Enneagram Type 6 (the Loyalists) in Love or Romantic Relationships

[@fashionforwarddd]

This video is so well done! All of the information is spot on. The number one thing for me in all of my relationships as a 6 are for people to be honest and let their actions match up with their words. I dont fully trust anyone until I see congruency. Also it does take me a while to bring up issues because I want to be sure that I am seeing the situation clearly and I don't want to see like a worrywart that always brings up issues so I analyze a problem to make sure it is actually a relevant problem. After I have done all that and someone dismisses my concerns it really hurts. I had a friend do this to me and our friendship has never been the same. I honestly dont even consider them a true friend at this point but for politeness sake still prefer to them and that when speaking about them. People who are my true friends are always there for me in word and deed and I truly appreciate them for that!

[@jennyannhelms]

fashionforwarddd that makes a lot of sense. Loyalists appreciate care, trustworthiness, and loyalty in others (and I think that’s a wonderful thing). Thank you for giving us more insight as I love to understand people’s experiences and stories of being the different numbers. :)

[@zzloop3699]

I couldn't agree more! It has happened to me more times that I can tell. I feel u! 🤝

[@damianohall]

100% spot on

[@danielcaraveo4844]

Sounds like me. Ima 6 with a 5.

[@truelion92]

Thank you :) What you share rings true for me as 6 and it’s helping me better understand my doubts, and to not take them as a sign that something is wrong simply because I have doubts about it. I will also share this with my partner, thank you!!

[@aniab4306]

I take the test today and I'm a 6w5 and your explanations was really true about me😅👍

[@alisontill7677]

Relationships

[@caysek1280]

I am a 6 & I'm dating a 6 🤦‍♀️. This should be interesting haha.. any advice for us?

[@alejandraochoa6290]

Es el caso de mis papás. Él es contraphobic 6 y ella conservation 6. Tienen casi 40 años de casados, y aún se aman.

[@tellaphon6718]

Conversly.. Could a 6w5 look like a 4w5 too?

[@markc7448]

Jenny, what about comparability between these personalities

[@tellaphon6718]

Could a 4w5 going through stuff, difficulty and difficult-ly end up looking like a 6w5?

[@CaptainPhilosophical]

My question is how do you get through to a 6 who's paranoid distrustful allegations are untrue? It's hard for me to stay centered in compassion when my PARTNER is distrustful and accuses me of untrue things and rebuttals my truth with "Well, you would just ...(fill in the blank with thoughts, motivations, feelings that do not describe my actual thoughts, motivations, and feelings)." Thank you for your time and efforts ❤😊.

[@ashuranero5721]

Satisfy them more in bed, that should help