Being a Mom is HARD | Elanna Pecherle 2019

[@Amy-oc2ui]

Oh girl...I can't even tell you how many times I've cried from mom stress alone. My kids are teenagers now and I still have to have a few minutes to get my bearings. You are doing great.

[@stylebyelle8450]

I've been following since before you got married and had a baby. I just want to say in your mommy moments it's ok to want space from your kid, to be frustrated and annoyed with them. Its natural and it doesnt make you a bad mom or a failure at parenthood. You're doing a great job and somedays just to sane and get a few moments to breathe is still progress. Dont be so hard on yourself and maybe consider placing her in a daycare once a week to give her some experience with being away from you. Keep doing a good job!! Xoxo

[@ladys7388]

it is great that you have such a nice relationship with your in-laws. You have a beautiful soul

[@nickischroeder6048]

Prayers for you! The hard times really are the hardest of times where we as moms can feel so alone. Worship music gets us through the dark days, too. Teething is an insane time. My son recently got 8 teeth within a month (all four first molars and all four canines). There was no sleep for anyone in the house. Combined with growth spurts, leaps, regressions, a couple colds..... every day I would meditate the words “give me Jesus”, over and over and over. You got this mama!!! This community of moms online is incredible and you are not alone! We are going through it or have gone through it already... solidarity! 💗💗

[@zenosperformance1125]

Thank you for the courage to be real. People like you can be trusted. Life has it's ups and downs, certainly motherhood. Remember that the capacity for our joy is in proportion to our capacity to overcome pain (challenges). God bless you and your beautiful family. Love you!

[@s0yunagataaa]

I love this comment so much. Thank you for sharing your wisdom. - mama of a 15 month old

[@desirichardtf]

I really appreciate that your showing those real moments of what it’s like being a mom. I’ve had those moments where it’s tough to keep your cool and all you want to do is break down. My son is only 4 months and it most definitely does not get easier, but it’s worth it. Being a mom is hard so props to you because your doing great. Thanks for keeping it real.

[@lauraholden6328]

As a pregnant wife of our first. These videos are so encouraging to me. Thanks for showing the good and bad 💕

[@Munmun_D]

I’m watching this as my 12 week baby takes a nap. It’s my time to myself and I totally feel your pain. My son spent first 4 weeks crying (what felt like) 24/7, wouldn’t sleep at night or during the day and him being my second child, there were moments I would sit on the kitchen floor and just cry first thing in the morning. Things do get better with age. He’s now 12 weeks and has improved so much. Just keep telling yourself it’s only a phase, and things will get better. And most importantly you are not alone. As a mother we have all had those moments of “I can’t do this anymore”....joys of motherhood 🤪. All the best xoxo

[@caitlin6366]

Elanna, I very rarely comment on videos, and obviously I don't know you, but you are a wonderful mother handling rough times with grace. I have a 5 year old daughter and she has been a stubborn and feisty spirit since day 1. Parenting is truly a rollercoaster--sometimes it's minute to minute, just getting by, and sometimes it feels like the sweet moments couldn't last long enough. My unsolicited advice is remember to take care of you--it IS productive to take time to unwind. It's not laziness, it's all about absorbing the time to recharge and reset. It is ok to leave Olive in her crib/a safe space while you take a break. Remember, this too shall pass. Commend yourself for making it through each day 👐🏻 you got this Mama!

[@shannilovely]

I love how you get on so well with your in laws, that makes life a lot easier! I have two little girls, and I get you completely. Motherhood is super tough- but it gets easier as time goes on and when I’m going through a rough phase, I try to actively work on enjoying my life as it is. There’s nothing I can change and I can’t speed time up, so I have to look for rays of sunshine through the clouds. Lots of love xx

[@sarahgrullon3486]

My son went through that stage and it’s hard! He’s 1 and 1/2 now and he still gets like that from time to time if he wakes up from a nap. The best thing to do is what you’re doing. Just take a moment and also just let them cry it out. Being calm is so difficult but if you’re not, they will feed off of your frustration and emotion. 😊When they’re ready to be consoled, they’ll let you know. You’re a great mama 🥰

[@westiemae]

This was amazing. As a mom, I totally felt your pain and frustration in that moment and i think its so important we share it so we know we're not alone. Being a parent is so amazing and lovely but its also the hardest job in the world. My 10 week old is already teething so we've been thrown into difficult days really early. Sometimes it feels like im all alone and i cant wait for this time to pass, but then i remember these days are short and she will soon be grown. Hang in there, mama. You're doing great 💖

[@cormaba]

lol olive sitting behind you in the car is adorable i cant take it💕💕💕💕

[@sierradawson7390]

Oh, girl, same. My 11 month old is pushing 6 teeth at once, and 3 teeth cut this weekend. It's been ROUGH! I shed a couple tears myself. Sending you hugs, and peaceful vibes. We'll get through this!

[@carleyjackson5064]

Elanna you are so real and relatable. You have a lot of support out here, we love you!! You always look beautiful even with no makeup and you are beautiful on the inside too. I’ve been going through a tough time recently and although you may feel really unmotivated to make vlogs sometimes they really do have an impact on people’s lives, keep up the great work! Xxx

[@Courtney-iq4vu]

Thank you for sharing and for reminding me how much worship helps. It gets super tough at times. You're doing amazing!! God's got us. He made you that baby girls mom for a perfect reason!

[@Poodlemama1234]

Awwww, you’re such a brilliant Mama. Hang in there. “This too shall pass”. Sending peaceful thoughts to you all, especially to my favourite KZbin baby, beautiful Olive!

[@kw118015]

Hang in there momma, you are doing great. Just remember, these stages are temporary. My 10 month old is going through the same thing, and at the end of the day I thank the Lord. No matter how hard it gets, there's nothing we can't do in small doses. You're amazing and someone I admire. Thank you for sharing your story with us, it helps us remember no matter how glamorous things appear, we are all human and experience the same things. ♥️

[@lovelylivie14]

I just LOVE your faith! ❤️ So happy you got through that hard time with little bit! ❤️ you can do it Momma!!!!

[@TheCurlySimmer]

You are not alone!!!!! Taking a break for self care is a MUST as a parent. Hugs to you!

[@trishreblin8978]

I really appreciate your honesty! It seems like everyone on social media has babies that never cry. ❤️

[@angelamullis7343]

Oh my sweet! I wish I could reach thru this video and give you a big ole hug! You are an amazing momma and Olive is so beautiful! You did a great job on the blanket and I'm glad you got a little mommy time in. Sending love an squishy hugs from the US!

[@HarryThomasPictures]

Oh sweetie you are such a awesome Mom❤️!

[@Hannah28995]

You’re such an amazing mum and so thankful you share the good and the bad! You’re doing great xxx

[@allisonk.4803]

My heart goes out to you ❤️ Mom life is no joke and taking a few minutes to yourself is sometimes the best thing you can do. My son has gotten all of his teeth so far in groups, so we have weeks at a time where we are all in misery. Just know that you're not alone! Prayers are coming your way 🤗

[@kaitlindibble]

After I typed up my first comment, my 2 year old woke from his nap, and is having meltdown after meltdown.we have had a very challenging week. His brothers have been sick so I'm guessing that is what's going on with him as well. Oh my...I spend a few good minutes crying. Sometimes that's what I need. Said a prayer. Hoping things turn around.love and blessings to you and your family❤

[@melissaparrill5513]

Big hugs and we all go through this as parents 💜 your doing a great job sweetie 😊

[@haleyhanniford8709]

Elanna, you’re a wonderful mama! Some days are just hard ❤️

[@emilyphillips7826]

Being a mum is the hardest job in the world - you’re doing a great job! Xx

[@Themanganos1980s]

I’m sorry you were feeling that way that day. Being a mom is so hard so much of the time, but also so rewarding (as you know). I’m so grateful you didn’t cut that footage out because we’ve all been there and it helps to see that even girls like you, that are so put together, have days like this. I sure hope Olive is feeling better soon! Love your new MAC lipstick and those nails are rad!

[@JudithVanDenDool]

Hugs dear... U are doing great.. This also will pass.. 🌺❤️

[@matildamillar4916]

You’re doing such an amazing job! Oh my goodness, being a mum is actually so tough. I honestly don’t know how you do it all! Days can seem so long sometimes, just keep at it 💕

[@bdstairways]

I just started knitting and that arm knitting looks so fun!!! Love the throw!!!

[@vivianaslosiarikova3433]

Love your videos! ❤️ wishing you a lot of patience with your little sweet baby!

[@ingvildxo8230]

Hang in there, momma❤️ You are the best mom she could ever asked for, and she loves you so SO much❤️

[@KaylaJuravle]

You’re such a good mama! Praying for a better week next week!

[@Ca_1021]

This is a great reminder to me that my parents do so much for me. Thanks for sharing your struggles. Also, glad to see you have an assistant thats awesome! she's so cute. x

[@collywoowoo]

As a mama of 4 it gets easier! We have a baby with colic and those screeching hours will test your sanity. It always passes and you have to try to remember to give yourself grace. You’re learning as you go and she won’t need you like this forever. It’s so hard but you’re doing great even if you don’t see it yet

[@jessbatt100]

Great job on the blanket!! It’s really cool!

[@amyfoster3732]

Hang in there!! You are a wonderful Mom and it will get easier again. I remember being so overwhelmed when my girls went from baby to toddler and were literally into every little thing! It was crazy!! And then K-4 and K-5 when they catch everything known to man....whew! You can do it though!! My girls are older now and everything has mellowed out again. For now! 😂Motherhood definitely is a never ending roller coaster! I wouldn’t trade it for anything though! Sending prayers your way!! 💕

[@GirlnMirror]

Thank you for being real

[@jmr2729]

I’m a first time mom and your daughter is a month older than my son and I understand where you are coming from and feeling overwhelmed. My son had colic from day one ☝🏽 and I would break down often. My son is still not an easy baby but I freaking love him and we finally have it down. Sometimes he does get “wild” but his my wild thing & im more confident to know that I’m a great mother and I know what I’m doing. What I’m trying to say is that remember that god made you a mother for a reason and you got this

[@carmenspecht7511]

Have watched your channel for a long time and always love all of your videos! Keep your chin up - I know the hard days (mom of two boy toddlers). At that age, they go through lots of growth, mentally and physically - she’s just growing up and ready to be a fun toddler :)

[@aprilcarney558]

Where is the blue/mint color sweater from. I love it 🥰

[@mariefrancelorrain1859]

I was wandering as well! So pretty!

[@aleksandramichnowska9556]

I'm also curious 😍

[@evilqueen09]

My mom said I was like that when I was a baby, my grandma told her that she had to let me cry and not pick me up, she said I know it hurts to hear her cry but you need to let her cry out and eventually she will stop; because if not she’s not going to let you do anything and is going to become really dependent. Any time she’s just going to cry out because she knows you’ll pick her up. Just MO, I turned out great. But yea my mom said I would scream and screech when I was a baby and teething

[@Stillnessandspaces]

Oh girl I have been going through the same thing today. Have you ever tried the wonder weeks? It could be that she is going through a leap along with teething. Hugs to you, motherhood is such a beautiful thing but man is it hard.

[@mrsdrhux]

My daughter was just the same at this age. After much despair, I got her an amber necklace. It literally saved my sanity. The moment I put it on her, she was instantly calmer. She wore it day and night until she started primary school at 5 years old.it is supposed to have properties that help with teething, and for us, it 100% took the edge off her screaming during teething . X

[@Lyn_DS]

Ooooh the way you do olive her hair is exactly how my mama did mine and I was always so excited, I called it my pineapple or my palm tree! If I ever have a little girl, I will do the same to her hair ☺️ love the animal print set for Olive!

[@Policosmetics82]

We have all been there! And we still are even several times a day :) Stay strong! This will pass too :)

[@HaleyEby]

Motherhood is definitely a selfless job! You are doing great mama! This age is definitely hard. There will probably be a few months here when Olive will be very clingy! We call it the clinger stage!😂😂 My 5th just turned 2 and she’s finally super independent and not wanting to be held all of the time! You’ve got this!💪🏻

[@mcred1264]

I feel you Elanna - I'm currently going through the same thing with my 18 month old son and it is so hard sometimes but I keep reminding myself that it is only a phase that he's going through and it will go away sooner or later..but yeah lots and lots of prayers and positive thinking helps! - Much love from Windsor, Ontario!

[@katie2920]

Small foam ear plugs --don't put them all the way in your ears because you don't want to block her out completely. BUT...it will at least muffle the screech ...I figured this out on my second child. It keeps you sane while your holding her or weening her off of stuff :)

[@kessliempire2259]

Loved the vlog!!💝 it’s totally normal for babies her age to be like that with the screaming and being needy which you know of course. I nanny 5 girls between the ages of 2 years old and 7 months. I love them all very much, but one of my sweet babies I nanny is very needy and I can’t put her down without her crying. I even have to hold her for naps which makes me sore, lol. And she cries when I leave to use the bathroom. She needs to touch me at all times. All in all you’re not alone. I’m not a mom, just a college student, but I definitely feel like a mom sometimes. You’re fortunate you only have one baby right now. Just wait.... haha I’ve had my bad days for sure and almost been in tears from the stress. Teething is a monster for sure lol. You’re doing awesome!!! 😎 Thanks for sharing your journey parenting.

[@lucyjones5653]

Count yourself lucky that she naps! The minute my son hit 13 months, he would nap NO MORE. Not at all. Not even 5 minutes. At least you get regular breaks while she naps. Appreciate them!! xx

[@JohannaB19]

You seem like such a lovely person. We are lucky to have you in Ireland 🇮🇪❤️

[@Toriaraneyxo]

You have become my favorite you tuber, you are so real and I can completely relate to the mom stress, my little man is 3 almost 4 and hes still attached to my hip hahahah ah I love it but sometimea you need your mommy time, a healthy balance! And you are doing great mama, I still am trying to find my balance as a stay at home mom too but ANYWAYS! love your videos love your makeup reccomendations always! Thank you! 😘💕

[@Jennbizzle]

I see that Pixi PR package!! My littles loved it too!!!

[@rachelhoward2480]

Girl, motherhood is HARD. Don't beat yourself up. 💚

[@jazzy47827]

Mom Life gets Better it takes time

[@keerthisinha410]

Love from India Ellana!😘 Keep going, love and hugs to you!

[@karsonjarrett2254]

Does anyone know what the Kylie lipstick at around 20:20 was? :)

[@kathleenelise4834]

Olive is so peaches and cream and precious I can’t take it!! 😭😍

[@kemjh3710]

Good job mama - motherhood stress is real. Could Olive be going through a leap? I find the Wonder Weeks app so useful x

[@michellerenee8012]

I liked before watching (I’m at work) I’m so excited to watch later 🥰🥰

[@AshleyYourLifeHisVoice]

It really is so amazing how worship music changes the atmosphere. And may I say how it encourages emotional releases we didn't know we needed! 😂👏

[@granciee7029]

Olive is precious, your press on nails are beautiful and I love your videos...

[@mimitinsley3807]

Love and hugs sweet one. You're doing great!

[@annabelNZ]

What lip colour did you put on just before the 20 minute mark? I LOVE the colour! :)

[@dellar6358]

Poor baby mine always had a rough time with teething I loved baby Motrin that always seemed to work the best for us sending lots of love over to you guys 💚

[@Rebecca-pr3fn]

Gosh, Olive is getting so big now,, such a beautiful girl. Opera music worked for me I put it on and my children would go to sleep it worked well for me and them. XO

[@sladjananikolic]

Fav youtuber 😊 girl,please understand that it's okay to feel frusterated with lil Olive. I got the feeling that you felt guilty about it and you shouldn't. I have two recommendations and I hope they come off the right way: 1) Olive is a little adult,a small human. She needs to be taught (trained all though I hate the way that sounds 😕) early on to be patient,to wait for her mom to finsih what she's in the middle of...she needs to be taught to be independent and that she won't always get her way. Will it be perfect? Of course not. Will she still be fussy? Of course. Even as adults we are still learning these qualities and pefecting them so it's no surprise if Olive is struggling with it at 1yrs old 🙂 2) Maybe you should get Olive to learn that you aren't always around? Like have her with interact with other kids with out you in the room or more stand offish or try to get her more used to you leaving the room and coming back. Being a youtuber or even a stay at home mom I'm sure it can make that more difficult to teach a child to be more independent and less clingy. ❤

[@Poodlemama1234]

Sladjana Nikolic Nonsense. You cannot force a child to be independent. It is only by being there every time they need you, that you teach them to trust, and it is this trust that you WILL be there for them that encourages independence. Also, babies and children are NOT mini adults. They have neither the cognitive nor emotional capabilities of adults. Treating them as mini adults is a recipe for disaster. Treating them appropriately for their age and stage of development is absolutely vital, as is seeing them as the individual they are and respecting their needs. Perhaps you can tell me what child development qualifications you have? I will then make sure to steer well clear.

[@sladjananikolic]

@@Poodlemama1234 relax, nothing bad was meant. I meerly meant it might not hurt to start letting Olive try to learn to be on her own a bit. People are so nasty on here and so quick to argue. Sheesh. As for the mini adult comment. Every child will eventually grow up to be one so learning to be patient ie teaching her to be parient can start super earlt with baby steps. It was all but a suggestion. You can keep your negative and aggressive comments to your self. I'd also like to add that I in no way meant that a parent should NOT give their child attention. That would be ridiculous and unrealistic but at the same time I think it's important to recognize the difference of when your child neally needs to be held VS just crying to cry. Elanna mentioned not being able to make the bed or go to the bathroom without Olive seeking to be held and crying. I think that too is un realistic. I meant no disrespect. Thank you 😁

[@chelseaw9355]

What worship did you put on? I would love recommendations! 🙏🏻✨

[@Kristika09]

I really like your snake print tops where is it from??

[@harrietandthebird]

Having babies is hard! My little boy is similar to Olive in the way that he’s very easy going most of the time. But when he’s having a bad day, don’t I know it!! Love your blue jumper. Where is it from? It’s super nice! Xx

[@cormaba]

love u elanna hate seeing you upset :(

[@kate-from-studio-huske]

Hang on in there. We had that phase with my son three weeks ago, he's almost the same age, he was born at the end of February. It now seems to have passed. Hope it does so for you guys soon, K

[@MaddiedeVillada]

I attended a basket weaving course a year back. So relaxing :).

[@shellym9657]

It might be an ear infection. My daughter never showed the normal signs. Her only indicator was a temperament change.

[@cocokaschu8467]

It takes a village to raise a child. It’s important for children to have several caregivers which they trust. So i included my whole family and friends in raising my children.

[@beaniesmalls1]

You’re a good mommy! Hang in there! 2 quick questions: 1) what worship? 2) what brand were those nails again?

[@andreamaxwell9158]

I feel for u sweetie ❤️motherhood is tough xx

[@user-fl8hc7bw1f]

Hi Elanna, you always talk so openly about your religion & faith and I absolutely love it. though I'd like to ask, are you conservative with your religion, what are your opinions for example on lbgtq+ people? Or are you more liberal despite your faith?

[@courtneyf8324]

What worship music do you like? Always looking for recommendations to play for my two sons. Hang in there with the teething and growth spurts mama, these too shall pass, hugs!

[@annawebb8652]

I think it's called the separation phase. It'll pass, you are doing a great job!

[@katiamanfredi7465]

I luv Paddy

[@rociotm8934]

Even though Olive is paddy’s twin I feel as she grows she’s going to look more and more like you.

[@andreacouillard414]

Love you Xxx

[@kaylarenae790]

I’m so jealous Olive is walking. My girl is 14 months and still not walking.

[@stucumins8511]

Don’t worry....there is considerable variance when babies walk....and the timing is not an indicator of coordination or intelligence. If toddlers are not walking at 20 months there is reason for concern and investigation . Enjoy the non walking stage....life becomes way more hectic once they are on their feet. 😀

[@pippaDlightful]

"GROWTH SPURT" ... those words STILL put the fear of God into me!!! 😣 And I listen to Joel Osteen on youtube.. great worship.. motivational prayer..💞 Big hugs for you honey... xx

[@Larish10]

Remind yourself that it's just a phase and it will pass. Teenagers are much worse lol!

[@michellewestin5202]

Thank you for making this. I am a new mom and it’s had its days but it is such a blessing. It’s always so nice to know I’m not alone. Thank you, thank you, thank you. I hope you know you’re not alone and we are here for you. 🥹♥️ Also… I LOVE your light blue sweater!! Where did you get it?! Lol, thank you again for this. 🥰

[@ashabriTTon7777]

😯💙👪💙

[@kaitlindibble]

Sweet Elanna, parenting can be so hard. I'm hoping you've been having better days ♡ But it really is such a short season of this life. When I'm having those difficult moments, I try to pray for God to provide me with what I'm needing so I can provide my family with what they're needing. Those moments grow us mothers, make us stronger, and help us to realize just how much we need God every second. We can't do it alone. Amen to the power of worship music! As a worship leader wife, I definitely get that. Thank you for your honesty and your heart ♡ kzbin.info/www/bejne/r3u2nYeEiLGia6M joeldibble.bandcamp.com/releases

[@meganm1834]

I’m sorry she’s being a pain in the ass but she’s seriously the cutest little baby she knows she’s a pain in the ass and she’s like but ma I’m cute tho