Energetically, is it a no? If so, then ruuuuuun! Strengthen your intuitive decision-making.

[@marspi6772]

Best channel on KZbin just posted, im SAT

[@careercoachmandy]

omg wow thank youuu

[@caitlinleiker2868]

“Even if you just take 10-15% of this video” MA’AM I AM TAKING 100% OF THE VIDEO, thank you!!! 💅🏻✨🙏🏻 ❤️

[@careercoachmandy]

ahahahhaah i literally laughed out loud

[@loveling55555]

Girl I love you; you explain things in such a clear and “i understand you” way 🗣️ and your examples are top tier!! The caesar salad example had me rolling but also soooo true

[@careercoachmandy]

hahahaha i just tried to think of something that a) I LOVE and b) I'd be super pissy about if i kept ordering and it never showed up hahahaha caesar salad it is!

[@rynfrmcamryn]

"illness- the manifestation of stuck energy" that is real af

[@careercoachmandy]

it's so true LOL real af

[@rollierollout]

You've truly found your calling! This is so powerful and helpful. I've been burned out before at a job that I was initially so happy to get. It paid really well and looked great on paper but the environment was stifling. Nobody liked each other, the team was fractured, and the work was SO boring. I was there for only 3 months but it was the worst burnout I've ever experienced. The physical and emotional toll got real. I was fortunate to leave that job and thank goodness it was perfect timing for my current job. I love my work now! I'm so happy with my team and I'm the least stressed I've ever been. Thank goodness for the awful experience so I can recognize how good I have it now. ❤

[@movimkr16]

Oh Coach Mandy, where would we be without you ! Thank you!!

[@careercoachmandy]

ah, you're so welcome!!

[@Mesharae]

I come here when I need mindset ! Whether it’s to start my day, need inspo to create or just a push to get doing! Thank you so much ☺️

[@careercoachmandy]

aww thank you so much!!!

[@Mesharae]

@@careercoachmandy absolutely! you have encouraged me to go ahead and create my channel. made it last night. now to film, and get it up!

[@park66]

I start & warm up my day with your video

[@careercoachmandy]

omg that's so nice thank you!!! hope you have a great day x

[@tatli3630]

Same! I saw this video land last night (in the UK) and resisted clicking it, as I prefer to start my day with Mandy's Motivation Moments haha

[@careercoachmandy]

@@tatli3630 hahhahahaha omg i love it thank you

[@squeeeeshi]

Hi Mandy, I really loved and resonated with this video! I’m currently interviewing to get out of a toxic workplace, and it’s so important to make the right decision, and really trust my gut. Naturally, it’s intimidating because I don’t want to end up in another toxic environment. Rocking the boat is the only thing that’s kept me ME at my job. Most of the time, the people trying to make me look/feel bad don’t even know how to respond to me when I’m direct and straightforward with my communication. Or, they come up with excuses and get defensive. Plus, once you start to “rock the boat” and set boundaries/stand up for yourself, you can’t really stop. It gives you so much confidence! I signed up for your newsletter because I’ve been watching your videos for a few weeks! I think it’s a great business tactic because, from my perspective, you’re also building long term clients because we trust you now. And who knows when I’ll need career advice- as someone swimming in grey matter?? Hehe I think you’re great, thank you for sharing, I really appreciate your videos!!

[@minwonlee1337]

you helping me a lots to make wise - decision for my life !! thank you my coach

[@careercoachmandy]

you're welcome min won!

[@rrr00rro]

i just turned 22, a university student and i feel so lost with myself. Your videos bring me comfort and make me feel like its gonna be okay

[@careercoachmandy]

it's gonna be okay!!!

[@rrr00rro]

@@careercoachmandy thank you!!

[@carines.nevalga]

Thank you, Mandy for another relatable and empowering video!!

[@careercoachmandy]

thank you so much carines!

[@daniellelee4618]

This came at the right time when I needed it! I kid you not I had that feeling when I spoke to a recruiter this morning and remembered what you said about writing down those feelings. I’m realizing that not listening to my intuition meant I wasn’t giving space to trust myself. Thank you for what you do. It’s changing my whole perspective on things.

[@MA3CY]

Mandy you're amazing every video has insight I need and I love seeing you grow and improve with each video!! I love the graphics you include and your approach is so helpful. Thank so much for being here Mandy 💛💛💛💛💛

[@careercoachmandy]

omg that graphics! thank you for saying that. i really went and tried to find cute ones hahahah...you're the only one who noticed, thank you!!!!!

[@billystreet2568]

amen!!

[@banettte]

finally quitting my trash family restaurant job today. i keep putting it off, but i'm just so tired of it & have been for nearly a year now. there is literally no benefit to me - it's more effort than the time i put in & the money i get out, & i'm sick of keeping myself in a toxic loop so people who barely care about me have an easier time running their business. energetically, it's always BEEN a no, if i'm being honest with myself. thanks, mandy! you a real one.

[@careercoachmandy]

yesss and if you can put up with all of that, imagine how far you will go when it IS the right vibe. i believe in you.

[@LiiLPANDA]

The timing of this video is mindblowing !!! literally I was getting more and more upset and activated that people don't realise the effort I am putting into my work.... Wow. and love your work from Berlin :)

[@careercoachmandy]

hallo from berlin, thank you so much!!!

[@papishamboo]

Beautiful person beautiful message, love ya girl!!!!

[@careercoachmandy]

love yaaaa!

[@gatamarina]

Girl, you're so inspiring to me. Thank you

[@gracewithnature]

I had to re-listened to the body cues over and over. That is so true. I’d love to share my experience on this. I am a residential care youth worker and working in an extreme and high needs young people and 8 months ago, I was assaulted where a young person tried to choked me while I was driving in the middle of traffic around 5:30pm. The road was busy! We were on the side of the street for nearly 5 hours doing our best to help the young person regulate their emotion so that we can safely drive back to the house. I have this routine where my husband and I texts or calls each other to check on each other and to say good night. It was nearly around 8pm and I was getting really hungry and needed to use the toilet when I got a text from my husband saying “hey blossom 🌸 how you doing? I just had dinner. Love you 🥰”. I replied to my husband saying “hey Babe, I’m alright, yeah, all good. Big day and exhausted”. I didn’t tell him that I was out in the street hungry, thirsty and busting and nearly had a car crash because the young person sitting in the back seat tried to choke me. Even after got home the next day I did not tell my husband how extremely hard my day was. The situation was 10/10 hard but I told it to my husband 4/10. One reason I didn’t tell him is because I didn’t want him to worry about me and two, I didn’t want him to be upset. Fast forward, 2 months ago I was diagnosed with PTSD and now so many incidences are coming up to the surface. I am in the process of healing and I am grateful to have found you, Mandy. Your wisdom and guidance and voice is empowering and on point.

[@careercoachmandy]

this is such a powerful share, thank you, you are a gripping storyteller and so articulate and wise and a space holder. thank you. i so relate to smoothing things over with your partner and being like "i am fine" when you are indeed, not fine. sending you hugs!!!

[@leialuminous]

This one is so hard as a trauma survivor. It's more accurate than it used to be for sure but oof you gotta discipline those thoughts when you're not used to knowing. At the end of the day you gotta do what's best for you. Still that mind!

[@joan_of_arts]

Same feels!

[@venusonearth2189]

Thank you.

[@resourcefulnurturer]

Mandy, you’re amazing 🤗

[@careercoachmandy]

aww thanks babes.

[@siasiadraws1816]

Woman stop making videos, you're going to make me quite my very stable and well payable job to have a go at something im only half decent at xD! I watch you and then start taking each video as sign from the universe that the TIME IS NOW. But no jokes, looove your energy and looove following you. Please keep up with the great content!

[@careercoachmandy]

hahahahahah girl WATCH OUT, i'm coming for ya!!! hahaha. but in all seriousness you probably should do it, heheh. here to support and keep nudging you along. thank you!!!

[@jonie429]

I love ur "bye"

[@careercoachmandy]

byyyeeeee!

[@INSIDEOUT_2024]

Loved it 😀

[@rivervlogs274]

It's like being forced to go back to retail even though you know it sucks the life out of you just to earn a little bit of money 😅On a side note I'm writing my first manuscript for a novel I'm working on. Hoping 2025 will be a year of prosperity and abundance for many of us! ❤️

[@careercoachmandy]

oooh i'm so excited for you. the manuscript writing process is so deep and fruitful and wonderful and also stressful. but you can do it!!!! we are ALL rooting for you!

[@rivervlogs274]

@careercoachmandy Thanks, I appreciate the kind words!❤️The writing process has been very interesting but also a learning curve for me :) Currently trying my best to stay focused and not burn out..

[@chrisnurzia1073]

You’re the best

[@carolsakai-artist]

great review of following your gut and tapping into your inner strength

[@careercoachmandy]

yay thanks!

[@thelastyellowcar]

You're awesome!! Just found your channel the other day and have been binging your vids since! Really really resonate with the direct, clean transactions concept. Having people be on your mailing list that actually want to be there. This taps right into the 1000 true fans concept - You don't need mad numbers to make a living, just 1000 or so people that truly give a fuck that are willing to support you. It's better for business owners and better for consumers as it eliminates the mental clutter. I'm from a music background and it's so common to see artists that do crazy numbers on songs struggle to make a living, but if they focused instead on building and monetising smaller communities of people that really really resonate with them, they'd be able to stay afloat and also have more freedom with their art, in a lot of cases removing the need for the middle man (labels, management etc). I think we're very much still in the era of waking up to this - the internet and our freedom on it has made this pretty damn feasible which is really exciting.

[@careercoachmandy]

i love this message. i agree. as an artist it's so hard to see other people hitting these massive numbers, but everyone has to start somewhere, so it really is the 1000 true fans concept which is basically, how i've run my entire business. thank you so much for your thoughtful message. yes to the internet freedom that makes it feel possible, and it is!

[@Hummingbird64]

Thank you sooooo much !❤

[@careercoachmandy]

my pleasure!!!

[@JeniElbedour]

Thanks, this is very helpful.

[@joylitovate]

You’re amazing 🫶🏼

[@careercoachmandy]

thank you joy!

[@Wanderful1]

You always make me laugh!

[@SuperMeggyy]

You’re like the sister I never had 😅 so so so inspired by you every day

[@careercoachmandy]

hi meggyy! so excited to find all my sisters on the internets.

[@nraishanzr3333]

I love you Mandy! This is def what I needed today

[@tatli3630]

'It will be good for my resume' - lol, dying! It's something Ive done too many times to count and whilst this attitude is perhaps important when you're young, or when you're sure what you want to do, but need some stuff in your portfolio. But! - and this is a big BUT, these things are often just extrinsic motivators and we need to learn when we've collected enough of examples and just stop trying to sell ourselves. Instead put our needs first. And stop compromising.

[@careercoachmandy]

hello?! you are soooo smart. i love this response. yes to knowing these are extrinsic motivators!!! you have such a good head on your shoulders, damn!

[@tatli3630]

@careercoachmandy haha, thank you, you're too kind! It's not how I would ever describe myself lol, but that feeling of inadequacy is probably fuelled by the same energy as the 'it will look good on my resume' type of crap. And we need to say no to that brainwashing and take back our power! Thank you, Mandy, for giving us all space to do so x

[@hermela4279]

❤❤❤❤

[@careercoachmandy]

[@LouisLuzuka]

Waited for this 😮❤

[@careercoachmandy]

LOUIS! yay thank you

[@mckennarinta3221]

when you told that story about the salad not coming i started crying because that was my whole childhood and that's why i dont' even try to want things or work for things anymore 😭

[@careercoachmandy]

awww noooo!!!! that is so heart breaking. but now you can order the salad yourself and make sure it comes because you're the one with the ingredients (does the analogy extend this way, but you know what i mean?). aww i'm so sorry.

[@mckennarinta3221]

@@careercoachmandy Yes! I'm the one in the kitchen now!

[@MonicaClark-r8r]

This was a banger, thank you 👏🏾

[@careercoachmandy]

monica thank you!!!

[@jenniferream909]

Loooove this

[@careercoachmandy]

eeeee thanks!

[@eugeniaglugan]

I am currently in an immigrant assistance program, which ends in 3 months, and I really need to make a big breakthrough because right now I can’t afford to rent my own place. Also, during this time, I have a driving test coming up. I’m afraid I’ll have to settle for a low-paying job that won’t even cover my living expenses… But I really want to make that wonderful breakthrough and create my own income online through KZbin. I need a boost of energy for such a big leap, which I really lack right now. Just felt like sharing ❤️

[@careercoachmandy]

thank you for sharing, sometimes the process of just recording your situation and saying what you want, as you have done here, is all you need to do in the moment. thank you!

[@eugeniaglugan]

@@careercoachmandy❤️ thank you, Mandy!

[@concepcionnavarro3938]

I discovered your channel at the ideal time

[@coolejvids]

I love this! Do you have a podcast ❤❤ just want to say your channel have blessed me with good vibes

[@AnovaAce]

I speculate that you will be at 100k subscribers in a couple months

[@careercoachmandy]

ummmmmmm, DO YOU THINK SO?!? i really hope so, but also i am okay if it takes longer. but fingers crossed!!!

[@joan_of_arts]

I want to be intuitive but I think anxiety is overriding 😢 Like I usually asked, is this my true emotionality (instincts) or an anxiety-driven reactivity? 😢 Really difficult for a complex ptsd survivor coz traumas dampen intuition

[@careercoachmandy]

yesss and so beautiful that you are aware of that dynamic. keep going and keep being curious and keep awakening to the sensations and emotions. you will soon be able to discern more clearly.

[@meya5733]

❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@kylie8452]

I made a life decision where I went against my own intuition because I thought it would be a fun, daring choice for me to make in life, and I thought that I wouldn’t regret it. Everyone is telling me that I made the right choice but I know deep down that I did something wrong. I could feel it in my gut, I felt pain ALL over my body, but I still chose it because I wanted to do something daring and new with my life. I wanted to do the thing that scared me because I believed it would help develop me as a person but deep down I knew I didn’t want it. But I can’t back out of it now. What do I do???

[@careercoachmandy]

i think you can always back out. if you know in your gut it was wrong, that is huge. trust that instinct. maybe spend the next few days thinking about what would be the most graceful way to backtrack? you can always change your mind. don't worry about what people will think or what they will say. all you need is 1-2 real supporters like friends or family who have your back. you can do it!

[@Trauma-InformedYogawithConfett]

Yeah, straightforward-not cruel- Love ya-but FU Energy is IT right now!

[@careercoachmandy]

love-ya-but-FU! hahahah perfect.

[@naninuna7440]

What if nothing is a vibe?

[@careercoachmandy]

then you gotta make an even bigger change my friend.

[@meya5733]

FU ENERGY 😍

[@careercoachmandy]

double down on that FU energy lol

[@ross2662]

I never understood the free magnet for the email sign up, I'm either going to 1) not sign up 2) give a fake 10 minute mail account or 3) immediately unsubscribe. But honestly, your videos have been so inspiring to actually go out there and create something. I always felt so frustrated w/ how it seems like If you don't make super cringe video thumbnails with a stupid pose and a title like "YOU ARE BREATHING WRONG!!!! HERE'S HOW TO FIX IT" that no one will watch my content regardless of how good it is. I don't want to be disingenuous and it feels like that is the ONLY way people operate on youtube/tiktok. I want people to just engage with my work because it's good not because I like "tricked" them into clicking or gave them some stupid gift for giving me their email. I feel so aligned with your message of like "man everyone says do this really fake ass thing and you'll grow but fuck that, that's not me"

[@careercoachmandy]

10 WAYS YOU ARE BREATHING WRONG AND HOW TO FIX IT, FROM AN EXPERT BREATHER, lollllll i am deaddddd. i can't. i know. i feel the same way!!!! hahahah

[@octaviawilliams3159]

I hear a lot of Nurses say that the money is good but they are a bunch of stressed out junkies!

[@careercoachmandy]

anyone in a helping profession!!!

[@rinkuhero]

yeah my sister became a nurse, tripled her salary, and then just stopped working after that after a few years of it, no matter how good the money is, some people are unable to handle the stress of it. that's not to say it isn't great work for those who can handle it

[@TheTeeyaSkipper]

When I say I loooove your channel 🥰🥹 thank you for this video

[@careercoachmandy]

awww thank you so much teeya!

[@rinkuhero]

i think the thing is, a lot of your videos and presumably newsletters deal with people who are self-employed and running their own small business, and a resume is specific to people seeking a job. so there was also a sort of disconnect. i'm an ebay reseller. i have no need for a resume, i'm not going to be applying to jobs. i've never written a resume in my life. i've always run a series of small businesses. but i still find your content interesting. so perhaps it's not that you should not have any reward at all for signing up to your newsletters, perhaps you should have a reward that appeals to all of your audience, not just some of them.

[@rinkuhero]

(there's a similar, though lesser, issue with a lot of your video titles -- like calling your audience 'girl' or 'queen' and so on. that just makes your male audience less likely to click on those videos. i know it sounds stupid, but women don't mind occasionally being called guys or dudes, whereas most men hate being called girls or queens. so it feels sometimes like you are addressing only part of your audience with your titles and newsletter rewards and so on, instead of all of them. of course, you might really only want a 90% female audience or something, in which case this wouldn't matter. and maybe it doesn't even matter for actually clicking and watching the videos, but it might matter for sharing them, like i might click them, watch and enjoy them, but would i send them to a male friend or post them on my facebook with such titles? the message and content of what you say in the videos isn't gender-specific, but often the titles are, just like your newsletter isn't specific to people in the workforce, but the reward to join them was)

[@careercoachmandy]

yeah it's super interesting bc my audience kept shifting, i think in part bc i kept changing my focus. so it was, as you have named, a bit of playing catch up with myself and figuring out the right fit and tone for each stage.

[@rinkuhero]

@ yeah that's understandable, i do think you seem to have got a lot of subscribers relatively quickly, and adapting to that takes time. your videos are interesting and motivational and can help a large variety of people, and having too narrow an audience in mind can possibly slow that growth. like even outside of career counseling, there are people who could benefit from a lot of these videos (like you often talk about how to do creative work, which can be a goal even for the retired who no longer have to work for a living, but want to pursue creative goals)

[@raphaelavianna7110]

I really need this video today, thank you for the knowledge, you are really good at this 🩷