My Big Fat Fabulous Life's Whitney Reveals Near Suicide Attempt (Exclusive)

'My Big Fat Fabulous Life's Whitney Way Thore reveals a near suicide attempt as a result of overwhelming hate-mail. While chatting with ET's Deidre Behar about season 12 of the show, she opens up about the 'horrible' letters she received from bullies, that detailed how 'disappointed' her late mother, Babs, would be in her. Plus, Whitney gives an update on where she stands with her unnamed French ex-boyfriend, and shares her current relationship status! Season 12 premieres July 9 on TLC, with new episodes airing on Tuesdays.

[@user-fw6kg9fc4h]

The fact that someone takes time out of their own lives to be so cruel to someone else… just says how hateful and terrible the human spirit can be!! I couldn’t even imagine doing anything to anyone else to hurt them intentionally!! What is wrong with people?!?!

[@laurawagner7685]

I really like your message, Whitney. I’ve been watching you since the beginning and think you are so smart, funny and talented. Your Mother was obviously very proud of you ❤

[@mrs.gemini7119]

So sorry to hear Whitney was almost suicidal! People can be so mean sometime. Hope she’s in a much better head space..💙

[@sonyafox3271]

It’s not true, it’s all made up to get views! Seriously it’s all made up, these people are playing on your sympathy! 2:58

[@Barbara-jq2se]

Re: comment: 👆Yeah, that’s really scary to realize that she’s felt that desperate. I’ve been there myself too for my own reasons. Yeah, I think a lot of people are speaking out against the horrible treatment she’s received lately, esp, against her own personal home. Ya hope her head space is better & some stronger.

[@blueswadeshoes4012]

Awe Whitney. Be strong sis , you’re beautiful inside and out.

[@PandaCarez]

This broke my heart the world needs to protect Whitney at all costs we ❤ you such a inspiration I was in a 15 year relationship and I'm alone now peace alone is much better than stress of a bad relationship that doesn't appreciate you ❤❤

[@diannewilliams4687]

Whitney, keep that beautiful head of yours up. My second husband was 46, shy and I was his first marriage. Said he had never found the right person to spend the rest of his life with. He's the most kind, loving person that I have ever met. Sending love, hugs and prayers to you and your family ❤🫂🙏

[@littIefairy]

I grew to love her. She's kind. Strange at times, sure, but way more likeable than for example 90 day cast.

[@xJxclyn]

I hope that Whitney understands that these are people who have so much hate in their lives and probably are so jealous of the happy family they see. Between your relationship with your dad, how genuine your relationship is with your brother- many people are truly miserable. Whitney’s relationship with her mom is beautiful whether she is on earth or watching above. 💕

[@shayshaymann113]

That’s horrible to do to anyone, idc who you are! Why do people have so much hate in their hearts?? And why towards a person they don’t even know personally!! Damn man!….

[@SamanthaBaker8]

They’re Projecting Their Self Hate Onto Her

[@BrooklynBaby-1]

@shayshaymann113 my mother is this way - she almost destroyed me.

[@shayshaymann113]

@@BrooklynBaby-1 I’m so sorry you went through that, with your mom none the less! Prayers you are doing okay now 🙏

[@Barbara-jq2se]

Re:comment: 👆Very sad but this is the world we live/exist in today! It’s not gonna get any better; it’s prophecied that it’s guaranteed to get much worse than we’ve experienced in our lifetime…it’s gonna get to the point of Sodom & Gomorrah. Check out your Bible in what conditions those places were in that got them destroyed. And a # of people who have their eyes open realize that this is a fact. Apparently it’s only gonna be very scary for those who don’t really know or have a personal relationship with The Lord Jesus Christ. He’s the only one who can protect & has the answers we all need to know. This includes Whitney.

[@katys.9493]

Yes, it hurts, to lose your mom, honey, I lost my adorable mom When I was 23, miss her so much, She was only 55 yrs.old, And yes !! Grieving makes a person lose weight!!!! My husband died suddenly unexpectedly, I was so lost,... Didnt care to eat, lost 38 pounds in 6 weeks My doctor was going to admit me to hospital, if I didnt start eating!! So I ate soup, drank tea..and thank God!! Surivived!! Don't listen to the idiots, Miss Whitney, they must be watching Your show, they Don't have to watch.. They are just envious, jealous! Some people are just narrissist. And some are pure nuts, evil.. You are very pretty, smart, have a great family! Take care!!.love ya!!❤

[@melvinpeacock4709]

Haters are not idiots they're just expressing their point of view which they are allowed to do.

[@MissAntrophy]

Narrissist?🤔

[@SusanHunter-d5e]

​@@melvinpeacock4709well they need to zip their mouths shut.

[@Barbara-jq2se]

Re: comment: 👆Wow! Your words were so rt on! I read every word & had to respond with a smile ☺️but remember these people will be dealt with in due time. They’re truly lost in this evil world. Probably feeling as you’ve typed out…Some are really messed up but it’s also due to the devil who had an opening in their lives for the enemy to enter & have at them. Lots of people aren’t even aware they’re being attacked by an invisible force/enemy. Be aware!

[@emskeeeee]

I love Whitney. She’s been through a lot and always fighting forward with confidence and optimism. She inspires me!

[@freedom4063]

Wasn't French men bad? Was he a scammer ? Or bad ??

[@mythdusterds]

That is crazy hearing all the hate in your life. That’s so bizarre to face all that in one’s life.

[@lalasimms6262]

People can be so evil. There are plenty of people rooting for you Whitney. Stay strong. Your mommy would be so proud.

[@sff.f1114]

I’m so sorry to hear this. She has my support all the way from Norway💜 people can be so sick, that’s why i love animals so much.

[@carlygrace2]

I’m a bit confused. She said she still loves “the Frenchman” (he’s “the best man she’s ever known”) but he doesn’t want a public life. Why choose the spotlight that comes with all this hate & threats over him? There must be more to it.

[@Hey_its_just_me_to]

Yes good question if he made her choose, she should’ve chose him, but it also sound like he doesn’t want to go to the states, 1:30 it says French citizens cant go to the states, yes they can why can’t they?

[@shannoncoyne6397]

@@Hey_its_just_me_to I think that was filmed during COVID. He wasn't able to enter the US at that time. That clip was filmed during lockdown. She was able to finally fly there to meet him, but I don't think he ever visited her in the US.

[@shannoncoyne6397]

Some people want money and fame more than love. I worked in Hollywood. I saw it all the time.

[@aldonakoppenhaver4087]

Think you’re awesome. Loved your Mom, she had quite a sense of humor. As far as hate mail, I know it can be very brutal but remember one thing - YOU CAN always disconnect from social media.

[@sandialyn]

Such a candid conversation. Whitney is soooobeautiful, I mean eyes, her,smile ❤. I love how you brought up about freezing eggs , thank Good we have that option.

[@michaelleary9233]

Whit, hang in there, I have twin cousins your size turning 40 soon, and you are such an inspiration for them since they lost their mom 3 years ago.

[@stinkygraykitty6808]

It’s a gut punch even to me…..the hate that came your way! I can hardly believe how cruel people are. Girl you are golden! Keep on keeping on

[@KayChambers-j8j]

Whitney if you read this . I want you to know You are Fabulous Girl! I know these people who send you hate mail is because they are miserable in their own life and can’t stand anyone happy. . You keep your thoughts in a happy place where they need to be because girl you rock.

[@mchyde9645]

Which is more important true love or a public life and money???????????

[@SusanHunter-d5e]

Love yourself so you can love others!

[@Somethingcatchier]

Aww babe, don’t listen to the haters. You’re beautiful

[@cindymansfield2683]

You need to unplug. Don't read them

[@thewrongshoes]

Exactly

[@michellesmolek2904]

Oh Whitney…I am so sorry people are so warped…I really am…people are insane…you are a good person, a nice person and worthy..your mom loved you and still does..and you have people out here care….🙏🏼

[@sarahhetuiup]

Awe Whitney you are amazing we need you on planet earth. Don't leave us!

[@user-di8bx7pe8q]

I admire Whitney…I think that she is smart, kind, thoughtful, talented and funny…a beautiful person inside and out. I am sorry that there are people out there so full of hate…they are lashing out because they are not happy within themselves. Never mind those people Whitney because there are more of us out there that love you! You are awesome!

[@katie1131]

I've watched your show from the beginning. I had it on in the background, and my 7 year old her the ugly words that were said. She yelled at the tv and said "im interested in you! No one should say things like that! That's not true! You are beautiful!" For a 7 year old to realize how wrong this is and see the beauty in her says it all!

[@starfishcoffee8933]

♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️ That is so touching! Sweet seven year old with a kind heart. ♥️

[@nereidgreen6653]

Whitney is great. She’s so extroverted in a good way. I mean to have your own show, Fabulous!

[@lindagoreham2238]

Hang in there Whitney, you bring so much joy, thank you!❤😂

[@ellensmith5349]

Yes Whitney. I too, lost my mum. She was only 48. You had an amazing mum. Stay strong girl, and don't ever let those haters bring you down. Btw, your mum absolutely loved you and would be so proud of the way your life is evolving.

[@kellithiede1924]

You are strong, beautiful, extending and real. Never not believe in yourself. Never. ❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️

[@brieh7447]

I'm so sorry that happened Whitney! What lunatics! I love you and I enjoy watching your family and your show.

[@missnisha98]

I absolutely love Whitney! I hate that ppl are so cruel.

[@drumclean9384]

I've watched your show from the very beginning, i loved your family & friends, You are such a lovely kind hearted woman ❤

[@thesilentshopper]

Just hit forty a week and a half ago. I don't really think I ever seriously wanted children, so I am fine with that, being single that is. Always loved 'My big fat fabulous life', the people on it are amazing. Hope everything good to Whitney.

[@denisewolownik7504]

My issue is the way she acted towards everyone. Bossy and attention seeking. That season 11 Whitney was not it.

[@Gina-up4nk]

Agreed.

[@itstipacanoeandrileytoo3405]

ExACTLY

[@motorcityjudy]

The Covid season with her mask and testing demands put me off.

[@Music-hy4yd]

@@motorcityjudy Why would it put you off? The entire world was doing the same thing. By the time we saw those moments, we were further along into the pandemic. So, keep in mind that was a delayed airing of that time period. She wasn't doing anything differently than the rest of the globe.

[@motorcityjudy]

@@Music-hy4yd lol were you requiring friends and family to have tests and wear masks at any point in your own home? If so, I hope you finally woke up from your slumber.

[@sandranynj7118]

Whitney, I feel for you, dating is so hard. You are loved

[@alabaster193]

I'm such a private person that I could never do reality TV but if this woman can, good for her. I'm sorry she had to deal with such hateful people.

[@patj2205]

WHITNEY, CONTINUE TO REMAIN STRONG. THANKS FOR SHARING.

[@adinalamtez3310]

Sorry to hear that you have experienced such craziness.

[@carrolynschollianostuni1173]

You look great lady. I actually think Mama would proud of you. Worried, but proud.

[@SherryBennett-sm1zr]

Whitney do not let other people define your life. You are not the only person in this area that has a problem finding people that you want to be in a relationship with I live in Burlington so I understand you. Whitney it is no limit on the amount of time it takes to be over your grief. Sending love your way.

[@janetprindle2273]

Whitney, you are an amazing person! I admire your perseverence, ability to push through difficulties and positive attitude. You are an inspiration to others and you have no idea how much of a role model you are to others. I don't believe that you will be alone. God is saving a special person just for you. And your mother loved you to the moon and back and your love for her was so apparent. Stay strong girl!!

[@nbe4671]

Whiiiiitney‼️🎉 Your story is soo many of our stories.

[@user-ht4cz8bs1z]

Love you Whitney I admire you You are a good person don’t let people bring you down !!! You’ve got this!

[@amietherealtor9991]

We love you Whitney do not ever give up! People can be cruel that is a reflection of themselves not you. I am watching you right now. I would so hang out with you and your family. God Bless You! and your mother is so proud. You are amazing and please never forget that.

[@hbates3766]

Whitney, I'm so sorry that anyone could be mean or worse to you. You've been such an inspiration to me in so many ways, from fashion, travel, humor, friendship, animal love.. I could go on and on!❤❤❤❤❤

[@robinvarnadoe8429]

That makes me sad that someone would say your mom hated you. Your mom loved you so much and you were very close to each other. Such a shame there are such hateful people out there.

[@Cindy-ty3uz]

Whitney is an amazing daughter .shes seems like such a nice person to everyone

[@caroliamurri3872]

These Keyboard warriors are out to hurt rather than uplift! You are so loved by your fans...don't ever forget that! 💓

[@ifloatupwards]

I stop watching because she treated everyone like crap.

[@Amy.PCB.home.]

Shame on the interviewer!! She said she's not dating so stop asking 10 times if there is anyone. Shut Up! Ask about her work, dancing, her family, any new challenges. I like Whitney and think she is funny, smart and brave. She surprised us with her willingness to compete in competitions. Men have it so much easier who are single.

[@PAWS0810-]

walk away from the fame - get help and get healthy -

[@pattykochenower4222]

Exactly, she loves the money sadly more than anything or anyone obviously, case in point , the Frenchman .

[@bjburkhalter9249]

I absolutely love Whitney and her family. It's amazing how many people are so nasty towards her. And why they are so invested in making her life hell, especially after losing her mom. Just watched the 1st episode for season 12, and I'm absolutely disgusted by people's hate and actions😢, hope they find who egged your home. For every hater you may have, there are 100x as many people that love and support Whitney and her family! Keep doing you girl❤ Whether you're on TV or not, you're are the type of friend I would want!

[@SusanHunter-d5e]

The evil ones are just jealous of you. It's hard to go through what you are going through when you got people telling you to just snap out of it and go on. That's easy for them to say. Some of us are tender hearted ! If you are going to be mean to me then you just need to stay away from me.

[@wendywhite1181]

Omg Whitney is an amazing woman I know what it feels like to be bullied people and be rude and mean stay positive Whitney we love you

[@pjt3887]

Ladies, a man does not complete you. Having children does not complete you. You are the sole person responsible for your happiness! Don't forget that because life likes to make you think otherwise. Quite frankly if I was a woman that was younger I would definitely retrieve my eggs and save them. You have a limited window for fertility and then it's done it's closed. Quite frankly most single men out here today aren't worthy of sweeping up after you let alone being held down with children. I personally wish I would have gone the sperm donor route cuz then I wouldn't have to deal with the monster I have to deal with for the next 6 years until my child turns 18. That scenarios far more common than people like to admit.

[@BrooklynBaby-1]

😢 jeez sorry to hear. And it’s sad that many people do go that route because of the horrible men out there

[@missmishpot]

This is horrendous! It’s so evident from the show that her mother adored her. It’s clear she got her mischievous humor directly from her mama. How incredibly sad that there are people out there harassing this woman in such disgusting ways. They need to definitely get mental help and probably an exhausting, physical job, cuz wtf? Who has time to waste aggressively hating on this woman?! I’m so sad she felt suicidal over such nut jobs. May LE find these dangerous people who really shouldn’t be part of society.

[@cairo3336]

I don't always like Whitney's attitude and demeanor, but she does have some good traits. I would never say something like “Babs would be disappointed” or your mother hated u . It's heartbreaking for someone to read hateful messages and comments directed at them. People who take the time to make such hurtful comments are unhinged. Get a life

[@TinaMullen-i3i]

Love your show.

[@jangarland7468]

Love ya Whitney can't wait to see you back on.I Love your show ❤️ You look Fantastic Bab's was So Proud of you an Loved you....Best TV Mom ever!!!! R.I.H Bab's Whitney never let anyone take your beautiful shine.I love you, your show your friends all your family.God bless y'all Love from Arizona

[@pamelarennia2001]

I love you, Whitney. You are beautiful. Weight weighs me down. I have gained 100 lbs. throughout my life. I was a town beauty pageant winner back in the day. Everyone says I look younger than I am but, at a class reunion someone pointed out she didn't recognize me with my Weight gain. I haven't been to one since. I am 77 and don't really care what people think now. It's taken me a long time to accept me. I'm involved in my church and teach faith formation to 8yr Olds. I sing in the choir and keep busy. My son is not married, so I have no grandchildren. People are cruel saying I am missing out, not my choice. I have my husband, my son and God. I'll be just fine. Don't waste your yrs regretting honey. Hold your head high, you are freaking Whitney Thor and we love you. God isn't finished with you ,yet !I!

[@Zooey413]

I'm so sorry. I love Whitney

[@kellithiede1924]

Stay strong, Sweetheart. Stay focused. Believe in whatever is to be. ❤️🙏🏻❤️

[@karenlevall8313]

Hugs 🤗 and love ❤️, I love your show

[@robinleavine7178]

I love you Whitney you are a source of inspiration ❤🥰💯💝🎉

[@sharleneharper]

People can be cruel, you just have to think it’s not you Whitney. They are that way because they have something missing in their life and are so unhappy they attack others.❤ I love your show and looking forward to a new season.

[@monicafoss3675]

wow you do look fabulous Whitney ❣️ keep up the good vibes much light and love for you 💚💫

[@jojogranny3222]

I love Whitney. Honestly I haven't been able to watch the show since her beautiful Mother passed away. I have tried to but I can't get passed her funeral. I hope Whitney finds love and happiness in her life.

[@laravenable4]

Whitney stay with us. We all love you. Your personality is electric!!!! Keep smiling because you are very beautiful inside and out!❤

[@SLexiD0147]

Whitney, please continue with your life journey and enjoy it. Ignore the hate and love yourself fully. Turning off comments when possible, can help. I wish you the best and send you positive energy! 🦋 🌟

[@carolaguilera6911]

Block the comments. Stay off social media. Problem solved. What do you expect. She’s actually beautiful. She can still be herself and do what she wants but handle it with maturity. She’s so immature.

[@jacklynboucher3902]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@schawnettarobinson8584]

People are so mean. She lost her mother.

[@GeorgeLee-g4n]

I Love this show and of course Whitney. You have good interactions with many people. Couldn't wait til this came back on.

[@Amazigh_MaeMae]

Eh correction Whitney freezing your eggs is not to have baby's on your own. Its to extent time to still be able to have children with your partner in case it takes too long to find someone but it doesnt happen natural. I have frozen mine, and not going to do anything with it until I find my man lol😂. By the way Diedre, Sandra and Charlize ultimately adopted.

[@FaceSoapShop]

Love has to start from within. You cannot expect someone to love you more than you love yourself.

[@probiotic1]

I really love her but there is a tonn of hate for her on reddit. It's alarming. She is such a wonderful person - she wears her heart on the outside. She's remarkable.

[@feliciabarosa2553]

I’m fat and my husband loves me dearly. Don’t listen to these jealous people, there idiots. I’m now 84 and I’ve had a wonderful life…God Bless❤️🥰

[@debraallen6817]

I absolutely love you Whitney. I’d love to have a sweet funny sister like you. I love to watch your show. I’m in Charlotte,NC, so if you come my way, it would be so wonderful to talk to you and check out the things you loved here. We could go to Carowinds and lay out at the wave pool. I have had tremendous dark days and was suicidal due to my family and the verbal and physical abuse. It actually made me a stronger person. Sending you love and hugs. Debbie Allen🩷

[@memeishere1]

this show i feel shoukd have ended long ago , but people saying hatefull things shoukd be ashamed of theirselvs but obviously they have no shane or humanity , and babs was just fabulous ❤

[@brisfuncollection597]

Whitney you’re wonderful!! Sweetest person ever!!! 😊Last on Earth First in Heaven!!! 😇

[@mmorse840]

I really loved the show in the beginning, then it seemed Whitney was very spoiled and was all about herself, then I went back to really liking the show. Hopefully, Whitney will keep putting in the work and loosing the weight. She is very pretty and would look f'ing amazing if she kept loosing weight. Great job Whitney. Love that you have so many different friends from all walks of life. That alone is telling; meaning telling what kind of individual you are. Amazing person.

[@jenniferwolfe5302]

Love you Whitney! Someday you’ll allow true love into your life, it must be hard knowing who to trust … with your reality star fame. We’ve watched you grow through the good and bad! and yes we all miss Bab’s 😇❤

[@alwaysright8338]

😢 Whitney has a good heart she don’t deserve that hate n I love her show

[@MoMotivation0304]

Aww her mom died...I didn't know Babs died...RIH

[@sparkie7]

absolutely love whitney..and her mom. i don't understand why she gets so much hate from people. she deserves the best.

[@kellithiede1924]

You’re beautiful, intelligent, loving, extending and sharing TRUE life reality. Love you, Sweetheart.❤️🙏🏻☺️

[@Cindy-ty3uz]

I hope she adopts a baby shed be an amazing Mom!! Shes such an inspiration!!

[@candym.9174]

Babs seemed to be a wonderful person and I understand Whitney and her Dad and brothers grief. However, Whitney doesn’t seem to have much insight into her own behaviour. She came across as controlling and totally self absorbed.I had watched since the beginning but stopped watching during season 11.Even her cohorts came across as disliking her behaviour.

[@donadavis1178]

People have no respect whatsoever. Im so sorry your having to go through this

[@michellebouchard4427]

I love you Whitney. Ppl are cruel and you have to just know that your family loves you and your a great daughter . I would have get the cops involved don't let these crazy ppl do these things to your home and car, you might not be able to stop them on the Internet but you sure can when it comes to your front door. I'm praying for you 🙏❤️🙏

[@Hey_its_just_me_to]

What is wrong with people! Do they hate themselves that much that they have to bully and harass people! Just cuz she on tv, should never happen!

[@skygds83]

Don't listen to the haters Whitney! Your strength is an inspiration to so many. ❤

[@celesterakhale7496]

You are such a beautiful beautiful person...I adore you girl....just keep being yourself...keep happy and care for yourself...all will be ok....

[@user-zv9xx4po7e]

Whitney, i truly loved your mother. She was the lady we all want to be. You continue for her you look so much like her Your beautiful a little chubby.

[@jeffreynelson2946]

She needs to get her mental health and physical health under control. Once she does her life would be much more fulfilling.

[@mrs.p6128]

Judgemental much?

[@jeffreynelson2946]

@@mrs.p6128 Nope not much

[@user-ks9dx5xw8n]

You are so beautiful, beyond loving & caring. You give me strength everyday

[@lindaturner5868]

Whitney. Come on. There was no french man. Come on..

[@MultiLinda7777]

Here's my opinion ,Whitney don't worry about what others think about you, live your life for you, not for fans, aka strangers. Make yourself happy, please you, God and your loved ones. Everyone has their opinions , so don't let negativity control you. Brush it off. Be peaceful, forgive but don't take to heart negetative comments. Yes it's terrible when people speak mean to others. But just don't let it bother you. The heart comes first. Your heart is in you, not in your in looks. Look how you want, if your happy with you, great, if your not happy then change it. peace and blessings to you

[@sherrypaproski9564]

Just keep being you Whitney they are the ones with the problem not you if they don’t like watching you it’s easy they can turn the channel to watch something else