EMOTIONAL Moving Day 🏡

[@OurLANDingCrew8]

A lot of the questions about the separation are answered from the videos listed in the description! I don't have as much time to go through comments as I use to so please go check those videos out! :)

[@Belushi87]

everyone wants a happy ending and a fairy tale life, but things happen. you realize that this wasn’t where you wanted to be and you needed a new beginning to rediscover who you are and become the person you want to be. don’t cry because it’s ending, smile because it happened. you got 6 awesome kids. if you didn’t meet Lonnie, you wouldn’t have had your kids.

[@Melonator.]

😐

[@kB5TVP]

Very well said :)

[@bernadettewilliams7697]

Who says this isn't her happy fairytale ending, happiness is the best part of love and if your love don't have it that's a very un - magical fairytale so happiness and love to all of your family!!

[@zoeandskaylarslife]

YOU ARE DOING GREAT. YOU ARE A STRONG MOM, WOMAN, AND PERSON. ALSO IT IS OKAY TO HAVE A GOOD CRY SOMETIMES. I BELIVE IN YOU. 🏠🏡🏘🥴

[@leeleewaters1451]

I left a bad relationship 2 years ago. Been doing the single mom life and it's tough. You're going to grow and stretch in ways you may not expect but you'll come out better. Let the emotions flow because facing them is what helps you grow and process what you're going through. You can do hard things! 💪 Much love ❤️

[@andreaschreckengast6957]

I am proud of you. It takes courage to share this but I am thankful for your content. You taught me so much about autism and I actually have my evaluation in January. My son has adhd and autism and I’ve come to realize I am too.

[@baileyyoumans9892]

One thing is for sure: you are a mama who gets it DONE! You should be so proud of yourself for tackling this whole thing as a newly single mom. We are all so happy and proud of you!

[@mspinklady74]

You have had your fair share of heartache hon you deserve to have a cry. Stay strong thinking of youxxx

[@bree_babyy6255]

Love seeing your videos! Praying for you and your family always that whatever you’re going through, will get better. ❤️

[@laurennicole8822]

I’m so happy to see how beautifully your house is coming along & that everyone is adjusting. Steph, you’re doing it sister! WooHoo!!! 🤩❤️🎉

[@km16278]

So proud of you for choosing yourself and your children. You deserve a healthy and happy space and time will make it easier

[@jenniferlynne3314]

Proud of you! You’re going to be SO much happier. Change is good!!!

[@shirleyvincent131]

Prayers for you sweetheart, you are so strong and you deserve happiness for you and the children.

[@ringcoriel]

I know, it is very very hard, but You are strong. You could be proud of yourself! I am sending very much love and energy! ❤️

[@ashaburtell9910]

You are an inspiration. Truthfully. You did it. Life is on your terms now. Yeah it still has the struggles but you are overcoming them! ❤

[@shannonperez1984]

Life doesn’t always move the way we plan , but as long as it’s moving it will all eventually be in a place of feeling “right”. Be proud of yourself , you realized this wasn’t the way it’s supposed to be or feel and picked (and packed)yourself up for not only your kids but your own well being. This isn’t an end it’s a start , congratulate yourself on your strength and knowing eventually your place in life will be comfortable and happy ❤

[@Danielleb723]

You are so strong and an amazing role model for your kids. Nobody is perfect but from my perspective you are always doing your best and learning as you go. Nobody could expect anything more.

[@Rgnfrazier]

I am so sorry you are going through this. You are an amazing Mother. You are very brave to start over with your beautiful children. I know this is one of the hardest things you probably ever had to do

[@amaras2473]

I have been watching you for some time and never commented but this video truly resonated with me. You are SO STRONG. I am separating from my husband too and it is a little messy. When you said that you had convinced yourself of how things were I couldn’t relate more. When that comes crashing down nothing could feel worse even though you always knew somewhere in the back of your mind that things weren’t really right. I have two children who are little still and it’s incredibly difficult so I can’t even begin to imagine doing that with 6 children and having to accept that one isn’t coming along with you. I felt weak all night tonight in my emotions and came on KZbin for mindlessness but instead I found strength and motivation in your video. I truly hope that you realize what a bad ass you are to keep going, to tell yourself that you need to pull it together and then to do it with grace like you do. Your children are so lucky to have such a wonderful mother! You got this ❤️

[@sueengel1981]

Love and hugs to you and the kids. You can do this!!! ❤❤

[@kaicheng2018]

I just breaks my heart seeing the look on the little ones' faces, that they seems not knowing anything but they kind of know something. Stay strong Stephanie. You and your kids deserve better.

[@shannonwelsh5830]

It's completely okay to be sad about Broken Dreams with your marriage. So glad to see your new place coming along, looks great! Proud of ya Gal😊

[@Luapennamarie]

You have got this Steph you are amazing your kids are so lucky to have you. It’s going to take time … but if anyone can do it … it’s you 💕💕💕💕 give yourself the time you need …. Luv to you all xxxx

[@TheAspieGamer66]

Awesome video Steph it’s gonna be okay

[@julieshrock4392]

Glad you updated and we got to see you all are settling in well! You're doing a fabulous job juggling all the things!

[@leanalou6711]

Single mumma to single mumma I feel you, I hear you, I see you. You've got this I promise xx

[@lauraweiss7875]

It’s absolutely ok to have all these emotions. Children are growing, relationships change, and we all develop as people. Embrace the emotions, feel them, and live each moment for what it has to offer.

[@basildestiny]

We moved two years ago and I’m almost but still not quite fully unpacked. We had to buy furniture and ended up canceling our first order after four months of “We will call you when it is in.” They should have started with telling us there was a long delay due to Covid and then my expectations would have been set. However, we went with things that were in stock on our second order. All of which is to say that you are doing great and keep going. Those things are rough, but not the worst ever. Love the festive nails!

[@OurLANDingCrew8]

We JUST got the dining room table today. Penelope's furniture won't be here until the Sunday after Thanksgiving. It's been an ordeal. And thank you so much :)

[@annapadilla4881]

Accidently came by your channel but I've always believed that things happen for a reason ( even if at first we're not happy about it ) and anyway I'm really glad that I bumped into your vlog. I am sorry to hear about your separation but am glad to see that you are carrying on for your children. As a single parent of an adult daughter that was born with multiple special needs and having taught students with the same (for 30 years ) I can totally understand what a challenge it can be to keeping it "all together". Go ahead and cry when you need to do so (although right now you're probably so exhausted at the end of the day that all you want to do is sleep!). We your subscribers understand. Am I right, subscribers? I am now your most recent subscriber and I intend to go back and binge watch all your other vlogs. Hope that helps some. In the meantime, try to nurture yourself some - you can only nurture others if there is some nurture in your own nurture " bank".

[@OurLANDingCrew8]

Thank you so much. I really needed to hear that today

[@charlielovesey3677]

Steph your doing amazing carry on 😊❤

[@barbararose88]

You are a good person and your instinct is to see the best in everyone. Please be kind to yourself as well as to the kids.

[@LivingtheSprings]

You're doing great! It's hard, been there but co-parenting can be great, too! BIG HUGS!

[@michelleclawsey9565]

You got this girl.. Your beautiful and kind .. Your forever is out there.. Hugs ❤️❤️❤️

[@Toya2529]

I am giving you the biggest hug. Sorry you feel this growing pain. The future will hold better memories and experiences. God bless you and your famly.

[@kB5TVP]

I haven't been on here in a hot minute. LIAM is a totally different kiddo now! Gosh! They grow so fast! I wish I could give you a hug, you got this girl! Your such a good person, a good momma... and I'm sure you will be a good coparenterrrrrr lol. Yay to new beginnings for you and the kiddos!!!!!!! Sending thoughts from Texas! 💛

[@jessicac6129]

Thanks for sharing. Hope you guys continue to settle in. Stephanie you're doing amazing and the kiddos are lucky to have you ❤️. Home is where the heart is!

[@teresawright4424]

Sending good thoughts for you and your family. I've been through it and it isn't easy. You are doing great.

[@burco7626]

Incredible Mother 😘

[@saradantonio7934]

I am one year out of separation. One month post divorce. It is healthy to grieve/cry the relationship you lost. But you can do it. I was a stay at home mine my entire 22 year marriage. I was told I could not do it without him for years. I am currently in college full time work full time. Take care of the kids and house. You are strong. It gets easier by the day.

[@barbann9708]

You can do this. You ARE doing this. You are strong and capable. The kids look like they are adjusting well. You're doing great. I did this same thing 30 yrs. ago. We all survived well,lol.

[@orlyno364]

Divorced twice… my girls were young during my first divorce. I met my next husband soon afterwards and were together 10 years. My girls were adults by the time I divorce second husband. Now I have an empty nest home with no partner. Life is drama free and I cuddle with my dog everyday 🐶🎉

[@jennyann5405]

Great video. Thank you for sharing the process with us. I was glad for a new video to listen to. You and your children's happiness is so important. I hope the stress lessens for you.

[@DiariesofaDisabledmom]

I was in a bad relationship with a narcissist who actually won custody over no evidence which is crazy to think about. 10 yrs later we still going at it and I dealt with his mom thru the whole thing while he hid. Glad u was brave enough to try and start this new chapter in ur life.

[@shannonsworld1997]

Uk person here! Front loader washing machines are amazing but make sure to keep the draw clean as it can get yucky

[@maritoh.6710]

You got this Steph! Keep on going!

[@mariasmomlife]

I’m so proud of you Steph. Hang in there. Sending you hugs and positivity! ❤️

[@Kurrrie]

We got your back!! You are strong you are beautiful you are brave you are smart and … YOU ARE A GREAT MOM!!

[@carolmilligan5653]

Wishing all of you lots of happy years in the new house.

[@melodiethornock1406]

Happy to see a vlog. The house is coming along good.

[@zoraidacruz549]

I'm in the middle of making the same decision with my 2nd marriage. The difference now is that all my kids are adults. I've been in this relationship 30 yrs. We're more like roommates than anything. I am concentrating on me now and my happiness. Too many lies and deception in this relationship. I need to do this. I am very happy to make this change soon. Not sure where I am headed but I like adventure and the thought of the unknown. I'm a strong woman and I'm ready to venture out.

[@MissLady-pq4hc]

I am so so glad to see you. Have been concerned.💙❤️

[@Sarah1920s]

Prayers for you. I too live in Colorado, have been most of my life. It's a good place. Don't give up. I am going through something similar. Most of family has past on, the few left don't want contact for many years now. Roommate of 15 years wants to move out badly. That would leave me really super alone bcuz of no family. Very hard. All I can do is pray.

[@karenselogic7742]

Hang in there . I know what you’re going through. I have eight kids and five lived with us when my kids father walked out on us after 34 years together. No warning or anything he left that morning for work and never came back. He did horrible things afterwards that effected my kids for life. Breathe and take one minute one day at a time . Things will get easier over time. I know both are lives are little different but crazy at times with kids needing to be somewhere or something all the time. But are children are worth it. I wasn’t in a good place since he told me to stay home and raise the kids and he had everything put in his name. But just look how you’re putting smiles on your kids faces and you know it will be alright. Love you Stephanie and your amazing family.

[@mothermarie6057]

You are doing so awesome and sharing all the different emotions is so good of you instead of just portraying your strong and good moments. Sending love to you and yours- 🥰💓☀️

[@amandareyes2458]

Such a good idea to get the kids gifts for the new house, that was really cute

[@leezahayes7132]

I love watching your videos. Your such a strong momma and your doing such a great job!

[@crystale5625]

Your going to get through this! Im going through a hard time to with some medical issues. Stay strong!

[@rolandpachuau5402]

Stephanie dear you are such a great mom you will go through this i've no doubt 😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍

[@Kiddly3000]

remember if you need to take time for yourself do it as well keep you head up and say to yourself, I can do this for my children and me

[@angelaruiz5323]

Aww , I’m so sorry Stephanie. You are such a kind beautiful soul . You deserve to show your emotions, it’s better then exploding lol . I love your videos. You got this ❤

[@karenselogic7742]

You could go to Home Depot and buy a sheet of plywood for each bed . Measure the size you need and they will cut it down to size for you.

[@elliottjakabhazy6726]

At about timestamp 5:30, I wish I could have been there to hug you. Moving to a new place with some people missing can be emotional. You tearing up made me tear up. I feel you, and I hope that maybe you can see Lonnie Jr. here and there in the future. 🫂

[@jamiealexander7625]

Awesome idea to get the kids gifts to stay upbeat and make them feel comfortable about moving! I'm sorry it's not under the circumstances you hoped for but I know exactly how you feel. No one should be unhappy and stay together just for the kids. I got a divorce after 10 years of marriage and I was unhappy almost the entire time. I was worried if I got a divorce my family and friends would be disappointed and they were but that was my fault because I wasn't honest about my marriage so everyone was very confused when after 10 years of supposedly being happily married I'm now getting a divorce. So yes it was hard to explain but I'm happier than ever and wouldn't change a thing. Good luck to you. You are a strong woman and you know what's best for you and your family! Thank you for sharing such a tough time in your life. Very much appreciated!

[@millaalalam2875]

So happy to see you again! Glad things are coming together at the new house.

[@tonisangel5024]

I wish you the best of everything sweetie!! Day by Day

[@Ams_lee]

I’ve only just found your channel , sorry you’ve hit a bit of a hard time but things do get better , I look forward to following your journey - Ams

[@hannahkastelic6116]

I’m glad you guys are settling in okay! I love the rug in the therapy room, it’s super cool! Also my mom has the little green (it’s the small version of your rug shampooer) and it’s amazing! Great for cleaning my car and getting into smaller spaces

[@dnv1225]

At the end of the day you did the the best thing for you but the emotions are totally normal. It’s not easy to uproot your life no matter your age

[@amypearsall]

Blessings as you all start this new season, chapter, of life.

[@wendymurray4603]

Big massive hug to you all things will fall into place for you and then things will settle down you can do this 😊👍🏾❤️💪🏾💪🏾🇬🇧

[@sarakeith5480]

Moving is very stressful!! I can see you have made great progress!! I wish you all the best!! Love you guys!!

[@susansgalaxy2219]

Sending love and prayers your way 🙏❤️

[@sofiasousapires]

I’m so sorry to hear that the move has been so emotional!

[@supercreeperstar5976]

You are such a brave mom Stephane for doing the move for your self and the kids💜💜

[@waitingongodcampbell]

Oh sis I have been away love you sis, all my love. 18years and going though the same I been fighting it but believe you you are strong doing it everything will be fine

[@shelby6806]

You’ll love your washer and dryer! I’ve had mine for about a year and it’s the BEST. And the auto disperse I LOVE.

[@OurLANDingCrew8]

I love it so far!

[@my7wondersoftheworld763]

You got this stef❤

[@kylacurtis8065]

you should get one of those compost spinners in the yard and switch to compostable paper plates! it would be so fun to teach the littles about the science of compost

[@OurLANDingCrew8]

We hardly ever use paper plates ❤️

[@robylove9190]

When I saw the title I thought you might have moved again. I'm glad this was just a catch up video. I have missed you.

[@alookinsideablindlife5143]

Been thinking of you and the kids ! Praying for you all. Hugs ❤

[@Jennifer-zb4dq]

All that residual scorpio energy doing its thing. It's confrontation, it's transformation, it's darkness coming to light. I'm sorry you're feeling overwhelmed and sad. Totally makes sense. But you got this mama and you're going to be better for it. Trust the process. Rooting for ya. 🖤🤍🖤🤍

[@OurLANDingCrew8]

It was Libra season when I moved but I agree!

[@Jennifer-zb4dq]

@@OurLANDingCrew8 true. Lol I was referring to the new moon solar eclipse that peaked on the 25th of October. I'm still over here harnessing that energy babygirl. Gimme all the transformations. 😅🥴

[@OurLANDingCrew8]

Oh absolutely. This blog was literally from like 5-6 weeks ago so it was a completely different season but I feel you. I agree

[@Jennifer-zb4dq]

@@OurLANDingCrew8 ohhhhhhhhhh I see. I forget how far out the videos get filmed. It's like this all happened last week for us. 🤣 , I'm still riding that wave from the eclipse, just out here trying to reach my final form and shiz. I'm glad you're doing ok, Stephanie. I hope this process has been healing for you. You're amazing. Much love from your friend that you've never met in Louisiana❤

[@Murrrrrrp]

Girl, you are a superhero. 💙

[@paigecrosby4516]

It’s such a beautiful cozy home ♥️

[@lilblacklamb222]

I must say I'm pretty jealous of how much help you get in the home. I'm in Canada and I'm a single mom to 4 girls all with special needs(asd, epilepsy, fasd(adopted) ADHD and speech disorders)and I had to fight to get respite once a month. There's absolutely no in home help unless you pay for it yourself.

[@OurLANDingCrew8]

I completely understand. We've only had respite since April and therapies for 2 years, my oldest autistic child is 15 so I understand what you mean. I remember being SO jealous of other families on here who would get help and I was just stuck doing it all by myself so I want to tell you those feelings are valid and it infuriates me that this help isn't across the board because it absolutely should be. Colorado is AMAZING for special needs families.

[@lilblacklamb222]

@@OurLANDingCrew8 my kids are 15,almost 6,4 and 3. Canada sucks for help. I couldnt even get nursing support to come train me on how to give my daughter her rescue meds so the first time she needed it I was panicking and toke way longer then i should of also therapys are rarely in your house which sucks when your a single parent with multiple kids. It's crazy that faimlies here are just left to figure it out here. I have my first respite weekend in 2 weeks and I can't freaking wait...I'm probably going to sleep the whole time lol

[@OurLANDingCrew8]

That's how I felt in Florida - literally left to just figure it out. I am so sorry :(

[@elliesbabiesnursery1274]

You look good mama 🔥🔥🔥 love you Stephanie we're all with you as you go through this love u your not alone hon

[@ariga2696]

you could rearrange the beds vertically, each bed pushed to the sides instead of horizontally and then the bed side table in the middle of the two beds.. the bigger dresser on the front wall.. i mean i feel like you will have more room like that. i hope what i said just made sense. thats how we put our furnitures in my little brothers room.

[@OurLANDingCrew8]

It wouldn't fit like that - this is the only arrangement that could work

[@CreamyJalapeno]

You can use Bunkie/Bunky boards instead of box springs.

[@petslife4660]

And that’s ok I’m married but have a long distance marriage. Haven’t seen my husband since February as he left for Buisness. So I feel like when/if I have kids or for sure will feel like single mommy but that’s ok 😇🥰

[@Katieann1982]

Good luck on your new journey

[@nathanjw940]

Love all the kids personalities Lex is in the preview picture I want to watch just saying. Lonnie I know wasn't perfect and emotional abuse is awful but I hope you can appreciate the good times and the family that came through that relationship. The fact that you were able to file for divorce with as clean as it seems to be you two at least worked well together for the family. That is not love but you care about each other at least for the kids. With his challenges that is improvement. I wish both of you growth because a better Lonnie will be better for the kids and I think better for you to that you know the kids have a strong dad that is doing well emotionally too. Biggest question is how you are feeling through the transition. Kids too since transitions are tough for autistics like myself. I am changing jobs and the change of new co workers which I haven't had in two years. I want to rip the band-aid and going through the 2 week notice is emotionally exhausting.

[@babysunshinesmommy]

Please never stop “rambling”!!! 🤣🥰

[@lorimayoh8965]

I just love you and the kiddos🤩🤩

[@aliciagomez4860]

You are doing great ❤

[@niebieskimotyl3308]

It might be easier to set up furniture and organize house while children were still at the old house, if it's not a couple of hours to drive there. But you got through the most difficult part, o it's going to get easier from now on

[@OurLANDingCrew8]

That wouldn’t have been easier tbh. We got as much done as we could before moving in but it was easier to just rip off the bandaid of moving. I’m just glad it’s over 😅

[@ChelseaStonerrTV]

I figured. Diagnosis can take a toll

[@willowgirl2635]

Seems to me that you are doing an amazing job 👏

[@dianeolson8449]

front loaders are great!!!!

[@Farxadiyoguul]

That’s a long time it’s better to separate early when you see the red flags. Breakup takes a toll on the children. We can never know your situation because we’re not in your shoes but I hope it’s for the better and it works out. My advice to women is get out early even before you have kids don’t convince yourself when you know something is not going to workout.

[@carynpercell8979]

Do I bite the bullet and buy the Green Machine? Desperately need something and sooooo tired of ones that don’t do the job needed!

[@colettaarum715]

Just landed here and love this Family and the energy, is it me or she looks like Meryl Streeps.?

[@carriebowlen3785]

HOW ARE YOU? I LOVE YOU SO MUCH! GREAT VLOG AS ALWAYS! HOW IS EVERYONE? 💓💓💟💟Love being a member of your LANDing Crew!