‘90 Day Fiancé’: Natalie Reflects on Her THREE Failed Marriages

ET's Melicia Johnson breaks down the must-see moments from season 4, episode 7 of ‘90 Day: The Single Life,’ from Tyray’s ‘awkward’ first date, to Natalie reflecting on her three marriages and reaching her breaking point with Josh. ‘90 Day: The Single Life’ airs Mondays at 8 p.m. ET/PT on TLC, and streams on Max and Discovery+.

[@lindsayshea]

Josh just wants to be on TV. He doesn’t want to be with Natalie long term. She’s never even seen where he lives….like COME ON

[@MadeleineHenderson]

When you wrote this he was probably still at his son's side after his car accident that left him with 1 leg amputation and his friend dying I doubt he gives a shit about TV or Natalie

[@Bella-Mae0422]

​​@@MadeleineHendersonNatalie did it to herself. The red flags were always there she always chooses to brush it off until it smacks her in the face later. Michael was suppose to be her husband and all she did was act ungrateful and she thought the grass would be greener with Josh to find out it wasn't. He tried to even help her himself but he wasn't obligated to bc he's not her man. If she wants a man that prioritizes her then maybe she should find a man with no baggage and kids. Michael was her best option. She messed it up.

[@Vrazzo1490]

She's not right in the head.

[@loulou9978]

Natalie’s not cut out to be a mother. A mother has to put her children FIRST.

[@ferraroannie4058]

Exactly

[@ferraroannie4058]

Exactly

[@freeillyria5345]

True

[@AmaniStudio]

Children could mature her.?😊

[@loulou9978]

@@AmaniStudio lol doubtful

[@KA-eu9sy]

Josh Natalie do not have a relationship. They have an arrangement.

[@bergenleigh8256]

Situationship for sure.

[@KitKat-qr5do]

For sure!

[@michellejade3272]

Mike is a simple guy- feed him, respect/appreciate him & sleep with him. Natalie could have become a mother by now had she stayed with her husband.

[@vblackwell3347]

Thank God, in that case, that she didn't. If she's anything like the role she plays on TLC, the last thing she needs is a poor child.😢

[@KILLEMALLTWICE]

She's a modern day American female now 😂

[@bergenleigh8256]

I agreeeee! Of course things happen and they may not be perfect but at least with Mike-she loved all of him but wanted the model/LA/miami/actress life. If she stayed on the farm with Mike she’d have a family by now for sure.

[@kaioiamo1503]

No one living in that cold trailer!

[@jubernardi23]

@@kaioiamo1503🤡

[@JI-re5vv]

She will never find the right person until she changes. She is very difficult, she needs serious therapy to get through her issues before moving on. Josh seems like a sweet guy, but she acts like a child.

[@GraceKelly-kz8jo]

He's kind of flakey too

[@ZayShinning]

Josh is a user too… he won’t commit but gives her enough to keep her around

[@LindaBabby]

This woman thinks men should take care of her. Pull your big girl pantues up and take care of yourself.

[@djregina6897]

Josh is using her too

[@nadine4634]

​@LindaBabby in many cultures, husbands take care of the wife..but these two are not married.

[@jamnoise72]

The way she pouts like a child herself, she's not ready for a man let alone a child. Her Mum needs to chill...

[@E_swi]

I like how the host is giving feedback

[@ellemarr7234]

She is the BEST! Super insightful and wise

[@reyprzz]

I love Melicia 😍

[@shermaineryan8465]

Its her job and she does it very well.

[@jennywinter3025]

Josh just wants to be on TV

[@vblackwell3347]

At least he did until his son was in that horrific car accident a few days ago. Now he's busy trying to raise $$$ on Go Fund Me and of course, consumed w/ fear about his son, I would imagine. 😢

[@TMwamadi]

No maybe TLC is paying him for the storyline.

[@Merbella]

Yep!

[@KitKat-qr5do]

Right! he wants to look like the good guy that saves Natalie. 🙄

[@cr8tive401]

That’s anyone who signs up for reality tv nothing unusual

[@lornaw8185]

It's her she's too high maintenance and treats people like crap.

[@Vrazzo1490]

8 yr old in 40 year olds body,no joke .

[@kimberly3131]

Does anybody else think she tried to create a relationship out of a few dates with Josh? He always looks kind of shocked at her gall but then lets her push him around. I'm moving there. Find me a place to live if I'm not moving in with you. Find me a job. I have no skills and don't even want to try so get me a modeling or acting job because I'm so beautiful and talented. I can even speak while gritting my teeth. I do think he will draw the line at marrying her. I don't think he likes her personality.

[@jessicajamesspeaks]

Does Natalie not see that she is the common denominator in all three of her failed marriages? 🙄

[@carolafricangirl6836]

Josh is rich, unfortunately thats why Natalie can't let go. With Micheal, she sabotaged the relationship by her many tantrums and saying he didn’t believe in God. She hasn't insisted that Josh be a godly man. Infact, her eyes are wide open for the money and open doors he is connecting her to.

[@MadeleineHenderson]

Josh's son nearly died a couple of weeks ago after a terrible car accident in which his friend died and Josh's son was in critical condition and had to have his leg amputated. I doubt he gives a shit about psycho nat or tv. Let's give the guy a break from us assuming we know what he's doing and being nasty about him.

[@francesfehrman741]

Did Natalie tell her about Josh's family, son in a terrible accident and his son lost his friend. Josh has to be home, Natalie has no sympathy for Josh and this accident.

[@firdoshvirjee3592]

Well said

[@laurenb7094]

If you’ve been married 3 times and they’ve failed - you are the problem. If you’re with a guy and he’s not interested in you leave. She cannot stand to “fail” again - that’s why she’s staying around Josh.

[@Vrazzo1490]

1000%

[@marieh1755]

I’m going through one marriage and never wanna marry again I can’t imagine three or even two, talk about draining

[@aleaiacetaest9132]

To be honest Josh is not wasting her time, she herself is wasting her time. If I was Josh I wouldn’t want to have children with a person like Natalie or introduce my children to a person like Natalie. Natalie is still married to Mike and Yo-Yoing between the two. She thinks Men are Atm‘s with no feelings that should just be there provide for her and give her everything she demands. Men too need Love, respect, trust, support. You can’t demand everything without giving a dime. What she needs is therapy no man. I think Josh is just around because he doesn’t know how to elegantly get rid of her as she penetrantly tries to stick to him like a chewing gum

[@ZovaBe]

How the hell did she get 3 people to PROPOSE to her 😂

[@GraceKelly-kz8jo]

People go crazy for attractive folks

[@JoseHernandez-ql8vw]

decent bobs

[@Steven-tl8fs]

Because she is pretty duh.

[@AnnaAnna-sh1hv]

And I'm here till 32 no single proposal oh Gosh...

[@JoseHernandez-ql8vw]

decent rack

[@justjo7282]

Now I can see crazy doesn't fall far from the tree! Natalie's mother is nuts too!!

[@JohnyZman]

Nathalie is torn between a simple life and fame and fortune. Mike is a rock and a great guy, but thats not enough.

[@Vrazzo1490]

No one will ever be enough .She's the problem,needs major therapy.

[@suraangel6956]

Melicia gives such wholesome advice🥺

[@francesfehrman741]

Love that blouse

[@Joan-t6y]

Does anyone think that Natalie has low self esteem??

[@rachybaby72]

I do.

[@Vrazzo1490]

She mentally challenged.

[@АлександраКонс]

У Натали завышенная самооценка!))

[@bergenleigh8256]

Im 32. Luckily I met the love of my life last year but after multiple LONG term relationships that didn’t work out-I decided to adopt a child myself and have looked into it to be prepared for my late 30s if I’m single. I don’t see Natalie doing that. Not saying she shouldn’t still shoot for the stars, but I feel like she wants a man to take care of her more than a kid she needs to take care of.

[@dogtrainer4645]

Idk how much Natalie actually wants a child. Her Mother wants her to have kids so she can be a grandparent. Natalie wants to be an actress and have a committed man.

[@Vrazzo1490]

Shes nuts needs therapy not a baby.

[@redscreenrattler]

What has Natalie done for herself to make her dream happen she expects men to do everything for her

[@rochellehowie4948]

Love your reviews❗️

[@carmenmiranda8963]

I feel that Josh is with Natalie for t.v.

[@biancalathetravelerssoul]

I think she thinks its the guys fault 🤷

[@suraangel6956]

So I think the deal with Natalie is she actually likes Josh and has some idea that maybe he'll decide he wants kids. She doesn't want to leave before he changes his mind about it or she'll have "missed out" or something. The issue is, Josh doesn't want kids right now and he told her that. She should move on. Looks to me like he's just keeping her around, which sounds like familiar behavior doesn't it

[@janetmartin5382]

Will Michael and Natalie have been divorced since January so Natalie is not married anymore and I personally don't think she will ever find anybody crazy enough to marry her let alone have a child with her !! Natalie is a damn nutcase. 😱😱

[@carmen1869]

Natalie is a needy person and will continue to chase Joshua out of desperation...she needs to accept the fact that he doesn't want kids or a commitment and move on. If she thinks she can change him, she's in la la land...pressuring him into something he doesn't want will only drive him away...it seems like she's the problem in all the relationships..

[@Cantetinza17]

I really want Tyrae to find love. Being military it's hard to keep it together. Just because she said nice things it doesn't mean that she's all about him. Natalie's issue is she wants the man to match her vision and her fantasies. 2, she thinks that to get her way she has to be mean and rude AF. I do agree that Josh needs to do more or go. He's truly wasting her time. If I was Natalie, I would pay Josh back all the money that he gave me back. I will not allow anyone to say "I did this, and paid for this!" Nope.

[@lisamarie8646]

My divorce is finished!❤

[@TruthSeekers4u]

Natalie's mom is as scary looking and acts like Natalie.. That's the way Natalie is going to Look in 25 years... Run, men, Run!

[@carolhenny2790]

Tyray! She was/is paid actor.

[@csong9940]

Or just a clout chaser

[@lindsayshea]

I think Taresa was just being a good sport…she’s not interested.

[@Estherijeomah]

I don't care what you guys says, this man need to work on his health, love himself before looking for a woman. He need to lose weight, keep fit, other than that, women will keep playing him on TV. Beside losing weight is for his own good not body shaming.

[@victoriavincent1732]

Someone understanding Natalie at last

[@jessicalugay25]

Anything to be on tv

[@TruthSeekers4u]

3 failed marriages Natalie!.. Maybe the problem is Natalie!.. 3 men cannot be all wrong... She is crazy as they come!.. 😅

[@comforta-boafo9831]

I love your hair

[@KitKat-qr5do]

I'm so glad Teresa gave Tyray a real date and was super sweet to him even if she wasnt interested in anything serious or long distant. He needed a confidence boost and a positive dating experience!

[@ruchashinde9735]

why she does that dangerous eye makeup

[@lisaloki5337]

Its so sad watching her... she should focus on her happiness not her moms. I honeslty cant see any man who would want to put up with her. She is so hot and cold all the time. Good luck girl, maybe its time for some therapy???

[@francesfehrman741]

Want to hear her x husband's theory about their relationships!! Bring them into the tell all.!

[@Vrazzo1490]

Seriously ,seek the help you need Natalie. You don't need a baby

[@R5000-f9q]

This is what happens when one has a good man like Mike and throws him in the trash. Eventually, there is 'no going home.' Now Natalie is finding herself aging and with no good options. Unless she makes serious changes, she'll likely still be alone in another five years.

[@baboo2666]

Does Natalie knows what she wants?…

[@Vrazzo1490]

No, she's Cleary not all there.

[@meenachadha3766]

Why was the marriage with Michael not enough?

[@dindin5302]

Why Terissa basically talked to him from the beginning?!🤦‍♀️she is aware of the “long distance”!!!

[@marieh1755]

I liked Michael too but nat put him down too much and acted better than him

[@IloveKurtCobain-z5k]

Its in Google, LMAO

[@evelinacerna5673]

You are right, let him go😢😢😢😢😢

[@Sophie-cw7bf]

Oh yes tyrayyyyyy ❤❤❤

[@Gaby-cq8pr]

Tyray doesn't seem to have a type either at this pont his type is someone who isn't an internet catfish and someone who show up on the date 😂

[@_dakota_298]

Sounds like it's Natalie's mother is the root to the obsession of Nat having a baby. She already said she had a miscarriage when she was married and they broke up because of that.

[@Vrazzo1490]

She just wants the checks rolling in every month.

[@litrealred6840]

Natalie is user! And also toxic!

[@TB-jx4qn]

Natalie is a loser & Tyray is putting himself in these situations, trying to play this role of looking pitiful so people can feel sorry for him. Time for him to get a new storyline and stop dragging this one to each show.

[@francesfehrman741]

Go on a healthy diet, exercise...he cooks so stop eating bad food. Walk daily. You might meet someone walking. Could be buddies!

[@annatyra671]

Holy shit that's crazy hot. That's desert hot.

[@talksmoke1190]

Natalie is so fake

[@francesfehrman741]

Want 2x husband's. Let's hear from them about Natalie

[@SJones-Myself]

A great partner, just not for you...

[@lfrmat]

❌❌ Michael!!!❌❌ ...natalie is just scared and heart broken in my opinion ... Michael suuuucks! OMG ...😢

[@lauraitalia1334]

Sorry but how can you defend her?

[@kaioiamo1503]

Ok Tiray is delusional. Sir. Get healthy.

[@jayquin7026]

I’m sorry but a year is not enough to go and meet my kids and entire family but that’s just me

[@Vrazzo1490]

Natalie is not all there. I understand the not introducing her to family.

[@lisabuchanan34]

Like to show love to Melicia

[@Ashbash-kf5xd]

Maybe she should be like Taylor Swift……… and look inward at the problem.

[@jessicalugay25]

You all think its easy being new in America?? Sometimes you hang on to people ud never even look at in your own country

[@SJones-Myself]

3, 3rd, 1,2,3 um ma'am it may be you😮😮

[@Vrazzo1490]

No sh*t

[@oksanaberest4624]

Natalie does show some strange behaviour, however, I think it’s because she is desperate to have family. On the other hand, Josh is acting up like a teenager. He doesn’t know what he wants, after seeing each other for a year the man still doesn’t know if they are dating or what are they doing. Maybe Natalie is demanding, but hey, she has an education, she looks pretty good, she doesn’t have any addictions, and she comes from a nice home and family… it’s not that easy to find this kind of person. Mike’s lifestyle was completely different, simple life, but he was in Ukraine and saw how Natalie lived, he should’ve consider that and maybe tell Natalie what are his preferences in life . And Josh, he is just playing games…

[@ulyaka4781]

I think Josh really not sure what he wants. He could not stay married to his children mothers, even though there were no issues, judging that they are still spending time together.

[@vblackwell3347]

It's been reported that Josh, who has a long term, live-in girlfriend was HIRED to play Natalie 's current suck, um, love interest. 😊

[@Steven-tl8fs]

Natalie doesn't want a family. She wants to be a famous actress. Josh has kids so they will always be a priority over Natalie.

[@Vrazzo1490]

She's not all there.

[@vblackwell3347]

@@Vrazzo1490 You're a mistress of understatement. ; )

[@aryannemamiit809]

Mother knows best..

[@ebillie1181]

Tyray is on TeeVee. Why do I always see Nutalie in a B movie with an ax.

[@InMoneroWeTrust]

I bet Josh “put” lots of “babies” in Natalie… in the wrong whole lol

[@GraceKelly-kz8jo]

The porn addicted brain is just... something else

[@InMoneroWeTrust]

@@GraceKelly-kz8jo dont act like you never “ received” unborn babies in the wrong wholess lol

[@jaemontgomery6742]

It’s crazy to me that Josh is literally doing to Natalie EXACTLY what she did to Michael…. Karma doesn’t miss 😮‍💨

[@emelyramirez2871]

You reap what you sow!

[@Bella-Mae0422]

I really felt so bad for Mike. Sure he wasn't perfect either but he cared about Natalie and really loved her and she ruined it.

[@loulou9978]

The three marriages have one thing in common…..Natalie! She’s a disaster.

[@qaqambapapiyana8010]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣agreed

[@ravenc4912]

A lot of actress/actors and singers have been married like five times

[@Vrazzo1490]

​@@ravenc4912 she's not an actress .

[@Yolonder-jf1sn]

She the problem that's why they failed because she selfish and self absorbed PERIOD

[@Gbaby999]

I love Melicia so much as a host not just because she’s a fantastic commentator and an excellent interviewer who asks the questions we all want answers to (she does that’s too!) but also because she always gives great insights and lessons and I feel like I learn something whenever I watch that actually improves my life and relationships with people. Keep doing your amazing work!! 👏🌟💖

[@jessicajamesspeaks]

Replace Shaun Robinson with Melicia on all future tell-alls!

[@cmiller415]

Natalie has backed herself (and her mother) into a corner. If she ends things with Josh now she will lose her apartment, her car, and possibly a job. THAT is why you don’t move across the country with no money, no place to live, no car, and no way to support yourself, and expect the man you moved for to support you without being in a serious relationship with him. He’s never even allowed her to know where he lives!! If the guy you are “seeing” won’t give you his address, that should tell you something. It’s probably a very good thing Natalie doesn’t have any kids. She’s 38 years old and she can’t even think straight enough to take care of herself.

[@Whynotcreate]

Melicia, you're like the gf we all need to tell us our worth. Your words mean more then you realize, they truly help and lift me up(I know you were talking about Natalie but it helped me)

[@emelyramirez2871]

Agreed. I love Melicia!

[@lenac3587]

Melicia is gorgeous, immaculate and articulate

[@firdoshvirjee3592]

I absolutely agree with you 💯

[@KA-eu9sy]

Why would any man want Natalie as the mother of their children?

[@stephanieclark1487]

She also operates like she’s not still married. She’s so unhinged.

[@GraceKelly-kz8jo]

Cute babies

[@Just-99me]

That emoji😭

[@Leahmoonbeamflower]

Cause she’s kind of hot? Lol

[@dove4881]

Youre right haha but this comment made me LOL @@Leahmoonbeamflower

[@deelaljee9176]

Natalie should refrain from another marriage.

[@mercado512]

Yay for Tyray!!! WE'RE ALL ROOTING FOR YOU!!!🤗

[@sparklemotion8377]

Why? Since when did self-sabotage became cute?

[@Merbella]

For sure, but I think his date was into females. 😮

[@mercado512]

I meant yay for him because he hasn’t given up even after being catch fish and stood up and on national TV. MOST OF US ARE ROOTING FOR YOU!!!

[@lindsayshea]

The real question is, does Natalie REALLY want kids, or does she just think she NEEDS to be a mother….her actions show she doesn’t want kids…actions speak louder then words…

[@KittyKatoussa-gy1ke]

Constant pressure from her mother, so irritating and wrong of her to do that

[@Bella-Mae0422]

She wants to live like a 20 year old sugar baby. She doesn't need kids.

[@sChick-vy3vi]

I'm no psycologist but I can't help but think that Natalie has an underlying personality disorder. Until she addresses that issue and seeks treatment, I don't think she has a chance at a long term functional relationship. Sometimes I question if she really wants one or just keeps idiots around to stay on the show.

[@mariaseidi4023]

Yes i also think só ,Borderline

[@sChick-vy3vi]

@@mariaseidi4023 I agree. I don't even watch the show because of her and how ridiculous she was with Mike.

[@Vrazzo1490]

She's an 8yrold stuck in a 40yrold's body.

[@KitKat-qr5do]

It's so obvious Natalie has a financial motive with Josh. She's not getting the commitment or the time she wants with him but she stays with him just for the fact she can't financially take care of herself and her mother.

[@Bella-Mae0422]

Yup that's why IDC if he played her. He played her exactly how she played Michael and she had the nerve to go back to Michael like he was her safety net. Glad Michael moved on hopefully it wakes her up a bit. It's not the Ukraine here, in the US women are expected to take care of themselves without a man if needed to.

[@closcrazy]

😮Imagine my surprise watching this video & realising Melicia Johnson responded to my comment! Thanks Queen!

[@teamcougars]

Josh is well aware of how crazy Natalie is and he doesn’t want to marry that level of crazy 😅😮

[@Vrazzo1490]

I understand why Josh doesn't want to introduce her to his family.

[@rockinrobin4681]

Natalie is definitely the problem. She behaves like a brat. She mistreats good guys., but that’s on them. Clearly they are only marrying her for her looks. She will keep getting the same results until she changes. 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@kp5496]

I don’t think she looks as good as they think or she thinks tho. Maybe I’m a hater but Natalie looks like a fucked up blow up doll on meth. And maybe because I also have curly hair - I know everyone thinks her hair is nice, but I feel like curly headed people see her curls as thin and frail, not thick and luscious, which just adds to the methhead look in my eyes. It’s like her lips are expanding but her hair is thinning and her eye sockets get darker and deeper. She’s giving Breaking Barbie then her attitude is like a psychotic woman

[@mimi4missions1]

Natalie's mom keeps pressuring her to have kids. So she kept pressing Mike even when they were not in the financial position to raise a family. She creates all the 'sparks' in the marriage because she doesn't listen, attacks then avoids. She knew about Mike's eating and drinking habits and athiest views yet she still married him and then constantly criticised him. She's her worst enemy. Why get involved with a man who isn't ready to have kids right away? She constantly sets herself up for disappointment.

[@ravenc4912]

Oh I thought Mike wanted to have kids with his wife and she didn't want to have children right away and put it off for fame and hollywood career.

[@ravenc4912]

I didn't know Mike was an Atheist. I wonder does that effect each she is a Christian he is an Atheist. Obviously she will raise her kids Christian.

[@Vrazzo1490]

💁She's 40 is that even an option anymore?

[@АлександраКонс]

@@ravenc4912 , Когда Майк приехал в Киев, мама Натали в первый же день отправляла их в спальню со словами: " Идите, делайте детей". Неприятная женщина. Натали тогда хотела предстать в образе очень верующей женщиной. Все время поднимала тему, что она глубоко верующий человек и дети обязательно должны быть верующими, посещать церковь. Все время темы: Дети, Вера. Но глупа , тупая. Истинно верующие люди до свадьбы не занимаются сексом. Измена является грехом.В Украине у ней тоже какая-то темная история с разводом. Все у ней наигранно, Перед Джошем пытается фальшиво сыграть ранимую женщину , которую часто обижали. Ах, ах, такая жестикуляция, лицо театрально закрыв ладонями. Голливуд ей не светит.Но какая мать! Хочет чтобы Натали родила ребенка и ребенком хотела привязать сначала Майкла, теперь Джоша. Обе отвратительны .Забыли про свою религиозность)).

[@nancyhatchie1132]

NATALIE, YOU GOTTA OFFICIALLY GET DIVORCED THEN HOOK UP WITH SOMEONE ELSE. JOSH DOESN'T HAVE TIME FOR YOU.

[@vblackwell3347]

Mike divorced her in Jan. He's moved on! 😊

[@janetmartin5382]

​@@vblackwell3347you are 100% correct and I am so happy that Mike is happy with this new girlfriend. ❤

[@JMarie0921]

Doing too much😂😂😂😂 Girl you are so funny

[@zamazizinjokweni8388]

Melicia I am a huge fan of u I think you are so beautiful and smart would love to see more personal content from u from ur skin care routine to girl advice ❤

[@euclidiadorcaschaquisse4393]

Melicia is so wise🥺🥺

[@t-babyyupressed2906]

Micheal Is The Country Boy Every Woman Needs

[@mj-rg9kp]

He was pretty toxic himself tbh

[@Steven-tl8fs]

Eww no.

[@jessicalugay25]

People treat u how u let them

[@Vrazzo1490]

Lay down like a rug that's how your gonna be treated.

[@marieh1755]

Nat looks good for almost 40 wow !

[@adamwrobel6485]

Natalie’s Mom looks like a very good Halloween decoration.

[@italianasantana8269]

“I deserve to be love” but she doesn’t love nobodies . Total egoistic persone

[@kensigregory361]

And why should anyone? 💀

[@Vrazzo1490]

Then don't cry when you're sat there alone. 🥹

[@justjo7282]

Tyray is a hopeless romantic too!

[@delainejackson9581]

Who cares. She's annoying.

[@jamnoise72]

Josh seems so vacant like he's constantly high...

[@rivabenzikri77]

Not too sure how to spell the word psychotic but I'm pretty sure she does after her the beautiful reenactment of Julius Caesar for Romeo and Juliet I felt so bad for those folks listening to her❤❤

[@Vrazzo1490]

It was hella weird. 😮

[@ruchashinde9735]

after looking at her mom now i can see why natalie can play a role in horror movies

[@debbysimelane6453]

She's hot! I love her for Tyray even though she's a lot older 😊❤