Emotional Intelligence Superpowers | Marc Brackett | Talks at Google

Marc Brackett stops by to kick off Google Empathy Lab’s Series on
Designing for Feelings.
Emotions Matter. They inform our thinking and decisions, the quality of our relationships, our physical and mental health, and everyday performance. What we “do” with our emotions is especially important. In Marc’s talk you’ll learn Yale's “hard science” approach to what has often been referred to as “soft skills" from the lab that founded this groundbreaking field, the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence. Specifically, you’ll leave the talk with a deeper understanding of: The Science of Emotions and the Five Key Skills of Emotional Intelligence, including practical strategies and tools.
Marc Brackett, Ph.D., is Director of the Yale Center for Emotional Intelligence and Professor in the Child Study Center at Yale University.

[@elizabethfreer1948]

My favorite topic"..I believe mastering emotional intelligence is “the key to the kingdom of life”

[@jemgem9593]

Luv your talk and intelligence on this subject. Thank you x

[@AndreaSamadi]

This explains the chart in the front of his book!! So glad I watched this to get the most out of the book "Permission to Feel"

[@billiecorbett5824]

Love this ! Thank you Marc Brackett!

[@DMRoper1]

That mood meter: very helpful. Thanks.

[@angelaa.7242]

great talk i learned a lot about emotional intelligence..thank you

[@ewaetnak]

I love his provocative style and comments :)

[@lesleyanngoslett9774]

Really enjoyed Marc and his presentation. Amazed that so many researched are so stressed - it seems to be epidemic across all levels of our western society - the ensuing health repercussions are going to be monumental down the line in time because thoughts, powered by feelings/emotions create...

[@blondieblondie4854]

Marc, thank you so much! ❤️🧸 I’ve been looking for an app (I’m more technology than a book person) with all emotions organized, studied and explained. And I was thinking “I wish some smart guy from those Harward/Yales does it so I use it and get results, I grow and shape in the right/productive direction (and don’t have to waste time after retraining myself from the wrong stuff). Your chart makes so much sense, especially pleasantness and energy axes. I use to blame myself that my first hand emotion was anger but hey there are tons of energy lying there which I can use productively! So much easier to live now! I’ll read (listen) to your book! 💖 I wish you all the best! 🌸

[@paolabueso]

Outstanding talk! I feel like listening to him speak about this subject added so much value into my life. Thank you so much for sharing this!

[@aion2177]

fantastic presentation, rely like the practical tools; i feel elated :))

[@oluwaseyiolanlokun2938]

You listen to some people and you just have the feeling of having them as a friend, that's who Marc is.

[@AineSherman]

Thought this was a great talk especially the productive use scale. Excellent!

[@herbspencer4332]

Replacing RULES with feelings - WOW !!!

[@chockumail]

I love the lecture and framework of mood meter is something I was looking for.

[@youmnafathi6749]

Very interesting lecture. Thank you

[@wafaeazrak1373]

We need cognition and emotion together. This lecture is a must watch. Greetings from Morocco

[@malikasebou7225]

Well done I appreciate it Thanks a lot.E.I. promotes effective learning

[@ellyssrinurmala1052]

I enjoy his talk on Yale channel and he's an outsanding public speaker

[@PrairieDodgers]

Agreed emotional intelligence Infused into the system is the answer. Back to Etiquette and the encouragement of the family unit again would benefit from it also.

[@torok300]

It was the best talk about EI I've ever heard. Thank you!

[@marlenesoifer7219]

God bless you

[@marlenesoifer7219]

I cant wait till I take the appropriate class and start group therapy

[@CHECK3R5]

What a lovely talk

[@drorhenia936]

that was one of the best lectures i've seen on that subject!

[@thetruthwillsetyoufree4747]

Exactly I always said that never judge a book by its cover until you know what the insides are about

[@johndelamoguiz9576]

Love this talk. Thanks Steve Carrel!

[@cheritawalker813]

Preach on, brotha.... preach on! I definitely learned something very valuable from this.😊

[@trevorndhlovu7834]

"Emotions affect our evaluations and our creative ability."Marc Brackett

[@ravanabrahmarakshas4263]

good teacher. i learned new things. going to get your app now. thanks.

[@markleetagala4626]

thanks for the wonderful lecture.

[@thetruthwillsetyoufree4747]

Sometimes just listening with encouragement

[@jemgem9593]

Recognise the 5 scales.... excellent thanks x

[@abughuljohn3311]

thanks Marc

[@herbspencer4332]

Watch a great teacher show, by getting the audience INVOLVED.

[@norahbyrne4705]

Wow that was amazing to listen to. It's actually astounding to see how Mark takes complex evidence based research that's tried, tested and accurate and makes it so easy to understand and access. Incredible inspiring training

[@karenpickles511]

Do you have any openings in your department??! Love exploring EI. I, too, was picked on growing up. You're right.. memories of my early schooling just aren't there. I was unhappy. The picking on caused me to be shy and withdrawn. Having an emotionally unavailable mother didn't help matters. I got so sick of hearing "tomorrow's another day" or "you'll get over it" - expressing my emotions was extremely difficult and even now, at 56, it still is. Well, Imma gonna change that! I'm presenting on EI at lunch and learns where I work. This talk was very helpful! Thank you!

[@funbrothers96]

interesting topic and lecture well Done Teacher and keep the Faith

[@maryadeolaonyewadume357]

Simply put? You are brilliant .

[@Bkind2all.]

A positive outcome for both sides

[@ajay7818]

This guy is amazing!

[@crazyeyedme4685]

You're a towel!

[@robbie_]

This is interesting.

[@mriz]

thanks dude, i have anxious gene too

[@herbspencer4332]

As novelty may go wrong - so creativity is a threat.

[@hongjianxu6381]

Great talk. I was wrong about emotional intelligence

[@annsparkes4543]

Love is choice and action and words

[@salvadorchavez8386]

Great Talk

[@chriss729]

Great talk, thanks for sharing!

[@monisolaadedayo1015]

Wow! This guy has added real value to me. Thanks Prof.

[@getstarted7168]

Good talk!

[@thecounselingpsychologist]

Very reflective

[@floydjames5365]

Great, relevant talk on the importance of the emotional awareness and management

[@mobiusdesigns]

Nvc by Marshall rosenthal is similar to this, and potentially useful when applied in simultaneity

[@adhamcharani1379]

Thank you for this valuable video, I have a question for you. What the strategies you can put in place to develop your emotional intelligence and how you will model behaviour that demonstrates management of your emotions?

[@thereGoMapo]

Is that you Steve Carrell?

[@thetruthwillsetyoufree4747]

If it’s a negative feeling somebody’s having I try to find the good in the negative and approach the goodness and hope that I could somewhat balance at least the motion not illuminate the motion because it whether it’s negative or positive motion we all need to have them at what we do with the motions I

[@Merlin-ur1dz]

Like I said you are all walking 🚶 dump and talking directly about who's we really are ❤

[@scdmac1]

Outstandind lecture! Thank You very much. Well done!!

[@user-nc4fb2hb9f]

제가 SNUBH 정신건강의학과의 기분장애 클리닉에서 의생명연구원 생활을 했습니다. 그리고 저는 우수아교육을 학부에서 이수한 하워드 가드너의 다중지능이론을 좋아했고 앱 제너레이션 책도 구입했습니다.

[@thetruthwillsetyoufree4747]

I’m at 10 on emotional intelligence and I’m a 6 1/2 on regulating them

[@colinvandenbroek8139]

Any thoughts on EQ versus Big 5 personality traits? As far as I've understood, EQ has long been disproved? Please correct me if I'm wrong.

[@mro4440]

EQ and temperament are apples and oranges

[@colinvandenbroek8139]

@@mro4440 Please elaborate. Looking at the literature, aren't people that are high in "EQ" just high in trait agreeableness? Explaining higher empathy and politeness.

[@circusboy90210]

Now you see how is work going is to tell you about your emotions

[@keezer4346]

Sir, you don't realize your negative beliefs seep into the audience as you speak, bringing the group down at 4:50. If you pump up the audience with fun, carefreeness and passion, most people would feel amazing. And you'd teach them a trick to understanding how their emotion can be changed on command.

[@jjayneartworkx]

Known Boston yeah...I got an instant feeling of meh with his intro...I dunno...going back to my Sapolsky vids...lol

[@WhirledPublishing]

Stress levels have gone way up since this presentation .... I heard the death rates among children is up nearly 700%

[@DJSTOEK]

🖤

[@marlenesoifer7219]

God bless you

[@marlenesoifer7219]

7

[@marlenesoifer7219]

Yellow

[@marlenesoifer7219]

I AM COMING DOWN AND GRATEFUL FOR YOU

[@marlenesoifer7219]

Calming

[@marlenesoifer7219]

Yes

[@BadMedizin]

Deepak Chopra's next? Prozac adjustment...

[@user-nc4fb2hb9f]

에일대학교 캐스팅이 줄을 잇는다는군요. 축하드립니다!!

[@appointmentnow6255]

The social programming in this teaching, especially with the "black and white" slides is crazy lol. Great to be a bit enlightnened.

[@user-nc4fb2hb9f]

제가 을 좋아하는데 나중에 미국에 베버리힐즈 구경가도 될까요? 회사에서 매니지먼터와 매니저인 남편 데리고 방문하겠습니다.

[@user-nc4fb2hb9f]

대학원 심리학과 발달심리학 연구실에서 발달심리학세미나 수업으로 정서심리학을 들었어요.

[@kirstinstrand6292]

I inherited my parents low EI - I can learn! Need to learn. 😏

[@crazyeyedme4685]

What if you were a highly emotionally intelligent empath who's literally died more times than they can remember and been through multiple severe traumas their whole life that ended having dissociative disorder in cptsd? Designer mean that Google can help Me? Or can the Yale professor who isn't even intelligent as me help me?

[@thetruthwillsetyoufree4747]

That’s what people always say to me that I’m too trustworthy but I don’t give a shit who likes me and I don’t mean that in a negative way access either like me or well I don’t need everybody to like me

[@user-nc4fb2hb9f]

예일대 졸업생 정말 하얀 양말 스타킹 신은 유치원복의 귀공자처럼 키우세요. 그 친구 안돼. 단호하게 말씀하세요. 너무 좋네요.

[@italopalman9610]

I will see after this vid

[@brandonb7496]

David spade now makes sense to me..

[@katiie7]

He’s so cute. Why is everyone that gets picked smaller structure. It’s so animalistic you would think humans would’ve grown out of it

[@aloevera7422]

On aggregate people have an evolutionary basis for consumer choices which includes mate selection preferences so I really don’t know why people just don’t grow out of it

[@user-nc4fb2hb9f]

뮤지컬은 덕질의 마법이 걸려 있습니다. 그 원작 소설책부터 기념품 등을 모두 챙겨야 성에 차고 뮤지컬은 보통 두달반 정도 매일 공연 합니다. 하루에 몇차례도 해요. 그리고 국가의 예술 부문 지원을 받는 오페라와 달리 엔터테인먼트 회사가 끼어 그 티켓 가격도 50만원, 60만원까지 되며 좋은 자리를 차지하려는 티켓팅 경험도 추억으로 마련 됩니다. 그리고 첫공부터 막공까지 입니다. 매 공연이 관객 환경에 따라 모두 달라요. 뮤지컬도 오페라극장에서 공연되기도 합니다.

[@jemgem9593]

5th Dan black belt too. Cool. Love that final quote re space between stimulus and response. Simple, obvious. But do most people use this space wisely / controllably. Society might be healed if more people did. Cool talk thanks x

[@user-nc4fb2hb9f]

우수아교육을 학부에서 이수한 학력으로 가족 학교법인 사립 학원인 홍신학원의 병설 유치원에서 우수아반 연구원도 하고 있습니다.

[@cindylou3708]

the older I get, (time gets more finite!) the more I just want people presenting to just present their stuff - don't try to mix it up with humor, stories, entertainment, audience involvement - now I know why there was a sense of irritation with me from students when I was teaching college group piano - they just wanted to do and learn the stuff, be ready for next quiz, and that may have seemed dull to me, but was about all THEY could handle

[@Bill0102]

This content is awe-striking. A similar book I read left me equally amazed. "The Art of Meaningful Relationships in the 21st Century" by Leo Flint

[@LoveEarthHereAndNow]

very good

[@user-nc4fb2hb9f]

저의 대학원 석사과정 지도교수님 부부가 UW 박사셨습니다.

[@user-nc4fb2hb9f]

아. 재밌게 영화관에서 시리즈를 중간부터는 모두 챙겨 보던 마블이 현실을 흔들어 무섭기 시작한 것은 제가 대학원 박사과정에서 측정 및 계량심리학을 전공했고 전공 승인 받았어요. 지도교수로 받은 머리는 미국에서 마블을 보고 온 빌이고 제 현재 동료들은 모두 독일인들 입니다.

[@user-nc4fb2hb9f]

제 대학원 박사과정 측정 및 계량심리학 전공 머리 지도교수는 데이비스 출신이고 본인이 박사를 3년만에 졸업한 천재였다 말하고 그런데 문제는 행동이 빌이라 달러 세계의 물은 못 먹고 미국 과학고 선생처럼 굴며 경진대회 나가자 부터 우린 천재다 구호를 외쳤죠. 그러더니 마지막에 제가 수료를 했고 모두 모인 회식자리에서 그래서 네가 우리의 리더가 될 수 있다는거야? 묻더군요. 난 겨우 수료였는데 상금을 200만원이나 받은 논문 경진자도 있었어요.

[@thetruthwillsetyoufree4747]

Hello neighbor I like that you’re very intelligent and so far I’m liking you around your lecture of a seminar or whatever anyways arm I find it very interesting and you’re my neighbor which makes it even better not literally my neighbor but I live in mass

[@user-nc4fb2hb9f]

왜 오페라가 아닌 뮤지컬인가 제가 써도 될지 모르겠네요. 오페라는 스테디셀러가 되기엔 판권부터 저작권등이 너무 비싸요. 그러나 그 문학이 예로 여류 작가의 책이라던가 프랑켄슈타인을 쓴 메리 쉘리 아시죠? 그런 경우 버전도 다양하게 많은 사랑을 받을 수 있는 배경이 되어 스테디셀러를 노리며 뮤지컬로 선정 됩니다.

[@Merlin-ur1dz]

You're not in tune yet with respect ❤

[@getstarted7168]

31:28 Skills of the Emotionally Intelligent (audience says)

[@zensvlognotapro]

👍🤚

[@thetruthwillsetyoufree4747]

Sounds like I need a Prozac

[@sarasawyer2816]

Ben Linus is that you

[@user-nc4fb2hb9f]

다음에 살 책은 스티븐 킹의 비극 박스 세트입니다. 스티븐 킹 소설이 무서운 이유는 빌의 세계를 그린 스티븐 킹의 소설에 현실이 속한 친구를 통해서라도 빌려 볼 수 있는 빌런들에게 현실을 흔드는 공포를 주기 때문으로 보입니다. 저는 마블을 재밌게 봤다가 대학원 박사과정하다가 정신이 파괴되어 죽는 줄 알았습니다. 정말 무서운 영화였어요. 빌의 세계에 속한 사람들 중 달러 세계에서 끝내주게 잘 달리는 빌런들은 어떻게 달러 세계에서 빌 음식을 산맥 등산용 가방에 담아 이고 오는 고생에 그것만 먹으며 하루를 버티고 가는 힘이 나오는가. 그들의 목표가 무엇인지는 아직 모르겠지만 빌런들은 달러 세계가 현실에서 떨어져 나온 가상의 놀이공원과 같습니다. 신나게 놀다 가는 거예요. 롯데월드가 그들에게 현실일 이유가 없죠.

[@user-nc4fb2hb9f]

잘됐다. 역시 디올은 내꺼야. 디올은 피임 의복이야.

[@user-nc4fb2hb9f]

서울특별시 용산구 한남동에는 UN빌리지가 있습니다.

[@user-nc4fb2hb9f]

저는 부모님으로부터 태어났지만 파파가 전부 맡아 키우셨습니다.

[@appointmentnow6255]

This teacher lives in a paradox of his own creation. And its clear he is completely unaware of it.

[@user-nc4fb2hb9f]

U.S.A Highest Yale University give you most Intelligence by education.

[@user-nc4fb2hb9f]

제가 최근에 관심을 가진 작품들은 다음과 같습니다. 의미 없이 생각나는데로 나열해 볼께요. 는 제가 남편과 이주할 용산구에 하수구 공사에 필요한 비극이라 제가 무척 사랑해요. 이건 사랑한지 6년정도 된 것 같아요. 그러니 현재에 관심사에 포함되지만 상황적이지 않습니다. , , 이 떠오릅니다. 저 요즘 비극이라는 극문학에 빠졌어요. 비극은 철저하게 배우에 의해 연기되는 문학으로 배우로서 무척 관심이 큽니다. BBC 라디오의 Soap Opera 라고 아시나요? 그것이 드라마라고 번역이 되는 오페라단이 올린 연극의 하나 입니다. 단어 읽기 하나하나가 무척 중요하고 그것을 어떻게 연결하여 말하느냐가 관건입니다. 그래서 음악 교육을 받은 오페라단이 맡습니다. 이제 햄릿을 꾸릴거예요. 셰익스피어의 햄릿 연극은 연극단이 못해요. 국립오페라단이 맡습니다.

[@quill444]

I was thinking we should eliminate all of those who have a worse mood than I do, but then I realized that then I would have the worst mood. - j q t -