Emotional intelligence carried my marriage - Hungani Ndlovu | ThatHusbandPodcast

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It will be open a d better if u tell him and I hope he understands too.i beleive it will help both of your marraige

[@Alvinslife37]

The "what if?" and "the could I have done to stop this?" games are ones that I played for years after my wife's first miscarriage. I remember the depth of the helplessness. I almost drowned.

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[@nompumelelochirwa]

Yoh😮‍💨 the part about kids who grow up with both parents present versus kids who grow up in single parent households 🙌🏽

[@lillymillion]

That thing rocked me to the core, explained soooo much of my own personal dynamic. I had never heard of it before

[@nompumelelochirwa]

I’m so encouraged to break the cycle in my own generation

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If someone doesnt want to hold your hand it doesnt mean they dont want to, they just don't have the capacity ❤

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[@pelmapule6602]

I feel I'm listening to 50yrs old man geez u guys are both amazing, so much Wisdom ahhhha, may you inspire a lot of men out there even older than you

[@pelmapule6602]

Emotional right now....I'm raising my boys alone and I'm forever worried about the missing puzzle in their lives and what's gonna become of them career wise, husband's and more hey😢😢ain't easy but worth it

[@lillymillion]

“A lotta gems in this episode” - accurate!

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I am wrecked by this interview because FOUNDATIONS, man. 😭

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[@mercymsezeni838]

"Two-parent kids are more stable and move with a confidence single-parent kids don't have." Tjoe!!!

[@smondsnomonde6051]

Isn't offensive for the single-parent raised?

[@mercymsezeni838]

@@smondsnomonde6051 This statement isn't meant to disqualify or undermine the work that single parents do, but it's the truth. Studies show the stability that comes with having both parents. A child needs both parents and it's unfortunate that it's not a reality for every child. I was raised in a single home and I can totally relate with lacking self-confidence and security.

[@keotshepileplaatjies8424]

​@@mercymsezeni838I beg to differ, yes God intended for kids to be raised by both parents but as for stability and confidence... That is case based. I know more broken kids who come from complete families. Toxic present and married parents will only result in broken kids.

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The reference to the Kobe case is a classic case about Nature vs nurture . Athleticism at his level is fully attributable to nature .

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This podcast has really opened my eyes like these things that you guys are talking about here are the reason why the rate of divorce is soo high coz im from a family of two parents and you not so i have my own expectations and so does my husband so we not hearing nor do we understand each other..Coz emotionaly we dont understand each other our reasoning too. Thank you so very much for this. I pray doors of favour may be opened for this podcast ,we need it the next generations needs it.

[@longstoryshort5463]

The miscarriage stats are about 20% of known pregnancies and likely much higher because many women miscarry before realizing pregnancy had occurred. I just want to clear that up so as to give women a little bit of hope as 80% is a scarily high number. 20% is still very high, so many women experienced and will experience this devastating outcome, so we need to talk about this more. I absolutely love the openness and vulnerability of this guest. Thank you so much for sharing, and may God richly bless your family.

[@jeansophia2092]

I was raised by a single mother and i am with a man who was raised by two parents and parents still married. I have been holding on to the relationship because I want our daughter to have both parents in the same home unlike me. I kept up with lot of emotional abuse from him. I live very unhappy cause of that and i am starting to see that our daughter can see through my sadness and is not fair for her. I think i would rather have her raised by two parents in seperate home than in one home.

[@phumzilekhumalo5552]

I am a daughter who was raised by both parents but I witnessed my father abuse my mom physically and emotionally. The trauma is irreversible. As a girl you start forming wrong ideas about love and about who you are. There’s a lot I wish we didn’t have to see as kids.

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“Sometimes it’s not about reaching out once to one person” 🙌🏽🙌🏽

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It’s hard but it’s true. We got to Reach out!

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What a beautiful episode. I appreciate the level of honesty. 🙏🏾

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indeed... ✊

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[@BiancaLeesa]

I wasnt gonna comment cause I'm just a gal in Sada 😂. But you said that you held your daughter and thought you understood why your father left, oooh man that hit home cause my father has never been there and I've always wondered why, but I've held onto the victim title, the child who was left title so dearly that it made no sense to reach out, even now i feel the same but i see what you mean, men are never given the platform to process. No matter how much the woman carries the whole junk, it's sad how men are never given a chance to process. I hope one day I'm gracious, kind and willing to ask him to start over and mend what never existed which is our relationship. Thank you, okay back to my little corner 🙃

[@The_Dream_Space]

It's very much a tight rope. I think the older we get the more open we may be to understanding our parents as people and individuals with their own make up and histories not just as our parents. It excuses nothing and will not reverse anything but sometimes helps in realising most of their poor decisions have nothing to do with us but everything to do with them and how they see themselves and that ripple effect, thats where true accountability lies. But whether they are willing to go there to have that KIND of conversation is another story . I hope one day you are able to have the chat. And thanks so much for watching and sharing your thoughts too 🙏🏾

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[@Princekendy.]

This is so informative wow 🙌

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[@nkatekomayimele5141]

This was so wholesome and very very needed. Thank you to both of you for your vulnerability and rawness 😍😍

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[@datijerge3051]

This is deep, thank you for this! God bless you sirs.

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[@tumisithole8858]

22:32 this is point on!!

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What a fresh podcast thank you so much brother, keep doing the great work lovely to hear from the other gender blessings to you and brothers all over the world.

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[@leratoramokgopa5908]

This is so wholesome ❤

[@zodumoxhavulani7289]

Emotional intelligence is the key ☺️great conversation guys🙏

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You said it!! Thanks so much for watching 🙏🏾

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Can we have Pastor Kabelo Mabalane...

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Definitely someone who is already on our wishlist 🙏🏾

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Nobody talks about the driving back from hospital anxiety Gents have.. Like now you're responsible for this little life in the car 🙆🙆🙆🙆🙆🙆🙆🙆

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Thank you❤❤

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[@nolwazindlovu2320]

Yikes, triggering but in a good way, hardly ever hear the side of the man when it comes to processing a miscarriage.

[@The_Dream_Space]

Totally understand it can be triggering but it’s unfortunate their stories and experiences don’t get as much attention. Thanks for watching 🙏🏾

[@Princekendy.]

🔥🔥

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[@tumisithole8858]

How can i get the book? Im a woman😂

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😂 you are more than welcome to engage. We will definitely be making an announcement when it’s out

[@Break1n9out]

I am sorry to share this opinion of mine but the awkward laughs were throwing me off because I've experienced having a miscarriage it's a next level moment you become something only God can understand...

[@The_Dream_Space]

Thanks for the feedback and sorry for your loss as well. It’s an an undeniable trauma to deal with There was natural laughter in the general conversation where it flowed organically and was in the context of what was being said at the time. However have to disagree with you in that there was not a point where the actual miscarriage Hungani and his wife experienced was laughed at, made light of or joked about. That would be insensitive and inappropriate.

[@privilegendlovu4662]

But the host talks too much more than the guest

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We will continue to grow. Thanks for watching!

[@kelekgakatsi1440]

I must confess I actually like that. I feel that makes it a conversation and less of an interview. Watching it feels like I'm listening in while two men are sharing some deep thoughts and feelings

[@jimmabuela906]

That's 20 years black and white comparison is every reductionist view, have to stop glorifying white,three are a lot of black great marriages out there.if you don't have the evidence don't talk about it. Talking down on black people is every exhausting.