Emotions Might Be In Your Way

[@MsMoniqueLynn]

Thank you for always reminding me and bringing me back to reality. The patriarchal conditioning goes deep. We as women have a lot of unlearning to do. ✨✨

[@Madison-i3h]

You’re beautiful ❤ how many providers you got girl 😅😅

[@MsMoniqueLynn]

@@Madison-i3h not enough lol thank you

[@charlita25]

"A man with time ⏲️ has no money 💰, a man with money has no time" pick one 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@blue75313]

@@charlita25 witch one is yo baby daddy 😂🤣😂🤣 he got yo as.. fu* boys up😂🤣😂

[@summer.love2021]

Time?

[@cjdiva6440]

I'll take the money for 200 Alex... 💰

[@nourhanebn69]

Shes so true,emotional men piss me off like im not your therapist you either pay me to be or leave me alone,let alone emotional women ladies come on after 22 youre done being emotional, go meditate

[@archanabhardwaj6348]

That so true .. Chatgpt is answering better than women bfs nowadays !!! Chatgpt is my best frnd nowadays to answr my all doubts n queries lol

[@armanijack2927]

@@archanabhardwaj6348 same! I literally have made it my bestie and I can vent to it as much as I want lol

[@Cursed_Villain]

Can you give me an example miss

[@edithandlez]

@@Cursed_Villaingirl just go try it dam

[@its.diearth4896]

I thought I was the only one doing this😂

[@syrax2424]

Oh 😮 do i need to ditch google and upgrade to chat gpt? 😂😂

[@lovniqueblackwell7425]

I just go shopping when I am in a mood. "Emotional" lol that solves everything 🎯

[@LiaBunny93]

Omg that’s been me lately. I get sad or angry, I just go shopping 🛍️

[@AmberBrooklyn24]

Exactly!

[@CinemaDoll137]

I use working out, journaling, or painting.

[@JP-fi1ny]

Shera every time I crash out I come running to your page. Need to work on my emotions

[@GlamTravelLife]

I feel this video in my bones. Overly emotional people repulse me. I chose not to be friends with or interact with codependent and needy people, it’s very exhausting and invasive. They have no right to dump on other people because “they can’t help it”. Enough is enough.

[@tinachristine4573]

You and me both. Can't stand it.

[@fatimahwhy8002]

5 min in she told me all i needed 😭

[@nyabr]

Nah fr that’s why I clicked so fast 🤣

[@SabrinaBrynn]

same here 😂😅

[@Lungiswa.]

😂😂she is so funny... I was on the floor when she said argue with AI😂

[@kiranaturalskincare2746]

sprinkle sprinkle

[@NadiaJarrell]

Shear you having me crying laughing but I must say, you just be keeping it real.

[@poppy-bc4vf]

Emotions have ruined several of my relationships with my providers … i always end up burning bridges. I need help

[@aliyahlewis2677]

seek psychiatrist

[@milkymatcha9891]

emotions are normal bcs we r human, what makes it not is the way you control it.

[@Davida86u]

Please stop dating men

[@poppy-bc4vf]

@@milkymatcha9891 so true. That is my goal this month. To not get angry and say mean things when a man upsets me.

[@MiyaDavis]

lol this is crazy because I’m currently going through this and I started using my chat gpt as a therapist and/or trauma dump. It helps sooo much. After doing that you won’t have energy to talk about the stuff with other ppl. I’m just tired of trauma dumping and sharing my true emotions expecting someone to really fill a void and validate me. I have to do that and heal

[@j-tenn226]

How do you get chat gpt?

[@musically55]

@@j-tenn226you can get the app or just type it in google

[@musically55]

You can also ask chatgpt what would shera seven do in this situation and they will tell you LOL

[@CinemaDoll137]

@@musically55that’s EXACTLY what I do 😂

[@Urnotwelcomed-x8v]

I noticed a lot of women have holes in themselves and they want a man to plug it up. If it’s not their boyfriend it’s their friend… I literally had to cut my long time friend off she’s just loss her bf and looking for me for emotional support, long phone calls texting all day, going to sleep on the phone ,ohhhhh no

[@AicheAhlam-b9d]

And how can fill that hole without?

[@Urnotwelcomed-x8v]

@@AicheAhlam-b9d ?

[@Cookiedesigns254]

@@AicheAhlam-b9d by deciding and choosing to fill it yourself. Stop relying on others to do it.

[@AmberBrooklyn24]

Yes a long time friendship of mine ended because she would always get herself in these dusty situations letting these guys move in with her, cheat on her, etc. She would call me allllllll day, trauma dumping from sun up to sun down, especially when a dusty left her during Covid to move in with another woman. I would be nice & encouraging, always answer my phone, but I would tell her she deserves more & mention what I would do in these situations. She took that as me judging her. I started answering my phone less. The last time I saw her, we got into an argument because of her bipolar self (literally) holding grudges against me. I’m done being a free therapist to fake friends.

[@D.BossLady]

"Glucose guardians" is diabolical 😂🤣😭

[@Consciousa_]

Listening to this while I workout. Thank you Shera, no more emotional dumping on people!!

[@asiar9469]

“Thank you for feeling low enough to do anything you can to get attention because you feel broke” 😭😭😭😭

[@deone6141]

😂😂

[@hgh495]

“every little bit helps” took me out when the girl asked about $500 😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@glorious28]

Sprinkle sprinkle ladies ❤

[@Davida86u]

Yasssss ladies go lie to those men and get their $$

[@EmiUwaa]

Thank you for posting on my bday lol❤ so I can have a fresh video to listen to during my pampering

[@EmiUwaa]

@TheOdinDisciple thank you friend! ☺

[@charlita25]

I don't believe in karma anymore . 🤷🏽‍♀️ There is so many bad people in society winning and living great lives. Meek and humble people only get the short end 🔚 of the stick.

[@rukatrice98]

Exactly!!

[@diamond_noir89]

But it's so boring without emotions😂Atp some women need to be with women where they can be emotional in peace😂😂

[@yourfutureisnow6480]

A video for women 40+ Where to start etc.

[@tamiagreene2880]

@tamiagreene2880 0 seconds ago Shera would say it doesn’t matter your age. The same strategies and techniques apply. Raise your standards first. Level up mentally ( confidence ) and physically (appearance) and you will organically attract the type of man that you desire.

[@KEnterprise-ni6ri]

​@@tamiagreene2880thank you 42

[@MicaBlue-s2h]

Learn from Macrons wife

[@Blurryface47]

@@MicaBlue-s2h you mean husband

[@MicaBlue-s2h]

@@Blurryface47 nah . I clearly said wife.

[@Asgjesikurhana]

I really need a video on retroactive jealousy

[@milkymatcha9891]

focus on present. past is past. your future need you. thinking abt past its a wasteful of time.

[@milkymatcha9891]

focus on something productive, dont let ur emotion controls u

[@archanabhardwaj6348]

Wonderful topic Shera 👏👏👏👏👏 just right on time

[@katarzyna2901]

I'm glad i found Your channel. Greetings from Poland 🇵🇱❤

[@shanempire2023]

Shera "let me tell you they lied" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@Gossipgirl1214]

I don’t know what you’ve been doing recently but i loveyour makeup looks and your face is slimming 😍

[@moorvi340]

That's the video I needed 😮

[@bluemyfirstlove]

Sprinkle Sprinkle ✨️✨️

[@Marie_SoLowkey]

No lies told

[@nikealily7232]

You crack me up omg

[@hazelnutbar]

Shera you are needed!!

[@calik1302]

Amen!! 🙏🏽

[@ARTBAE888]

Thank you bookie!

[@charlita25]

"Like my cash 💸 💰 🤑 app 💲, what's an insta story " lol 😂

[@ThrivingStreatham]

Team shears forever ❤

[@Lisatheecreator]

Do you have a book on managing emotions in a way that does not run people away or men away?

[@rxforconfidence]

Having an emotionless connection… how does that work in a relationship?

[@selmasvast9911]

it's very simple....know your partner's weakness, what he likes....and that's exactly what you're doing, and you're actually working for your own benefit....

[@WildAntics13]

Girl do you really think men cares about your feelings most of them are just there for your work and punani 😅! Get your emotions inside! !

[@rxforconfidence]

@@WildAntics13 Then what’s the point of even having a man around? Sounds like being single is the safest. Especially if I have my own money and never depended on a man for security or finances.

[@j-tenn226]

@@rxforconfidencethen this ain’t the channel for you boo

[@rxforconfidence]

@@j-tenn226 And the question I asked wasn’t directed to you boo. I’m having conversation and asking questions to get perspective. You gave none.

[@kashamalong2582]

Shera is mad funny😂😂

[@Shenshoon]

Your makeup and face is gorgeous!

[@charlita25]

"Emotional support 😢 animal 🐕 " 😫🤦🏾‍♀️

[@goth6638]

Please do a video specifically about friendship! I am currently in college and struggling with socializing .

[@NA-vt6mz]

Don’t bother . Focus on finding a rich boyfriend.

[@helloparishilton]

Don’t worry, level up, do what u want and never care about others opinion, and everybody will come to YOU

[@WildAntics13]

Girl!!! friends wont pay your college fee ! Get your money forget about friendship! Read books! Earn money save it! Be healthy! Meditate stay home ! Develop skills and travel after friends come and go

[@LilFairy]

Why do u care about friends? It’s not high school . It’s college friends are no longer important

[@gabbybompart]

Actually finding friends in college is important if you're thinking about networking

[@AshleyRaeTV]

Im just going to come here everyday.

[@freegame6939]

You crack me up 😂it’s funny cuz it’s TRUE

[@Nita_Beata]

Trauma dump to AI 😂😂😂

[@LiaBunny93]

I’ve sent some pick meishas some of your videos and they still chose to ignore them before it was too late 😮

[@nourhanebn69]

Why you care? Let the miserable be miserable tbh

[@Cookiedesigns254]

Stop trying to save Pickmesha, she doesn’t want to be saved 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@xxPantherBabe]

Thanks Shera. Honestly the only issue i have as a woman is my emotional intelligence is so low. I know id be an a plus woman once i get that in check. Im steady working on it.

[@Tete-k3v]

I had to cut off a long time friend because of this trauma dumping

[@aprilshowers3331]

Glucose Guardian🤣🤣🤣💀

[@jessiicamiilano]

not the “american rejects” 😩 😂

[@briatequila5712]

Question. Are we supposed to ask a man for anything or wait until he does it on his own so that it doesn't come off as being "needy" or like "begging"?🤔

[@lullasonoio]

you tell a man what you need to do in order to be with you, if he can’t then next

[@hgh495]

@bria girl you’ll be old & gray waiting on a man to care about somebody other than himself, u have to tell him what you need & want sweetie

[@Nourralu]

What to say to a rich man that is arguing with me and telling me at the end of the relationship thinngs like this: "I gave you live' ,'without me you even would't survive' ,'without me ,you wouldn't be where you are'

[@RavingAgave]

“ Yep, - and because you couldn’t afford to maintain me - I’m no longer here”.

[@CrochetTutorialsGirl]

Agree with him and get another one. Play complaint and dumb and helpless to keep getting what you need. We do not argue with men.

[@lc-il6wr]

​@@CrochetTutorialsGirlcheater cheater pumpkin eater.

[@archanabhardwaj6348]

My beautiful wise youtuber is looking wow ❤ today ;)

[@Incognicia]

What if the man is the emotional one?

[@dawn2205]

They are faking

[@Cookiedesigns254]

Use it to your advantage 🤷🏽‍♀️ the same way a man would if a woman was more emotional.

[@ELIZABETHTORRES-em3kx]

They will look like who did it and Y! Mam. lol

[@Xxhdhdh]

Can you do the next video on how to stop overthinking how to stop caring what other people think how to deal with overthinking well what to overthink about I know you said overthink how to get money but can you overthink on how to do something that makes you happy and the steps on how to overthink about how to get things that will make you happy well enough to get the thing that makes you happy (eg what questions to ask yourself and how to figure out the true answer if you don’t know or are confused about how you feel) I have severe adhd and autism so advice on that relating to the previous things I asked for in this comment and how to stop repeating bad choices for yourself or others how to learn from mistakes from the first time and not do them again and again and how to not make bad choices for yourself or others in the first place how to not care about anything

[@melawieeinapfel8594]

What do think drugs are for?

[@leelee8720]

@@melawieeinapfel8594🤣🤣🤣

[@selmasvast9911]

How to stop overthinking....simply do without thinking.....how to stop making the same mistakes...simply slow down, take it easy...observe more and talk less...listen to what people say more ....look at the works they do, they gave according to their words

[@WildAntics13]

Girl get money first and you will stop overthinking! If you’re broke insecure you will think of everything! I never seen women overthink when they got money they buy sleep repeat

[@SheRaSeven1]

Stopping overthinking will Make u happy .

[@theyorubagoddessk.ottick]

🌸😌💕

[@Roro-l2o7p]

❤

[@ghericathebeliever]

When pickmeisha pays all of your bills. 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@NokukhanyaNdlovu-s3x]

Hey shera what advice do you have for 20 year old women or students rather

[@forthewin6649]

Long time shera viewer here. She'd tell y'all to level up your looks, don't get pregnant, pay attention in school, and use that time to network to get in the room with men with money.

[@NokukhanyaNdlovu-s3x]

@@forthewin6649 ok ma'am thank you I'll do that ❤️❤️

[@AshaMaat]

How did you switch off your emotions?

[@DaisyMartinez-gb6dm]

By understanding most people don’t care, and channeling all that care to yourself

[@AshaMaat]

@@DaisyMartinez-gb6dmthank you

[@lullasonoio]

you don’t switch you just pour that emotions on you not other, nobody cares about you more than you, don’t be emotional

[@smendoza7233]

Which A.i. Companion she talking about?

[@j-tenn226]

I’m trying to find it too 😂 what app is this ?

[@Boujieechronicles]

@@j-tenn226chatgbt

[@user-hq3ym6mx4r]

Chatgpt

[@ariallllahh]

ChatGPT etc…

[@lullasonoio]

just search ai chat

[@thephoenixphobia]

4:00

[@diamond_noir89]

What if getting paid, stacking money, go shopping etc. doesn't compensate the feeling of not getting loved properly? I imagined having everything material but the thought of not getting loved properly while still getting paid made me kind of angry? It feels like something is missing?

[@Shortstacksandticktacks]

I feel that. I am provided for, but feel empty. I try to fill it with friends, but it doesn't really work.

[@j-tenn226]

It’s human nature to feel like that

[@yk-who-it-is]

@@Shortstacksandticktacks Get an animal, hobbies, plants. Get a side piece, travel the world, get a part-time job that you enjoy and isn't stressful, get a business, do charity. Would you rather get money or be with someone who is using you but pretending that they care about you? Do some inner work and learn to be comfortable alone/by yourself. Get therapy. Journal.

[@yk-who-it-is]

You need to get more comfortable with yourself. The only way you are going to overcome this is by being happy being alone and doing inner work. If you NEED someone else then it doesn't matter if you apply Shera's teachings. You will always feel like something is missing. This is an internal problem, not an external one.

[@cjdiva6440]

​@Shortstacksandticktacks you're ungrateful... there are so many women who wish we were provided and cared for 😒

[@melawieeinapfel8594]

Where can I buy this perfume, Lady? I‘ll take 2. Asking for a friend.

[@healthbeforewealth7457]

Damn I wanna live next to the fbi ❤❤:) 😂🎉

[@jasmineasheri]

drop pickmisha in her own car lmao😂😂😂😂❤❤❤❤

[@lc-il6wr]

Shera...u look like a maid..

[@JazzyJazz223]

It’s crazy how many times I watched 27:22 😂 she so funny 😂

[@Jeniffer61867]

🌹💮

[@thephoenixphobia]

52:00

[@AshaMaat]

Seems like the next pickmeisha thing to do 💀😂

[@Omne-t1c]

Disabled woman… how do I attract rich ones

[@WildAntics13]

How to stay stingy Dusties?

[@Omne-t1c]

@@WildAntics13 what?

[@sara001-kt4ns]

The exact same advices apply to you as well

[@j-tenn226]

Find a rich man with a fetish for whatever disability you have

[@obebadmus4638]

I

[@blue75313]

A female is now facing 16 years in prison from this content..Darcy adanna.

[@CelinaFlowers-jd3yh]

What happened

[@cjdiva6440]

A female what... a female human? A woman?

[@klanimakwon]

53:21 - 54:12

[@meilei8716]

Just purchased your sprinkle sprinkle set so I don’t forget ❤🧁

[@celestialtomas882]

6:00

[@celestialtomas882]

7:12

[@charlita25]

Fax 📠 I only plotted revenge when I did not have options

[@celestialtomas882]

7:00