50 Cent once said that Eminem once refused to go on a huge tour around the world, which would earn them around $100m. The reason is that he didn't want to miss the best parts of her life. This is what Hailie refered to in the message she wrote on the card. 50 Cent has then recently said that he never quite understood it, but then when he say them having their father-daughter dance at the wedding he understood it in that moment and wished he was in Em's place! ✌
@blueberry19402 ай бұрын
Wow, thanks for the background, didn‘t understand this part till now and wondered :D
@aliciadarga69932 ай бұрын
This was her pregnancy announcement ❤ I love seeing vulnerable Em.
@uncle_rick3332 ай бұрын
I am so happy you are deep enough into the EM “saga” to understand the depth of this video. Like you always say, em is the “Rembrandt” of our time and i think you are spot on
@dandieabbott54092 ай бұрын
Em will be a Grandpa in 2025. Been waiting for this reaction. I’ve cried every time I’ve seen this video. That card is the card You see him reading in this video. The 100 Million Dollars is the amount of Money Em turned down as 50 Cent asked him to do a Worldwide Tour and he said no I’d rather stay at home and be with My Girls. Loved Your Reaction was wondering if You would do it. I’m So Happy and Pleased You did. Thank You. The Love and Bond that Em and Hailie Jade have is So Beautiful and to think he nearly lost that brakes my heart but he made it and I’m So Extremely Proud Of Em for giving up the drugs just so he got to witness Hailie’s Wedding and witness her in her Stunning Wedding Gown. This video is nothing short of A Masterpiece. ❤❤
@eazy2hate2 ай бұрын
Lmao it's fans like you that make us normal stans look bad
@mr.chapel41792 ай бұрын
The 100 million part in the end...EM was refused a 100 mill tour, just to be with his kids...
@kimzwolinski99192 ай бұрын
It’s a weird thing to be proud of someone I will probably never meet 😂 It is so great that he shared these moments especially the wedding and the grandpa announcement. He has spoke of Hailie so much over the years that I love to hear about her milestones as well. Great reaction to a beautiful song and video ❤
@lobos0092 ай бұрын
The card is the one he read earlier in the video. He also rejected a tour for $100M so he could 'be there' to bring up Hailie and not miss out on her growing up, which is what she alludes to when she mentions 100M in the card. So many levels and shows the kind of man Marshall is. Puts his kids first. Always.
@larryshair2 ай бұрын
That's amazing about the 100M!
@MRR-my2yl2 ай бұрын
When you said you couldn't be happier for Marshall than when you saw him hugging hailey on her wedding day i was like give it a minute you can be happier. Absolutely love this video and how they share their lives with us. Amazing
@johny2rrf1582 ай бұрын
This is the most genuine and realistic reaction to this video I've seen. Love it. I know it's real, when em started to cry, I started to cry... I seen you fight it back. It was real... honestly man, believe Eminem might have seen this, he is very in tune with reaction content. If I was Em, I'd watch your content all the time... you are real with it. I believe Em might have seen this honestly ❤
@larryshair2 ай бұрын
Wow, thanks so much for your kind words!
@phraze912 ай бұрын
Fun fact. Eminem raps with a slam poetry flow on this song because Hailie loves slam poetry
@Sunny-jz3dy2 ай бұрын
Hailie said that her parents hid the drug problems so well .....that she never realized how close she came to losing her dad until much later. She bawled buckets when she heard this song & Somebody Save Me! That it really brought home just how close he came to not being there..... for any of this. She let Em drop this video before her & husband made the announcement of her pregnancy. ❤❤❤
@raindeer25802 ай бұрын
Marshall is such a private person but he has brought all of us on a journey through his music it's like we know him personally he is such an amazing storyteller n lyricist which people will study for years to come
@that_averagetyp2 ай бұрын
Em broke the generational curses. Imagine how freaking hard it must have been to be such amazing dad without having role model in his parents. I can't even wrap my mind around it. This guy is the rap legend for sure... but most importantly, he is a great dad. Chris... you may not be a rap legend (yet, lol) but for me... YOU are the best dad on this planet. I know I said I won't call you that "in public" but... I love you to death, DAD! Thanks for everything! 🤗❤️ Just a quick reminder... if I ever find my second half, you'll be the very first person I invite to my wedding.
@larryshair2 ай бұрын
lol, thanks bro!
@that_averagetyp2 ай бұрын
@@larryshair I'm not kidding... You'll be the VIP on my wedding one day! End of discussion! 😁😉
@Woodbreakerz2 ай бұрын
When you see Em' walking down the aisle with Hailie, I was like "wait for it bro, you're not ready for what's coming next". And them I waited for your reaction to Em' becoming a granddad and it was even more awesome. I cried listening to this song for the first time and I don't even have kids. And I try to place myself of dads and I get it. I'd cry my eyes out to the point I'd stab myself in the eyes to stop crying. But that's not how it works.
@JotaEleRj2 ай бұрын
The note Hailie left him at the end of the video where he says "over 100 million dollars" was because he once turned down that money (and many more times) to go on tour, to stay with her. And Bean is a way he used to call her when she was little.
@blindangel74722 ай бұрын
It’s ok we all choked up when he started crying
@Raven.Bloodrot2 ай бұрын
Growing up I didn't exactly have the best of father figures, my father was constantly abusive towards my mother and us kids. It was bad enough to leave permanent scars on my body and later in my life my older sister informed me he did unspeakable things to her. When my mother finally got the courage to get away from him it was Marshall who became that father figure/role model that I needed as a kid. I say that to say very few songs he's ever written has made me cry more than this song and when he does inevitably pass Hallie won't be alone in mourning the loss.
@larryshair2 ай бұрын
I'm so sorry about the experience you had with your father. The good thing is that this will make you even a better dad. Trust me.
@danielharry10752 ай бұрын
Em is like family as he allowed us in from the beginning.
@EzeeG2 ай бұрын
Man the time stamp at 2.37, he’s looking over his most important person, the person he destroyed people for, this man just sold 1.7 million albums the week before that video was taken, and he’s there with his kid, being a normal dad, when he was the most famous person on the planet. It’s just crazy
@MarionGoodman-yi8vp2 ай бұрын
Always love your heartfelt emotions & reactions Chris & you reaching out to those who need help in the hope they will take notice. A very poignant moment when he walks Hayley down the aisle & dancing with her at her wedding. Those memories will last forever for them both ❤
@larryshair2 ай бұрын
Thanks so much! It was so cool to see Em at her wedding.
@AK007772 ай бұрын
Love You! Another fantastic vid Chris. What a ride it's been watching you discover and come to love Em like so many of us and to watch Em's life unfold.
@larryshair2 ай бұрын
Thanks so much!!!! Love you too!
@hectormarrinez95782 ай бұрын
Yes is a song for when he is not longer here... so it makes even more nostalgic because we all fathers know that one day we will be gone, and thats his messege to her, just even tho we never know when we go, but his making sure to leave something for his daughter to always listen to it. remember him always. And seeing Eminem cry make most of us that are parents listening and growing up to his music since 99, we all feel like daddys when it comes to Haiile because we grew up to Ems music and grew him always loving Hailie.
@revengeofthenerd52612 ай бұрын
Thank you for reacting to this so rapidly. Your fans appreciate it!
@larryshair2 ай бұрын
Of course!!
@MD44-s6p2 ай бұрын
Man, that's what I call a reaction! Going home to rethink my life.
@larryshair2 ай бұрын
Thanks so much!
@brandoncarter2595Ай бұрын
It feels like we’re all extended family that has watched Hailie grow up over the years
@heatherlpollock2 ай бұрын
Omg I was waiting for this impatiently..I kept checking. Was so desperate for your reaction on this one because I knew it would get to you ! I love your analysis on these videos.
@larryshair2 ай бұрын
Thanks so much Heather!
@youngtres32 ай бұрын
i would love to see you react to the drake and kendrick lamar beef, it happened this year and i would consider it one of most important rap beefs ever.
@RokkaOB12 ай бұрын
Hope you see this, much love all the way from South Africa!🇿🇦 Love your reactions, you're like an OG uncle of mine!😅 On the real though.💯
@larryshair2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!
@criticalhit45822 ай бұрын
Just imagine Em being like 65 and retired and some rapper dares to mention Hailie’s child as a diss in a song… it will be carnage with grandpa Em coming out of retirement to destroy that fool 😂 Grandpa Em, uncle Snoop, uncle 50 Cent, uncle Dre… trust me, you don’t want those people to come after you and they will if someone dares to go after Hailie or her child, it would be lyrical carnage.. It reminds me of the days back in 2003 when Eminem was considered to be in his prime, a rapper Ja Rule claimed Hailie would grow up to become a crackhead sl*t, and Eminem released a song called Hailie’s revenge with his entire crew, including uncle Proof and they went ballistic to protect Hailie. Proof even had his own solo song dissing Ja Rule where he mentioned if Ja mentions Hailie’s name again, Proof would catch the first flight to wherever Ja is. After that, Ja didn’t mention a thing about Hailie. Proof would have been so proud to see Hailie today, rest in peace big Proof
@larryshair2 ай бұрын
FanTASTic comment!
@unplugged3012 ай бұрын
I was looking forward to your reaction the most, I enjoy watching empaths at work
@larryshair2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!
@SleepyKhi9752 ай бұрын
Been waiting for this video!💗
@elyas31152 ай бұрын
The best reaction 🔥🔥🔥
@larryshair2 ай бұрын
Wow, thanks so much!
@user-xj9vf4xb9p2 ай бұрын
Another underrated classic is Remember The Name by Eminem, 50 Cent, and Ed Sheeran
@GregorysBrain2 ай бұрын
Liked before even watching! We've been waiting for your reaction!
@janhansen9102 ай бұрын
simply love youer reactions they comes right from the heart. and say what every one feels thanks from denmark
@larryshair2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!
@mohammednoman92 ай бұрын
5:26 it was around 2006-2007 The referring in Castle & Arose was to December 2007
@aprilboxton22842 ай бұрын
Hailey was born Christmas Day 95. Em got clean 08... she was 12... same time he got clean and CHOSE to stop touring and stick around for her growing up!... and passed up $100M that the card she gave him references! Just some Em trivia in case you weren't aware!
@erichutchins8862 ай бұрын
Your not new at this point your a Stan and I loved watching you watching him thank you for this reaction em is a hero that doesn’t wear a cape ( all the time😆)
@willhanson7342 ай бұрын
outSTANDING reaction. makes a person think. i could walk my Hailie down the aisle too. here go the algo! 🤞
@mcm03242 ай бұрын
He's not her father, her dad, but her DADDY. I'm a few years older than him, and remember my Mom always calling my PapPap 'Daddy' even after he passed away. My father was always a judgemental father, and he hasn't spoken to me since my mom passed on 2008. She's so lucky. ❤
@joshuaalhassan4798Ай бұрын
Just a suggestion, but you should listen to juice wrld as well if you're listening to Eminem. Honestly one of the best RIP to him.
@rcpteb2 ай бұрын
He did not have any addiction or pill issue when she was that young. It started in 2002 when he was doing the movie and he couldn’t sleep. And they gave him Ambien. And he slowly started taking Valium and Vicodin more and too many at a time He has spoken personally about this in an interview. And in 05 he was getting addicted and did rehab. It slowed down. But he continued and after proof died in 2006 he go really bad with the amount of pills he would take at a time. And at the. End of 2007 he overdosed. And was two hours from dying. He has been clean since 2008. Over 16 years now. Not near as long as some act like. But it could have been a year. And you will always have those thoughts of what if. And the guilt and sadness as a parent. I have listened to him since the 90s. He is a fighter. And yes Mad Respect. Also. As some listen to his music. They are stories. And he is very talented lyricist. Some I have to laugh when they act like he really did it. It’s a song. Some was his life sure. He said it was like therapy. Getting it out there and he helped many others. Most are just his writing. And we love him for it. Not real. When you know him well. You can tell when he is messing around. Or when he is being serious.
@itznolimitz2 ай бұрын
Something happened to me when I had kids, especially when I had a daughter. There is no way this song would have made me cry 20 years ago when I first discovered eminem. but now, my daughter is 5 years old, something happened. I can't watch this video without balling my eyes out. Its strange, but expected. Difficult, but required. It's important for a daughter to have her father in her life.
@larryshair2 ай бұрын
Facts
@BoydOfPray2 ай бұрын
"What are you willing to trade for that card?"' I've heard someone say (I think it was 50 Cent ((who actually appeared in this video!))) that Eminem turned down a multi-million dollar tour because he wasn't going to miss Hailie growing up.
@cob66482 ай бұрын
Right on time ! Awesome :)
@mrfashionguy12 ай бұрын
The difference is many parents unload their struggles on their kids. Marshall made absolutely sure Hailie never knew..
@KariHaruka2 ай бұрын
As if listening to Temporary with my daughter wasn't difficult enough. But, watching the MV with her, as well? That was a hard watch! I've got so many photos and videos of my daughter from the day that she was born all the way up to her current age and I often wonder where the last 15 years have gone. It is crazy just how quickly time passes and just how quick our children grow into wonderful people.
@larryshair2 ай бұрын
That's the best part of being a parent is seeing them grow to (hopefully) good people. I'm beyond blessed.
@KariHaruka2 ай бұрын
@larryshair It sure is a wonderful blessing for us parents. My daughter wants to be a doctor (she would want to work in a children's hospital/ward) and I am beyond proud of the amazing young lady that she is growing to be.
@kenitabaum48432 ай бұрын
Just Marshall again make us all cry on this chipper Tuesday 😢❤
@julianwaters71922 ай бұрын
Fire reaction man 🔥
@larryshair2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!
@tbass942 ай бұрын
December 2007 was the time he OD'd I believe. Hailie's birthday is Christmas Day 1995 so she would've been about 12
@Sandy_justmeАй бұрын
You really are the best. Hugs❣️
@larryshairАй бұрын
You are so kind! You too!
@nate63822 ай бұрын
I remember when the wedding photos were released a few months ago, there was some online shitting on him like why was he wearing sunglasses on her big day and fans went off because you idiot he was holding and hiding the tears probably all day so emotional.. you can literally see in the music when he walked in and seen Hailie in her wedding dress. You see him take a deep breath because he has been honest and talked about it he knows he wasn't meant to be here because the overdose, so now he isn't a single second of life for granted
@jstmez2 ай бұрын
Kim is in the video too. She comes into the room but stays in the background by the door.
@Fashionista88x2 ай бұрын
I caught that, too!!!
@JournalGingerbreadcookies3 күн бұрын
I get emotional every time I hear this song with one and somebody save me also arose and castle
@kylec14112 ай бұрын
Millenial here. Man alot of us growing up in that generation, Eminem was almost a father too in alot of ways. Coming from broken homes and fatherless homes.. A role model type. I owe this guy alot for his story alone but getting me and MANY other lost men through different generations have hope. Thanks grampa Marshal. lol I dont think i ever would have got sober if it wasnt for him. Idk. Greatest rapper dead or alive. Love this guy.
@larryshair2 ай бұрын
Love that
@sondraann30252 ай бұрын
You make me really miss the fact that i didn't have a dad. I'll be 40 next year, and each year, I get more sad and resentful because the older I get, the more i see what a dad was supposed to be there for.
@larryshair2 ай бұрын
I'm so very sorry but don't forget how much love you have to offer your kids someday. My father wasn't always around and I grew up with my mother and grandmother when they divorced and the loss of having a normal dad was something I wasn't willing to pass along to my kids. Sometimes these losses only serve to give us a great foundation of character. Let that loss fuel your determination to set things right.
@patriciajohnson96542 ай бұрын
@@larryshairOnce again. Your words are a blessing ❤
@apriltoo2 ай бұрын
Awwww...i'm sure you too are a good father for you children sir. Greeting from 🇮🇩 ....
@larryshair2 ай бұрын
Thank you so much!
@brianmurphy23242 ай бұрын
This may sound crazy but listen to the song at x1.25 speed and you can hear the parts where Eminem is barely holding back his emotions. I noticed it completely by accident. It gives the song a whole different layer to it
@taramama66582 ай бұрын
I can’t wait to find out what she having!! New baby!! Papa Em! Amazing
@jstmez2 ай бұрын
I think there's a gender reveal on her podcast on friday.
@drittzz92452 ай бұрын
Thats Kim who comes in the door at 6:19 crazy after everything they went through.
@CrimeTime382 ай бұрын
But Hailie talked about it in a podcast episode, that she is also pretty close with her Mom 😊
@jasminemacqueen48632 ай бұрын
Awesome reaction like usual. Have you or will you be reacting to "Slim Shady VS Marsfall Mathers - The Face - Off?
@503knockemdown2 ай бұрын
No one knows how important it is fora father to let youre daughter go and expect that man to be protective as much as you was as a father
@kenitabaum48432 ай бұрын
The video is how we all found out Em is going to be a grandpa . Hailie confirmed it on her IG after the video came out. Baby due next year ❤
@ke4sy2 ай бұрын
Finally! 😁
@JusticeFortheSilenced2 ай бұрын
Its so heartbreaking for me to watch because my husband died when our daughter was 9. He talked about dancing with her at her wedding consistently since we found out we were having a daughter.
@larryshair2 ай бұрын
I'm so very sorry to hear that. That's so hard.
@user-xj9vf4xb9p2 ай бұрын
Eminem started going to rehab and all that after 2005, so much after 2000.
@ReynaldoVelasquez2 ай бұрын
I was thinking “somebody save me” was from the perspective of Slim Shady missing out
@AshleighGOz2 ай бұрын
Finally!!!!
@JotaEleRj2 ай бұрын
Proof's death was in 2006, that was when he had the worst time and almost died because of drugs and that unsustainable situation. I would say that he started using drugs more from 2004 onwards but without it being very noticeable until Proof's death, when we already know what happened. Many of those photos and videos are from 2000-2001, that's when he was almost starting his career and Hailie was 5 years old.
@Aperdedor12 ай бұрын
The alternate reality song is the jelly roll song. This song is for when he is gone
@user-xj9vf4xb9p2 ай бұрын
He actually missed Haylie's recital in that video so that did happen. But for everything else it's as if he would miss it if he overdosed.
@GregorysBrain2 ай бұрын
The $100 Million dollars refers to the tour he turned down so he could spend time with her.
@boy2006.22 ай бұрын
EM♥️
@heaterparker2 ай бұрын
This song is a metaphor for him giving away his daughter at her wedding
@_Justin_Case2 ай бұрын
Did I just hear my name being read out?! 😁😁 I'm in! I'm famous now.😂😂😂
@larryshair2 ай бұрын
lol, too funny!
@richv.15942 ай бұрын
90.2K ❤
@larryshair2 ай бұрын
I can't believe it.
@Allhavengames2 ай бұрын
Hailie is pregnant right now, they just announced it. that video was her telling her dad the ultrasound was hidden in the Jersey (they dint show much of it but 50 Cent and Dr. Dre were also at the wedding) but ya no one knew she was pregnant, they just went to a wedding couple weeks ago were her friend Brittany was drinking Haillie's drinks so people wouldn't notice
@sadiekincaid53102 ай бұрын
That was at Hailie's wedding that happened at. Hailie got married in May 2024 and she is 5 months pregnant now. Hailie and her husband found out just before the wedding that she was pregnant. Hailie, her husband, and her friend who is her co-host on Just a Little Shady were the only ones who knew she was pregnant.
@Allhavengames2 ай бұрын
@@sadiekincaid5310 it couldn't have been at the wedding because it opening day of football thats why em dint know the jersey was a "gift for opening day" that's why its a jersey
@angelagarutti61182 ай бұрын
Hailey is his ONLY BIOLOGICAL daughter but he was so great he took on kims twin children and took care of them thas amazing but STILL HAILY IS HIS ONLY BIG BABY yet hes talked horrible anout yets hes only love
@lukepothecary54862 ай бұрын
Any chance you could react to Dave - Lesley?
@lakerkid82 ай бұрын
did you catch Kim walking into the room at 11:16?
@shanekeg2 ай бұрын
Paused at 2:09 I dont think he will make it thru the 1st verse and hook without needing them...... Edit: 7:40 almost.. Tick tock Edit: Congrats sir!! 😂😂
@larryshair2 ай бұрын
lol, ,thanks!!!
@rquiles48812 ай бұрын
Now you know what the letter said and why he srar crying
@gable3542 ай бұрын
🔥🔥🔥🔥
@rcptebКүн бұрын
No he was not doing pills. And had no issues with anything in these years. That didn’t start until 2002 when he was filming the movie and he was also putting out The Eminem show album and he did most all producing on that. And he couldn’t sleep. He has spoke of this. And they gave him Ambiem. And it was very slow going at first as he has also said. And it slowly got more and went to Valium and Vicodin. He has never had an issue with alcohol or hard drugs. Nothing. And in 2005 when touring for his next album Encore he was taking way too many at a time. Ended tour early. And did rehab. After that was his relapse. Came out and lees then a year later in 2006 his BF Proof passed away. So that’s when it started getting really bad. 2006-2007. Very end of 2007 he overdosed as you know. And almost died. And he has not touched anything since.so 2008 tell today. Over 16 years he hasn’t had anything. His songs he has messed around in. But he is joking in those early songs. But his addiction to pills was much much shorter than people understand unless you have heard him speak of it. As I have. Proof was very hard and that was it at that time. Respect. And so glad he never missed anything. As he says. In other song. That would all have been if he had died that night. And even his daughter has said. They never even knew there was even an issue. Until they became adults. He kept it all from them. Great father and only reliable person his 14 years younger half bro he eventually got custody of as they took him from her when he was 8. She was never a mother. And he raised Nathan with the girls. And they are all very very close
@KiduElbat2 ай бұрын
Temporary links to the song Fuel.. Em dissing diddy.. diddy hitting tupac and biggie..
@OpTricky2 ай бұрын
You gonna react to Rens Kujo Beat Down?! :)
@johngarvey84502 ай бұрын
Complex the face off next please?
@4510Jacob2 ай бұрын
You shouldn’t have thrown those tissues
@4510Jacob2 ай бұрын
Ok you held it together! I cried again. Great reaction.
@larryshair2 ай бұрын
lol, thanks! It was a close call!!!!
@4510Jacob2 ай бұрын
@@larryshair you’re welcome! ❤️
@cindyw2622 ай бұрын
💙
@jstmez2 ай бұрын
That card is not the one he reads in the video. For one thing, Halie probably doesn't write like a child anymore. If you look at the card in the video, you will see that the entire left side is full of her writing. From top to bottom right to left. The card in the end has more typed print on the left. Nothing hand written. Not a big deal, just a clarification. 🙂
@mikedugas1180Ай бұрын
You gotta listen to hailies revenge what a great diss track!
@betsybabf7482 ай бұрын
She is now pregnant, and this is how they announced her pregnancy.
@hachemledarka2854Ай бұрын
By grand pas Eminem shadaly
@angelagarutti61182 ай бұрын
Hailey is his ONLY BIOLOGICAL daughter he ending up adopting his wife niece of Hailey and he ended up adopting his own brother BUT HAILEY IS HIS ONLY BIOLOGICAL child . Yes he adopted his sister-in-law's child and his own brother. Yes, so he became by law, the father to his own brother pretty much by law and his ex-wife, he adopted her twins child, who's older than Haley, but Haley is his only 100% biological child. That's the only one I'm not saying that. It should be more or less. But yeah, that's his only biological child. He's pretty much showing everybody up in the world because you see all these men who don't even care about their children. And he is caring for his wife, who treated him like crap and cheating on him, and he actually adopted her twin sister. This child, but Haley, that's his only biological child. That's it, and she looks just like her daddy and her daddy loves her so much and my god, it's so beautiful, but don't mistake.Haley is his only biological child
@chrislegit31982 ай бұрын
Hi Larry. How’s the hair? Still a bit stiff? 😂
@hachemledarka2854Ай бұрын
Like is dei
@tylerisse51202 ай бұрын
React to the new linkin park
@rcpteb2 ай бұрын
He did not have any addiction or pill issue when she was that young. It started in 2002 when he was doing the movie and he couldn’t sleep. And they gave him Ambien. And he slowly started taking Valium and Vicodin more and too many at a time He has spoken personally about this in an interview. And in 05 he was getting addicted and did rehab. It slowed down. But he continued and after proof died in 2006 he go really bad with the amount of pills he would take at a time. And at the. End of 2007 he overdosed. And was two hours from dying. He has been clean since 2008. Over 16 years now. Not near as long as some act like. But it could have been a year. And you will always have those thoughts of what if. And the guilt and sadness as a parent. I have listened to him since the 90s. He is a fighter. And yes Mad Respect. Also. As some listen to his music. They are stories. And he is very talented lyricist. Some I have to laugh when they act like he really did it. It’s a song. Some was his life sure. He said it was like therapy. Getting it out there and he helped many others. Most are just his writing. And we love him for it. Not real. When you know him well. You can tell when he is messing around. Or when he is being serious.