ENG SUB【Nothing But Thirty 三十而已】EP40 | Starring: Jiang Shu Ying, Tong Yao, Mao Xiao Tong

[@emonypemony]

Out of all the 3 leads, I think Gu Jia is the strongest but also arguably suffered the most😢 Nini and XiaoQin had their own marriage/relationship woes earlier but seems like Gu Jia had a lot more at risk to lose bc she has her son, all the business assets, etc. It's so sad to think at the start that Gu Jia seemingly had it all but in the end just makes you realize even when a wife does all the best that she can, men will still cheat. I'm just glad that Gu Jia has her 2 besties there to take care of her and that these 3 SISTERS are always there to comfort each other during these challenging times

[@bananaslippers9]

The more you have, the more you have to lose. Building trust is hard, but breaking trust will be impossible to gain back.

[@akmaliafatimah6557]

and she is the least whiny of all 3

[@emonypemony]

On another note, Chen Yu and Xiao Qin's scenes have me smiling so HARD omg the way they have both grown to better understand each other and communicate so well compared to the start of the drama 😭😭😭 lowkey want to see another drama with just them lol. 小芹和陈与 ❤️❤️❤️

[@DarkHeroMachine]

Chen yu had a lot of potential, and the writers have done a great job with him. I remember a lot of people(youtube comments) were bashing chen yu and to settle down with the young guy in the first couple episodes. Delussional viewers living with the moment.

[@lilpopstarr4]

i found them soo annoying before this, but this ep really won me over. Crazy that it just took ONE ep to do that lmao.. but i'm loving Chen Yu's supportive energy and not even caring that she makes so much more than him now, love that he has no resentment whatsoever and is just happy and supportive! lots of men would feel so emasculated after being demoted and then seeing their wife start outshining them!

[@emonypemony]

@@lilpopstarr4 me too! i rmbr u commented saying u hated chen yu (SAME IN THE BEGINNING) but i can see he changed a lot for miss xiao qin and he is genuine about it so im glad for them!!! PHEW its what she deservesss

[@lilpopstarr4]

@@emonypemony ya i really hated how he was just so miserable all the time, and the way he acted on her bday was pretty bad.. and how he treated her cute ass cat!! but then i also found her annoying with all the back n forth. but i like this new take charge xiaoqin!

[@fuchsiafiore]

So cute, I can relate to her saying let s spend some money, my youtube chanel is about luxe fashion somehow I feel thzt we most of us enjoy shopping so much, why men can't understand 🤭😂❤️❤️

[@jamesl9369]

people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.

[@lilmamagc]

whether it be for the bad, or even perhaps for the good.

[@Almei43]

I choose daddy, that way mommy won't leave. That is pretty deep thinking for such a young kid.

[@christianakitcher7656]

The kid is very smart

[@Lalalala-jz3gf]

I’m glad she finally appreciates her reporter husband and that they finally communicate. As for cheater I feel like I don’t feel his sincerity yet , like he’s not at his lowest yet lol

[@harrobye8233]

Dont give a cheater a second chance. Once they cheat they’ll do it again

[@jonyu3597]

Women of my mom's generation were guilted into tolerating cheating husbands ("for the sake of the children"), i hope out generation is different, and Gu Jia understands that she has rights, including the right to be happy next to a man who doesn't take her for granted.

[@mzblue]

Exactly. My mom was a victim too. Still with my dad till date (40+ years of marriage). Sometimes, I wished she had made a different choice because she couldn't forget that shit even though their relationship got better after the affair but at the end of the day, the choice belongs to her. Because of that, I get so sensitive when people tell women to endure their toxic marriage for their children.

[@purpleheart2914]

If Xu Huan Shan truly loved and thought about Gu Jia and his son, he wouldn’t have cheated in the first place. He would have thought of the consequences and how his wife and son would really feel. How can he even ask his wife for help?! He doesn’t have the right!!! 😡 Even if he regrets now, it’s no use. He has a brain. He thinks clearly. He consciously knew that cheating is not good for him and his family. But he still chose to cheat. He doesn’t deserve to stay with Gu Jia or his son!

[@mercye6151]

At first I was hoping gu jia could get passed this so that the mistress won't have the satisfaction of their divorce but after their meeting when he was trying to get you you to leave so that gu jia won't put her in her place, I realized her husband is an idiot and she doesn't deserve staying in a marriage with a man like him. Up till then he was still feeling sad for his mistress pei!!!

[@maewest4192]

Jia’s playing this role. Great actress. Cheaters always pass the blame to the person they hurt. Everything is always about them. Thought her husband was older than 30 acting like a 10 year old without thoughts of the cause and effect of his actions.

[@crestm1384]

Someone needed to slap him a while ago. He would whine and complain any time anyone would want him to take responsibility in his business but he wasn't happy doing designs the way someone else wanted them. That was the whole reason for starting his own, so he could design the way he wanted. Like a spoiled brat of a child everything that doesn't go the way he wanted is someone else's fault. He wants to be told that everything he does is wonderful and if someone doesn't agree they're wrong.

[@harrobye8233]

In the end warrior gu jia still solving this disloyal pathetic mans problems Just let him suffer

[@alefreinar7569]

she would..but her son is at risk, that´s why she accepted to intervene

[@cherryhlub]

If a man or woman love someone so much, he or she won’t cheat. When there is no love, a change of heart will take place. When there is love, no one can change or bewitched by other people’s seduction.

[@sarahgarnett7613]

Sometime men & women start affairs just for the thrill of it , sometimes they also do it just to keep pushing to see how much they can get away with , when there is evil in the world , there will be temptation , sometimes thy have to decide what’s most important to them,,

[@sarahgarnett7613]

Both of them has finally grown up n realized how to communicate w/each other n do things in the correct way. Kudos to them 👍👍👍👏👏👏👏 they finally appreciate each other , sometimes separation is necessary if ppl are willing to compromise n wk together

[@sophiayang1712]

Seeing gujia drinking & suffers made me feel very hurt & sad at the same time.

[@cocoai6587]

I always enjoy the ending of every EP, so healing

[@bridgetkyeibaffour8778]

I break down when Gu Jia said,” I wanted to be his portable charger😭.If you don’t like this,what else do you want?

[@Lalalala-jz3gf]

I’m so happy for that family at the end,they work so hard,now they have a store ,yay

[@ballyjames2904]

Somewhere out there someone really have friends like this amazing people

[@katski6143]

The son saying he'd choose his dad so the mom would choose him and stay with his dad 😭😭💔👨‍👩‍👦

[@bettinaorevil5056]

That’s so sad to hear, my parents divorce when I was 13 I thought it was my fault, imagine a 4 years old. My heart break again

[@Almei43]

@@bettinaorevil5056 Actually, I think the child's comment about why he chooses dad was pretty deep thinking for a 4 year old.

[@fuchsiafiore]

:(

[@coureenlawrence4915]

​@Almei43 It sure was. I would not even dream of thinking that way if i were in his position

[@loannealford1113]

😭

[@Momoko4ever1]

I’m so happy for the family at the end of each ep 🥺🥺🥰

[@fuchsiafiore]

I was gonna say the same thing 🥺😍😍

[@Almei43]

Xiao Qin says "I didn't spend a lot, I bought it online, so I saved money". 🤣🤣🤣

[@andreaacero7640]

I like so much the little storie in the end of every chapter👏👏👏👏.... they also prove a good marriage .... I mean since in every marriage are problems ( economic, with the sons and in the couple) if they take the right way and work together in a teamwork with communication and support .... always be a happy end!!!!!

[@sophiam9229]

The audacity of that cheater husband, for him to say that their son can't have a broken family, he should have thought about it before hurting Gu Jia and their son. To ask for forgiveness, like he did not just hurt but also break up all the of what they have built.

[@jo-anneparsons51]

He doesn't seem to care that she went after their son and the talk at the table he stop his wife from having ago at her so he still has feelings for her let him go and live with her and see if he doesn't end up resenting her more

[@just_a_childowo3855]

“如果我选爸爸的话，妈妈就舍不得离开我们了”，好心酸。

[@SL-ml6fy]

damn this entire arc got extremely powerful and intense.

[@monitachow4621]

I loved all songs in this EP especially the ending one ( love is my best defense) is so touching!

[@Hydrang3a]

The kid is adorable and talented

[@susananderson4093]

Heartbreaking moment when the mistress showed the tattoo- husband is scum! Jia was getting better, and handling it better, until that moment. Awful- actress did a great job!

[@ktp20101]

It's 1 of that little dirty cunning mistress' tricks! She tatooed herself when she got off the airplane, came back to Shanghai the 2nd time. He wasn't aware of. But oh well!!! He's never strong enough to really kick her back to where she came from!

[@shantichristian4204]

I don't blame the other woman. If he's smart enough to lie and cheat, then he should be smart enough not to! He told her he loved her, then rented an apartment for a year...1 year! That shows he wants a long term relationship with her. It's not a whimsy, it's how he truly felt. Going to the mistress, morning, noon, night to "light the fires withing him" have sex, making specialized fireworks for her etc......how can he expect the mistress not to have expectations? It's not only the cheating and lying that gets to me........it's them discussing intimate details about his wife. If Gu Jia is so bad as he claims, the walk away.......go live your carefree life with your mistress.

[@Sven07931]

oh my the family in the ending finally has a fixed place to do their business!!

[@BeautifulThingBoutiq]

Let's just pray that when they become successful and well accomplished, just like Gujian and her Huanshan, there will not be another UU comes into their lives...:-)

[@oktafiatriya6538]

The very last scenes is the most precious

[@harrobye8233]

unrealistic that a homewrecker would meet up with the father of the woman shes trying to backstab

[@Jasmine-zy8lx]

说到烟花那段我哭了， 这辈子才知道， 信任最不值钱， 因为当信任被背叛取代的时候， 真的是一文不值。。。。。。。。希望我这辈子不会那么惨！！！！！！！！

[@elenawong3406]

The sub-story of hawker family is so moving, I had seen this in real life and thank God they have successed and own a 4 story appartments.

[@kstone6014]

Obviously Gu Jia's husband Huan Shan is still fall in love with Gu Jia so much. It does hurt him alot because he did cost his own mistakes was very wrong.

[@wanji14]

The acting in this drama was AMAZING.......Even the homewrecker did an epic job making me HATE her 😂😅

[@meilin8654]

子言太可爱了！这么小，怎么演得这么好呀？

[@boomboomgames8594]

Dude you didn't think about your son when you were cheating ??

[@fleetingmoment]

Who on earth gets drunk in the bath fully clothed? Gu Jia needs to let go and understand that all of her efforts to control what goes around her aren't going to bring her mother back or prevent future painful events from occurring.

[@jizhouluo9429]

小芹这两口子挺可爱的：）

[@akmaliafatimah6557]

the kid actor is so good and so cute

[@ceshacee]

Gu Jia deserves better!!!!!

[@yuandong3310]

现在回头看片头 真是满满的细节

[@anitarichardson1670]

Nothing hurt like when your man cheating on you I been there and done that good for her divorce him I did this show is very good show I love every minutes of it even so painful to watch but many’s can learn from this show if you have happy home think before you cheating no one perfect just talk thing out never lies and be honest to one another you well fine happy home 👏👏👏😭😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@justmeonthebeach]

The saddest episode... to know the pain of Gu Jia...

[@RN-ek9ld]

以前总不理解那些原谅老公出轨的女人，看到孩子说“离婚后选爸爸，这样妈妈就不舍得离开了。”，突然觉得理解她们了…… 孩子真是人内心最柔软的地方...

[@maritzabelrivera1747]

The writer is squeezing my heart , the scene with the child and mom in the bed hits hard 😢

[@sophiedu9793]

正经出轨的时候不想想家散了小孩怎么办，走到这一步才开始想，不嫌晚吗

[@vexpressivo]

Normal humans graduate n travel. They go to Europe. They dont go on fatal attraction bender

[@hindhandouch1599]

Gu jia is an amazing character

[@mar808]

3:00 This home-wrecker mistress is really something. She keeps insisting herself to a married man, disgusting!

[@neiae.s.6445]

Hi I’m here again 😍

[@rachellyu8837]

心疼外公 真心疼他看到顾家这样

[@Jasmine-zy8lx]

顾家： 你哪儿来的自信那？

[@wanji14]

"Take it as my treat" 😅

[@avayang6172]

这集看得好难受！！！我也是有家庭的人，如果我老公这样对我，那种难受，真的想想心就疼的不得了.顾佳已经是特别强大了！

[@yanyanzhang3986]

能够有这么好的闺蜜可真幸福

[@alenafu1812]

就是男人才干那些事儿的😂😂😂

[@xiaohuiji7795]

子言的那段话直接说出了每个父母离婚小孩的心声，哎

[@huonglebui9638]

card in her purse "we have to keep if safe" *put it in his pants pocket * :)))))))))

[@lilianqueen4378]

He never changed... still as selfish as before but hides better.

[@huonglebui9638]

@@lilianqueen4378 yup, hes still very much paternalistic, always talk to her in the commanding voice

[@notalent6258]

Cherry you are so right!

[@maewest4192]

Jia’s son has more common sense than the father. So if you 🤬 your marriage all you had to do is beg the person’s parents to forgive you. No way in hell I would forgive Jia’s husband. He wanted to break her mentally and physically. If he hate all the things she was doing for the family why would he want to stay with her. You can have an affair without discussing your wife and child with your mistress.

[@denisaantoci773]

I can't believe that Gu Jia is going to forgive him...

[@ziweiliao5582]

喜欢依依大小姐！这样的朋友给我来一打

[@justmeonthebeach]

Xiao Qin is funny 😄

[@joycejordan1114]

Help... I don't get the significance of the family scenes at the end of each episode, does anyone know why they are apart of the drama?

[@kdhj88]

It really isn’t a difficult to grasp…and people have talked about it throughout the entire show, lol. Just think 😉

[@joycejordan1114]

I did and thought maybe it's one of the main characters but not sure. since it's sooo simple to u please elaborate for us who don't have a clue.😁 Thank you😊😊😊

[@akmaliafatimah6557]

it's a good karma for Xiao Qin because she is being so generous to give her Rent house to Man Ni without asking for return

[@just_a_childowo3855]

这部电视剧两百多万版权费

[@ralliartduh]

What a despicable young girl mistress character - portraying a very disgusting homebreaker without any of her consequences. I know in real life there are many girls like her.

[@kayland.5724]

Yo What if Xiao Qin's novel is this show 🤯

[@coachkeitafierce3153]

Lolll 🤯

[@yunzhu1115]

真的不喜欢看最后的贴加故事，寓意是好的，但总感觉演的成分太多了，尤其这个妈妈……

[@miaj.1271]

太有同感了！编剧矫情，演员做作，而且与主题无关

[@AdaTheDiva]

So he never changed the door lock even after the divorce? Smh. She ended up changing it. I hope she doesn’t regret remarrying him later.

[@kstone6014]

It is not Gu Jia's fault... Xiao Lin ( UU) is very jealous and treat him very ugly to leave his wife.

[@lorraineyang7374]

钟晓芹才是宝藏女孩啊，随随便便写个小说都赚了那么多～～～

[@angli1054]

养鱼的打扮起来还挺帅

[@TheKaitie2010]

主要是因为高

[@newpixelsapp]

那个纹身贴都起皮儿了… 化妆师...

[@jiachen8353]

哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈😂 我也看到了。

[@soudainambuyi2018]

Oh now he's thinking about his son and a broken family he created You know if your partner is at fault talk to them about it he only brought up the things she did that he didn't like when the chips fall that's pathetic he lacked communication from the get go

[@katrinam6795]

15:04 These two actually make a cute couple

[@helensid6670]

41:20 happy family 40. A store

[@liyuanluo1393]

童谣演的好！ 克制 难受 看得让人心疼

[@ecfire745]

选角导演，给你加个大鸡腿! 每个人都演得很好, 甚至是许换衫，阔太太们都不错。

[@li88415]

这两夫妻都解决不了这小三还需要顾佳爸爸出面？真无语了

[@seacy_Erhu]

卧槽，俩人还聊天式沟通。换是我是家长，我早挠上去了。当街给她扒个精光，既然不要脸就让她好好地体验一下真正地不要脸了。出轨的女婿也要一起收拾了，让他一无所有净身出户，替女儿出这口气！

[@JKLPP]

36:57 这剧里的插入广告也太多了吧，这业配真是见缝就插呢

[@chenshijie2015]

唯品会 我都没注意

[@jlpeng9036]

现实生活中但凡有点脑子的男人在拥有顾佳这样的一个老婆的情况下是不会出轨林有有这种货色的

[@lilianqueen4378]

不能高估这群生物，外面没吃过的屎他们都觉得是香的

[@TheKaitie2010]

Lilian Q 哈哈啊哈

[@jessiek6815]

之前已经婚姻出现问题了 林有有这个就是个导火索

[@whatever9929]

Why didn’t he think about his son before cheating Boys and girls please before making a decision think twice so that you won’t regret after

[@jo-anneparsons51]

Year he wanted his wife to stop as he didn't like you you getting hurt where is his brain she went after the son and I'd doesn't seam to try him I would have bought 2 plane tickets and sent them both away

[@Momoko4ever1]

The home wrecker and the husband are trash, hurting the strongest gu jia 🤬

[@yttikwff77]

那个主管是杨树林？

[@huilinlindalin2896]

好像是的

[@yttikwff77]

@@huilinlindalin2896 查了下，是任东霖，不是杨树林😄

[@huilinlindalin2896]

@@yttikwff77 哈哈哈哈，不过还是有点像

[@JennieN]

That shitty husband is making his wife and father in law taking care of his mess by getting rid of the mistress. What a joke to be a man for him. He have no responsibility, pride, dignity. This is way too embarrassing for him.

[@TheKaitie2010]

承诺最后都变成了讽刺

[@wenjingmu143]

钟晓平应该买新的大的房子，有156万两室一厅可以买下来的

[@wen-yuntsao8518]

醒醒吧，沒有愛情這回事！乾脆點

[@yellowcard6482]

that right he hurted her but i want them back for real this is so sad and the girl you you make me hate her for godness sake if i play the role of her friend there i will go and slap her more n more hahahaahah

[@springroro]

顾佳一定要守住底线‘别吃回头草

[@xiaohuiji7795]

为什么那个浴缸🛁没有自动排水系统，这样忘了关水，岂不是水流一地

[@xiaohuiji7795]

果然流一地😂😂

[@jessiek6815]

应该是那种假浴缸

[@monicani7392]

林有有疯了吗？ 说那些话真的是等着被揍？

[@shifangliu1899]

露个纹身咋就成杀手锏了？没觉得这是笔大帐。

[@AL-cr7uc]

因为他走心了啊 他的烟花也为她设计和燃放过 太伤人了

[@yangjiang6877]

那么多钱不如换套房子了

[@huilinlindalin2896]

人家觉得住的舒服没必要换

[@preciousbell4573]

15:11 living off you NOT living off of you. This is grammatically incorrect and yes even native speakers especially Americans made the same mistake.

[@preciousbell4573]

@@TheIrishAnge I know and it’s grammatically incorrect.

[@preciousbell4573]

@@TheIrishAnge the fact that you laugh probably means you don’t have a good understanding of grammar even though your last name seems to be of English descent.

[@jellyjellywowie]

Not that big of a deal

[@kdhj88]

🍪

[@liyuanluo1393]

三个人对峙这段 可笑