Enneagram Types: Behind the Wheel

[@carahamelie]

I think it would be really cool to see you guys do a video showing each types internal monologue. It would be interesting because I think some types internal monologue is actually quite different from how they portray themselves through behaviors!

[@EllePlowPlow]

Carah Amelie I really really really hope they do this.

[@christycaison6254]

As a 9 I totally dread the lane merge and literally calculate the least busy way home. You guys always hit the nail on the the head.

[@RachelKamai]

"I'll be a hero and then I'll be LOVED...what?" Why you gotta call me out like that. Lol

[@ginafuller1654]

Please stop being so spot-on for 9’s. 😂😂 You’re giving away my secrets!!

[@leeannpulchny4448]

The simple pleasures of a car nap 🤣

[@alexmagomusume7070]

Right?! Going out of my way to have to avoid people as much as possible! And absolutely getting to work and not having any memory of driving there. Every 9 description is so dead on, I agree. It’s so moving.

[@juliafregoso417]

I must have a strong wing (8) because this time the 9 didn't fit. I never take the same route, and I'm super anxious in the car. J HATE driving, or having people drive me places.....but I very rarely take the same way

[@gracebelle3620]

I bursted out when she said “I get to the building and I have no memory of the commute” and then when she said “it’s almost like I’m suppressing something” I was like oh 👁👄👁 oops haha

[@lisabarrett4956]

right?

[@kibossz9789]

Just give me a ticket so I can get on with my day😂😂😂 Best 8 so far

[@tanishagirl]

Can we take a moment and talk about these girls' acting skills? They are amazing! It's crazy how they go from one personality type to another and sound so convincing in all! Great work! Love the video.

[@lisabrauer_]

Ha! I’m a 5. I wasn’t expecting to be attacked like that, so accurate! 😂 My car is actually my favorite, I LOVE sitting in it...alone 😂

[@robinrubrecht3985]

Tbh, a podcast about the minor prophets of the Old Testament sounds lit.

[@itslaurenehaynes]

facts

[@prettylynette]

I would listen, lol.

[@ANDROMEDAtheartist]

"That broken yellow line" ohmygod I'm dying.

[@belindawillmoth4898]

2: “If you don’t like me, I’ll explode!” 🤣

[@lyd17]

I'm a 4 and I *need* to know what that song was because I felt tears behind my eyes when I heard it LOL

[@jessholtslander]

Lydia Stark You need to check out Kina Grannis! I’m a 1, and she even makes me cry (and smile and feel so good feeling both sad and happy). She’s magic.

[@caitybright1979]

For Now by Kina Grannis. So good😭

[@stephanieh.3812]

I’m a 4 and this comment has me 💀

[@autumnswartzendruber6878]

@@caitybright1979 Thank you. I am literally weeping. So good.

[@mirijmoments]

Hey don't mind me, just a 4 wondering the same thing. 😆

[@Mamafaerie4]

I'm a 4, and I have asked that question in my mind so many times. Where is everyone going? Haha!

[@chloecuttle]

i’m a 9 & i get in the the non-merging lane, sometimes 5+ miles before there’s a merge, to avoid being in anyone’s way. like, as soon as humanly possible

[@ST-ir5vm]

I am not a 9 but I love figuring out pros and cons when I have to make a decision.

[@FaithSongandFire]

"It's almost like I'm... suppressing something." *crickets*

[@itslaurenehaynes]

I feel called out on that one lol

[@FaithSongandFire]

@@itslaurenehaynes Same.

[@EllePlowPlow]

8 here! (Tritype 385) Thats just how us 8’s are! Even with a route I take everyday and I just said to myself yesterday “I really should stop trying to race the time every time I drive”. If it’s a 35 - 60 minute drive, I usually get there 10 minutes before GPS expected me to be there. Oh and road trips? The last one I went on, expected 8 hours to arrive, I got there in 6. 😃😊

[@brandontanis388]

I'm a 5w6 but "beat the GPS time" is definitely my fav travel game.

[@valej9387]

Same!

[@latricerebec]

Same!

[@tanishagirl]

I'm a 1w2 and I must confess I've done it too 🤭

[@Darcella]

I’m a 3w4 but I do it every time. 😀

[@Janeite445]

Right? I’m also a 5w6, but apparently I drive like an 8 😂

[@jessicadequeant6234]

Why am I surprised how accurate these videos are...every...single...time!! Yes, that's me, napping #9.

[@melanygalvez9192]

Well, I’m definitely a 1. If everyone just followed the rules and drove like a reasonable person, it would be much more pleasant for everyone!

[@chanimehlman7925]

I’m a 7 and I actually had the exact thought about a mini van! I was traveling in the US and the cheapest car rental was a van. My first thought was hmm I Duno...doesn’t seem to fun then I realized I could put all the seats down and put an air mattress in the back! What could be better! Haha

[@stbrown08]

I am a 3 and almost choked when I saw the video-yep to the hustles and you nailed the things I either don’t pay for or pay next to nothing for. I begrudgingly admit I am more image conscious than I think I am. You even nailed the conversation in the car- why waste driving time/ at least I can accomplish a couple of calls 😀

[@cameronjournal]

I'm always on the phone in the car! It's a great time to catch up on calls. I had a boyfriend once who called me, "the queen of the phone" because I could do literally anything else and talk on the phone. I'm not so good on all the side hustles but I am very good at getting stuff for cheap or trading stuff for work. I didn't pay for car maintenance for like 2 years because I did part-time work at the shop. I go to Ross, use points programs...the whole bit.

[@Ucircles]

The longer you both make these videos the better they get! Thank you for the laughs!

[@kestrelravensong6056]

I'm a 4w5 married to a 7w6... Our road trips are a sight to see!! And not for nothing, but I think we all turn into an 8 sometimes... Shh.

[@amarahslittlelife]

As a 4 I'm a bit embarrassed to say that when the 5 was talking about podcasts providing knowledge and music being a waste my first reaction was, "k, but what about knowledge for your soul?"

[@lynnegillis8910]

😂😂😂 So perfect! I have a friend who is a 4, and she would totally think that!

[@muteddeer]

as a 5w4, souls are not real

[@Weeping_lover]

​@@muteddeer Yes, they are...

[@emilybarker3240]

My husband is a 6 and walked in the room talking about his tires while I was watching this.

[@milleeheart]

I’m a 2w1.....that 1 wing is STRONG in my car 😂

[@sarahfitzmaurice2541]

When she said “I don’t like to be alone in the car” I really felt that

[@s4rest123]

LOL - now I know why my type 3 SIL always calls me from the car!

[@jessex1854]

your content is becoming even better. always excited to see a new release! thanks guys!

[@bethc8809]

The 1 and the virtues of the car wash subscription 😂 I feel so called out!!!

[@KS-cz9qc]

1, 4, 7, and 8 were my favorite depictions on this video-but all hilarious!! 😄 Thanks for the laughs to finish off the weekend!

[@abigailschick9635]

I'm a 5 and I absolutely LOVE my car! But I tend to ignore whatever music I have playing because I'm so lost in my head thinking about everything I'm learning or want to learn about 😂

[@naturewalkerwindle3011]

Same!

[@Myrtle2911]

9w1 here, but behind the wheel, I'm definitely an 8! Beat the GPS time! Lol!

[@mcCashton]

9w1 total 8 behind the wheel minus the road rage! Got to beat that GPS

[@loref4200]

Oh my gosh, 9w8. Driving is stressful for me. Constantly weighing what decisions the people around me are going to be making. Hyperaware. Trying to be mindful of the people and where they are trying to get to. Highly annoyed at people who don't drive correctly or considerately. Yet, when I arrive at a destination, I question if I drove at all. Inner dialogue: "Who brought me here? Oh, my subconscious. Thank you for taking care of the drive. You know how terrible my Se is". Another great one, ladies. Thank you! 💕

[@RachelSantiago816]

OMG I HATE driving, too!!! I wish I could afford a chauffeur!!!

[@nikkiereagan128]

I’m a 6 and definitely relate to not wanting to get close to empty 😂 If we’re on a road trip and need to stop as a gas station for the bathroom I never fail to ask my husband if we should get gas, even if we’re only at half a tank. Never know where the next gas station will be!

[@lindsaysullivan5730]

I’m a 9w1 but I think my 8 wing comes out when driving!

[@sirrydactyl]

I agree with this statement!

[@burnbabylonburn78]

I think driving is the one thing that automatically brings out everybody’s 8 wing.🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@maryannew1205]

Saaaaaame. I was listening to me. 😝

[@tosetaflame]

I'm a 4w5 and I definitely prefer listening to podcasts or driving quietly over listening to music sometimes. I also love hanging lots of pretty things from the rear view mirror. 😂😂😂

[@jstanthrcatholicgrl]

omg I am the same type and I totally agree

[@lilibetp]

4w3 and I need soothing music.

[@patrarus6097]

Michelle and Leann, you've done it again! Great video!

[@darkphoenix6807]

As an 8, I always use the term “Cupcake” when I yell at other drivers. Like “Move Cupcake! It’s you’re right-of-way!”

[@deannamendoza232]

Love it! I’m a 1 and I literally rant about people breaking the rules of the road every time I drive 😂

[@RachelSantiago816]

I'm a 9w1 and a part-time traffic school instructor, so I do the SAME thing!!! 😂😂😂😂

[@kavenkaven4989]

“Always have to be in control,” as an 8 I- 🥴🥴🥴 I’ve been attacked

[@MorganEileen]

So 5s go to 8 in health... and I drive like an 8; those phrases fly out of my mouth daily 🤣🤣 so that’s healthy, right??

[@Janeite445]

I was wondering the same thing! Perhaps we’re less resourceful than we should be? 🤷🏻‍♀️

[@mmag1180]

As a 5 that's literally what I would do, get to work 30 minutes earlier so I could just sit in the car for a bit before work

[@mkellymay7889]

As a 7, variety is KEY for me! I love traveling different ways each time I go somewhere. Options are awesome!

[@annajoy9359]

I’m a 9, but this definitely highlighted my wing 1. Matched up a lot with that

[@TaraWagner]

As a 4 I’ve often philosophized about how we all just follow the lines, like a herd of animals, mindless being directed around by 3 little lights. 😂

[@amberwefel7561]

Most accurate 9 example I’ve seen from you guys yet 👍

[@colleenmay2856]

As a 4, I always queue up my favorite songs for whatever length of time I will be in the car. I have a different playlist dedicated to being on the road...I like to arrive early to wherever I need to be so I can have some time in the car to sip my tea, read a book, or prepare myself for the stress ahead. Oh and highways give me anxiety so I have to practice my yogic breathing haha. Inhale...exhale....

[@elizabethcochran3395]

Oh man, 1 minute in hearing Type 1 and I was sure they have been inside my head 😂

[@mamaof2528]

Please do enneagram types side hustle!

[@christycaison6254]

That would be good idea. Except as a 9 I would get suckered into all of them and then end up buying everything myself because it's too painful to ask other people to buy things. Lol.

[@chloecuttle]

Christy Caison partially agree, except i’m a 9, and i just avoid all side hustles at all costs bc of my fear of selling things to people and making people do things. but, if i did somehow get involved, i would definitely buy them all myself and go into tremendous debt LOL

[@RachelSantiago816]

@@chloecuttle OMG YES!!! This has happened to me before... more than once!!!

[@lizacavanaugh5959]

As always, you two crack me up! I am a 9w1, but definitely felt the 9w8 side of me in this one!!

[@RachelSantiago816]

OMG me too!!! 😂😂😂😂

[@caitybright1979]

As soon as Kina Grannis went on my immediate reaction was “Well actually this is an incredi-“ and then started laughing because it was too accurate. *FOR REAL though that album is so good

[@matthewaaronallen1598]

I didn't realize that was Kina. Lol

[@bethanyc4221]

I’m a 5w4 but honestly 9 was such a mood

[@larissaburke3290]

I’m a 9w1 but I relate to the 8!🤪 I do weigh out my options on the way to go home though!😂

[@Dani-my3qj]

I’m a 5 with a strong 4 wing, so I’ve done a lot of enneagram research, and I have to say that your enneagram videos are truly the best to ever exist. I love you guys so much. It’s funny because every time I see 4, I feel so called out that I seriously question if I’ve been wrong this whole time and I’m actually a 4, and then I see 5 and I realize I’m definitely a 5. 😂😂

[@rachelbomberger7943]

I'm not an 8, but the, "I always drive, uh-huh, I always have to be in control". 🤣🤣🤣

[@denissealondra8011]

I love the plants!!! #4 here!! 👏🏽👏🏽💜🌿🌱🌸🌺💐

[@clairehindrup]

I’m a 9 and pros/cons lists are MY FAVORITE lololol

[@facesncharcoal4152]

Im getting flashbacks to my two page lists of pros and cons for each college I applied to 👀

[@ciphetrix7872]

Damn lovely video, the squad adored it. Thanks for making this great content!

[@sullysaints2337]

as a 4 im always telling my boyfriend to shhh and feel the vibes of the music

[@ericacopper9906]

You ladies always crack me up

[@syberyah]

Finally! A Leeann & Michelle video where the 7 has tons of food, lol. XD

[@lizardbreathh]

Oh my gosh the 9 😂 I don't always remember my commute either

[@rainbowfishtalk4573]

Hilarious! This was the only one where I didn't relate to the 6 though. (Maybe I'm too broke to maintain my car properly??) My security-focus as a 6 behind the wheel comes out almost more similar to the type 1 - like, the rules are there for SAFETY. I understand breaking other rules but why would you break a SAFETY rule?? That said, I have a strong 5-wing and 100% that was me. LOVE my car for being a roving introversion pod! Love-love-love it. Go driving just for fun all the time.

[@mrs.manrique7411]

So, as a one, my direction of growth is a seven...The seven taking the longer, MORE FUN route is totally me. 😆 At least, when I'm not in a rush, and then I'd turn off all music and distractions and just focus on not rushing too much and ending up in a car accident. 👀🚨🙄

[@Darcella]

3w4 here and you nailed the part about conversations in the car. So true! I don’t have time otherwise!

[@virginiavagt2718]

Fantastic! !! !! Your best yet and I LOVE them all. (Thanksgiving still my fave! but Behind the Wheel zooming right up behind it!) As a 7 always love your 7 and here, "bringing snacks because every trip a road trip" ABsoLUTEly! (I always bring three things w me to the car: purse, small backpack and laptop in bag, OR purse, small backpack and slightly bigger backpack, OR (actually, many variations) What's in them? snacks, devotional, another book, extra ear buds, small modern-day square bean bags (in case want to practice juggling while leaving a parking lot) my memorizing notebooks (counties of Illinois, counties of NJ, countries of the world) pens, my PT directions, note cards (in case get in a giant traffic jam could write some thankyous), bug spray, another devotional, raincoat, gaffer tape, double-sided tape, sunglasses, water bottle, more snacks, and more (everything!) : )

[@Szelkut]

This is such a 7 response!! I love it (I am a 7 too) :)

[@benjaminfast5496]

This is the first video so far where the Type 9 didn't reflect me AT ALL! Yet, the 1 and 8 were a nice blend of what I'm like. I guess I really tug on my wings when I'm driving. I find driving a great way to release my built up anger because I can call people out on their lack of common sense and awareness, and their rudeness and stupidity, and never have them know I was mad at them or have to worry about their reactions. It is very invigorating and freeing. Lol. When someone is driving with me and they witness my behavior they are usually shocked and have to tell me to calm down. Lol.

[@deepwaters7242]

I am a 7 that owns a hula girl, fuzzy dice, and made a bunch of colorful custom stickers for my dash..... And I have an emergency car kit which has overnight stuff + activities. Good job, ladies! Although I would add that 7s need a good sound system also....

[@fionna8259]

I'm a 9w7 but I always relate so much to the 7! I've yet to learn how to drive so I don't how I'll be behind the wheel, but I felt in my soul that "every trip is a road trip, so pack accordingly!!!" YES every time I get on the car, even for an hour long drive, I gotta bring my backpack that contains: 1. At least one snack, 2. My Nintendo DS, 3. Sketchbook and markers, 4. A book even tho I always get dizzy if trying to read while moving, and finally 5. New music on my phone or on a CD in case my phone runs out of battery, yup, I can't be bored for one second, it kills me.

[@drtslim]

Only the types next to us are our wings. There is a tritype theory which states that everyone has a dominant type in each center: Head (5,6,7), Heart (2,3,4), and Instinctive (8,9,1); each of which will have a profound impact on our personality.

[@matthewaaronallen1598]

You actually can't be a 9w7. Wings can only be the two numbers on either side of your number. As a 9, your possible wings are 8 and 1. Your wing isn't necessarily the second highest type you relate to. I'm a 9w1, but I highly relate to the 2, so much sometimes that I question whether I might be a 2 instead of a 9. As the other person explained, there is a tritype theory, and I definitely have 2 in my tritype, but 2 cannot be my wing, because it is not adjacent to 9.

[@drtslim]

@@matthewaaronallen1598 I'm also a 9w1 with 2 in my tritype.

[@fionna8259]

@@matthewaaronallen1598 Thank you so much for replying and explaining! I understand it way better now. Honestly I don't trust the website in which I took the test, is there an official website or one that you recommend? Should I take the test again? I'm really second guessing everything now, I relate to both but 9 not so much as 7, ahh!! 😁😁

[@fionna8259]

@@drtslim Oh wow! Thank you for explaining it to me, I didn't know! I understand the enneagram a little bit better now, as I said for the other person replying to my comment, should I take the test again? I'm worried that I did wrong or that I took a fake test or something 😂

[@brendacoles1983]

one of your best! You two are really funny and excellent-keep it up!,

[@crystalmonroe2621]

I freaking love car maps and hate merging lanes lol ... Great job !!! I don't know why I be forgetting routes so easily but oh well working on it lol

[@emilynicholson6109]

Car naps are the best. Lol. I feel called out.

[@CrandleDo]

My favorite so far!

[@thatscraftable4820]

This was hilarious!!! I've got to admit I'm the I've never been pulled over one!!!

[@sarahc4194]

I love how the 4 thinks the car is for vibing, not driving😂

[@cherylmarie19]

The car nap 😩took me out 😂

[@xyz123ohme]

I’m a 2, but my 8 stress point comes out big time behind the wheel when people are “rude.” 😂

[@tiinat9606]

What is the song played in the car in number 4? So beautiful!! (teary eyed enneagram 2 here...)

[@bethc8809]

"for now" kzbin.info/www/bejne/jqrSq6qficSnea8

[@TheWhiteRabbott]

Will you do a video on the different types packing for vacation?

[@micheleinclan2063]

Heard somewhere that 9s might have the most road rage and I feel that -- an opportunity to express your anger somewhat "anonymously."

[@RalphAnthonyCBasco]

Oh wow! I'm a 5 and I make every minute of driving time count by listening to podcasts or audiobook. I also tend to find a more secluded parking spot!

[@birdseyeviewfamily]

I’m a 5 and I LOVE my vehicle!!! It’s my favorite place to be. However, music is my thing while driving. No talking, just turn it up and get lost in the music! I’m also a bit of an 8 while driving. Probably because I’ve been married to an 8 for 12 years and he’s rubbed off on me. Hahaha

[@annahobson1265]

2w1 and the two especially was so great 🤣

[@tanaphelps1552]

I’m a 2w3 but this is where the arrows really show for me. Apparently driving is stress for me because I am alllllll 8 in this video 🤣. & a bit of 3 using my drive time to check in with people. Multitasking!

[@432HertzStreet]

'Tons' is a little vague for a 5 ;) also 5s are extremely talented behind the wheel, their mind allows them to be pin point accurate - unless thinking too much ;)

[@joaniejorash7201]

I'm a 1 and that blinker line really spoke to me lol. You ladies are so fun and creative.

[@thechelseapeck]

Haha dangit! As a 5 I was grateful that I could take a course on driving instead of paying a ticket because I enjoyed learning all the driving rules.

[@lynnegillis8910]

OMG you ladies are the BEST!!! This is hilarious! As a 3 w2 I can kind of relate to your depiction of the 3 (and it's super funny!) - but I have a hard time relating to the emphasis on material status symbols. I wonder if it's because the core motivation for my workaholism is that I want people to appreciate ME as the one that can produce amazing things, regards of what it takes? So it's less about the material trappings of my hard work, and more about my specialness in being the one that can produce more/better than anyone else. The other piece of the 3 (at least for me) is that the condition of whatever material things I do own means a lot to me - only as it reflects on me. So for example, I would never in a million years let someone in my car if it weren't totally clean and nice - but it doesn't have to be completely perfect if it's just me. I couldn't bear the shame associated with having someone think less of me if my car were dirty. Same thing with my house. It doesn't have to be perfect when it's just me there - but if I am having people over, you've got to know that I am ironing napkins and putting fresh flowers out and cleaning like a banshee... because my house is a reflection of me. And I couldn't handle it if people saw the "real" me (I hope that makes sense!). This isn't in any way meant to diminish any of what you do for the 3's... I totally get that there are 3's out there that may be super materialistically focused... just wanted to give you another angle into the mind of a 3 (scary place to be sometimes!). :-)

[@stbrown08]

I am a 3 wing 2 and you nailed exactly how I feel. If I am embarrassingly honest, I am not a luxury item person- but will brag about bargains. Confessions hurts 😀

[@corotoney17]

I’m a 1... and I speed. But everything else is spot on. 😂 my husband is an 8. We drove to visit his mom 10 hours away... with kids (5, 2, and 4 months) and with stops we made it in 9 hours and 45 minutes. 😂

[@anival9576]

I'm a four and I don't like to drive because I don't like being cut off from my environment. There's too much responsibility for maneuvering and storing a car that sucks away the experience of living. There is something so visceral about walking--or taking public transportation for that matter--and, bonus, it's better for the environment. Unfortunately, owning a car is kind of a necessity in most parts of the U.S. One of the things I love most about living overseas is not owning a car.

[@muteddeer]

I'm a 5w4 and the thought of driving overwhelms me and I'm literally terrified to do it. I did well in my class, but I seriously DO NOT want to drive.

[@heatherbryant4197]

Same here. Mostly afraid of hitting someone else and that feeling of panic when forced to make a snap decision in a split second. But people who take the responsibility seriously ultimately make better drivers. You just have to get used to it until it starts becoming muscle memory. Not sure what your MBTI type is, but as a 5w4 there's a good chance you have weak Se. Practice makes perfect.

[@vanessaserna8404]

This 6w5 identified wayyyy more with the 8 🤣🤣🤣

[@Coolman13355]

"Just write me a ticket so I can get on with my day."

[@llamasugar5478]

I hung on to my last van until it had 287K miles on it (hoping for 300K). The fan didn’t work on the heater so there was no heat when I was at a light, the rear door would go on random strikes, and a bit of the frame broke off when I had to jack it up to change a tire. I still didn’t want to get a new van because I *knew* my old one and knew what problems to expect. Can you guess what number I am?

[@TheHappyLifeWithLess]

I’m a 9 but damn I connect with 5s so much hahahaha

[@kathyshogue2149]

Oh my. I’m a five too, and that is SO like something I’d do!!! My favorite tv shows are documentaries! 😂😂😂

[@Altro218]

Nailed it!!! Amazing

[@itslaurenehaynes]

wow. I really be driving to make sure I don't make other people have to speed up or slow down around me lol except my wing 1 won't let me go over the speed limit

[@MJKT95]

I’m a 4w3 and my dad, an 8, taught me to drive. The 4 and 8 are crazy relatable.😂😂

[@doctordeathdefying132]

I have fuzzy dice in my room and food in a bag that I carry around 🤣- a seven

[@caffeineman72]

The more I watch enneagram videos the more I am convinced nobody knows what a 9 is really like.

[@juliafregoso417]

I'm a 9, and sometimes I wonder where xyz and came from, or react differently that I'm expect. hmmmmm