Why Get Married? | We Don't Always Agree With Ryan & Sterling

[@jadafreeman2464]

If you not liking the video before you watch are you even really a fan!???

[@rainicewaller6210]

Right

[@WeDontAlwaysAgree]

My favorite comment ever...!

[@MelynnanFiona]

THAT PART!!!!

[@zenobiawright6296]

💯💯

[@patrese25]

Exactly!! I saw it and was like...hit the button now ❤

[@kahsHD215]

The utter confusion that crossed my face when y’all started talking like yall was dropping us off and never coming back. 😂 Why didn’t I know there was only supposed to be 12 episodes?! This has been one of the most enjoyable podcasts I’ve listened to all year. Please consider a season 2!

[@jennifergrant5268]

I thoroughly enjoyed each episode. ❤

[@WeDontAlwaysAgree]

It was a best kept secret for a bit 😮‍💨 ahaha, we're working on what's next 💛

[@marioanalevy]

woah woah woah wdym only twelve episodessssssssss, pls this podcast is literally the best, they best not cancel this

[@dayview1]

Exactly!!!!

[@rjordan102]

How can someone not like Sterling?!?! Ryan family was missing out

[@Kdavis0916]

Ryan’s beautiful tribute to Sterling at 34:20 made my heart smile. Proud to know him as a friend and a wife.

[@despacioyescucha2784]

beautiful❤ the beginning with: i like i'm not embarrassed 😂

[@evonneirizarry9516]

When two good hearted, kind, black, ambitious, loving humans talk, I listen👂🏾Thank you!!!♥️♥️♥️ Sad to see it's over. Until next time 🤞🏾

[@afletcher257]

LISTEN .... When I say, I absolutely LOVE yalls authentic transparency. This podcast IS truly needed 🌺 For now, I guess I'll start again at Episode 1 .... Until we meet again on these KZbin streets 🫶🏾 But PLEASE come back !

[@WeDontAlwaysAgree]

We are working on it!! 💛

[@alicemariebrinson7901]

This just can't be it. Who do I need to speak to??? This podcast is such a breath of fresh air. We seriously need a season 2. To all who made this happen, you all are amazing. Thank you!

[@WeDontAlwaysAgree]

To us! You're speaking to us right here 💛 We are definitely working on it!

[@Invokebliss]

​@WeDontAlwaysAgree I love yall!❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉 Yes we need 20 Seasons! Netflix or Peacock show coming I'm speaking it into Existence.

[@alicemariebrinson7901]

@WeDontAlwaysAgree Hello there! Any new updates? Is there anything we, as the consumer, can do to get this podcast back?

[@senastyles]

I feel like I’ve been anti-marriage because I never witnessed a healthy dynamic. Watching the podcast has helped me see that disagreements aren’t an end all be all. I’ve enjoyed seeing you all navigate through conversations with respect and kindness. I can tell that you all are truly committed to one another in the healthiest way. C’yaint wait for season 2!🤗

[@WeDontAlwaysAgree]

😮... did WE really do that?! 😭

[@diobrando1488]

Just based of both of yall experiences and current journey as a healthy black couple i think both of yall could & should produce/direct a realistic romantic movie with a black cast (à la love jones)

[@WeDontAlwaysAgree]

Wait I loooove this! 💛

[@NicE32E]

14:47 it’s so crazy that her family was so against him because Sterling (Randall) is literally Americas Favorite Husband.

[@tywanasutton1640]

LITERALLY!!!! And the fact that they are still indifferent towards him (seemingly) is utter foolishness. I'm so proud that Sterling and Ryan continued to love each other through it. Ryan is truly a joy...It's hard to believe she comes from a family that would not fully support her.

[@NicE32E]

@ Absolutely! God bless them!

[@mszjoness]

What I learned: You guys are both great story tellers. Ryan is a really deep thinker and likes to choose her words carefully. Sterling despises dead space and is deeply sensitive. You both are melodramatic--- a la ACTORS. The love that both of you have together is awe inspiring. I love this podcast.

[@virginianavarro4770]

This doesn’t get enough recognition. The amount of jewels dropped every episode is amazing. I really love these two on and off the screen.

[@WeDontAlwaysAgree]

omg... you're my favorite 🥰 Thank you for listening!

[@tywanasutton1640]

Agreed! I tell everyone about this podcast and that they HAVE to check it out! It is one if the few podcasts that I watch faithfully.

[@DesiLu4Life]

She said the key thing: A BINDING AGREEMENT, where two people have to participate

[@ItsMyRealName]

Hopefully? Chile… cause CUH-LEARLY we need y’all to keep the episodes coming! And shoutout to all the amazing people off camera bringing this project to us 🫶🏾🥰

[@WeDontAlwaysAgree]

Oh! You're funny 😂 We're working on it ✨

[@focuswithtati1190]

This is beautiful to watch. Unfortunately, I just filed for my divorce. To know that I did all that I think I should've done to avoid marrying and having children with the wrong person but even then, someone can lie to your face, to our parents, a congregation, my pastors, through premarital counseling and ultimately to God. But here we are. I'm back in these streets and waiting on God to send me the right ones. Pray for a sista 🙏🏾

[@rkms5606]

🙏🏿

[@tywanasutton1640]

Whew...Been there. It gets better in time. You've got this! ❤

[@focuswithtati1190]

@tywanasutton1640 thank you, I truly appreciate it

[@TheresaJ2911]

Season 2, please 😭 Yall are my virtual auntie and uncle and I have abandonment issues. Don’t leaaaaave **Blackstreet voice**

[@WeDontAlwaysAgree]

Love you 💛

[@TheresaJ2911]

@WeDontAlwaysAgree Love y’all! And God bless you for your labor of love towards others and most importantly each other. May God continue to strengthen you both to continue to love and support each other in your beautiful union 🥹 You are living testaments of what it means to work it out, figure it out and stay together in COVENANT and giving people like me hope that marriage is possible, not EASY, but possible and always worth it because of who you both grow to become as individuals and as a couple. 💜

[@lostphilosophy5617]

Beautifully said! 😂 season 2 is a must!!

[@trejay2387]

She’s looking like I’ve heard this story a thousand times but I love watching how he tells this story with the same passion every time.

[@AdinaTeMusic]

The beginning: when he’s describing the kind of ring she wanted and the clarity, the fact that he still remembers words for words to this day 18 years later tells me everything about this relationship. Too cute. we need more and more and more give us infinite seasons. Thank you. P.S: his voice for Ryan is hilarious. Hahahaa also love the fact that he’s been patient and love her so much and that didn’t listen to her family and they worked it out. Sometimes family can hold you back. I’m glad they listened to their hearts. She’s such a sweetheart and He’s such a gentleman.

[@lotus550]

I deeply wish I had found this podcast when it first launched. 12 episodes isn’t enough.

[@WeDontAlwaysAgree]

But you found us anyway! 💛

[@aidabeyene6834]

I would have loved to see Ryan in a long-running sitcom like A Different World or Girlfriends, I love her personality😆

[@bostonbaby6894]

🤣🤣🤣🤣Sterling's storytelling is epic!" Oh my God" Love y'all❤

[@WeDontAlwaysAgree]

Facts 🙌🏿

[@amg5967]

I DONT KNOW HOW YALL GAVE ALL OF THOSE NEEDED TO HEAR WORDS AND DIDNT CRY... BECAUSE I ,THE OUTSIDER, AM CRYING

[@WeDontAlwaysAgree]

Awwwww 💛 thank you so much for being part of our journey!! We'll be back ☺️

[@karenabenford8284]

OK so season 2 yes?????

[@WeDontAlwaysAgree]

👀

[@IsomFierce]

I love the way they love each other! We need more people to be authentic like this.

[@C-H-O-N]

I JUST LOVE YA'LLS LOVE!!!! The ULTIMATE Time Stamp 38:00-39:09! LISSENNNNNUH, that compliment right there YO! Brown, also take note that you've cultivated a safe space for Bird a to have, make & voice her position...clearly, 'the others' have not. Remember that awesome part when you're frustrated not seeing her do that with 'the others'.

[@anja4740]

14:09 "if you wanna make the people in your life happy, you will never make the people in your life happy." Good one. Very good one.

[@alethiadavis1208]

I am going to need this to continue. Sterling I can see why you love Bird so much, she’s amazing. I love your chemistry, I watch and lol ,say Amen and that right. Thank you both.❤

[@jrmosley3489]

Thank you for sharing each other with us! Please keep this podcast going. Y'all are like my FBI Tuesdays and Chicago Wednesdays...I look forward to a new episode every week. I love seeing the honesty, respect, humor and your love for one another! Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

[@MsAngelaCrystal]

I just love the way yall communicate with eachother ❤ especially at this stage in your relationship

[@nakhiagrays1]

Beautiful conversation! I loved the thoughtfulness, consideration of each other and sincere apologies in real time. So beautiful! I enjoyed this season too and look forward to another!

[@juliemack791]

So, just like that, this is the last one? Seriously though, thank you both for one of the most authentic and transparent podcast from two lucky people, who clearly love each other . You guys have shown the real side of marriage.

[@WeDontAlwaysAgree]

We'll be back 👀 Thank you so much for spending time with us and listening! 💛

[@kerrijohnson8045]

You ALMOST had him speechless, Ryan...almost!❤❤😊

[@MikeMike28-c2v]

Is there a petition? Do we need to flood a phone line? What is needed for season 2 because your conversations are helping my home and relationship with my partner. We need you guys at this point! ❤❤

[@samanderson4413]

Good to hear other perspectives from another married couple and feel like I'm not the only one having had these conversations. Thank you both so much your transparency

[@WeDontAlwaysAgree]

You know we like to keep it real over here!! Thank you for watching 💛

[@aurielthemermaid]

There’s something quite special about you two! Your honesty and humanity is refreshing, and I feel less alone! Thank you for sharing your story.

[@WeDontAlwaysAgree]

You're the best!! Thank you for being on this journey with us 💛

[@imaniwilson1848]

You have no idea how much I will miss you guys if you don’t come back! Season Two PLEEEEEEEEEEZE!! 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@iamjenniferlee]

When is Season 2?! This has been a breathe of fresh air!

[@YvonnePierre]

I've always had love for them both but now I adore them. Awesome conversations. I enjoyed all 12. Looking forward to more IF the spirit moves them to do more. Very good ❤

[@ShaniTabia5]

This is my favorite Podcast! And one of the BEST Podcasts out there. I just love you two. Thank you for sharing yourselves with us. 💝

[@WeDontAlwaysAgree]

Wow, thank you!! We'll be back! ✨

[@IAMAkilah]

I have truly enjoyed all twelve episodes. I wish you both all the best in your future endeavours. If schedules allow, a 2nd season would be awesome. Appreciation in abundance ❤

[@JoyceDoty]

What do you mean if?!? 😢 There definitely needs to be at least 12 more! So much more to discuss. This has been incredible, insightful, delightful and educational. I have laughed, cried, learned to communicate with my fiancé better (because I’m just like Ryan and will pop off 😂), have a different view of God and gotten my finances together. Please don’t let this be the end! 💕🙏🏽

[@cheslanickelson6415]

This whole series was beautiful. Thank you and I really hope there will be more.

[@DNiero96]

Wait it’s over?! It was becoming my top podcast next to the Read! Hopefully we can get a season 2

[@AdinaTeMusic]

The beginning: when he’s describing the kind of ring she wanted and the clarity, the fact that he still remembers words for words to this day 18 years later tells me everything about this relationship. Too cute. we need more and more and more give us infinite seasons. Thank you. P.S: his voice for Ryan is hilarious. Hahahaa

[@IntuitiveTracyNeely]

I was just saying to my husband, this podcast has been a ray of sunshine. Prolific, funny, honest, raw and real! Congratulations to your first season. Looking forward to seeing what’s next. 👏🏽✨

[@WeDontAlwaysAgree]

You are TOO SWEET! ☺️ Thank you soo much for joining this journey!

[@dayview1]

Wait… i know it’s not over???! Bring them back IMMEDIATELY. I LOVE. Both brilliant and wonderful with important vulnerable discussions from these beautiful humans!!

[@jasminewilson9236]

I just want to say I consistently watch your podcasts in the gym, specifically on the stair master. I forget sometimes that I’m working out because I’m laughing so hard 😂 Ryan’s proposal reaction had me crying 😂

[@gabrellaehioghiren8404]

I love this podcast. The honesty, vulnerability, care, authenticity. It is so refreshing. Thank you for sharing this project with us.

[@deas9410]

Absolutely love this podcasts. It’s refreshing to see real vulnerability and authenticity. Been married for 14 years and it’s the hardest, best thing I’ve done! It does get better as you grow and learn yourself and accept that you’re a flawed human married to a flawed human. ❤

[@maywest4uland826]

This broadcast is so needed for love. Thank you two for this level of vulnerability and truth. So many nuggets heard and held close for hope. Thank You

[@lakithagrayersmith1838]

Please run this back for season 2!!!! I wasn’t ready for this to be the last episode! I thought yall were just taking a holiday break 🥴😭

[@ksayrah1987]

Please do a season 2!! I appreciate the candor from both of yall !!!! " We may not always agree, is real life. I am glad you both are showing up as real people!!

[@abbient]

Dear Ryan and Sterling, I love the love you have for each other! I love the authenticity and transparency you share with us! And I'm grateful that you chose to share all these "bits" of yourselves and your journey with us! I appreciate you! ❤🤎🖤 Sincerely, Abigail

[@sjackson6988]

This podcast is perfection. Showcasing love that is raw, hilarious, and genuine is what all us viewers were hungry for. Thank you for inviting us into your beautiful world. May we stay? With a S.2? No pressure but we're applying all the pressure. 💜

[@WeDontAlwaysAgree]

We gotta get through the Christmas break first 😂

[@justlillian__]

I love the rawness of this podcast. They don't put on a show in a sense of acting or thinking of the perfect amswer for the camera. They give their authentic raw and real perspective. I also love seeing Sterling in "husband" mood in real life, not on camera... and it's refreshing to see a black man stand up for himself and also respect his wife while doing it. I always say a lot of times its not what u say, its how you say it ... that makes all the differences... thank you for allowing us to be a part of some tough conversations ❤ bless u both.

[@dawn1852]

If y’all are willing, I think it would be interesting to hear more how yall navigate the family dynamics of in laws or family not necessarily agreeing with your martial choice

[@namcknight9945]

Patiently waiting for the next season🤎🤎

[@travelingwithrenita]

So sweet and intentional. Can't wait for my day.

[@akaziaj]

Hope there will be another season. The love and candor is so beautiful.💜🙏🏽

[@patriciashort7908]

I love Sterling, This is a lot to resist lol, I felt it too that You were trying to please everyone but sterling. I love Y’all connection ❤❤❤❤what a Beautiful Testimony To Each Other!!! Black Love is Truly a Movement!!!!!

[@CaramelMsDelight]

This is the podcast that I didn’t know I needed!! I love how authentic you guys are! ❤🔥🔥

[@psychocsquared]

One of realest podcasts out there! Season 2 is a must!

[@Godlovesus78]

Love you two 😊💕 Your podcast is amazing, Not lying when I say, this is the only podcast I watch because you guys actually provide great insight on life and give great advice all while being so funny at that 😂 and I feel like other podcasts don't do this because you know podcasts are labeled as problematic or controversial and don't give us meaningful things to consider in life so keep up the great work Ryan & Sterling. 🙏💙

[@janessamarie4601]

How did I not know these two had a podcast? Instant subscribe ❤❤❤

[@vanessabennett382]

Thank you you two, Black Love ❤

[@Anissa087]

I have enjoyed every episode. So sad that this is the last one. I hope you guys do another season. ❤

[@WeDontAlwaysAgree]

Last one of season 1! 💛

[@marioanalevy]

no cus if this is actually the last episode like i just wanna say you guys are great and like you guys are an example of what i want my future relationship to look like, everytime i see you guys its a constant reminder of that and i love your energy, especially coming from a brokenish home, seeing two people with such a strong connection that brings genuine joy and laughter is >>>

[@ericaellington8426]

I've really enjoyed watching and listening to you both on this Podcast. Hope to see more and even more of you on Television and Big Screen. Loved the transparency and relatability. #BlackLove

[@FlameEmperor94]

I need season 2. Y'all are dope ❤❤❤

[@rachelleedmond2326]

I love these people. Thank you for your transparency and vulnerability

[@jayduh10]

36:22 I’m deadass crying in the car. WHEW.

[@patrese25]

Please come back!! 🙏🏽 ❤ you guys are incredible, the love you have for each other and the community is inspiring and so authentic. We need you ❤

[@WeDontAlwaysAgree]

We're here! Not going anywhere, just a little break ✨

[@patrese25]

@WeDontAlwaysAgree ok, sounds good. Enjoy the break and time away, everyone deserves that. 🙏🏽🥰

[@brendabaker1225]

Over until when 😢 I’ve so enjoyed all 12 episodes!

[@WeDontAlwaysAgree]

Thank you for watching and going on this journey with us! 🥺

[@jamila88]

This was such a great episode..I love genuine and authentic love..The way y'all love and speak so highly of each other ❤

[@s.k.g.7444]

This is must see. Great insights and transparency love this couple❤

[@jessicah3865]

What an amazing experience. Funny, heartwarming and real. Thank y’all for sharing with us!

[@HireAhkesha]

Please come back again!! Loved this podcast and appreciate all that you shared with us 💖💕

[@aware5248]

I loveeeee y’all! I hope that there is a season two of this amazing podcast.❤

[@erickawilliams1989]

Such a great premiere season. Bravo 🥂!!

[@TheRebellefleur27]

Wow this was so beautiful. Some of the episodes have been so scary to me. Sometimes I thought I wouldn't have been strong enough to endure the trials that you both went through and make it out happier. But I'm realizing more that doing your best and seeing what's on the other side of the stampede is worthwhile and attainable. This episode was beautiful in that it showed the beauty and softness of the relationship.

[@WeDontAlwaysAgree]

Thank you so much for this heartfelt message! 💛 It means the world to hear that you connected with our journey. You’re stronger than you know, and just showing up for what’s on the other side is a victory. Sending love your way!

[@lrfhill]

I absolutely LOVE your transparency! THANK YOU!!!

[@OneLoveRSR]

This has been a spectacular ride from start to conclusion of this first chapter. Congrats to everyone involved, including Ryan and Sterling, for creating such a great experience. 💜

[@WeDontAlwaysAgree]

Thank you so much for being on this journey with all of us!

[@MariJohn1267]

Loved this so much!!!! Also, subscribed.

[@bostonbaby6894]

What a great podcast! I hope there is another season but will undertsand if not since you're both working actors😉🤩

[@WeDontAlwaysAgree]

Stay tuned, because we're working on it!

[@nalosabali]

i absolutely love you both!!🥰 so funny & relatable! 🤣 my husband & i will be celebrating 17 years married this coming year, so this episode had me in tears when y'all spoke about what you're proud of!🥹 we definitely need season 2!!🙏🏽

[@WeDontAlwaysAgree]

AGHHHH! HAPPY (EARLY) ANNIVERSARY ✨🙌🏿

[@nalosabali]

@WeDontAlwaysAgree THANK YOU!!!!!😊

[@Ruuneeys]

Lmaooooooo the fluorescent beige reference from Precious had me laid outtttttt

[@DrJoPsyD]

This has been my new favorite podcast! I enjoyed these conversations and hearing these two talk so much! Can’t wait for season 2!!

[@KieraJayM]

This is gooooooddd!!!!!!!!! This is sooooo refreshing!!!

[@jayeglaude7022]

Hoping for more episodes.

[@kaytrice7784]

Hey there!! I love this! Thank you for doing this!! ❤❤

[@fajitapita00]

So well done! Can’t wait for Season 2.

[@SunShine-lq7yt]

He better love and cherish her. That story about Grandma and Mama having a vision got me side-eyeing him, but I love the podcast, lol. The Grandmas do be knowing.

[@ayeshadunn6289]

Bless us with a season 2, please!!!

[@allmynz02]

Very good episode. Love the transparency and affirmations ❤

[@lisabutler448]

I am divorced 12 yrs. And listening to you guys. I hope to meet someone to share life with married or not. You guys ROCK!

[@Ms_33Seven]

Thank you both! This podcast is amazing. Looking forward to season two! 🙌🏽🙏🏽♥️

[@ClaireHvr]

LOVE YALL. Cannot wait to see what’s next! ✨💕

[@nickym9680]

Omgggg please come back with Season 2

[@kam8700]

I looooove this podcast ❤ Thank you!

[@itslegacylee]

This was such a real and raw conversation. Thank you both for sharing!