cc8uo2 жыл бұрын
Not a full-on hermit, but I can relate. Sometimes dealing with people is just massive pain in the ass
@KH-fv3vq2 жыл бұрын
"I never found the companion that was so companionable as solitude." - Thoreau
@neo37682 жыл бұрын
Agree and fall in love with this quote
@IndustrialBonecraft2 жыл бұрын
"I'm going to go an live alone in the wilderness! Lol, jk, I'm actually going to live slightly off the main road, throw parties all the time, and get my mum to do all my washing for me. Oh! Such solitude!" - Thoreau.
@alwells57792 жыл бұрын
I don't find solitude to be all that great. Today, everyone is celebrating solitude it like it's some higher plane of existence. It's in our music and culture. These are the messages I hear and am sick of hearing... 'Thank You Next', 'Love Yourself', "be your own best friend', etc, etc. We now even seem to admonish people who say that they want things like a lover, friends, family as if they are not healthy as another who is happy to live in solitary confinement. As a person who has been living a solitary life for a lot of years, I am okay with being the outlier that says that life is better when you connect to a simpatico companion than it is being your own companion in solitude. Honestly, I’m sick of being alone all the damn time and yet I'm also not interested in being what anyone else says I must be in order to not be alone. I find this state more of one that is a constant challenge than one that is some utopia to strive for.
@nicolausthothmes23252 жыл бұрын
Nothing beats a dog that loves you and knows you love him back though.
@pjc77292 жыл бұрын
@@alwells5779 Consider being open minded enough to let someone else in your life. Seems like you're confused about what you want.
@deth.thiana2 жыл бұрын
Many of our goals and desires are externally influenced and do not reflect what we truly want... being alone helps to tune out of all the noise and listen to your real self
@ilovebutterstuff2 жыл бұрын
Have you ever been truly alone? No parents, no siblings, no friends? No one around you but theives, liars, and junkheads? If you want an accurate look at the world around you, try it sometime. Security is all but an illusion.
@ClassyWolf2 жыл бұрын
Yep. To then find out most of the things that truly matter to you are already spoiled and not obtainable in this life anyways. That's why I focus on the after-life.
@Johny40Se7en2 жыл бұрын
That's so spot on. They say that when a person is all on their own, they begin to realise things about themselves that they wouldn't have noticed if they were around others. Solitude can bring true clarity and mindfulness 👍 But that's why a lot of people don't like to be on their own, it's like they're afraid of what they might discover, and maybe they wouldn't be able to deal with it. But they won't know until they try 😜
@carolynwolf96762 жыл бұрын
"Stillness, Silence and Solitude, I have always seen these as valuable tools to maintain a calm and relaxed demeanor. The world around us can be very unnerving; but implementing the 3 S's can help you get through difficult times." CW
@bethleblanc6562 жыл бұрын
@@ilovebutterstuff Agreed!
@FaithfulFumoFan232 жыл бұрын
The ability to be alone and be at peace is literally a super power! You truly have to be built different to be able to do that. Just remember that people k!ll themselves every single day because of loneliness and lack of validation from other people. Most people completely break under the pressure of loneliness. If you're ever feeling down about being a loner just think about how strong you are to be able to do something the vast majority of this species cannot even think of!
@dibs0equiped2 жыл бұрын
Nicely said.
@picklep98122 жыл бұрын
Thank you. I appreciate that sentiment
@sammytran56332 жыл бұрын
Love you!
@jonkline7092 жыл бұрын
That was well written. It’s not that I don’t like people I can be a cool person when I want to be. However I chose to be a loner the majority of the time.
@stevenolove2 жыл бұрын
👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
@stevenolove2 жыл бұрын
You know you’re a complete recluse when the lockdowns didn’t affect your life too much
@MrNihilio2 жыл бұрын
not one bit actually
@79viewer2 жыл бұрын
Haha Not even a little bit.
@sagakun062 жыл бұрын
finally, a person who has the same thoughts as me
@bryanoneill50472 жыл бұрын
I think my life improved,no pressure to "see friends" go out socialising, and I made plans which include solitude,I smile more.
@pablozewoppa2 жыл бұрын
I enjoyed lockdown. I valued the different perspectives and pace of life one was able to observe. I've never seen the streets so empty; nor was the city I live in (London) so quiet. It saddens me that few people seem to have taken much away from that experience and just wish to return to 'normal'...
@retired43652 жыл бұрын
Blending into society is an art form. To be the observer of a society failing at every turn is more upsetting than being alone.
@scr49322 жыл бұрын
You're more likely to be observing it if you're outside of it.
@DANTHETUBEMAN2 жыл бұрын
phycopaths have to comealion to survive, everyone cry's, they force tears 😭
@thenomadeducator Жыл бұрын
@@scr4932 When you stand outside the box, you get the eagle view. Very well put.
@ayampencen6363 Жыл бұрын
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@ayampencen6363 Жыл бұрын
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@williamdelong82652 жыл бұрын
Misery loves company and happiness loves solitude.
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
Only God knows my solitude case. The world couldn't care less to know
@torstrasburg8289 Жыл бұрын
I'm a loner and miserable, but not because of being alone.
@CaptainMisery86 Жыл бұрын
Hey! Want to hang out?
@isaacdavid33754 ай бұрын
@@CaptainMisery86why not. May allow me overcome my misery
@trevorfranks692 жыл бұрын
The loners path take a lot of sacrifices, you have to lick your wounds all alone sometimes.
@InnerLantern72 жыл бұрын
I can attest to this.
@M_P262 жыл бұрын
You’re get used to it, if you truly except yourself.
@jamierodriguez35542 жыл бұрын
I disagree being a social conformist is difficult for me
@jamierodriguez35542 жыл бұрын
We don't have to sacrifice putting up with other people's bulshit lies
@Shkelqim952 жыл бұрын
What do you mean by ‚sometimes‘, I think you have a different understanding of the term ‚alone‘
@liamhalvorsen45582 жыл бұрын
Great Video! I believe Carl Jung once said "“Loneliness does not come from having no people about one, but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to oneself" Cheers!
@irenashiloh88082 жыл бұрын
I agree with this. I started feeling happy in my own company when I stayed all alone and couldn't run away from the internal conflicts, until they were resolved just by me putting up with the inner battle and participating in it actively. That communication was crucial to my demons leaving me alone. I use the help of philosophy and meditation to work through my pain, and I use nice distractions (humor, art, friends) to rest from that inner battle. Our biggest problem, in my opinion, is our unresolved relationship with death.
@peculiarlittleman53032 жыл бұрын
@@irenashiloh8808 You may enjoy the documentary, "Flight from Death." It's experimental confirmation of Ernest Becker's work, which postulated that culture, group identity, and many other horrors have emerged from our awareness that we will die. Cheers!
@Michael-mn4ef2 жыл бұрын
Holy shit
@sofimazi5552 жыл бұрын
☯️👍🏾🤓
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
Profound truth!!
@jakebullet17312 жыл бұрын
As a single minded loner, I was BUILT for these times, since the madness took over in 2020
@jamierodriguez35542 жыл бұрын
Yes you are a robocop
@cheesecake46482 жыл бұрын
Sadly, it is no the way to go
@IDieHardForever2 жыл бұрын
It's crushing me. But I'm learning to deal with it.
@hugosmith67762 жыл бұрын
u2? almost as if we were preparing ;)
@user-gz4ve8mw9l2 жыл бұрын
I come well prepared myself for solitary confinement. I spent 4 years in a room only leaving it for food without any human contact 24/7 years ago. If I could spend my entire life in solitude I'd do that gladly if only.
@terryfinley77602 жыл бұрын
I am proud to be a loner. I am comforted by solitude.
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
I'm reading alot of interesting comments on this blog It's comforting to know people like you exist
@thexel1332 жыл бұрын
Being alone and feeling lonely are very different states of being. I've gone my own way and feel much better than when I was following the "herd's" path. Although, there is a sense of loneliness that seems to becoming more intense. Every choice has a price. Going with the herd has more comfort, going your own way has more sense of purpose. I guess the real question is how to find like minded individuals? In my day to day interactions, it seems extremely improbable.
@disturbed6072 жыл бұрын
its difficult to find like minded people. im(perhaps you too) not looking for anything more than common sense.
@ilovebutterstuff2 жыл бұрын
Most people have their heads in the sand. I know one thing for sure, if I speak up, that'll be the last time hanging with that crowd. I prefer to be alone.
@JayJay-wg5ex2 жыл бұрын
You will attract those who know exactly what that is like and have chosen the same, despite the cost. Like attracts like, but you do not live to please/ attract anyone.
@icemanww15732 жыл бұрын
@@disturbed607 even that is very hard to find nowaydays imho
@JenWIL6412 жыл бұрын
Everyone who has made a reply has soothed my soul.
@Plysdyret12 жыл бұрын
I am a loner! It already began in school when I was bullied because my comrades thought I was weird. Society wants me to get married and have kids, but that's not in my interest.
@kevinhan47072 жыл бұрын
i also decided not to get married or have kids. i just think the world is over populated and don't need as many people as we have now. Before, people had kids because it was advantageous for survival. Now days it's is better not to have kids for survival.
@dawndusk10072 жыл бұрын
Right on!
@Polecat-qz5om Жыл бұрын
Maybe no one wants to marry you anyway 😂
@Michael-fc4ch Жыл бұрын
Yeah society wants you to get married, have kids and be in debt like a robot. Don't be a statistic
@reachingcoldmountainbeforeyou Жыл бұрын
Please stay True to yourself!! I didnt. I let people PUSH me. Now I have miserable children from broken homes as well as myself being miserable from not staying true to myself and now ruining other people's lives. It's AWFUL.
@RX7jkr Жыл бұрын
The need to escape mediocrity resonates with me. "You're not meant to fit in, you're meant to stand out".
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
Profoundly, beautiful statement !👍
@tomburgundy7200 Жыл бұрын
When the majority are workers it would be beneficial to those in power to promote sheep mentality to ensure slave (employee) population stays high enough that you can create more bombs, own more sparklys (diamonds), put plastic in your face so you can look as fake on the outside as you are on the inside.
@ryansnyder49972 жыл бұрын
Great video brother , I am a loner and I am perfectly content with it too. I've broken away from the herd and running my own way
@ilovebutterstuff2 жыл бұрын
I love being a loner about 75% of the time. The other 25% of the time my instincts are screaming at me to stop being such a selfish, miserable, self-serving piece of shit and join the human race. Makes sleeping very difficult. Probably shouldn't have shared. Oh well.
@jakebullet17312 жыл бұрын
@@ilovebutterstuff Many thanks 🙏🏾 for sharing.
@nicholaskearney6782 жыл бұрын
Good, go alone,away... .
@KK-qd6ro2 жыл бұрын
@@ilovebutterstuff I like me, and when that "instinct" for connection arises well thats what youtube is for. Or there wouldn't be so many loners in here commenting. ; o )
@enlightenme41942 жыл бұрын
No one touch that 111
@enliven42032 жыл бұрын
Many people are in a relationship because they were led to believe that is the only way to live a happy life. Only to find out later that being in a relationship was never what they wanted. This is a very personal preference, one which you must carefully decide for yourself. Solitude can be beautiful, but it can also be destructive, same applies to being in a relationship. It's important to know that your path to happiness depends entirely on you, not on what others tell you will make you happy.
@SIERRATREES9 ай бұрын
well said. Your gut instinct can be useful with these determinations.
@gelly1232 жыл бұрын
The hardest part about being like this is how much it hurts others. It isn't done intentionally but sometimes people truly enjoy being in your company and miss you when you are away. They also can't comprehend wanting to be like that and think all these negative things about you. I like being alone but I also hate making people sad or making them feel like you don't care about them.
@MrCassett2 жыл бұрын
Yeah, but that is not in your control . The perception they have of what you do or don't do
@patinsley2 жыл бұрын
Thanks for this perspective. It explains the conflict I have with myself all the time...
@hagoryopi2101 Жыл бұрын
I have that problem, too. I love people, but also love being alone sometimes. And I hate the misunderstandings caused by when I need to be alone, because I know I'll want to be with these people again later, just not always now. I hate when it feels like my own interests and those of others are at odds. I can be driven to counterproductive extremes like self-destructive people pleasing, and resentful toxicity, because of these conflicts. I'm kind of a loner who wants to represent his own ideas and values, but part of the joy of that value is contributing it to and sharing it with other people, especially when these are niche values which conformity cannot offer! Learning to be patient with myself and with others has been helping. As has learning to communicate better and healthily enforce boundaries. Some of us aren't taught that growing up, but you can still learn for yourself. There will be suffering, but the suffering would not be possible if there were not better things to pursue, things you care about and know you can achieve! So keep your course in life.
@PraiseYHWH Жыл бұрын
just be
@MrCassett Жыл бұрын
@@Abcd-jz4gp Yeah we do at some extent. I've changed my mind since last year; however, I still believe it is not in our control how anybody else but ourselves perceive things. Having said that, I do agree that if we truly care about a person; despite not controlling how they perceive things, we can always sit and talk to explain our view and hear theirs but honestly, I think we should reserve that to only important people in our lifes cause some battles are just not worth the energy or time fighting
@kyrianasher57472 жыл бұрын
I finally accepted that I am the loner, and have no desire to be understood. My internal suffering has somewhat ceased since then. I am now in pursuit of a dream that I was once conditioned into believing was ridiculously "dramatic". If there is anyone similar here, I salute you and the person you are becoming.
@unknowntosociety01 Жыл бұрын
Whats your dream?
@rustcohle845 Жыл бұрын
Same
@thenomadeducator Жыл бұрын
Same here. I accepted my aloneness and now I indulge in it. It is important not to go with the flow all the time and dare to stand apart and think differently. Sometimes people just don't get us, our way of life, way of thinking. I am glad you started pursuing your dream and I hope you accomplish it.
@kyrianasher5747 Жыл бұрын
@@unknowntosociety01 To carve out my own philosophy, written or otherwise, while traveling the length and breadth of this world.
@kyrianasher5747 Жыл бұрын
@@rustcohle845 Keep soldiering on, my friend. 👍🏿
@andrewmize8232 жыл бұрын
All my life people have been telling me what I "need to do" to fit in. What I should be wearing, what I should be eating, what I should be thinking, etc., to gain the things and meet the goals that others have in their lives. The punchline, for me, has always been that I don't want any of those things.
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
Rom.12:2👍
@s3dghost Жыл бұрын
On God
@robsie77772 жыл бұрын
Another brilliant lecture. I can confirm from my own experience, that by embracing my individuality and being a non-conformist, that I have encountered many enemies in life! It is not my intention to upset other people but yes, it's a path for the loner. I only have few friends, but at least the one's that I have are real.
@prapanthebachelorette68032 жыл бұрын
So true
@lraoux2 жыл бұрын
Conformist or loner, the main source of our suffering is other people.
@thenomadeducator Жыл бұрын
Mostly all the time, indeed.
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
Hell is other people. (That's my daily testimony)
@danielepp3113 Жыл бұрын
Or is it You?
@karolinanie5946 Жыл бұрын
@@dennismclaurin1487 Ah, you need to check true meaning of that sentence 😅 It is misunderstood very often
@karolinanie5946 Жыл бұрын
@DaoTzu It's not poetry
@natheria49332 жыл бұрын
to stay true to yourself is one of the most challenging, and painful things you will ever experience in life. It is also one of the most freeing.
@godofdeath8785 Жыл бұрын
Yeah true true
@mrseal6622 жыл бұрын
For my entire life, thought I needed human interaction or I couldn't live with myself. Moving to a new state last year where I didn't know anyone was a huge learning experience because it taught me how to enjoy spending time alone without relying on anyone else.
@IKEMENOsakaman2 жыл бұрын
I'm happy that philosophy doesn't exclude or look down on loners. As a loner and an introvert myself, I feel at ease with philosophy.
@joaoalegria75782 жыл бұрын
All or almost all great philosophers in history were loners.
@nikkoroth55522 жыл бұрын
@@joaoalegria7578 sure. How else there can be philosophy. Its the hiden, lonely path.
@zhugeliang39052 жыл бұрын
@@joaoalegria7578 True.
@joaoalegria75782 жыл бұрын
@@nikkoroth5552 yeah I think philosophy comes from reflection and introspection and imo that can only be accomplished by being in solitude.
@woodroblue83322 жыл бұрын
I'm one too been one so long all I know people look down on people like us
@TheDhammaHub2 жыл бұрын
Especially many of the spiritual paths can be very "lonely", as you are swimming against the stream of conventions. As Ajahn Chah said: "The whole world moves in one direction and you into another",
@Emiliapocalypse2 жыл бұрын
Absolutely, well said. It can make you feel as though you’re doing everything wrong!
@LowAmbitions2 жыл бұрын
Go with it as Alan Watts said.
@beingkind36102 жыл бұрын
@@Emiliapocalypse I relate it totally. It feels that we are going in a wrong direction when compared to society and people around us. And because we are focusing more on inner world/self development.
@nicholasbishop67312 жыл бұрын
Very true Ajahn.
@liliesnletters2 жыл бұрын
since my mom died December last year I've always been told to be outgoing and to have "fun" with my peers. they fear of me being "too lonely". this channel helped me a lot to re evaluate my values. thank you
@arieldiaz31052 жыл бұрын
School of life and pursuit of wonder are two channels that could help you
@MaidenUtah12 жыл бұрын
“Getting out and having fun” usually devolves into having to listen to some loudmouth, fight starting assholes holding court at your expense. Hence, the reason why I can count the number of parties and trips to a bar on one hand and still have fingers left.
@liliesnletters2 жыл бұрын
@@MaidenUtah1 exactly! they don't understand how precious solitude is
@paulinewhite32732 жыл бұрын
I think some people have difficulty in relating to someone who is bereved. They much prefer to see you being upbeat as it makes them feel more comfortable. I remember growing up my mum had difficulty in relating to my moods, her response if I was down would be her saying " come on be happy" I never did locate the happy switch!
@liliesnletters2 жыл бұрын
@@paulinewhite3273 true! i still can't understand how a "happy/ sad face" should look like to them
@christinedavison76042 жыл бұрын
I've always had a very independent nature. Never going along with the crowd. Always enjoy my aloneness but never lonely. And yes I did enjoy the lockdowns, it gave nature a chance to breathe and heal. We give humankind too much importance on this beautiful planet. ❤🌹❤
@bluerayfrequency73352 жыл бұрын
Light Workers have a very distinct soul directive. It is a very narrow, and specific path. Painfully lonely in a young life, honed in mid-life, celebrated by the elder. Ever rejoicing when meeting those other rare individuals on their paths. Perhaps not a path shared but certainly understood. Blessings, and respect to all steadfast in their evolution.
@brian61402 жыл бұрын
What the hell is a Light Worker?
@authaire2 жыл бұрын
@@brian6140 an elaborate form of coping mechanism. See also: star children.
@jamie14252 жыл бұрын
Perfectly said...
@DreamyElvis2 жыл бұрын
Where are the others? I cannot find them. I keep searching.
@DH-oj2ru Жыл бұрын
"Light workers?" Are you serious? This is one of the reasons why philosophy is not taken seriously......were trying to learn and engage in serious topics and then someone comes along talking about "light workers......" lol. Im sorry but abandoning reason and believing in magic is not the answer.....hahahahah "light workers" like cmon man, you know that that is fantasy bs that snake oil salesmen use to prey on the gullible....
@shelley2he8442 жыл бұрын
I've been doing things my own way for awhile. I'm extremely detached from society, have little friends and a strained relationship with my family. They are utterly baffled by my refusal to live life by their standards. I would be lying if I said It didn't bother me a little, they don't care about my interests or passions and generally cannot understand them at all. But I'm going to keep going my own way regardless . They see me as a bizarre eccentric and I see them as judgemental sheep. I love them to death. Truly. But I'd rather BE dead than live life the way they do. Even if I end up destitute, I don't mind, I've been destitute before and I was fine. And I will be fine in the future. I'll live my own way and persue painting as a career and Ill be happy because I was true to myself.
@al-qaum2 жыл бұрын
Your family may not understand you, but that doesn't mean no one else can. Still you can find like-minded people who will be interested in what you do.
@Dca2522 жыл бұрын
💚💚💚
@CobraDove11112 жыл бұрын
I understand perfectly
@danityvanityinsanity2 жыл бұрын
Beautiful!👏😃👍✨💖✨
@equaa75572 жыл бұрын
This comment is so relatable
@yohaizilber2 жыл бұрын
We have the privilege to find our own path in life, conform or don't, that's your choice, you paid a price no matter what direction you take, just make sure the price you pay you can actually afford. be true to yourself.
@BornGoldstar2 жыл бұрын
Well put. 👏🏽
@Dezzyyx2 жыл бұрын
I'd sacrifice anything for that goal, which I have done, so even if it meant death I would accept that over living a lie
@miss.conduct80832 жыл бұрын
When you see me alone, don't get it twisted. I am in amazing company.
@jamierodriguez35542 жыл бұрын
I'm never alone God is always within me and ready to speak
@poeticrockstarr68752 жыл бұрын
I love your attitude. It's very refreshing. I hope you have a beautiful life 😁
@pterodactylpie88252 жыл бұрын
👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 well said!
@DarkRipper1172 жыл бұрын
Yes am alone but never lonely.....
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
You go, girl ! ( With your lone self)✌️
@stayfree61152 жыл бұрын
If you're not prone to falling into Mass psychosis. Being a loner is a given
@eline761211 ай бұрын
Lost all because of not be8ng affected and resisting to mass hypnosis..partner, friends, family....evil has never been so.strong and we just have to survive these times..take care.
@xyz851211 ай бұрын
I've always been happy when I'm alone. I rarely feel lonely.
@queenbee70742 жыл бұрын
I totally understand this dilemma of having own values vs complying to the society! I often find people’s useless conversations boring and small talk trivial and hate talking just for the sake of it but at times have to do it to ‘appear’ normal in this society
@man-yy8nr2 жыл бұрын
living in our modern society is sort of like living within a toilet bowl. we must purify ourselves, remain empathetic, maintain our sanity, and pursue our own purposes.
@AdilKhan-vw6rr2 жыл бұрын
Its hard restraining and so easy to become hateful, indifferent, angry and insane. And what even harder is to realise that you are slowly slipping into darkness before its too late. I try. I try. I try. But every once in a while, the worst of me takes over. But it gets easier every time, to regain the control. Or I donno, this could very well be an illusion in my head.
@tdwwxyz2 жыл бұрын
@@AdilKhan-vw6rr I feel that darkness part. What I’ve been reading is The Kybalion. It teaches a lot about using the happenings on higher planes against the lower planes of existence (using negative emotions/thought patterns to fuel positive results and then tossing negativity aside when it outlives its purpose). Anger can destroy, but also protect. Judgement can condemn people, but also avert disasters. Sadness can be overwhelming, but also alert you when you’re betraying yourself. Darkness is unavoidable and so one should study how to transmute it into light
@abusawdan99862 жыл бұрын
well articulated.
@AdilKhan-vw6rr2 жыл бұрын
@@tdwwxyz Hmm, interesting. Could you maybe illustrate how to use negative emotions to fuel positive results and discard them when they are depleted through an example?
@tdwwxyz2 жыл бұрын
@@AdilKhan-vw6rr yeah sure. I became a judgmental person as I grew up bc my family (like most) was full of really broken and dysfunctional people. I knew better and used my discretion to keep me on the right path. But then I decided I wanted to start a company. A record label, where I’d be a leader. So I tried being the way I normally am (judgmental) and it didn’t work. I never made friends for long, had trouble networking and couldn’t wrap my head around the collaborative process. Despite being amazing at my craft and impressing people, it was impossible to build a team with all my internalized reservations. So I thought back to my childhood and realized that part of my personality had served its purpose and I needed to dial it back. I wasn’t surrounded by stupidity anymore, I was around masters and partners who I wanted to learn from, and I couldn’t let my defensiveness kill my dream. So I gave in a little, and then a little more. Until I could finally harmonize with personalities that completely contradicted my own and we could be productive together. But I still use my strong judgment to keep me out of trouble sometimes. You learn to use an emotion in an extreme way first, then dial it back as you become familiar with its use cases
@hafezdd2 жыл бұрын
*To all dreamers out there, don't ever let the world's negativity disenchant you or your spirit. If your surround yourself with love and with right people, Anything is possible.* Cheering for you✨
@deejayjuicebox76232 жыл бұрын
You clearly don't understand human nature. Lol
@JaysonT12 жыл бұрын
Great another 13 year old posing as someone with experience and education to sell their con to people.
@colingoode87942 жыл бұрын
Don't let them get you down brother. Everyone has their own path. If you can't have a bit of fun with it as well then it may not be the right one!🌤
@gogee272 жыл бұрын
@@deejayjuicebox7623 Isn't he an expression of human nature as well (or of divine nature if you will, just like you with your perspective)? Cheers to life being sooo diverse! ✨
@TheAlwaysPrepared2 жыл бұрын
The content never changed the world for the better.
@hungrymusicwolf2 жыл бұрын
Loneliness is also a part of our inner-compass, to find others with which you can connect or ways to connect with others you previously could not are both worth whatever time you spent on it.. You do not need to conform to be a part of a group.
@RichardHarlos2 жыл бұрын
@OneManWolfPack wrote, "You do not need to conform to be a part of a group." If I may offer a slight refinement to what you wrote: _You do not need to conform to be_ *willing to be* _a part of a group."_ To this point, it's worth asking: is there a point to belonging to a group that will 'accept' members who don't conform to its values, ideals, and expressions of those values & ideals?
@hungrymusicwolf2 жыл бұрын
@@RichardHarlos Great improvement, and yes there is worth to being part of a group that doesn't enforce values. Even just having extra perspectives, and though not everyone will share your values most of them will share at least one. So you will always have some people that'll have your back no matter what. It also gives you access to their connections if you build your connection on said shared value, which means even more opportunities and options.
@ilovebutterstuff2 жыл бұрын
Um, ya kinda do. That's the point. Wow.
@MrJohnledd2 жыл бұрын
Would be kind of boring to have a group were everyone was the same.
@charowarhussain62612 жыл бұрын
2 is not a group. When it becomes 3 or more , it is no longer a dog wagging its tail , instead the tail wagging its dog.
@Lakesidelife2 жыл бұрын
“I may not contribute much to society but I don’t take much either “ - unknown
@lindagray2282 Жыл бұрын
I’m now 76 and living contentedly on my own without friends, just a couple of acquaintances. Had very few friends growing up. At 24 I passed my HGV1 test and became a lady trucker. Being on my own driving up and down the U.K. all week suited me perfectly fine. I retired at 68, sold my house in the city and bought another in a small country town in southern Scotland. I refused the covid vax, refused to conform to lockdown, took long walks in the nearby countryside with sandwiches & flask of soup most days. I’m not lonely, never have been, just enjoy my quiet peaceful life 😊
@trooperex12311 ай бұрын
high five for refusing the vaxx ✋
@BantiarnaMacRaghnaill2 жыл бұрын
My Father taught me the wisdom of the Loner path. Some of the best advice he ever gave me
@iforget69402 жыл бұрын
What did he teach you and how?
@fixiple27222 жыл бұрын
could you tell me some of his wisdom?
@royferguson39092 жыл бұрын
so did my Nan
@Emiliapocalypse2 жыл бұрын
You have no idea how much these are helping. I’m not out of my rut yet, but I feel as though there could actually be a light in the tunnel, and that I’m not just laying face down in a hole. Thanks, Einzelgänger
@shahananwar87592 жыл бұрын
Hope u’ll soon find a way:)
@preonmodel83542 жыл бұрын
Sometimes lying face down in a hole is exactly what we need , what many people will never do in their lives. When we have been in this hole, we now know the lower limit, therefore we know how low we can actually go. After accepting this and of course realising that being so low didn’t kill you, you can lift your heart and mind and begin to look up to the light. If you have nothing and can find peace and happiness, then all that comes after will be enlightening and positive. We don’t need any ‘thing ‘to make us happy, because happiness is a state of mind..
@gmansard6412 жыл бұрын
When I was 13 (now 45 years ago) I had an adolescent crisis (too much to go into here), but the result was I stopped caring about what others thought of me, and I resolved to live as I wanted regardless of what anyone else said. And I was so much happier! Very unusual in the adolescent milieu, that I became impervious to conformity and peer pressure. I have done a lot since then, but that time remains a pivotal and defining moment of my life.
@danielsaenz13252 жыл бұрын
Existentialist, transcedentalists and Stoics are the greatest philosophical schools of thought coming out of the west imo. They are giants!
@moalston42032 жыл бұрын
It all begins with 1 thought
@danityvanityinsanity2 жыл бұрын
I’m interested in the Gnostic teachings as well even though I’m not religious.
@friedose40992 жыл бұрын
@@danityvanityinsanity Marcion is as well very interessting.
@sw.75192 жыл бұрын
Nehh
@thechancellor-2 жыл бұрын
To the *incredible person* that's seeing this, I wish you all the best in life❤ don't over blame yourself, accept things and go forward. Don't let others define what “success” is for you. Get up, learn the skills needed and get after it, all the keys to a happy life is in your hands. Keep pushing.
@yusufmurat1502 жыл бұрын
Yeeeeeah rainbow and sunshine everywhere gogo unicorn
@JaysonT12 жыл бұрын
To the person who wrote this comment. Stick your positive thinking cult, LOA, New Religion bullshit up your ass and sell your channel somewhere else.
@RichardHarlos2 жыл бұрын
@@JaysonT1 Why so easily triggered? LOL
@JaysonT12 жыл бұрын
@@RichardHarlos You don't get annoyed by the regurgitated con-artist scripts? People 3 weeks out of high school selling you their online coaching of the secrets to life?
@ash82072 жыл бұрын
The first step to self reliance is to stop caring what others think. If one can't understand & implement that, then there is no hope to become non-conformist. “The tranquillity that comes when you stop caring what they say. Or think, or do. Only what you do." ― Marcus Aurelius, Meditations
@DarkRipper1172 жыл бұрын
The ever grind of others to change and bend to please someone else's will, even when they become disgusted of what they've become just to find the approval of others....such is the reality in today's world, a lot of people trying to become someone that nature or their destiny never intended for them to be, to follow instead of walking their own path, it's really sad.
@bewusstsein35272 жыл бұрын
That's tough.. can u?
@hinfranco2 жыл бұрын
I enjoy all your deep videos! It helps calm me down and remember to enjoy who I am.
@Bodyknowledge772 жыл бұрын
One of the best compliments I received some time back was "you're provocative without being controversial ". There is that narrow line between being true to you and being unintentionally ludicrous. A decent amount of non clique is a better way.
@ilovebutterstuff2 жыл бұрын
I can't even figure out what that means.
@MT-yx5cu2 жыл бұрын
Non clique?
@unknownninja12 жыл бұрын
I am the opposite, of you I controversial without being provocative 😥😥😭😭😭😥😥💯.
@gogee272 жыл бұрын
Yeah. I feel when you’re really true to yourself, it’s constructive and harmonious (even in having provocative perspectives). It creates the space to leave others as they are as well. No pushing against. Live and let live. 🙏
@MrJamiez2 жыл бұрын
Yeh
@klowen77782 жыл бұрын
Most extroverts are basically 'overcompensating', for what else is extroversion but the desperate *_fear_* of simply being in the sole company of yourself?
@onenation87072 жыл бұрын
I'm a loner through my life situation. Today was my birthday I didn't receive 1 text, phone call or card and it had no effect on me. "Being a loner is not the same as being alone" I love my solitude, freedom to travel and independence - nothing will ever interfere or disrupt my happy stress free life.
@patinsley2 жыл бұрын
Hey... Happy belated birthday!!! Wishing you many more days full of peace.
@BirdDogey12 жыл бұрын
Every good wish for a belated birthday.
@geestylez86262 жыл бұрын
Stay healthy and full circled my man!
@dianneedwards47572 жыл бұрын
Experiencing a birthday on your own or Xmas can be quite liberating!
@truesithempire93862 жыл бұрын
Happy Birthday! You're one year closer to death
@lecomtedeneuch99942 жыл бұрын
All of my life I was just a side character in someone else story. I always ran after people, relationships. I never had a long term girlfriend and I'm 27 years old. I don't have friends at the moment and if I'm honest throughout my life, I had to adapt myself so much to others to not be alone which led me to suffering most of the time. Adaptation is being able to adjust yourself so you can have normal conversations with people however it will never reward you with their friendship (mostly because it's faked). As It turns out, most adults (30+ and above) like me quite a lot and people under (25 - ) don't like me that much or are rather indifferent towards me. I try so hard to have friends and a girl and that is why I always failed. It shouldn't be forced, it shouldn't be hard. If you go search for people out of fear, you won't find your tribe in this world. Yes ! We have to go against conformity. You can't fight you own nature and NO, you shouldn't adapt to society standards, you shouldn't suppress your needs and your morals for a love interest or anyone at all. I believe in better times ahead because I'm now working on myself. I just wish the pain of loneliness to not be so hard to endure (I have suicidal thoughts for 2 months now).
@m2pozad2 жыл бұрын
Use this covid period to prep for a fresh start. People will be ready for relationships when things get back to being more normal.
@roky-wd9ib2 жыл бұрын
Just improve yourself man , it is just a game of power
@DarkRipper1172 жыл бұрын
Just learn to live with yourself and accept your self more, find strength in knowing that no one is coming for your rescue so that you can strengthen your resolve to be a one man army and become self sufficient to face this harsh life head on.....if there's someone willing to be your partner down the road be thankful for their company yet remember that people change and their hearts won't always be there for you, the only person that will never let you down or alone and will forever be loyal is yourself, no matter where you decide to go from there on....your shadow will always follow.
@louiselinton28452 жыл бұрын
Please concentrate on learning to understand and support yourself. It is nice to have friends but only if they are real and do not expect you to compromise your values to fit theirs. One can feel lonelier in a crowd than by oneself. Never give up yourself to fit others, it won't work or give any satisfaction. At 27 you are still very young! I am 66 lol. One or a handful of real friends who accept and like you as you are is vastly superior to a ton of acquaintances. Find out who you are and be that, without compromise. You may find real friends by volunteering for a charity you vibe with, at least you will have something in common and it may help with self worth, if that is an issue. Be kind to yourself, as well as others.
@KanyeKetchup2 жыл бұрын
Sometimes its great to smoke a little bit of weed go swim in the ocean on a sunny day get out have a beer and a ciggarette and think fk the fuggin world have another weed and get Kfc . Basically some bad things are fun ! Also travelling the world is great to - try it : )
@andersdottir11112 жыл бұрын
I had the great fortune to join a Scottish pipe band at 16 and a political party at 14; this at a time where there was very little to do in my area. It put me in the company of interesting people and I went to many interesting events; it also made my peers and other family members jealous. At the time I subconsciously felt it but luckily disregarded them and continued my own path and made more interesting friends than I would otherwise have been exposed to.
@jimkonen19132 жыл бұрын
If you always have to be in the midst of others and seeking their approval to feel whole. You do not know yourself. Get on with it and "Do the Work"!
@AbsolutelyNOW2 жыл бұрын
Wow your content is so pure and true.how right we are bombarded with over excessive greed that society offers more house more crypto,more cars and still feel hollow.
@rationalmystic52 жыл бұрын
Every video is an art form. Thank you. I'm glad I joined this channel in its early stages and it's been a joy to see it's growth. Keep up the good work .
@bustermaw2 жыл бұрын
Being alone is not a choice . You cannot receive instructions in this . You are born as you are , puzzled as to how others lead their lives but knowing that their way is not yours . Suffering from that aggression " Do you think that you are better than us " from an early age did not deter me from my confusion . I only knew that I did not want to tread their path . Now , in my old age , I am content that I can see things more clearly but am still surprised by people who do not . Thank you Einzelganger for this missive .
@muneebkhan74652 жыл бұрын
" Staying truthful to oneself"... "following the inner compass"...i have suffered immensely inside by trying to be truthful to myself...i am still suffering a lot by following my inner compass.Even if i suffer all along my life ,i can't be dishonest by not following my inner compass... Because at the end of the day:- Honesty is the best policy. Thanks a lot for uploading this incredible video.🙏
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
Rom.12:2
@MrDemonking4202 жыл бұрын
After following your videos regularly, all I can say is.. MAN your videos are not for everyone! There are only handful who can relate.. the one's who are TRUE loners.
@MrDemonking4202 жыл бұрын
@Limon Cello No. You'll know u are a loner.. you don't have to prove it to anyone if you aren't. It's about self-realization.
@flankes33392 жыл бұрын
This channel helped me shape my philosophy and find peace. I want to translate some of your videos in the next future into my native language so that "my" nation can benefit too. Through selfless action fulfillment is attained
@flankes33392 жыл бұрын
And most likely my philosophy will change as I'm just 19. But that's okay. I'm used to it and even like it. That means I'm able to not hold on to ideas too much and get closer to truth
@iforget69402 жыл бұрын
@@flankes3339 good for you, my philosophy has changed a ton I'm 21. But I wish to conform in some ways, but I can't sense I was very young I tried to I realy did. Always felt more like a outsider.
@AvgDietCokeEnjoyer2 жыл бұрын
Translations would be great!
@Diego-Designs2 жыл бұрын
@@flankes3339 where are you from? Translations would be great.
@flankes33392 жыл бұрын
@@Diego-Designs why?
@johnroman46082 жыл бұрын
It’s not the masses “ follow yourself “ 👌🏻 .. non conformity & faithful to self. Great video dude 🙏👌🏻
@adilkamar5942 жыл бұрын
After some hours i am going to be 20 and the greatest present for my birthday is this video. Thankyou so much man.
@Jacktrack7 Жыл бұрын
I'm not a big reader, but The Stranger is one of my favorite books ever, I read it when I was 20, I'm 32 now but I still think about the book quite often to this day.
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
Hey, stranger!🙂
@carolynwolf96762 жыл бұрын
"Stillness, Silence and Solitude, I have always seen these as valuable tools to maintain a calm and relaxed demeanor. The world around us can be very unnerving; but implementing the 3 S's can help you get through difficult times." CW
@mrmachiavelli5982 жыл бұрын
Dont forget seclusion on and off
@swampfoxworldwide2 жыл бұрын
Excellent. I’d imagine must of us who watched this video saw the lies of covid and “the shot” coming from miles away.
@lindagray2282 Жыл бұрын
Yip, Exactly 👍 I’m 76, live on my own and wasn’t fooled once by all that covid garbage 💁♀️
@eline761211 ай бұрын
And they are coming again..and the sheeps will believe their lies agzin...stupid sheeps❤
@eline761211 ай бұрын
@@lindagray2282❤❤❤
@trooperex12311 ай бұрын
shh bro.might get banned for saying the truth. also high five ✋
@Prestonesfpv2 жыл бұрын
A rebel is a person who stands up for their own personal opinions despite what anyone else says. A true rebel stands up for what they believe is right, not against what's right! It's not about smoking crack, drinking till you're rendered unconsious, or beating the crap out of anyone that crosses your path. It's all about being an individual and refusing to follow a crowd that forces you to think the same way they do, even if it means becoming an outcast to society. True rebels know who they are and do not compromise their individuality or personal opinion for anyone. They're straightforward and honest and they will sure as hell tell it like it is.
@johnbrent9067 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for opening my mind to the great thinkers throughout history. ✌️
@Einzelgänger Жыл бұрын
Thank you, John!
@Lea-mc2qy2 жыл бұрын
I never thought of myself as a loner. I only have a few close friends but whenever I meet with them I just don't feel a connection. I don't even know what I'm expecting. They seem content with what our friendship is and it always makes me think that maybe the kind of connection I want does not even exist. I feel lonelier when I'm with them than when I'm by myself.
@_ellipticalpxin_25432 жыл бұрын
I've kinda just accepted the fact that life has chosen me to be a loner. I wouldn't consider myself to be a complete loner, I do enjoy having friends (when I'm not being utterly ignored.) I feel every time I make friends I get excluded from everything, it doesn't matter who my friends are. Throughout kindergarten to grade 3-ish, I had many friends and talked to everyone. I had a specific friend group in grade 3 in which I'd been with for a while, they started ignoring me following bullying and I've despised them since. I moved to a new house in time for grade 4 and once again, had no problem making "friends" except this time if I spoke, I'd get talked over. I'd walk around with them and if I stood still, they'd continue walking and forget I was even there to begin with. Certain people I avoid and fear to speak to even if I hadn't seen the way they talk to others before, get all panicky, and become speechless. This stuff has happened for years now and I've only had 1 person I still consider as an actual friend. They've moved pretty far recently so atm, I'm only abled to speak to them online. For now I stay distant and hyper focus on goals of mine, that's all I care about and I wont let my sad "friendships" to get in the way, Afterall, I much prefer to really be alone then to be alone aside others.
@Knight_6472 жыл бұрын
nice redhead pfp
@imwatchingonyoutube5024 Жыл бұрын
@@Knight_647 What?
@Knight_647 Жыл бұрын
@@imwatchingonyoutube5024 damnit he must have changed it, his profile pic was a cute ginger girl
@richardthanmyself2902 жыл бұрын
I love yall, nothing weird, just human to human, hope yall find what you're looking for in life
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
Thanks. I can use a lone soul mate
@doloresvangaal22482 жыл бұрын
I believe only if you can live succesfully alone, you can deal succesfully with other people. It's about learning to be with yourself and to learn to look within yourself. Being a loner shouldn't be uplifted to this mythical status, but learning to be alone can help you to get clarity, and as a consequence, make wiser decisions.
@ReigningWomban11 ай бұрын
💯
@sergionaranjo95038 ай бұрын
Took me many years and went through so much pain to be able to enjoy myself when in solitude, it was really worth it, it taught me that you need solitude to be able to go back out there and be surrounded by people and truly enjoy it too. Took away my expectations and most of my desires
@cobybronze4922 жыл бұрын
Right on, one must be prepared to accept the consequences of non-conformity. I was sometimes shocked by people's responses to my own stubborn disapproval of modern life. Then I realized, if I wanted to live according to my own values, I would face ridicule and disapproval. I think being alone is the hardest difficulty about this commitment, but the benefits still outweigh the drawbacks.
@stevenvitali74042 жыл бұрын
There's no going back , we all have two lives, the second one starts the moment you realise that you only have one
@ReallifeUrk2 жыл бұрын
This may be one of my favourite videos that you have released. It really resonates with me
@gurug97972 жыл бұрын
"You are alone, born alone and will die alone. All else is delusion and family"
@Παθεια_Γνωστικα2 жыл бұрын
Oh, yeah. Sometimes I even suspect that herd around is created just to slow down the process of individuation, like becoming oneself entirely. You know, even changing habits in eating can "bother" someone, that he or she tends to say "you're doing wrong" and seduces with reminding of such foods. Some even saw me weird, when I ate palm dates, though they ate sugary food with high-fructose corn syrup (or something with refined sugars). It's like healthiness in lots of ways seems to be unhealthy and wrong, which is ridiculous. I remember how I looked bad, when I said that I don't drink to someone. They saw me as a strange person, if not worse. Thanks for reminding me that.
@jakebullet17312 жыл бұрын
I don’t eat French Fries / chips. When I refused some from my mother in laws plate at a restaurant she went mad and started shouting at me. My wife tried to explain I don’t eat fried food. Eventually I had to eat a few just to stop my mother in law having a heart attack !!!
@Παθεια_Γνωστικα2 жыл бұрын
@@jakebullet1731 gotta stay strong. Unfortunately, sometimes it must be this way. And sometimes it may even sound rude. You know, you described some kind of a manipulation.
@07wrxtr12 жыл бұрын
Everything has been setup in western society to push collectivism and conformity. We do need eachother and that requires compromise but it becomes borwhen the majority of people do not truly know themselves, they only know how to present themselves as they’ve been taught by corporations government hollyweird etc… this is the issue.
@longboard3816 Жыл бұрын
At a younger age, I never thought it possible a person could be lonely while surrounded by millions of people. Having grown older and wiser, I am a living example of what I thought couldn't be possible.
@chazzmccloud36 Жыл бұрын
I was always the odd one in my friend group. This has not changed in the past couple decades since i got out of school. I've always seen things differently than even my closest friends, and have been misunderstood for it. The strange thing, at least to me, is that I still very much value my friends despite our differences whereas they don't seem to value me similarly. Because I don't post every meal and subsequent bowel movement on Facebook, I get treated like the outsider. I'm okay with that to an extent, but it does sting when I hear later about all the hangouts and fun times I wasn't reached out to to be a part of. Not becoming bitter by this is why I started looking into philosophy, especially stoicism. I know I'm a loner, I just don't want to fall into being a bitter loner.
@Truth-of-the-matter Жыл бұрын
For myself finding and keeping quality friends has always been a challenge. Majority of people have conversations about work, kids and events they are going too. I myself have always enjoyed deeper conversations about life, travels and so on which has prevented me from connecting with the vast majority of people. When everyone around you is married and has kids/pets you naturally can't connect with them on the same level. I'd much rather have one or two really good friends then a group of people that leads to sameness.
@KingofNewYorkkk6 ай бұрын
Very Relatable
@electricEntity812 жыл бұрын
When you're at risk of losing everything you have and need money to survive you have no choice but to conform
@stevenvitali74042 жыл бұрын
To a certain point, you can still be yourself in the way you act and speak instead of talking about what you think people want to hear, people always say how wierd I am because I talk about different things and not from a script and I say thanks for the compliment, I feel so much better than when I just went along with everyone else
@Naturestheway2 жыл бұрын
@@stevenvitali7404 Yes. It's been that way my entire life. Most all people make me sick as i can see how fake, shallow, programmed they are. I rather be alone for ever than to deal with another minute of fakery
@stevenvitali74042 жыл бұрын
@@Naturestheway it can be very hard when you're the only one who sees it, it's good to know there are others out there who think the same, a shame tho that we find others online but in our day to day life cannot find those people, stay strong
@dazheath12 жыл бұрын
When the Aussie government threatened us that we would lose everything if we didn’t comply to their kovid rules, I chose to lose everything. But guess what, I didn’t lose everything and still didn’t comply. It was a bluff!
@MoosemanR2 жыл бұрын
It's true
@Zatoichi822 жыл бұрын
Meursault felt like a sociopath to me. His indifference, lack of conscience, empty personality (just impulses) and huge social mask made me think about him in that way.
@gmansard6412 жыл бұрын
My college degree is French Language and Literature, and I have never liked L'etranger.
@andersdottir11112 жыл бұрын
Or a narcissist.
@irenashiloh88082 жыл бұрын
But that's the whole point! He was NOT a sociopath or a narcissist. He had some strange form of indifference toward life - probably most proximate to autism - but was misunderstood because he was unable to be like everyone else.
@irenashiloh88082 жыл бұрын
@@gmansard641 And that's relevant how?
@grotgrabinski70682 жыл бұрын
@@irenashiloh8808 enough with the autism thing. It has become some kind of attractive trait to simple minded people.
@TheMimicBox2 жыл бұрын
I was forced into being a non-conformist due to my mental disorders and neurodivergent mental landscape. For the past 23 years I've seen myself as someone who's cursed to be different and alone for my entire life. Now I understand the pressures of others demanding my conformity to be the true poison that I'm overcoming with every passing day. And I grow stronger and more interesting than the conformists will ever be. And as such, I now see my trials as a blessing of enlightenment, and am going for treatments not to erase my nonconformity, but rather to gain the tools to conform with the world in my own nonconformist way. And break away from the disorders I was MEANT to overcome.
@Dca2522 жыл бұрын
💚💚💚
@arnoldhernandez19102 жыл бұрын
My God u literally just told us the meaning to Life. I love you so much my brother. God bless. 🖤❤️
@svenkamog22322 жыл бұрын
I got sick of all the point scoring, gossiping and fault finding from others. I've accepted my fate, even though at the start it was a bitter pill to swallow... I have no regrets, people are hard work 😏
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
That's the way of the world
@imwatchingonyoutube5024 Жыл бұрын
I’m not coping
@imwatchingonyoutube5024 Жыл бұрын
@@dennismclaurin1487 You’re right it is
@Ninof332 жыл бұрын
How I suffered when I tried to live like everyone else, confirm, and fit in.
@ericpaulino68562 жыл бұрын
With my multiple personalities,i never feel alone..the strength & majesty of the lone wolf
@gertrudewest4535 Жыл бұрын
I definately stand out in society like a sore thumb- I think for myself and have true love for living things and reject the corporate manufactured life. I get bullied and run off of jobs frequently.
@rogerpetronius2 жыл бұрын
This is by far not only the best video of Enzelgänger, but of philosophy in general that I've ever watched.
@alancheng62062 жыл бұрын
Having the mental strength and support when you're forging you're own path is important. Once you've got those it can be really fulfilling making your own choices and feeling like you're in complete control of your life.
@garethpaxton49342 жыл бұрын
Nothing is worse than being surrounded by people.
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
Luke 21:20
@CR-xr7xp2 жыл бұрын
Living like this is difficult. However I am hoping to find God through non conformity. I believe this can be done, wish you all the best.
@risa47812 жыл бұрын
I enjoy studying Monastic theology, and how they live, and being closer to God. Maybe it would be something of interest for you as well.
@CR-xr7xp2 жыл бұрын
@@risa4781 Hi Risa, thank you for recommending. I'll be sure to make it a part of my journey, it looks very interesting
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
Rom.12:2
@jaywalker30872 жыл бұрын
I’m never alone. I have my books. The human race disgusts me and greed disgusts me more. I love living on my own. I’ve been in relationships and was even married for a short while, but at 63 I couldn’t imagine being responsible for someone else’s happiness. I get up when I want, I go to bed when I want. I go out when I want, I come home when I want. Most people are sheep, but not me . In ‘77 I was a Punk and still am . I love the way people look at me and can’t work me out. I don’t wear your labels, I make up my own mind and have never confirmed . My father told me I ‘dropped out’ at the age of 7 . I believe in Good but not god. Society Sucks! I’m happiest in nature , away from the morons , alone? with the animals and birds.
@pro_razemobilegaming2 жыл бұрын
🙌
@jaykay7093 Жыл бұрын
Agree, humans are the most disgusting animals on the planet
@OziBlokeTimG Жыл бұрын
Ha Ha, your not alone, Im with you all the way. Take care bro.
@1reviravoltanotempo611 Жыл бұрын
Você è extremista! Ainda bem que ninguem gosta de você
@8bitneslife1985 Жыл бұрын
What is your definition of good? You don't believe in God, and have presumably created your own moral standard, or do you follow the moral standard of another human being? And if you do follow another human being's definition of good, why follow that particular human above all others? (Nietzsche created his own moral standard, and you can read all about his sad final years online.) Whatever a person values most in their life becomes their own personal god, whether it be themselves, another person, a hobby, etc. Everyone has a god. Whatever you desire the most and spend the most time fulfilling that desire, behold, that is your god. Jesus was a nonconformist. he spoke of the evils of society, and made many uncomfortable. Society hated Jesus so much that they put Him to death. His Resurrection still divides and infuriates people to this day. Most of today's conformist society reject Jesus, and only a few nonconformists accept Him. No Jesus, No good. Know Jesus, Know good.
@ChEvYoLa Жыл бұрын
Man, this video was superb; and your calming voice and narration! 💆♂️ I refuse to be a conformist sheep by not buying and collecting wealth and material things; by not frantically running behind money and success; by making a choice to never have wife and kids; by selecting a career path less taken by others; by making a choice to not die from old age; by being an atheist and religionless; by not giving a care to what people think about/of me and my decisions; by questioning the purpose of life and the universe instead of simply living like an obedient sheep with no questions asked.. and needless to say, I'm 101% at peace knowing I will live the remainder of my life without much worries, tensions, headache, pain, energy and efforts and money expenditure 💆♂️
@godofdeath8785 Жыл бұрын
Yeah that good thing but its really hard to live like that
@ChEvYoLa Жыл бұрын
@@godofdeath8785 it's really not. At least for me, it's not. I'm in immense peace because of whatever I have mentioned
@metalninja24742 жыл бұрын
This couldn't have come at a more important time for me, currently standing at my own crossroads considering where I go next - strike out on my own path or remain in comfy convenience as I have been encouraged by the former and tempted by the latter...
@123prestolee2 жыл бұрын
I’ve always felt ‘other’ - the older I get, the better it feels.
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
Maybe, the saying, 'Hell is other people ', has something to do with it ( Continued health and well-being)
@peterpacciani6662 жыл бұрын
The Loner's Path: my life since forever
@tania28972 жыл бұрын
It's not that I decided to not follow society's norms, I seem to be unable to.
@dennismclaurin1487 Жыл бұрын
Rom.12:2
@itslittttttt71112 жыл бұрын
thank u for this video, it gave me confidence on the path I'm walking, the path of Übermensch
@buckynakid2 жыл бұрын
I have more difficulty dealing with others and more peaceful when I’m alone .
@angeladawn8052 жыл бұрын
Again, if I only saw this in my teens.... Thank you so much for posting, I'll be sure to let my own teenagers see this. :)