Russian women answer what they look for in a man

Russian girls prefer to date foreigners - is it true or only a stereotype? Let's ask people in the streets of Moscow!
1:15 - Is it true that Russian women prefer to marry foreigners?
3:20 - What are the reasons of large amount of women dating foreigners?
6:22 - Would they personally want to date a Russian or a foreigner?
8:37 - Does nationality, skin color and race matter when choosing a partner?
9:30 - What do Russian women look for in a partner for relationships?
11:20 - What do men think about this topic?
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[@markupton1417]

I married a Russian woman. We met in college. This year is our 27th anniversary.

[@bipsschool-t9]

You made for each other forever

[@TSMC123]

Wow, amazing and congratulations

[@talaverajr391]

Damn that's an achievement.

[@kenkemzura903]

Good for you sir and congratulations 👏.

[@danielcroitor8181]

Wow 27 years with a russian that wasn't easy i quest.

[@bobothepittie5578]

I met my wife in Russia and this weekend we celebrated our 23rd wedding anniversary. She is the love of my life.

[@adad-ec6ht]

Do they like Brown guys ?

[@justafly1243]

Are Russian womens tasty?

[@TheCiphernet]

@@adad-ec6ht Yes, they know Pushkin was black. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alexander_Pushkin

[@МагаШайтанович]

@@TheCiphernet Pushkin had 1/6 of Afro blood, the other 5 ancestors were white. and he did not consider himself black, it depressed him.

[@shironushi6549]

@New Jack City RN youre so hateful. Wonder what you are. 😂😂

[@Realivangarcia]

I like how they don’t bullshit and get straight to the point.

[@fpsserbia6570]

it is too cold for bullshit 😂😂😂

[@Nimai_Aquino]

In the region of Brazil were I live people are known for being funny and warm (even by brazilian standards). We tell a whole life history (with a lot of jokes) to get to the point. Its annoying sometimes, id like to people to cut the bullshit now and then.

[@cryptfire3158]

@@brianpetersen2364 yeah, i was going to mention German are that way. If it's north America, some of them have tatoos, they cut their hair short, when asked a question, sometimes they will hide their face, or laugh or make an excuse rather then answer. Not all fit that discription, but many do.

[@obamalastname34]

I think it has something to do in language itself?

[@Čangrizavi_Cinik]

@@brianpetersen2364 wrong, germans are very polite, then talk behind your back. Slavs will show emotions without filters

[@truthalwayswins3078]

If I could speak Russian and was 45yrs younger, I'd stay in Russia. People are very friendly and respectful.

[@HeritageCast]

Dude European women in their 40s and 50s look 20 lol. Get a ticket...

[@guerrilla_radio]

It's a myth

[@clsammo]

Met my wife over the internet. We corresponded for a year and then I went to visit her in Russia (Kolpino, Leningrad Oblast). After a week, I proposed and she accepted. That was 20 years and two sons ago. She is still a stunner, highly intelligent, and very successful here in Colorado. She did have a bad time with culture shock when she first arrived but now loves it here. Anyone can make such a marriage work, but for the husband it has to be all about the wife and for the wife, her husband. We are still on our honeymoon

[@quickdraw2532]

By chance is your wife in the insurance sales field?

[@clsammo]

@@quickdraw2532 No

[@saville1712]

Beautiful mate . Its a team effort from both .

[@johnrollex680]

@@A-Aron118 there is a certain extent to which women in the US are just less desirable. Obviously it's a spectrum, but there is very much a double standard culture for a lot of things with regard to women in America. Even saying that is offensive to a lot of people even though it's thoroughly obvious. And yeah, it's difficult to put up with the BS. I did go find a good wife here in the states, but it wasn't easy.

[@BFVK]

@@A-Aron118 If you could know how much clever russian girls are in comparison of US girls...

[@mjlotus]

These young women seem very sensible and practical, without being mercenary. If they are typical of the young women of Russia, the country has a bright future.

[@MiraX871]

All the Russian boys I have met in my country-Bulgaria, have always been intelligent and extremely well-mannered. Love to all Russian brothers and sisters!

[@bobekvelky4129]

agree with you, kudos to Russia, our Slavic brothers and sisters

[@ericmckinley7985]

I have met many Bulgarians in America- the best people, old and young. Wow, are they kind.

[@MiraX871]

@@ericmckinley7985 Thank you! People I know-yes. :)

[@ericmckinley7985]

@@MiraX871 old grandmother who just wanted to talk and feed me, and a kid in high school one year younger than me always talking to me on the bus. He moved back- if you know someone named Nemko in Sofia, ask him if he lived in USA.

[@MiraX871]

@@ericmckinley7985 OK, but probably there are a lot of people in Sofia with that name.

[@nikos.1111]

My granma was Russian, she was very intelligent and absolutely beautiful. Married my granpa here in Greece and lived happily ever after. She raised me well and I personally admire Russian women.

[@Ksana086]

Вау! Наше поколение бабушек были лучшие

[@SenyorCapitàCollons]

White Russian?

[@nikos.1111]

@@SenyorCapitàCollons is that a joke or you are just out for cocktails

[@kiska-Lariska]

Горжусь русскими девочκами, кто свои яицеклетки обогащает иностранными генами во имя здоровой нации) Glory to the Motherland!

[@toddmaggio2032]

I am amazed to see that so many young people in Russia speak English so fluently.

[@freddiethompson58]

@@Andrey-vy9bb They would have all of them passed with their English in Canada though.

[@freddiethompson58]

@@Andrey-vy9bb Sorry to say that but only in England, and even there, the commoners English is a bit different from the higher class of the society. The US is also an emigrant country, and their English in Scotland will be just fine as well.

[@tenpercentfordabigguy8550]

@@Andrey-vy9bb That level of English is acceptable in Australia. My wife is Serbian and her English isnt perfect but nobody cares. Its only if you dont try speaking English here that people dont especially like,

[@tenpercentfordabigguy8550]

@@Andrey-vy9bb Yes and in Australia if you cant speak very good English the government will pay for you to learn You only have to want to.

[@tenpercentfordabigguy8550]

@@Andrey-vy9bb Thanks. I didn't know that

[@blessedwithchallenges9917]

There is a common trend in the U.S. where married women are leaving their husbands. My wife got pregnant from another man while we were married. She left me and our 12yr old son and had the baby with the other guy. Now she's with a totally different guy. I raised my son, homeschooled him, sent him to college, now we work together and are building his first house. I ended up finding who I thought was my true love while my son was in college. We married and had some good years, but she ended up leaving as well, after I supported her to get her bachelor's and master's degree. Women approach me often to date me, but now I wonder what they hope to get out of me. I don't think they're intentions are really to go through life together, but rather what they can get out of a man before going to the next man. I want to share life with someone special, but it's hard to trust anymore. I just focus on sharing life with my son and my brother, sister, and father. Hopefully I could find someone, but I don't know how to believe a woman's true intentions anymore.

[@okakokakiev787]

V

[@ranveergodara8961]

Really a sad story 😢. Indian culture is believed to repeat american culture . But personally I don’t support this type of stuffs, I personally want India to advance in science and technology but our culture is great ❤imo . Worlds minimum divorce rate and almost 98 percent marriages last till death 😎

[@marcosmuniz3372]

Sorry to say that sir, but she used you as stair to grow up in her life/career. I hope you find peace and please, forget these women.

[@saffisidhu1219]

True almost all usa women are like this. At least you enjoy good P

[@Emmanuel-wh4hh]

Damn bro. That’s very sad. Life is really hard, but it’s good to always thank God because it could be worse.

[@SG-js2qn]

Nobody mentioned the problem with leaving their family and friends. I think that would be very hard for most people marrying someone from overseas and then going to live with them.

[@d36williams]

I think we see why now

[@meralEdwtDawlatly]

mostly everyone is alone these days

[@Yourebeautyfull]

Because she didn't asked the question. She just asked if they would like to date them, not move to their country. Dating someone doesn't mean you are going to relocate. It could very well mean foreigners who are living in Russia themselves.

[@TheRaghorn]

Let me help you. They really dont care much about leaving their firends because they say they can find new friends. But they will stay in touch with female friends but rarely a male friend, so you never need to worry about them going back to old boyfriend etc. Next, family. Yes it is hard for them to leave parents only for the most part, but they always say they will visit someday, so they do not think of it as they are in another country, but as though they are much closer. And this is from personal experiance with 4 different ladies I have brought to US to start new life here, but only one was for myself, 11 years ago.

[@chucklynch6523]

The biggest issue most Russian women that want to find a Western guy is that they do not speak English, German, French, Italian, Spanish, etc. Yes, there is such a device as a translator that we can use on our computers and I-phones, but translators do not really convey the spiritual content that needs to be conveyed in any romantic relationship.

[@Geoffrey___]

The best thing about this channel by far is that Eli gives you an insight and window into all of these interesting places and people in Russia, and you inevitably discover that people are the same everywhere. Everybody wants the same things and values the same things.

[@Nexus-6]

As a Canadian guy, I love how direct Russian women are, they tell it like it is. No nonsense, no mind games. The world is f#@ked up enough and the people we let into our hearts should be our shelter from the storm of the outside world.

[@honesty_-no9he]

You have my sympathy and empathy....metropolitan Canadian women....awful ! I have a theory that MGTOW was originally provoked by the women of Toronto and Montreal.

[@blank1505]

Men say they like women who “tell it like it is” until that woman becomes their partner. lol

[@sassymenses]

@@arty5876 cuz all russian women are russophobes...

[@aeganratheesh]

Lol the ones that tried to scam me were Russians

[@thehumbler6412]

@@honesty_-no9he mgtow was provoked by hollywood.

[@kevinfelix2543]

as a Canadian who spent the better part of 3 months traveling around Russia with pretty limited Russian speaking skills, people simply want to meet new people from abroad, sure there are those who want to marry and leave but many just want to interact, make friends and improve there own English. i had this experience in Krasnoyarsk where a young couple running a coffee van invited me into there van with free coffee to meet me and improve their English while of course exchanging cultural differences. love the trip, would love to go back soon.

[@rameshsingh2480]

Yes go back when you like and meet them again because connectivity increases closeness and decreases cultural differences.

[@kevinfelix2543]

@@rameshsingh2480 I think I could of better said exchanging cultures then cultural differences

[@leahflower9924]

have you been to scandinavia also? i was wondering if they love to meet americans/foreigners, specifically the men lol

[@lordseal9537]

I think it's a beautiful experience

[@kevinfelix2543]

@@leahflower9924 they like to meet people from all over. Stay at hostels is the key to meeting people. I met 3 Norwegian chicks, one fin and one dainish chick in an 8 bed dorm at a hostel in New Zealand. Talk about Dam! You never know who your gonna meet

[@timelston4260]

Wow, Russian women are impressive. They are mature and have great values. That man you interviewed also had great values.

[@denisheath5681]

Yes, Russian people are great, it is a pity so many of their men become alcoholics. And Russian nationalism has become a problem again, under Putin, who presents well, but is a murderous Mafia Don. If they would only get out of Eastern Ukraine, the sanctions could be dropped and we could all be "friends" again. They can keep the Crimea. 🙂

[@fghfsdhidsefuygvf5991]

@@denisheath5681 I'm more worried about Ukrainian nationalism. And I don't believe that sanctions would be dropped.

[@ВладимирАлексеев-ъ1д]

the same values as yours to live rich and beautiful

[@ВладимирАлексеев-ъ1д]

@@denisheath5681 you are deceived I myself am from Ukraine what nationalism can be if we are of the same blood

[@denisheath5681]

You are probably of the same blood because your family moved to the Eastern Ukraine in the 30s, to replace the millions that Stalin starved to death by shipping nearly all their farm produce to Moscow, for years. Ukraine is a sovereign nation, if you don't like it, move to Russia. They do not threaten Russia, that is all Putin propaganda/spin for a chance to invade. 🙂

[@sushimamba4281]

I had a Russian partner and it was a great relationship while it lasted. She was completely different to western / westernized women and for me that was incredibly appealing and attractive. Unfortunately, it didn't work out for us, but I still cherish the time we had together.

[@gottlobfreige1075]

What happens if a girl just goes from guy after guy, not working out, every 5 years? Will you accept her?

[@stuartbritton4811]

Dont believe a word of it.

[@conquistador9372]

Amazing interviews with highly intelligent, well spoken and attractive young women. They seem to be so rational, level headed and knowledgeable. Straight to the point, no crap and in a country where women outnumber men, consider all nationalities.

[@KBSINN]

Interesting name choice

[@johndale1300]

Russian women prefer black men over white men they are no different from white American women who prefer black men too

[@robertthrailkill1368]

I was nice to see that most of the ladies really do want true love and companionship. Refreshing to see that. Speaks well of the Russian women!

[@Maximum7077]

They want it for some time. Because its easier. If they get pregnant or sth else they have someone by their side. But its temporarly only

[@ramonsanchez5411]

My heartfelt appreciation of this Russian Lady with her dating/soulmate principle that is, "Personally, I don't care about .nationality. I care MORE about PERSONALITY and whether we are suitable for each other or not". Wishing you lady be successful for your life partner choice. God always be with you.

[@wowsupra5503]

Yes, maybe they say so. But fathers won't be that happy to see a foreigner as a husband of her daughter. Actually, all of them think about money. Easy. If you're rich, you have no problem with race.

[@glebb..3416]

@@annleo2630 Im Russian and thats sadly true for many "modern" Russian women.

[@ThatTaRaGiRL]

One thing I'm seeing in Russian women is they're nice and thin and most have really beautiful long hair! Beautiful 😍

[@Kevin-rz6lm]

No processed foods and no preservatives. All natural.

[@catstanbul8903]

@@Kevin-rz6lm Food is more natural, yes. But they're full of plastic surgeries :DD

[@johnburman966]

If I can say something as an old guy, what applies to a wife is what applies to friends. Personal integrity matters most because marriage is partnership in every way. If you can't trust your partner or friend it won't work. Other things can be learned, we change too in time, we love the differences if we are open to them. Nationality matters but it's not the basic thing. Better to live alone than with the wrong one.

[@eddiec4536]

We had a Russian exchange student for 10 months who came back to America 3 years later after her American high school year and fell in love with an American man her age. Happy to say they are happily married for 15 years with two beautiful daughters and all live in Texas.

[@Sputnick60]

In the 90s I spent six years working in Kazakhstan in the Telco sector. I found the best educated and motivated people I could have hoped for. It was a wonderful experience and would do it again without hesitation.

[@cw9790]

I am learning the Russian language and I plan to visit or possibly stay in Russia for a long time.

[@normanquednau]

me too😊

[@user-oe2ti1fb8r]

Are you working for the CIA?

[@crazybrit-nasafan]

All the ladies interviewed here seen like great people. I hope they all find the love they deserve, and the married lady has a wonderful life with her husband.

[@maciii069]

Eli, women across the world have the same values. Trust, honest love, sharing responsibilities. So if you meet a foreigner they would want the same things. I married a Samoan woman and we were married for 31 years and had 4 children, two girls 2 boys. Sadly my lovely wife passed away from cancer in 2006. Now when first married it was two different cultures which we both had to learn to deal with, especially the parents.

[@Boats_N_Hoez]

Beautiful! My husband of 7 years is Samoan as well! Such a kind loving culture. So full of life! I would die for him. There’s no human more good.

[@britskihambone8158]

The girl with the long braids is absolutely stunning.

[@meofamily4]

So many were stunningly beautiful.

[@joeputz3]

yes and different naturl colors in the braid ;o)

[@TheArcturusProject]

Yea she made me want to move

[@TheArcturusProject]

Is she single? I would fly out for a date

[@markramone69]

She's absolutely gorgeous! ❤

[@valaskimusic]

I am over a year late on commenting this, but the guy in the end is very intelligent. I really liked his take on dating foreigners and removing barriers :)

[@HolgerLovesMusic]

I like the older, married woman. You can clearly feel she is wise.

[@speedbuggy16v]

very much so, I bet she would be a great person to set and have coffee with and just talk... not to hard on the eyes either.

[@misterwhipple2870]

I like her too, and I do not like many people! She was telling the truth about everything. Of course she is married and also far too young for me! (Really, I am too old for her!)

[@larrywade9041]

Hi Eli, Thank you so much for this excellent video. Sorry that I'm 11 month's late from your video release. I was very impressed with all of the people whom you interviewed. You could see that they cared about answering very honestly. I have great respect for that. I have great respect for the Russian people & I appreciate that they are traditionalist. Please know that a great number of we American's like the Russian people; it is mostly the politic's from different nation's that seem to have problem's getting on the same page. Most common people from everywhere are basically the same. We all strive for a descent life. Wishing all Russian's a very prosperous life!! Illinois, USA

[@georgehale5133]

I like the fact that Russian women still appreciate romance and are definitely old fashioned and a bit more traditional. И они невероятные красивые 😍😍

[@lumijasminasmr3583]

A lot more traditional than us Finns at least!

[@curtsgab6493]

@@lumijasminasmr3583 Are u saying Finns are not traditional

[@curtsgab6493]

then I should make the u-turn

[@solsouth]

Ok young Russians maybe like Romance, but when they are over 35 everything changes. They are finished with romance and only want to know how you will look after them financially. And the Russian women over 40 (which I have met) actually detest men.

[@NYCVideoRider]

You are a very naive foreigner. Just what the Russian gals need :)

[@olivianisle705]

The guy at the end seemed very kind-hearted, but he seemed to be simultaneously very strong and sturdy. I appreciate the way everyone expressed themselves, they seem to be well-educated.

[@royschmidt675]

Extraordinary interviews ! It is so heartwarming to hear about desirable qualities the beautiful people of Russia have for a future loved one in their life.

[@AntonioCostaRealEstate]

Her demographics are interviewed on popular tourist hangouts. Go farther and see opinions sway. Ukrainian gals are just as pretty , and they will jump ship given a chance. Either way, Russian boys are up on bragging , Russian gals play mind games.

[@solsouth]

These are young girls around 20-25 they are nice and sweet. But once they have a few mikes on the clock, over 35 they become bitter and angry.

[@ИльяЗапольский-и5и]

@@AntonioCostaRealEstate хрена се ты аналитик! Тебя русский износиловал?:)

[@user-xo5zt3ig6h]

@Into the sunset so far you sound like the one who's bitter writing that under every comment :) Sounds like you one of those that this man was talking about :) 11:45

[@justusgovaert]

I truly agree that love doesn't depend on culture or where you're from. My girlfriend came from the Dominican Republic and moved to The Netherlands with her family because her mother married a Dutch man she met online. Me and my girlfriend love each other even when we are from quite different cultures and countries. Of course we are different but it's no problem. She moved to The Netherlands almost 2 years ago and I met her in March of this year. She can already speak Dutch quite well.

[@tolde]

I was ook 20 jaar getrouwd met een nederlander. Ik ben nu opnieuw getrouwd met iemand uit mijn eigen oost europees cultuur. Is veel beter achteraf. Ik was alleen, geen familie in NL, weinig sociale contacten, alleen op het werk. Daar maakte hij een misbruik van, ik ging naar het werk en verder moest ik lekker thuis zitten en alles doen. Hij dacht dat ik hem nooit zou kunnen verlaten omdat ik volgens hem niks en niemand had. Maar hij heeft zich daarin vergist.

[@dihanmd4857]

I'm really satisfied with that man's speech. He was talking facts & truths.

[@markrcca5329]

I have a Russian wife as well LOL. But my story is entirely different - we both grew up in the same city in Eastern Europe - I was born there, and her parents moved there for work; and we've known each other from childhood. It made a huge difference since we are from very similar cultures, and we speak Russian at home (since my Russian is a lot better than her Lithuanian!). As for some of the comments here, that a lot of thse girls can be gold-diggers who just want citizenship in a Western country - yes that can be very true. You just have to be careful. If she is hot and has a super-outgoing personality, and you're an average-looking introverted guy, it is too obvious she is only interested in your Western passport. Look for a girl that matches your looks, and more importantly, matches your personality. I've seen how quiet mild-mannered girls just go overlooked because they do not draw attention to themselves.

[@nd493]

Some of the girls are keenly aware of reality. Nice to see smart women

[@osamabinladen824]

Compared to the fake "woke" culture an "empowered" women of America. Hahahahahaha

[@laatdovahkiin7405]

Many of these Ladies speak English very well. I love how Canada and Russia look so much a like in the winter.

[@iBearcub]

you found a real MAN to talk to at the end. He gave it to you straight and to the point.

[@TheAsheybabe89]

“Real man” lol? What is a “real man” ?

[@iBearcub]

@@TheAsheybabe89 a mature male who is comfortable in their own skin and in touch w their emotions.

[@boxingmmacars23]

@@iBearcub 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🍉🍇🍎🍅🍏🍓🍒

[@Hhhh22222-w]

Yeah, he summed it up nicely, and didn't ask for too many things

[@synkronized]

@@boxingmmacars23 Sounds kinda like you're the fruity one here, if you're so bothered by a man with emotions

[@DrBLReid]

The grass is always greenes on the other side of the fence! I'm from Alabama and a clinical Doctor of Pharmacy. My wife is from Mississippi and a B.S. degree trauma nurse. She is the love of my life, ginger hair, blue eyes, fair skin and I'm sure she and Miss Eli must be kin! Ha! God Bless you Miss Eli!

[@calinrusu2962]

The Russian girls are indeed beautiful! Or maybe you carefully hand picked them for these interviews :)

[@calinrusu2962]

@Mctugger mctugger no, I'm not.

[@zachbocchino5501]

All slavic girls are so naturally beautiful.

[@zachbocchino5501]

@Samuel Lux I can confirm your statement as an American.

[@adamantiuscloudcat1799]

No. They are not. You catch pretty girls everywhere literally. Russia It's like a gigantic garden for femenine beauty.

[@AntonioCostaRealEstate]

@Samuel Lux where do Babushkas stand ?

[@royschmidt675]

The more I watch and listen to people from Russia the more I truely Love them. ❤️💕🌺

[@ктоя-п8б]

Thanks))

[@lewstone5430]

They have a fascinating history too.

[@gooiehoop20]

"Soulmate." Now that was is a key word mentioned by one of the interviewees. The most important factors in a relationship are character, personality, interests not too wide apart, and similar culture (easier to understand each other) makes life easier. Looks come far down the list for a relationship. A healthy relationship is built on love, not lust. Lust is attraction to looks, and that can lead to love, but it is not love in itself. The tendency in the West of falling in lust is one of the primary causes of the high divorce rate. Love is deeper, soul to soul, and then looks are not so important.

[@eddybrevet6816]

I guess that accounts for so many ugly people, discounting natural instinct of attractiveness as a way to curtail the sin of lust

[@ank7652]

Exactly! But the truth is that majority of people are unable to understand this 😔

[@leahflower9924]

i don't think marxism included things like soulmate in their teachings lol

[@marius-cd2np]

There are people interested only in having children, and such people are disregarding any lust. They just want a stable woman to bear and raise the children. But other people want just lust, beauty and eroticism, they are not interested in making a family. So everyone should follow the path that makes them happy.

[@acebrockton1828]

Well stated.

[@mtjensen5]

I love that most Russian women have long beautiful hair!

[@vladimir-kharin]

yes, that's for sure. Can you imagine how much time and effort it takes to take care of this beauty? :)

[@Tommy.OrginalvideosPhilly]

Most important thing is honesty!... Honesty should be the number one quality in a relationship, or marriage 🤔😁

[@farshimelt]

There's the should be then, there's the what is.

[@quickdraw2532]

Maybe true but I would put respect as number 1.

[@Hhhh22222-w]

You're wrong, it's "respect" she can't love you if she can't respect you, but she can absolutely hate you and be completely honest

[@Hhhh22222-w]

@@amanwithoutlimits she will be loyal if she respects you

[@Tommy.OrginalvideosPhilly]

@@Hhhh22222-w with honesty comes respect genius smh

[@shohinsadiev5012]

I love Russia and russians. Respect from Samarkand!

[@rubenmycox]

In short, mutual understanding, open minded, being responsible. I suppose that counts me out 😂 Nice Vid 👍🏻

[@kc4ril]

In my experience most russian girls would like to practice english and have foreign guys take them to nice places, but they have an easier time making an emotional connection with Russian men and Usually choose to marry them!!! Further more some girls told me their parents simply wouldn't approve or accept it if they want to marry someone who's not russian.

[@dimestorephilosopher3308]

The woman with the white hat and braided tails is the bomb. I say that because her voice is deep as hell.

[@Poodle_Gun]

She had some fresh takes. I liked how thought-out her opinions were.

[@Theredrain6]

Maybe you like men.

[@ernestobetancourt3216]

@@Theredrain6 ehh sum guys like women with masculine traits doesn’t mean he likes men tho

[@Theredrain6]

@@ernestobetancourt3216 lol, u sure?

[@ernestobetancourt3216]

@@Theredrain6 yes

[@samuelradang5545]

I met lots of Russian men and I can say most of them are good, humble and have good sense of humour. Mostly in the academic sector. I have yet to meet Russian men and women outside of academic. But I assume they are more or less like myself. Talking with Russians is really intriguing as I really love the country and its long history, its beautiful countryside and its diverse culture.

[@ivayloivanov4484]

Great video! I am pleasantly surprised that young people in Russia speak fluent english but russian is closer to my native language.

[@khosrowkarimi5969]

Hi Eli Thank you for your clip and interviews. I am happy to see that the girls say their own opinion freely and that they have good and respectable mind about this them. And the guys too. Big like and respect. My thanks to you and I wish you and all good girls and boys from Russia good luck and too much love. Benito from Germany

[@chriscochrane2769]

You are great at interviewing Ruskies! I've been there twice and noticed strangers aren't as approachable as in my city in CA. I have a Russian wife but she certainly didn't come here to find a husband - she came here to learn English better and married one of her teachers! PS she made way more money than I ever did!

[@tonysmith5504]

I’m 100% behind cultural exchange once we understand each other the better we all get along and learn from each other 🙏❤️🙏

[@coyotefire69420]

Very interesting interviews. I think it highlights that even among different cultures people have a lot of the same wants and desires. The last guy at the end was very articulate as well. Nice content!

[@ВладимирАлексеев-ъ1д]

so we are all plus or minus the same in our desires

[@ВладимирАлексеев-ъ1д]

capitalism completely ruined women under communism, people lived together only for love, the difference is obvious

[@gorangoran6335]

@@ВладимирАлексеев-ъ1д So true.

[@nerostile333]

As an asian, i was in a relationship with a russian girl for around 2-3 years. It was a dream at first, we understood and were honest to each other. She was the first love of my life. Then she began to contradict herself in some cases and i grew distrustful. We tried to talk things out, we broke up and reunited. It wasnt meant to be and we walked our separate ways. Before you date a russian girl, you need to see the world first, you need to grow up and become the better person in the relationship.

[@amousanon.]

After 22 yrs married to a russkiy I loved your interpretation of your experience and advice, this is very true. Being the most altruistic you can be and truly yourself is the best anyone can do.

[@CandidZulu]

Nationality and race matters to everyone, people who say otherwise are ignorant of their nature. Sometimes two people from different backgrounds can get along well. But it is always an obstacle. Preserving nationality is a way to show gratitude to your own kind.

[@Sina.g.z]

I think that you are right. Otherwise, the world would be a much more diverse place rather than countries or continents with solid borders.

[@CandidZulu]

@@Sina.g.z Both the Koran and the Bible thinks so too. God created people and nations.

[@TimtheEnchanter25]

Yep. Compatibility both culturally and genetically, as well as in terms of personality type, is the most important thing when It comes to long-term relationships. Way more important than the momentary feelings of "love" and lust which are just temporary and will fade eventually, leaving you with a person you no longer feel any kind of passion anymore, who you aren't actually compatible with. So if you want an actual relationship and a functional marriage, for the love of god, marry within your own ethnic group with someone you actually get along with.

[@TimtheEnchanter25]

​@@Sina.g.z Countries with solid borders is what makes the world diverse. If we all mixed with each other, we'd no longer have the features unique to our own ethnicities (genetic clusters) and cultures, now would we?

[@TimtheEnchanter25]

​​@@CandidZuluAnd god didn't make a mistake. Mingling with outsiders is an offense against god as well, if you wanna look at it religiously. But it is also an offense against your own genetic interests, if you wanna take a more secular stance. Either way, it is a terrible crime.

[@quelodequelo]

I always define my marriage a Russian one, she is cute, intelligent, she can cook and all my money is in her hands 20 years so far. Love from Italy ❤️✋🇮🇹

[@Anonymous_starrrr]

pff why do u think a russian woman will cook for u? who are u to do things for u?? its an old stereotype. i didnt cook a damn sandwich for any of my exes lol.in russia women dont cook as often as in any other european country so dont count on this

[@quelodequelo]

@@Anonymous_starrrr I don't think a Russian woman would cook for me 'a Russian woman' doesn't exist. A Russian woman that doesn't cook neither, you are using a stereotype 'modern woman', not so fresh either.

[@Anonymous_starrrr]

@@quelodequelo u dont speak proper english sry

[@quelodequelo]

@@Anonymous_starrrr no problem, count me in your exes list, we can survive despite your lack of skills 😉✋

[@abdel-qadeercoubadja4750]

@@quelodequelo lolzlozlolzllzl..... Brilliant.

[@Thetequilashooter1]

Greetings from the USA, and love and peace to all. Thumbs up 👍. You did a great job of interviewing by letting them speak without interruption.

[@norm5785]

You found some very varied women to speak with. They all presented some very valid interests, wants and needs. May they all find them. Stay safe and thank you for sharing this with us, from Henrico County Virginia

[@westernwanderer8397]

But I want to move to Russia from the US! Am I strange? Very good information. I find it funny many Russians underestimate their English speaking skills. They are often much better than they give themselves credit for.

[@blueeyes402]

@@ElifromRussia There are many many people who would migrate from the West to Russia, Ukraine or Belarus in order to escape the debauchery of the new neo - liberal politics that has been imposed on us here and I am one of those people.

[@Malinkadink]

@@blueeyes402 Same, i got it real good in the US when it comes to finances and comfortable living, but I am so so tired of the liberal politics. I have a distinct advantage in that I am russian so adjusting to life there wouldn't be difficult, being around majority conservative traditional people would be pure bliss.

[@Victor-ov9im]

Wanna switch?)

[@AntonioCostaRealEstate]

Russian Women, American Women, Latin American women. All of the same. You may get more of a marriage oriented out of Asian and Middle East gals. For smart ones, get a Dutch, German, Scandinavian ones. Those are ingrained with a real sense of gender equality, are practical , and more transparent.

[@alexandrvasilev2865]

@DinoRexGamingHD USA is a role model for the Russian government. Every year they destroy more and more social programs.

[@mpireone]

Gosh... they're all so beautiful

[@PhotoDesigner1]

I am very impressed by how grounded the people you interviewed were... It makes me interested in learning more about Russia and the Russian people.

[@ВадимТорн]

It's not a problem. There are a lot of videos about Russia, cities, peoples, music, culture

[@JP-zk9ro]

Thank you Eli for the link on how to speak Russian. Thanks, Joe.

[@muhjm1946]

Have a friend that is married to a Russia lady, she has taught him a lot about her country. He even speak a little Russian. She said that he like to cook and clean their house. That’s something she had to get use to. She likes it because he helps her in the house. Plus she like his cooking better. She also likes playing with his woolly hair. And he tries to understand what she thinking and why. She said she wants to take him to Russia and he wants to go. I am so happy for them. The world is getting smaller.

[@pluggy86]

I realize Russia is a big place, but the backdrop for these interviews looks amazing. Makes you wonder why anyone would want to leave!

[@meandyoudifferentandsame]

Well, the entirety of Russias economy is being siphoned towards Moskva, so I sure hope it looks good, lol.

[@Jupiter__001_]

Economics and corruption on all levels of society, mainly. There isn't really a spiritual or ideological reason to head West though.

[@Humanophage]

@@meandyoudifferentandsame Why wouldn't they simply leave for Moscow then and marry a nice Muscovite boy with a flat?

[@joarvatnaland6904]

@@Humanophage Limited supply of those

[@meandyoudifferentandsame]

@@Humanophage I am no expert but I assume there is a lot of immegration to Moskva from the rest of the country, if people can afford it. Although it's a nice city there's still the corrupt government so I'd assume there are other reason to leave the country that living in a nice city.

[@alexmckenzie8491]

This is a very interesting and refreshing video - a great pleasure to watch it. Thanks Eli! I agree with an earlier comment: the high level of English is really remarkable.

[@juliamaksimenko9083]

Eli, thanks for another insightful video ❤ enjoyed listening intelligent answers from russian girls you interviewed. Personally lived oversees, seen the world and would prefer russian guy after all. It all about perspective

[@nike121989]

Я уже 10 лет в браке с американкой, из них 7 лет живем в России. Конечно поменять ничего я не хотел бы, но я искренне завидую своим друзьям , которые женаты\замужем за россиянами. Лично мне очень не хватает общих шуток, воспоминаний, да и в целом понимания. Язык, как многие думают, значительно меньшая проблема, чем пресловутый "менталитет"

[@pavelmolchanov7156]

и как она согласилась здесь жить ?

[@MindSkyaRocket]

​@@pavelmolchanov7156 а что не так?

[@emelie5515]

I think Americans have quiet different mentality so I can imagine it’s a bit of a “make it work” situation. For a swede it’s a bit of a stretch, because we also have our own way of joking, discussing, inherited traditions and underlying understanding that doesn’t need to be explained through discussion. Though everything can work out as long you to love each other, I wish you two all the best!

[@nike121989]

@@pavelmolchanov7156 если Вы такой вопрос задаёте, то Вам мой ответ не понравиться.

[@nike121989]

@@emelie5515 I think we have grown together and significantly affected each other's mentality. We used to have very different perceptions of the world around us. I remember how we used to have a lot of forbidden topics such as LGBT\BLM\CLIMATE\Ukraine and other trendy agendas. Now I feel we are much closer with each other than with our fellow country mates. Now my wife can barely talk to her relatives and friends from the USA, so do I. They (American side of family) accuse and blame us for everything. Her last visit to the USA a few months ago was a disaster. It might even be her last time when she sees those people. We used to visit them at least twice a year but nobody has ever come here. I'm very happy that now I have an excuse not to go there. Now we have a nice life in a Russian village we have 7 cats, very nice neighbors and after she gets Russian citizenship this year we will have children. (People plan God laughs)

[@whitepoststudio3947]

My heritage is Russian/Ukrainian. I live in the USA. when I was young I married a Philippine girl, we tried but it did not work out. The cultural barriers were to high and I guess we did not love one another enough to over come them. Even though we were married for five years, we where very careful not to have children. My second and present wife is Ukrainian and we have been very happily married for 32 years now. We have three kids, now in their twenties that look like us. Perhaps I am a benevolent racist, but I like the fact and am glad that ultimately I returned to my own culture and national origin. In the end multiculturalism leads to being subjected and ruled by people that have the power and identity of their own culture and roots. That is reality!

[@Dom-fx4kt]

Were you born in the USA?

[@RitaGehman]

That's a very interesting perspective. Thank you, George.

[@osamabinladen824]

George Shevchuk That's a very interesting and fascinating perspective. What did you find in that Filipina girl that made you fall in the first place?

[@Србомбоница86]

Good comment ,I agree SO much with you

[@osamabinladen824]

@@Србомбоница86 Hi

[@jabom99]

10:04 Her voice is amazing. So deep and strong and Russian.

[@cleilsonpereiradasilva7618]

Hi?? Eli, I loved all yours videos and your channel too. I'm brasilian guy and became your biggest fan!!! thanks for shaw us wonderful experience in your coutry!! I can't stop watching this videos more!!!!

[@YSLRD]

Thanks for your channel. In America, there is such a narrative about " evil Russia". It's good to show how similar we are; just people, after all.

[@herranton]

I'm not sure that's true. I think that a lot of Americans have a distrust for the Russian government (mostly because the soviets we're so polar opposite of what America stands for) but I don't think anyone actively thinks actual Russian _people_ are bad. I think when most Americans see Russian people they just assume they're made of meat and potatoes and only play hockey in their free time.

[@rrrajlive]

In reality, Russians are more open minded than most American.

[@herranton]

@@rrrajlive That's an impossible generalization. Making any generalizations about 2 groups consisting of half a billion people and _hundreds_ of different ethnicities and cultures, is basically impossible.

[@rrrajlive]

@@herranton Do you mean it's difficult to make a society of half a billion people with different ethnicities and culture? First of all USA population is more likely 1/3rd of a billion. And no it's not difficult to make a nation and different ethnicities and cultures. Look at India, population is ~1.4 billion with 22 major languages (dialects 1600) with different ethnicities and cultures (more diverse than US). Although like any other place it's not perfect, but definitely more open minded than USA, except the people who are influenced by American cancel culture/wokism.

[@herranton]

@@rrrajlive I'm (an American mutt of German/English/lux/Scandinavian decent) am currently sitting in a house owned by a guy from Lithuania, married to a Russian Asian minority, who also has kids from a Jew from Moscow, and there are Mexican and Columbian people doing work in the kitchen. Just including _the people in this house,_ you couldn't make an accurate statement about the open-minded-ness of Americans. Let alone try to do it with all 330 million of us. And I said half a billion because you were comparing Russia to the USA, and add the population of the two countries, and you're at just about half a billion. Only and closed minded idiot would make a blanket statement about half a billion people. And actually, now you've made a blanket statement about nearly 2 billion people. Holy sh.... How arrogant do you have to be?

[@misstrever1952]

...Russian women are the world's most beautiful, they're also polite and loving even if you're not so good on speaking the language! It's true like most countries the younger generation have different views but Russian women still stand for traditional standards. Nice video, Спасибо 🧸💜🌼

[@RitaGehman]

I really like the girl with the long braids. She was sooooo intelligent. I loved her.

[@Theredrain6]

Are you a lesbian?

[@warikaman3930]

Hello Rita

[@edselrios6417]

💖💘💝

[@PekkaUimonen]

My russian wife is the best in my life. She understand me without words. My sweet Sveta ❤❤

[@arseniyfuzaylov4640]

Hey, my name is Arseniy. I live in the US. I will say this, my wife works with international students that come here for a cultural exchange. People end up running and not wanting to return. I have also heard not case of real love. It really is all about the person. When you are at an intersection all directions are possible.

[@ronanrogers4127]

I’ve spent a lot of time in Russia…I know life can be very hard, especially outside of the main cities, but you need to remember that the grass always looks greener on the other side. The so called “culture wars” and “cancel culture” in Western countries is making them much less appealing.

[@cw9790]

You are right. Censorship is the USA is growing.

[@GD-my5hm]

Oh yeah I can't tell which is worse, having to live at 3rd world standards, being abused by your husband and having none to help you because it isn't illegal to hit your wife in Russia, and also living in a literal brutal dictatorship where dissidents are murdered and poisoned all the time. Or "cancel culture"? meaning some people post on Twitter how they didn't like the Netflix special of some millionaire comedian, and being annoyed because there's a gay couple on TV.... Oh yeah, both things are the same level of bad. Are you serious??? lol

[@cw9790]

@@GD-my5hm I mean that cancel culture is indicative of a bigger problem. 1930's Germany ring a bell?

[@lumijasminasmr3583]

I envy their hair so much. 😭

[@RitaGehman]

Yeah, their hair is like WOW! :)

[@Theredrain6]

Yours looks nice too

[@rameshsingh2480]

Jealousy is the negative feeling inside human being .don't be jealous but admire her for the goodness .

[@lewstone5430]

Sensual ASMR I keep seeing your posts on “Russian” themed channels and I checked out your channel. What are you doing in your vids??

[@D33Lux]

Very beautiful naturally with little to no make-up, pretty long hair and very feminine. Traditional men love this, no tattoo's, no aggressiveness, soft speaking, gentle, well spoken.

[@Jon-es-i6o]

These young ladies are enchanting.❤

[@sethlogee]

The women with her face covered english is so good she almost sounds American 😱

[@williamkunte5361]

She may have studied or even had/have regular friends on-line whom she chats with daily...

[@jimcrackcorn2460]

I thought the same thing.

[@carlwilson1772]

Saying that she sounds American is not a compliment regarding her skill with the English language!

[@maxhope7691]

@@carlwilson1772 hahahaha

[@mirieshii1948]

@@carlwilson1772 american hating huh. What's a compliment then? Japanese English? Hahahaha

[@MrTaloul]

it is the same everywhere...if you ask these questions to an indian or american or colombian or syrian, you will get the same answers

[@GoodStuffForeverMore]

You just popped up on KZbin out of the blue. Love your channel! You are a very good interviewer and excellent on camera. Sending much love and many blessings your way💞

[@seanohartaigh2209]

normally i wouldnt watch a load of girls talking about their relationship preferences but I ended up wanting them to find what they are looking for and now i love them all. what are you doing to me with your videos🤣🤣🤣

[@tugrulkara7997]

I wouldn’t either. Just watched the beginning of the video and I couldn’t resist watching the rest. They’re rational and straightforward, no bullshit at all. Now I’m thinking how feminism is killing the western society. we’re fucked up

[@ponypower8]

I have several Russian friends. They're pretty and slim, yes, and they're nice people, generous, sociable and family-oriented. Being very involved in their respective families was the thing that surprised me the most about them. More so bec not everyone in California's like that. I thought they would be more detached. I can only say that about my friends. By the way, they're all professionals. Don't know if that's really how Russians are, in general.

[@wilbertpaular7016]

I live in St. Petersburg Russia for 2 yrs now but i'm from Asia, all i can say is most of them pretend to be sick if they only want to chat with you and to not meet you, they care a lot about their looks

[@Min-Jeong2003]

what you mean?

[@ИльяЗапольский-и5и]

Очень интересно! Но нихрена не понятно:)

[@MrX-yk5xt]

@@Min-Jeong2003 i guess he means Russian girls are obsessed how they look...so they choose to chat instead of meeting in real life when they look not that good in the moment

[@maryt7959]

Since you are Asian , Russian people will NOT date you or marry you , because the way you look . White people there , want white people . This is a very hard truth to know for you . I feel you !

[@maxhope7691]

@@maryt7959 There are attractive people in every race, and also rude and ignorant people, like yourself.

[@johnsaville9210]

Much respect to these beautiful and intelligent women. Especially the ones who attempt to speak English. Impressive.

[@carlosorff]

I like how the women who were interviewed had very down to earth expectations, as well as the man at the end.

[@Homer62001]

Greetings from Vancouver! We have Russian people who own the house across from us. They are from Siberia believe it or not. Very nice people. I think Canadians and Russians have much in common.

[@BayrampashaHuseynov]

Russian people from Serbia? Don't tell this to your neighbor, they will feel offended

[@altob9716]

@@BayrampashaHuseynov "Siberia"

[@ИльяЗапольский-и5и]

No

[@Homer62001]

@@ИльяЗапольский-и5и YES

[@leahflower9924]

yeah they both love hockey

[@brianmarasco2610]

Russian women are wonderful! Beautiful, intelligent, responsible, reasonable, conservative, trustworthy, loyal...and of course, they expect the same!

[@buggyridge]

My son is 21 and a senior in college. Good looking guy, hard worker with a bright future but very shy after growing up around Michigan girls. I keeping telling him he needs to find a nice Russian girl.

[@HelenaRey]

This is a great idea! Let him start learning Russian now. This will be very useful to him in life - the future belongs to Russia! And when the collapse begins in the USA, your son will be safe in Russia.

[@F-Khan491]

These videos are GoldStandard !

[@brians132]

ВДНХ Park (or VDNKh) in Moscow. It's a beautiful place! Space museum, friendship of nations fountain, stone flower fountain, aquarium, dozens of beautiful pavilions, botanical gardens, lovely Russian girls ice skating...and lots more. It's a massive place and very interesting, well worth a visit if you're ever in Moscow.

[@dr9299]

America use to have all those things too, when we had a conservative White culture as yours. Now the diversity has destroyed many of those places and the city taxes are not enough to keep repairing them. Here is an example of a typical inner-city now: kzbin.info/www/bejne/kKfXpo2tip6Zeac

[@buboysaba8242]

Russian women are well mannered, beautiful and smart

[@Floweringlotus]

Wow amazing how fit and healthy Russian women are to Anglo women and they’re actually nice too. Win win.

[@danchau508]

That dude at the end is pretty smart. Russian women seem very natural and genuine. I’m from the US and I love dating foreign girls because they are so interesting and would show me an exciting new culture/world. Dated a girl from Germany and another from Norway. Once you get to experience all of that including the traveling, local girl start to seem boring 😢

[@bryanl3435]

This was a fun topic to hear the opinions of so many intelligent and interesting Russian women. Thank you for doing this. Your blogs build understanding. Это была забавная тема - услышать мнения стольких умных и интересных русских женщин. Спасибо за это. Ваши блоги укрепляют понимание.

[@badguy1481]

I was married to a Chinese girl (for 47 years). I found there was an ADVANTAGE of marrying someone from a foreign culture. Whenever we had a disagreement, I was able to brush it off by saying ("I guess she's just being Chinese"). I'm sure she would say: ("I guess he's just being American"). When one marries someone from one's own culture, there are many pre-conceived ideas about how one's spouse should feel, act and speak. If they DON'T feel, act and speak the way their spouse thinks they should, based on their common culture, it creates a lot of tension, anger and often leads to divorce. Being somewhat ignorant of one's spouse's ways and traditions....can actually lead to a better...and more lasting...marriage.

[@Scriptum_1]

If you're flexible, yes it could be an advantage. But in most of the cases that I've known the problem is when the other one tries to make you Chinese or make you American

[@WesternEugenics]

I'd rather just marry someone from my own race. I want my kids to look like me.

[@foggycraw6758]

You sound ignorant

[@Corvetteman]

I have been to to Sochi, Russia, several times. Russian women can be very beautiful, feminine and well educated. I found the food in Russia to be excellent. As many people forget, Russia and the USA are neighbors near Alaska.