I'm so over these Bitter Betty's that have nothing better to do than scrutinize the smallest of details, then use their findings to support this narrative that everyone hates Black women.
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@Monique__916 жыл бұрын
All I can say is he who feels it knows it. People always seem to think that we exaggerate when we speak about the way be are treated even by our own men. I can’t speak on the experiences of a white woman because I’m not one. So only a black woman would understand
@brandybroadus18836 жыл бұрын
monique__91 preach
@flawesomegemini98806 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY!!!!
@courtneywilson22326 жыл бұрын
Girl say it louder for ppl in the back 🗣🗣
@SHERIDANSDAVIS6 жыл бұрын
monique__91 That part
@dunlapchantel6 жыл бұрын
Exactly
@Nxttimefire6 жыл бұрын
I want to say so much but don't want to be attacked for my opinion! I am from NYC and have worked, lived and shopped amongst every race of people. I can say for certain that african american women are judged and disrepected no matter how we carry ourselves. It is not until we show we have a certain financial status or credential that we get respect in some cases.
@TheElizabeth1256 жыл бұрын
Farce Jones Many Black Women make it difficult for other Black Women.....Truth. The nasty attitudes, the fighting in public....did you see the video of Black Women fighting in Burlington coat factory?....always complaining how Black Men date White Women....always wearing weaves.....as a Black Women.....Black Women make me ashamed being a Black Woman sometimes.
@Nxttimefire6 жыл бұрын
TheElizabeth125 yes, there are black women who do all the things you claim. I'm not disputing that we can be our own worst enemy. I am saying it's wrong to generalize a race of women. Not all of us are loud, raunchy and hateful. In MY experience people of other races, particularly women, can be disrespectful and look down on us because of the image that has been glorified in movies, tv and social media. At the same time I don't feel like a victim. I know the game and I understand that I must command respect by showing my intelligence and being respectful to others.
@priincelegit13366 жыл бұрын
Farce Jones the same for Gay black people, especially by black women! The pretend to like us, use us then disrespect us the moment we disagree on something.
@Nxttimefire6 жыл бұрын
PRiiNCE LEGIT That does happen. Yes but not all black women do it! And gay men can be just as disrespectful. It goes both ways.
@Nxttimefire6 жыл бұрын
Women can be disrespectful, catty, rude, judgemental. All of the above. That does not negate the fact that African American women are judged as a whole and receive disrespect by the other races. And we know how the world feels about us because there is no shortage of posts, videos or articles that detail how we are loud, rude and nasty. But what about the rest of us who are positive, successful and respectful. There are still plenty of us who know we are the back bone of the family and community and we have to carry ourselves as such. It hurts to see videos like this because there are other ways to address this issue
@elevatedgoddess39176 жыл бұрын
Dear Black Women of all shades. We must stick together because we're all we got. Trust and believe. Love y'all!
@sabrinat85776 жыл бұрын
Awkwardly Incredible Facts my sister.👏
@ilovesweetsalways89786 жыл бұрын
I agree, I love all my sister's...💕
@akmmicou18196 жыл бұрын
Love you very much, sis
@yescarycan6 жыл бұрын
Sure you do , until one of them throw you some shade in the grocery store. You know the angry cashier who don't like something about you so she's curling her lips, sighing and rolling eyes as she's throwing your shit in the basket type of "sista". When that happens i bet that all love goes on out the window !
@561REALTLK6 жыл бұрын
yescarycan not for me. I laugh at any black person who has the nerve to think they are better than. Baby at the end of the day you're still black. I laugh and keep it moving. Not even worth the energy. Plus anybody who can be rude like that is miserable.
@Arvndenise6 жыл бұрын
The most disrespected woman in America is the black woman. The most unprotected person in America is the black woman. The most neglected person in America is the black woman - Malcolm X This still reigns true to this day.
@kenyangal45776 жыл бұрын
Arvion Ivey and this video proved it
@Parvati19816 жыл бұрын
Precisely.
@rubysbaby8226 жыл бұрын
Malcom X is definitely more intelligent and credible than a man named funky Dineva.
@roses4me4516 жыл бұрын
PREACH!!!! No nation can rise higher than its woman. EVERY race respects, honors, protects, and praises their women except the black man. Becky is now the "flavor of the month", but as soon as she takes all his money; here he comes back to the ghetto for Aunt Jemima to make him a plate of pancakes. Becky can have Tyrone, but the "black female hatred" is too real, sick, and sad.
@sbaglioscherzo6 жыл бұрын
Now what? That can't be the coda.
@justin7sanchez6 жыл бұрын
Oh damn. I just wanna say that I love black women to pieces... Always have, always will. Society expects the most out of them while giving them the least to work with.
@itsyevette8366 жыл бұрын
Justin Sánchez exactly.
@toniaholmes24036 жыл бұрын
Exactly! No water to grow!
@mochalatte57156 жыл бұрын
Thank you, so true
@mochalatte57156 жыл бұрын
Izzie's World I wouldn't say most of us, you don't know most of us. Yes it is designed for us to fail, which is why I work my ass off to get where I'm at today. But really that's common sense for anybody, rather black, white or whoever. If people are sitting around in 2018 waiting for a handout, something has got to be wrong. I don't know not one black woman in my circle or family who's sitting around waiting for handouts, so I can't relate to that part.
@justin7sanchez6 жыл бұрын
Izzie's World just to be clear, I wasn't referring to handouts. Just helpful things a lot of us take for granted like compassion, the benefit of the doubt, common courtesy, understanding....
@NotYourTypicalMermaid946 жыл бұрын
Malcolm X said it the best, "the most disrespected person in the world is the black woman".
@NotYourTypicalMermaid946 жыл бұрын
howtomake moremoney your point is? It's the truth, whites couldn't and still can't coexist with other cultures with out taking it over for themselves. Thus they are "colonizers". Now if I didn't have my intuition I'd say you sound about white to me. Want a cookie?
@hifiShont6 жыл бұрын
Arie your reading skills are impeccable!!! 😘🤣😂
@kayshawnsimmons68226 жыл бұрын
#BIGFACTS
@Lo-ud7qv Жыл бұрын
💯
@Rjlamar-yr3pt Жыл бұрын
Your opinion doesn't make it true I think the black men is
@dreek896 жыл бұрын
Dineva I can't sip with you on this one. Too much hurt, history, and prejudice against black women to be dismissive. Yes, a lot of us are angry, which doesn't make it right (always being angry has proven to be detrimental to our health so I don't think we all need to be running around always mad), but we can't tell people how to feel, if their entire lives they've been bombarded with negative imagery in the music, songs, your own people, etc. And yes I did watch the video. If you say this about black women, you should say this about all black people, gay men, transgender, etc.
@taylormadeit12576 жыл бұрын
dreek89 He unpacks everybody’s uncomfortable truths, even his own.
@taylormadeit12576 жыл бұрын
Chan Smith Yes and now they have something else to whine about.
@brandybroadus18836 жыл бұрын
dreek89 exactly the pot calling the kettle black. All of our features are not good enough on us but perfect on everyone else. Funky on some bs
@2sidesofthesamecoin6 жыл бұрын
I wish people would stop telling black women what they NEED to do or how to feel. We are not making this stuff up about the constant disrespect we receive over and over. And if we need to vent , cry, or yell then we should not be made to feel we need to shut up....damn
@ladylady35516 жыл бұрын
BINGO! I'm lost as to why black women is the sole focus of this whole conversation. I don't get it at all.
@KJBrewer6 жыл бұрын
Im a gay black woman. A little surprised by uour stance but hey, its yo thang. I don't believe in slapping someone & then telling them how hurt thet can get. We've only been voicing our pain for a few minutes & we cant even do that w/o being told to simmer down by other black people. Massa aint gon beat be for speaking up anymore so I guess some of yall will. Q, this was a disappointing video for me & i usually rock with you. On this one, Im standing with my sistas- if they're hurt or triggered, Im not going to tell them 'everybody has issues, its not about you, it aint that serious.' For some of us, it is and a little support and being heard goes a long way.
@chocolatefruit2416 жыл бұрын
HAZAARD1976 exactly!!!!
@TiffanyHarris3236 жыл бұрын
EXACTLY! It's victim blaming and it's BULLSHIT!
@KJBrewer6 жыл бұрын
Kayla Jett and i would never tell a gay black man how to feel or respond to his perceived/real experiences navigating throughout this world. Its dismissive and then they wonder why some of us do not open up, have a hard shell or simply shut down...because when we thought we had the space to speak to our perceived/real experienced hurt, our own folk told us to chill.
@JordanWilliams-ix2td6 жыл бұрын
HAZAARD1976 HAZAARD1976 EXACTLY! Life expierences make u who u r. I'm told "your so pretty but u don't act like a "pretty girl" u cool & sweet AF". That's b/c I know how it feels to be picked on & unwanted, so I would NEVER make some1 else feel that way. 1st grade to 11th grade I was picked on RELENTLESSLY b/c I'm Darkskin,called ugly, & laughed at. I stayed home from school & cried alot b/c it was too much sometimes.The ridicule in my childhood is why ill NEVER b arrogant. This vid is insulting to me but every1 has a right to voice their opinion... so I guess
@Shani75shani6 жыл бұрын
HAZAARD1976 I was gon say sis , I wonder how a gay black Woman feels in a America , I’m sure it’s difficult and everything times 10 ... gay +black +woman , I feel like he’s trippin
@A.Hoosier6 жыл бұрын
I'm a 41 old women in a male dominated industry where I am the boss. They hate me and treat me with disrespect and I have to check folks all day. We can't smile or laugh on a wine train. We can't golf. We can't use an airBNB, we can't be us!! My husband and I have been married for 21 yrs I was told that I was an anomaly which is not true b/c there are black couples on my subdivision. I don't have to look for discrimination it's everywhere. And I often speak and make folks feel comfortable who don't give two shits about me..but I'm done!! I am gonna be a beautiful, talented, boss and whoever doesn't like it...sorry.
@zammymynakersnackstbmoth6 жыл бұрын
Rhasha Hoosier we also can't barbeque or accidentally fall asleep in a common area doing homework at a Ivy League university we attent and live at.
@Justme123696 жыл бұрын
Rhasha Hoosier sounds like goals. . . sis are you looking to mentor someone?
@Texastee736 жыл бұрын
AirBnB are so gross!
@shinyguy15 жыл бұрын
Rhasha Hoosier I’m calling bullshit. It seems like you’re just extremely bitter and you’re looking for someone else to blame.
@GeorginaOpoku4 жыл бұрын
How is she bitter for commenting her experience, just because you can’t relate doesn’t mean it’s not valid
@latriceadams23276 жыл бұрын
🙄.....it’s funny that black women are the only underserved population that are expected to think of every other underserve population. I don’t understand why our struggle has to be compared and moreover👀 why after being mistreated so long, it is the short time we’ve raised our voices that is the “problem”?! Not our mistreatment and abuse but us Speaking up about it!?
@Always_Leveling_Up6 жыл бұрын
Latrice Estell for this reason I don’t cape for other demographics
@TheYafnit6 жыл бұрын
Remember Sis *"This isn't about us"* and I'd have to agree. It's about his hang ups about us.😜
@KinuGoddess7776 жыл бұрын
Latrice Estell You're right. Black Women need to have a voice just as much as the next. Voices usually get louder because Black Women collectively are not being heard. *It's funny how nobody wants to "SILENCE" their own agendas (i.e., gays, white feminist, jews, etc.), but the moment Black Women speak up it's a you're not the only one problem.* Gay rights & freedoms to just be out the closet and not get ridicule for their sexual orientation has sky-rocketed. Black Women are starting to realize they stand alone and need to get the work started. Step 1: USE YOUR VOICE...
@latriceadams23276 жыл бұрын
KinuGoddess777 riiiiight!!!! 👏🏽👏🏽
@latriceadams23276 жыл бұрын
Bossedup I hate that I feel like it but I’m so tired of these mfkas trying to regulate US but we suppose to “fall in line” for their bullshit! Now if we said something about him in these wigs we become the “anti-christ” but its ok for him to “gather” us. Fk that! Shut up, fall in line or get the entire fk out our way!
@tiffanysmith10256 жыл бұрын
As a gay black man how could you possibly speak on this issue as it pertains to you? This is real life for most of us who deal with it everyday. Yes there are a few black women who are defensive off the bat but its a few of them. And yes it is exhausting but that's life for us.
@inoclasism6 жыл бұрын
tiffany smith you women raised these men
@tiffanysmith10256 жыл бұрын
well we don't raise men to be gay they either are or aren't and last time i checked other races have Gay men as well, i pronounce you ridiculous
@andreiawilliams63426 жыл бұрын
geddo tech I haven’t raised any men
@andreiawilliams63426 жыл бұрын
geddo tech call your mama
@akoiju36916 жыл бұрын
tiffany smith the same reason why y’all speak on issues that don’t pertain to you. I bet $100 you spoke on how trans women aren’t real women and that has nothing to do with you.
@kaaygoldmine6 жыл бұрын
How about everyone just stop trying to silence black women when they speak on how they feel
@jarrettfreeney6 жыл бұрын
but women do the same in regards to men gay or straight. Many of you are LITERALLY telling him that he's jealous that he's not a woman. You know doing the same thing you accuse him of doing? Trying to speak for him.
@kaaygoldmine6 жыл бұрын
J. L. F I haven’t said that he was jealous & I haven’t tried to speak for him either. So I don’t know what the fuck you telling me this for. I also haven’t tried to invalidate anyone’s experience they’ve had being what they are, that’s what he’s doing right here which is why I made my comment.
@yescarycan6 жыл бұрын
No one's trying to silence you dear. Now,shut up !!!!!!
@jimmyejamerson53716 жыл бұрын
goldmineken he’s not trying to silence anybody. But it’s obvious that that’s what you want. The sad thing is that his experience has led him to feel that way but you see as him wanting to silence black women. And don’t come with that “I don’t say that” bull. Girl, your response and reply is to this video. You didn’t just end up here commenting.
@kaaygoldmine6 жыл бұрын
Jimmye Jamerson you’re not even making any sense. I haven’t invalidated anyone..I simply said to not invalidate black women, you can speak about your own experiences without invalidating others..and I am gonna defend myself when someone accuses me of saying or doing something that I did not say or do.
@tiffanyferguson8296 жыл бұрын
I'm tired of the narrative that black women care who black men date. I don't and none of my friends do.
@boojank6 жыл бұрын
Tiffany Ferguson I most certainly don’t.
@elevatedgoddess39176 жыл бұрын
Tiffany Ferguson I swear I don't.
@jarrettfreeney6 жыл бұрын
shall I point you to a couple websites where many most certain do?
@tiffanyferguson8296 жыл бұрын
J. L. F Doesn't matter there are just as many websites devoted to swirling.
@jarrettfreeney6 жыл бұрын
+Tiffany Ferguson yes. Many books and websites advising black women to swirl. Should I name of of those too in addition to the various sites where women do in fact care about who black men date?
@JeneeHenry6 жыл бұрын
When I went to Oxford and got my degree in Economics, they didn’t teach me nothing about any of this. But I did learn a few things: 1) Satire should punch up, not down; 2) Hurt people, hurt people; 3) In irony, the point is revealed. This whole rant beautifully articulates what we experience-our support is disposable, our feelings are irrational, our experience is “universal and therefore normal.” Got it, happy to get my pop culture dish elsewhere. The beauty of capitalism and choice.
@Tbabymama6 жыл бұрын
Say that shit.
@AnArchaicSoul6 жыл бұрын
I agree with you 1000%. I’ve watched him for years and years before he started get a ton of followers recently. I refuse to support rap artists who despise black women and I can’t support Q anymore either.
@CalabarSweetii6 жыл бұрын
Jenee Henry you said it all. 👌🏾
@marywebster65956 жыл бұрын
this is THE best comment EVERR.
@Latte-girly906 жыл бұрын
👍👍👍 and if enough of us reports his videos. We might be able to get it taken down.
@HunnifredBee6 жыл бұрын
the shade of it all is black women have fed you and well, for years. and this is the struggle plate YOU brought today? 😒
@RennLea6 жыл бұрын
TatiAnaMercedes Tatiana!!!!
@mermaidtingzzz6 жыл бұрын
You always come thru. This is why I'm actually subscribed to you and not him lolol. I just clicked out of curiosity. Hitting up you channel in...3, 2, 🖱
@itsyevette8366 жыл бұрын
Lol. Exactly ugh. I officially don't like him.
@Ebthehousesitter6 жыл бұрын
Yesss please say it! No more. This nigga is cancelled.
@Texastee736 жыл бұрын
This comment was funny, but a very good question.
@juscallmety6 жыл бұрын
Dineva, maybe you need to switch up your circle. Because I don't know any black women who get mad about interracial dating. It's the comments black men make about black women while they're dating other races that we have a problem with.
@deirdrasj16 жыл бұрын
Bingo!
@thatDarnnShay6 жыл бұрын
Tyler Marie While you may not know any, girlll they are out there. Men get bashed for being with girls of other races by black women quite often. I mostly see it on Twitter 🤦🏿♀️
@juscallmety6 жыл бұрын
QueenB I see it occasionally but that could just be the people I follow. I was raised in the suburbs so while I prefer black men to choose black women, I'm pretty much use to them dating outside of their race so it doesn't bother me.
@callalilly47436 жыл бұрын
Tyler Marie okay!?
@chantalb39866 жыл бұрын
Boom! 👊🏾 I don't give a damn about these black men being in relationships with non black women and neither do my friends. NOT. ONE. DAMN. But when you degrade black women to justify being with a non black woman, that's when the problems rise for me. Go do Becky and leave us alone.
@loveice8816 жыл бұрын
You missed the mark here Dineva sorry
@funkydineva6 жыл бұрын
Renee Adams the video is 20 minutes long and only been active 9 mins. Ughmmm
@tinaw.61786 жыл бұрын
Funky Dineva lolllll clocked
@sarah14846 жыл бұрын
Watch the video and don't go off based on the title of the video, Hunn. Don't be so triggered.
@taylormadeit12576 жыл бұрын
It’s no way Olympic fast reading hell you saw a 20 minute video in 9 minutes.
@vanitywright13306 жыл бұрын
9 minutes was enough to come to that conclusion
@laxi83056 жыл бұрын
THIS SOUNDS JUST LIKE A WHITE PERSON SAYING NOT EVERYTHING IS ABOUT RACE when 98% of the time it is smhh
@pinkrain6 жыл бұрын
Il Wu do you prefer to be coddled all the time? sometimes these topics are meant to be had he spoke some truths
@Niaimani926 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!! I completely agree.
@pinkrain6 жыл бұрын
Nia A a lot of the times, we make it about race more than whites real talk. i will not pretend
@Niaimani926 жыл бұрын
Bee Love Of course we do. White people are not systematically oppressed based on race lol.
@pinkrain6 жыл бұрын
Nia A so, then some of us shouldn’t complain if some of us keep bringing it up lol
@PopPennies6 жыл бұрын
Oh yikes. You put on a wig and pretend to be a black woman but have this much negativity towards black women??? That black “woman” character keeps you paid. And if we want to talk about reality it’s real that the black woman experience is tiring and we get an extreme amount of hate. People constantly steal from black women, try to take our identity, stereotyped, as well as so much other things and THATS what’s exhausting. Try being a gay black woman. It’s valid for a black woman to be upset because we have a right to be whether you see that or not. It’s people like you that silence us. Nobody wants to be mad or upset but it’s a valid emotion when you feel that you’re at the bottom of the totem pole. You even said we’re underserved. It’s undeniable. I’m not one to think everyone hates black women but it’s years of our own men telling us we’re too dark, too loud, too ghetto, told ANY race is better than ours. It goes deeper than you really understand.
@queenmo23746 жыл бұрын
Preach sista!!! This shit is sad!! Done with this!!!!
@PopPennies6 жыл бұрын
Monique Searight I’m done too I was really saddened by this video. He’s just perpetuating the stereotype that black women are angry and bitter. But his character is blatantly stealing a black woman’s identity. But I guess. That’s usually how it goes. Use black women for what you can and once I’m done I’ll tear you down. Shrugs
@taylormadeit12576 жыл бұрын
PopPennies 1. You’re trying to snap by using the feelings of a “character”. It’s for entertainment purposes alone. 2. Dineva, is a many different characters . Take a moment and realize that. 3. That character is no more a mockery of black women than you are. 4. The human existence is hard. That doesn’t mean you have to spill misery everywhere you go. That shit is tiring. 5. Pray. Take a staycation. Find out what you need to different to change for you and help another black woman out.
@AppleBloom216 жыл бұрын
Well said girl I deeply disappointed in him for this
@queenmo23746 жыл бұрын
No one should EVER feel this comfortable about speaking this negative about a black woman unless u walked several hundred miles in our shoes!!! Don't ever forget about your audience and those who helped get u here EVER!!! Its was a black woman including Michelle!!! Remember her!!! Unsubucribed!!! Used to love to watch and laugh with u but no more!! The whole time the joke was on us!! God bless.
@KaneneProductions6 жыл бұрын
Have you asked these ladies why they feel that way?
@beware_xoxo6 жыл бұрын
KaneneProductions doubt it.
@Shantassticc6 жыл бұрын
I'm sure he hasn't. Just bc be impersonates the lowest black woman on the black woman spectrum he thinks he's qualified to speak on black women. He's a minstrel show
@vramey65886 жыл бұрын
Exactly.
@beware_xoxo6 жыл бұрын
Shan Tastic I had to unsubscribe 🤷🏽♀️ like he said “why am I still here”
@vontashacelestine81126 жыл бұрын
Chloe Me too I unsubbed so fast. I cannot believe the nonsense that people feel they can say sometimes when they dont even know how the shoe feels or fits
@morganml39836 жыл бұрын
I'm a Black Man that happens to be gay; and Q i gotta say bro as much as I love your work you're dead wrong for this. There are so many dangerous and hurtful things in this video idk where to start... so I'm going to simply say this: The person that brought you in this world is a Black Woman. Black women are the foundation of every black family... every black man. We may have witnessed Her pain and struggle but We don't know how she FEELS. That Black Woman that seems to be mad all the time and thinks the world is against her is absolutely right and deserves love and understanding not judgement and dismissal. Time and time again Black Women have showed up for us in our time of need putting us 1st and themselves 2nd. We as Black Men have to build better relationships with our Black Sisters... bro this video was divisive as fuck! Its time FOR YOU to listen.
@datgurlky16 жыл бұрын
Morgan ML3 Thank you sir. 👌
@TytiyonnaMcQueen6 жыл бұрын
Morgan ML3 preach!!
@marzdabull6 жыл бұрын
I love you, brother.
@yescarycan6 жыл бұрын
This just sounds like a whole lot of who shot john ,sorry but i was not moved ! To be honest i'm offended by your comment. For you to sit there and try to "school" some grown ass man is in my [opinion] "oops ! there goes that word that nobody understands"..........mighty arrogant of you. I'm surprised that you didn't bring up slavery and all their struggles . well, maybe that's for another post.
@morganml39836 жыл бұрын
@yescarycan thank you for your opinion, though it does nothing to move the conversation forward i sincerely welcome your message. I want to point out that Q did say leave a message in the comment section and so I did. Schooling him is one way to look at it but my intent was simply to state "my opinion" and challenge him on the insensitive divisive remarks he made in his video. Now if one adult is wrong for respectfully challenging another somebody needs to grow up.
@supadopeteacha70236 жыл бұрын
I’m currently in school, and for one of my classes it was an Innovations Teams class. I was literally the ONLY black person in there; the only black woman in the class. The very first day of class in that semester I sat at a table of four and watched as more people came into the room. Those people walked past me to different tables where people who look like them were already sitting. We were twenty minutes into class and still no one sat with me. Once I was picked for my team, I was told that many of the team leaders didn’t pick me because they thought I’d be lazy or I’d constantly have an attitude. I was stereotyped by my white counterparts in that class, and it hurt. I’m usually with you Dineva on a lot of things, but this video right here I have to stand against you. Black women will be viewed as “less than” by black men and others as long as the world turns. Don’t pretend to stand for us when you truly don’t understand us.
@vershaylamorieemartinez3276 жыл бұрын
MilesTo Happiness same im in ap government the feeling is terrible.
@ariesvibes10496 жыл бұрын
MilesTo Happiness ugh! A daily struggle!
@lovebug45826 жыл бұрын
MilesTo Happiness same here... I had a class like that during winter semester... I sat by my lonesome being the only minority in class😢
@marzdabull6 жыл бұрын
I’m sorry you experienced that, sweetheart ♥️ Love to you.
@morganml39836 жыл бұрын
Sis I'm sorry you experienced that and as i read these comments I'm getting more and more disappointed in Q... i really didn't expect this from him.
@TheMilanW6 жыл бұрын
So we gonna pretend like black men don't do the same exact thing
@CourtneyA.6 жыл бұрын
TheMilanW Exactly
@Eryn_1016 жыл бұрын
Thank you!!!!
@kumaelnegro32646 жыл бұрын
Not at the same level. Black men out here more worried about not getting shot, not whether people like them for being dark or light.
@taylormadeit12576 жыл бұрын
We’re not pretending like anything. Why is is difficult to unpack and make right more than one thing at a time.
@TheMilanW6 жыл бұрын
Kuma El Negro are we living in the same America? Wale just came out saying his sales are low because he's dark.. A whole stereotype is created around black men thinking "the man" is holding them back because they're black. And let's not get started on how black men came at Issa Rae for stating how black women should date other races because we're underappreciated by our own
@Elizabeth-cn9wx6 жыл бұрын
Correct me if im wrong but didnt you go HAM on monique but you were very gentle with kanye. Maybe you weren't aware of it but just my observation. Black women are way more scrutinized
@iwannaquit62006 жыл бұрын
Most ppl went ham on Monique.
@Elizabeth-cn9wx6 жыл бұрын
Nicole Ann yes i remember but his critique on monique were mucj harsher than on kanye. Not just him but ppl in general. They eviscerated christelle michelle for singing at that.clown fest (inaugration) but when kanye went to clown tour for a photo, his lashings werent even comparable to what was given to C. Michelle
@Tbabymama6 жыл бұрын
A B All we had to do is listen. He said what's up. It would behoove us to take heed.
@TytiyonnaMcQueen6 жыл бұрын
You are right!, he was beating around the bush with Kanye but he gave it to Monique full force...
@zammymynakersnackstbmoth6 жыл бұрын
A B exactly
@tabbyc39706 жыл бұрын
Sis I’m hanging up. 🙄
@08baby256 жыл бұрын
Tabby-Ann McFarlane Lol ok!!!
@Vanity_Girll6 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 i didn’t even answer. Just came straight to the comments to see if it was answer-worthy
@SharTashae6 жыл бұрын
Tabby-Ann McFarlane word up! Who wants to hear this bs ass rant from a black man! 🙄 Yeah sis I'm hanging up!
@561REALTLK6 жыл бұрын
Tabby-Ann McFarlane I'm crying laughing. 😂😂😂😂 It would be funnier if the actual situation wasn't so disheartening. I guess Q really thought he was going somewhere with this perspective.
@Rjlamar-yr3pt Жыл бұрын
Well do it 😂😂so mad
@TruthSerum1016 жыл бұрын
So much wrong here. I'm cringing too much to finish watching.
@ThatGirl-cs1gt6 жыл бұрын
You wouldn’t have food on your table if you didn’t have black women to imitate so don’t even come for us
@Refining16 жыл бұрын
Y'all don't get to control him. You sound self-entitled, as though he HAS to always speak highly of black women or else... #Getoveryourselves.
@krboops266 жыл бұрын
D Rock she didn't say that though... you didn't have a proper rebuttal so you just said some dumb shit lol
@michaelg72516 жыл бұрын
Idiot of the day.
@princessshawnte3705 жыл бұрын
The Best so factual! He must have had the most trauma served to him in his life by a black woman. Sounds personal
@Rjlamar-yr3pt Жыл бұрын
Here yall go so sensitive 😂
@xPROGNOSISx6 жыл бұрын
Oh no baby. What is you doing?????? I think you need to go to counseling to deal w/your issues with your parents. I think you need to deal w/issues with the black women in your life. Call you back later cuz the service bad on this call.
@taraspeaks62936 жыл бұрын
And I fully agree sus. I hung the line the fuck up!!!!
@Tbabymama6 жыл бұрын
Yea my line dropped real wuick.
@BecomingB6 жыл бұрын
So your core audience is black women and you have yet to understand them? Just like you expect us all to discern the differerence when you change a wig or a color of lipstick to a different person but yet you see us all the same how does that make sense? This is a pain point indeed. If this is your experience than I will take it as such. I watched your character wearing the angry black woman wig more than I needed to and watch you struggle to comfortably just be Q. It's painful but we unfold each layer and let you work it on out, you sir have to do the same.
@TheMsklg19816 жыл бұрын
Bronica R. Wellllllll said sistah!
@sicksadworld62216 жыл бұрын
Bronica R. He never said we're all the same. No shade, but did you watch both videos in it's entirety or are you group-think hopping off of what the other nay sayers are saying? I'm gonna have to assume that you didn't, because in the video he stated (more than once) that he was speaking to a CERTAIN type WITHIN the community. Are we really gonna pretend like those type of BW don't exist like Santa Claus and the Easter Bunny? That's what we doing? Come on now. Y'all know the type his commentary applies to.
@BecomingB6 жыл бұрын
Daria Nosdrahcir I need for you to scroll up a little further to the comment section and insert how you feel about the video you watched and form your own opinion there like individual thinkers do. If you were curious to how I came to my opinion that simply required for you to read my comment. Ma'am it's my opinion. Group thinkers do things like say no shade and inserts shade but that's comical and typical. Speaking of group thinkers here you are in my comments instead of starting your own conversation like an individual would do. Now hop yo ass out of my comments and have a blessed day!
@ellebc5626 жыл бұрын
Bronica R. That. Part. Right. There!!! smdh
@Tbabymama6 жыл бұрын
Bronica R. 👏👏👏👏👏
@adrianap83306 жыл бұрын
Did you just all lives matter the black woman struggle? I'm disappointed in this video.
@zammymynakersnackstbmoth6 жыл бұрын
Adriana P. he literally did
@shamekanall41986 жыл бұрын
Yea he did. He did it because slavery was a choice. Ain’t that something? *sarcasm* ... I’m unsubscribed and I’m going to eat somewhere else cause it’s that simple. 🤦🏾♀️
@michaelg72516 жыл бұрын
Mammy's struggle? I didn't know y'all hogs were being gunned down, stopped and frisked, and incarcerated for decades. Bed wenches have no struggle.
@shamekanall41986 жыл бұрын
Michael Smith bye troll.
@masju20066 жыл бұрын
Just because you impersonate a black woman, doesn't mean you are one. You really have no idea about most of what your talking about. These issues are complex and deep and can hardly be explained or summarized into a mere 26 minute video
@fanclub89996 жыл бұрын
Masju Jon No, he impersonates a "rich white woman" which is even more interesting. 😒
@Triceymac116 жыл бұрын
Tyrone Thompson but he was born to a black women so he should have some knowledge...... i enjoy him for jokes and not for the empowerment
@shadyzbabii4206 жыл бұрын
Masju Jon I'm black, explain it.....
@introspectivetraveler6 жыл бұрын
🗣🗣🗣SAY IT LOUDER FOR THE PPL IN THE BACK
@bryannoah90236 жыл бұрын
Then I don’t think you paid attention to the video
@AllThingsPerfectlyImperfect6 жыл бұрын
ATLien did say that Funky secretly hates black women....this confirmed it. Done!! 🙄
@Celestinewarbeck6 жыл бұрын
jannalyn06 CONFIRMED
@MaskOffTv6 жыл бұрын
Yep
@naturallynene11196 жыл бұрын
jannalyn06 he’s ugly af
@kenyangal45776 жыл бұрын
I can't stand that idiot but I guess she's right.
@mykel19906 жыл бұрын
ATLien isn’t really one to talk.
@charlita256 жыл бұрын
Women who feel this way are just exhausting their own insecurities
@shattahenny75493 жыл бұрын
Facts lol
@itsmelisalee9146 жыл бұрын
im in my feelings about this one here but I will smile and carry on.. to all of my fellow Black Women, bitter or not.. I don't know you but I 💖u..
@BigBL51506 жыл бұрын
Lisa Lee 💜💜
@toniaholmes24036 жыл бұрын
Uplift sis that's how it's done! 💜
@CalabarSweetii6 жыл бұрын
Lisa Lee 💗 you too sis
@kdooley416 жыл бұрын
Love you too sis
@hifiShont6 жыл бұрын
Lisa Lee, love you more Queen!
@TheMsklg19816 жыл бұрын
Coming from someone who dresses as a messy black woman to do racthet reviews but when u talk about other things you dont choose to emulate a conscious, strong, intelligent black woman, you cant tell me nothing about the disdain for us even tho u have made some valid point but why dont u think abt the fact that u choose to be a loud mouthed, ignorant black woman when there are so many facets to us. WE, not the straight black man nor the gay black man, are the most intelligent when compared. While I do agree that some black women do jump at the bit to attack blk men who they think r sell outs, u STILL cant tell us what our experience is. We know what we feel and experience. Btw, I dont wanna be what society deems the highest of the high bc society is controlled by white ppl. I love my heritage and the bloodline that I come from.
@tariqteatv15156 жыл бұрын
Bro, is Dineva starting to get in the sunken place cause ummmmm I’ve seen our beautiful black queens be treated like dirt. I can’t speak from personal experience as a guy, but even I know the disrespect and criticism black women face, if you honestly believe what your saying in this video...then that’s sad.
@alphacharm6 жыл бұрын
Tariq Johnson shut up. He spoke about transwomen and other groups and every black woman was agreeing to what he was saying. They need to cut the bullshit and put their big girl panties up and stop being so angry. When the tables turn now they want to cry and complain.
@tariqteatv15156 жыл бұрын
Soooo if your a trans woman.....then your insensitive for defending his dumb comments. If your a biological women then your still insensitive for not knowing the struggles black women face all because your a fan of someone who criticizes the people who he imitated in a negative way to get to the top......every black woman was NOT agreeing with him. You don’t see those dislikes. Girl, get a clue and stfu!
@lithiaperry43116 жыл бұрын
He wants to be a black women that's why he's lashing out.
@ellebc5626 жыл бұрын
Casey Jackson Already!smdh/lol
@kcat2006 жыл бұрын
He's been chilling there a while now.
@CaramelRebel6 жыл бұрын
What in the all lives matter shit is this? I love you Dineva but this is some bullshit. You can not dictate to people how to deal with the traumatization of their experiences. Especially when you are not one of those people you’re dictating to. Yes all marginalized people experience pain but that does not mean it’s the same. It’s weird that you made those comments about interracial dating when you’re the same person who made a video about being bothered when you see an interracial couple 🧐
@ckmissghana6 жыл бұрын
The interracial dating thing is definitely not just a black woman problem. Just look at the comments below any post that mentions Serena Williams and you will see a bunch of black men calling her a bed Wench yet when it is the other way around they are ok with it.
@taylormadeit12576 жыл бұрын
ckmissghana You ain’t never lied!
@itsyevette8366 жыл бұрын
But Kanye and Kim cool lol.
@HoneyIsBae6 жыл бұрын
ckmissghana I just had an argument with someone on Instagram about this and HIS BLACK ASS had the nerve to say he has never seen it. I simply told him to go to her page, pick a picture at random and scroll through the comments and he’s bound to see something Even before she was married or pregnant she faced the hate IMMENSELY for no reason I can’t believe he fixed his fingers to type that
@HoneyIsBae6 жыл бұрын
And the funny thing is it was mainly black men saying that she’s unattractive and she looks manly but has the nerve to get upset when she found love in another race
@mykel19906 жыл бұрын
I’m OK with dating whomever you want either gender
@playmateoftheyearduh6 жыл бұрын
This sounds very " slavery was a choice"🤔🤨🙄
@IllumiNatetheOracle6 жыл бұрын
Yes, I'd categorize THIS in that box! Kudos!
@playmateoftheyearduh6 жыл бұрын
Yes Kanye has opened up a can of worms for all self haters smh.
@Kilamanjaro0096 жыл бұрын
Sounds like you need a straight jacket.
@chantymuluvhu64716 жыл бұрын
You should get more likes for the truth u were spitting rn
@jimmyejamerson53716 жыл бұрын
Black Monroe and your reaction is is exactly what Kanye was talking about. Dineva never said all black women. He never said he hated black women. He mentioned black women that live in victimhood and feel like anything hat is slightly leaning towards not being “supportive” is anti-Black woman. Thats absolute bullshit. Kanye was specifically speaking on the mob mentality many black people have and how it’s not unity but it’s control. And here you are...suggesting that he’s somehow against all black women for having an opinion that unpopular amongst...black women. Go fucking figure. 🙄
@ThatgirlKee256 жыл бұрын
You could never understand your not a black women simple
@taraspeaks62936 жыл бұрын
Finessa Bell Calloway And that could be the root of the problem
@sjlewis2716 жыл бұрын
If he don't understand, then explain it then! I have yet to see an actual explanation of why his opinion and experiences are invalid. I see people in their feelings. Nobody actually giving any type of real piece to the conversation other than anger and resentment because he's not a black STRAIGHT woman. I don't have to be a bird to know how shitty it is to clip a bird's wings. But...we're not animals. We can explain our viewpoints. Alot of people choose not to.
@ThatgirlKee256 жыл бұрын
Stephany Lewis How do a explain to a black gay man how black women feel? Y’all so far up these people assholes you don’t know if you are coming or going half of y’all don’t like black women and you are black women lmfao
@alphacharm6 жыл бұрын
Finessa Bell Calloway you can. Just open your damn mouth and speak. You that angry sis??? Go get help
@SincerelyTyTaylor6 жыл бұрын
Interesting how a black man is critiquing black women on how they feel. Oh OK I see
6 жыл бұрын
Sincerely Ty Taylor is he gay?? I see a lot of neck bobbing and eye rolling rolling.
@jarrettfreeney6 жыл бұрын
well, black women are always trying to tell black men what a real man is supposed to be so I guess everyone is guilty of something.
@lovebug45826 жыл бұрын
Sincerely Ty Taylor but black women came from the seed of Black man...black women give birth to Black men so why ppl hate black women is confusing to me 🤔🤔
@em.4156 жыл бұрын
I guess misogynoir is in our heads huh?
@southerngent20116 жыл бұрын
Eliza M. A lot of it.....YES!
@southerngent20113 жыл бұрын
@Truth Hurts beta is better than being a brainwashed sellout. Notice how you used white men as the standard to compare me against. BW are the same today that you were in slavery. Money and building some illustrious life THAT YOU WILL NEVER GET TO is the only thing that is important to BW, Until your eventual old age. I'm sure you on shaderoom and lipstickalley talking much trash because in real life you don't get what you want. And before you start about how much you have accomplished and all that bullshit realize I don't care because everybody is somebody in internet land. #yousad.
@juscallmety6 жыл бұрын
I would love for him to make a video about the straight black males. But we all know why he won't 🙄 sometimes the most messed up people feel like they have a PhD in life.
@firecracker11246 жыл бұрын
Tyler Marie of course he won't. Gay black men never address straight black men. Is it due to feeling inferior... Intimidated...or just plain cowardice? I imagine all three.
@boojank6 жыл бұрын
howtomake moremoney they don’t need to be his audience for him to make a video about them. Perhaps his audience would like to hear his point of view.
@deirdrasj16 жыл бұрын
That's also a big part of the "bitter" issue...black men dont speak on the mistreatment of their own women
@itsyevette8366 жыл бұрын
Girl you gone be waiting even when you dead he will never do that lol.
@TheeCoachg6 жыл бұрын
He speaks on straight black men,DL black men,openly gay black men ALL THE TIME. And what exactly is the message he is supposed to convey to straight black men? The fact that was your response proves his point,this “well he hit me first” mentality is what is so tiresome. Straight black men can be arrogant,inconsiderate,self deprecating and unappreciative,we see and hear this on a daily.
@shereebanks57626 жыл бұрын
You jumped all the way out window on this one. You are not a black woman there you have no right to tell us black women that is experiences are not valid. That’s like a white person telling us that something isn’t racist. You might want to put more though into this before you speak on it again.
@akoiju36916 жыл бұрын
sheree banks but y’all do the same to gays .
@shereebanks57626 жыл бұрын
Dontavius Jones Who’s is y’all? I am not gay and I have never tried to tell a gay person their experiences are not valid. Because how would I know?
@alphacharm6 жыл бұрын
sheree banks Yall do the same to black transwomen as well. Stop crying
@alphacharm6 жыл бұрын
Dontavius Jones exactly
@shereebanks57626 жыл бұрын
Alpha Charm Who is y’all? Stop lumping all black women together. We are not the same
@Luvlysis4u6 жыл бұрын
How would you know about the experience of the Black Woman? All u do is wear wigs and lipstick, you'll never know the struggle! Bye
@ashleybracey51796 жыл бұрын
Nora Tee he said at time 10:18 he doesnt understand what it is to be a black woman....
@LunchboxLex6 жыл бұрын
I swear on my life, I just thought about him making a video about black women! This is scary!!! Anyway, I don't expect him to know about being a black woman. Walking down the street he can go without that lipstick and wig, and be just another dude. We can't not be women! Not all of us take this black girl pain and run a muck. But those who do, do it with reason! This isn't a made up notion. Tommy Sotomayor speaks for a lot of people. Yes there are BM who date WW just because. Bit those aren't the ones who speak up. The ones who talk about it, say it's because they have a problem with us. Tons of people look down on us. I used to feel bad for talking to my friends being loud, using our slang, if white people were around. I'm over that now, FUCK EM! Anyway, this isn't made up. THIS IS A REAL THING!!! Nothing to do with being woke.
@kikid42966 жыл бұрын
Lady Lex 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👌
@Triceymac116 жыл бұрын
My sistah they dont get it.... he dont see the damage he doing too the black man.....
@boomagoo3216 жыл бұрын
💯
@chyleplease1936 жыл бұрын
"Anyway, I don't expect him to know about being a black woman." ...From this comment alone I can tell you ain't even listen to a damn thing he said.
@jackieboy736 жыл бұрын
i work out with a black dude thast married to a white women, and he stays in my face flirting and telling me how damn fine i am. Offering to take me out and what not. im confused if a black women with thick thighs, big but , and dark skin is soo sexy to you why is yo wife the complete opposite and i think im older than her. go figure??
@Rashanna6 жыл бұрын
You should have kept this as your inside thoughts Dineva... Even if this is only directed as some black women, this isn't your place. Unsubscribe, delete, BLOCKT!
@Refining16 жыл бұрын
He has a right to speak his mind just like y'all do. You don't temper what you're saying to spare people's feelings so why should he?? That's that attitude of entitlement he's talking about.
@yescarycan6 жыл бұрын
OMG.....THANK YOU !!!!!!!
@yescarycan6 жыл бұрын
Personally, if you're this damn sensitive about a subject that may or may not include you , i wouldn't be subscribe to any damn body's channel for fear of being "hurt" !
@hifiShont6 жыл бұрын
Shay Davis, yes this definitely was a personal inside thought/ theory that a black man with a platform built on the partication & support of black women should not have titled or addressed in this format online. And the few jaded & faceless viewers who see no offense in this video perpetuate the ideology relative to some black women constantly feeling under attack. The irony is that nasty fearfulness many black women poorly display is caused by that constant reminder that someone we think we can trust will exploit & degrade us at any point in time... the EXACT same point Dineva made about ANDY Cohen in his recent video. Look at how Andy demonized the very group of women Bravo profits from simply because they stood up for themselves & directly told a woman that had mistreated them about the mistreatment. By expressing themselves, they were “hostile & volatile”. There’s a reason for this deep rooted pain. Anyone that can’t empathize should just shut the fuck up before their inner Willie Lynch falls out.
@Cyoungliving6 жыл бұрын
YOUR MOTHER AND GRANDMOTHER ARE TOSSING IN THEIR GRAVES.... YOU FAILED THEM BROTHER.
@southerngent20116 жыл бұрын
C F if they didn't turnover by him wearing a skirt and a wig, I'm quiet sure this message won't them feel any kinda way but proud!
@plume___6 жыл бұрын
Funky I've been rocking with you for years. I don't agree with everything you've discussed but I was always here for your thought process and your openness when discussing your own ignorance and faults. Today I'm disappointed. I won't call you any names because it's unnecessary. I'm truly disheartened that this is how you feel. I'm confused at how you could sit here after producing a video about trans ppl yesterday and recognize your previous faults and recognize the patience required to truly get their struggle. But the next day create a video with no fucks given denigrating the black woman's struggle. To simplify it in the manner in which you did. It's more appalling that this is coming from a black Gay man who replicates/exaggerates many of our mannerisms. For you not to simmer in your thoughts and collect yourself before discussing this topic is deplorable. I hope you come out with a part two to apologize or clarify your thoughts as you sometimes do. P.S. I don't wanna be the one to remind you but it needs to be said that we make up a majority of your audience and no you shouldn't kowtow on topics that are important to you. But you should keep us in mind and literally think as you have for other videos.
@Kittylicable6 жыл бұрын
holdupwaitamin very well put
@Arshaun016 жыл бұрын
Agreed.
@Rjlamar-yr3pt Жыл бұрын
Girl bye for what
@vontashacelestine81126 жыл бұрын
You definitely just lost a subscriber and many more to come with this ridiculous asinine video. Im appalled and hurt at your ignorance and validation of these negative stereotypes of myself and other beautiful, strong black queens. Be blessed sir.
@jaeldavis80936 жыл бұрын
He lost a subscriber for respectfully stating an opinion that is honestly not his alone? Bye. He’s not invalidating anyone’s feelings, he acknowledges REGULARLY the injustices that black people and black women face, but because he wants to have a conversation about a touchy topic from his personal understanding it’s not ok? Any other topic that doesn’t affect you, you’ve stuck around, but NOW it’s not ok because you can’t handle being discussed? Smh have the conversation respectfully instead of running from it.
@alphacharm6 жыл бұрын
Bye!!! Black women love to hear him talk about other people and stuff but get salty when he comes for them
@alphacharm6 жыл бұрын
Jael Davis preach!!!!
@pamelabelonwu-ifedi93186 жыл бұрын
Girl bye no one misses you
@vontashacelestine81126 жыл бұрын
& Tommy is whom??
@luxeentceo6 жыл бұрын
Uh.... I see a decline in numbers coming to a KZbin near you. 👀👀
@Refining16 жыл бұрын
Whoop de doo. They can exit stage left and stay mad. Truth is truth
@yescarycan6 жыл бұрын
And all i have to say to that is......keep it moving "fat ass" !
@southerngent20116 жыл бұрын
What about he said was not truth?
@michaelg72516 жыл бұрын
Do you see a decline in the weight around your midsection?
@TheMochamomof36 жыл бұрын
If ANYONE hates me because I am a black woman I don’t wanna be bothered with ya anyway!! I don’t hate me so I’m cool.
@KITTIEKAT2216 жыл бұрын
You hit so many points in this!!!!!!!!!🙌🏽. If these black men don’t want us WHY THE HELL DO WE WANT THEM!!!?
@ravenna99696 жыл бұрын
KittieKat221* are you blasian ?
@TheMsklg19816 жыл бұрын
Who cares what she is??!! She identifies with black women and thats all that matters. @Kitty - Ur right sis!
@KITTIEKAT2216 жыл бұрын
Yes I happen to be..... I have a black American momma and a white and Japanese father who grew up in Hawaii ... but he couldn’t resist that sweet chocolate!!! LOL 😂
@KITTIEKAT2216 жыл бұрын
TheMsklg1981 thank you!!!! You made my day!! 😘
@hey_itsmele6 жыл бұрын
We don't. LOL. If that's where he wants to be then have at it. Go far away sir. Far, far away! And it's not all black men.
@SHutchinson6 жыл бұрын
"Unsubscribed."
@TheKeandra776 жыл бұрын
S_Hutchinson Wow
@Tbabymama6 жыл бұрын
This was very enlightening.
@Uppitynegrogoddess16 жыл бұрын
S_Hutchinson exactly in my troycetv voice 🤣
@alphacharm6 жыл бұрын
Bbbbbyyyyyyeeeeeee
@pinkrain6 жыл бұрын
S_Hutchinson 👋🏾
@DDavis-mi2cg6 жыл бұрын
Can't wait D! What's your take? Tommy Sotomayer is the worse violator on YT constantly degrading black women! He is really offensive and needs his ass kicked.
@yolawhy9946 жыл бұрын
Dineva, please give TS the business!
@thelegendarymuva41266 жыл бұрын
D. Davis He isn't the only one. There's plenty of KZbinrs who use their platform to degrade black women. We would sooner rather mock, imitate, abuse and trivialize any black woman's plight before we protect her from the Tommy Sotomayors of the world.
@zyaireminifigs2496 жыл бұрын
D. Davis yooo that nigga a damn joke i swear yo.. He dont even take care gis black child he had with a black women but straight talk shit about black women..
@thelegendarymuva41266 жыл бұрын
Jean P This comment is silly. So, how do we ignore rhetoric when it starts to affect the work place and people won't hire you based on stereotypes? Everyone deserves protection but right now we're discussing black women. Stick to the subject, hun.
@YoshiXO6 жыл бұрын
D. Davis *omgggggg I was just finnanbring his name up ... like how are you black and hate your own people ? He’s a sad case for sure I can’t stomach even listening to him he makes me wanna vomit 🤮*
@limlim4816 жыл бұрын
considering Black women are your biggest supporters, I’m surprised you thought this video was ok to make. It simply proves the point you’re trying to debunk so hard. While not everything is rooted in the hatred of Black women and femmes, you don’t identify as one and shouldn’t be trying to police our reactions to anything really. Instead, you took it upon yourself to give input that nobody asked for. Black men of all shades, tax brackets, sexualities, religions, etc., have a habit of offering suggestions to us as if they haven’t been centered and prioritized since the beginning of time. We create trends in fashion, language, music, art, yet we never see ourselves. It’s almost as if y’all don’t want us to talk at all. As a kid, I knew these issues were a thing, but never the extent of them. I’m 22 years old and starting to see why it’s important for our voices to be amplified , ESPECIALLY in the Black community bc if we left it up to niggas, we’d be smiling and nodding for the rest of time. For all of my sistren reading this, keep shining and stay mad at whatever tf you want to. for the rest of you, pay a Black woman today.
@excellentttt6 жыл бұрын
girl u better speak. this is truth right here.
@Tbabymama6 жыл бұрын
I applaud you young lady.
@LaurenLeBeaux6 жыл бұрын
YESSSSS SIS!!!
@KassieKane6 жыл бұрын
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
@AngelAfrica20076 жыл бұрын
You are my boo.... but nobody should tell anyone when or what to be offended by.... especially an oppressed group. I would NEVER say the LGBT/Mexicans/Native Americans are TOO offended or overexaggerating what may be too much to them
@AngelAfrica20076 жыл бұрын
FYI I don't mind interracial dating and I agree, if you feel someone doesn't fuck with you, leave them alone and don't slow that negative energy to get u mad
@elm12306 жыл бұрын
I think you made this video because you’re frustrated with the group of black women who are calling you out with the brand of humor that’s gotten you to where you are today. And you’re irritated that this vocal group of black women is actually growing. Because just from my view, this video reeks of anger and you being bitter yourself. And that interracial dating bit was complete bs. Black men do marry black women more than they do marry non black women, but we’re also not going to pretend that most of these men would prefer non black women, praise non black women, and when given the opportunity to date non black women, they jump for it. Solely because more times than not these non black women want little to do with black men unless that black man has something outside what an ordinary man of their own race can provide them. Interracial dating is filled with way more politics and unspoken compromises than people care to discuss. So that “maybe they’re actually in love and they were just in close proximity “ is testing people’s intelligence and life experiences. Maybe you dont know too many straight black men, but their preferences are loud and clear 9 times out of 10, and they’ll have a black woman at home while wishing for their chance with “something better”. Either you’re going to continue on with the wigs and lipstick and take the heat, or you’re going to analyze what these women are saying and just make videos without the wigs. I don’t care either way, I enjoy your videos. But I don’t think this video is coming from a well meaning place. It’s not your place to tell black women about their experience. Yes, you’re marginalized, but your marginalized in a way where what these women are talking about doesn’t affect you. You’re talking about duality and not comparing whose experience is worse, but here you suggest gay men get it way tougher. Then you proceed to mock BW experiences that you would never have to deal with. Who cares if it’s light to you, they still deal with it. I disagree with this video, Dineva.
@kcede35976 жыл бұрын
elm1230 "....but we’re also not going to pretend that most of these men would prefer non black women, praise non black women, and when given the opportunity to date non black women, they jump for it." I sadly have to agree with this statement. To my dismay, I came across a particular video that was about the upcoming royal nuptials. This video was basically asking the question of whether or not Prince Harry was crazy for marrying Meghan Markle. Anyway, in the comments section there was a black man who stated that although he was married (to a black woman), he understands why some black men date/marry/sleep with/leave thier black wives for white women. According to him, he had this "epiphany" that the grass must be greener on the other side since random white women treated him better on the job (he worked in construction and liked the fact that they said good morning to him, smiled at him, and opened doors for him. He basically praised the little bit of attention he was getting from white women while tearing down black women. He was specific in his comparisons of "white women" and "black women". I was shocked only because he was currently married to a black women while secretly wishing he wasn't! It's one thing to secretly wish you were with someone else just to be with someone else, but this dude was specific in his secret coveting of having a white woman in his life. It makes me wonder how many more men are like him out there. I wish I knew who his wife was!
@jodiwilson7596 жыл бұрын
When you got your degree in economics from Florida State (I believe that is the name of the institution that you once stated you attended), I imagine that they did not teach you about intersectionality (the theory used in legal academia to analyze how the law disproportionately affects women of color in a negative manner compared to males and white women, misogynyoir (the specific brand of hatred and racism within American media aimed at black women), the historical caste system that restricted black women’s sexual autonomy via chattel slavery, forced sexual encounters, and assault. I imagine that you did not learn of the recent empirical data indicating that black trans women are the group of individuals with the highest death rate, or the data indicating that on average, employers pay black women less per dollar than white women, Hispanic women, white men, and black males. And perhaps they did not inform you about drug laws, and forced sterilization laws passed to specifically harm black women via imprisonment and eugenics. There is an abundance of empirical data, scholarly research, legal cases, documentaries, news coverage, and etc supporting the claim that black women are targeted by systematic racism and oppression in a very specific manner. I would ask you to consider consulting these reports before getting on a public platform to speak on behalf of a subject which you are ill-informed about. This rhetoric is damaging and I hope that through more research, you will come to understand that. Not only are your words damaging, they lack empathy, and more over....they are factually inaccurate. Overall, this was cute, but nah sis...you tried it.
@excellentttt6 жыл бұрын
truth. read a book about these "conspiracy theories" dineva - eloquent rage by brittney cooper is a good place to start.
@trinityreign52666 жыл бұрын
Jodi Wilson Well said. His opinion means nothing in the grand scheme of things.
@ame31156 жыл бұрын
Jodi Wilson "i understand that black women are an under-served population".. Amongst other disclaimers that made no attack against legitimate black causes. You hear exactly what you want to hear and all of what you wrote was literally for nothing. Youre part of the "woke" victim squad he referenced in this video. Congratulations, sis.
@missdesireindependance51946 жыл бұрын
Jodi Wilson Well said!! Data does not lie!!
@jodiwilson7596 жыл бұрын
A Me you’re response did not contain any factual information. As it appears to be based on mere opinion, rather than empirical data or objectivity, I do not know exactly what your point is or how to counter it. Therefore; sure.
@m.f.52026 жыл бұрын
Some people are so woke they need rest. It’s ok to relax you made sense and I understand your point of view and it’s highly needed!
@SparklyUnicorn3166 жыл бұрын
I always appreciate getting a different perspective. We don’t always have to agree but we can have a respectful conversation. Love you Dineva!
@epiphanyarina3666 жыл бұрын
Black women he's comfortable with u giving him views and coin but god forbid u speak on ur plight. Unsub.
@standingtall2236 жыл бұрын
+Epiphany Arina: I never subscribed to this clownery. Any time you see a black male, especially an dark skin ashy faced black male in a wig, and he is depicting black women in a bad light, you just know to styay away from that BS.
@JordanWilliams-ix2td6 жыл бұрын
Epiphany Arina I hit that unsubscribe QUICK AF! What's crazy is there's alot of non black people who are like WTF r u talking about & disagree with what he's saying..that's deep...
@MyronsBaldspotLovesKevSamuels6 жыл бұрын
Epiphany Arina indeed, Sis ✨
@tmitchem816 жыл бұрын
Unless you are a black woman, please don't speak for black women and assume to know their pain. Unless you are speaking up for us...as a black man (support should be your full mission). Lord, knows we have alredy done all the heavy lifting.
@shantaekjenkins76 жыл бұрын
The only plant to grow in the universe without water, with Love, without acceptance .. A BLACK WOMEN!!
@CaliCoolDon6 жыл бұрын
Try being gay and Black? You are still a man, which this society puts above women, Black women especially. Don't act like our struggles are the same.
@sugarismagic6 жыл бұрын
DL Coll I don't understand why gay people do that 😧 especially black gay men like stop trying to compare our struggle and pain this whole video is contradictory
@KeishaCharmaine6 жыл бұрын
A lot of people are comfortable in their pain.
@ladyroyalsupremest6 жыл бұрын
Keisha Charmaine exactly
@ladyroyalsupremest6 жыл бұрын
Bee Johns feeling God heals its,a decision find a way to relieve pain not inflict pain on others
@courtneywilson22326 жыл бұрын
How are ppl "comfortable in their own pain"? do you think black woman want disrespected by ppl of other races or better yet by their own kind..... your comment make my ass itch and so did this video
@newlife5336 жыл бұрын
Urfavorite Gemini u can feel how ever u want but wheb mad hurt angry ppl start attacking other ppl verbally its a problem sum ppl dnt kw what there doing because they do or did an have seen others do it so they think it's all right to cuss put dwn belittle an come at ppl an then hide under I'm just being real no ur being hurt ur being sad ur looking hurt an sad but can't come put an face ur own bull SHIT so u come at others thinking no 1 can see ur pain when ur made of glass
@isaidwhatisaidsis24556 жыл бұрын
mind Ur business well that doesn’t apply to Black women speaking up on being treated wrong soo🙄
@kidacasey6 жыл бұрын
I hope u lose ur following..maybe Becky nem will be more classy based like dis and not like DIS.
@Tbabymama6 жыл бұрын
Amen. The absolute nerve of this raggedy clown😩
@TytiyonnaMcQueen6 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@teshag76026 жыл бұрын
Kimberly Casey Exactly!
@SalomeBMedia6 жыл бұрын
teamkells2 😂😂😂😂
@naomijamess6 жыл бұрын
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 👸🏾
@DianaMillan6 жыл бұрын
It's really easy for you to say, "enough with the bull crap" when you don't go through it everyday, Quentin. When you get tired of "being" a Black woman you can snatch off that wig and wipe off that lipstick. You're only experiencing the fun parts of being a Black woman (when it's convenient) and not the trials and tribulations. You probably should have kept this video and these ignorant comments to yourself. But since you didn't, this is a great educational opportunity and a moment for a conversation about why so many Black women feel the way they do. You didn't bother to ask why them feel this way, you just told them them to shut up and stop complaining. Kind of disappointed in you Quentin, but I'm still going to remain a subscriber because you've made me laugh more times that you've made me frown. Much love.
@keandrebell-washington99046 жыл бұрын
Actually, he pretends to be a ''rich white woman'' because he puts them on a pedestal just like the rest of society. Besides that, I 100% agree with your comment. This video was quite offensive as well as ignorant for him to do. He probably needs to stick with just reviewing reality shows.
@sleepyccs6 жыл бұрын
I wonder if he would say the same thing to transwomen? I bet not.
@ureallysuckglobes6 жыл бұрын
SleepyCCS I find it VERY telling he posts a video like this right after pushing transgender propaganda on us. Men sticking together I guess.
@CaliDiva826 жыл бұрын
He did a video about trans women this week as well.
@sugasweets256 жыл бұрын
his whole delivery about the trans community was very delicate, he came at black women like a wild beast!
@zammymynakersnackstbmoth6 жыл бұрын
Kiesha G sure damn did. I just watched that video too.
@ReasePuff49446 жыл бұрын
A lot of mad, bitter comments I see thus proving Q's point. If the topic at hand does not apply to you, move on. It's just that simple. Life is not that hard. You can not spend your every waking minute upset about how someone preceives you to be. Live your best life and be unapologetically you.
@AdaValerie5 жыл бұрын
cerease stinnett if someone says an offensive statement people have a right to be angry. Also when he is angry at the black church or Kevin Hart or people who make homophobic comments is he bitter?
@lareid8136 жыл бұрын
yeah I'm not rolling. like many have pointed out you make your living imitating black women so to hear you basically say get over it when it is well documented that black women are the most stepped on in this country is off-putting. 🙄
@Tbabymama6 жыл бұрын
Very
@alphacharm6 жыл бұрын
Lies and bullshit. Stop playing victim all the damn time. Black women are not the most stepped off in this country. Black transwomen are!!!!!!
@mochalatte57156 жыл бұрын
Alpha Charm We were born stepped on and have been here dealing with it since the BEGINNING of time.
@lareid8136 жыл бұрын
Alpha Charm women nonetheless, correct?!
@mochalatte57156 жыл бұрын
lareid813 Exactly, they want to be the same but yet seperate, smh
@justbeheard6 жыл бұрын
I love these thought provoking discussions! 👍🏽💕 Keep it up! Whether we agree or not, the more we speak about things, the greater possibility we have to heal & find some sort of peace within ourselves!!! ✌🏽
@latisewilson45616 жыл бұрын
As a black woman. I am not offended by this video at all. I feel just as much hate from other black women as we are saying we receive from the outside world. So yea.
@pinkrain6 жыл бұрын
Latise Wilson 👏🏾
@shonikaschronicles4 жыл бұрын
Exactly!!!
@shattahenny75493 жыл бұрын
Thank you 🤷🏾♀️
@shamekanall41986 жыл бұрын
This is so offensive on so many levels. I can’t believe this. My favorite channel just turned on me. Literally. 💥💥💥😔😔😔
@Tbabymama6 жыл бұрын
Shameka Nall Ain't that the truth.
@southerngent20116 жыл бұрын
Nah the channel didn't "turn on you". You just got a truth bomb and you can't handle your own cognitive dissonance. You thought because this guy acts like a woman, you thought that he did not have his black male LOGICAL mind.....#youwaswrong
@shamekanall41986 жыл бұрын
timbucktwo um no. He doesn’t act like a woman. He acts in the way he chooses to identify. I found tranquility in that because i assumed he understood how it feels to be marginalized or treated a certain way based on your look or skin. Being as though his fan base is the black woman (with a few others sprinkled through out, I’m sure) I assumed incorrectly that he would never get on this platform and make such detrimental comments. All comments were superficial and opinionized (not a word but should be🤣).... I maybe would have taken it better had he spoke from a place of concern rather than perceived fact. Black women are a seasoned people.....coveted yet demonized. His video and others like it make people walk right into a room and judge me just because I don’t have a smile on my face. He didn’t wake me up to anything. How could he? I’m a black woman who has lived in this “tainted” skin for 35 years. I’m raising a black girl who just today on the last day of school, had to sit out of game day because of something that her teacher perceived her to say and after thorough investigation and discussion with the teacher come to find out she took the comment out of context. (Ironically this happened on the very first day of school as well and my husband and I went and got clarity, just as today and it was a misunderstanding.....she’s 7. This was only after a group of teachers stood around her forcing her to apologize for something that she meant no ill will by. Nor was the other kid offended and he also didn’t understand why they were trying to force him to tell on her. I have to explain to her that black girls are perceived differently (as nasty beings with no self control and anger issues although it’s unfair....) he didn’t wake me up to anything....of anything he closed himself off from an open ended conversation that could have been had....
@shamekanall41986 жыл бұрын
timbucktwo and in addition since you decided to comment: rewatching this video makes me feel even more disgusted.... People are being killed for their skin color....that’s black men and black woman...so before he is anything: he is a black man and was born that way. He can chose to dress a way or look a way but the skin is black. I never took offense to the rich white woman comments. I knew it was a joke...never bothered me but to listen to this again: yes the white woman being the prize of America as he so put it is quite offensive. Now it’s not funny anymore.... If he knows “black women are an underserved population” then why are we here? Point blank period this video was completely unnecessary and contradictory. He says stop trying to one up but just after he gives the one up...? It’s confusing and I am just not sure what the purpose of this video now is. He said don’t continue to watch: I unsubscribed. I was brought back here by a comment.
@southerngent20116 жыл бұрын
Shameka Nall please save all the theatrics, You are proving this guys point......EVERYTHING AINT ABOUT YOU. Everyone is not against YOU. What he is saying is THAT ALL RACES OF WOMEN HAVE STRUGGLE not just black American women. There are women all over this world that make your struggle look like nothing.....BLACK American women can be hypersensitive toward petty issues and honestly I think you are starting to see a whole entire nation that is tired about hearing your victimization that you as women tend to make believe at times to get sympathy and favor or feel "protected" as you say. Black Women are doing great things in AMERICA but the ultimate truth is that you ladies complain about every goddam thing, and it's annoying as Fuck. Some of your complaints are very valid but a vast majority of your complaints are not valid. Black Women have grown to have terribly HUGE EGOS in which men have to deal with at home, work m and it's all out tiring for most logical individuals.
@excluiveends57166 жыл бұрын
Preach!!!! This so needed to be said. I've been saying this in my head for the longest but I could never bring it to words. This man is not speaking about all black women. He said it in his opening statement that this was to a segment of us and the mentality that goes on with that segment. There is truth in what he speaks and if it hurts it is because that's what truth does. Maybe some of us should just get out of our feelings and open our ears.
@Brifearless56 жыл бұрын
It’s so weird seeing people say things like “how are you as a black man” this and “black women are your main audience why would you think this is okay” , because there’s too many Yes men in our community who are too afraid to speak up about the issues in our community ! He shouldn’t be able to tell the truth because his audience is mostly black women ? Get out of here , y’all love Q when he’s dragging the Kardashians or men or anybody else really , but God forbid he say anything that goes against how black women feel & then he’s denounced. How far do y’all think our community will get if no one wants to face the facts ?
@dollfacedinah2336 жыл бұрын
I think it’s funny how you tried to say that black women are trying to have all the attention on us. When in reality the black struggle has always focused on black men and we were just expected to be a shoulder to cry on. It sounds like you have personal issue with black women possibly trumping the black gay struggle which would be extremely hypocritical. Black women have been okay with watching others getting justice and being a shoulder to cry on for hundreds of years but the second we get a second of attention we are being told to shut up by our own people. Hope you seek healing p.s. nobody gives af about interracial relationships stop using that to paint us as scorned
@CalabarSweetii6 жыл бұрын
dinah tutt Amen.
@southerngent20116 жыл бұрын
Nah dude is just yelling you the straight up truth and you can't deal with it!
@pinkrain6 жыл бұрын
dinah tutt some don’t but some do care about ir relationships. my family, the women are angry at any bm & we who date. you tried it, just speak on you
@amoureuxdelavie676 жыл бұрын
Thank you for sparking a conversation about this, doll. I’ve been saying this for years. When do we abandon the victim mentality? I used to think everyone was against me. I finally realized that type of thinking fostered a “ victim” mentality. It takes a lot of hard work, but we MUST address the pain of rejection and disappointment we are feeling. That is the only way we come out on the other side. 😘
@f30426 жыл бұрын
Black Women: Real talk- it's time to put yourselves first. And MEAN IT. Pursue your educational, career and financial goals. Eat clean and get fit. Surround yourself with positive, honest, well-meaning people who will love and elevate you- even if that's only other BW. Do the same for your friends/family. Stop indulging in media that portrays you negatively (music, tv, films, etc). Stop patronizing places that don't want your money. Stop allowing destructive men to enter and wreak havoc on your lives. Stop over-extending yourself for people who would never do the same for you. LIVE YOUR ABSOLUTE BEST LIFE AND PUT YOURSELF FIRST. The results will amaze you. There is absolutely nothing wrong with speaking about our pain. But when you truly do the self-work required to be the best version of yourself that you can be, you will ignore most of the crap we deal with day to day. BM, straight or gay- won't get it. WM/WM- won't get it. Other "POC"- won't get it. Get comfortable with the fact that others will NEVER understand what we go through, and probably don't want to. When most of these groups see you transform into the best version of yourself and realize that you aren't paying attention to their negativity they don't know what to do with themselves. I'm not saying we've been dealt an easy or fair hand. It's unfair and sometimes the things we encounter in this life are enough to make you breakdown. However, a BIG part of the problem is the BW's role in Black American society. Ladies- many of you are the backbone of your immediate and extended families. You carry a lot of the weight, and then look around and notice how disrespected we are in our own community. It's enough to drive one mad. If you are unmarried and childless- you owe it to yourself to level up in every way and make yourself happy. And not pick-up anyone's baggage. And not entertain people who bring nothing of value to your life. A lot of us are hurting because we keep expecting others to listen and understand our pain. We think other women/POC will emphasize with us when they never truly will. They have no reason to. We think the men who speak about us negatively or openly state that they think women of other races are better will realize our value if we keep speaking up. They never will. They have no reason to. Other groups put themselves FIRST- at all times. Remember that. Personally, I could never remove myself from the "Black community" because I have a really tight family and friend circle filled with men and women who have healthy dynamics in their relationships/households. I've grow up surrounded by men who respect me and check any man who dares not to. However, I know too many BW who have experienced immense pain in their youth at the hands of their families or community, who have grown up to repeat the cycles that caused so much pain. I've encountered broken men who tried to inflict that same pain on me, but I decided that wouldn't be me. It's not that I don't care about others, but I put myself first at all times. I don't sacrifice for people who haven't truly proven themselves to me. I'm super happy and positive because I walk away from people and situations that don't serve me. People are also attracted to me because I'm super happy and positive. But I'm happy and positive because I put my happiness FIRST. And I remain rather stress free because of that. Disengage from negative media. Walk away from unfulfilling relationships. Secure yourself financially. Be healthy and get fit. Focus on yourself. FOCUS ON YOURSELF. Although I agree with some of FD's points, I didn't really address the video because, while he is certainly free to share his opinion and perspective, the truth is he doesn't know what it feels like to walk in this society as a BW. Gay Black men aren't at the bottom of US society. Black women are. Black + woman= a target of racism and misogyny. People don't look at a BM and know he's gay. They see a man, and as men gay black men technically have more agency in this society because of their sex (unless they are in environments that don't respect/accept them). I guess my point is: BW are talking about our pain- which we should. But people don't understand our pain and don't want to accept it. We can speak on it, but let's actively work on healing and removing ourselves from environments and people who don't wish us well. It's hard work, but it's our best option.
@deirdrasj16 жыл бұрын
Got a good side-eye on this title...but let me watch lol
@noicantmeetu6 жыл бұрын
deirdrasj1 You and me both lol
@dishaunaragan45706 жыл бұрын
deirdrasj1 girl me too. I was like okay now usually the church can touch and agree but the ice is thin on this one tread lightly
@beware_xoxo6 жыл бұрын
I’m ready to go off... because 🙄 lemme see tho
@katraviawright84346 жыл бұрын
lol right 😂
@Eryn_1016 жыл бұрын
Major immediate side eye, but let me see....
@BigBL51506 жыл бұрын
DISRESPECTED UNPROTECTED NEGLECTED 😭
@tieshaxo6 жыл бұрын
I really think a lot of y'all can't read. Or just wasn't paying attention. He literally said in the TITLE, "not EVERYTHING" meaning the prejudice is real but not EVERY TIME. 🤦🏿♀️
@maxinee97524 жыл бұрын
I agree with the victimizing SOME black women do. As a black women ,I've heard it a lot.
@1saxophone6 жыл бұрын
This just feels more like a rant towards "A" black woman who you don't like, vs. Black women as a collective. I follow you enough to know you didn't mean any harm, but whatever moved you to make this video made you come across so one-dimensional. And that's not the Q/FunkyD I've come to love. I think you need to make a video to clarify things more explicitly. This sounds off, and I feel this video here will come back to bite you.
@nadegeadam89666 жыл бұрын
Or you just didn't know him at all. Ain't no way a brotha is going to say all that he just said if he didn't harbour some deeply rooted disdain for black women.
@tayaa25946 жыл бұрын
It could sound a bit personal, but he started the video describing the segment of women he was actually taking to.
@1saxophone6 жыл бұрын
Taya A correct, he did. But, as the video continued it just felt like an attack, as if he was speaking about someone, but of course couldn't say their name.
@Tbabymama6 жыл бұрын
Nadege Adam Exactly. Why do we have to decipher what this clown said? We feed Dineva and this right here is unacceptable. PERIOD. I don't need an apology or clarification. He said what He said. Let him go get his rich white women to support this mess.
@JordanWilliams-ix2td6 жыл бұрын
benjamin parkman he don't give a fuck so I highly doubt the push back would not matter to him. I unsubscribed tho, I can't support someone with such an off ignorant view of an entire group of people .
@SD-vk7he6 жыл бұрын
🤔... yesterday in the sprint store a customer rep (BM) refused to put the screen protector on my phone. He leaned on the counter and watched the sista who asked him struggle. Minutes later he passed us dropping one of the phones he was carrying, looks up at me sitting in a chair and just stares... I said to him "do you need help? You can just ask" as I got up to assist WITH A SMILE. He proceeds to explain that's what the look was for and "God! See, black women!" He laughed but I did not take it as a joke. The sista rep went off on him as her coworker, I said not one word. Why??? Because I experience this too often and I'm tired of addressing. Dineva you gotta understand you're speaking on pain you don't understand. You want us to get over it, then talk to your brothas
@ocky886 жыл бұрын
Child..... the Shea Butter Feminists on Twitter are the WORST with this.
@taylormadeit12576 жыл бұрын
OJay88 They had me bent trying to argue about your curl pattern not making you black enough. I can’t wait until they give Umar all the rest of their money so they can’t go online anymore with all of that draining bullshit.
@tianm64666 жыл бұрын
I cant..it’s just too exhausting to watch non black women speak on BLACK women issues..bye Dineva
@shawtypooh806 жыл бұрын
Here’s the thing: I don’t have a problem with black men dating white women, no problem. You like what you like. Where the issue comes in for black woman about black men dating white women is that black men diminishes the qualities of a black woman. For example, I have a cousin who dated a black woman (at first) and when the relationship didn’t workout, he started dating white women. His reasons were: black women are crazy, black women are gold diggers, black women are mean. So, we feel that all black women has to suffer because of one bad experience so instead of giving it another shot with the next black girl, he grouped us under one umbrella and presumed that this is every black woman. That’s where the problem is at. However, black women date white men for the same reasons.
@terrylrichardson19476 жыл бұрын
shawtypooh80 Blk people are the only race to make generalizations about their own race
@jrh47076 жыл бұрын
shawtypooh80 right! I was debating this guy on IG you could tell sum sista hurt him. But i told him I’ve been hurt countless times by black man but i still only date brothers. We would all be dating white men only if we let the one or 3 dogs we dated spoil it lol
@sjlewis2716 жыл бұрын
Thank you for an eloquent and thorough response to an actual question in the video.
@metimewithmilky18916 жыл бұрын
This comment section proves that Black women think they are exempt from constructive criticism/correction. This victim mentality has ruined us period. Just because you are black doesn't mean you have to excuse the actions of another black person. It's ok to point it out, maybe then it will be recognized, accepted and corrected. Don't continue to ruin our future generations with bitterness from the past.
@taylormadeit12576 жыл бұрын
Dani Dee I’m hurt and pissed to read all of the hurtful, ugly comments.
@cheveychevelle79766 жыл бұрын
Attack your main audience?
@southerngent20116 жыл бұрын
He is not attacking you he is really you truth, you just don't want to accept it.
@michaelg72516 жыл бұрын
Savage, you're a black woman and will return. Koreans slap the sh!t out of you and you still walk out with bags of wigs, weaves, and skin lighteners.
@cheveychevelle79766 жыл бұрын
Michael Smith Never wore a wig or a weave....skin lightner? Don’t even know what that looks like but,apparently you are familiar with such...I apologize on behalf of the one who chose to raise you around all things you despise. Maybe it was all she could afford but Savages normally live below poverty & produce unhappy beings...I apologize for her decision.
@cheveychevelle79766 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂😂 Angry? 😂😂😂😂 That Savage is wrong for all she has expose you to,😎
@zammymynakersnackstbmoth6 жыл бұрын
Chevey Chevelle dude ju st told on himself with all that projection🤣🤣
@1a4ashley6 жыл бұрын
"If someone is bringing a flavor that you don't like, go eat somewhere else." So then stop making videos using our image and making money off of us. Let's see who else will watch this glittery mess if it ain't us.
@christopherbrown27064 жыл бұрын
1. I'm watching this glittery mess. 2. If you don't like glittery mess, why watch it?
@laloverobinson3336 жыл бұрын
My Lord. You said everything so eloquently, so adequate and so true and you gave enough sufficient stats and examples. I listen to you every day on the way to work and on the way home and I think you did Perfection to this topic. Keep doing what you doing.
@laloverobinson3336 жыл бұрын
And I am a black woman who has dated outside of my race several times. Sometimes it is not about me and it is about me getting out of my comfort zone. I just appreciate the fact that you were outside looking in to give a perspective and a heads up. I am a performer, writer, activist, mother, grandmother, daughter, sister, Aunt, niece come up a child of God and most of all a woman. Thank you and goodnight
@lifeblessing5756 жыл бұрын
When impersonating you don’t work, they start throwing shade lol koonye shrug 🤷♀️
@premium18756 жыл бұрын
Be careful. There's a thin line between duality and hypocrisy
@Kittylicable6 жыл бұрын
This is coming from a person who acts like an angry black woman to get Kikis 🤷🏾♀️
@North-my7kr6 жыл бұрын
Maybe you do take drugs after all #nextcaseee
@Poochieatl6 жыл бұрын
Poula Chats my thoughts exactly!!! I was trying to look in his eyes to see if he was high.
@North-my7kr6 жыл бұрын
Poochieatl it’s so disappointing cos i honestly thought he was a pragmatic person.
@KassieKane6 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@mrs.robbiek27726 жыл бұрын
Right! Sis done got over in that powder and want to start some shit
@sundaekindaluvhello85986 жыл бұрын
Poula Chats You preach the truth 1st Lady!!!
@charmacain6 жыл бұрын
Mmm...I think I dont understand...and I can not speak on what I am not or about someone elses shoes...why I feel like this is a Kanye slavery rant...hmmmm let us all do better
@charmacain6 жыл бұрын
2nd time to clear my understanding....wow Dineva we got to do better...oh these are your opinions...try being a black mother...and a black woman with a black son in America...you can NEVER WEAR THOSE SHOES...I do not think you black women You just did not know better on this one and the other one from earlier #sameday
@ohsoLOVELY66 жыл бұрын
Maybe do a little more research on Black women being single in the Black Mecca aka Atlanta. I can see why some are bitter. We carry so much on behalf of the Black community even for Black men.
@rubysbaby8226 жыл бұрын
Nays Wai even at those events I would be scared of DL brothers.
@daniellemoore79226 жыл бұрын
From 5:59 to about 6:30. "You want to be the highest of the high". No. YOU want to be what you think is the highest of the high(a white woman). Black men play this game. I'm perfectly fine being a black woman. I have no problem being myself. I'm not a vulture misleading mass groups of people for his or her personal gain. I'm not a hawk, lying in wait to feast on one's soul. I know who I am. I have short hair that I wears with a wig. I'm not sitting my ass up here fantasizing about being white. I don't trust no one in life or otherwise.
@wendyguity41686 жыл бұрын
Danielle Moore, white women are protected way, way, way, way more than anyone else. And wealth affords everyone with it even more protection. So do the math. Clearly our opinions differ but there was no lie there. If you're the most marginalized and disenfranchised-black and gay (according to him) and you pretend for a few minutes to be the opposite, what is the opposite? A rich white woman.
@dollbaby4400thedollbaby6 жыл бұрын
Watching this video was so disappointing and cringe-worthy. I've been watching you for a very long time. And I literally cannot believe the things coming out of your mouth. This is exactly why black women get a bad rap because we are all put in the same category shaking my head. Black women are the most disrespected the most unprotected and the most talked about. I can never look at you the same good luck with your Channel. I'm so glad my parents raised me especially my mother to be a strong black woman with values that no man nor woman can ever tear down.💪💪💪💪💪
@southerngent20116 жыл бұрын
dollbaby4400 that is your problem, your values need to be tore down and rebuilt, you are so strong until you can't even listen to the truth, and yes most black women are like that in your personal and business relationships as well because you think you are "queens" and tgat is just not the case.
@dollbaby4400thedollbaby6 жыл бұрын
timbucktwo that may be your truth but it's not mine. I have no problem with listening but I can agree to disagree. Both my parents raised me a man and a woman they taught me to be proud ,smart and strong. Not to allow people to change my values. Unfortunately a lot of us don't stand 4 Things We Believe so we fall for anything. Contrary to your belief I am a queen. Have a great weekend.