EMPATHS AND HIGHLY SENSITIVE PEOPLE | Stephanie Lyn Coaching

[@kristiheath9913]

I am definitely an empath. I tend to only find the people who want to talk and not listen. It does hurt my feelings. Example giving someone your undivided attention, but when you go to talk about something they look at their phones or cut you off.

[@coffeeis4closers]

The problem is you are probably trying to talk to millennials. They are detached by nature. Try talking to other generations. You will probably get a better response.

[@Florabela69]

Kristi Heath ... or you can talk but they are not really listening even do not fully understanding... sad but speaking with a wall can be more productive 😄

[@jenniferwood03]

Same

[@ennvee1989]

@@coffeeis4closers has nothing to do with millenials.older people do this crap to me as well. They love to talk but cant engage into dialogue. It's all monologue and verbal diahhrea

[@annemarie3176]

Probably finding narcissists. They target us.

[@TulipCurated]

Another thing empaths need to be aware of is not misinterpreting the negative energy of others. I’ve only recently been able to identify this debilitating habit of mine (after stepping back from issues with my narcissistic MIL and SIL). I would pick up on others’ issues/anxiety/negative energy and feel like it was directed towards me (when in fact, it was some unrelated problem of theirs). I’m becoming more emotionally intelligent, but it takes time and effort. Thanks for the great video.

[@tarasanders8978]

KTTiptoe exactly what I do/fell, can I ask if there’s any readings or videos (other then this one) that may have helped you? Sorry just thought I’d ask!

[@DJJAW11]

Snap !.

[@clintonwoodssolofthesoul1734]

Hey yeah you’re so right wow shoot thanks I’m glad I read this. I just happened to look down while I was standing up stretching at my desk. But anyways yeah what was it within you do you ask them at that point hey is there something going on ??? Or is there an approach that seems to work for addressing the energy ??? And really thank you for sharing. Bless you. ♾❤️‍🩹🔥🙏😇🌎

[@clintonwoodssolofthesoul1734]

Oh one more thing sorry so I found my debilitation in Self deceptive thought patterns that went with the negative energy from others. It was like a cascading effect that just goes straight runaway on repeat. Idk I wonder if anyone else experiences that.

[@divinerain9399]

I had experienced a weird connection with someone on aol years back that was on the empath spectrum. At first it was different because I could feel when he signed on, it even woke me up. Sometimes he signed on and the energy hit me and I could feel it in my gut. Like dude, what did I do to you? He probably had a bad day, it obviously had nothing to do with me because he lived states away so I wasn't around him. It was a new experience for me so I took it personally. One night I was covered with deep depression pressing on me that wasn't mine, I wasn't depressed. I was experiencing that weird connection so I knew it came from him. I haven't had that kind of a connection again.

[@NarcSurvivor]

Being an Empath is great. It's only bad when you're around predators who will specifically target you for your good qualities. They initially love that you're an Empath. But then they want to partake and experience the world the way that you do. They want to enjoy life at your level. When they realise they can't they will want to destroy you and your good qualities. They get mad and envious. They will use gaslighting and coercive manipulation. These abusive predators are really envious inferior people, that's all it comes down to.

[@lil18thletterking77]

I dudnt mean to be that way..im sorry

[@1ROCKY89]

Narc Survivor wow, glad I got to read this that really resonated with me. Thanks 🙏

[@fitandfabulous]

So true!!!

[@michaelandrade1213]

I think you just explaned my life in a few words. Wow. Points to u my friend i award...............25.

[@michaelalguire419]

I had a very hard time growing up as an empath and I went to Catholic school.

[@aimeepadilla4109]

I realize I am a highly sensitive person and an empath, growing up my mom always felt the need to belittle anything and everything that made me upset. "Are you seriously crying because of that?" even as far as to say, "There is something seriously wrong with you." It created this enviornment between us that I did not want to be a part of and as a result, I distanced myself from my family. As I grew older, I realized, it is okay to spend time with family because well, they're family, but it is also okay to maybe only spend a few hours and go back to doing your routine that works for a healthier you. I love watching your videos and I hope you get a much larger following!

[@carefreeteee]

Aimee Padilla , I can highly relate.

[@fargokatie]

Same! With you sister

[@paul20111001]

I very dislike highly sensitive people. It gave me pressure when I am around highly sensitive people. I can relate to you mom. Like what’s wrong with you guys. People around you have to take extra time and thoughts when deal with you guys. And you guys are like if we don’t take extra care about our feeling, we are bad people. It’s a burden to us. Highly sensitive people easily get upset when us normal people don’t even know what happened…

[@daniisilva9993]

All the things you said I am. Hearing how someone else can be the same makes me feel much better. X

[@StephanieLynCoaching]

Yay.. love this!

[@phantomvampyressshadowkiss4690]

I am that way too I relate . I am an empath is rough sometimes

[@markkelly8419]

I’ve been labeled”The Nice Guy”all my life,and ya literally everything about pickn up vibes,energy,feelings,that sense I get someone is “off” yk!!!I’m so shocked rn after watch this I never knew this was me...

[@markkelly8419]

Stephanie Lyn Coaching I found out today after watching this who I am:( I’m not sure if I’m frightened or relieved Stephanie,lol. What would recommend for me to get help since books can’t keep me focused,like I am a”Hands on”or its like easier for me to listen to someone and retain the information that reading.its like if I tt someone I can feel what their trying to convey,if that makes any sense?!?

[@inkedollgutierrez6055]

Now this makes so much sense . This explains why I ended up with a narsaccist so thankful I left that Abusive relationship. Thank god healing at the moment

[@julienmarechal7231]

I feel you, I had a lot of narcissists in my life growing up including my parents.

[@4familytides]

I ended up with a narcissist aswell all.along I thought since my momster of a " mom" was a narcissist it made.me more prone to a narc

[@inkedollgutierrez6055]

Julien Marechal blessings your way I can only imagine :/

[@inkedollgutierrez6055]

Julien Marechal is like a disease is all over we have to really educate ourselves so we do not end up again with a toxic 💕xoxo sending love and blessings

[@NarcSurvivor]

Miladys Gutierrez You end up with narcs because they love your empathic qualities. The problem begins when they realise that they cannot partake in it. They want to destroy you and the qualities you have because they do not have them. They're just mad and jealous.

[@starstop1063]

Yes! The word sensitive gets used like an insult too often - we need to validate ourselves- thanks!

[@taylora8845]

I can relate with this so much! Yes, understanding & "never giving up on people" is why for years I have advocated for TREATMENT based prison system (like Norway has been so successful with.) 😎

[@eliciagarcia3601]

Before anybody knew that my dad was having an affair, I would cry around him for “no reason”. I didn’t know why I was crying, he was acting normal but I felt a bad energy. Now I’m calling it a bad energy but I didn’t know what to call it, I just felt something bad around him and would start crying. When we went on family vacation I felt it so bad that I couldn’t be happy and enjoy myself and I didn’t know how to explain to my sister what was wrong, cause she could keep saying “we’re on vacation, why the heck are you sad”. When I found out that he was having an affair that whole time, it clicked and I realized that I wasn’t upset around him for “no reason”, I was sensing something that nobody else could sense and that’s why I’d start crying and couldn’t go near him. It turns out he was cheating on that vacation too and I had no idea but I was feeling something. I’ve also always been super empathetic just in general and see the good in everyone. And exactly like you were explaining, I’ve ended up in a relationship where I gave and gave endlessly with nothing in return. But now that I understand this, I won’t let myself get into those type of relationships anymore. I recently re-connected with an old friend who is also an empathetic person and he actually listens to me and cares about my needs and actually treats me as good as I treat everyone else, and I realized this is the type of friend I need. I need to let people like that into my life. I deserve the same things that I give.

[@OO-hs3he]

This always happened to me when my partners cheated on me. As empaths, we feel absolutely everything, absolutely! You are amazing ♥️✨

[@greeneyedparadox6609]

Aweee i just read this. Hugs for you.

[@rbailey67]

I discovered this word through the most adverse situation I’ve ever experienced in my life. I was discarded by the woman I cherished, loved and asked to marry me just this past October. Throughout our relationship there were red flags that I ignored and I made allowances for boundaries that were being crossed, so for that I take full responsibility. I also discovered I was co-dependent and that was a factor in why I had issues taking a stand against clear boundaries being crossed. I also discovered that narcissists are attracted to empaths. It was devastating coming to the realization that our entire relationship was a transaction to her. I’ve learned so much from Stephanie and it’s allowed me to understand it wasn’t my fault that I was being emotionally abused. I appreciate her insight and her wisdom that she shares with us. It’s priceless and appreciated

[@julieannfrikuj6346]

you believe in the goodness of people. you hope people will change and heal. you struggle with trust because of past harm but you don't wanna give up on them...

[@kevinabraham2029]

I’m a guy and I completely feel this way. I just got out of an abusive relationship with a narcissist and it finally opened my mind up to understanding that I needed boundaries. Love your vids Stephanie!

[@kirbyaugustine761]

Kevin Abraham I’m 16 years in to an abusive marriage with a narc. Setting strong boundaries and engaging in a regular regimen of self care have been a godsend. I’m working on removing myself from my toxic relationship as soon as possible.

[@guycarmeli]

Oh wow..... listening to every word made my jaw drop.... I’m 42, and this is probably the first time I felt that my life experience is not just in my head, and that I need to stop feeling bad for who I am. Thank you Stephanie for your thoughtful and sensitive insight.

[@bobstride6838]

Great video! I’m 68 years old and I’m only finding out now that I am an empath and also highly sensitive. After watching this for the second time so many experiences in my life are starting to make sense. You were talking about me all through this video, being in crowded places, getting upset when friends only want to talk about themselves etc etc ALL of it relates to me. Thank you so much for this video.

[@billy1673]

Okay, were you talking about me or you??? Holy cow, this one was spot-on! The ironic thing is my (ex) narc once said that about me. “You never give up on anyone - especially someone you love.” There are times I truly wish I could.

[@CindyMacaya]

This is THE MOST AMAZING video I’ve ever seen. Every SINGLE thing you said I related to and now thanks to that I feel I can cope a bit better with the fact that I am overly sensitive. I always thought I had a problem like “I am too weak” and I never even knew or understood why I was always so tired. Wow. I’m completely mind blown. Thank you so much and I really hope you continue to succeed and life and make these amazing videos.

[@tarasanders8978]

Cindy Macaya seriously, I could cry from relief, I just always thought something was wrong with me, weak, stupid, immature, etc

[@jackpierce4354]

IT HAS TAKEN ME ALMOST 65 YEARS TO UNDERSTAND DIFFERENT REALITIES I HAVE LIVED THROUGH AND DIDN'T UNDERSTAND AND YOU YOUNG LADY HAVE HELPED ME REALIZE WHY I GET TIRED AFTER A FAMILY CONFRONTATION OR ANY ACTUALLY...THANK YOU...

[@lauradurrant730]

Hi I am highly sensitive and as a 37 year old mom I find it so difficult to socialize. I feel like I process other people’s energy for them, they feel great and I am super drained. People that ‘need help’ seek me out☹️ and yes very overwhelming in people dense places as well.

[@StephanieLynCoaching]

Have you learned any coping skills?

[@gailland8681]

I feel so drained right now. it is so difficult..

[@dinah2610]

Totally resonated with everything you mentioned! Finding the right people is difficult as I was raised by a narcissist and I tend to gravitate towards similar abusive people. I’m just learning to trust and never doubt my instinct and to walk away from dramatic people and situations guilt free.

[@imogensyms630]

i'm exactly the same!

[@kaleywittler5903]

Thank you for this video. I wish my parents validated my feelings when I was younger, maybe I wouldn't struggle with the amount of anxiety I have now.

[@StephanieLynCoaching]

Validation is key for children, but now you get to give it to yourself.

[@angelayim8932]

Same

[@victoriavmh]

You explain things in such a simple and relatable way . I get so excited when you upload a new video.

[@mariettasmart8104]

The lack of understanding on this topic and the many misunderstood, lonely people is astounding. Sending huge hugs and love 🤗 to all you wonderful people. Well done for sharing this topic.

[@SonOfGodzilla75]

You should make a video to help teach Empaths about proper boundaries as that is key imo to staying mentally healthy, especially since Narcissists love to target us. I didn't learn this until a few years ago.

[@StephanieLynCoaching]

Thanks for the comment! Totally agree on boundaries but you cannot have boundaries with anyone until you learn the art of self-love. Managing your emotions, having healthy self-talk, parenting yourself.. those things are HUGE to have the love and confidence within to know how to set boundaries and most importantly enforce them.

[@SonOfGodzilla75]

I totally agree, however one could still have self love and still not understand how to implement proper boundaries with ppl. I can speak of this as self love wasn't a big issue for me but setting proper boundaries unfortunately was as contradicting as it might sound.

[@singing4hope]

People don’t believe me when I say that I can feel negative energy. They say I’m crazy and reading too much into things that aren’t there. Thanks for validating my feelings.

[@sbb2887]

100% an empath and a highly sensitive person! And i totally love it, because you enjoy and feel and taste all the colours and sounds in life!.Thanks, great video!

[@rosej5029]

Thank you for writing the praises about being an empath and/or hsp!!Many of the comments describe it as a curse. It's not ALL bad but everyone in comments section is focusing ONLY on the painful parts of it.

[@vengfulreaper9050]

As a man we're not "supposed to be so sensitive" or to "express emotions" but I always have been this way. Getting called names, demeaned, belittled, or berated for it just seemed to make things worse for me. I'll listen to the rest of your video and learn. Thank you!

[@worshipcatalyst1]

My dad was the emotional one and my mom the logical one. I hear of it on a regular basis.

[@StephanieLynCoaching]

I absolutely hate the stigma of "tough boys" "men don't cry"... there is no difference between a man vs a woman except for a body part. Not for nothing but a lot of the suffering that goes on in the world is from the male species (not saying women are perfect) but we need to start raising men with more nurturing and compassion and maybe we would not live in the world we live in.

[@loosecannon6142]

@@StephanieLynCoaching "There is no difference between a man vs a woman expect for body part" lol what a ridiculous statment, ignoring hundres of years of evolution, biology, and observable reality. Men are expected to be strong and emotionally resiliant, and that comes with not being weak, if you are 100% honest with yourself you will see that you have the exact same expectations of the men in your life.

[@natalieboult4726]

This is the problem with toxic masculinity . We need more balanced men ..❤️ don’t change

[@denisecameron1564]

I am a 52-year old Empath & it has always brought me user's hurt & pain....Thank you Stephanie for helping me so much

[@emilyarana6112]

Everything you said was so accurate. I once had a friend who called me sensitive and when I got mad he said “you are insecure about being called sensitive” those words just hit another never because I am empathetic and sensitive people don’t like being called that because we are already trying to deal with it.

[@davidbrentslifecoach]

I hope he is no longer your friend. Or that you can at least set some boundaries in the relationship.

[@TheMjobie67]

Stephanie you are the best..I've been watching your videos on narcissists.. I just got out of a 8 year relationship. With a woman that told me we were soulmates.. the day I gave her my heart she changed.. I have been trying to understand what happened.. thanks to you I know what happened..now I am learning to heal.. learning I have codependency issues.. I am very sensitive and emotional person.. I always have been..so I hope I can learn more from your videos.. you cover every different aspect on whatever topic your talking about...thank you so much..

[@BrotherTree1]

I really appreciate my high levels of empathy and compassion. When I was a child growing up I initially learnt and thought of it to be a weakness and a "loser" trait, making me question my normality and "manlihood". For example, when I cried or had tears in my eyes experiencing confronting or upsetting situations of my own or other people's experiences, I used to feel like an idiot and feel super embarrassed and ashamed of myself afterwards. But as I've grown up into an adult, that's absolutely not the case and definitely does not mean there's something "wrong" with you - quite the opposite actually. It shows you care, and have love, empathy and compassion. It makes you a true human being. It can be difficult being very sensitive, but it's also a strength too and shows how much kindness and fairness you can offer in this world. You pretty much took the words out of my mouth here in this video, thanks Stephanie! It's exactly what I want to tell people who don't understand my level of empathy - although unfortunately not they're fault because their emotional capacity is different - however, it's not fair or respectful for others to criticize or belittle us for how we feel and think - and I don't and/or at the very least don't mean to treat others as such).

[@katiemcalpine3036]

Wow, it was no coincidence I found your video Stephanie. I have in the past year discovered I am an empath/HSP. It's been hard for me to accept as it has brought me so much pain in my life. As a teenager I struggled with depression/anxiety/eating disorder. Married at 19 and was emotionally, spiritually, financially, physically abused. I left five years ago and have been rebuilding my life ever since. After making the connection that I am highly sensitive and empathetic the puzzle pieces started to connect. I sat here in tears watching your video as it finally feels like someone understands. Everything you said is so relatable. At work I'm known as the sensitive one and it can be frustrating at times. Learning how to protect myself and realize it is a gift will take work but, your video was extremely helpful. Thank you 💜

[@sbeav1105]

You are so ABSOLUTELY correct about having somebody or several somebody's (😁) to listen to you like you listen and feel for people is so crucial... otherwise you may become a little jaded or resentful. It is reassuring to hear that someone else was told that they were too sensitive, too emotional, too weak to deal with life...it is helping to forgive my mother, who was my biggest critique growing up, she just didn't understand me. Thank you again!

[@Theia93]

I always thought something's wrong with me, and I was struggling for a long time and I thought I was alone and nobody understood what I'm going through and how I feel. People made me feel that I'm over reacting and sometimes not normal! But I've been watching your videos lately and you don't believe how you changed me! Its I'm like you're talking to me about me! I don't know how to put in words but I am so SO grateful for you thank you so much! I wish I could've said this to you in person. Thank you for all what you're doing!

[@D.E.Middleton]

Thx Stephanie. I had been told by strangers i was an empath and just now learning about this. Knowing this.... I would not want it any other way. Thank you for what you do.

[@tinaturnerization]

I just happened to stumble on this video.. for the longest time I've always felt different, anxious all the time and I never knew why.. only the last few years, I've become more sensitive in ways where I am extremely anxious in big crowds.. even if its with my family or my partner's family. I dont like going to the malls, stores and such.. I can really understand and relate to people from all walks of life based on their experiences and what they're going through .. I can listen and understand people's stories as if theyre my own.. also like a movie is playing in my head.. everything you have described about your life and wanting to be alone in your house resonates with me because I too feel and do the same thing. I feel better knowing I'm not alone, as for the longest time I've been feeling like I'm floating through life trying to connect with like minded people. I feel as though I cannot connect with many people as majority of people live in this 3D, materialistic world. Thank you for this video! 🥰 #empathsunite

[@marylegere5866]

Oh my goodness I can't even tell you how many times I've been told you are overly sensitive you are so highly sensitive about everything.I swear every time you say stuff I feel like you're talking directly to me it is amazing.... Thank you thank you thank you for what you are doing!

[@richardj779]

I read highly sensitive people myself and it really helped me to understand myself and others better. I really enjoy your channel. Thank you

[@claribelcorona]

I recently became enlightened that I am an empath and what you said towards the end of the video just deepened my appreciation that I finally broke free from an manipulative relationship because of this struggle in wanting to see the best in him! Makes so much sense! Thanks!!!!!

[@phoenixtd815]

Great description of me and my experience! I have to get better at choosing my environments and stuff. Also, Great connection between super-active listening and people-pleasing. I appreciate that. Thank you!

[@md9710]

I am an empath and it helps because my child is the same as me so when she comes to me with concerns I can relate and have the right words for her. I don’t do well in certain environments. I don’t like crowds it overwhelms me and drains me. I also don’t watch the news, it depresses me. I found that being positive and feeling good makes my life easier. I also know that people would not know if I was going thru anything because I am very good at hiding it. I don’t do it as much now that I am older but in my younger days I did. I don’t want to talk about my problems or throw my problems at others.

[@NigelJ]

I'm an empath, who was similar to you as a child, desiring to be alone & seeing things in ways most my peers didn't. You're spot on about not wanting to watch the news, a longing to be in nature, and a high tendency towards being co-dependent. It's funny bc I've been reflecting on my relationships, and I feel I've been taken advantage of in virtually all of them; unfortunately, it seems that it's typically narcissists that I attract. I'm grateful tho bc those reflections led me to search KZbin for videos on relationships, and ultimately, I found your channel. You are a beautiful human, and I am very thankful for you sharing your wisdom and own personal experiences.

[@worshipcatalyst1]

I love boundaries for this. This is your emotional responsibility, this is my emotional responsibility. Takes a second to lay down the practice but it's fabulous for self preservation.

[@mommyandhermonkey5931]

You are so motivating. I am a highly sensitive person and I deal with coparenting with a narcissist. Thank you for giving me a different outlook on this because I have always been down upon this trait

[@tanjapetties9965]

Hello Stephanie... New Subscriber.... Thank you for your post.. I myself hadn't known i was an empath up until 2007/2008 After my Aunt passed away... Certain situations would occur and i"d just cry.. Listening to you confirms i couldn't be wrong.. Thank you again. Sincerely Tanja

[@StephanieLynCoaching]

Thank you for supporting the channel. Everyone is wired differently but we just feel on a deeper level. It's actually a beautiful thing :)

[@tanjapetties9965]

@@StephanieLynCoaching So true we most definitely feel on a different level.. For those who don't understand it seems hard to explain this phenomenon for us.. Sincerely Tanja

[@tracyboles107]

I want to thank you for posting this video, I enjoy all your topics Stephanie. I have been self reflecting along with watching your videos, I was in a abusing toxic relationship and have struggled with the Low self esteem, codependency, people pleaser, I’m totally am an empath/highly sensitive person and always find the good on people even in my narcissistic relationship .I finally went no contact and I feel much better but now I’m working on ME and working on getting healthier mentally and physically. I attract the people who only talk and don’t listen, happens with family as well. I’m babbling , but our past isn’t a Prison sentence it’s a life lesson learned, let’s keep the Faith, Believe there are better days ahead and to never give up! Find beauty in your day and smile:)

[@amylynne777]

Can’t stop watching your videos! You’re super helpful as I navigate this healing process. 💕✨🙏🏻 Thank you.

[@wilfigs9705]

👍👍👍

[@purplerain0517]

It is so very nice to know that I'm not the only one who avoids the news and reading the newspaper or gossip magazines because it just makes me sad and overwhelmed and anxious and scared and vulnerable and indignant and angry. I would be accused of being willfully ignorant... and that hurt. And then it would Drudge up a bunch of other emotions that are caused by trauma. Being called worthless and stupid and lazy and " no wonder nobody likes you" "no wonder my family hates you" and " no wonder you were so bullied in school" and "you're such a baby" or "okayyy, keep telling yourself that" or " if that's what you need to tell yourself to sleep at night" Prettymuch my entire life and even in my marriage. ... you help me feel less alone and I appreciate your vulnerability and your willingness to open up to other people who you've never even met.

[@tabatasennadagracalopes5180]

Oooooh my! I totally identified myself! I never ever give up on people, even if i know the person is not good, i always try to see their reasons, their experiences.... i actually cried watching it! It is amazing to learn about ourselfs

[@janettepearl-snyder4828]

This video couldn't have come at a more perfect time for me. I have recently been told that I am always trying to see the good in people and that not everyone is good. Even if they have treated me awful, and that I need to think with my head and not my heart... makes me so sad... I can also relate to my alone time❤ Thank you so much for sharing your excellent information...❤

[@StephanieLynCoaching]

I couldn't agree more.. thinking with your head vs your heart at times is important because we naturally want to use our hearts first.

[@orchidsrising7910]

I’m thinking of writing a book How To Go To The Grocery Store And Come Out Okay lol, because I’ve been learning a lot by trial and error many ways to work with/ be able to handle/ create good energy exchanges for a few years now. Some people get my joke about getting through the grocery store line, that’s how I can tell they are HSPs, empaths 💗💎🌸🐬🌈🤓

[@fargokatie]

Orchids Rising do it lol

[@fargokatie]

I used to work in a grocery store, for almost 15 years...... girl the anxiety I had was unreal. I would have panic attack’s while helping customers. Some of the most embarrassing situations I’ve ever experienced. But the energy in grocery stores 😆 is unreal. So much going on and I got hit w that in the face 300 times a day. Anyway I’d buy your book lol

[@annemarie3176]

I hate grocery stores

[@woodbrassandglass]

So far in 1 year I've done 2 full months of fasting from all social media:internet, radio, tv. I focused on my spiritual life with God. Focusing on just my life for the moment. It was amazing to see how good life is when keeping the garbage out.

[@ramongonzalez4042]

I agree EMPATH'S AND HIGHLY SENSITIVE PEOPLE have a great gift. I tend to get social advice from EMPATH'S , and I found I get good sound advice from EMPATH'S on the social media subject.

[@taraelmegreen5527]

Me to a tee! I told my spouse my reads of his body language TOWARDS me as he called me a liar! Seeing his disgust, lack of empathy, refusal to cooperate, desire to be ANYWHERE else except with me and most importantly, he DOESNT like me except naked!!! ....I am NOT crazy! ..I reminded him as an ICU nurse, people who make $1,000,000 a year LISTEN when I call them about something! I know what I saw....I know what his body language has been saying....thanks to u and your videos, I realize I AM GOING TO B OK! Ty ty ty...I am a proud empath......#strugglinginoklahoma

[@waterdragon5418]

As an intuitive empath, I used to think something was wrong with me. I noticed from a very young age I was different in every way from other people, especially grown ups. I didn't like how I felt around them. The comment and remarks they would say about others and to me were extremely hurtful, callous vexatious. Their negative energy was perpetuated daily as was the drama. Now as an adult I am thankful to be an empath, practice daily to remain aware of my surroundings and others energies. Empathy allows me to see around corners, pick up on subtle nuances that others give off that they themselves are not aware of and on a really good connected, grounded and energetic day recieve intuitive guidance on anything I ask. I, as an empath, am a constant work in progress. I am finally at a place where i am beginning to see the benefits. It is possible to enjoy this gift. I am so thankful there are so many people beginning to understand this now and posting videos. Thank you.

[@TheDbaby86]

It feels good to hear you describe me. It’s tough living in the world that is quickly becoming narcissistic. I feel like everyone I run into has this give me give me, what can you do for me mentality and all I want to do is love and experience love myself. Now I have no choice but to be vigilant, and but up strong boundaries and feel crippled by guilt although I know that’s what I need.

[@jacquelynhoagland3371]

Great video! I'm not sure I can say I'm an empath, but I am highly sensitive. The only time I could remember anyone saying anything negative was when I was called high maintenance. I mentioned that to my new partner, and I just loved him him when he told me, "You aren't high maintenance. You're sensitive." It was said in such a loving way. Like there's nothing wrong with you. I didn't feel like there was something wrong with me.

[@jcat7553]

Thank you for mentioning seeing the good in people and seeing their defense mechanisms which has definitely got me into trouble. I. Saw this in my mom and dad at the earliest age I can remember. They both said all the time I was to sensitive. Thank you for this validating video and mentioning the book. I will read! ❤️

[@Nilalalala]

This really made me feel understood. Which is something I longed for and still do because as you said, I am always situating myself in relationships with selfish manipulators that are not connected to their feelings. I still try to see the good in them. Thank you for making this video.

[@14gt1]

This is me.... it sucks though sometimes but it’s also a blessing.

[@tania-cg6tf]

Thank you for this conversation, I didn’t understand until I saw this video that I am an empath/highly sensitive personality. I love that I deeply feel empathy for others but you hit the nail on the head when you said it’s emotionally draining, I am always tired and now I know why . Thank you so much for telling me that it’s ok to feel the way I feel, you are an inspiration

[@GNomad781]

Absolutely beautiful Ms. Stephanie!!! Just listening to you brought joy and happiness to my soul. Go Empaths!!

[@Taylorlynnhansen]

your last point... not giving up on people... loving on ANOTHER level... I think this explains why I feel like I was born to love... I've said that for a long time... like I think I was put here on earth to love another... its part of my identity in a big way XOXOX GREAT VIDEO! GREAT EXPLANATION!

[@rosaliaoliver-qv3gr]

♥️Stephanie♥️I see why your ♥️WONDERFUL♥️ light♥️ shine♥️on us in the ♥️dark♥️

[@rachelmartineau8102]

You just described me as well. I can't watch tv, the news, overwhelmed in crowds,elevators,house tours. I can get a lot of people to open up in such a short time. I opened up to my close family members and best friend.oh my I do get tired and need alone time.I'm a nurse and I feel so much frustration from my patients. I work very well with 1 or 2 patients in labour and delivery. I just recently discovered the name of what I am. Thank you so much. Now my sister is a narcissistic individual and I went on a trip with her and my son. It was very difficult with her personality disorder. I so wanted to protect myself because she is not in a good place. My brother came along on the trip and he was my buffer. When we came back from this month long trip she chose not to talk to me. I did nothing wrong in my opinion she was not able to manipulate me and belittle. I was a mother first and foremost to my son, and tried to have a wonderful time. She was miserable lots of people thought she was my mother. So happy to have found your channel and your videos are so needed for me to learn even more about myself. It's lovely to know I am not alone and a weirdo. Big big thanks, keep teaching and educating much appreciation.

[@cathyhuffman7611]

This can happen to me any where. One time at work, I just felt this woman needed me to listen to her. While holding her hand, she was sharing with me how she lost her husband. I felt I needed to help her by just being there at that moment

[@darlaclark4342]

Hi Stephanie , I just came to the learn that I’m definitely an Empath , the moment I’d seen a video on KZbin about what the meaning of an Empath was , my shoulders dropped & I couldn’t stop crying, finally I understand why I am the way I am , I’m connected to all that is in this Universe , I like that I’m ( highly evolved) and knowing this I can work on protecting myself from the takers 💕💕💕thank you so much for your videos ☺️

[@paulagonzalez1721]

I wish I would've found this information earlier. It would've helped me so much to accept myself and manage my personality better during my teen years. I'm glad that I know it now. Thank you for sharing about this topic.

[@newarkman2663]

Steph, as I listened to your talk, I cried. I've beat myself up thinking there was something wrong with me. This beast in me, could not be tamed. I felt immature and so many other things. 60 years old and I'm still learning. The big one, was being abused by the Narcissist. I am not in that relationship anymore. And NOW, I have to deal with myself cuz my time is freed up. This energy inside of me is a good thing. Controlling it is something else. I started getting close to someone and ended up hurting that person because I didn't no what this thing inside me was. I have one fault in this Empath beast inside of me. I have ADHA. So I don't listen to well. I don't want drugs. I'm clean. This is the 2nd time you've helped me. I'm not a bad person. And I know it. People are drawn to me. Thus it drains me. I would love to talk to you because I need to do something about this feeling. My son is an Empath also. But very calm. He gets depressed from all the negativity is this world. As so do I. I don't know what to do, but at least I know what it is and that's the first step. I love you Stephanie. Mark C.

[@mytruthbekind5793]

I can relate. Thank you for speaking of the challenges and how to manage them. Too sensitive, feeling energy of a room, etc.

[@shelll9254]

Thank you Stephanie for enlightened video, on many levels, I remember going away to. Overnight camp and one of the counselor's told me to stop being so sensitive!. That sensitivity has never left but molded the convictions I have felt thru my life 🙏

[@markkelly8419]

This gift has come with a lifetime of sadness for me...But I didn’t know until a few months ago that Im like a highly sensitive empath😔.this video&researching stuff like the traits of an empath,LITERALLY felt like it was written about me.like someone was explaining my feelings,emotions,thought process,and who I am. I would give anything to talk to another empath!

[@annweidner8924]

My mother used to tell me I was too sensitive all the time. I finally get it. Never felt like I belonged in my family.

[@BDCsSanctuary]

Howdy, I've discovered over the past few days that I'm an empath. I never knew it. All I knew I'd that I was emotionally weird. Really really sensitive, feeling others emotions, feeling everything very strongly to a point to where it's debilitating, etc. I've described the passion and strength of emotions I have as trying to contain the radiance of the sun in my chest. It's amazing and also sometimes a curse.

[@floral7206]

Dear Stephanie This video has answered questions I've had for years, why am I so sensitive to the pain of others? Why am I able to see cruelty in the actions of others? Whilst others laugh it off? Why do i pick up people's vibes and stay clear of certain people? I have been judged by my nearest and dearest as being oversensitive when people say the cruelest things. Or people saying what's wrong with you, why don't you want to go to an event of 20, 000 people? Now it makes sense why I love the sea, or being on my own sometimes and not feeling alone. Why I no longer watch tv or listen to radio news....NOW IT ALL MAKES SENSE!!!! Thank you, thank you, thank you so much as now I know what is actually right with me and what a powerful tool it is in life. I just did not have a name for it.x

[@salonsavy6476]

I always felt things on a deeper level ,, my sensitivity,, awareness, empathy ,,even feeling residual energies from older homes ,

[@MrDianadoll]

I'm highly sensitive and an empath that has never really bothered with TV and Newspapers full stop and don't even have a TV. Although I'm an empath though, I have had some terrible things done to me by people and find it hard to see through it so totally do not care about them when they are so cruel and I try to avoid them, I'm a mixed bag and unique I guess, I love my own company the older I get. You are adorable Stephanie and the fact you are Highly sensitive makes you more special, thanks for the videos and all the best xx

[@The_ProfessionalKid]

I'm exploring my personality and this is spot on for me. As a man, with an ego... its a challenge to admit these traits because of past social and cultural conditioning. Thanks for the video 👍🏼

[@jasminecozyjournalers]

How good is to know I am not the only one... I haven't watch news in about 15 years or so and I automatically delete negative post on Social Media. I basically just read the headline xD Thank you! Subscribed!

[@Tina_Pedirn96]

Meeeeee The tiredness makes sense now. Great video thank you 🙏

[@edgardelgado7213]

Quiet time , slowing down and tasting life . Gracias for sharing.

[@jennfitz0189]

Thank you for posting this! I'm in a professional environment where being an empath / highly sensitive is seen as a negative. I'm constantly balancing being my true self with trying to protect myself from who I need to be. Still learning but totally glad I found your channel. If you can make a video about being an empath/ highly sensitive in the work place that would be amazing

[@dobrevdobrev1757]

You are such a pretty woman wow!! I dont understand how could anybody choose to leave you!

[@johnbehneman1546]

YES, THAT IS ME!!!! I thought there was something wrong with me. But I am just highly sensitive. Now I just need to learn the skills to handle my personality better. It is ironic how we were never shown empathy. yet we have the most of it. Or curse has turned into a blessing.

[@josephmajernik8726]

I know you are very honest and original. Thank you.

[@laurieborcea5002]

Wow I am an empath too - I am glad you are talking about this. I really value my alone time. I intuitively know what to say to people.

[@susie5254]

You described it so beautifully. It felt like a balm to my battered psyche. Hugs.

[@Taryn101]

I am an empath. One thing I have recently learned is that I became highly sensitive because I grew up walking on eggshells. People who grow up walking on eggshells develop a high sensitivity to others feelings. It’s a childhood defense mechanism for survival. I could sense when I should hide. Now as an adult I can’t turn it off. I have said my super power is that I know what you are going to do, before you do it. And it’s because of eggshells. Crazy thing about it, up until now I have chosen partners where I have to practice this. I imagine because it’s not comfortable, but familiar. I really didn’t know there was a lifestyle where you don’t have to be afraid. Heck, I didn’t even realize it was fear. But now I know and I’m working on healing.

[@dinomorell5163]

This is what I needed to hear.Now I have to help my daughter learn to strengthen & embrace herself as an empath.

[@johannaj1522]

I love this so much! Thank you Stephanie for talking on this! I am such an HSP and empath. Could never read the news or watch sad/scary movies.. I would love it if you did a video on highly sensitive codependents! While it’s true that we always see the good in people, codependence can make us obsessed with seeing ourselves as good as well and then we get difficult when we feel wronged for instance. And seemingly small things can get big. How to deal and heal might be a great topic💚

[@soulgoddess6358]

Ooooo great idea!! I second that!

[@sidneymantay1874]

Listening to you, I feel I just read a book about myself. You love deeply. The greatest of these is love!

[@magykjames9534]

I always used to project my HSP traits onto everyone and I ended up feeling deeply sorry for people who probably didn't give a rip about what was going on. I'd be like "wow, glad I'm not in their shoes, they must be so miserable" when really, I'd be miserable but most non-HSPs would be fine. That makes it more difficult when setting boundaries because priorities and values are different for HSPs, and projecting those onto other people who don't have those traits can leave you with softer boundaries than you really need. You assume they'd be understanding/compassionate towards you because you are, but that's often not the case. Then you get caught off guard when they start taking advantage of you because of their lack of empathy. Learning how to stand up for yourself and be assertive is tough. Talking to strangers is tough. Taking initiative in social interactions and expressing your wants and needs.... is tough. Thank you for videos like this.

[@tinypinefarm7275]

You spoke directly to my soul!

[@r.j.dannemiller346]

An excellent description of empaths and HSPs. I can be categorized as both, too. Your aha moment (while reading a book on the subject) was reflective of my own years ago. I am in agreement with your perspective. Keep up the great work that you do. I applaud you for "showing up" in the world in your own unique way. Peace, R. J.

[@cathyhuffman7611]

Some times I have to just listen to music and shut out people. I was foster parent for 1 yr..could not to it again. Hurt my heart way way to much. I learned alot during that yr. I loved that young man I had for that yr

[@onetwo234]

I'm 100% certain that being around large crowds is only stressful/difficult for an empath at first or when they first discover they are an empath. Because as I've become more aware of my empathetic gift I have learned that the things I feel are okay and part of reality. (nothing to be afraid of) Being aware of being an empath is a huge step in becoming less stressed out in large crowds because now you know what's going on and why you're feeling things like the atmosphere.. and with time it's less overloading/intense.

[@kvksmile]

Another great video. One of those ones to watch routinely as a reminder. Not judging yourself is hard. Thank you again.

[@donschlegel1972]

Thanks Love being a impath today gifted Was not easy most of my life. More imbracing and accepting now. You have a kind energy. Warmest Thankfulness to you Stephanie.

[@renewebbie2513]

very accurate definition and explanation of empath and highly sensitive 👏 and very helpful thank you

[@mamastern]

This is so me! I also cannot watch the news and I've been reading people's energy since I was 6 years old, and I always thought it was negative characteristic trait of myself, I would always be told I was sensitive and I would wonder why I'm so sensitive, and I absolutely hated that because everybody else was "normal", why couldn't I be normal? and I have had so much anxiety my whole entire life until recently when I found out what it was coming from and then I'm actually an empath. Once I found out a lot of my anxiety has stopped.... which is crazy to me because I've lived with anxiety my entire life. But just realizing that there's nothing wrong with me and that that's just who I am really helped me put a grasp on the now. Loved this!! I wish I would have known this beforehand because I've now married a person who has narcissistic parentsand I feel like the traits feed into his personality.

[@StephanieLynCoaching]

It is a relief to know that there is nothing wrong with you AND that there are others that feel like you feel.

[@sharanyasargunan8972]

Cant thank u enough.. this is so much me n now i understand y im a people pleaser n also cant remove people from my life