Out of all the 3 leads, I think Gu Jia is the strongest but also arguably suffered the most😢 Nini and XiaoQin had their own marriage/relationship woes earlier but seems like Gu Jia had a lot more at risk to lose bc she has her son, all the business assets, etc. It's so sad to think at the start that Gu Jia seemingly had it all but in the end just makes you realize even when a wife does all the best that she can, men will still cheat. I'm just glad that Gu Jia has her 2 besties there to take care of her and that these 3 SISTERS are always there to comfort each other during these challenging times
@bananaslippers93 жыл бұрын
The more you have, the more you have to lose. Building trust is hard, but breaking trust will be impossible to gain back.
@akmaliafatimah65572 жыл бұрын
and she is the least whiny of all 3
@emonypemony4 жыл бұрын
On another note, Chen Yu and Xiao Qin's scenes have me smiling so HARD omg the way they have both grown to better understand each other and communicate so well compared to the start of the drama 😭😭😭 lowkey want to see another drama with just them lol. 小芹和陈与 ❤️❤️❤️
@DarkHeroMachine4 жыл бұрын
Chen yu had a lot of potential, and the writers have done a great job with him. I remember a lot of people(youtube comments) were bashing chen yu and to settle down with the young guy in the first couple episodes. Delussional viewers living with the moment.
@lilpopstarr43 жыл бұрын
i found them soo annoying before this, but this ep really won me over. Crazy that it just took ONE ep to do that lmao.. but i'm loving Chen Yu's supportive energy and not even caring that she makes so much more than him now, love that he has no resentment whatsoever and is just happy and supportive! lots of men would feel so emasculated after being demoted and then seeing their wife start outshining them!
@emonypemony3 жыл бұрын
@@lilpopstarr4 me too! i rmbr u commented saying u hated chen yu (SAME IN THE BEGINNING) but i can see he changed a lot for miss xiao qin and he is genuine about it so im glad for them!!! PHEW its what she deservesss
@lilpopstarr43 жыл бұрын
@@emonypemony ya i really hated how he was just so miserable all the time, and the way he acted on her bday was pretty bad.. and how he treated her cute ass cat!! but then i also found her annoying with all the back n forth. but i like this new take charge xiaoqin!
@fuchsiafiore2 жыл бұрын
So cute, I can relate to her saying let s spend some money, my youtube chanel is about luxe fashion somehow I feel thzt we most of us enjoy shopping so much, why men can't understand 🤭😂❤️❤️
@jamesl93694 жыл бұрын
people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.
@lilmamagc4 жыл бұрын
whether it be for the bad, or even perhaps for the good.
@Almei433 жыл бұрын
I choose daddy, that way mommy won't leave. That is pretty deep thinking for such a young kid.
@christianakitcher76562 жыл бұрын
The kid is very smart
@Lalalala-jz3gf3 жыл бұрын
I’m glad she finally appreciates her reporter husband and that they finally communicate. As for cheater I feel like I don’t feel his sincerity yet , like he’s not at his lowest yet lol
@harrobye82334 жыл бұрын
Dont give a cheater a second chance. Once they cheat they’ll do it again
@jonyu35974 жыл бұрын
Women of my mom's generation were guilted into tolerating cheating husbands ("for the sake of the children"), i hope out generation is different, and Gu Jia understands that she has rights, including the right to be happy next to a man who doesn't take her for granted.
@mzblue4 жыл бұрын
Exactly. My mom was a victim too. Still with my dad till date (40+ years of marriage). Sometimes, I wished she had made a different choice because she couldn't forget that shit even though their relationship got better after the affair but at the end of the day, the choice belongs to her. Because of that, I get so sensitive when people tell women to endure their toxic marriage for their children.
@purpleheart29143 жыл бұрын
If Xu Huan Shan truly loved and thought about Gu Jia and his son, he wouldn’t have cheated in the first place. He would have thought of the consequences and how his wife and son would really feel. How can he even ask his wife for help?! He doesn’t have the right!!! 😡 Even if he regrets now, it’s no use. He has a brain. He thinks clearly. He consciously knew that cheating is not good for him and his family. But he still chose to cheat. He doesn’t deserve to stay with Gu Jia or his son!
@mercye61514 жыл бұрын
At first I was hoping gu jia could get passed this so that the mistress won't have the satisfaction of their divorce but after their meeting when he was trying to get you you to leave so that gu jia won't put her in her place, I realized her husband is an idiot and she doesn't deserve staying in a marriage with a man like him. Up till then he was still feeling sad for his mistress pei!!!
@maewest41922 жыл бұрын
Jia’s playing this role. Great actress. Cheaters always pass the blame to the person they hurt. Everything is always about them. Thought her husband was older than 30 acting like a 10 year old without thoughts of the cause and effect of his actions.
@crestm13842 жыл бұрын
Someone needed to slap him a while ago. He would whine and complain any time anyone would want him to take responsibility in his business but he wasn't happy doing designs the way someone else wanted them. That was the whole reason for starting his own, so he could design the way he wanted. Like a spoiled brat of a child everything that doesn't go the way he wanted is someone else's fault. He wants to be told that everything he does is wonderful and if someone doesn't agree they're wrong.
@harrobye82334 жыл бұрын
In the end warrior gu jia still solving this disloyal pathetic mans problems Just let him suffer
@alefreinar75694 жыл бұрын
she would..but her son is at risk, that´s why she accepted to intervene
@cherryhlub3 жыл бұрын
If a man or woman love someone so much, he or she won’t cheat. When there is no love, a change of heart will take place. When there is love, no one can change or bewitched by other people’s seduction.
@sarahgarnett76133 жыл бұрын
Sometime men & women start affairs just for the thrill of it , sometimes they also do it just to keep pushing to see how much they can get away with , when there is evil in the world , there will be temptation , sometimes thy have to decide what’s most important to them,,
@sarahgarnett76133 жыл бұрын
Both of them has finally grown up n realized how to communicate w/each other n do things in the correct way. Kudos to them 👍👍👍👏👏👏👏 they finally appreciate each other , sometimes separation is necessary if ppl are willing to compromise n wk together
@sophiayang17124 жыл бұрын
Seeing gujia drinking & suffers made me feel very hurt & sad at the same time.
@cocoai65874 жыл бұрын
I always enjoy the ending of every EP, so healing
@bridgetkyeibaffour87782 жыл бұрын
I break down when Gu Jia said,” I wanted to be his portable charger😭.If you don’t like this,what else do you want?
@Lalalala-jz3gf3 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy for that family at the end,they work so hard,now they have a store ,yay
@ballyjames29042 жыл бұрын
Somewhere out there someone really have friends like this amazing people
@katski61433 жыл бұрын
The son saying he'd choose his dad so the mom would choose him and stay with his dad 😭😭💔👨👩👦
@bettinaorevil50563 жыл бұрын
That’s so sad to hear, my parents divorce when I was 13 I thought it was my fault, imagine a 4 years old. My heart break again
@Almei433 жыл бұрын
@@bettinaorevil5056 Actually, I think the child's comment about why he chooses dad was pretty deep thinking for a 4 year old.
@fuchsiafiore2 жыл бұрын
:(
@coureenlawrence491511 ай бұрын
@Almei43 It sure was. I would not even dream of thinking that way if i were in his position
@loannealford11133 ай бұрын
😭
@Momoko4ever13 жыл бұрын
I’m so happy for the family at the end of each ep 🥺🥺🥰
@fuchsiafiore2 жыл бұрын
I was gonna say the same thing 🥺😍😍
@Almei433 жыл бұрын
Xiao Qin says "I didn't spend a lot, I bought it online, so I saved money". 🤣🤣🤣
@andreaacero76403 жыл бұрын
I like so much the little storie in the end of every chapter👏👏👏👏.... they also prove a good marriage .... I mean since in every marriage are problems ( economic, with the sons and in the couple) if they take the right way and work together in a teamwork with communication and support .... always be a happy end!!!!!
@sophiam92292 жыл бұрын
The audacity of that cheater husband, for him to say that their son can't have a broken family, he should have thought about it before hurting Gu Jia and their son. To ask for forgiveness, like he did not just hurt but also break up all the of what they have built.
@jo-anneparsons514 жыл бұрын
He doesn't seem to care that she went after their son and the talk at the table he stop his wife from having ago at her so he still has feelings for her let him go and live with her and see if he doesn't end up resenting her more
@just_a_childowo38554 жыл бұрын
“如果我选爸爸的话,妈妈就舍不得离开我们了”,好心酸。
@SL-ml6fy4 жыл бұрын
damn this entire arc got extremely powerful and intense.
@monitachow46213 жыл бұрын
I loved all songs in this EP especially the ending one ( love is my best defense) is so touching!
@Hydrang3a4 жыл бұрын
The kid is adorable and talented
@susananderson40933 жыл бұрын
Heartbreaking moment when the mistress showed the tattoo- husband is scum! Jia was getting better, and handling it better, until that moment. Awful- actress did a great job!
@ktp20101 Жыл бұрын
It's 1 of that little dirty cunning mistress' tricks! She tatooed herself when she got off the airplane, came back to Shanghai the 2nd time. He wasn't aware of. But oh well!!! He's never strong enough to really kick her back to where she came from!
@shantichristian42042 жыл бұрын
I don't blame the other woman. If he's smart enough to lie and cheat, then he should be smart enough not to! He told her he loved her, then rented an apartment for a year...1 year! That shows he wants a long term relationship with her. It's not a whimsy, it's how he truly felt. Going to the mistress, morning, noon, night to "light the fires withing him" have sex, making specialized fireworks for her etc......how can he expect the mistress not to have expectations? It's not only the cheating and lying that gets to me........it's them discussing intimate details about his wife. If Gu Jia is so bad as he claims, the walk away.......go live your carefree life with your mistress.
@Sven079314 жыл бұрын
oh my the family in the ending finally has a fixed place to do their business!!
@BeautifulThingBoutiq4 жыл бұрын
Let's just pray that when they become successful and well accomplished, just like Gujian and her Huanshan, there will not be another UU comes into their lives...:-)
@oktafiatriya65383 жыл бұрын
The very last scenes is the most precious
@harrobye82334 жыл бұрын
unrealistic that a homewrecker would meet up with the father of the woman shes trying to backstab
The sub-story of hawker family is so moving, I had seen this in real life and thank God they have successed and own a 4 story appartments.
@kstone60143 жыл бұрын
Obviously Gu Jia's husband Huan Shan is still fall in love with Gu Jia so much. It does hurt him alot because he did cost his own mistakes was very wrong.
@wanji14 Жыл бұрын
The acting in this drama was AMAZING.......Even the homewrecker did an epic job making me HATE her 😂😅
@meilin86544 жыл бұрын
子言太可爱了!这么小,怎么演得这么好呀?
@boomboomgames85942 жыл бұрын
Dude you didn't think about your son when you were cheating ??
@fleetingmoment3 жыл бұрын
Who on earth gets drunk in the bath fully clothed? Gu Jia needs to let go and understand that all of her efforts to control what goes around her aren't going to bring her mother back or prevent future painful events from occurring.
@jizhouluo94294 жыл бұрын
小芹这两口子挺可爱的:)
@akmaliafatimah65572 жыл бұрын
the kid actor is so good and so cute
@ceshacee4 жыл бұрын
Gu Jia deserves better!!!!!
@yuandong33104 жыл бұрын
现在回头看片头 真是满满的细节
@anitarichardson16704 жыл бұрын
Nothing hurt like when your man cheating on you I been there and done that good for her divorce him I did this show is very good show I love every minutes of it even so painful to watch but many’s can learn from this show if you have happy home think before you cheating no one perfect just talk thing out never lies and be honest to one another you well fine happy home 👏👏👏😭😭😭😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@justmeonthebeach2 жыл бұрын
The saddest episode... to know the pain of Gu Jia...
card in her purse "we have to keep if safe" *put it in his pants pocket * :)))))))))
@lilianqueen43784 жыл бұрын
He never changed... still as selfish as before but hides better.
@huonglebui96384 жыл бұрын
@@lilianqueen4378 yup, hes still very much paternalistic, always talk to her in the commanding voice
@notalent62583 жыл бұрын
Cherry you are so right!
@maewest41922 жыл бұрын
Jia’s son has more common sense than the father. So if you 🤬 your marriage all you had to do is beg the person’s parents to forgive you. No way in hell I would forgive Jia’s husband. He wanted to break her mentally and physically. If he hate all the things she was doing for the family why would he want to stay with her. You can have an affair without discussing your wife and child with your mistress.
@denisaantoci7732 жыл бұрын
I can't believe that Gu Jia is going to forgive him...
@ziweiliao55824 жыл бұрын
喜欢依依大小姐!这样的朋友给我来一打
@justmeonthebeach2 жыл бұрын
Xiao Qin is funny 😄
@joycejordan11142 жыл бұрын
Help... I don't get the significance of the family scenes at the end of each episode, does anyone know why they are apart of the drama?
@kdhj882 жыл бұрын
It really isn’t a difficult to grasp…and people have talked about it throughout the entire show, lol. Just think 😉
@joycejordan11142 жыл бұрын
I did and thought maybe it's one of the main characters but not sure. since it's sooo simple to u please elaborate for us who don't have a clue.😁 Thank you😊😊😊
@akmaliafatimah65572 жыл бұрын
it's a good karma for Xiao Qin because she is being so generous to give her Rent house to Man Ni without asking for return
@just_a_childowo38554 жыл бұрын
这部电视剧两百多万版权费
@ralliartduh2 жыл бұрын
What a despicable young girl mistress character - portraying a very disgusting homebreaker without any of her consequences. I know in real life there are many girls like her.
@kayland.57242 жыл бұрын
Yo What if Xiao Qin's novel is this show 🤯
@coachkeitafierce31532 жыл бұрын
Lolll 🤯
@yunzhu11154 жыл бұрын
真的不喜欢看最后的贴加故事,寓意是好的,但总感觉演的成分太多了,尤其这个妈妈……
@miaj.12714 жыл бұрын
太有同感了!编剧矫情,演员做作,而且与主题无关
@AdaTheDiva Жыл бұрын
So he never changed the door lock even after the divorce? Smh. She ended up changing it. I hope she doesn’t regret remarrying him later.
@kstone60143 жыл бұрын
It is not Gu Jia's fault... Xiao Lin ( UU) is very jealous and treat him very ugly to leave his wife.
@lorraineyang73744 жыл бұрын
钟晓芹才是宝藏女孩啊,随随便便写个小说都赚了那么多~~~
@angli10544 жыл бұрын
养鱼的打扮起来还挺帅
@TheKaitie20104 жыл бұрын
主要是因为高
@newpixelsapp4 жыл бұрын
那个纹身贴都起皮儿了… 化妆师...
@jiachen83534 жыл бұрын
哈哈哈哈哈哈哈哈😂 我也看到了。
@soudainambuyi20183 жыл бұрын
Oh now he's thinking about his son and a broken family he created You know if your partner is at fault talk to them about it he only brought up the things she did that he didn't like when the chips fall that's pathetic he lacked communication from the get go
Why didn’t he think about his son before cheating Boys and girls please before making a decision think twice so that you won’t regret after
@jo-anneparsons514 жыл бұрын
Year he wanted his wife to stop as he didn't like you you getting hurt where is his brain she went after the son and I'd doesn't seam to try him I would have bought 2 plane tickets and sent them both away
@Momoko4ever13 жыл бұрын
The home wrecker and the husband are trash, hurting the strongest gu jia 🤬
@yttikwff774 жыл бұрын
那个主管是杨树林?
@huilinlindalin28964 жыл бұрын
好像是的
@yttikwff774 жыл бұрын
@@huilinlindalin2896 查了下,是任东霖,不是杨树林😄
@huilinlindalin28964 жыл бұрын
@@yttikwff77 哈哈哈哈,不过还是有点像
@JennieN4 жыл бұрын
That shitty husband is making his wife and father in law taking care of his mess by getting rid of the mistress. What a joke to be a man for him. He have no responsibility, pride, dignity. This is way too embarrassing for him.
@TheKaitie20104 жыл бұрын
承诺最后都变成了讽刺
@wenjingmu1433 жыл бұрын
钟晓平应该买新的大的房子,有156万两室一厅可以买下来的
@wen-yuntsao85184 жыл бұрын
醒醒吧,沒有愛情這回事!乾脆點
@yellowcard6482 Жыл бұрын
that right he hurted her but i want them back for real this is so sad and the girl you you make me hate her for godness sake if i play the role of her friend there i will go and slap her more n more hahahaahah
@springroro4 жыл бұрын
顾佳一定要守住底线‘别吃回头草
@xiaohuiji77954 жыл бұрын
为什么那个浴缸🛁没有自动排水系统,这样忘了关水,岂不是水流一地
@xiaohuiji77954 жыл бұрын
果然流一地😂😂
@jessiek68154 жыл бұрын
应该是那种假浴缸
@monicani73924 жыл бұрын
林有有疯了吗? 说那些话真的是等着被揍?
@shifangliu18994 жыл бұрын
露个纹身咋就成杀手锏了?没觉得这是笔大帐。
@AL-cr7uc4 жыл бұрын
因为他走心了啊 他的烟花也为她设计和燃放过 太伤人了
@yangjiang68774 жыл бұрын
那么多钱不如换套房子了
@huilinlindalin28964 жыл бұрын
人家觉得住的舒服没必要换
@preciousbell45733 жыл бұрын
15:11 living off you NOT living off of you. This is grammatically incorrect and yes even native speakers especially Americans made the same mistake.
@preciousbell45733 жыл бұрын
@@TheIrishAnge I know and it’s grammatically incorrect.
@preciousbell45733 жыл бұрын
@@TheIrishAnge the fact that you laugh probably means you don’t have a good understanding of grammar even though your last name seems to be of English descent.