Do We REGRET Moving To USA? How Much £?! *life update q&a*

Life update timeeee! We thought it would be a good idea to bring you guys up to speed with some of our thoughts after the big move - we can't believe it's been 6 weeks. Thank you so much for watching my lovely friends, be sure to subscribe for new videos!
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[@kirstybrown2765]

I have to say I love how much Conner is supporting you while talking about your grief, how focused he is listening to you while you explain how you feel.

[@Amelierosed]

The way con looks at her ❤🤗💕

[@TheXxxEmmaxxx]

They’re the meaning of true love! I love them so much!

[@welshgirl6934]

The way Connor was looking at you when you were talking about losing your mum 😔 You could feel his love for you through the lens ❤️ I am loving these texas vlogs, even the ones when your just sat at home going from room to room. What i would love you to film one day/night is the stormy weather whilst your all tucked up safe in the house ❤️

[@oceanpier]

Yes. ❤

[@aliceinwonderland.2080]

I moved from the U.K. to Greece over 40 years ago. I was in my mid twenties and between jobs and it was a huge decision but I didn’t have a partner, children or pets and I lived in rented property in London. There were no visas involved but as Greece wasn’t in the EU back then, I had to leave the country every 3 months. Once I got married to a Greek, I received automatic dual citizenship which made my life so much easier,however, since Brexit, things have changed a great deal. All these years later, I have a great husband,2 adult boys, a dog and I honestly don’t regret the move. The weather plays a massive role in my happiness here and the pace of life really suits me.It’s not so hard to visit England when I feel the need but the USA is a lot further away. For those thinking about making a big move, it’s not easy and there’s a lot of excitement at the beginning but it needs a lot of time to decide if it’s the right thing for you- many return to their homeland .You guys don’t have the pressure of learning a new language which I did,but I admire you having the kudos to follow your dreams and wish you much continued happiness.❤️

[@bettyprivitera1848]

I’m Greek and would love to move to the uk, I’m actually half British but haven’t lived there, do u regret moving to Greece?

[@sophiemic1960]

@@bettyprivitera1848I’m half Greek and moved from Corfu at 18 to the uk. I’ve been there 8 years and have wanted to move back every single day of those 8 years🤣 work/money is better in the uk but quality of life is better in Greece. Every person I know that has moved to the uk from Greece have all said they hate england and how depressing it is but for some reason we all hang on and remain in england. Personally I want to build a business that will allow me to travel to Greece and have that flexibility to be in both places as both have pros/cons but if I had to choose one, it would be Greece.

[@bettyprivitera1848]

@@sophiemic1960 thanks so much for answering. Wishing you good luck on your new business. Sounds ideal to be able to live in both countries . Bad thing here in Greece is that people are struggling and being mostly rude to each other. I find it exhausting

[@phoebegoddard4090]

Omg I’m hoping to move to Greece from UK next year hopefully, can u please share any tips or information on the visa process. My boyfriend is Greek lives in Athens.

[@aliceinwonderland.2080]

@@phoebegoddard4090 The best and most reliable source of information can be found on the Government website which will inform you of your legal rights. I believe there’s a limit of 90 days stay every 6 months since Brexit unless you apply for a Greek Schengen visa which will extend it to a 6 month stay. If you marry a Greek citizen you will be entitled to a Greek Residents Permit but not Greek citizenship. This is valid for 1-2 years but can be renewed and after 5 years of legal residence, I believe one can apply for a long- term residence. Please check these details on the website though to be sure of your entitlements. I do hope you enjoy living here as I love it and would only ever want to return to the U.K. for holidays. Good luck and all the best.

[@emmamoulsdale423]

Elle Darbs giving us all the therapy we didn't know we needed ✨️

[@EliseHoranXOXO]

Followed you for years and I’ve just lost my mum 4 weeks ago I’m 25. I’m in complete shock and my heart is just broken. Hearing you speak about your mum caught me off guard and set off my tears however you have gave me a bit of hope and comfort. Seeing you happy and enjoying life gives me hope I’ll be able to do that again. But like you said I just can’t get over the unfairness. Why me 💔

[@traceyrowell2468]

❤

[@ameliajayne6690]

thinking of you 😔❤

[@xdaisyflowersx7204]

I lost my mam when I was 25 aswell. My heart goes out to you the pain is indescribable. I miss her more everyday she was my best friend. I’m thinking of you and anyone else who has lost a parent or anyone they loved ❤

[@amy-roseodonnell]

So i cried ( 🥺😭🤣) partially because of the words you use talking about your mum but mainly because of the way con looks at you with such love and the way he comforts you well...what a lovely man and family support you have 🥺❤ I didn't know your mum but I know she would be so proud of all your life achievements...I know I am! Absolutely loving you and your vlogs been watching them as soon as they post! 😭🤣🤣🤩❤❤❤

[@jessmayo2759]

Ooo ooo😊😊😅😊😊o ooo poo you can ioooo😅😅

[@mollycronin8939]

You’re such a strong and inspiring person Elle. Crying at you talking about your mum. She is looking down proud of you and your strength. I absolutely love you, you’re such a darling 🩷

[@abbymiller3013]

living in America suits you guys soo much... love your videos so much recently!!!!! ❤❤

[@kellstinkerbell71]

Thank you guys. Romeo has the best cheeky smile. He was so so good playing while you filmed. Herbie and Hector has been my favorite moment so far plus grocery shopping. I love a USA supermarket. You both look so flipping happy. Can’t wait for your continued USA journey. Thanks for being so brave about talking about your mum and grief. And you’re right she is guiding you and with you all the time. Plant a little tree or shrub in a big pot and have that as your USA memorial. You can put a nice bench next to it and can be your go and reflect space. Much love to you all xx

[@Poodlemama1234]

Ahhh, sweet girl, your darling mummy is watching you, loving you and taking enormous pride in everything you are doing ❤️

[@she-is-telm2831]

Elle your mum will be so proud of you and the life you and con have made for your family. She’s always with you, she remains in your heart and goes everywhere with you 💞

[@maddiem7423]

Oh Elle, listening to you speak about your Mum touched me so deeply & you expressed your feelings so beautifully. It’s wonderful to see you accepting your new journey & everything working out for you after the grief you have experienced. Love watching your vlogs, you are so sweet xxx

[@nataliesimmons6960]

I cried with you at how you explained such a beautiful way in to how you look at your grief 🥹🥹. Your mom will be extremely proud of you & your little family ❤ really enjoying the vlogs, thank you for taking us on the journey with you. Xx

[@RachaelDryburgh]

This made me cry, I lost my mam 10 years ago when I was 21 and I resonate with everything you’ve just said. Things really do start making sense over time & with therapy ❤ xxx

[@karenharvey2122]

Wow, what a great vlog and seeing you and Connor so happy is amazing! Answering all the questions with such honesty is so nice. Seeing you open up about your mum made me cry. She would be so proud of what you have achieved. Not only do you have two amazing boys, but you're living your dream😊 Keep these videos coming!

[@sarah2015k]

Elle! If this is you in April! We can't wait for the Christmas content in December! Ahhhhhhhhhh! We are all so happy for you! Your videos are so positive and uplifting! Thank youuuuu ❤

[@caterinaleblancq]

Love how open you have been about this all but also REALISTIC!!! Thank you for sharing with us ❤

[@tashalex7994]

Oh guys I know this is totally of topic in regards to the video but can we just take a moment for how flipping gorgeous little Romeo is! The way he hugs into Ellie just totally melts my heart 😩😍 as a mum of two boys I know how us mamas just live for moments like that 🥰 Wishing you guys all the health and happiness in your new adventure 😊 x

[@CarnivalOfHorror]

Your loved ones are absolutely always with you. They're omnipresent, for all of those who's lives they have touched and they're guiding you throughout your life. I regret so much losing touch with my nan when I grew up, who was a best friend to me as a child. I reconnected with her months before she passed but I know she's around. I can feel her when I think of her. 💕 You're so blessed to have Connor being so supportive for you. That's so rare in men I have come to find. Such a wonderful couple. 💕

[@clairfair6026]

Your happiness is glowing through I’m so happy for you all ❤

[@jenniferfoxxo]

I must say the content you've been making since the move has been amazing

[@izzystanleyfit6517]

Elle this was so incredibly moving talking about your Mum I was in tears🥺 Thank you for being so open + vulnerable, it puts so much into perspective for others + makes others feel it's okay to have emotion + see horrible circumstances in different ways 🤍

[@paulawilkes7366]

Love this vlog .. ❤ your always so honest about situations ..dont sugar coat things .. love that xx❤

[@taracarey9175]

My mum passed 7 years ago & my dad passed nearly 12 years ago , I had young children & it was heartbreaking, I thought you done very well as I actually felt myself getting choked up as I know the feeling , you done brilliant & obviously I didn’t know your mum but I’m sure she’d be so proud of how brave you’ve been & you’ve created a life which I’m sure she’d have wanted , your such a lovely family Thankyou for sharing all you do x

[@xindigochildx]

So very sorry for your losses 🌸 sending hugs and love

[@xdaisyflowersx7204]

Thinking of you❤ I lost my mam 6 year ago I miss her more everyday it never goes away❤

[@ambreaull7218]

Oh Elle, you speaking about your mum and the paths…I needed this and thank you for sharing through your grief and helping so many ❤

[@LoretteHughes]

I love how supportive & comforting Con is, the way he looks at you and just gives you the time to say all you need. You’re a wonderful couple, I’m so happy you have each other and your 4 boys!x

[@Coleyeg]

My dad passed when I was 16, I’m now 25 and moved from Scotland to England. Finally feel in healing now that quote is so correct! I have an almost 5&6 year old now! I moved when my first was 6 weeks old! It’s hard but so worth it for yourself xx

[@MissMeagan95]

I lost my dad unexpectedly at the beginning of April. Your journey with losing your mom at a young age has been a huge inspiration for me. Even though the days are dark now and I feel completely lost without him, it won’t always be this way. 💕

[@Blossom69_]

Bless Connor.. he really feels Elles pain.. the way he looks at her, the way he comforts her.. Beautiful couple. I guess Florida

[@miafrancescax]

Love you guys still my favourite couple and KZbinr after all these years! Such a lovely video and always will love your videos! Can’t imagine the pain grief has but your doing so well 🩷

[@poppylawson7319]

Thank you for sharing those feelings about your mum❤️I lost my dad when I was 17 and I’m 20 now and the way you worded how u feel really resonated with me, I’ve been watching your videos for so many years now and I’ve always been so obsessed with you guys and I’ve loved watching you guys grow as a family🥰your mum would be so proud!

[@bethanyxox]

Just out at the minute can’t wait to get home and watch!! literally living for these vids guys ❤❤❤

[@larsenlaura]

Elle you're so beautiful. You're making us all cry ❤

[@AinslieJohnstone]

Great video ❤ you guys are such loving parents and it's great to see your bond together too. Sending love xxx

[@kirbysmith9459]

I rarely comment on many videos, but just like many others whom have said the same thing the way Con listened and looked at you when you were talking about your mum was beautiful. ❤ You explained everything with such an elegance and should be incredibly proud. I adore your channel and watching your wondeful family on it's adventures ✨️

[@lovedung88]

Love this video, so much. Didn’t expect to get all the feels I did. Love you guys so much and honestly so happy for you. ❤

[@patriciaellenx]

Saving to watch on the big screen later on but oh my goodness, I’m a very new viewer (maybe a couple months before the American move) and you have completely transformed the way I live my life with my partner and babies. Can’t wait to see more of the world with my babies, thankyou for inspiring that! ❤️

[@loafollower9590]

How interesting how have you changed the way you live your life?❤

[@tenamedley7200]

I was about your age when my mother died. It changed me in so many ways, but essentially made me stronger. Continue to thrive and know your strength! xo

[@user-cg2bs7jr3y]

Thank you for sharing all this. I’ve listened to both my parents, my mom more recently. I’m sending you so much love.

[@mag6337]

Lifelong Texan here, and I don't know the exact number of Californians that have moved to Texas in the past couple years, but it's well over 100K. That should tell you something. Choose wisely 🥰😍

[@brandybird3954]

More Californians have moved to Texas than any other state. It’s quite mind blowing and double than to any other state 😅

[@SarahWilliams-dq4nq]

Wow elle I could listen to you all day, I cry with you and laugh with you honestly you are my therapy 💖

[@donnajohansson4105]

Your mum is with you in your heart wherever you are ❤

[@natashaatteridge9941]

Loved this q&a! Firstly Elle you looked gorgeous and are glowing! I lost my mum in january and when you spoke about your mum it made me cry. But gives me hope that everything will get better. I start therapy tomorrow and was really nervous but you talk so positively about your experiences with therapy so im now looking forward to it and hope it helps me grow. Also you have such a beautiful relationship with Connor its lovely to watch. Im enjoying your vlogs so much and they have become my little weekly treats xxx

[@laurac817]

Is there a specific type of tree you planted in England? Maybe you could get the same one to plant in the different states you live, you might feel like you then have somewhere to go and speak to her and you’ll be bringing a bit of her with you on your journey 🤍

[@frankienew6966]

My dad passed away and his memorial tree is a red Acer, I now have a red Acer in my garden x

[@meganleon4928]

Elle you look amazing, look at that long healthy hair too! You are glowing, I have followed you right since day 1. I’m a Bristol girl and loved that you were so local and relatable and I’m so so happy you have found your happiness and peace 💖

[@jackiecox3196]

Loved this video ❤you are thriving in America and so happy so pleased for you all ❤❤

[@tinishiacarter7062]

Never clicked on a video so quickly! Been here since the beginning and so proud of you! xx

[@Sunshine-vz2on]

Bless you darling brought tears to my eyes with your analogy about your mum. Sending loads of love. I’m sure she is beaming with pride looking down on you

[@aldnd69]

As you say your mum is with you always. Loved the updates. So happy for you all. Take care ❤

[@sophiethomas2433]

When you were speaking about your mum🥹 you’re so strong and it’s so good seeing you like this now, your mum would have been soooo proud of you. Love keeping up with the vlogs❤️

[@louisebourne5779]

Hi Ell and Connor, I think your both amazing for making this huge life decision I admire you two so much. Thankyou so much for doing this Q&A, it was great. Sending you all my love to you both and the boys and Hector and Herbie. Love your channel so much xxx 🥰

[@elliebond1234]

What you said about your mum giving you the green light is powerful ❤

[@kirstenireland3483]

Elle you are so strong and your mum would be so so proud of you through all of this ❤️

[@MeeganMakes]

Couldn’t be happier for you and your family. And for sharing growth, honesty and happiness about your life in America!

[@mimiasda]

So excited for when ✨we✨go to Florida!

[@heatherclarke5804]

Cried along with you ❤. Loving your videos and sharing this journey with yous xx

[@hollyjoiner-mason3324]

Thank you for answering my question ellie made my day i cried at the video of herbie and hector coming over too 💖

[@alexburrows8588]

Your mum is definitely looking down on you thinking you go girl and just remember you’ve always got a part of your mum with you. In little things like that recipe book she wrote a note in❤️ she will be so proud of you Elle x

[@ShannonRuth]

We moved from Northern Ireland to California 9 months ago and absolutely love it! We live about an hour from San Diego and can honestly say it is the dream! It is expensive but the quality of life is absolutely amazing!

[@meganclark6245]

I’m 2 years into my grief journey after loosing my dad.. and it gives me hope that I might someday understand why he had to die when I was 28 very suddenly. Crying with you and sending you so much love xxxxx

[@VickiJayneBeaumont]

Loved the video and make me feel so excited for hopefully my family’s journey to America. We are currently at the beginning stages of researching visa but I’m hoping for 2025 to be settled and living my best life in Florida. We have 3 dogs and 2 little boys. I feel like since being a mum I’ve not been my full self so after hearing you talk about feeling like the old you again. It’s like I feel like I’ve got the spark again to be excited and begin a new adventure. You’re an inspiration lady and look forward to following your many adventures with your beautiful family xx

[@Kelly35333]

I’ve only just started watching this video and you guys always put a massive smile on my face right away. You’re so welcoming to us.. I can’t explain what I mean 😪 ❤ I just love you 😘 x

[@Amanda.Slaton]

Elle my mom passed when I was 25. She was the young age of 55. I grieve with you as you honor her. I pray you see her in all of the beautiful moments you make with your sweet boys. I am now 37, and I see her in my children. It is the kindest of gifts from the Lord. God bless you. 🫶🏼

[@liannejamie40]

Not me crying with you when you're talking about your mum. I completely understand absolutely everything you're saying, I really just don't know what to say.. but here's a big hug

[@freya1581]

I moved from England at a young age and it was the best thing my parents did for me! I have loved following your moving journey xx

[@emmasutherland158]

Always connect to tv as soon as you guys upload ❤

[@alwaysthere5070]

I know you weren’t going to speak on your mental health, but as a new subscriber I’ve been able to relate and am thankful you talked about it. Sending all the ❤ and great vibes from NYC ❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Jodienicell]

Loved this !!! You can tell how happy use are since moving 🥰

[@ginasmith5472]

Your talk about your mum and moving to America was so emotional made me cry 😭 but so beautiful the way you describe it ❤

[@suzannahrose2012]

Aw Ellie ...im crying with u 😢 this was so emotional and deep I really wish u everything u wish for darling x ❤️

[@Gypsy_dreamer9]

Conner you are a sweetheart ❤ I can see how much you adore Elly and your kids , you guys are such a gorgeous family and you deserve to live the dream 🎉❤

[@elliepreston6234]

Lost my mum 2 yrs ago, I’ve got two boys same age as your boys and I cried with you on this video. Amazing following your dream ❤ love your videos. Never change 🥰xxxx

[@nicky25294]

Your mum is with you most definitely ❤

[@user-vx7dc7ov8w]

I love how happy you look you can just see the glow… the way Connor comforted you when you got upset, true love 🥲 Are you taking Katie to Florida!!

[@Jadedarbi]

This really tugged at my heart strings... I lost my mum a couple of years ago and I find it so hard to 'move on' with my future. I know I can never move on from the pain, it will always be there, but I also know that she would want me to be out there, exploring new places and achieving all my dreams. I know that your mum is so, so proud of you Elle xxx

[@ravenmoonwitchy]

I came to the comments just to say the way Connor looks at you is just so heart warming, and then I saw loads of other comments saying the same 🥹 his love and care for you shines ❤

[@Mrsdumee]

Loved this😊 Only missed Saint at the end😉 But you’re mum will always be with you wherever you go💜

[@juliespencer1164]

Loved it good to see how much it cost to move, i did imagine it may be expensive. so good now the dogs are with you again, it will be nice for Katie to rejoin you when she comes over and you guys can catch up. its hard when you lose your mum and bestie. i had my mum for a long time which i am so grateful for. with my dad it was different i was only 15 and it was devasting For you sweetheart, you were young when your mum passed. and you carry her in your heart forever. good to hear you settling and look forward to more vlogs and seeing different places Romeo is so cute that smile is enough to warm any ones heart. sending much love, and hugs from the UK. xxx

[@hannahe3130]

Got to be Disney 🥰💛 cannot wait! Xx

[@elliemay2212]

Elle Thankyou for giving us all so much advice and info on moving to another country, in terms of your grief journey maybe look at getting a similar tree or plant that reminds you of your mum that you can take with you to each house 🏠❤️❤️

[@londonlingo4036]

Amazing video Elle and Connor as always ❤❤

[@KimberleySkidmore]

Fantastic Q&A ❤ wishing you all fantastic memories from the West Yorkshire UK xx

[@vickycw]

Addressing the cost was super helpful. Can’t wait to see Katie arrive for her visit 🤩

[@annijewiss3142]

Got to be Disney she will love it and so will the children, please take us with you. It’s going to be amazing having your sister stay. Will she want to go home is the question. I’ve loved your Q&A. You always keep it real. There’s been so many stabbings and incidents in schools here lately so I think you are as safe as anywhere. I have to say one of my favourite moments was Hector and Herby arrived and had their first run in your garden. Have a great week guys xxxxxx

[@jaynewilliams1682]

You are such a lovely family. I am quite a new subscriber from when you arrived in USA, but love all your videos and always look forward to your next one. Take carexxxx

[@pinkbunny-ee3gg]

Wake up Elle posted! ❤❤❤❤❤ 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@Sophie-hu7pn]

Hey I'm first love you guys love the USA vlogs can't wait for katie to get there xxxx

[@sabrinacottingham5957]

Definitely Disneyland or Disney world for sure! 🎉 the way you talk about your mom is so beautiful, I just know she’s so proud ❤

[@clairetitley8829]

I've just stumbled across your channel, omg you made me cry, 😢 but ur such a up beat family, looking forward to your new life in the USA 🇺🇸, I've just clicked subscribe ❤

[@claudiapagdin1045]

You are definitely going to orlando!!! Cannot wait 😍 ps your mum will be so proud of you ❤

[@KirstyP-wu9vw]

Holiday place for Katie must be FLORIDAAAAAA

[@CarnivalOfHorror]

Disney!

[@jacquelinecoyle1301]

Shes saying fly elle fly xx you have grown so much xx❤

[@autumnlouiseevans]

Hi Guys! Welcome to the USA! I am a American living in Italy and I love being in Europe for the travel but it is temporary since we are military. It is hard since home will always be familiar to you. Enjoy exploring America! Love your family ❤

[@melissaviy]

You are just such a wonderful and beautiful human inside and out, Elle 🤍

[@i_h2081]

Great qu and a. And really appreciate your honesty in prices for others wanting this dream… not me 😅 but it’s nice to see you sharing so honestly ❤😊 and appreciate your grief honesty always

[@kemthompson6982]

Love you guys so much❤

[@nadia_goldsworthy]

Florida I'm guessing😊 your all doing amazing!! Living your best life girliee❤

[@joanneshaw3071]

I’m not sure what it is maybe it’s the move but you both look more in love with each other than ever before. There’s a different bond between you both. The way you came together explaining how it came about and the cost, you are so supportive of each other. I do see you both living near the beach though but it will take time. When I moved from England to Australia 🇦🇺 I lived in Brisbane for 25 years before I moved to the Gold Coast right near the beach. It’s just where my heart is. My heart does break for you losing your mum so young. I lost my mum almost 2 years ago and I miss her so much. I’ve had a really tough week and I was sitting on my deck having a cry 😢. I heard a noise coming from inside my house right near where I was sitting. I went inside and a photo in a frame had fallen off the wall (never happened before) it was one of my favourite photos of my mum ❤. Your mum will always be with you

[@user-bz7ei5wp1n]

this was so sad to watch seeing you get upset, ive been watching your vlogs since you and con was renting your beautiful house with the sofa club sofas, i wish you and your family all the happiness in the world its so nice that you are sharing your journey with us i wish you all the best for the future x lots of love samiyah from uk