How to get a guy back after he pulls away: what NOT to do!

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[@ssmyth1835]

Keep it light. Treat a man you like the way you treat a man that you don't like. If he comes back, be light hearted and dismissive. Don't bring up what happened in the pass (although you haven't forgotten). Smile. Be happy. Ignore him. Make him work for you.

[@funnygirlever]

Omg, yesyes.

[@ashsqx3246]

Lol if I treat him like a man I don't like I wouldn't speak to him and not answer any messages.

[@71javer]

I found a great compilation of videos that may help on Covert attractor audit

[@A-list]

@S SMYTH Well said! 👌

[@user-gm9sj4hz6c]

Respect!

[@goingaboutmyfathersbusines4359]

When a man pulls away from me..I let him go..and friend zone him..so when he comes back I talk to him as a friend..it NEVER goes back to relationship status..not sorry..

[@januarybaby]

But hes sooooo cuteee

[@janellinell4552]

Good strategy

[@phantom-qu7es]

May be you didn't realize that he friend zoned you.

[@porschewalker5652]

🎯

[@invitesbydani]

I can't believe that I am here again, looking at another one of these god damn videos. fml

[@tammielewis7827]

Ain’t that something

[@sofiapaladino5172]

saaameee

[@taraxx2150]

same lol

[@sofiapaladino5172]

Aaaaand I think he dumped me. 😅

[@liemisompota3669]

Right? 😂😂😂😂

[@tokyodiva]

“What NOT to do” cause there’s nothing you can do once he walks away and there’s nothing you should do if he does.. keep it pushin til you meet the man who knows better than to lose you

[@rosannamiranda4620]

Chrome So true

[@amphoteric]

like i totally understand pulling away cos he's feeling the pressure and maybe one person likes the other more or whatever. but it's super messed up if the DUDE is the one who initiates it all but then suddenly pulls away, going cold + ghost 😒 that means it's time to find a better man who isn't gonna play games, tbh.

[@anouds8982]

amphoteric yes that’s just immature

[@WildWildWest30000]

That is super cold but believe it or not, men like that exist. Unfortunately

[@crystaljonesnyc]

Yes, unfortunately I’ve experienced this also.

[@Femininelovevibes]

This ^^^^^ is exactly what he did. Of course any person would be like what’s wrong.... but I didn’t ask.. I’m just mirroring him back. I don’t deserve this at all. He could at least talk like a decent person. Instead believe it or not he actually wants me to chase him!! Said she u think of him to reach out. .. like NO. Bye

[@ashsqx3246]

That's how it always happens though. Guys get excited and enthusiastic and say and do stuff then suddenly want to back track and pretend like nothing happened and erase the past. All guys do that. I'm just sitting here same as day one. He is going hot cold up down emotionally. Trick is to not let any of it affect you. Don't get happy when he is into you or down when he pulls away.

[@hanahana-qv3dq]

They always come back around....😂😂

[@Boyce6-t]

Hahah true

[@allywolf9182]

If you are doing it right...😉

[@sunshinebabe6064]

Sue 101 Hope this is true in my situation... been 4 months and NC at all.. 😞 miss him so much! But he won’t come back. Never. He’s a stuborn 🙁

[@travelfoodielove]

Sue 101 yup

[@sunshinebabe6064]

Serena Williams You think he will ? :)

[@hkvideos9674]

Make a video on how to be a high value woman handles a guy coming back after he pulls away.

[@tari5789]

Simply don't take him back. Heute for sure had a reason to leave. You are like left over to him. Don't do it

[@goingaboutmyfathersbusines4359]

A high quality woman won't take him back..she will friend zone him..no going back..trust me

[@LadyGodiva7460]

Uh, they have a new, better man by then

[@claudiavalencia2322]

@@goingaboutmyfathersbusines4359 exactly

[@A-list]

Many men are big old insecure babies these days pulling away in the beginning cuz they are catching feelings and can't handle emotions.. **THEY ALWAYS COME BACK! When he comes back set his ass straight once & for all. Play cool make your boundaries clear with no pressure (get him whipped first) make it clear to him you not down with inconsistency.**

[@tonyasmith8502]

To all you Young ladies out there, Never Ever believe any guy, especially if they are calling you baby, or telling you that you are beautiful .its All a line of crap to get you to sleep with them..They will lie, lie, lie, acting like they love you but right after you sleep with them, they block you!!

[@ladytenorio]

Thank you for the video Elliott. I think self-analysis is critical. Also, guys can sense or see when a woman is not fulfilled or not pursuing something she loves. And is looking to him to make her happy. Fill a void in some cases. Maybe that's the pressure guys pick up on. I mention this because I've felt it from guys who were in such a rush to be in a committed relationship and I've done the same to other guys that I really really liked. It's when I started doing the inner work. Facing my issues, worked to resolve them, learned self-love(which is on-going). Really found what makes me happy minus a guy, that things began to change.

[@hipnhappenin]

ladytee preach 🙌

[@lizarcher1]

He created the pressure tho he was coming on very strong

[@starcatcher3691]

I know!

[@greciamedero3030]

Ugh I’m doing this rn. I love my ex and he says he loves me but doesn’t want a gf so I told him “alright well that is a waste of my time so I wish you the best. Good luck “ it’s not easy and you for sure think he’s not gonna come back but they usually do. Also if someone is meant to be in your life, they will but you have to be firm with what you want without pressuring . Just establish it and be like “this is what I want . You don’t want the same thing? Cool but bye”

[@dr.m6152]

Yes yes this is right. Once he knows you got standards you not willing to bend they measure upto it. It's really about how much shit you're willing to slide lol. Sometimes you can feel that they're nearly there with the commitment and in that case maybe it's okay to give them SOME time but stating clearly what YOU want (a relationship/marriage etc) sets the stage for you and makes you powerful. It's like-this is what I want and if you're not giving it to me I'll just find it somewhere else coz I got OPTIONS honey 💁🏻‍♀️

[@kaseynicholson29]

The only problem I have with what he said is that no guy has ever directly said they don't want a relationship to a girl who wants more than just sex, they always give indirect answers like "it could lead there" "eventually" or "let's just see where it goes". My point is most guys beat around the bush knowing that it will never become a relationship and knowing the girl will leave when he states that. so girls stick around because they hold out hope. I'd like to see a video explaining how to react to those types of neutral comments from men because sometimes they truly mean it and you can end up in a relationship with that guy and other times it's a player telling you enough to keep you interested.

[@happyfarmer911]

Exactly this !!

[@shanm6677]

I so get this! Watch his actions . Don’t listen to what he tells you! His actions will show you everything you need to know. If he’s not planning things with you and opening up to you.. taking you around his family in the stages of dating. Then he’s leading you on and using you for sex. Trust me!! I learned this through dating

[@SoCal_Kimmy1974]

Many people on youtube talk about why guys pull away. You should pull away as well when a guy pull away. It makes a stronger relationships or don’t anyway you win. Next 😀

[@ladydee4485]

Your hair is perfection! 😍 And seriously, don't pull away from us we need your videos! 😁🙏🏻 Good content as always!

[@goldenprize91]

I absolutely enjoy your vibes! Thank you for being transparent and str8 forward. We ladies appreciate you!!😘

[@BA-hb9hh]

Can you do a video on emotionally unavailable men. And no matter how great the attraction, he won’t take it further. Even if the perfect girl comes around why and what is the problem?

[@monnnmendozaofficial6364]

agree

[@honeyhaunting]

Hard agree

[@Hati1397.]

Same situation right now 😂

[@KiKi-te9yd]

Omg yes. Im trying to deal with that now

[@Pleasantly_Unbothered]

Oh Yes!!!!! Ughhhh..Dealing with this right now and I am FRUSTRATED!!!!!

[@hannahwaller9828]

Wish this video had been posted sooner...would have saved me from ruining things. Well at least now I know what not to do when the guy initiates conversation. Always growing, always learning.

[@ChiChi-td9qm]

Just mirror what he does 😜💯✔️👊 The golden rule 🙈

[@danaglover6801]

Facts Indeed💯

[@abeautifulmess163]

Is it bad that I would not try to get him back? If he pulls away, it would tarnish my mental health a lot, and why would I want to feel like I am not worth it? He made his choice to leave, so why would I make an effort if he doesn't?

[@starcatcher3691]

No that is good! Best frame if mind

[@sophiayef444]

Exactly like idc anymore 😂

[@mahaalotaibi8352]

Stop giving all your love to a man who hasn't even made you his wife and mother of his kids???

[@diamondsky1798]

I hear that but, the question is, WHY DO THEY SAY THEY DO WANT A RELATIONSHIP, COMMITMENT ETC THEN?? THEY'RE THE ONES THAT SAY IT FIRST..

[@syarifahfatimah806]

Been needing this !!! Thank you so much, Elliot !!! ❤️❤️❤️

[@InjiArtistry]

You can't win with an emotionally stunted species.

[@LadyGodiva7460]

Agreed! Be a lesbian 🌈💄(I'm not kidding)

[@HereInMyVerona]

😂😂

[@amandasmith6924]

Finally! I have checked my feed everyday to see if you posted a new video. Our lives are not the same w/o your words of wisdom.

[@jonamac2862]

You cut your hair Elliot, I like it! You'reone of my 2 best coaches I had. You helped me a lot 4 yrs ago. God Bless

[@Mandy.S.]

Ugh, so how do us women show interest without coming off needy??

[@deadhead1968]

That's what I would like to know?

[@strawberryjpeg6000]

Mandy Shepherd yes !!! I’m tired of these games they flirt and then pull away when you respond to it in the way they want

[@cherish.o.m4453]

No way dear

[@missc2091]

Mirror the guys efforts

[@DarcyMarieTCB]

Say it with me..... "What's going on everybody, it's your favorite dating coach Elliot Scott" 😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😍

[@sofiank3504]

I agree. Don't put pressure on him and give him an ultimatum right when he comes back. It won't work...but don't fuck him anymore either if that's what made you feel so attached to him. You'll only hurt yourself.

[@doramawrie3741]

Mr Elliot Scott I noticed that you have a very good hair quality !

[@RealJWhitty]

Ok so once he comes back, what then, if he still doesnt want the commitment and keeps pulling away every single time pressure is applied?

[@ElliotScottDating]

That's your fault then for letting him come back lol

[@RealJWhitty]

@@ElliotScottDating daaayyyyummmm.... I know though. I really do. The honesty has smashed my moment.

[@lifetobelived9102]

That seems like too much work. If he isn't serious about you there is no need to be serious about him. Why waste moment of your precious time working with a man who doesn't think he is happy with you.

[@debbysilence4495]

@@ElliotScottDating lol

[@stylin1188]

@@RealJWhitty Next is ass

[@GypsyRock]

00:32 🤣🤣this dude is FOREVER OBSESSED WITH HIS HAIR LMAO

[@ecaldwell9]

Thx U Elliot for expressing this & trying to help. But just to let u know, what you’re saying DON’T do. That’s exactly what we need. If it’s not addressed, it’ll manifest in another way - hence the TV show SNAPPED. WE ARE NOT WIRED LIKE MEN.

[@kirikou306]

Great insights. Less dramatic or categorical than most coaches try to explain it usually.

[@belikestephanie]

Great video and insights! I agree if you have apply pressure it doesn’t work to apply pressure.

[@rosannamiranda4620]

Actions speak louder than words

[@kirazinn]

yes i agree. please make a video series on context when guys pull away. it would be very helpful to me

[@kimt8162]

Yep, you've gotta be firm and clear with what you want. Unfortunately, I let it all be about him and his crap for too long. I thought things were great, we hardly ever fought, had a great time. He didn't see it that way. He had his cake and icing too and wanted it to go on and on and on. After 5 years, my shock that we weren't on the same page. So I would say after a year at the most lay it on the line so that he doesn't start to take you for granted. That's what happened in my situation. I thought because we didn't fight that everything was so great; no. He was avoiding things, and I unknowingly let this go on for 5 years. After 1 year, lay it on the line or he may start to take you for granted.

[@FPT84]

Once you set boundary then stick to it ladies. It's difficult but got to be done. You have to be sure of the boundary first though

[@ML-sq1uj]

Wow !! This is so great, I so needed to hear this!!

[@genevievereindl2660]

I am hiking up the mountain. So over his games

[@joanliazyn6772]

Thank you Elliot.. this is more helpful😊 oh you’re so handsome with your eye glasses😆

[@Koukouna154]

Ladies, when he pulls away just rotate his azzz. Never put all of your eggs in one basket. Just rotate him to number 110 million on your list. Make sure you have a life. You should never ever allow anyone to determine your inner peace and positive energy. You deserve to eat and feast at life’s table and do not accept bread crumbs from these b.s men. You don’t have time to play his reindeer games. Don’t look back just move forward with the next and the one who deserves you. Mirror their behavior and don’t give too much too soon. You are the prize. Keep the cookie in the cookie jar a bit longer. A man who wants something serious will see past your goodies and will do whatever it takes to have something serious with you and most of all he will know the meaning of partnership, definition of building and evolving together. Until then fix your crown and remind yourself daily of what you bring to the table.

[@dashannon9439]

So intrestingly enough. I've been dating a guy for a year and he frequently does this vanishing act, where I won't hear from him for a few days. So recently he asked me about marriage to my response was I don't know, because he wants us to combined EVERYTHING. Which honesly I am not ready for something like that, so I was honest. I told him all I really wanted from the relationship was some one to share my life with and not marriage. So this last time I shot him a text and he responded with he was too busy. So I haven't messaged him or tried to talk to him, it's been over a week. So I recently sent him all his belongings back with a card saying sorry for your loss. Don't under value yourself for an asshole. I'm not interested in his responses, because my time is precious. I refuse to allow someone to waste it. Best of luck ladies. Thank you, Elliot.

[@ameliaRN]

One of your best videos man! Thank you SO much

[@katherinededul6942]

Thanks for this, the perfect bit of advice!

[@GG17250]

Love your personality!

[@mariade1473]

first video of you (I watched) that makes really sense to me ;)

[@GypsyRock]

6:45 plethora. U don’t have to roll ur tongue for this word lol. “Pleth/uh/ruh”lmao🤣love ya

[@kaysmellsgood]

Hey Elliot ..I've been seeing a guy recently he asked me to be girlfriend, he said he really liked me and wants a committed relationship I agreed and everything was cool ... He started acting weird, replying my texts late , he'll rather sleep off than chat with me and now he's stopped texting me , calling and all..I never pressured him for anything I didn't act needy .. He's very active on social media but acts like I don't exist i really don't know what to do or how to handle this...I really like him, should I just leave him alone

[@jbillz9034]

Flip the role on him... dont message him or respond. Sometimes they need a taste of their own medicine.

[@caravb5906]

Yes. Move on xxx

[@fernandaspinola9011]

Maybe he moved too fast in committing and he only realised now he doesn't really want a relationship with you, but he is not willing to let you go completely. Talk to him and give an ultimatum or break up with him because you are not willing to put with his evasive behaviour.

[@fernandaspinola9011]

Probably he doesn't have the balls to break up with you and he is ghosting you so that you break up with him.

[@rachelyant1637]

Girl who r you talking about which guy there is two guys

[@MsRipley76]

But how? The attraction building part? I know you say to hang out with a guy, build attraction, have fun, be fun, laughing and just going with the flow. But when, in doing that I also kind of let him think that´s It´s ok just to have this casual thing.. Him getting the best of it and thinking I´m available. It´s a thin line I think. Can I shift it just by being less available, also seeing other guys? That is for me to try..

[@lilyjoyeux6392]

im happy to see you outside your car ❤

[@Femininelovevibes]

What if he pulls away because he wants you to initiate and show interest? He always complains about me not texting first. This same guy doesn’t want a title on our 8 month relationship. But gave me flowers the other day and when we are together it’s a lot of fun and laughs.

[@robinr.n.416]

This was good 😌

[@kimberlyherrera3813]

Eres el mejor❤ saludos desde México!!

[@donnajustbeingreal6607]

Great video!!

[@kaitlynglick1575]

What do you do if you make the mistake of begging or being clingy? Like i basically got super emotional and put my heart out on the line over text and his response was super short basically that it’s in my head and I said I just need more communication and he got a little better but now he’s pulled away again.

[@kileeclark6620]

You are still my favorite :)

[@ElliotScottDating]

Awe shucks :)

[@kileeclark6620]

@@ElliotScottDating do you have an email or message you..I had to delete snap it was taking up too much space on my phone. I just wanted to let you know I wasn't ignoring you or anything. I didn't know how else to get a hold of you.

[@Chrissybell1210]

Elliott please do a video on what to do after a break up when a person wants to reconcile with the ex. Do we do no contact to get him/her back?

[@cyrisskincare7553]

Lmaooo you are so funny 🔥😂😂 love your videos I’m subscribing now !!!!

[@poeticprincess3965]

Seen this after, I am happy we both took a step back, well he pulled away and I did and yeah too much too soon, happy now talked about things and keeping it light n fresh :) I'm the same with rolling Rs haha

[@jennsbond007]

I made a mess today. I saw him on the road on our way to the gym. He saw me but I got sooo nervous I decided to ignore him or just see him and not really react. I think he took it the wrong way and ignored me as if I didn’t exist. I felt so bad. What should I do ? I like him so much and he likes me too but I am so awkward and shy with this guy for some reason.

[@kaoshi_kutie]

love you Elliott! You Da Man! 😁🙌🏽❤❤

[@glouponem463]

This was good needed this

[@lawrenciaspooner2327]

SCOOOTTTTTT...NICE TO SEE U

[@michelleg7360]

Elliott, I do a preemptive dump when the guy pulls away. I hate that shit!

[@strawberryjpeg6000]

Why does he flirt / test the waters and then ghost ??? Confusing

[@grandanse5827]

But Elliot, what if he confesses his feelings for me and then pulls away pretty much the next day. All I said back was "I like you, too." Not once did I pressure him, talk about titles..nothing😟

[@ElliotScottDating]

I would flip that around and look at it from the other side then: Does he reeeaaalllly like you if he pulled away after spilling his feelings? Probably not. A guy who truly likes you won't put himself in a position to lose you.

[@grandanse5827]

@@ElliotScottDating Thanks for responding, Elliot..not what I wanna hear but probably what I need to. P.S. Love ur work

[@anakkampung-zz2vr]

@@grandanse5827 don't be stupid words equal to action otherwise it's a lie

[@tumelokhumalo9375]

He called after ten days it was a missed call I called him 3mins later he never picked up what do I do now his been silent

[@Yumyumhoneybun]

I MISS YOU!!!!

[@laurenlocd3180]

The guy I’m interested in works at the same place .. I just don’t get it ... HE was the one that liked me first now all of a sudden no calls no text .. when I see him at work he waves but THATS IT! Doesn’t come to say hi and when I sat next to him at break (like I usually do or he usually does ) I could have sworn he looked at me like “wtf are u doing “ I’m just done . Not going to chase him that’s what he wants me to do . I’m about to get my hair done next week and he’s never seen me look different I swear if he text me out of nowhere I’m blocking him .

[@alexadye-washburn1014]

The guy i liked from work did the same exact thing to me he initiated it all he always found some way to come talk to me or glanced at me all the time, teased me and made it obvious he liked me, then we dated briefly, then had a falling out but we agreed to be fwb, now he wont talk to me at all at work or text me but if i text him he texts back instantly and he'll talk to me but he seems to like playing hard to get or something.. i dont understand lol expecially since he wont talk to me at work it so weird

[@xo1207]

*It’s weird... I’m Muslim I liked this guy kinda and he would always reply to my tweets. We are in ramadan now but he’s liking other womens tweets and never mine anymore. He liked my tweet and then unliked it. It was strange. He’s too old to be playing around. What could this mean? I never did anything to him, he never even knew i liked him.. but why unlike my tweets? We are both adult. I’m 21, he’s 24*

[@celineallie7778]

I'm still waiting for the new Guide Elliot. 🤔😍

[@ElliotScottDating]

Fuck I need to work on that ha

[@nailed_sa]

Yayyyyyyy your back💕💕💕

[@alannagrossi4328]

This guy is hysterical 😭

[@marthamauricio7912]

A guy told me “I feel You strong” what does that mean

[@amomsvoice]

If the guy does come around how do you communicate your standards?

[@Extra22219]

love your videos

[@eleanastipsexperiences4494]

I díd This Now im just Waiting to see what happens eventually but I pulled rate away the day after he did I don’t beg I sent a text like what’s going on he didn’t respond that shows me I gotta be out I’m doing me doing my weight loss and focusing all on me

[@cantrellbarney6313]

What if it's the other way around he wants a relationship Then he pulls away

[@heatherann4390]

He being a player and being an orbitter but has feelings for me. I ignored him for weeks and he was hard after me when I ended our casual relationship. Im not the casual type and he knows that. I dont understand him at all and I'm tired of trying to figure him out y hes so hard after me then when we have a great night hes back to his same old casual. After ignoring him and making him chase after me I give him one night and boom same old same old. He didnt contact me for 2 days after he ignored my messages I was pissed y he keeps messing with me when he knows what i want. I drove to his house and made it clear to stop orbiting me, stop chasing me if he doesnt want anything with me. He could have any girl he wants and it's like when he knows he has me it's like hes done the chase and doesnt have to make effort anymore till the next time he feels like taking me off the shelf like I'm some toy and I only come to life when he gives me his scraps of time. No more. No thanks. Blocked bye. I'm getting pissed he keeps orbiting me. I'm getting pissed at myself I fall for it because the sex is AMAZING and I love him I could marry him. But being with him is killing me and way to up and down behavior.

[@tylaj19]

So what if the guy has always been a terrible tester but he’s amazing in person. He has sent me a couple good morning texts but they have stopped. I have texted him a couple times and he texts back “ immediately” but still hasn’t initiated. I haven’t talked to him in three days and I just refuse to reach out anymore. I don’t get it why is he all over me in person but can’t communicate for shit??? I have to wait to talk to him when I see him or something?

[@looslaura1]

Oh I'm watching!😄🤗

[@ohgumdrop2208]

SO I don't know if this is one of these situations I'm pretty new to this. In uni I made some friends and one happened to be a guy that I now have a slight crush on. (btw we live in the same residence). When we were still getting to know each other he would compliment me, always tease me in a joking and I would tease him back, put his arm around me randomly, and would lean on me when we sat next to each other. He and my roommate became friends, so he liked coming over to our room just to hang out. He even invited me to his room and asked me to walk with him to the bus when we were going home for reading week. My roommate and another friend even asked if there was something going on between us. But after reading week he was being different. He kept pointing out girls he found hot in front of me, stopped complimenting me and his jokes were becoming slightly rude which I pointed out to him. At one point he had said he had a crush on a girl but he never did anything about it and now recently says he gave up on her. Now there's a new addition to our friend group that is another girl and he's been hanging out with her more than he has with me. What do you think I should do?

[@self-love2355]

I totally fucked up and did the opposite of what I was supposed to do.

[@brittanyharguess1431]

What if you’re already in a relationship and this happens?

[@chevoniebirthfield5425]

Agree on point so true

[@buzzingbee9499]

He said it wouldn't work I went my way 2 weeks later he calls asks me out calls everday (an ex) then after we go out he tells me needs space. Now not calling or answering me. Said I said I'd give space. Worried hes dating others and I want him badly. What do I do now????

[@dania2369]

If he pulled away should I reach out first ?

[@sexyladyakb]

Yes he literally just gave me a time frame for Marriage then BAM bullshit

[@Npisces]

Please make a video about if im the one who dumped him because he cheated and I want him to get a lesson ? What should I do after? Will he feel sorry?

[@Lizzygracias256]

Thanks very much

[@leila5560]

He is full away after i needy,,after many months messy and sad,now im moving on and find my new life,,but he suddenly tells always love me and miss me and always be there for me, SERIOUSLY?!!🤪😆

[@hanakimigirlie]

I would love to see a video on how to get a guy back after he starts pulling away in a long distance scenario! Do the same rules apply?

[@truthtimetarot]

To summarize: STOP🛑 CARING

[@lindseygasparino]

Did I mess it up :( after first date I was kind of chasing him now I’m not. I feel so stupid! Hope it’s not too late.

[@Theinsomniac826]

I'm a lady and I pulled away due to the pressure but he kept pursuing me and after 2 months I came back to him. We are taking it slow. I got scared due to all the pressure he put on me, he was too available, he sent too many texts, he put a label on me and said i was his girlfriend too soon. I hope it works out.

[@tamsinslater4009]

If you live two hours away, (we texted once in 4 days), and you have an appointment in his town. I texted I was coming. If he responds (hasn't for hours) he is willing to see me, do I say I now have other plans? Wait for him to come to me? Or see him for 20 minutes, and have to go? (No sex).

[@claudiacmbudgets]

So when he pulls away and comes back just be chill about it?? What if he pulls away again, does all this become about him? No pressure but if you want more and he doesn’t, wouldn’t be better to just stay out of it Elliot?

[@arwen_2.0]

Sweetie, you have been gone far too long.. :)