ENFJ Fascinating Secrets (MBTI Personality Type)

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

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[@sambawse]

It's a curse and a blessing being an ENFJ. When it's a blessing, it's euphoric. When it's a curse....it feels like doom.

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Sam Bawse Yes I agree-sometimes it can be quite hard. 😏

[@SPSHOfficial]

Agree. But what a sensation of personnal victory after overcoming a big obstacle !!!

[@Mobilegaming_masters]

True. Sometime it's almost like if I'm high on something. But later on, I get that doomed feeling you're talking about...

[@darkmadder762]

You gotta keep yourself more on the middle or you'll get drunk on your own human connections and itll hurt the interactions

[@davidarden4472]

It’s tough because you feel so strongly about things in your whole body, you have such intense emotions that it can be hard on others because your being demands that it be dealt with and the planning is so true, sometimes you can see red flags before they happen, it’s almost like a movie plays in your head, so you can work things out in advance to get out of a jam, even if it’s one you caused and isn’t until later that people realized you saw something. I also knew the sex of my baby and knew that my girlfriend was pregnant before it all happened. It’s creepy but so cool.

[@jesselee2792]

I smile not for myself. I smile so the world can smile. No matter the pain.

[@lisettemanliclic8317]

ENFJ here. It's true that I am quite private with my own negative feelings, problems, vulnerabilities, etc. So people tend to think that I am always positive, cheerful, happy, etc. and I may appear that way without knowing me on a deeper level. I want to handle the negative things by myself. And true that I am really really idealistic with the world and with humanity.

[@joevaghn457]

Holy cow! You've exposed me! I'm an ENFJ, and I actually appear "stoic" many people.

[@maximinoblas1171]

I'm an infj 😃 hi 👋 everyone

[@44DimensionSeven]

I enjoy sharing certain things with certain people. Having a room full of all my friends I usually withdraw! I never know how to act. Being deep with one person and surface silly with another. I tend to keep a lot private and I'm really open about other things. I have surprised many people with my intelligence who thought I was just goofy. Some people see me as serious and get shocked when I'm in a room and turn into a social butterfly. Being around people I turn off my extremely sensitive nature I can be having the worst time and I'll just smile and forget about my problems because I know this what other people want is a good time but it ends up putting me in a good mood also so it's really a win-win and since I can make friends Wherever I Go I never worry about finding people who can relate to me on different levels

[@samchannie]

YOU SAID EVERTHING. 👏👏👏👏👏 ~enfj

[@stoicstoic1250]

We read people like a book 😁

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Imad Serghini Sure do!! Isn't it awesome? Thanks for watching.

[@stoicstoic1250]

Tams PsychAdvice yes it is

[@understandyourmind]

Yes, agreed

[@JIALINN]

Sure do

[@Chiungalla79]

A little hint: They often dislike if you read it aloud to them. 🤷‍♀️

[@lukehebert8959]

As an ENFJ. I get along with introverts and Extroverts. I love small gathers but I LOVE being alone and listening to music. I can read a room like a book. I agree with all of this. You did GREAT!!

[@theflash5523]

Oh. My. God. How many ENFJs do you know? lol this video is FANTASTIC AND 100% true for me

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

The DJ Hey I get so much joy from hearing how much you relate to my video! Thanks for watching: )

[@stoicstoic1250]

The DJ 4% of the population are ENFJ

[@PowerRedBullTypology]

Imad, is it your real life perception too that 4% are ENFJ's? That would mean 1 out of about 25 or so people? In my experience meeting lots of people who know their mbti, the percentage of enfj's is pretty low compared to types like ENFP's/INFJ's who seem all over the place..

[@truepeace3]

PowerRedBull You always hear about how rare INFJs are, but either they aren’t nearly as rare as believed, or they’re the most vocal on the Internet. 😄

[@JonasAnandaKristiansson]

@@truepeace3 Obviously the 2nd! :)

[@gfresquez86]

This is why, as an ENFJ, I have a VERY hard time with funerals regardless of how well I knew the person. I absorb everyone’s feelings to an absurd degree and it can be awkward to be that devastated for someone I hardly knew. Its extremely difficult to have composure in these kinds of environments.

[@Anne-pd2hk]

I have more than once had to excuse myself to cry in a bathroom during a funeral for someone I didn't know.

[@wdrumz]

YES.

[@moongirlswanderlust]

I’m an INFP and I deeply love you guys... you’re a source of happiness, empathy and inspiration.

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

memeful and no jam INFP pan n Ravenclaw Gosh it feels so good to hear something nice! You’re making me feel very special. I also like INFP’s because they are my calming place. I feel like I can be myself without judgment.

[@moongirlswanderlust]

Tams PsychAdvice thank you so much! you’re so sweet. it’s no nice to hear that ❤️

[@samanthajane11.11]

Im also an infp and my enfj is the best 🥰

[@chasingdharmaify]

INFPs are my faves. ♥️ xo - enfj

[@Nooral96]

We love you too INFP ❤❤

[@jeanilandman2202]

ENFJ here, I seriously wish everyone could understand me like we are described in this video. I often feel misunderstood. I don't like others questioning my motives about anything as I usually mean it well and it hurts to be second guessed. I also see things ahead of time and wish some people will listen especially my family which could save them a lot of heartache. Loves this video. Thanks!

[@antidepresan3394]

We are often alone because of tht

[@Ironaxis2293]

exactly why we try to solve issues caused by others by ourselves secretly coz we know the people would assume and accuse instead of actually solving the issue

[@badbed2202]

You cannot expect people to behave like you do. Each person is unique and you should respect their nature. What you wish for is respect.

[@walkerman2001]

@@badbed2202 two way street though

[@christianwellness4363]

You just described me 100% 😳mind blown / enfj .im definitely a 4. I feel like I'm always changing my moods depending on who im around and pick up the outside energy from everyone else . i feel like a chameleon lol. Great video ! Just subs

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Christian Valverde Oh good! I think you just described one of the best parts of being an ENFJ. Appreciate the compliment.

[@naturallydope6971]

I am exactly like that and right now I'm doing this assessment for the ENFJ for my motivation and workplace class. I do change my mood depends on who I am around I do pick up on energy and it's so funny I have a co-worker was looking kind of down or sad and I asked him what was wrong and he wouldn't tell me but eventually he did he was like how did you know I said I picked up on your energy I could just feel it.

[@maj._07hup]

Yeah, I do that because I don't want to make people uncomfortable nor change their "perfect" perspective of me although it does get lonely knowing that everyone thinks of u as perfect while u see so many flaws within urself.

[@VanNguyen-lu8wj]

Can't agree w/ you more!! I'm ENFJ-T and I'm exactly what she described.

[@amsr6187]

Me too! ENFJ 4w3

[@issacg3050]

I watched almost 30 videos on KZbin about enfj's and this video by far was the most accurate! I honestly couldn't believe that you knew so much about me! I was giggling throughout the entire video because I couldn't believe it, you had such an incredibly detailed description of who we are! The one thing that I struggle with, and I'm sure most enfj's struggle with is the need to have a job that is extremely fulfilling and sometimes those types of jobs don't exactly have the best pay, and since so many people see us as extremely successful people, we kinda feel like we're obligated to make a lot of money so that we can meet people's expectations of us. We have such good people's skills, and creativity, so people just assume we'll be millionairs I think... But in reality, we don't really care about money so much. We'd rather see everyone happy and living in harmony without any troubles.

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Issac Thanks for Making my day I’m so happy to hear that!

[@maj._07hup]

We are so good at hiding ourselves. We show people what they want to see not what is actually going on.

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

So well said! My struggle too.

[@felixssausage6662]

agreed

[@antidepresan3394]

Things are changing for me a bit

[@Nooral96]

So true

[@jassyssecret]

It is a blessing being an ENFJ. This is when you have learned self and emotional control, and also stability. I have learned to never procrastinate, I have learned to get organized, prioritize, and get things done. Scheduling is my best friend, but being spontaneous sometimes, especially during my off days is worth it. Learning balance, knowing and accepting who you are, is the best thing that can happen to the individual with an ENFJ personality type.

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Great words of wisdom!

[@truepeace3]

You just moved into my head and furnished it. Kind of freaks me out. 😂

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

truepeace3 Omg 😮 freaks me out too! Haha 🤣 Thanks for watching and I’m glad you can relate!

[@kevans67]

I thought my endless circles meant I had ADD. Now I know it is just my personality type! My husband refers to it as my "special qualities."

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Kimberly Evans Shank Tell your husband that’s GREAT 😁! I love that.

[@darkmadder762]

Lol this was a phenomenon I would explain to people and they would look like it's strange. But everyone has patterns

[@flipletape9706]

You gave me chills. I haven't connected to something like I have for this in a very long time. I can't thank you enough.

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

somerandomguy Thank you 😊 for taking the to share that with me-Makes me so happy that my Enfj Video resonates with you 😁😁

[@strawdolltechnique]

15 minutes well spent! Most descriptions of the ENFJ types feel very impersonal and distant, but this video felt as if you’ve had a ton of time to interact with ENFJ or have at least studied them/us carefully... And it’s always reassuring when the speaker actually has some understanding of the subject. Definitely will be back for more content, so glad I happened across your channel!

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Karen Corbin Thanks so much for taking the time to comment and for the great feedback--I'm glad it feels personable and relatable! Hopefully I can make another one on ENFJ soon 🙂

[@eynta2]

I feel the same way. Every other video is very impersonal and not correctly portrayed.

[@kelseysewell359]

SHOOK. This lady knows my life 😅😅

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Kelsey Sewell Ha! Ha! Yep I do. Thanks for watching 😀

[@MentalClarity_Hub]

You just made me fall in love with myself 😁☺️

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Whitney Dunn Haha 😂 🤣 Aw that’s so cute! So happy to hear that and thanks for watching 😀

[@3rundisciple]

The bit on working in circles and remembering different things while in the middle of one thing got me 🤣 I’ve never heard that as a trait of an ENFJ, but boy did that nail me right on the head. I think it’s why on a job site, I do well bouncing from one area and person to another, because I like to see how it all comes together and how the big picture gets completed rather than getting bogged down into one mundane task.

[@fifio8655]

Oh how I love hearing about myself haha, spot on.

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Fifi O Isn't it so fun? Thanks for watching and happy you liked 😊

[@felixssausage6662]

my jaw dropped when you mentioned family- this is so accurate- with my family like parents and siblings i’m way more closed off and “cranky” as one would say and i have a hard time showing love and affection and i’d end up pushing them away because it’s hard for me to yK show them love and as for my other family outside of my family (like grandparents, (way) older cousins, aunts, grand aunts etc) i act shy and can barely speak to them and i get intimidated and awkward and they sometimes misunderstand me as rude because of that haha

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

So true unfortunately

[@godmode3611]

You really know our secrets 🤓

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Irving Malcolm Cáceres Ha ha! They are great secrets to have because they help you navigate through life. Appreciate you!!

[@John-ih7gp]

Bro, I swear you have commented on every Myers Briggs video on KZbin!

[@Jan_YTview]

Well described. 😄 I would add that ENFJ have a 'malice meter' . . I have walked away from encounters where the group was charmed by a con artist but I went with what looked to me as the blinking obvious . . con & liar. One nuanced phrase wth a eye look was enough to see the flaw.

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Jan fromOz haaaaaaa!!! Luv this! This is great and one of the perks of being an ENFJ!

[@mars9399]

Oh yes, I can tell immediately when someone doesn't like me from how it feels.

[@truepeace3]

Jan fromOz Manipulative, inauthentic braggarts are my biggest pet peeves. And people who can’t handle a conversation that contains an ounce of depth.

[@louyht7]

I'm ENFJ-T. You truly described me. I love to observed people and their emotion.

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

louyht7 Thanks so much! It's so fun people watching 😀

[@simransaxena1058]

i'm the exact same as u

[@louyht7]

@@simransaxena1058 Oh cool. Can I get your digits? lol

[@D11r41k]

Wow this is 100% me!! Very accurate. I was laughing when you were talking about "working on the documents, and oh, I need to do laundry"😆 Planning helps a lot with that jumping mind of mine!

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Dilar4ik So awesome! Makes me very happy 😊 to hear. Glad you found the chore part funny 😆. Best wishes!

[@AliAkkan0217]

Every word was precise.. down to me picking up mannerisms to collect more perspectives to utilize for predicting future events. I've never had anyone know me to this detail... I'm always in people's heads and I feel everyone's energy and mood and emotions way before they are even fully conscious of it. I'm blown away by your analysis.

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

A A Oh yay!!!! I'm so happy you found my video to be precise. Isn't it fun

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

A A oops I accidentally hit send before I finished. I meant to write isn't it fun to be an ENFJ? And just to think I was so scared to do this video. It was my first MBTI video and I thought I might be laughed at for doing it and I wondered if anyone would be able to relate. I appreciate your feedback it means a lot to me. Keep watching and thanks!

[@AliAkkan0217]

Yeah it's so accurate.. My intuition is almost psychic level and I can never express how I'm able to know people's moods, energy readings, how they think, many steps before they realize it themselves. Every detail of everything is witnessed by me to the very minute detail to the mannerisms in body language. Then I take that and try to guide people to their unrealized potential. What is really important for me is healing the world one person at a time or on a massive scale, having people realize their potential, and ultimately be a support soul. Having researched hypnotherapy extensively, my intuition is backed up by science/logic, plus even more depth of knowing about how people tick. At the cost of sounding arrogant, I will note it is almost a god-like power to know things before they occur, or moreso analyze a person to such a detail that I am able to tell their future actions and the chain reactions of those actions. I hate telling people I just simply "know", but I'm very rarely wrong.. however, when I am wrong, I am not a fan of criticism, but I will swallow it due to having a need to uphold my logical persona I've set as a standard to limit my whimsical intuition. It hurts feeling so much though.. it's painful sometimes. I see a bee with one wing struggling to fly, and my heart aches for hours on end.. I'm an empath too so it's just a blast of feelings and emotions. What really got me is when you noted how I pick up people's personalities and incorporate it into my own when I find it useful to understand or relate. Another thing I'll do is instead of judging an issue from the outside in, I pretend I literally am the person I am helping, then after I understand their pain, I revert back to my mind to analyze it so I can be objective. What is your 4 letters?? very sorry for ranting.. I'm so passionate about self-reflection.

[@payjeitz4380]

I honestly thought I was crazy for years because of how I could read people, turns out we’re just disgustingly intuitive creatures!!

[@owlprincess5242]

All my enfj fam here what’s up!!!

[@annacatarina4310]

Wow!!! Best ENFJ video ever!! This describes me 120%!! It’s almost unbelieveable!!! Thank you so so much!

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Anna Whittlestone Thanks so much and I’m so happy 😃 you found my video!

[@gavincblee]

as an enfj, this is fascinatingly accurate

[@matilda4406]

Yes, they work in big circles and complete big circles. Interesting. Thank you.

[@cassidymonska248]

This has to be the most accurate representation of the ENFJ. I've never felt so understood and so much of this I experience every single day. I'm stunned at how I related to every single point you made, chills.

[@timturner2894]

I continuously am just floored at how much every word she said resonates with me. It’s an absolutely insane feeling!

[@hellopachia]

As an ENFJ this is so so so accurate

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Pachia Xiong I am so glad you like my video. Thanks for watching!

[@scottsoden]

ENFJ's aren't maintainers either. They love new, novel, and interesting. They hate just doing the same thing over and over again. Good stuff by the way.

[@understandyourmind]

I am ENFJ :) Proud ..yes..loads of empathy, deep inner world, extremely strong intuition, need of doing something amazing for the world, friendly, respectful, but not taking a shit from others :D

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Tome Hey Enfj! I really like your description-we should frame 🖼 it-very well said. Being an ENFJ is awesome 😎!

[@AlexandriaMitchell]

It’s nice to be understood, cuz we are rare.

[@samo3611]

Ok this is me 100%. I’ve never really agreed with the general description about ENFJ and felt like I couldn’t relate and was always mistyped. I am so shocked about the accuracy of this!

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Sam O I’m shocked about the accuracy of it too! I was scared to record it. I thought everyone was going to laugh at me ha ha. Thanks for validating that I knew I knew!

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Thanks for your encouragement--it means a lot 🙂!

[@scottsoden]

Interesting that you brought up the enneagram I am an ENFJ and 3. Makes life... interesting.

[@_angelindisguise_]

Thank you for this deep analysis. I just confirmed I am an ENFJ.

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

flo Thank you! I'm so glad You enjoyed my analysis and that it helped you figure out that you're an ENFJ! Yay!

[@MeredithMynroseUniversalHealer]

Loveeee angelindisguise

[@gabrielavargas5775]

Aww! Congratulations! 💛

[@isabelstott9437]

"I feel like I'm always changing my moods depending on who im around" SAME! I am such an ENFJ and I didn´t even realise. Does anyone else find this effects their ability to KNOW they have made the right decision?! I sort of always fear I will miss out, even with relationships x

[@elimwu2432]

Wow!! This was probably the best ENFJ video ever. As an enfj 4, that comment you made was spot on and made me laugh :D are you a 4 also??

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Elim Wu Hi! What a great compliment that you think it's the best ENFJ video you've seen. Yay! Yes I am a 4 too ☺️. It's fun having that combo, isn't it? I'm glad that you could relate to the things said in the video and thanks for the great feedback.

[@elimwu2432]

HAHA i don't know about fun...it feels like i'm constantly at war with myself with wanting to fit in but also being real with myself and other people. People call me trendy but unique. :) I think if you figure things out and do the work, it's a good balance of being able to understand both yourself and other people very well! Do you know if you're 4w3 or 4w5?

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Elim Wu Very good point! Yes I think one of the great things about being an ENFJ is having the ability to be deeply introspective about oneself. Great question and you've given me something good to explore. I've never really thought about if I'm the three wing or the five. I think sometimes I can appear to be the 3 but I feel a lot more comfortable being the five. And that may be because I grew up in an introverted home where everybody had space. How about you?

[@fabiolacanta]

Where did the 4 come from? I didnt see that in my test.

[@yudai112]

Elim Wu true!!!

[@Lily-cl6zk]

This made me feel actually really emotional, like you said, ENFJ’s generally feel like other people don’t understand them! Which is what I feel about most people. All of this was so accurate, thank you for the content 🙏🏻

[@Lily-cl6zk]

Another thing is when you said about sharing deep things with other people, personally I know generally how people are going to respond and don’t like the way that they would respond to it, so don’t share it.

[@timypaul]

Wow man! Unbelievable I can see I'm not the only ENFJ who is marveled by how you simply got in our inner-selves at a profound level. I believe I have been able to accomplish what many will call impossible because I am ENFJ. A real blessing and a curse sometimes.

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

So true! Stay motivated-that’s awesome 😎!

[@adelinas.7335]

Have I met my tribe here in the comments? This is exciting!

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

I think so! Thanks so much for checking out my video ☺️

[@sarahjacob5163]

The thing about the room full of friends made me realize that yes, I AM IN FACT AN ENFJ. Not and ENFP. That's why I dislike having my different types of friends on one place. It makes me feel uncomfortable and not knowing how to act... This is SO spot on!!

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Sarah Jacob I know right?!! I once had a boyfriend’s mother who told me that anyone who wasn’t the same all the time was FAKE. Basically, she was calling me fake. LOL LOL! I beg to differ. I simply like to make connections with all types of people. ENFJs are adaptable and that’s why we get along with so many people. Because we understand them. We know how to put people at ease and we know what it’s like to feel uncomfortable in certain situations. We don’t mind bridging gaps for people. If someone is extremely serious and I want to have a good conversation with them, it may not go so well if I’m acting like a total goofball. But it’s fun when I have friends who I can be a goofball with too. We can change gears and we find the value in people which makes interactions interesting, fun, and varied. And I love that about being an ENFJ. However it IS hard when you’re in the same room with different friends LOL. Now that I understand that, it helps me a lot.

[@sarahjacob5163]

@@TamsPsychAdvice Couldn't have said it better!!!

[@4theloveofAJ2023]

I keep spreadsheets and lists of things I need to do... so I keep on track. When I get overwhelmed... I fall back on lists.

[@rizzaespina686]

yesss! I literally have multiple types of friends and I wouldn’t know how to act if they’re all in the same room as me.

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Me too!

[@Michael-vz3wn]

Well I’m a ENJF-A I love being upfront!

[@maiki5962]

I'm an ENFJ, and I approve this message.

[@tahjaratahj2848]

I just found out I was ENFJ, and at first I thought maybe I needed to retake the test😅 but honestly you've described me to the T, I feel seen and understood. Thank you! ❤

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

You’re welcome Tahjara ENFJ 😊

[@NOPE096]

Why am I tearing up. You're the only person who has ever truly understood me lmao.

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Hugs to you my friend

[@felixssausage6662]

that circle thing is really accurate- i jump from one thing to another rather than finishing one thing at a time

[@quinnabiigail]

Last year i watched this video and it made me break down and cry because it describes me so well, watching it again and it is so accurate

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Aww 🥰 thanks so much

[@seekeroflight3765]

Being an ENFJ, I always look for possible solutions rather talks more and worrying about the problems. Most of the time I feel all my beloved persons belong to me but I do not belong to anyone. My happiness is often found in another mind and heart who I think, I am responsible for. There's happiness that causes my happiness. Sometimes I do feel emptiness although I am surrounded by my own. I think ENFJ is synonymous with the word called understandability. In this complicated mindful world, often people misjudged when ENFJ offers a simple solution to a big problem. It hurts but can not make me hopeless.

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

🥺 Hugs

[@makeyourself1982]

My love a (INTJ) just had me take a couple personality tests and even though I tried to hold back some truths on some tests and was completely truthful on others I came up with an ENFJ personality on every test, so I decided to look up videos on my personality type and this is the first one I watched and you hit ever point on the head I'm stunned.

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

BMC Yay 😊 I'm happy to hear that! I appreciate the compliment. I'm glad your love ❤️ encouraged you to learn about ENFJ. You can also check out my INTJ video--hopefully you will find it helpful. Thanks again 😊😊😊

[@daisyrowser-grier2161]

You said it all. I'm an ENFJ and I analyze everything. My friends come to me for advice because they know I think of every point of view.

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Daisy Rowser-grier It's cool because you're able to give people insight into themselves and their problems that they would not otherwise yet. It's so fun to be able to help people in that special way. You sound like a good friend. PS. Love your daisies! Those are my good luck sign ha ha

[@daisyrowser-grier2161]

Tams PsychAdvice Thank you. Please make more videos about ENFJs 😀.

[@sunsetlife2012]

I resonated with this completely. I think what I do when I share my feelings with my friends is I will share just enough about my emotions for them to open up to me. I truly love helping them because I feel like I can identify. You did a phenomenal job of explaining the ENJ

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

sunset life Hi thank you so much for the compliment! I really appreciate it. You make your friends feel very safe to open up to you and that's always a great thing. Take care ☺️

[@sarenastralis9969]

That big circle usually works well for us. Its how we se.

[@bonniechase8245]

Wow, I feel so seen!!! What we ENFJ’s need to focus on to minimize our codependent tendencies is boundaries; both internal and external. Blessings. ❤️

[@antkitt78]

I feel you on being put on a pedestal.

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Yessss 🙌

[@robburson6761]

"They're walking around inside your head..."

[@lzrd00d5]

You had me grinning as soon as you mentioned our intuitive secret 👀

[@maunder01]

The best and most accurate vid l have heard on KZbin about ENFJ! Thank you from this ENFJ in Australia! 👍

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

maunder01 Thaaaaaank you all the way from Australia 🇦🇺! One of my friends made friends with someone in Australia and he sent her some Vegemite and I got to try it and some other funfun candies 🍭. I’m so glad you like my video!

[@chakkaphak]

you know me .. i loved how you pointed out that we accept people 100%, though people can get the feeling like we are always expecting 'something' more from them. now i'll have to figure out if you're ENFJ because this was so perfect

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

chakkaphak Awww 🥰 Thank you! Yes I am and I was so scared to do this video because I thought what if people think I’m crazy for what I’m saying. So glad I did it!

[@CourtneyShane]

This video is awesome. Thank you from an ENFJ! There is only one thing that I wish...cropping tighter so that we can see more of you! Less bookcase! More you! Yay!

[@rameenkhalid5456]

Oh gosh! I am an 100% real ENFJ and this is so true about me. I always wanted someone to understand me cus I always thought no one could

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Thanks so much and yes I understand you. You are a blessing to the world 🌍😊

[@crystalbush5273]

My only issue with ENFJ's is that just because they can see into others doesn't mean that other intuitives can't see into THEM. I've seen ENFJ's who were Racist, Manipulative & Cheaters with a SMILE

[@blinowski]

Best 15 mins of my Life right now

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Theodor Robinson Awwww thanks soooooo much! Glad to hear it.

[@miza16kim34]

Omgggg with the different personalities with friends thing omggg I’ve been so weird about mixing all my friends together to the point where I become anxious about them mixing because of how different I be sometimes

[@SirenoftheVoid]

Extraverted Sensing is one source of issues sometimes. Picking things up in the material world...can truely overwhelm me,might even be true for others of our type. Seeing too many things to be inspired by.I heard ENFJs in general (including me) struggle with overeating or overstimulation,restlessness. So i learned to practice mindfulness and meditative exercises. I think the reason i became so much isolated,is because of how things just felt like too much.If i am with someone,i just pick up on feelings and become energized in the process.Then i have to let that out,which is problematic if i am not at ease with letting all of it out. But i love making people feel good,if am feeling ok.

[@tbird2952]

Yes yes yes yes yes...on all counts. One thing not mentioned was...people tell us their secrets. Can't tell you how many times someone has told me their deepest darkest and then freaked out saying, "Why did I just tell you that?!" I always assure them that I get this a lot and not to worry bc I have a ton of secrets and I never tell. I tell them that time will show them that I'm telling the truth. And it does. Sometimes it's a burden knowing so much about others. I assume this is part of being an ENFJ-T. Anybody else get this? Also, the part about us hating when somebody is trying to manipulate us. Omg yes! I tell my family, "Just bc I don't say anything doesn't mean I don't know... I always know." Yep, it almost borders on the psychic. Excellent description. You must be one of us. Love your videos. 🙂

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

T bird 🦢 Yes I am one ☝️ I love you. Thanks for sharing your incredible feedback. That’s right even if you don’t Seney thing you do know. And it is flattering that people feel comfortable enough to share what they are going through with us. It also shows what an awesome person you must be!

[@nzchicklvluva]

Haha same!

[@tbird2952]

@@TamsPsychAdvice I have just now read your comment to me. Thank you so much... you're very sweet!! I love being an ENFJ. Having a sixth sense like Intuition is a gift that I don't take for granted. When I was very young I thought everyone had the ability to see and read others so clearly, but was happy to realize this wasn't the case. Knowing what others are feeling, thinking, and what motivates them, helps us to help them....and/or to distance ourselves from the toxic. Every single thing you said is RIGHT ON! It's amazing to hear absolutely everything summed up in a few minutes. I saved this video just in case somebody ever asks me to explain myself 😉. Except for being too sensitive, having too much empathy, getting hurt, and being misunderstood sometimes, I think being an ENFJ is the absolute best! You are an awesomely beautiful intelligent ENFJ and I love you too! 💕

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

T bird 🦅 🦢 🐦 Awwwww I really appreciate your kind words. It means a lot. That’s why I love ENFJs bc you’re so supportive. I love what you said about being able to help people with our gift but also runnnn🏃‍♀️ from toxic people!!!! LOL 😆 We can get so easily drained from feeling other people’s emotions and pain that we really have to protect ourselves. Yes keep this video in your pocket-haha. Thanks again for watching and maybe some day if you have time you can watch my other ENFJ videos. 😁

[@tbird2952]

I am going to watch ALL of your videos! I'm subscribed. Keep up the great work. 😀

[@bert9910]

as an INFP, being around ENFJ's is intimidating as hell, I know they see past what most people see and it forces me to act a certain way, hoping that I don't give off the wrong impression; I get really awkward around you guys

[@betsybrady8520]

Try not to be...we love you guys. So many of my friends are Is

[@tonyaarnett2461]

Trust me just be yourself. I have a infp friend for 12 year's . You infp people help us enfj with your laid back energy and we love that about you guy's. We connect on a deeper level once we get to know each other. Infp suppose to be the enfj natural partner too. Be you ok. We adapt easily because we want people to be comfortable around us.

[@ariesborne7329]

The trick to trying to figure out who you are is to realize you are nothing and everything at the same time. You are a scientist in an art setting and the artist in a science setting. We like to embody or invoke personas and take what we like. We are very good at argumentation because of this because we sense or intuit that we have been this person before and how we perceived the world in that state

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

WOW 🤩! Well said

[@ariesborne7329]

@@TamsPsychAdvice Thank you! I am surprised by how well you know the enfj. Not many channels do that well. They disregard the many sides of us. Much appreciated

[@sharonmyers1265]

I almost hate you. LOL LOL I feel like you've been spying on me. This was 100% on point! That working in circles is hilarious.

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Sharon Myers Ha Ha! I love it! It feels great knowing that you feel so understood and that you connected to my video 😁!! Thanks for watching.

[@Nicole-we9ti]

Hit the nail on the head. Felt like you were reading me like a book. Amazing stuff!

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

N W Glad to hear it! It brings me joy to hear you connected so much with my ENFJ video. Happy happy 😊

[@hsh3104]

It's 0:58 and i already want to like the video :) Edit: it's the most satisfyingly useful video on KZbin .. I've never felt so understood in my entire life. And about the loob till closing , I've always been wondering why no one understands that I must finish every thing that I see in my own order. I'm always told that I remember to do my first job if someone gave me a second one lol. Thanks for your time to make such beautiful video.

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

hiba sh Aw I love ❤️ your comment and I'm so glad my video helped you and that you can relate to what I'm saying. It makes me very happy!

[@timothyyoon7634]

This is so good. I was reading you like a book while watching this. MY TRUE TRUE feeling is that this video is a perfect example of an ENFJ

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Haha thank you so much 😊

[@christirose6813]

"They like closure they like things done, they don't like things open ended". This is very true. This is where if an ENFJ as a follower of Jesus Christ like me, it can be a struggle sometimes to, "wait on God." I find that not knowing what God has for my life next is the hardest part of my walk because of my personality type I want to know what's ahead "now". It's tough for sure and I work on giving over that trust daily but oh, the anxiety and frustration. Thanks for this viseo.

[@useruseruser501]

It's okay to not believe in god.

[@sumaiya9788]

ENFJ here. This lady describing me without even blinking. 💟

[@Universe_Coach]

Too FUNNY 😂 BUT TRUE….funny 😂🤣😅🥰

[@aiswaryag5140]

I always felt i am simple though complicated. Now i understand it's because iam an ENFJ as accurately explained in this video. Very glad to know that there are many more people and I'm not the only one who feels the same and they are called the ENFJs. 😅😅

[@LilikeNel]

holy crap g this is the most accurate video i have ever watched on the enfj personality type.......

[@marialange1464]

Excellent Job! I’m an ENFJ and enjoyed your video. It was 👏🏼👏🏼 Perhaps it can help other ENFJ’s with weaknesses and to USE those Strengths we had darn it! 😂 Thank you!

[@JD-gk7eh]

I think the part about "feeling other's pain" is close but not quite right for the ENFJ type. We are empathetic, yes, but not in the same way as the INFJ, who are similar to us but differ in a very important way. Our dominant function is Fe, which means our feelings are directed OUTWARD into the world and we seek harmony of feeling around us. We sense and feel other's pain but we don't internalize it as the INFJ does, whose Fe is secondary in dominance (Ni is their dominant function). As a result, we detect and sense other's pain but rather than reflect on it, we work to remove it in others and are more solutions oriented with it.

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Justin D. Not trying to be stereotypical--I think what you’re saying is accurate from a male perspective. Testosterone changes things to some degree (I really think 🤔). I started doing a video on it, got scared and erased it. But I might try again. Thanks for sharing 😊!

[@katelynkreis6539]

4:15 is Soo spot on it it's almost scary lol

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

LOL so glad I could make it for you 🤓

[@hallierose36]

Holy wow, I feel personally called out lol I will literally be picking up laundry bringing it to the washer to start a load and oh wait, are those dust bunnies next to the dryer, let me get those really quick...sweep up those and bring them to the trash that’s full, so I start collecting the trash around the house to take out and I’m taking the little bags of trash out of the bathroom...but shoot, someone used the last of the toilet paper, I should go to the garage to get more ...walking past the washer that hasn’t even been started yet and I just laugh so hard at myself!!

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Hallie Rose Ha Ha! You’re making me laugh as I picture you. You are truly an ENFJ.

[@Kooltrex]

This is scary accurate

[@mehmetakif5842]

Hi Tam, it is righ when you say ENFJs pick up a ton of people. I just go into a room an instantly feel the emotions and all the motives, like an X-Ray - actually this leads to much conflict potential but as we ENFJs hate conflict unless it is really needed, we just keep much things in mind and do not share as you said. Yes with much experience you can understand people, but this is differen, it is a deep feeling of a person's whole personality. I am also a vary caring and giving person (unfortunately I have to admit), well this is the other side of the medallion. Greets to the ENFJs out there!

[@100zerubabel]

I’m a double whammy... ENFJ and GEMINI....🔥

[@hallierose36]

Omg, you just explained my whole life! Intuition and constantly picking who I’m going to be in the moment to serve the person in front of me, not even to benefit myself Jesus - I’ve perfected the mask

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Hallie Rose 🌹 LOL! Thank you so much I’m so happy to hear that :-)

[@gyommr]

Yes! Thanks for explaining the intuition side of things! I am ENFJ, and the natural intuition can actually freak ppl out when first meeting someone if we tell them what I (we) can pick up on! Sounds weird, but I can meet someone for first time and instantly know so much about them without asking anything, and even know their interests! Like if they love singing, playing specific instruments, or drawing or cooking or gaming etc. It's trippy!

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

That’s sooooooo cool!😎

[@adityakulkarni126]

Perfect description..... I got goosebumps that how she knows it all 🧐🧐

[@Ironaxis2293]

Now I am fascinated that how Tamara knows so much and not a single sentence said seemed spurious. Oc im an ENFJ :)

[@SundaeBana]

It's fascinating how I may read other people like a book but watching your videos make me feel like you are reading my mind, behaviors and even known me deeply. Thanks for the talk, I might replay it many times to acknowledge more about myself. XOXO

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Mỹ Thuận Trịnh Thanks you For the nice complement! You made me smile.

[@khairunishakhetikheti3273]

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[@khairunishakhetikheti3273]

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[@diplomat2623]

I CAN’T BELIEVE HOW ACCURATE THIS IS!!!!! 😭😭😭😭😭😭 FINALLY SOMEBODY UNDERSTANDS ME!!! Omg!!!! I thought it was just me! I will add this video to favorites! I won’t share this with my friends though because sshhh it’s our secret! But I will share it with my fleshly sisters. Girl hit it right on the head!! Thank you!!!

[@chandlerwolz2438]

When you said we work in circles I’ve never realized, but that is such an accurate way to describe how I operate in cleaning, social situations, anything really. Great video.

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

Thanks 😊

[@sharonherman5052]

This is the best ENFJ information I’ve ever heard. Thank you for sharing!

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

You’re so welcome

[@buzzh]

All the comments are this but seriously you have 1000% described me. Like the part where you explain how people don’t understand us and don’t see how hard we work hit so hard. It’s so comforting in the strangest way. I wanna learn more about it

[@TamsPsychAdvice]

It’s so great to hear. Thank you 😊