Women Aren't Impressed By Mastery

[@mystykalmn4434]

Don't Try To Impress Anyone Or Any Woman. You Will Regret It Later, Elliott he's a married Man but he's REAL

[@VlogVibes]

This is the classic ‘Maverick & Charlie‘ dynamic. If my man starts influencing the 4 to 5 people he sits near (including the teacher) in a positive way, ie; playful banter, jokes, genuine interest in who they are, there’s no way she won’t take notice. On top of that, like Uncle E recommended, if he is smashing his assignments, she’ll be super intrigued. Whether or not he chooses to amuse her interest, is up to him. Social proof (charisma) + competency = daddy energy.

[@mikevitiello8182]

This makes me think back to highschool. I took difficult AP courses because of a girl. I can look back and say BETA

[@sethboooooi23245]

Haha, AP US history had a couple hot nerdy girls in there so that was “open season” for me. Open in my own head, I was decent looking, played baseball, fairly athletic but awkward/beta as all hell. Good point 👍

[@blackharpy7468]

You had a source of motivation. You had sth that gave you purpose. That is not beta. It's called being human.

[@billybobthekidiswack]

@@blackharpy7468 If your whole motivation to do something is just to impress a girl then yea it is kind of beta but at the sametime that's pretty normal behavior for a teenager or young kid so that's excusable.

[@johnjandoh6732]

@@billybobthekidiswack Based comment unlike the other one.

[@haroldmerewether1224]

You are right you have to keep woman constantly wondering how you feel about them. They are turned on by the fact they could be replaced.

[@entitiessoul]

Modern*

[@michael.di3]

“I gave her a compliment” “Don’t do that ever again” Bro I am literally dying haha

[@adamacosta4615]

elliot i love you man . im that one dude who my brother hit you up to talk on the terry and jesse show. i know that show was a burn but it actually helped alot of men join your show. just wanna say God bless man and i ope your doing good

[@elftower907]

"dont do that ever again" hahaha love it.

[@ryanbell9376]

Omg that’s so funny lol

[@freemindkev]

Great video and so much truth! Emotions can be dangerous and deceiving.

[@e-dawg8749]

Now what Eliott preached to this kid, is MASTERY....I hope you payed attention bruh, cause these are words of wisdom !

[@gavinspeaks]

*3 Secrets To Raise Your Vibration:* 1. Always put love first and then balance it out with logic 2. Undo what you have been taught. It’s all ego. Ego is only the sailor not the boat! 3. Let go of subconscious patterns, emotions and thoughts that don’t aligned with your goals ~Much Love from a Law of Attraction KZbinr💜

[@MrGentlemanism]

I've been trying this stuff out on a hot coworker of mine. Never met a better looking woman. I tell her the weirdest shit. For example, when she gets coffee I just say something along the lines of "1 black for me no sugar no cream", no one treats her like.. you should see the reaction, she loved it, made her all giddy and she complimented me. Her working pass has a picture of it when she was fuller, I pointed it out and jokingly told her she looked like a bloated chicken there. She ate it up. I don't get it, but it seems to work.. and it's fun for the both of us. Keep in mind I'm not a good looking guy AT ALL. This shit works.

[@javilo2797]

Develope more on your technique broski. You are into something

[@entitiessoul]

Here we go again with the hot bullshit beta shit. Grow up already.

[@johnjandoh6732]

Bro I hope you score with her in whatever form that may be short term or long-term. Big ups 💪💯

[@djones7136]

A lot of sad dudes on here having a tough time hearing truth.

[@franklinmarichal]

Don't be insulting to weaker men that only enrages them. Compassion and listening are keys to helping another 🤗

[@SUA37]

Dead on. Bro this is 🔥🔥 TRUTH. Great vid!

[@NiallOhArailt]

Solid video Elliott! Big fan of you and Timothy Gordon, love that you are talking more about your Catholic foundations lately. Tim had a video on Trad Catholic dating a while back as well as a few on Catholic Masculinity, I think it would be very interesting and fruitful for you guys to do more collab in the future, specifically about 'Game' from a Catholic perspective. I am a convert and before I was Catholic used to be really into RSD and dating in the secular term, but a lot of the game I learned was mainly around sex. Now that I am waiting for marriage, I find that I flirt a lot less and it is difficult to maintain a masculine lover frame as I don't want to be a potty mouth, and end up a lot of times maybe being too serious/provider role, not expecting a direct answer to this question as it is hard to explain personal interactions through text but I am sure many men are in similar situations.

[@adamacosta4615]

you my sir are just like me.

[@anthonytelles2226]

Really good point. Catholic as well; really tough to practice things like game which often involves sexually escalating when you don’t believe in sex before marriage. But I do think all men need to know how to do it properly. A healthy integrated sexuality is hard to achieve as a moral man, but to even be considered by modern women it seems more necessary than ever since you know other guys are having sex and using it as somewhat of a cheat code to hook women and give them feelings like Elliotts talking about

[@jeamaclang]

I have the same dilemma as a Catholic myself. I can remember several instances when my flirting became occasions for sin. The best compromise I have found is to talk about babies early on in the interaction. You've got to ascertain her willingness to possibly start a family with you, and you can also gauge her attitude towards having children. Babies are an indirect way of hinting at sex, without anything more graphic of course. My opinion is, if a woman is really into you, you won't have to escalate so quickly and explicitly. But I have to admit that you are still limited of course if you don't play with her strings to hook her sexually. Perhaps, it is an art worth creating, or rediscovering if there was one, how to express one's sexuality as a man to a woman without using explicitly sexual words and gestures that excite the passions at the cost of reason.

[@johnjandoh6732]

You know what? When I heard that the guy wants to impress the woman by being the best in chemistry, an interesting thought backed up by 1st and 2nd hand experience came to mind. The dude in the class who is maybe the dumbest(according to grades) and failing the course may actually get the attention of the TA quicker. Let's say he fails the course and by order of the main professor the dumb dude has to have extra classes or summer school with that TA lady. She will always be on his case trying to get him to understand the chemistry stuff trying to find ways to motivate him to learn better and definitely will have his number so that she can communicate when and where the class will be and how he is getting on away from the classes. And anytime he gets like some difficult question correct she gives him a high 5 or little hug or something small like that. Just building up that fondness and familiarity. And all of this personal interaction will definitely create a connection whereby they will be so familiar with each other that she could even tell him to call her by her first name and not Ms insert name. And from there anything can lead to something spicy happening. I hope people are aware that a female superior can be a attracted to a male subordinate. I have both seen this myself and read stories. It happens.

[@henocsilva562]

Laughed out loud a few times on this one 😂😂

[@xarmy5669]

Yeah this is really bad advice. He just needs to show a passion for the subject, she will love that. Not trying to impress her

[@loveistheanswer5924]

Yes game works BUT mainly only with superficial women's. You just have to find out what of a guy you wanna be and then become that guy (but never do it for a women but for yourself or even better: for God). Then the right women will automatically wanna have you (of course you also need to do something for it). Then your only job is to find out if you two fit together or not/if she's really the right for you or not. Pick up is just for guys who wanna have quick sex. But for guys who search for a good/lovefully women it's the biggest garbage. Because the girls who find you attractive because you do some techniques to them (wich means that you dance for them like a monkey without them knowing it) are just not the right women for marriage anyway. 😉🙂

[@anhu92]

yeah I think Elliott still confuses these two end goals and these two types of women

[@Mrbobthebandit]

Women are women, man. All women are led by emotion. There is no way around that. You still need to understand game to understand their psychology. You're listening to it from a man that has been faithful to his wife for many years. How are you going to make your dutiful wife feel something years down the road if you don't know what makes her tick? This is a huge reason marriages don't work. Because guys stop trying since they think they already have it. Learn the game.

[@loveistheanswer5924]

@@Mrbobthebandit you don't have to bend for a women so that she may like you (that's just manipulation= not a healthy relationship) . Not only man likes women but women have a need for man too. You just need to be the right man and find the right woman. 🙂 It's maybe a cliche but if a women does not love you for who you are there is really no point. And yes deeper women can find pick up behavior also exiting but if she finds out who that person really is she probably won't stay long. In the end the most important thing is who a person deep down really is and not how his acting skills are. But you are right you need to invest in a relationship the whole life (both sides need). It's like a plant if no one takes care of it it will die. 🙂

[@TENNOM]

This is a solid grounded take

[@kirkpatrick5219]

Disagree, pick up is learning female nature and what actions give you the best results. It can give you quick sex if you want to lead it there but you can absolutely transition that into a relationship but maintaining relationships is a whole different game.

[@jennifer9797]

I do NOT gravitate towards men who women fawn over. Too much trouble and I don't like cocky people in general. I am impressed by how a man masters the game. I do respect how much time he puts into mastering whatever it is he masters. No. I do not lean towards men who are too eager to please. Stern, wise and dominant rules the day.

[@rockyp32]

It’s refreshing to kinda hear that. It’s super easy as man to look at it in one way. Cause that how many of us are but we don’t look at it the way it really is. Like for a while I felt very ugly but I really just had bad pictures so I didn’t have confidence to approach. But now I get wayyy more matches. And all the sudden I view myself different and realized I had a power that I just wasn’t aware of. So easy to get deluded

[@stephanusghibellino]

Yes...Elliot was being a bit one sided here because the dude is leaning too much to the nerdy/beta approach of things, and to make the guy straight, he has to apply extreme force headed to the opposite direction. The key point here is that an attractive man knows what he wants and doesn't care about anything else. But that frame of mind is not easy to achieve. Specially in these times.

[@sosadreamz1978]

Rule number one guys women ALWAYS lie about their nature

[@coachingconfidant2785]

ok but we dont look at your words we look at your actions. Girls are always contradicting themselves

[@MrAntinexus]

Nice shoes is what women tell each other

[@marcgotcalledout4058]

Great. Now he's going to get a 'C' in his chemistry class. Jk, enjoy your vids

[@polynesianmovtgp7439]

She gonna tell the teacher he's been staring at her and it makes her feel uncomfortable.

[@johnjandoh6732]

@@polynesianmovtgp7439 Wouldn't surprise me and that will suck that this guy could be equated to a "harasser" because of that. But that may open his eyes a little bit more.

[@takmaps]

So true, look at Simp Smith

[@jesussaquin6266]

Women love when you ignore them just do it.

[@entitiessoul]

Modern*

[@9279chomp]

I hope this guy listened to this advice cos it's all solid af

[@ebony-jane]

So true! When guys are overly complimentary I am turned off! Icky is the perfect word for it 🤢

[@entitiessoul]

Modern women.

[@bryanunderground]

Been following you for 8 years and because I easily saw this guys flaw and new the answer to human nature.

[@spartanridge5398]

Yo Elliott, I don’t have social media of any kind I watch KZbin from time to time and have really learned a lot from your videos I would like to hear more about your king transformation. If at all possible can you reach out to me on KZbin? Thanks for your time. KING

[@jamil-io]

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[@Seth6000]

I know I've had a crush back in the day at school. I didn't do anything with it really didn't talked to the girl. This crush passed on

[@markt4281]

Dang this is too true.

[@johnnydelrome]

Good stuff

[@johnandez3287]

Im a man but i know women well. Its either you have it or you dont 🤷

[@gemmac565]

This explains so many odd comments men made to me when I was young and single.

[@dattepo7534]

Damn Eliot this one was perfect I notice a lot of men won’t get it ..

[@Trazynn]

My worry is that this guy is now going to flunk his chemistry in order to impress the girl instead.

[@rps13drf7r]

He's going to outright insult her by saying something mean about her shoes too 🤣

[@keylanoslokj1806]

@@rps13drf7r yeah so what he took from all that is become the worst punk in the class, and insult her shoes in a reaction seeking way of 🤣

[@johnjandoh6732]

Once he understands how to playfully tease a woman all this that you said will not be a problem.

[@DavarrosVenturesFarm]

💯 percent bro

[@workforyouraims]

Very good video, thanks you very much.

[@Matt_The_Red]

Elliots the best

[@holisticbiohacker8144]

Great vid

[@HenryHoolington]

The kind of drive that pushes you from the way certain women make you feel is something you should keep doing. Just know that you are going to have to find another way to get her attention, Once you get her attention she will be more impressed by how dedicated you are

[@Thomasfboyle]

A boy has a crush, a man has a date this Saturday.

[@Kaizirege]

Answered all my questions

[@putonmykicks]

A lesson to be learned and relearned

[@spade5713]

how do i make her feel something? are there any books on this?

[@thomasjefferson6080]

Straight facts.

[@luxither7354]

Comments for women only matter when they're not usually given. Telling someone in an unusual outfit "Hey, I like your outfit," she'll respond positively. I personally have a thing for goth women, lord give me the strength to deal with some of their bullshit, but hey, I like them, and they would always respond well when they'd be complemented about their look, because NO-ONE would say anything about it. Its the same with a joke: if everyone likes her ass, joke about how it'd make break a table.

[@AnimexBoy7]

Great video

[@theefinalgeneration]

What a solid video 👌

[@JJ-si4qh]

I don’t agree w everything cuz I like intelligent and educated women. But I agree w the sentiment

[@rifkyamir3610]

Thank you E

[@maximus9402]

Jesus Christ you tore him apart Hahah, I’ve learned some lessons myself - never compliment and I love pissing women off in a playful way of course - I’ve complimented someone but that will change hahaha

[@isaiahword4191]

Word💯

[@crayolove]

7:12 got me good 😂

[@luxither7354]

Perfect example of how women don't value mastery is with Serena Williams. She's the most popular tennis player, and is known not just by tennis fans but by the broader sports and general mainstream community. Not many people could list the games she's played, but they like her because the women who follow her make themselves feel good to do so. Its the same reason why we don't see any men tryna push for ""Body Positive"" models, unlike women: because body postivity isn't mastery, and isn't admirable to men in the process.

[@malikinvictus2647]

This man really said "intimate encounter" Lol

[@annarae5717]

Cringe

[@AzureSymbiote]

So what should he have said?

[@bluesky2648]

Thx i learned something :) this is why ladies we need to control our emotions and be unbothered 👻

[@entitiessoul]

Dream on.

[@Thelegacyreeborn]

While I don’t agree with everything Elliot says. He’s becoming a sort of uncle figure. Like male family members who come around on the holiday and talk about controversial things. You hang out with them to get some wisdom and a different perspective on things . It’s nice to hear his take and form my own opinion.

[@user-wz7gk2fc7b]

What r something’s you don’t agree with what he says if you don’t mind me asking. I’m just curious

[@alee0294]

Coach EO got game

[@aodh5966]

The guy needs to drop his crush. Due to her role they can never be together. Just let it go. There's a million other women out there, and that's an understatement. Plenty more out there. Get out in the real world.

[@Oblisk]

Yes, Elliot, best way to learn game is from Tyler Durden. “I look like you wanna look, I fuck like you wanna fuck, I am smart, capable, and most importantly, I'm free in all the ways that you are not.” -Tyler Durden

[@seansilver8757]

Elliot on demon time on this one🤣

[@AliveForMusic]

Man you're putting so much pressure on how am I supposed to be...I don't even know what I am allowed to feel or do anymore. What the fuck do I do with my libido? Meh I guess I need to have patience

[@lsubeast13]

Learn game. Learn redpill. Get out of your head and comfort zone

[@stephanusghibellino]

I have your answer in my p-l-4-y-l-i-s-t

[@ΑντρέαςΣωτηρίου-π8γ]

I agree with all you said man expect the "university girls not good for mothers" 9:42

[@ALLvideogamesFANBOY1]

Eliot was a savage in this one 😂. She ain’t the one bruh. Don’t ever say that

[@bryang3044]

LMAO. Pure facts.

[@josephcorry6443]

So you will not be able to master chemistry in one semester. I'm in my last semester of engineering and chem classes were the ones that beat me up the hardest. But, all power to you in your endeavor and I hope it turns out well

[@josephcassano6296]

Chem is tough but statics thermo and differential equations make it look like child’s play

[@josephcorry6443]

@@josephcassano6296 Statics and diff eq were both easy for me. Thermo was nasy though

[@AndrewZambetti]

Alpha Males Strategies look him up fellas

[@SFBay69]

that black dude? lol

[@AndrewZambetti]

@@SFBay69 yes

[@SFBay69]

@@AndrewZambetti he is to ghetto

[@AndrewZambetti]

@@SFBay69 then youre just going to miss the mastery

[@stephanusghibellino]

No. That guy is lame.

[@chimpalahee]

Walks in: Slaps her in the face.. Noticed

[@bluesky2648]

Lol a little boy used to do all kinda dumb shit to me as a little girl in school. I told my father and he straightened him out for life 😂 never bothered me again

[@justjayy85]

This dude is approval seeking, which is a complete turnoff for women. Dude needs to have his own purpose for the women to follow.

[@MyNameIsSimple72]

‘Plan of attack’ cmon dude what is that language..

[@hayvantv4210]

Make a video about ramadan . We are in Ramadan

[@MrOblivionssin]

He isn’t Muslim

[@AquinasBased]

Lmao, this guy, this is so wrong. If they like you they do immediately without you doing a thing.

[@Noob-ee2cy]

That offended look.Ha, ain’t we all seen it. Ha ha

[@fazito1513]

Yo Elliott,I am young man/16 yr old and there is a girl that was always smiling when looking at me and I think she have a crush on me so I approached her and she rejected me and than,few days later she is doing the same thing,again looking at me all the time but when I look at her she turns her head,srry to bother you sir but I really wanna know what does she want/think or what do I do.KING

[@lyricaldetective4310]

How did you approach, what did you say exactly and what did she say and how did she say it?

[@fazito1513]

@@lyricaldetective4310 And than couple of days later she said to my friend that she dont have a boyfriend and she wants me to approach her again.So I didnt approached her.I think thats because she is about an inch taller than me Im 5ft9

[@lyricaldetective4310]

@@fazito1513 To be honest mate it’s not even worth the effort, drama and over thinking, At your age-What’s most likely to happen (if it even happens) you get in a short term relationship with her and set yourself up for heartbreak, Just don’t even bother with her or approach her etc. if she likes you she will make it clear trust me

[@fazito1513]

@@lyricaldetective4310 Like how, approach me?

[@lyricaldetective4310]

@@fazito1513 Yeah depends what kind of girl she is, if she’s talking to your friend about you as well then it’s clear she likes you somewhat-Just don’t chase her and be overly invested in her, She will try her best to distract you

[@Aliens-Are-Our-Friends2027]

The kid needs more experience with other women in the meantime if he wants to have a chance

[@saundremhlungu6876]

Amazes me how all the guys think this dudes advice is good 🤣🤣🤣

[@dylannewsome7199]

@ödīñ ŵïlšøń 💀🤣

[@consciouslifestyle9018]

Life is not about listening to some dude’s advice, it’s about living it and making mistakes. He has some version of reality, from his head, from his point of view

[@VincentNarbutas]

In my opinion this is horrible advice Elliott. His mind from the start was rooted in sin. He needs to shed his emotions and need for women entirely. Let's say this man tricks her into a relationship, and his desires are fulfilled. Then what? He will still have the curse of original sin upon him, and this relationship becomes a punishment onto him, not a blessing. Woman don't love men that have feelings for them. They only love men that could care less whether they are in the picture or not. That's the scent of true masculinity. This gentleman needs to turn inward and focus only on his stewardship with the Lord and as a Son of God, and only love God along with nothing else. When he does that, there will be many women that will naturally be attracted to him, but he will have need for none of them. There is no virtuous way to chase a woman. She is a gift and responsibility added unto us when we are truly ready, for the direct purpose of the family. There is no other way to go about this righteously and with grace.

[@LadyForestStar]

🙌👏

[@busterbaxter828]

dude's channel really fell lol now people like 1stman and hamza getting all the views

[@ioio7470]

He left for decade .. algorithm wasnt kind to him

[@Alex10daysago]

you keeo trying to make this a channel for Alpha's but only Beta's fall for it. a woman should love you because you can hold down a job and don't talk to other women. what? life is more complex than that.

[@kirkpatrick5219]

Bro, you don’t even know her, how can you say she’s the one? She could have awful traits for a wife and you would never know because people always put there best foot forward in public. You don’t actually know her dude.

[@adamj2683]

Such ridiculously simplistic, one-size-fits all advice. Kind of unbelievable how off the mark many of your comments were.

[@TheABCD3912]

women are really weird. i want to understand them but its very difficult because theres alot of nuance depending on how they feel in the moment. and also depending on who it is they're talking to and what judgement they already made about him. but i appreciate that you to some degree understand how weird they are lol

[@lsubeast13]

Yep you’ve been lied to the majority of your life. Men and women are not the same. It’s imperative you learn the difference before you settle down with one, it will save you a lot of heart ache and trouble

[@LadyForestStar]

Sorry but this is aweful advices! Be yourself and don't try too hard! And "No. Not all women like bad men.. (emotionally traumatized woman maybe are) That is a great myth and "No we don't like the man every other women like.. A compliment is awesome!!! if it's truly meant. Not just bc it's a compliment and you want the attention. A man InTouch with his feelings and can handle them just like Jesus! He always based everything he did on love. (NOT emotionally unstable NOR no showing of feelings at all. But emotionally stabile and can show feelings in a stabile way) Being raw and honest! Being able to communicate his inner thoughts. Honest Communication, listen and engage in the hard subjects is the greatest key for a successful relationship! And the willingness to work on yourself to see your own flaws and actively work on yourself. That is attractive! And to know we are all different and attracted to different things.. so once again. Be yourself and don't try to hard. Do you want a matching life partner? or just the eyes pleasure with struggle? Bc you pretended to be someone you're not? If you don't attract one person. Maybe it's not a match. There's nothing worse when a man doesn't get a "NO. Read the Bible and study how Jesus treated everyone in his surroundings. What did he constantly trying to teach his disciples in to the very last day of his life?

[@midsummerstation3345]

1. rule of attracting women - don't ever take dating advice from women ^

[@LadyForestStar]

@@midsummerstation3345 if you having that mindset finding a woman, Good luck! 😅👍

[@coachingconfidant2785]

@@LadyForestStar what if that mindset got him results then what?

[@LadyForestStar]

@@coachingconfidant2785 😂🎉 Good for him! 👏

[@Earthtime3978]

I want a woman to impress ME. Im 57 and have long given up on the notion that I have to impress a woman or fall all over her. Forget it . Let her work for it and give me what I need . When I do that, I’m satisfied. Sure, you’ll lose a good number of prima donnas along the way but that’s what you want anyway.

[@Michael89240]

You lost me on men voting for trump and women voting for biden. There were men voting for biden also

[@wendyslittleprogram3984]

Man, this guy is 28 and sounds like a 12 year old. Totally clueless. Get him a copy of the Rational Male.

[@TheGarlicfather]

He is close to 40

[@wendyslittleprogram3984]

@@TheGarlicfather I’m talkin about the kid that wrote to Elliot

[@TheGarlicfather]

@@wendyslittleprogram3984 My bad 😂👊🏽

[@southernboy3726]

Lmfao. What tf does Joe biden actually do? Why did they vote for him hahahaha

[@Anna-uj4en]

Absolutely disgusting. This is classic narcissistic bullying and any woman who responds with anything other than to turn and ignore a "man" who degrades her to "get some kind of feeling" isn't a woman, she is a broken girl and you are simply praying on the broken parts of her. It's revolting to me that you encourage degrading and belittling women instead of growing the fuck up and being a real man who will draw her attention for legitimate reasons and not Childish and abusive manipulation. No wonder there are so many men who are abusive pieces of shit when you 'advise' them to abusers and liars.

[@Mo-wx1gi]

This response is only giving more power to what Elliot says. This is your standard reply from a corrupted American woman. Instead of trying to provoke a discussion, you initiate with insults and shaming language. Go figure

[@Anna-uj4en]

@@Mo-wx1gi lol. that's really hilarious since you posed no legitimate response. He SHOULD be ashamed of teaching men to abuse and manipulate women. He SHOULD be ashamed of putting more legitimate toxic masculinity into the world instead of seaking to heal wounds he encourages the abuse of attachment wounds and that is not only perverse but disgusting. You know absolutely zero about me and yet you come here to call me a "corrupt" woman simply because I'm calling out garbage when I see it. I am a strong woman. I fight for justice. I stand up to bullies. I empower families to buck the system and take their power back from corrupt government systems. I run 2 successful businesses. And at the end of the I come home to my amazing, strong, and extremely intelligent husband of 12 years and make him supper and have incredible sex with him. We are a team! We value each other! We encourage each other. We hold each other accountable for the standards we have set for our household and when I need a break from this crazy world full of men and women who abuse and use each other I curl up in his arms and know he's GOT me. THATS real love. THATS real marriage. so you can keep you superficial opinions because small men have never phased me.

[@MrOblivionssin]

You’re thinking into this too much as a woman. This kind of advice and framework helps only a man, not a woman. You may not understand why this kind of thinking helps men, but that doesn’t make it wrong. Elliot isn’t teaching how to abuse and manipulate. He’s teaching men how to STOP focusing so much on what other people want including women. He’s teaching men to find their purpose in this life and live righteous. Women aren’t a Mans end goal. There’s way more to life then women and the relationships that follow. As a man, we should strive and understand ourselves and what we expect first before getting into relationships. He’s right when he says society has the social structure messed up. Women want all the attention and need it now. Marriage and kids are only an aspect of one’s life. Not all of it. A woman should want their man to find himself and present himself to the world as a traditional MAN. These weak and effeminate men of today have caused women to think that ALL men are like that and easy to manipulate. Men are insecure and purposeless now. It’s sad. A real woman would want a man with his mind in order.