Coming from a man who has been married for many years and has raised daughters. I think he is a truth speaker
@xNoCxNecroBoy5 ай бұрын
So true, watch her actions. If she's a victim in every relationship, RUN.
@DivineLogos5 ай бұрын
It either means she is lying or she always picks the wrong men. Both are bad.
@coffeelover17635 ай бұрын
How many hours has it been since the last lie you gentlemen told?
@DivineLogos5 ай бұрын
@@coffeelover1763 Days ago probably, can't even remember.
@dontron55185 ай бұрын
@@coffeelover1763 White lies do not compare with false accusations, which can be devastating to the victim accused.
@coffeelover17635 ай бұрын
@@DivineLogos Days isn't very long...
@fulopeduard5 ай бұрын
This is indeed true. For example, my girlfriend lied to me about being pregnant while I was travelling because she was afraid of losing me and wanted to keep me close. She even went so far as to send me a positive pregnancy test. You have to be careful.
@coffeelover17635 ай бұрын
That sucks. So you never lie at all?
@DavGre5 ай бұрын
Society is generally more accepting of clingy women than clingy men, but to lie about a pregnancy is getting dangerously close to crazy town.
@Babygrinch6505 ай бұрын
@@coffeelover1763most normal men know the consequences of lying so we try not to do it. Women know they’re more likely to get away with it because “she’s just a girl” type stuff. A lot of men will act like they don’t know what’s going on instead of lying if they have to. While some women will create a whole false truth to cover for themselves. Aka lying. Bad guys lie too but the consequences are usually more severe,and they lose all respect. I’ve experienced more women lying about serious stuff than men. Situations putting me in direct danger because of a woman afraid to express the truth. Even more dangerous when she involves multiple men who have no clue what’s really going on. A lot of women are freaking puppet masters. That’s why they say a girl with many guys friends is a red flag. It’s so important for men to learn to control their sexual energy and not get hooked by a manipulative woman.
@frblaze25 ай бұрын
@@coffeelover1763a masculine man avoids lying if not necessary, you wouldn't know being a feminine male
@coffeelover17635 ай бұрын
@@Babygrinch650 I could say the same thing but with men. I don't really have friends anymore. The ones I did have were mostly men. The women went crazy, and because of relationships, friends with the men couldn't be, because of how the world is. That made me go crazy on my male friends. Nasty cycle. I hate lying though. I guess I'm more masculine in some ways, and apparently that's not good either, lol. Can't win lol.
@ggzii5 ай бұрын
She mentally abused me for months, silent treatment, blaming my reactions to HER bad behaviour as the issue, no accountability, when I ended it, suddenly "I was bad for her mental health" despite being the "Only man she ever knew to car this much and pay for therapy". So when I ended it I was shocked she told her mates I was bad, Sadly some people are narcassists and will do anything to protect their life of lies.
@coffeelover17635 ай бұрын
I've dealt with the same stuff with men, it really sucks when people are not accountable and don't take responsibility.
@pushbackorlaydown5 ай бұрын
Going through something similar, praying for you brother
@coffeelover17635 ай бұрын
@@pushbackorlaydown That sucks dude. If women said all men are liers when they say this, how would you feel? You know how both men and women who are like this are, you might know better about this topic.
@KingBeef2165 ай бұрын
@@coffeelover1763 You're really pressing this "well what about men?" narrative, aren't you? Yes...men lie too. Want to know the difference? Men are actually held accountable societally by said lies. Women are not, by comparison.
@DreErdna3 ай бұрын
Mice shades
@NobleBruv4 ай бұрын
I think women's narcissism can be so potent that they can actually convince themselves that things happen to them that actually never happened.
@Unknown-sz8kg5 ай бұрын
👯 16-30: I don't need no man 🤱31-36: Where the good men at 👵37-45: I'm still young 🧟46-death: I made a mistake ☠️ Last word: I blame men
@frblaze25 ай бұрын
More like 16-25
@JoeyJ0J05 ай бұрын
Cope
@wastemanagement38755 ай бұрын
16-last word: I blame men
@DreErdna3 ай бұрын
@@wastemanagement3875😂
@DreErdna3 ай бұрын
@@wastemanagement38750-End
@juniorsanchez74415 ай бұрын
I once dated a coworker that claimed she had been r@ped and given up the child to adoption because of it. I was new to the job so i believed her. I was so angry and even wanted to find the guy. I started asking around and turns out some of his family members worked there as well. They proceeded to show me photographs of them dating and together that they were a happy couple she tricked him into impregnating her, so she could keep him around, so he left her. She gave up the baby to spite him and made up the story about rape to ruin his reputation.
@juniorsanchez74414 ай бұрын
@@quartzshine2828 Honestly i was crazy and immature asf at that point in my life like. 22 years old fresh put of county jail simping HARD 🤣🤣🤣 thank goodness i saw the light
@dnicexxx8865 ай бұрын
It’s the truth
@coffeelover17635 ай бұрын
No, it's not. Think about the last lie you told
@DivineLogos5 ай бұрын
True, they lie often, sometimes even to themselves. Can't see truth when you are emotional.
@coffeelover17635 ай бұрын
Except this is true of men and women.
@entitiessoul5 ай бұрын
Nah men use logic. Men always get blamed for everything including Adam and Eve.
@47nodoubt5 ай бұрын
no wonder the holy books address men only.
@loveistheanswer59245 ай бұрын
@@entitiessoulWhat about Adam and Eve? 🙂
@loveistheanswer59245 ай бұрын
I don't understand why you guys say that women often lie when man and women both lie... 🤔
@thomasanderson25515 ай бұрын
It helps tremendously if you don't take the female tendencies emotionally or personally. Have empathy and understanding, but still calmly hold her to the flames of accountability. At the end, you'll maintain your self-respect as a man and she'll respect you even more for it.
@deepsmoviereviews32125 ай бұрын
Exactly!
@Brandon.manga.5 ай бұрын
A wise man once said, "When you know, you know... Done."
@bozo24664 ай бұрын
Holy shit old Elliot is back and love the "done" in the end I freaking popped off when I heard it. Thank you so much for the wisdom
@47nodoubt5 ай бұрын
I was probably age 11-14 when these events happened. Case 1- Girl in one of my class claims she will commit suicide if i'm not with her. Interesting she later becomes like top 3 popular girls in our high school. Case 2- Girlfriend and I go to the movies, later tells her friends that I was touching her while she was "sleeping" at the movies. Well, I can surely say she was not asleep. This didn't make me despise women, but more recent events involving women on a non sexual relation has proven that it just ain't worth it. When it comes down to it, most dudes are just paying for sex, either with money or time. In short, we live in a degen sex addicted cult, where most of the members don't have sex to reproduce!
@mosescola41745 ай бұрын
Return of the Mack! “Ya lied to me!” -Mark Morrison
@benjaminwood81265 ай бұрын
But I do, do, do.
@mosescola41745 ай бұрын
@@benjaminwood8126 “yes I cried! Yes I cried cried cried! Return of the Mack!”
@Tripp393Ай бұрын
OOOHHH LAWDD
@Random-rt5ec5 ай бұрын
I caught my wife of 10 years cheating on me. Every time I asked questions about her betrayal the facts changed. Conclusion: I don’t believe anything my wife tells me about her sexual history. Shame is I thought she was so sweet & innocent, obviously I was wrong.
@PhamVans4 ай бұрын
That's a tough one brother... Loyalty is all a man really needs in this world, and to find out she ain't the one after 10 years is.......
@Naturalhit5 ай бұрын
Yes. Very true. My friend is currently is in prison now for 5 years now because he was accused of rape by his girlfriend who he had a baby with. The girl tried to take it back and she admitted to lying after the trail, bit it's too late and it's a mess.
@Random-rt5ec5 ай бұрын
What an idiot I was - when I 1st met my wife she told me she never wanted kids, but she kept getting pregnant & having miscarriages & l was saying WTF to myself. I admit back then I was a Blue Pilled idiot thinking women were special and would never lie.
@jahreigns8885 ай бұрын
Tell her to press charges. It's not your business.
@dsciple5 ай бұрын
Elliot spoke facts
@r34p3r_here5 ай бұрын
Couldn't agree more. After my last relationship, I realized how susceptible I was to being played by her without actually realizing it. Eventually I caught on and ended it. So much better now in comparison.
@Lu-e5 ай бұрын
Somewhere far in place there’s a woman punching air saying this video is “misogynist”
@findingfr33dom4 ай бұрын
Honestly, I think you'll get surprisingly little push back from this, because men are *that* disenchanted in women right now. Just two or three days ago, the story of several women being assaulted in NYC broke. A female NYC council member asked the question on twitter: "Where are the men calling this out?" 99.9% of the men responding to her post were saying things like "you voted for this," "I was told women didn't need men," "you literally did this to yourself," and noting that she literally supported locking up Daniel Penny. Men have had enough.
@dymongodbey75975 ай бұрын
This was a really good Take
@focus30104 ай бұрын
Great video
@AndrewCraigPianoPlayer4 ай бұрын
This is absolutely the truth. I would have liked to know this when I was younger.
@dontron55185 ай бұрын
So, to explain her actions you have to force the foot into the smaller shoe and say it's a mechanism for her to survive. A child has to be confronted with their error before they would even begin to prevaricate in the same way. How does she survive by potentially accusing someone of a deed they did not do ? She brought it up of the past deed without threat, torment or punishment.
@dontron55185 ай бұрын
If that is a survival mechanism for women... then the human race is doomed.
@Fiazco5 ай бұрын
The thing is that we as men are hardly depending on honest feedback for self development reasons. Women lie most of the time when they fear negative reactions from the guy. These are the situations where we are missing out of learning from our mistakes. It makes it more difficult cause we have to find out by ourselves what went wrong.
@loveistheanswer59245 ай бұрын
Reminds me of the Bible verse: When anyone replies to a matter before he hears the facts, It is foolish and humiliating. (Proverbs 18: 13) Or from another translation: What a shame, what a stupidity to give advice before you know the background! (Proverbs 18: 13) I would believe her tho. Its more likely in my opinion that she says the truth!
@hbutta10095 ай бұрын
I love this video keep the videos coming very powerful information
@EndlessWeekendlife5 ай бұрын
That's a really good way to put it, women's survival mechanism. I have reacted in the past based on partial information given to me at the time, intentional for me to react. My greatest regret was scaring a guy so much about 'what he done'.. to him dying months later and that was my last conversation with him and my reaction based on mistruths.
@loveistheanswer59245 ай бұрын
Reminds me of the Bible verse: When anyone replies to a matter before he hears the facts, It is foolish and humiliating. (Proverbs 18: 13) Or from another translation: What a shame, what a stupidity to give advice before you know the background! (Proverbs 18: 13) 📖🙂👍
@123someone3215 ай бұрын
I'd like to give a females perspective on this. R*pe is one serious accusation and personally I wouldn't dare ruin someones reputation and life just so I can get some attention. While this might be true to some extend (I know women can lie as can men, both about different things). We need to be careful and discerning when approaching r*pe topic. There are some women who really do go through it and last thing they would need is someone to accuse them of lying. There is no real way to know if someone is lying but by following gut instinct and by observing the person in question. Have you caught them lying about other things? Did you catch them lying to others in front of you? Do they always like to have it their way? Something just feels off and you can't quite put your finger on it? Writing down their story and seeing if they slightly change it each time they talk about it. (Unless its a recent event and the memories are still coming back).
@juniorgamba5 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing this Elliott
@Sachi_19964 ай бұрын
Us young men don't want to believe this, until it's too late. Great wisdom.
@Mai_Tai_Meyers5 ай бұрын
This video came at a good time. I'm dating this girl and she has been dealing with an ex that has been a bit too persistent with trying to get her back (showing up at her work/home, and continuing to 'get at' her). At first, I thought I should step in and basically tell him to back off, but lately, I've been thinking, "Wait, I don't know the whole story, maybe I should hold off before doing something rash." I dunno man, I'm gonna see how it plays out. You guys have any idea what I should do?
@gaian6395 ай бұрын
My experience and instinct tell me "don't date her". It is very likely you will end up being that same guy next.
@iElia5 ай бұрын
Have had a similar situation. But the girl said the ex still comes to her house and also inside (but they dont do anything together) she exposed herself LOL after that i lost interest.
@Mai_Tai_Meyers5 ай бұрын
@@iElia oh mann, that's rough dude
@Mai_Tai_Meyers5 ай бұрын
@@gaian639 I've had that same thought!
@coffeelover17635 ай бұрын
Maybe show up when he does
@roadbully3843 ай бұрын
Thank you for having this very uncomfortable conversation that ALL men must be aware of.
@JujuBerry5 ай бұрын
Thank you!
@BLaQz844 ай бұрын
Watch their actions, not their words...
@cic6002Ай бұрын
Well, it used to be that way but now women say they are strong and independent and don’t need no man so we are starting to look the other way now
@josephmichael11315 ай бұрын
“Do as I say, not as I do”
@VertexOnKeysАй бұрын
Listen to Colleen buddy
@Stevesguitartraveling7775 ай бұрын
What I learned in life is pay attention to what they do not what they say because if she is all talk and no action, then she’s playing games and wasting your time. If you know she’s playing games and you’ve had enough you should not have to spell it out to her if she is smart enough to play games then she is smart enough to see the size that you have figured out what she is doing, let the women in there boy play along when you got your act together you don’t have to accept it from women or anyone in that matter
@singlemotherRespector4 ай бұрын
This spitting facts
@meanmole32125 ай бұрын
Are you posting from midsummer Finland?
@nordicforex885 ай бұрын
Nice
@panzeralienofficial5 ай бұрын
Lol 😂
@NobleBruv4 ай бұрын
Simply, don't believe women.
@itsamadness65785 ай бұрын
Well said elliot.
@calholli5 ай бұрын
I wish you would make a video addressing all the reuploads.. What is the strategy here? At least make a short about it
@goddard9765 ай бұрын
Exact
@rtxfox57455 ай бұрын
Uncle Yo!
@jonsnow9115 ай бұрын
4:40 turned on by anger
@AnthonyRusso935 ай бұрын
Resist the urge to hulk out over everything Solid advice doesn't make as clickable title that's just marketing You see "Women lie" and think NO I HAVE TO DEFEND THEM FROM THIS SLANDER! *click*
@coffeelover17635 ай бұрын
Not all women lie, starting to really question if any man tell the truth though...
@nissanzenkiboy5 ай бұрын
Wait I’ve seen this?
@coffeelover17635 ай бұрын
Yes, he double shares vids
@1badmotherucker9475 ай бұрын
Great advice. This is real. This is the importance of perception and perspective in regards of the ex and himself
@entitiessoul5 ай бұрын
If it's women that actually want to better themselves rather than better their imaginary street cred. Then okay. But don't give them a upper edge than it is.
@Babygrinch6505 ай бұрын
💯truth
@joshroberts56615 ай бұрын
They're lying 😐
@bw32415 ай бұрын
💯
@SarahJacquier3 ай бұрын
Is this satire?
@VlogVibes3 ай бұрын
How many men in here would like to see YT content based around a proven process to make WISE, GODLY decisions-every time?
@mikep59075 ай бұрын
Women want to be held….unless it’s accountable.
@DreErdna3 ай бұрын
yoooooooo hahahahah this is classic
@rendarsmith5 ай бұрын
Ask to see the police report. If there isn't one then you know she's lying.
@ef28835 ай бұрын
Prophet Muhammad(ﷺ) said: "Many men have attained perfection but no women have attained perfection except Maryam bint 'Imran (Mary) and Asiyah the wife of Fir'awn (Pharaoh).“
@BigDome15 ай бұрын
Better yet, don't make blanket rules about people, use common sense, intuition and reasoning to judge things on a case by case basis. Saying "don't believe women" is not that much less stupid than saying "#believeallwomen"
@nstar13722 ай бұрын
Best comment 🙏🏿
@alexmix86655 ай бұрын
Чистая правда. Верить нельзя.
@ReconcilemE5 ай бұрын
ur mentality is so precious but learning from the younger kids. Their standards are predominantly flipped lol
@dannylesnarr23465 ай бұрын
Nice
@wmcm96295 ай бұрын
Good shit bro, looks like you skin is a little dry make sure you are taking your cinnamon supplements
@Bobnormal45 ай бұрын
Gay
@mihalisg69405 ай бұрын
After that Goggins video, I cannot take this dude seriously any more.
@KingBeef2165 ай бұрын
Okay...?
@doctorgainz5 ай бұрын
Thanks for sharing your opinion. We needed it
@Robert-ri7mt5 ай бұрын
There all liars.
@marcelmorningman64295 ай бұрын
Since it went more and more wierd Im out of this Channel. Thanks for Awesome and powerful fitness and mindset advices years ago Elliot! Whenever you will Go Back to that I would love it! Til then its Not for me
@tomojobs5 ай бұрын
Absolutely
@marry.mebitc.h32795 ай бұрын
were you always bold, looked at your old videos no good hair to be seen
@josephmcnamee76015 ай бұрын
If I have as much hair as Eliot when I’m in my 40s il be happy . Mines falling out I’m only in my late Twenties
@dilpickles59285 ай бұрын
What does being bald have to do with the message he's trying to convey? Are you always vapid and shallow?