"The most important advice I have is about family dynamics. I have 8 sisters who were troubling my wife with hurtful words. I stood by my wife's side and protected her throughout, despite knowing about my sisters' behaviour. It's crucial to stop protecting your family and focus on fixing your marriage. Your family might not support your marriage, especially if you are the main provider at home; they may try to alienate your wife. It's time to realize the reality of the situation."
@user-ok9kw9kk4r19 күн бұрын
They can even lie ijo, men like you are so scarce.
@chicomateus205118 күн бұрын
@user-ok9kw9kk4r Yes, they create stories and lies, and if you are a provider, you need to stand your ground. I stood by her until they all made peace with it. Now we are one happy family
@rnk23618 күн бұрын
@chicomateus2051 Hmm…🥃 God bless you and your wife.
@chicomateus205118 күн бұрын
@@rnk236 I'm blessed to have her in my life
@chicomateus205118 күн бұрын
@@rnk236 I'm blessed to have her in my life
@patricianwandule579819 күн бұрын
May this kind of man never locate me ...God refuse ka naa please😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢
@SM-mh1kq17 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 wena stoutu...ene ba tla o locater 😅😅😅😅....I'm joking...May God give you humble, Godly man
@ntombidayimani817815 күн бұрын
Me and you both 😢😢😢
@kamogelokoloane51824 күн бұрын
Amen.. Amen...Amen
@thattswanagirl561519 күн бұрын
The use of “that lady” says a lot about this guy’s character. That lady referred to him as husband throughout her interview.
@KaraboKalauba19 күн бұрын
And Portia kept on saying my husband through out the interview
@Deli.N19 күн бұрын
Remember she said he initiated the divorce so I think he's so over her that's why he refers to her as that lady
@CharmaineKgatla19 күн бұрын
Mean he moved on long time ago, this guy must just go n marry his mom n siblings @Deli.N
@chicomateus205119 күн бұрын
@@thattswanagirl5615 He didn't listen to the whole podcast His family told him about it
@blackwoman_01519 күн бұрын
I said it !!!
@PemmyTshikovhele19 күн бұрын
He came here to say nothing n confirm portia story 😊
@Thembi-jb5br19 күн бұрын
Comprehension is very important. Apply logic not emotions.
@lungelolamula707519 күн бұрын
And prove that he's a mama's boy 😅
@ratanangmatjila26119 күн бұрын
@@PemmyTshikovhele stru🤞
@pearltebogo270819 күн бұрын
Danki sesi..@@Thembi-jb5br
@manthobamamabolo697618 күн бұрын
Yhooo the 1st 8 minutes😩😩😩 Kante why go senyiwa nako.
@PulengTshabalala-n3k19 күн бұрын
May this kind of man never locate me😢modimo hana kanna
@ladyb584319 күн бұрын
In the name of Jesus
@ladyb584319 күн бұрын
In the name of Jesus
@anastheciasebela646019 күн бұрын
😂😂❤
@nthabelengmohlala317519 күн бұрын
Same😂 yho he said I can't let my wife get between me & my family 😮😭
@LoratoPeters19 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@tinayoung363019 күн бұрын
This man is full of lies and he keeps running away from answering questions properly coz he knows he is lying, 🚮
@lekgatlanehellenmoshidi6219 күн бұрын
he confirmed everything Porche mentioned,he is just worried about his family reputation.
@murielmoyahabo60783 күн бұрын
Yeyi confirmed without confirming. Guy is a real definition of a narcissist
@kms70819 күн бұрын
I was ready to find out how Portia lied only for this guy to Prove her right😂.
@rudzanikharivhe629419 күн бұрын
Nna I saw it from the word go...
@malidirbth710019 күн бұрын
How right because the man has proof that the house was built b4 they got married. He also mentioned that porch was not working from 2016 if not 2015. Come with proof MoGirl to show that you are working and bought all what you claim.
@mariaduduzile357610 күн бұрын
@@malidirbth7100 I remember her saying gore they built the house while they were still dating before getting married.
@cynthiaseanego360710 күн бұрын
@@mariaduduzile3576yep I also heard her
@chloebadass952619 күн бұрын
Your next girlfriend must not see this interview. “You can’t allow your wife to come between you and your family”? Some mothers hates their sons😢they make sure that they don’t marry.
@silindilenxumalo954119 күн бұрын
This guy is protecting is family. For as long as he does this, he will never have a wife. Not this one and no one else ever. Because he is their lotto, abamthandi.
@user-bs4pu8vg1u19 күн бұрын
U Bua nnete
@becomingrebotile949618 күн бұрын
Being a breadwinner is hectic.
@Vv-fl2rm18 күн бұрын
He must marry one of his sisters
@pheladitau676217 күн бұрын
Truth@@Vv-fl2rmtruth....they must also make lots of babies since mma wants the kids😊
@princesstshilidziramabulan77726 күн бұрын
Thank you, truth be told
@gilliannkomi40619 күн бұрын
Ge osa protect your wife obviously ur siblings batlo mo namela bamo fologa.. "protect your wife with all cost"
@nthabelengmohlala317519 күн бұрын
Exactly! Yena he's point is that he can't be a referee meaning he doesn't have the natural instinct to protect mosadi wa gagwe
@tinnylesetja833019 күн бұрын
Exactly
@phutimaifo963519 күн бұрын
She is not working she is a business woman she is self employed
@user-bs4pu8vg1u19 күн бұрын
Stupid lier says Potia is not working so stupid 🙄 Potia works because she is self employed
@thabangmalepe166319 күн бұрын
Go to fix your marriage there is no issue here excluding 3rd person
@katlegomonyamane965319 күн бұрын
That's true,the only problems is the in-law and Portia need to see therapy to deal with stress of not having baby
@ladyb584319 күн бұрын
Nnete fela
@marciamohale672019 күн бұрын
Yazi
@lucyteffomooi.19 күн бұрын
True,he didnt even need to come here,i feel like he is lying he didnt even try to bring them together en ask what is what
@ramolokoanemakhafola128419 күн бұрын
@@lucyteffomooi.I stand with you. This guy o bolela maaka. O yemella family ya gabo
@vikeliwendlovu19 күн бұрын
He shouldn't have come here 😅😆 we were not born yesterday
@sharonmaluleke461818 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂He shoukd have stayed wherever he was, Yhoooo he's a narcissist
@poppymatshidiso729219 күн бұрын
Promise mama , what a waste of your time and ours Yoh . Typical bomma , narcissist of note. ‘I cheated with reasons’ what a joke sana 😂
@nthabelengmohlala317519 күн бұрын
Typical Pedi man😂 can't protect/ defend his wife. His family was/is overly involved in their marriage
@lumkamsingizana736019 күн бұрын
Rha this guy! 🚮
@user-bs4pu8vg1u19 күн бұрын
😂gal am so pissed,,,,real narcissist 😢
@kgaogelomarakalala-jz6vh19 күн бұрын
Imagine sies😂😂😂😂😢😢
@thembikgwebu787318 күн бұрын
I'm just as pissed..I've been waiting to hear his side of the story but nah he was here to defend his family
@mashadimokgata87119 күн бұрын
Tlang ke le botjeng hle they are bith right in their own way 😮 Sadly their marriage involved lots of unnecessary people. Guys marriage is for 2people hle. ❤🎉Marriage is beautiful🎉❤
@marciamohale672019 күн бұрын
Too many passangers in the merriage
@pheladitau676217 күн бұрын
If this can reach the inlaws....if ur son is getting married.. plzzzzzzz he is marrying for himself not for mamazala....
@menniekumalo327618 күн бұрын
This man is what we call isiyoyoyo, that lady dodged a bullet. Men like this should remain unmarried or marry his mother or sister.
@sofialovinglife5978 күн бұрын
😂😂 true I can't stand Mummys boys
@murielmoyahabo60783 күн бұрын
Am still saying iyoh
@lebogangkutu-c2g19 күн бұрын
I feel so for the next victim 😢. Portia thank God you are out, wishing you healing.
@MaMwelaseMvelase19 күн бұрын
Mina what I've learnt in life is that if you're falsely accused just keep quite, somehow the person making noise about you will be exposed. But if you try defending yourself, even if you're right you become questionable. But then that's just me.
@dumisanindlovu439618 күн бұрын
This is so true...people always say two sides of a story...it's rare in these kind of situation for the man to be equally heard😢
@Vhushavhelo19 күн бұрын
She might have lied but man, this man came and said nothing 😟😟
@mpulemailula322519 күн бұрын
💯
@anastheciasebela646019 күн бұрын
I mean what a waste of resources 😢
@chicomateus205119 күн бұрын
@@Vhushavhelo Protecting his family
@philamaphanga750219 күн бұрын
Ay...in glad I'm not the only one.....except for the joling
@makgokamokgalapa18 күн бұрын
Nothing at all
@leratomamabolo19 күн бұрын
Let’s be honest to each other guys Porsche ha a kgaogane le ntlo ela and focus on the other assets that her husband has. That house does not form part of her joint estate with her husband. If she bought furniture and she has slips or bank statements to prove it she can claim them but she should leave the house issue.
@leratomamabolo19 күн бұрын
She’s basically wasting her time with the house
@BabyHope-js5gx19 күн бұрын
N DE guy is not refusing to share 50/50 on whatever is in His name hle. Divorce e bohloko.
@leratomamabolo19 күн бұрын
@@BabyHope-js5gx too much shame it’s painful
@rudzanikharivhe629419 күн бұрын
She's fulling herself.....the house she's not goner get
@hildamashilo503712 күн бұрын
@@BabyHope-js5gxPorch seems like she likes show off..she should just accept that the guy he's not refusing with 50%
@reneilwekgatle898817 күн бұрын
This guy is not a man, he just confirmed everything his wife said, he needs to be able to stand up to his family
@MidyMcD19 күн бұрын
Narcissists are reserved...
@wespeakthetruthhere741319 күн бұрын
Not him calling her “that lady” 😭
@redtaggirl49315 күн бұрын
Heyyyy
@katlegokgolane18219 күн бұрын
Lord protect me from this mentally of bringing my personal issues in social media😢😢, this is insane
@lucynchabeleng164319 күн бұрын
Nnete fela
@mememabuya816119 күн бұрын
Amen
@ledwabakayg736919 күн бұрын
so thina what must we watch?
@ephraimmotho88719 күн бұрын
ngwana o sa lleng o swela tharing 😭
@katlegokgolane18219 күн бұрын
@@ledwabakayg7369 ppl are dancing watch Dem🤣🤣
@isurviveditrixongile19 күн бұрын
My advise to Promise: Allow the guest to explain his side, then ask. The probing is is slightly linear to the one you 'potentially' believe, removing the mutual stance you'd like to have in such a scenario. Apart from that, Well done sisi, you are doing so well. Will keep watching
@lifeisbetterwithjesuschris916119 күн бұрын
I applaud the man for coming and saying his side of story. We turn to support women more than man without hearing their side of story. Men endure pain and abuse as much as we do.
@lucyteffomooi.19 күн бұрын
One thing about men,can be on the side of their family or side of the wife,never between,they hate being between they choose side
@silindilenxumalo954119 күн бұрын
I'm not saying the wife was perfect, but judging from the way he speaks,he sided with his family.
@sulezinyembezigqeba19 күн бұрын
💯
@zandiletshehla287719 күн бұрын
@@lucyteffomooi.theres no need to choose he needs them both just like us women we need both family and partners we dnt have to choose they can co-exist
@MalefaMadihlaba19 күн бұрын
Exactly ...women always put their family and children before their men ..but when men do it its an issue for them .....i think he is right ..no relationship should break down family bonds ..and if thats what women want..then its completely wrong ....learn to co..exist ...@zandiletshehla2877
@rachelshabangu425319 күн бұрын
He's scared of his family this one, ladies stay away from this kind, Bomma😮
@tinnylesetja833019 күн бұрын
We are going through a lot ka bomma💔😭
@emelymoleko320518 күн бұрын
His family come first obviously I hope Portia knew this
@user-vw7ip7zl7m11 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@murielmoyahabo60783 күн бұрын
They use him this 1
@KeituForever19 күн бұрын
Promise bo menemene mara??? Portia told you that she is currently unemployed, why are you acting brand new?
@nhlanhlathwala328217 күн бұрын
She did say that she is CURRENTLY unemployed but not that she's been unemployed since the early stages of the relationship. I think that's why Promise is ''shocked''.
@kagisoEskaYy-no9jt18 күн бұрын
He's now blaming his mamazala but doesn't want his mother to be blamed
@nhlanhlathwala328217 күн бұрын
But it honestly raises eyebrows on the Mamazala..why would she hide all this? Unless she knew ukuthi her child was in the wrong.
@MogashoaLesetja19 күн бұрын
Wena rao shiya ko Mans conference, 😂Eddy weee, man up leave ur mom n Siblings
@tinnylesetja833019 күн бұрын
Nnete fela
@Kelebot18 күн бұрын
Mosiyeng o useless
@lebogangmariba438818 күн бұрын
Mmusetseng banneng😂😂
@esthersambo611918 күн бұрын
Klaar😏
@Maps_Machaba19 күн бұрын
Its just heartbreaking seeing marriages falling apart 🙆♂️. May God intervene 💔💔💔
@michelmabuza408719 күн бұрын
This guy o tshwara kua le kua, his side of the story is not adding
@masegohlaabye755119 күн бұрын
Hai gape ga go kopane 😅
@michelmabuza408719 күн бұрын
@@masegohlaabye7551Yoh he’s badmouthing the mother in law and protecting his
@zandiletshehla287719 күн бұрын
Men cnt express themselves well like us women
@mokgadiboshomane214618 күн бұрын
Ke di fill in the missing words type of questions 😂😂😂🤣🥲
@lebogangmariba438818 күн бұрын
😂😂😂nna ker okwa Kenna fela one maaka
@keorapetsemotau531819 күн бұрын
Its so hard to listen to him because he is so defensive, Portia was so clear in her explanation and addressed him with respect.
@user-bs4pu8vg1u19 күн бұрын
He can't be clear because he is a lier and manipulater
@evansmangena12118 күн бұрын
Problems with this guy he not good storie tell
@friedajason867818 күн бұрын
Portia was only accommodating South Africans, us Namibians understood nothing. We feel left out.
@Siba_Vee18 күн бұрын
Not everyone is a good story teller, and that doesn't mean that they are lying
@matekedigojane57118 күн бұрын
He came well prepared and listened to her podcast and attacked her according to it... Moghal had her flaws but the arrogance is too much 😢
@uuka65219 күн бұрын
Didn't she say she was building the house while dating than got married officially 2018.
@chloebadass952619 күн бұрын
They don’t want to touch that part...
@mokgohloentsoane760715 күн бұрын
Mara logically speaking how does build a house ko bo boyfriend? Why nasa nyake stand a aga ? That to me doesn't make sense
@katlehokoote806618 күн бұрын
24 minutes in and this man has said absolutely NOTHING… ho ntso thweng mara mo!!!??
@pulengmoatshe998519 күн бұрын
He said a bunch of nothing.what a waste of time
@KaraboKalauba19 күн бұрын
I feel like sesi promised also failed with this interview. She didnt put pressure on relevant questions
@sibongilenkwana883517 күн бұрын
I think he is a lost case this guy. He can't even get to the point
@user-qc4pl7sk1j17 күн бұрын
Same, I feel like she wanted him to believe she's on his side.
@Lebo_Mathibela16 күн бұрын
True, she even said she is challenged. By what exactly, long answers while he contradict himself?eg, He says he never cheated he was flirting with the gal along the way says he cheated and so what🤣🤣
@kgomotsogaosenkwe3356 күн бұрын
@@user-qc4pl7sk1jVery True
@lungilenjokweni17 күн бұрын
Marriage isn't pap &vleis guys. That's why it's important to attend pre marital counseling. Love, sex and attraction don't build up a strong relationship. But good communication is the key to a healthy relationship. A marriage certificate doesn't guarantee anything, build a solid foundation from the beginning. My wife and I have been through all such challenges and we've conquered All. We've just celebrated our 18th anniversary. Life is a journey not a destination. Forgiveness, tolerance, love, understanding, long suffering are but a few keys to a strong marriage. We're not perfect 👌🏿
@Bee-zl2gq19 күн бұрын
He lost me in the 1st 15 minutes…” you can never allow a woman to get in between you and your family “
@nthabelengmohlala317519 күн бұрын
Same- when he said that, I knew that Portia was telling the truth. Because he's basically saying that he'd protect his family over his wife. Even when Promise asked him gore but you're the one who bought her into the family
@meisiezazaskosana666719 күн бұрын
Right there. I knew that girl was right.. Yhooo angeke
@tinnylesetja833019 күн бұрын
Very true
@kedifentsetaljaart522219 күн бұрын
He said “you must not allow your wife to come between you and your family or your family to come between you and your wife”
@esthersambo611918 күн бұрын
Imagine 😢bomma
@pertuniamosa477319 күн бұрын
Arg xem Mmatswale le dikgaetsedi ba mo apeetse ka meetse a di panty tsa bona, he contributed a lot to Posh's behaviour. She made her feel like an outsider ko ga bo. If you marry her then you must be ready to protect her. Otla mo kgala lele 2 in ur room nd not infront of ur family
@princessskosana137219 күн бұрын
Give Portia what’s rightfully hers, I don’t think I’ll even finish watching this podcast cause I’m sure this guy was forcefully sent by his family to come and clear their family name.
@anastheciasebela646019 күн бұрын
Indoda that cant stand up for his wife ⛳⛳⛳⛳⛳⛳
@kgaogeloleseka794119 күн бұрын
"You must never let your wife to come in-between you and your family"!!!!😮😮😮😮
@anastheciasebela646019 күн бұрын
@@kgaogeloleseka7941 Imagine 😂😂
@cindyrambau447619 күн бұрын
Is not all the time where you stand for shit,, am a wife and I will put my husband in a awkward situation just because I feel he owes me loyalty, y’all should be fair to your husbands and do the right thing,, don’t marry someone who don’t or will never respect
@rudzanikharivhe629419 күн бұрын
You want him to stand for someone like Portia, who can threaten a men with the knife and here we are watching them, you can't be serious
@emelymoleko320518 күн бұрын
That's the main problem....he has forgotten his position as a husband
@Lebogang-dy3zx19 күн бұрын
Red flag number 1,he failed to protect his wife, weak man 🚩
@noxologeralds759119 күн бұрын
Very true a husband should protect his wife.
@Mohlala18Karabo-xc1wd19 күн бұрын
Lea mo nyela ngwana batho😂😂😂 Portia is a liar
@rudzanikharivhe629419 күн бұрын
You viewing it from distance, be in his boots and let's see if you will still say that
@elvismagongoa417518 күн бұрын
@@Mohlala18Karabo-xc1wd ka nnete people are just protecting her cause ke mosadi, she says she built the house for Mamazala yet Google proves the house was built 2 years before she was married. People will just take sides because they can.
@mokgadimamabolo785919 күн бұрын
Yhoo Promise this interview you seem disorganised and didn't have enough time to plan...so many red flags about what this guy said but you didn't dig deeper..
@Namunana8919 күн бұрын
I feel like they should have listened to Portias story before interviewing da husband to comprehend everything she said. Looks like she was misquoted on what she said.
@EbusMb19 күн бұрын
Lets not turn a blind on the fact that portia was physically abusive
@lethabohlongo201918 күн бұрын
Society doesn’t blv men
@SammyMqwati19 күн бұрын
Shame sesi Promise surely haofetsa interview ee orile kapelong "ive just wasted my time" huuu abuti oo haona ntwe abuileng niks ..
@shokimasha238918 күн бұрын
Nna ke Shap banna ba Mapedi, these men literally live for Bomma mxm. This touched me because somehow it reminded of my ex family in law treatment of me. And having a husband this weak will make you have a mental breakdown.
@user-dj8ow5uo9c19 күн бұрын
So he can't even say my ex wife or Portia,he just say this lady
@mokgohloentsoane760715 күн бұрын
But he has been saying my wife then jumps to addressing her as that lady.
@thabangmalepe166319 күн бұрын
This guy o weak weak weak. Let him marry again the girl stated she wasn't working in marriage. The lady should go to court. She is in denial about their separation, the man cheatered she can't stay with .we waiting for new makoti round 2.the ladies gave each other senyama thats why she smell. They are both wrong but his family enkga lefotha
@darealvirgo8617 күн бұрын
Guys STI causes a smell.
@Ladydee51019 күн бұрын
I believe Portia has been through psychological trauma, she needs to get help, heal and let it go. Husband loved her, but a lot happened including third parties and that led to the end of their marriage. Life happened
@siba9219 күн бұрын
His family probably forced him to come for damage control but unfortunately it didn't work. What a narcissistic man
@nicolamailola839118 күн бұрын
He is defending himself
@siba9218 күн бұрын
@@nicolamailola8391 it's actually not working. WE BELIEVE HER . 🙂
@boipeloboipy410619 күн бұрын
Yoh Promise, lets talk about your hair and how beautiful you look.. Because ha e le interview e yona. Ga ke tlhaloganye why we here, struu..
@pulengmoatshe998519 күн бұрын
😅😅😅😅😅oooh Boi I laughed
@mapulamodiba67779 күн бұрын
Hahaha 😂😂 mara wena
@kgaogeloleseka794119 күн бұрын
Ke joint estate ya eng if the "lady never worked"???!! This guy is talking rubbish
@GomolemoKgokong-tf5nv19 күн бұрын
This guy o bua rubbish fela
@Mamaofthree79219 күн бұрын
Joint estate is everything they have, if she had 0 and he had 2 then you add zero plus 2 and get 2 then the equally to the couple he is being fair it’s how it works whether she worked or jot
@Mamaofthree79219 күн бұрын
Joint means her zero and his 3
@user-bs4pu8vg1u19 күн бұрын
This guy is just full of nonsense 🙄 😢he makes me angry ga a tsebe le hore o tlile for eng mona
@murielmoyahabo60783 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂Chesa wena Teacber. Akere a tsebe basic maths mothushe@@Mamaofthree792
@mashadimokgata87119 күн бұрын
Number ine stupidity is "never let your wife to come between you and your family" By the way this guy is a married man.😮
@JoyceMabote19 күн бұрын
That comment, i shifted on the chair were i was sitting...ibfekt cold.
@kananelomolosioa640419 күн бұрын
This happens when you get conflicted between your family and extended family
@Sticks......................18 күн бұрын
This interview is pure testimony that interviewing someone is a skill which needs to be fully and carefully developed l
@debrancube198412 күн бұрын
Felt that way too.
@zandiletshehla287719 күн бұрын
We need to be honest about our fellow sister she was not an angel in this relationship she needs to be accountable and stop playing a victim and blaming other people she also contributed to this toxicity🚮
@portiawarroomreshoketswe302819 күн бұрын
True heyyy
@Mamaofthree79219 күн бұрын
I am with you, when she told her story I did not hear her say what her mistakes were. I am married and I would never let my husband cause a rift between me and my family same way I would never let them do the same it’s my job to manage both
@zandiletshehla287719 күн бұрын
@@Mamaofthree792exactly all she did was to blame and accuse other people but not owning up to her flaws this guy is owning up to his mistakes, i am married too and i will never allow my partner to get between me and my family if they dnt like each other its okay they can co-exist but tht does not mean i have to choose, when he says something about 1 of my family member i must believe him coz we are couple.
@TebogoRahab19 күн бұрын
@@zandiletshehla2877 Amen ..True .
@pearltebogo270819 күн бұрын
Danki
@katlegokgolane18219 күн бұрын
Theres no enough reason in cheating, if ur cheated on then leave
@KatlegoYaBatswadi19 күн бұрын
😢😢This Guy Is Protecting His Family
@LebogangMoabelo19 күн бұрын
Too much 😭yooh may this kind of man never locate me 😩
@lucyteffomooi.19 күн бұрын
@@LebogangMoabelotoo much tog yho he irritates me
@busisiwequeen67019 күн бұрын
They are like that even my baby daddy! His family comes before his own daughter!
@openmindedfairy969119 күн бұрын
Skaya bochum by all it mean😂@@LebogangMoabelo
@meisiezazaskosana666719 күн бұрын
I lost it when he said bring them together.... Nagana his fam against me 😢I need my father in that meeting too
@patricianwandule579819 күн бұрын
He is protecting his family ..and yet he act innocent
@kgaogelozulu942219 күн бұрын
Portia could be toxic but what led to her being like that i dont knw. She only mentioned all the bad things about this guy and his family coz she wants to play victim. The guy has his weaknesses but how do you deal a person who burns your clothes and sleeps with a knife
@nhlanhlathwala328217 күн бұрын
Exactlly!!
@kgaogeloleseka794119 күн бұрын
Yooh man who doesn't defend you , especially to his family,ke nonsonso
@tinnylesetja833019 күн бұрын
Trauma 😢
@Bee-zl2gq19 күн бұрын
A re he needs to know whether your telling the truth😂
@nkosazanaleseka426119 күн бұрын
Imagine!!! @@Bee-zl2gq
@Mamaofthree79219 күн бұрын
@@Bee-zl2gqeven if you are in the wrong he must defend you? A true wife knows to shut it and fight her battles quietly in the battle field. Portia lied too from what I picked up
@nthabisengmoshana858919 күн бұрын
The way Promise went out of her way to accommodate this guy? Giving him a platform to share his side and even moving her episodes around to air his first and he’s being so rude to her? He’s so arrogant! Men for you! Promise leyena was being too accommodating
@zeemali436915 күн бұрын
Promise is full of it
@selinabatlhaodi61219 күн бұрын
This marriage was toxic nje,too much detactives n they should just devorce in peace.the lady should just accept what's given to her n move on.
@rachelshabangu425319 күн бұрын
Working or not she's entitled to half of everything.
@AliceNkosi-l9b19 күн бұрын
But the guy is not denying that mos........ But specifically everything under his name
@phindileskhosana398919 күн бұрын
Nah I believe the wife obviously this man will advocate, justify, and defend him self man can can change the story as always remember man can lie
@matshidisomofokeng299719 күн бұрын
Bible e la tjho yare o tla siya Mmao ha o nyala u will never last in any marriage with this mentality abuti
@thapelokarabo318219 күн бұрын
He will never shame
@zandilevinjwa365919 күн бұрын
I think Porsche should’ve asked for divorce spousal support
@refentsemakwetja155 күн бұрын
I was married to a man like this one. Their lies are so believable to a point that you doubt your own experiences. In the last family meeting before our separation all I did was cry, while he was confidently lying to the elders. He was mentioning things that happened in my previous relationship that I told him in confidence, my parents didn't even know about. A very sweet guy if you meet him on the street, but behind the closed doors, a monster. Most of our problems included his mom, but you wouldn't dare mention her in the meeting, she was protected by all means.
@Thembi-jb5br19 күн бұрын
They both have contributed to this .but what im realizing is that the lady has depression and having it difficult to accept the separation.
@silindilenxumalo954119 күн бұрын
There is no way someone can take a knife on you and you are saying you don't know what was the argument about. This woman doesn't look crazy,never
@nkosazanankosi576019 күн бұрын
hawu mara Promise we were waiting for part 2 ya the girl from the rehabilitation not batho babakgolo banali maka
@Sadrama-w6t19 күн бұрын
I came here for part 2
@suzanorefile17019 күн бұрын
Ke next week
@mathomesamuel80119 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂😂
@Ownnarrativepodcast19 күн бұрын
We made an announcement that its airing next Wednesday 17 July at 1pm
@Me2024319 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂 elders who lie for no reason 😂😂😂 while we are waiting for important issues...wa bora this guy but the is some truth to his story the lady can't be completely innocent they must just grow up nje..
@keitumetseledingoane845819 күн бұрын
Die bra onale mokgwa…Porche is the one that got away and I love that for her ❤
@Mloko_M2719 күн бұрын
This guy o ntlatsa pelo yho. Okare nka mmetha ka mpama
@anastheciasebela646019 күн бұрын
😂
@venusm546019 күн бұрын
😭😭😭😭 I swear!!!!!
@Lee_mo119 күн бұрын
😂😂😂
@tlangelanipatriciashingang578919 күн бұрын
O bora nna hle n o bully hle
@tokelomoatshe171518 күн бұрын
Tjo le Nna 😅
@Mloko_M2719 күн бұрын
Bare Kena le monna Bara Edward Mojela. Nka ipolaya struu😢😢😢
@anastheciasebela646019 күн бұрын
😂❤
@mmakgollaphoshoko404219 күн бұрын
Why?i feel you judging this man, actually i feel this man is telling the truth, ladies and being biased by the other ladies, something is fishy with that lady, either entitlement is her issue or she did not think she will lose all this luxury , she is depressed
@nickymthelebofu19 күн бұрын
@@mmakgollaphoshoko4042 Lol are u the sister of Monna wo😃
@mmakgollaphoshoko404219 күн бұрын
@@nickymthelebofu m not the sister nor related,but blv u me, there's some truth there
@nickymthelebofu19 күн бұрын
@@mmakgollaphoshoko4042 yes there is, but this man is Bomma man
@user-qc4pl7sk1j17 күн бұрын
I know a liar when I see one, and this man is a liar. He's really talking a bunch of lies. I'm sorry sir but I believe your wife even more now
@nompulal15 күн бұрын
It's 5 minutes in the PodCast and I don't trust this guy. He doesn't answer questions. Wajikajika mani
@mitchell_nkonimodjadji43018 күн бұрын
Him explaining that whole cheating thing? What a bunch of nothings! May this kind of man never locate me in the name of the Lord!!!
@gilliannkomi40619 күн бұрын
Protect your wife with all cost ... no matter what kere protect ur wife
@avuyilekhuzwayo406819 күн бұрын
Haibo even if she is wrong musani ukudlala ngamadoda
@tinnylesetja833019 күн бұрын
Amen🙌🏽🙌🏽
@MalefaMadihlaba19 күн бұрын
But wives can be wrong ...
@ratanangmatjila26119 күн бұрын
I believe Portia.
@user-ci4dz9uk6i18 күн бұрын
Bhuti,,,you got married with wrong facts,,the Bible says you will leave you family and be in one flesh with your wife...wena you say Mosadi asago aroganya with your sisters ,,,you demand respect that time you are so disrespectful.
@letushilaalina18 күн бұрын
The moment he said to Promise “listen to me, listen to what I am saying” nahhh 🤮 even if everything Portia said is a lie, as in all of it, I still stand with her because the other option isn’t up for consideration yuk!!!
@anastheciasebela646019 күн бұрын
You didnt adress the issue ya skempe cos youre scared of your sister ... Lol you love your family too much wena .
@thapelokarabo318219 күн бұрын
How can he say ake di tsene🥺Batho ba geno ba roga your wife
@anastheciasebela646019 күн бұрын
@@thapelokarabo3182😂😂 I mean my guy you fetched me at my parents house you must you must make sure you protect and defend me
@kgaogelozulu942219 күн бұрын
@@thapelokarabo3182he said he wanted to sit down with both of them Portia refused
@MakwenaDaphney19 күн бұрын
one thing about eddies family they love each other and support each other
@msngema138018 күн бұрын
What if this lady started contributing to the house when they were dating? Did I miss that? This man is not make sure…he cheated shem lol
@tinnylesetja833019 күн бұрын
If your intentions was to improve your family sir nkabe o sanka o nyala ngwana wa batho because that monster in-laws they will always demand on you and hate your wife for the whole life.Ga o na back bone Eddie
@zandiletshehla287719 күн бұрын
Hence why he built before marrying her
@tinnylesetja833019 күн бұрын
@@zandiletshehla2877 exactly
@tlangelanipatriciashingang578919 күн бұрын
@@zandiletshehla2877Do u want this man Sisi??? U sim 2 be interested in him😂😂😂
@lebogangmariba438818 күн бұрын
Maybe ke sesiage 😂@@tlangelanipatriciashingang5789
@pearlmmaleetle917819 күн бұрын
Men are going through alot, why is it difficult to just sign divorce ge motho asago nyake...now kedi ip and down😢
@user-ci4dz9uk6i18 күн бұрын
This guy disrespect Promise in her own podcast,,,imagine what was he doing to that poor lady in private....we have lot of women in mental institutions because of such guy then they come forth and Claim that women are crazy mnx😢😢😢😢sthuphethu lesi
@M.Ngoepe19 күн бұрын
Promise I like your podcast but I feel like you’re not asking relevant questions or do research on such situations so that you can ask better questions that aligns with the story ,the house could have been built in preparation to the wedding because some people don’t want to get married while the house is not in a good condition.I am not taking sides but that’s just my view 😅
@lucyteffomooi.19 күн бұрын
I am trying to get yo previous Porshe story because i feel like they build before they got married. I stand to be corrected
@zandiletshehla287719 күн бұрын
He answered the question why he built the house he said he wanted to better his family situation i think thts why he built before marrying coz he knew its gonna cause a rift if he starts building after marriage
@VirginiaSihlangu-ur5vb16 күн бұрын
This guy is protecting his family i know such ppl
@VirginiaSihlangu-ur5vb16 күн бұрын
Tjo guy learn 2 put ur wife 1st than ur family
@marykubayi82028 күн бұрын
O sele this guy ,he came here just to confuse Promise 😢
@kgaogeloleseka794119 күн бұрын
Bathong, this guys sister mocked his wife about not having kids, and this is how he responds?!!!! 😔😔😔
@thattswanagirl561519 күн бұрын
Are hiccups😳. He grew up in a toxic environment thats why he dismisses it saying “their relationship was like every other relationship I know”
@Mamaofthree79219 күн бұрын
What if she lied?
@kgaogelozulu942219 күн бұрын
@@thattswanagirl5615but he was willing to solve the issue by bringing them together and she refused..why?
@SelekaKgoale16 күн бұрын
Being married to a breadwinner its a problem especially with sisters with kids and not married..otlo bona mathata stru
@ThatoMatsetse19 күн бұрын
1:00:12 now i understand why Portia said her in-laws were saying to their son let's leave the house Portia o tlo go bolaya if you stay behind. Yoh hai go hlakahlakane makgowa
@EbusMb19 күн бұрын
These 2 should just cut their losses...this guys family will always be a factor in their marriage
@KatlegoYaBatswadi19 күн бұрын
Monna O Lena Is Denying Everything And Trying To Play Mind Games Nna Gake Motshepe Motho
@marykubayi82028 күн бұрын
The lady mentioned they started building the house while she was girlfriend
@karabomasufi30418 күн бұрын
I honestly believe this man more than his wife
@BonganeNgoaile16 күн бұрын
Lenna i belive him, more to the fact that he is even giving her 50 percent of everything
@zanelehlengwa806716 күн бұрын
When he says ohk trying to sound smart kanti yi dododo
@Winterof8412 күн бұрын
😂😂😂😂😂
@asandasithonga97015 күн бұрын
Man was asked “why did you cheat” and he flipped the conversation to how Porsche he was suspecting Porsche of cheating 😭