You have to STUDY YOURSELF to change yourself

[@incubus3069]

We have something called only Womens Fitness. Why can't there be an only Men's Fitness? No more looking at women, vice versa just hard work and grinding.

[@blackout2430]

Preach. Nothing more fucking annoying then going to the gym and seeing a chick half naked and then find out she’s with some bum ass ug dude or already married.. It would be nice to go somewhere not have to see a bunch of women and just focus on training I agree with this

[@LorenzoMasterConnector]

@@blackout2430segregation would be incredible

[@painfree1349]

Bro, you continue to do Gods work, you’ve been hitting the nail on the head for 10+ years. We thank you sincerely brother!

[@jindavis1384]

I love the metaphor of Jesus walking on water meaning walking above our emotions. I wonder if that was a metaphor commonly used in the days when the texts in the Bible were written.

[@breatheeasily4013]

That is literal. But there are a lot metaphors.

[@albertguldbrandsen969]

Hamza is a great teacher for me and has been very influencial in my life. Just like you Elliot, thank you!

[@dayjayplays2829]

Well said🙏 even the bible tells us to “run” away from sin, not to fight it

[@johnandez3287]

Elliott is a wise man. He started me looking into myself and begin self improvement. If i hadn't discovered him 8 years ago i wouldn't have know half the things.

[@hwnwhaler1]

Turn your eyes away. So simple so correct and so useful. I need to really make more use of that

[@hgff69]

I've tried it recently, so someone literally asked me if I'm autistic 😏

[@danemyburgh]

Thanks for all the advice here brother! Not going to lie... I cracked up at 15:00 🤣🤣🤣

[@Bluestarjojo]

There is one thing I will argue, women do revert back into needing daddy just like men do for mommy. I would like to see Elliot talk more about the dynamics between a man and his daughter because those relationships can become just as incestuous .

[@k.a1z597]

Wow good point with the mommy/daddy thing for why women seek the masculin and men seek the feminim and why it's so attractive to us

[@GramoChopin]

Umm....if ur going anywhere in the realm of incest..u need mental help severely.

[@marksavoia3687]

@ Bluestarjojo Read Genesis and see how God set things up. God is the Father/source of Adam, Adam is the father/source of Eve.

[@Bluestarjojo]

@@marksavoia3687 I'm talking about how young women seek out relationships to revert back into a spoil brat princess that wants to be disciplined in a sexual way. Not in a normal healthy man/woman dynamic.

[@marksavoia3687]

@@Bluestarjojo and i'm talking about ... father is the foundation of family, family is the foundation of society... therefore, if Man is Noble, Fatherhood would be Righteous

[@dalewhite4759]

I’m 61 .. I’m sure I am Elliot’s senior but make NO MISTAKE.. he is more aware of what we are up against in this modern world on many levels than me because unless you are vigilant.. many vices await your weaknesses.. I own my own business for 32 years now.. and I’m no dummy..the truth is spoken here

[@dwong9289]

This is absolutely sound advice. Not looking at women is the best way to avoid lust and there’s no need to validate immodesty.

[@Kristoffceyssens]

The vallue you give to men is greater then you expect. Thank you Elliot. Lets build some good sturdy families and let God reveal himself more in every moment and every day and night.

[@markcarreon8545]

Bro he was in point with the examples on what leads to sin at 3:40

[@colbyd.5044]

This is my favorite video of yours to date. Repeat this message over and over this hits the nail on the head!

[@princejohns4726]

The messages in this video are 100% Factual Thanks Dawg

[@user-dy2cg3hj6m]

Thank you Uncle E, I needed this video 🙏🏻

[@dystopiaseven]

Elliot you're like the father I ever had Ⓜ️🗿🌌

[@Lonta76mercury]

Extremely profound video here..appreciate you for sharing! 🤝

[@angelcontreras3956]

I close my eyes when there’s a woman that I can’t resist looking at

[@Michal-Drienik-manifestor]

Great video Elliott. You changed me so much. thanks

[@Perroloco603]

You content is getting better and better. Maybe it's mystical inspiration. Keep ascending.

[@jasminefarr1572]

Loved this 💕

[@Chris-hp8wd]

great content brother i am stil a boy and i try and spread the gospel of masculinity good morales good priorities and ambitions amen and god bless

[@dirtydean1594]

you and hamza are my greatest online mentors

[@jasonborn867]

I give credit where it's due and you dished out some wonderful advice here, Elliott. My journey in becoming more objective was to remove long-held biases that kept me from discerning reality. I really appreciated your examples of science, Muslims, and Cherokee Indians to make various points. Quite perceptive and spot on points, sir.

[@StunCannon]

I think sub consciously I've been doing something like this idea of studying myself through journaling. Bought a leather bound journal and almost everyday I write out my thoughts on the days events. Only miss writing when I've had a really tiring day and usually go to sleep as soon as I'm home

[@K.Loves.You8]

Hey, I would highly recommend Travel Bum Productions KZbin channel. He basically talks about how self-esteem/confidence with women comes from the backbone of good emotions from the parents in the first 2 years of your life. That's why some guys don't need the validation from them. The really great technique he offers is a psychotherapy meditation called reparenting, where you imagine yourself with ideal parents through the different stages of dev. This changes your subconscious and over time, you become a person that can validate himself, without the need for any exterior source of validation.

[@ericmalo5597]

I think Elliot has a point, however, I prefer not to avoid sin. In a way, in my humble opinion, it is necessary to embrace our dark side, otherwise it becomes worst. Anyway, I will be here watching Elliot`s vids. He is always bringing something interesting for one to ponder!

[@S7jose]

Love this guy

[@carlosgpacheco1621]

Thanks for your teaching Bro. When I lived in Sonora (Mexico), I was told the following practice from the Seris (the native people from the desert in Sonora and Arizona). At certain age, the boys where taken to the desert, they had to cross it to become a man, and of course they had to survive.

[@georgeniculescu8241]

Elisha Long is also a great guy to listen to for men

[@dee-ix3iq]

Brilliant

[@rifkyamir3610]

Thanks E

[@danielmelendez935]

Word

[@itsaprilsfool]

I think I'm going to look into a physical boot camp or a military training program

[@thevalleyofdisappointment]

8:37 not only are you giving them free validation but you are also degrading your own dignity and self esteem.

[@StatikFeedBacK]

Part of my ancestry is Cherokee, never knew that. Fascinating…

[@donniebgood1486]

The most interesting Native American tribe is the Fukawee Indian. Every year they would climb the mountains ⛰ and the chief would scream Where the Fukawee where the Fukawee!!!

[@inspiredx3866]

Timothy 2:22 Now flee from youthful lusts and pursue righteousness of love and faith

[@jimmy32pdl70]

15:04 😂😂😂😂

[@marksavoia3687]

@6:10 Islam is Man submitting to Allah and Woman submitting to Man. Islam is Noble Manhood and Righteous Fatherhood. Islam is the habit of virtuous actions.

[@hangwithsean]

What happened to the newest take action plan? I had it on my watch later and it's gone! Was looking forward to watching it....

[@jesuschrististhesaviour9511]

yo elliot, i have a question. can also girls go in monk mode too to prevent the evilness attacking them or whoever they look. please answer me. god bless you

[@samp6162]

There seems to be different books named "the sinners guide". Please can someone clarify the author of the book Elliott mentioned? Thanks

[@XxKINGatLIFExX]

How do you look at women if you are looking to "court" a woman or select a mate? You have to at least be able to gaze across the room to see if you find any attractive.

[@1badmotherucker947]

Great question

[@soulflex805]

When selecting a partner, looks /the outside should be last. Character and the way she carries herself should be what to look for.

[@bodnarova05]

Looking for wife material, not looking from your ego. Men want to often impress other men , hence the term trophy wife

[@Amatullaah.1]

In Islaam, a woman's father or her brother should be the one looking for a good husband for his daughter/sister. Even Christian men used to do this for their daughters. As a religious man who attends the House of God for worship, whether that is the masjid, church or temple, you would become aware of the other men you regularly see there & could get to know them. When your daughter has reached the age of marriage, you could let this be known to the men in the community & you would then select eligible candidates to meet your daughter, granddaughter, niece, or sister in your presence. So, the man who is responsible for a woman in his family (who has expressed that she is ready for marriage) should be the one questioning & testing men before allowing them to meet her. No random guys are allowed to just start looking at her, talking to her privately, & having an intimate relationship with her & then she goes to her family & says, "A man proposed to me & I said yes!" Righteous men go to a woman's father & ask if he can meet with her in the father's presence to get to know her & look at her to see if there is compatibility. Women's emotions can be easily manipulated. Just look at all the pick-up "artists" who are using women's emotions against them & toying with them just to have sex with them. Therefore, a responsible, God-fearing man looks out for the women in his care &, because he knows how other men can operate, HE is the one investigating their reputation, their character, their intentions, their financial stability, their family of origin, their religious commitment, their maturity etc. before letting the man have a chance to meet with her, & even then the meeting is supervised by him so the guy doesn't start asking any inappropriate questions or anything. As a man seeking to know/court a woman-hopefully for the purposes of marriage!-the pure thing to do is to get involved in your religion's organization & meet other men your age who may have sisters or older men who may have daughters your age. Express your desire to marry a religiously committed woman & that you want to go through her father for a sit-down meeting to see & get to know eligible women. It might seem "different" in these times, but a good, pious family would see this as a green flag, for sure, & this way of courtship needs to make a comeback. If a man went through my father first, it would blow my mind! I would be like, "Whoa, this guy's serious. And he seems like a gentleman. Classy." If meet with a woman & you're not attract physically, you can simply thank her & her father for the meeting & then respectfully say you're not sure that this is a compatible match & that you wish her the best & then continue your search. In Islaam, especially in countries with few Muslims, some brothers who happen to see a sister in public who is wearing the headscarf but her face is visible & they find her beautiful, will simply give her a slip of paper with their name & phone number & tell her, "Please give this to your wali to contact me." Or they will ask her for her wali's phone number so they can call him. The "wali" is her male guardian, which is her father, unless he is dead, in which case there is an order which determines which male relative in next in line to take over responsibility for her for matters such as this. Not sure if you're Christian, but a lot of Elliott's viewers are. If so, getting involved in a local religious organization would be an excellent way to go. But I would advise that it is for the actual purpose of worship & seeking out religious knowledge before anything, & then for establishing relationships with the other men in attendance, not just for going there to scope out the women. Ya gotta network, man! Another thing I've learned some Muslim men do, especially from men from Pakistan I've noticed, is that they actually create a marriage CV that has their picture & contact info & details about their family, education, work, etc. & they will give that to the woman's father for his consideration. Just know though that if you're approaching random women in the street who show themselves & their beauty openly to any man who happens to see them that they might have wildly different religious beliefs & whatnot...I mean, they might be Atheists, Satanists, Wiccans or a "spiritual but not religious" New Ager or something. So if you asked for her father's contact info, she would look at you like you're crazy & laugh at you, although, in reality, it is really they who are living in a weird way. But, anyways. If you want to meet pious, chaste, virtuous, humble, modest, religiously committed women, you're most likely going to first meet their male relative in your place of worship. If you come close to God, you will also develop strong bonds with other men who serve God, & you will naturally meet a woman who will be an ideal spouse. I feel really bad for a lot of Western Christians because the traditional way of courting women seems so foreign & difficult for them these days. I'm an American living in Egypt & even the Coptic Christians here marry in a similar way to the Muslims. It's so different from what I grew up seeing in my non-practicing Protestant Christian family & in my community whom definitely didn't truly have God at the center of their lives. Many Western Christians don't feel like they're a part of a community of other Christians, but rather everyone is totally isolated from each other. Even if they go to church on Sunday, they leave without having gotten to know anyone else there. My family, for example only ever went to church on Easter Sunday a couple of times & once on Mother's Day when I was a kid & never again after that. So a lot of Westerners who consider themselves Christians just resort to doing what even the Atheists do: they seek romantic & sexual partners just by gazing around looking for someone who physically attracts them & arouses their desire, & then they start talking to that person on the phone or online all the time, & they arrange to go out together & then eventually become intimate with each other before it is religiously lawful for them to do that & start living together before getting married. And some don't even ever get married to this person they're living with & sleeping with! I know so many American Christians who have Bible verses quoted on their Instagram or Facebook, but they have a baby with someone they're not married to, or have their toddler as the flower girl at their wedding years after the child was born out of wedlock. It's so sad. They've transgressed the limits of their Lord & don't even seem to understand that or feel concerned about it. May God make easy for us the finding of righteous spouses & help us to obey Him & worship Him as He deserves to be worshipped. Amen.

[@mbsfaridi]

@@Amatullaah.1 Wali, Guardian and Biodata are some words we use. Long comment but well written and informative :)

[@jefferystartm9442]

"I'm not saying yall looking at your family " -not for Bill in the countryside

[@Marc467gg]

What about the garden of eden. Ignorance was bliss in that story, when they became aware of things after eating the fruit, that was the beginning of evil???

[@makp.2586]

Become the lion

[@danielmelendez935]

Do you still do strength camp?

[@leedsunited4872]

Yes he does

[@LorenzoMasterConnector]

I would actually disagree, women do revert to mommy but their version of mommy is “daddy”… look around you women are always looking for a “dadd figure and it’s actually more socially acceptable for some reason.

[@makp.2586]

Monke Mode

[@gavinspeaks]

The key is not putting the law of attraction on a pedestal. You don’t put oxygen on a pedestal, you just use it. The same with LOA. Just be chill! ~Much Love from a Law of Attraction KZbinr💜

[@TheTrueThaiboi]

Everything is pattern

[@ranidudeBRUH]

Okay Belliott

[@paulgoodwin4844]

Your own wonderful imagination is Jesus Christ.

[@muzzammilhoosain4747]

I'm 24 and I've never had had agf nor have I kissed a girl. I can't drive and I still live at home, I dropped out of school at 13 but went back at 16. I did was top of my class in grade ten despite not having grade 9 but after that I lost interest and I ended up failing grade 12 and scrapping through grade 11. I don't have a degree and I'm struggling to find a job. I literally have zero friends like no social media and zero contacts on whatsapp. No one gives a shit about me and I spend my days at home lol my mom takes care of me she's overbearing and she coddled me. My dad isn't there for me and he told me to kill myself honestly I don't blame him at this point I tried but didn't have any money for potassium cyanide I think I may dose my sorrows in Jack Daniel's and drown myself since I can't swim as well fuck my life. I taught myself trading and made a few thousand dollars but lost everything I also tried coding but gave up because I realized I'd never have a cs degree and I played chess but gave up because I started too late. I haven't really experienced life and all I've managed to do is fail miserably I think I'm going to kill myself since I'm a fucking loser with adhd and bipolar who can't take care of himself and who doesn't deserve to procreate.

[@benedictcherlet8583]

24 aswell, been to prison at 18 father figure suicided and aswell in prison mom also cuddled me to much but i am on track and its fucking hard working 6/7 in a butchery can get a job really fast no degree gettting payed about 3k each month not bad, but not good aswell i can relate to u on a deeper level yhea mental issues 117% :p xoxo

[@benedictcherlet8583]

also telegram is where u can find me faster not that much on discord youtube i would see aswell but not that private tho

[@muzzammilhoosain4747]

@@benedictcherlet8583 dude that's fucking rough I'm sorry to hear your experience has been that potent. Yeah bruv shit is difficult with no one to show you the way. I think 24 is a reset year so that's good news for us both, have you heard about Iron John? You should check it out Robert bly says that the road of ashes is a fall from status or more like a disintegration coming to terms with broken dreams and accepting almost like a going down phase where you feel all your pain and shit then come out the other side. Sum like that

[@benedictcherlet8583]

@@muzzammilhoosain4747 have been trough that now two times officaly u learn and live i made really good money with crypto's for two years aswell but fucked it up since lack of self control now i'm back investing this money but family kind of hates me and i need to move out so thats workign on my nerves but nothing bone breaking

[@benedictcherlet8583]

@@muzzammilhoosain4747 if u ever want to talk hit me up i also have whatsapp that i can see fast brothers need brothers

[@Amatullaah.1]

"˹O Prophet!˺ Tell the believing men to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things, such as deliberately gazing at unrelated women to whom they are not married, thereby causing them to feel sexual desire for them) and guard their chastity (from committing illegal sexual acts like premarital sex or adultery). That is purer for them. Surely Allaah is All-Aware of what they do. "And tell the believing women to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things, such as deliberately gazing at unrelated men to whom they are not married, thereby causing them to feel sexual desire for them) and guard their chastity (from committing illegal sexual acts like premarital sex or adultery), and not to reveal their adornment [i.e., beauty] except what is (necessarily) apparent [like one or both eyes out of necessity to see the way, or the outer palms of their hands or outer garments like their loose outer dress, head-cover, face veil or gloves, as they cannot possibly conceal those things]. "Let them draw their veils over their Juyûbihinna (i.e. their heads, faces, necks, bosoms & bodies), and not reveal their ˹hidden˺ adornments except to their husbands, their fathers, their fathers-in-law, their sons, their stepsons, their brothers, their brothers’ sons or sisters’ sons, their fellow women(i.e. their sisters in Islaam), those ˹bondwomen˺ in their possession [i.e., female servants], old male servants who lack physical desire, or small children who are still unaware of women’s nakedness [i.e., little boys who do not yet feel arousal when looking at the shape of a woman's body or by seeing her face adorned with makeup, or seeing her jewelry or her hair, or smelling her perfume, etc.] "And let them not stamp their feet to make known what they conceal of their adornment [i.e., they should not purposely walk in such a way as to make strange men hear the jingling sounds made by their ankle bracelets & other jewelry, thereby causing some men to become curious about what beautiful things she is wearing under her outer garments]. "Turn to Allaah in repentance all together, O believers, so that you may be successful." quran {dot} com/24?startingVerse=30 The Qur'aan, chapter 24, verses 30-31 The Prophet, peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him, said, "Whenever a man is alone with a woman, the Devil makes a third.” sunnah {dot} com/mishkat:3118 sunnah {dot} com/tirmidhi:2165 This does not apply to a man with his wife or his mother or daughter or any other female blood relative, but rather between an unrelated & unmarried man & woman. The Devil will attempt to make them lust after each other so that they will commit the sin of having sexual intercourse out of wedlock. The Prophet, peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him, said, "The woman advances and retires in the shape of a devil, so when one of you sees a woman, he should come to his wife, for that will repel what he feels in his heart." sunnah {dot} com/muslim:1403a This in no way implies that women are inherently evil, but rather that Satan tries to inspire women to beautify themselves before going out in public & passing by men, arousing sexual desire in them. It may also be the case that a woman is modestly dressed but the wind blows her clothing in such a way that the shape of her very curvy body becomes visible & a man sees that accidently & feels desire. So, in such a case, a married man should fulfill his desire with his own wife so that the feeling goes away & Satan is unable to incite him to fulfill that desire with the strange woman he saw in public. So, basically, avoid your triggers. It's a two-way street: Women should be mindful of the way they dress & act in front of strange men, & men should avoid looking at strange women to the best of their ability, & men who accidentally see what makes them feel desire should find satisfaction with their own wife. The best way to avoid falling into sin is to get married in front of God/Allaah, even if it is just the religious ceremony & never filed with the government of the land you live in & rather a contract before God by both parties & the woman's father or uncle or brother or other believing male family member.