Enneagram Types During a Breakup

The 9 personality types get dumped, breakup, and go through heartbreak. 💔
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[@trinaq]

Poor Type 6, she needs all the reassurance and comfort possible. She's definitely an ice cream and movies type of girl.

[@AbbeyHowe]

She needs her support system 😢

[@archivist_of_dragonstone]

Not Type 1 me immediately blocking his mom, his sister, his grandma, his high school friends, his college friends, his coworkers, and anyone else remotely associated with him on social media. XD

[@LapisGamer0500]

I totally get that! That's what I did when I went through my breakup! Both my 8 and 1 wing convinced me to completely cut any ties whatsoever to her including any form communication!

[@LottsOLuvv]

i love how these are kinda like stress path vs growth path versions

[@Pinkywinkykinky]

I knew 9 would just understand thinking they aren't dateable enough anyway -me an so 9

[@Pannenkoekenplantje]

Type 7w8: even though I'm the one who was dumped, I'm determined to have much more fun than my ex being single! She's going to regret this break up in a month, mark my words! She is, I won't believe anything else!

[@MorgueInTheVoid]

Type 9 hit home SO hard 😂

[@Lensssss1806]

Type 4 is way too accurate😭😂

[@KairaisnotaLiopleurodon]

I am crying laughing with this one 😂 phenomenal writing and acting 😂🤌🏼

[@AbbeyHowe]

Thank you!! Glad it entertained you

[@donnarowe8618]

Yep, Type 9 is me in a nutshell!

[@trentmacdonald6283]

hopefully Lemon can weather the shifting personalities you embody while filming😮😊

[@AbbeyHowe]

😂😂😂 he doesn’t care as long as I throw his ball and give him treats

[@kittylover2508]

My ex and I stayed together for six more months, because he said no when I tried to break up with him. He's an 8 and I'm a 4. :(

[@AbbeyHowe]

Oh my 😅

[@sofiyaserj2553]

Oh Wow🤣😭 as a 4 feel you💔❤️

[@LapisGamer0500]

I recently discover what it's like to have your heart broken, and i can definitely say that it is absolutely the opposite of a good time. I recently was forced to break up with my girlfriend because her parents were extremely against us dating, they were extremely narcissistic, emotionally abusive and just toxic in general. Not long after that my ex-girlfriend who i thought loved me started flirting with other guys and pretty much even bragged about it. It turns out that she never actually loved me and that she only loved me for the attention. I'm a 9w1 btw.

[@alexkay6676]

I think I know how you feel. I was in a relationship that the day after we broke up, she slept with someone. Absolutely crushed me. She then came to me for comfort afterwards because she wasn’t proud of herself.

[@Pfeifjr]

I’m a type 6 that just went through a break up a couple weeks ago and that was totally me until I decided to break up, then I went full fledged counter-phobic six.😅

[@AndreaS-kj4rb]

That's how the 6 works! I kept wanting to break it off and he kept saying how different it would be.. good thing was the change didn't wobble

[@not_gracee]

type 2 is so me 😭I literally did EVERYTHING for my ex but he broke up with me because he said he could “sense that I wanted more emotional closeness and he couldn’t reciprocate”?? like bro bsfr 🙄😐 I was so mad because he literally made it sound like I was high maintenance and was asking for too much 💀 When I could NOT be more chill… and I literally wrote him all those LONG ass paragraphs (I took 2 hours to write one) and made him playlists, bought him gifts and made EVERYTHING about him. there was almost nothing more I could have done (I’m still in high school so) ☹️ My mum told me that maybe I was doing TOO much and that scared him away 💀 Maybe tbh and I also dropped the “I love you” way too early 💀💀💀 Idkkkk 😭😭

[@timhrim]

How have I witnessed all of these in real life @.@

[@AbbeyHowe]

😂😂😂😂

[@btetschner]

I have never watched any videos from this channel...but you are VERY good-looking...almost too good-looking.

[@MichaelSuperbacker]

1.9k views … this video deserves 1.9 million! New subscriber! 👍 amazing video!!!!!!!

[@KylieEldridge]

My beloved is a type 6, I'm a type 4. Needless to say we are perfect for each other 😂😂😂❤

[@EXOlita_Gizem]

Ooh!That will make a good poem.😂 I walk alone I wlak alone.😅

[@hanaamr3685]

I luv u so so much L really appreciate your work it's amazing lots of love and prayers from Egypt ❤❤❤ Wld u pls focus on relationship and enneagram while interacting with each other

[@AbbeyHowe]

Yes! Type 7 is next. 😊

[@margaretjudice8944]

😂 these are funny! Thank you for sharing!

[@anamuldez8926]

as a 6, i wont often do the breaking up or like stop a talking stage but i dont really care… like i wouldnt ever beg someone to stay or emotionally reactive if things didnt work out lol

[@annathompson3034]

This was so good. As a 9, that hit home. Lol

[@kriannmon]

Mmmeeee toooooo 😢

[@kriannmon]

Mmmmeeee toooooo 😢

[@danab172]

4 AND 5 here.... (I needed to watch this video right now. Thnx.)

[@zerkosnow2556]

waahh, hellooo i missed youu 🥰

[@NaaimaNadeem]

Why am I relating to all the types? Depending on the situation, I can do any of these.

[@ruanbitencourt992]

Hi, Abbey! There is a really popular show called Helluva Boss with very interesting and deep characters, it would be WONDERFUL to watch a video typing some them! Lov your content

[@Arctic_Spear]

I love tlou (1+2) best games ever

[@gracie_5]

No, type 1 is 8 example. Vulnerability and possible power abuse of exes if not in my wanted circle, means out of my circle and life. Strong willed block out of life

[@sofiyaserj2553]

Type 4😭😁🤣

[@noturbo]

triggered Type 4. deleted what i was going to write was way to heavy thanks for the video and stop following me around please have you been hiding in my back seat while i am driving around at night?

[@karissahammond4587]

4w5?

[@noturbo]

Pretty sure yep .

[@karissahammond4587]

@@noturbo I'm impressed you got so much personality across in a short comment, lol

[@noturbo]

@@karissahammond4587 don't be nice to me tho lol 😆 I will end up liking you 🥰 thanks 😊 are you a 4 ?

[@karissahammond4587]

@noturbo You're welcome! 🥰 Thank you, too! 💛 I'm a 9, but I thought I was a 4 for like four years, and it's definitely in my tritype. Honorary 4? 😂