Why Are INFPs EFFORTLESSLY Cute?

[@icandraw1397]

As an INFP, I learned how to lie, I used to be a lot of these traits but I think society is having a bad influence on me.

[@yeshacroe9354]

Me too, and its haunting me right up to these day, i was like things would prob be less problematic if i didnt lie in past. But then, i am scared. To avoid such possible scenario is to stay put and be away from individuals who could possibly bring up that side of me. Its not even their fault too offcourse, its just how their experience drive them to be someone capable of being critical all the time and i have to lie to avoid the criticism and achieve a peaceful state that will crumble down when they found out i lied. Hays. Life is pain

[@IAmConsecrated]

I too, got lost in the path of my honest self but i got tired lying eventually, it's just not my nature i guess so i got tired, got up, stopped caring ,went back to being me and just ignored people when they say smth bad abt it. I was actually quite shocked that my life was more peaceful when i learned how to not give a 💩

[@ChikinNuggz119]

Same here man

[@purple_sapphire]

​@@sashasreverie733I feel you 🥲 I miss those time where I can be genuinely silly and not care about the world and make my friends laugh from my silliness. But then, one event happened, and I forget how I did all of those genuinely 😢

[@Zanroff]

Lie about what?

[@AnikaAmlani7]

"the happier they become, the more unusual motions they show" loool how is this so accurate

[@domilontano]

I'm an INFP, and everyone always thinks I am flirting with them, when I very much am not.

[@lanalvr2413]

LITERALLY LIKE IM JUST NICE PLS 😭 I like to compliment ppl a lot

[@bres.4806]

Yes.🙄….feels like you literally can’t be nice to ppl.

[@АннаСтрищенко]

Same situation. 😅

[@paulanderson2963]

In my case it's even worse I've been accused of love bombing people lol. I just genuinely see each individual human as their own separate work of art and when I meet those who I really resonate with they are viewed by me as absolute masterpieces despite their flaws and I will just start gushing on them. Couple this with the fact that I get infatuated very easily it only makes it worse. I do understand the vast difference between infatuation actual emotional deep connections though so I do not run around believing I love all these people who inspire these feelings in me. I just allowed infatuation to run its course and eventually it passes.

[@domilontano]

@@paulanderson2963 Sounds like you have an enormous heart. I sometimes get into trouble this way as well. I'm more of a quiet person, so I'm not usually the one gushing, but I often find myself on the receiving end of this. I can't do aught but reciprocate, so this can lead to problems sometimes.

[@key5270]

Lmao the confusing vocabulary is so true. I once misused the word "bl*wjob* to describe a whopping uppercut move of a movie scene that I was narrating to my friends and they went all dead silent. Everytime I remember that moment I just can't help but cringe and wish for my demise.

[@Masked_SVincent]

😭 me too tho

[@svtcarat6386]

Same here😢 I once was describing a scenario to write about with my friend where there’s a gangster group taking over a school, and I wanted to explain how they abruptly attacked the class with a bang instead I used “gangb*ng” and I am still thinking she might’ve thought very weirdly of me like how does she know this word 😭

[@oof5732]

God me too 😭

[@kindbho5033]

Me too💀

[@anahgram432]

Omg same! Apparently, it was when we're watching boxing on TV with family.

[@kpfern2337]

I have been told that I'm adorable sooo many times. Sometimes it frustrates me, especially when I wanna be perceived as mature!

[@borisunterwurzacher8230]

Indeed😁

[@addicthomie]

I get you i have the same situation i don't want to be seen as weak :(

[@addicthomie]

@Kevin Zhang In my example i have so called Babyface. I look young and my eyes are very expressive people think it's cute and I'm short in another words I'm screwed.

[@mariamoldovan3724]

We Infp's Are Childish Some Of Us But I Totally Get U

[@kazeryu17]

@Kevin Zhang I personally believe "cuteness" is an evolutionary trait that originates from societal needs of mutualism. When something is cute, it sets off signals in the beholders brain that that thing is not threatening and can be trusted. Most people automatically get a desire to befriend a cute person or animal. Domestic cats, for example, have evolved to be cute because it benefits them. Japan, China, and other asain countries use a lot of cute/kawaii images on signs because it catches people's attention. INFP's like myself have a natural desire to be noticed and understood, as well as a desire for mutual relationships, and cuteness is something that helps us get those things.

[@edward1857]

I find INFP cute simply because of myself being drawn to them out of curiosity to whatever an INFP does. I can't help but smile because it's authentic. The girls are cute to me, the guys are cool to me. I have the urge to preserve and protect such a person because they are so rare at being themselves, and that's awesome. -ENTJ-A

[@antoinettenovella1630]

Love your perspective. Thank you. Love your super charged energy and ability to do anything you set your mind on.

[@edward1857]

@@antoinettenovella1630 I appreciate that complement thank you, and I'm sure and know you can do the same. INFP's are the complete opposite, and especially from my Te to your Fi (my inferior function) which makes my type curious about your type. I don't know why INFP's stand out to me, their work, their designs, their look at the world, but I bet it has something to do with my inferior Fi. I want to bring something in mind about your MBTI as an ENTJ. Your type is probably the most liked, where mine is probably the most disliked (it comes with the big personality type - territory. A gift and a curse), but it's strange both our types have common issue where we want to be understood, both our types don't conform to crowd, and we both walk our own paths to our own interests and values. That is so cool/cute of them. That's where am drawn to INFP's, because for some strange reason, they can walk pass easily through my 'walls' by an INFP being authentically themselves.

[@IAmConsecrated]

​​​@@edward1857 I'm happy that some entjs actually like infps because, for me personally mbti is a good way to improve yourself and to know who you'd get along with but many people say that a certain mbti type cannot get along with this certain type because they're the opposites or something else. i respect it but i personally believe that any type can interact and get along with each other with the right communication and with understanding. I believe that they can all get along once there is maturity in mindset. Even though the way i speak and act are childish most of the time, my mindset is more mature than people my age. and i think that's why i get along with everyone even though i dont talk to them much. For me, maturity plays a big part on getting along and understanding the types and/or perhaps its just a human thing. -infp 6

[@Capyrate]

Thank you for your refreshing point of view. 😭 So often have I seen people with your type just plainly state "ew hate INFPs" and okay? That's kinda rude- You don't see me claiming that ESTJ or ENTJ scare me and I therefore hate them ALL because I had like two bad interactions with someone. 😔 So really, thank you, your comment made me happy. 😊

[@edward1857]

@@Capyrate it is their authenticity. I naturally dislike people who can not be themselves or lie. An INFP is authentic flawlessly and it leaves me curious to the reason why.

[@Memistical]

INFPs are my favorite type. I love how honest they are, and their ability to just not care about what other people think is respectable. Their creativity and ability to get trapped in their own mind for so long is very relatable. Honestly, INTPs and INFPs are such an underrated duo. -INTP

[@mia_f]

🤭 as an INFP you INTPs are my favourite too

[@Datsyoashley]

As an INFP with an INTP bestie I couldn’t agree more

[@inkamerikagirl2732]

As an INFP with and INTP sister.... I AGREE WHOLE HEARTEDLY ❤

[@ardidsonriente2223]

We do care about what other people think is respectable. We just care more about true than about respectable.

[@TealDiamond42222]

Aww thank u

[@3hpwarmupmonster173]

As a male ENTP I’ve been really crushing on my cute female INFP dancing partner. She is not interested but I really have a hard time getting rid of the feelings, since she is so cute.

[@aynurturker657]

So cutee, how did it go :D

[@nicoleestigarribia3131]

As a female INFP with an ENTP male friend, it is nice to hear you liking her, it gives me a bit of hope for myself :)

[@Cuteemogirl94]

​@@nicoleestigarribia3131you need help with signs if he likes you? My husband is ENTP, we have two little children ❤, we are a super great team, especially if it's about parenthood or coming up with new ideas~INFP

[@hatedkid5808]

i'm an INFP and I was deeply in love with my ENTP best friend for years, who wasn't interested. a few months ago things changed and he confessed he was in love with me and we're in a really happy relationship right now. i just love that guy so much.

[@Bella_wella]

this is true especially for the more younger versions of infp but when we grow older sometimes we become more stoic, less cute and dreamy. We still are genuine etc. but other aspects come with maturity and a change of perspective

[@DamyanTenev]

Cute is tge last word someone will tell me.i dont performe societaly and my face is stone cold psychopathic

[@bayanbishara6666]

I feel that, until I met someone who gave me safe space to be myself and eventually I started to opwn up again

[@ajahgase4790]

True. When people starts to call me cute that is when I know I become comfortable with them.

[@Robidu1973]

I absolutely can relate to fumbling with words. The more people who are present or the more pressure someone is putting on me, the worse it gets.

[@AJTheShawg]

Literally! and also, Everytime I say something to someone, my voice gets a little ‘mumbly’ and other people would just be like, “What?” And my voice gets quieter every single time xD

[@CountryFrenchyBoy]

I'm an INFP and I can relate to every single saying in this video... In a way it's cool that I can easily gain people's trust. But on the other hand I'm a 27 yo male and would like to be taken more seriously and not always be the "cute guy"... It's pulling me back in romantic relationships as well as in my professional environment...

[@Robidu1973]

One thing that's making me really uncomfortable is getting lots of compliments heaped on me. Always makes me want to vanish into thin air... Greetings from a fellow INFP.

[@CountryFrenchyBoy]

@@Robidu1973 yeah, you never know how to answer. "You're so cute/nice!" "Errr... Meow?".

[@Robidu1973]

@@CountryFrenchyBoy Exactly. But then people (especially Sensors) get miffed, because you are hesitant to react to their compliments, making things even worse. Sensor: "Well, you didn't react to my compliments!" I: *wishes to be somewhere else or even nonexistent*

[@ShadowAlex]

One piece of advice that I've read/heard about when receiving compliments is to simply say "Thank you" and then move on to a different topic. Though I will say that knowing this advice and remembering it when you need it are 2 very different things. Someone: compliments me Me: ...uh...okay? Meanwhile, my internal emotions: PANIC!! -fellow INFP (Though I admit that my Thinking score is kinda even with my Feeling one)

[@IAmConsecrated]

​@@ShadowAlex same, its like i know how to respond but once im in the situation it feels awkward -infp

[@helenayeba]

As an INFP, although I have been told by others that I am cute many times, I have also heard plenty of times that I am weird, nuts and sometimes intimidating when it comes to my eyes. Maybe it is due to the fact that I do not always have an eye contact with someone, but trained myself to look somewhere at the forehead, but not quite and at the same time, I do not listen to everything that is being said and just stare at someone or something on the person, that paired with my so-called "dreamy eyes" my face becomes blank easily and I've been told that it is hard to understand whether I am present and what I am really thinking of someone. Which most of the times, I don't even think of them, but just get lost in my fantasies and thoughts.

[@innnn663]

i get the eye thing totally! 😂 in school, people always were intimidated by my eyes; especially constant blank stare and "death stares", even when I'm smiling or speaking normally. -- a fellow infp-t

[@helenayeba]

@@innnn663 oh, I remember so many times I've been asked not to do the "death stare" while I was spacing out💀 One time one of my classmates said I was too creepy and asked me to move to another floor. I was like, girl, this is ridiculous🥸

[@tinaranathania]

this is me lmaoooo

[@etherberry]

That's like a one-to-one description of my INFP friend/crush lol - INTP

[@m_justnotleest]

When people say something like I'm "crazy or a wallnut head" I find it funny cause I do see myself as a crazy wallnut head (⁠灬⁠º⁠‿⁠º⁠灬⁠) and I enjoy being like one

[@INFP-Turd]

No wonder types such as ENTJ’s and ENFJ’s are the ideal matches for INFP’s: They wanna protect and preserve this rare and adoring cuteness from the world they don’t see as often and perceive it as true, authentic INFP self and they only want it for themselves and why they would do anything to keep them safe and lovingly defend for them. And as an INFP myself, that’s the ideal partner for me imo. It’s so damn dreamy and well, if I’m being honest, an extremely attractive attribute!

[@addicthomie]

That's why I hate being infp two days ago i heard that i was cute because my eyes are very expressive or something like that ugh

[@addicthomie]

I'm so jealous of entj and enfj they are confident smart practical i feel useless as a infp 6w7

[@uwumarii]

I'd love to be with an enfj but not with an entj. They're too intimidating and can get too controlling

[@IAmConsecrated]

​@@addicthomie im an infp 6 with balanced wings Dont worry and i recommend not focusing on others because once you focus on yourself and your self improvement and especially if you're honest, many people will see you soon for who you are. not just the cute side of you (though i dont think its bad)

[@killme5630]

​@@addicthomie bestie, as an infp, you CAN be commanding, once you work on that te. Infps have strong values, so they arent some puppies, they will be curt and blunt for what they belive in. I am infp and i do most of the speaking for my friends, am the leader of my group, and one of the out spoken people in my class.

[@J-Earthling]

The simplest joys. Yes! I get excited just by seeing rain. I took the test not long ago and found out I was an INFP. Girls have called me cute before because they thought it was cute how I talked, or they thought my blue eyes were pretty. And I'm always fumbling my words. I have horrible social anxiety though, so when I talk, the words come out fast. Too fast! Yup, I'm a nervous INFP.

[@kerstingravel8160]

Getting exited by seeing rain is so adorable 🤗. I can understand this too 🙋🏻‍♀️ INFJ

[@leipzigergnom]

An INFP who got hurt by others may attempt to hide negative emotions from others in order to avoid conflict. In my case, I don't outright lie, but I strategically hold back any opinions I have that might offend or hurt someone else. I do this to avoid conflict with others, my main source of anxiety.

[@minjenifer7]

I can totally relate. I always try to start my opinion with "Yes, I understood. But that may not apply to everyone..." with a playful manner even though they said something outright stupid or offensive. 💀

[@patu5956]

GOD! I wish I could say things on face to everyone! 😭😭😭😭 -fellow INFP

[@Whyareyoustalkingme123]

Do you think you would stop hiding those feelings and thoughts if you felt safe with the other person?

[@lightyisreal]

@@patu5956 I can relate so bad 😭

[@rip_centis]

yes thats what i do too

[@blueapple5274]

As an INFP, I love making other people and whenever I dont go to school, My friends send me all kind of messages saying things like "School was so boring without you" "tbh the school was so boding today without you", I really love when they say that, It makes me see how much they appreciate my presense

[@lailanitukuafu]

I have been told that it's satisfying to make me laugh. I also do notice that I sometimes laugh first or louder than other people. I don't love being called cute, but it just happens

[@SeelenTaucher]

Mature pure INFP Souls are Like Golden Hearts. Warm, shining, honest, deep, lighting the World. 🌍💖🌟Thanks 4 Being U.

[@azizulfikri8392]

You know for a fact that as an INFP, we would never admit that we're cute. I do however get along with people easier despite my reclusive hobbies ie reading, gaming etc

[@Bbcka]

Compliment I often hear "You smile with your eyes." 😆

[@toad4112]

Yesssss

[@jessicacn9289]

Yes 😂

[@desertbloomke]

I agree! My sister is an INFP and she is so cute❤! The hobbies she has, her quite attentiveness to tiny details, her crazy ideas and fantasies, the way she laughs at my weird jokes...all cute😊✨️

[@Vladyyy]

Awwwww, oh my gosh 🥹

[@Tynuki_Kabuki]

The last one was so spot on I LAUGHED-the amount of times I’ve accidentally either made puns or double entendres is to the point where it’s become a weird talent of mine without meaning to- I either catch myself a second later or I figure it out from how my friends just started dying of laughter and I retrace my steps back to what I said. 🤣

[@grayclo3234]

Well i rarely ever heard someone calls me cute or adorable. But, i feel the people around me being soft with me. Like, they can yell at a person beside me but when they talk to me they were really soft about me and carefully ask me what i need

[@Lisa-qy5qz]

I can relate to this so much as an INFP!! Amazing video

[@anivijudi]

I think we're actually very good liars we just really dislike doing it. But when it comes to hiding parts of ourselves, or protecting aspects we're not ready to share it's something that comes annoyingly easily (for some reason, I feel the need to hide some things that I rationally know no one would care about, but I'm just not ready until I'm ready...), that includes lying for people we care about. In high school I would cover for my friends on a regular basis and their parents believed me (on the other hand if I'd thought for a moment my friends were getting themselves into something dangerous I would have been the first to tattle if I couldn't drag them out of trouble myself, I think the parents knew that about me and it's why they didn't doubt me). The thing is I hate how dishonest I am about myself to others, and as a result I am scrupulously honest about everything else in my life, maybe that's why we come across as very sincere even though we are capable liars.

[@thanseelabeegum5229]

Not me being dramatic and cutee while listening to this 🥹🤧 and yes my friends often told me that I'm cute 💕

[@GSyokichi]

This video made me smile a lot as an INFP because even though I've gotten the opposite reaction from most people because of these traits, they would normally assume that I'm just trying to get brownie points when I compliment them, or that I act too cringy for being so excited, or I laugh too hard.. Etc. :( I grew up shy because of it, honestly. On the brighter side, I actually find that the ones who stuck around (AKA the very few friends I have in my life) are the ones who can see this traits as a positive and absolutely love me for it. My fiance being one of em and he's an ISFJ through and through.

[@kaylabrock6885]

I do these things, no one has ever thought of them as cute or said it was or even hinted at me being cute. I have been told I am intimidating and come off as cold sometimes; harshness of the world has made me have a hard exterior.

[@IdkWutShutIDo]

That’s so true 😢

[@bubblysharkie123]

Because people only like lies and percieve the truth is harsh

[@Bella_wella]

@@bubblysharkie123 infp just seems aloof in their demeanor, we're usually stuck in the clouds and a lot of us don't usually express our emotions upfront because it's simply complicated. At least I find myself having trouble expressing certain fields of my emotions . ofc simplier emotions like joy are easier to communicate especially with friends.

[@milim7809]

The same

[@isabellebaker109]

Deadass today I asked my teacher "What is the number of the day?" He looked at me puzzled, "You mean, the date?" And I realized just how alien I must sound. 😭👽

[@I-am-soihau]

STOP THIS IS THE MOST RELATABLE THING I'VE HEARD BC TODAY I WAS ANSWERING MY TEACHER ON WHAT CONTRADICTING MEANS AND I SAID IT'S THE OPPOSING TO THE SUBJECT OF THE MATTER OR SOMETHING LIKE THAT AND GAVE ME A WEIRD LOOK AND CALLED ON SOMEONE ELSE

[@bayanbishara6666]

this video just made my day a 22yo INFP girl who's healing back to her authentic self

[@mathiascorner]

Thanks to the 3500+ subscribers! We're grateful. ❤️

[@ariesfairy4444]

thank YOU for putting out these well put together infp videos! they help me understand myself more so thank u for this content💕

[@SeelenTaucher]

Now Congrats to 5000 💕😘🥰🎉

[@Nezumi-kinoko]

As an INFP i relate to pretty much everything but with the time I kinda have enough to never be taken seriously, so me joking about a lot of things kinda help with my coping mechanism being joking about every bad things that happens to me , so it’s helpful lol

[@cjclementine434]

Boy howdy I related to this list!… but it felt like we were only speaking of happy, healthy INFPs. Things ain’t nearly so cute when we’re down on ourselves…

[@Interestking]

Yeeaaaah... unhealthy INFPs are NOT fun to be around. -an INFP

[@creceda]

Agreed! I find the greatest pleasure in the simplistic of things because I have and still do feel the other side of happy. (Understatement). Like I can feel all the hurt others feel in the world.

[@angelarads]

I'm an INFP - A & it almost feels like we're big dreamers, always in our own dreamland, saying the most creative & deep things that get people thinking. Super talented, big visionaries yet humble & kind. I lowkey feel like we're typical Alice in Wonderland. Enchanting, angelic, dreamy, optimistic, highly creative. Like a combination of virgo & pisces :)

[@patu5956]

THANKS❤❤ - FELLOW INFP

[@KimVoThien-gb7gh]

I feel so related to this! And plus I'm also a Virgo with Pisces rising so it's even more accurate 😆 though I am an INFP-T hehe

[@Riya-yh6wk]

I'm an INFP and the giggling is very accurate I've been told that I'm cute alot and that often confuses me so thanks ❤

[@SuperSusieBell]

So like me. But I’ve been corrected time and again for what I am naturally and that’s very frustrating. I want to shut down as not to embarrass myself but that only leads to self doubt and ghosting people.

[@daemilee1497]

So meee

[@hannahhannah5742]

People always called me cute, especially growing up, I'm small in stature and have what people call a baby face. This really annoyed me as it felt like I was underestimated. Now my boyfriend calls me cute which hits differently because he has never underestimated me and it's just a way he tells of his love for me. So I guess context really matters

[@acutelilmint8035]

The comment section stories are hilarious. Here’s mine : I use to have a folder called xxx . It was just an easy way for me to see the folder. Well, my friends saw that folder and started going WTTTTTF “ you keep that on your desktop?” I was wondering why it was a big deal.. They opened the folder and they started laughing so hard. It wasn’t pron… it was a folder full of cartoon bullet trains 😅😅😅😅 and sanrio😂😂😂

[@sn0wfa11s]

ME TOO LOLLLL i put the number 18 in there for important links after becoming an adult but i got the weird look and afterwards i realized why they asked 2 times if i was sure they could look through my laptop 😭😭😭

[@creceda]

OMG, I can’t stop laughing. Soooo something I would do. Yep.😅😂😂😂

[@Amradye]

Omg we’re just a bunch of golden retrievers in a human world 😅

[@greatwavefan397]

I thought the golden retrievers were ENFJs

[@SLiceOfFun1994]

I think we're more like Corgis 😂

[@WhyYoutubeWhy]

@@SLiceOfFun1994 Nah. Cats.

[@vtechvsmile]

​@@WhyKZbinWhy definitely cats

[@czeianamiguel5543]

We're like capybaras to them apparently XD

[@renatayuuki5705]

I will literally touch grass when I'm outside or play with any bug I find and collect rocks because I like rocks, people either think I'm cute or that I'm high AF but that's how I am I like focusing on small details and prefer nature than materialistic interests I often get compliments for my outfits and fashion style and I just blush and thank them I really wanna start a conversation with those humans but I get shy, I'm told I just look eccentric and caught their attention but I just dress how I feel like but that also leads me to feel that I'm a creature that doesn't fit in with the rest especially in formal fancy environments From experience ISFJ's and INTP's are cute too

[@husnaliyana8393]

You sound like an isfp tho Idk about other infps, but i don't think infps are in touch with the sensory around them as much as isfps Or this could just be me in denial cuz i thought i was isfp when it's actually infp

[@oof5732]

Local INFP is called cute and gets so excited they run into the wall.

[@lifeofalurker]

Who says we wouldn't run into the wall anyway?

[@Cherry_Blossom_Lane]

I always run into things, I'm distracted most of the time 😅

[@seon...8267]

As a 15 year old INFP I truly agree with your words. I ofen being called cute by my school friends and family. This video makes me sure that why my friends ofen staring at me smiling.😊 Thank you for your video!🫶🏻🎀

[@neneyashirothegirlwhoevery8022]

As an INFP I've been called cute/adorable and few times but its not often. I get embarrassed my compliments extremely easily and because I don't get that compliment often It catches me off guard 😭😭😭

[@nica_rui7128]

Yes same here.

[@myraromasanta]

ooh.. I never thought that it was an INFP trait. I said something (i forgot what it is) last week during our break and my colleague can't help laughing. I asked her why and she just said what I said is funny. The negative side of this is when my social battery is super low and I don't engage in conversations they assume that something's wrong with me. Because they persive me as a "fun" to talk to person, they expect me to be that everytime.

[@racheldiane3229]

Lmao feel like a bit of a narcissist watching this like oh you think I'm cute? Tell me more

[@oxiras8898]

While I've never been (that I can remember, or happend regulary) commented to be cute, appearance or habits I have however been complimented of looking young. The one who was off the most was off by 15 years. I couldn't help to smile at that for several months.

[@howtonameit3635]

My crush is an infp and she is the cutest,coolest and the most awesome person in the world

[@izarandomstranger6096]

I think enfps are better. Ive only met one before but hes the best guy ive ever met:)

[@mat3372]

I am always kind and nice to everyone, I can't help but be nice, and so I often think, "Will they see me as dumb and naive and lacking in personality?" I know, I have social anxiety, if any infp has been able to overcome it.... Explain how!!!

[@Tinuviel788]

I know the feeling. If you can, please stay nice and kind - it takes a lot of strength and courage in this world🥰As for your question, if I may... Practice. Take it slow. There will be lapses. Try not to dwell on them. In my experience, what helped with my shyness was simply... first faking it. Smiling, approaching people, taking the initiative of complimenting their outfits (if you are a guy, that can however be tougher, from a girl people generally take well to it, though you still do meet jerks), using humour to break the ice. At first it was really tough. But I discovered that with doing these things routinely in certain settings... it helped. It became easier. Same thing with phone calls, for example. I still don't like having to call anyone I don't know, but thanks to practicing, I can do it, much more easily than I would ever have believed. Basically, cliché as it sounds, the more you do it, the more desensitized to it you become. It becomes manageable. I'm now routinely working with crowds of people - something I didn't think possible before. So yes, it can be overcome, at least to a great extent. You just need to give yourself time to recharge your batteries afterwards, because it may be taxing. But - you can do it🌞 You'll see. Best of luck to you!

[@ericb8413]

INFP here. Ive had many people tell me their deepest secrets and say they feel they can trust me without knowing why. I take that as a compliment because I would never betray their trust. Has anyone else experienced this?

[@CorviOSC]

OH MY GOD FOR REAL!! everyone trusts me with everything, it kinda feels so surreal

[@en_ace_gene]

I don't know their deepest secrets or not, but they know that I'm loyal

[@cytroy]

oh my gosh this is SO true i didn't even know i was doing this but at the beginning you sure nailed it with not wanting to have relationships like that I usually prefer to be alone and think to myself (and sometimes talk to myself to lol)

[@pascalelandry8630]

I was at the bank the other day being not satisfied with a situation, and the 3 women employees were smiling at me and one of them told me : you're cute!

[@quackimaduck9036]

UUUGH words frustrate me so much! I'll say something that makes total sense to me and then when someone has to rephrase it I'll go "that's what I said!" Just today my sister mouthed words at me too fast for me to understand her. So instead of telling her to "mouth her words more clearly" I told her that she needed to "learn to enunciate her fake words"

[@heatherlikesmusicals8018]

This made me cry in a good way

[@jaemsardine]

this is so infp LMFAO

[@grendelsmama2302]

Being cute was awesome in my teens and 20s BUT now I’m almost 40 and isn’t that great… 🤣

[@SLiceOfFun1994]

True. A lot of people keep saying I'm cute and look innocent but since I'm almost 29, it's not a good look anymore because we're supposed to be mature at our age lol

[@CB-dy1he]

This so much! I’ve come to realise that people often perceive me as younger than I am, so when I tell them my age they look and act awkwardly towards me. I’ve always found this weird, because I was being myself and not intentionally acting in a certain way. But they suddenly get this look in their eyes or their demeanour changes as if they’re sizing me up and don’t know how to categorise me anymore. I’m in my mid-thirties and this happens in interactions with people of all ages. I blame this reaction for the primary hurdle of me not being able to make friendships easily, it feels like a curse 🙃

[@bebelife]

Whenever I'm sad I went here to comfort myself. Your videos makes me smile and made me know myself more. NGL

[@therakksoldier1770]

I love this video and it helps me feel good about myself and my INFP quirks.

[@therakksoldier1770]

I am INFP and my ENTJ Girlfriend thinks I am adorable and am the best and that makes me feel happy. 😊

[@TheRealbboysplash]

I'm also an INFP male and I love ENTJ females!

[@Dr.MuthuKumar]

Wish I could know more - male infp here

[@TLists]

I grew up in a nice area, but the school I went to was in a rough area. I didn't realise till later my tougher friends were being more caring with me than with other people.

[@hellopaulie]

Yes, and the fact that I am short and physically cute added to it. As a young adult, I had a problem being taken seriously. People saw me as very childlike. Now that I'm middle-aged, I don't mind being perceived as cute. Beauty fades with age but you can be cute as an old person.

[@harukazeeh]

I've been thinking about this lately. I like cute things and sometimes do some cute gestures although I'm not cute and it doesn't fit me. I'm thinking maybe it is because I like anime, k-pop groups and I'm youngest in the family that's why I act cute sometimes. I have overflowing feeling when I see something I find super cute! I usually hide these feelings and just let it out online T_T. People see me as snobbish and serious person but when they see me with close friends they would be surprised and will say they didn't expect that I can be talkative and funny.

[@Flogrog]

as an infp, this video gives me such a confidence boost.

[@XanRants]

was curious as to why this is the most common compliment i get. thanks!

[@iri.seren1ty_]

Finally finding out why I've been called "cute" all these years, interesting :p

[@fxrii.h]

As an INFP.. everything you said is so truee!!! I've lost count of how many times I've been called "cute" and "adorable".. 😭

[@sockatoo_]

i didn't need to be both called out and complimented at the same time today thanks for the mood booster though lmao

[@jenniferpazmino7139]

OMG!!! This is SO ME!!😆

[@pascalelandry8630]

Me too! 😁

[@yellowswallowtail33]

Perfectly correct. I love my infp tribe🦋

[@user-of4kk4in9f]

Seriously when I said I was so flexible I could put my legs behind... anyway it wasn't an invitation ok! I just didn't realise until it was pointed out to me. INFPs have no guile!!!

[@infpreflections]

We are adorable. And we have a good heart. Thanks for the video.

[@chillylilly3754]

Those videos make me feel understood and that feels really good

[@Lutomoria]

Been called weird. I don't recall being called cute.

[@SceneStealer1]

OMG I do make weird movements especially when happy or engrossed in a story!! My whole face tells you everything you need to know. Yes, I love the simplest things.

[@snehadas3984]

I'm an INFP.. Thank you for this video ❤😊

[@ms.d8104]

I’m an infp and I relate to all of these traits. I try my hardest to hide them and be mindful of what I say and do but the more I try the more I fail.

[@moongrffn]

This video made me smile for all the INFPs out there♥️ Maybe there is hope for me somewhere..being an unhealthy INFP sucks, and i don't even have a reason to be it. I think something wasn't installed right with me

[@Cherry_Blossom_Lane]

As an INFP, i can confirm the laughing thing. Im always finding something funny and can never stop laughing even when everyone else stops and the room gets serious. I MUST CONTAIN THE GIGGLES! 🤭😅🤣

[@bjornf8518]

I often get told that my eyes look extremely intimidating when I get angry; my brother even told me that my passport photo looks like a demon. Not that I was angry when I took it, though.

[@suraya_]

the laughing thing is so real, and it doesn't help that I cry when I laugh (my whole family is like that, I'm not sure why) so on top of laughing at every small thing, there's tears spilling down my cheeks. at my last part time job (in fast food), there were so many instances where my coworkers made me laugh so hard I was full on crying, and I had to talk to customers at the drive through window looking like an absolute mess 😂😂

[@KimRayGina]

4:00 I always have 90% of billshit thoughts until I find the 10% of good ideas, then people call me smart or creative, I always think “well you haven’t heard the 20 things before that thought”

[@AshLee92490]

I just had an incident this morning at work. I had just worked an unexpected double(evening & overnight shift) while being my first day back to work from my 3-week vacation (I hadn't had any vacation in two years and decided to disappear for three weeks lol). I was super tired this morning getting ready to leave and tell one of my individuals to clean up their mess in the kitchen, their coffee mug & empty "Stevia" packets (artificial sweetener)... I, unfortunately, pronounced it as sativa, and realized that I pronounced it wrong in front of everyone when he corrected me and said "Stevia". I said confusingly said, "Wow. I've been saying it wrong this whole time? This is why I try not to say words. Then what's 'sativa'? Is that a type of medication and I saw a commercial on it or something?" (I had just administered medications like 10 minutes prior). Completely forgetting that I wasn't by myself for a split second. I realized I said it out loud and went back to the med cart, still confused on where I knew the 'sativa' from. Everyone else was wondering why I hadn't left yet to rush home and sleep, despite already been relieved from the shift an hour prior, after working an unexpected double (honestly, I had initially stayed to help the morning staff because I had dozed off during the overnight and forgot to do something and overcompensated doing a bunch stuff to help get their shift flowing because I felt bad, even though one of my supes had came in extra early to help already). I simply just stood in front of the med cart, Google'd on my phone to figure out where the hell I knew the word from, and immediately mentally facepalmed myself... I realized "sativa" was a type of cannabis strain, kinda like a "good mood" booster, usually smoked during the day, while "indica" is more for deep body relaxation (there's also hybrid strains). I smoke hemp (I prefer it to marijuana, especially for more frequent uses)and have used sativa when going hiking or having an anxiety attack (I use indica to help me fall asleep because I struggle with it so much). My supes was in the room and I remembered that he was no stranger in the culture of blazing from a random conversation like over two years ago when he pretty much excitedly implied it and it always stuck in my head, especially on how he kinda just openly and casually said it in front of his subordinates in the middle of work lol. I looked over at him to see if he understood my mistake. He was sitting with his back toward me, but in my head, I just imagined that and mentally facepalmed myself again. I finally decided it was time to go home, grabbed my laptop case and went to my car. Then I ran back in to grabbed the random prepackaged cold Starbuck frappuccino he gave me earlier. I just mentally kept going back and facepalming myself, thinking about the whole thing the 15-minute drive home 🤦🏾‍♀️...

[@Jasurinrin]

I always don't like having the spotlight💀

[@nerdexproject]

OMG!! Finally a video that addresses what I was thinking the whole time!! I am an INFJ but I am suuuch a sucker for cute girls (cute girls are really the best girls!) and my past two gfs were most likely INFPs and recently I crushed on another INFP girl (she's one for a fact, she even got me into MBTI)! It's like, I love them for their cutenes way too much but hate the relationship bc at some point they become avoidant and instead of resolving an issue become distant which absolutely eats me from the inside as an INFJ. I HAVE TO resolve interpersonal discord or I can't bear the pain. So they are the poison I love drink, I guess. XD (No offense~ ^^)

[@KimVoThien-gb7gh]

ooohh, I understand the "avoidant and distant" part. While it might vary and I can't talk for all INFPs, but on my part, I tend to process my own thoughts and emotions alone first, so I usually cry and express them alone, privately. I would still talk and communicate and resolve the problems afterwards, but when the emotions are erupting, I wouldn't want myself to possibly hurt someone, even unintentionally. So, plus INFP's natural quiet and aloof nature, this looks like silent treatment or purposely shutting people out

[@milkoruu]

Im an INFP many people have been telling me that im cute even if i dont try, honestly i was clueless why until i saw this video popped up alsoooo everything that was mentioned is so TRUEEE

[@aubrey44444]

People confuse cuteness with weakness sometimes. Feel the need to tell people to treat me respectfully too often.

[@Floral_skies2727]

Extremely accurate 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭, I swear my whole life is being told to me, if u were to see me in person this is the EXACT stereotype and like it’s so revealing. YES IMMA CHILD AT HEART, YES I LAUGH OMG OMG. I’m so done. I still come back to this because of how everything is me. I come off as polite, friendly, smiley, and dreamy 😭. Yes I do get excited over the smallest of things!! Omgggg 😅🤍🤍 YAYYYYYYY!! Edit; I may appear as one way on the surface but I have a lot of layers to me. I’m not a ditzy airheads, nor am I gullible. I process things with careful depth, so that’s another fun fact :)

[@miajati4232]

as everyone is here, i am an infp, but to be honest, i hate being ‘cute’ i admire the really badass people but i get treated like a complete baby

[@patrick-aka-patski]

Sometimes I feel I'm actually the cutest and this video also made me very happy.

[@inixxy12]

This is all so true!! However, as a 23yo, sometimes I would like to be taken more seriously.

[@VoltocityGEL]

The algorithm seems to think I’m an INFP, and I certainly related to a lot in this video. I hesitate to call myself INFP though because every time I’ve taken the test I’ve come out strongly with the INF traits, but very close to the middle for P vs J.

[@en_ace_gene]

Same, I'm INTP ( T and F often changes), but some qualities of INFP and some of INTP are mixed in my character

[@MJane-sensei_darlins]

I have a scary face but when people get to know me, they say im actually cute and wholesome but if they dont know me, cute is definitely not on their mind

[@I-am-soihau]

3:58 this reminds me of so many moments but the one that sticks out the most was in the sixth grade cycle course for theater the teacher had on the do now "what falls but never gets hurt" so I raised my head and said the first thing that came to mind..."dead bodies" the entire class laughed and I was confused so I laughed too then realized 30 later about how funny it was and tried not to laugh then bc I'm so goofy fr Edit: also one of the first impressions a friend gave to me was running up to me, squeezing my face, and saying that I was so cute. I HAD NO IDEA WHAT TO DO I WAS LIKE "uhh...thank you?" LIKE WHAT DID I DO LADY I JUST MET YOUUUU

[@andrewfields4516]

Thank you for this video Corner. Made me feel very good inside.

[@riakare5663]

As an INFP girl with an INFP boyfriend i can confirm everything

[@kazeryu17]

I'm an infp, and woman tell me all the time that I'm cute, although men tell me that I look intimidating and angry.

[@Cherub.Covers]

As an INFP i have said way too many emabrassing/ weird things that if taken the wrong way, can lead to some very weird glances. I remember i was rambling on about something and then my friend looked at me weird as I was like "what?" and he just was like "did you listen to yourself?" Cue the laughing and embarrassment XD

[@tobefly8514]

I speak 2 languages (English and French) and it makes me relate so much more to the fumbling over words ! I sometimes have a sentence in English in my head and want to say it, so I try to translate it, but most of the time the words comes in the wrong order, or it just doesn’t make any sense!😂 Or also, when I’m talking sometimes people look at me like 🤨 and I just say « well, I know what I mean » because I can’t express myself correctly 😅😂

[@celeste3495]

I speak both French and English too ! But I'm still learning English, and I relate a lot like since I decided to learn English my thoughts are also in English and it's so hard sometimes to translate it in French

[@brucemcclelland904]

One thing we (I) do is laugh out loud at subtly funny lines or scenes in a movie or play, that most people in the audience don’t get or don’t want to laugh at for some reason. I used to get embarrassed, but now I just realize I’m quicker to laugh than most, and as a writer, I’m always tuned into a writer’s subtle humor

[@en_ace_gene]

True, I always wonder why others don't get jokes quickly

[@deatheth5039]

Can I send this to potential boyfriends? 😂 Tbh I don't think I am perceived as cute but I have poor understanding of how others see me 🤷‍♀️

[@manucherian2901]

I'm an iNFP and I told a preplanned lie for the good of a person with predetermined to tell truth of the lie by end of the conversation but forgot and later managed to tell her the truth about the lie as its been bothering that i have left a lie untold as it is..:P

[@tamistone2632]

Yes, completely!