Entitled Family Members - S3 Ep10

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[@Bilal_Aslam_]

Kinda like how someone thought he was entitled to someone else’s credit cards and accounts even though they broke up

[@jenloves4260]

Bwah ha ha!

[@EscapeReality94]

Yooooo i was just coming to comment this!!!!!! 😂👏🏼

[@laurenseidel]

I thought the same thing!!

[@TheCraftEGal]

This comment wins 😂😂😂

[@vernss3092]

The wedding one made perfect sense to me. Sounds like bride knows her chaotic family. I need direct communication or I will miss the point.

[@pingidjit]

I am the same way. Just tell it to me straight, don't try to be subtle or I will miss what you want from me. I appreciate direct and honest.

[@kimberlina0423]

I am 32 and have a disability that is not visible to others. I have a permanent handicap tag for my car. I was leaving the grocery store and getting into my car and an older man walked up to me, put his hand on my car door (preventing me from shutting the door) and yelled at me for parking in a handicap spot. I told him I clearly had a valid tag to park there. He said "well you don't look handicapped..." So I told him "well you don't look like you are wearing underwear" 😂

[@katiebrennan3122]

I am 30 with an invisible disability (though I sometimes use mobility aids) and this is a constant fear of mine. People are SO rude and also the ignorance around invisible/dynamic disabilities adds and extra layer of stress in just navigating the world. I'm sorry you had to deal with such a jerk, and well done for reponding so well under pressure 😂

[@suomynonaanonymous]

I am genuinely curious what kind of disability requires you to use handicap parking that cam't be seen? Because before I read this, I would have frowned upon someone who can clearly walk fine using one as well before I read your comment!

[@kimberlina0423]

@@suomynonaanonymous I was born with a condition called Tarsal Coalition. I was born with it in both of my ankles. I have had over 7 surgeries to correct it on my left ankle and all have failed. So I had a triple fusion which made it to where I have no movement in my ankle. I don't use a walker or wheelchair but it is extremely painful to walk far distances so I use the parking when I know I'm going to be walking alot like grocery shopping. You can't tell from the outside that I have anything wrong but walking can be super painful ❤️

[@suomynonaanonymous]

@@kimberlina0423 Wow thank you for sharing! I am sorry you have that and thanks for the insight because now I know people can be dealing with something like that.

[@katiebrennan3122]

@@suomynonaanonymous I have a chronic illness called POTS (Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome) in which my blood doesn't circulate through my body properly so if I stand or walk for honestly more than a minute or two, I run the risk of passing out, getting a migraine, getting nauseous, and all other loads of not fun stuff. I use a cane with a seat attached to it or other mobility aids (wheelchairs, walkers) sometimes so I can have somewhere to easily sit and don't have to deal with the indignity of sitting on the ground (which is also difficult for me to get up) but technically my legs function properly. But my heart and nervous system (which no one can see) do not. There are a lot of chronic illnesses/disabilities like that! Many folks with Long COVID also fit into this category! It's difficult, but hopefully with the internet and opportunities like this, more people can learn about the various challenges people face that aren't immediately apparent (and maybe more money can go into research to help find cures to these illnesses 🤞)

[@AinsleeDawn]

Many smaller bathrooms have the changing table in the accessible stall. It’s accessible. It’s not off limits. If there is a line, use it. As a mother of a disabled preteen, we’ve had to use them for years. We always get looks. Usually people that should myob and not people effected.

[@ambersmith1176]

A lot of places only have baby changing tables INSIDE of the accessible stall

[@maryjayneslate902]

In a lot of handicap stalls they have the baby changing table in the handicap stall.....at least in Ohio. Hello Joy, the dog trainer and Rachel.

[@imjuliewaters]

I've seen that here in California too. Large businesses need either more than one accessible stall or just larger stalls in general.

[@jojijae]

Im also in Ohio and came to the comments to say the same thing

[@christaberry3375]

My parents used to give away my room as a child... Now as a woman in my 30s with a 14 year old, I ask my child's permission. Ever since they've had their own room, I've always asked permission. Even if its my parents.... And i make it clear my kid is allowed to say no without explanation. Boundaries are important.

[@thesmitshow7710]

Take a shot every time Joy says "a hundred percent". I'm drunk by 2:13 😅 love you Joy!

[@rindrr]

As an autistic person, I talk and act like the wedding rules post. Not everyone is out to get people and sometimes nobody has a tone. I think people can be too judgemental and in their own head to sometimes realize that /pos

[@tieragibbs3045]

Same ✋

[@Noahsgirlfriend2006]

Me too

[@Luna_Bat_]

I'm disabled with an 'Invisible' disability and people get mad at me all the time for using with accessible stalls because I'm not visibly disabled. Some people are just assholes 🤷‍♀️

[@OneOfTheZenots]

If I plan to visit friends or family, I always expect that to sleep on the couch, cuz I'm not gonna put anyone outta their bed

[@aleta5873]

That poor guy could have a seizure from fatigue and fall off the dang trail into the canyon. Nope, don't go.

[@norakropp_]

for the wedding slip one, i think the kid rule is TOTALLY acceptable. she didn’t ask for there to be no kids and she didn’t say that kids would be kicked out if they were rowdy. all she said was that she would like for them to be taken outside for a breather. i work in theater and it is so rude and disruptive when a parent refuses to take their screaming kid outside for a minute to calm them down. it’s disrupting the show for the rest of the audience and throwing off the actors & crew. same goes for a wedding.

[@cutiekitkat13]

yes, a short way of putting it is bring mostly mature kids lol

[@Sab.86]

The epilepsy one made me tear up cz I am epileptic and completely understand him poor guy

[@jeaneucker8995]

Joy has her eye on that spider 🕷 🤣 I laugh cause I'd be doing the same thing 😂

[@Allicia41]

What’s funny about listening to these, is I always expect that the original poster hears their opinion 😂 maybe Emily should start an AITA through Rachel so we know they actually do hear the opinions 😂

[@gloriadearing]

My mom tried to make me let my meth using fresh out of prison brother live with me in my house since I rent it from her. I never put my foot down so fast. 😂

[@BMFL420]

OMG, my brother has been in prison for like 12 years this last stint, and I'm just WAITING for my mom to pull this shit. It absolutely isn't going to happen. He isn't out yet, but in theory should be getting out some time in the nearish future.

[@katiehanson6253]

At my wedding kids were welcome at the ceremony but not the reception ... my family is rowdy, my mother-in-law ignored the rule and brought my 7 yr old sister in law to the reception... she had beer spilled on her 1030 pm. And then they left... mind you all the kids had a close family (in-laws) friends house to stay at for a sleep over... one of my fellow nursery church workers. I was just like why mom why???

[@virgilmcclendon5072]

Very funny. Loved Joy. We think alike. As always, love you, Rachel.

[@emyloulee]

I genuinely do not think the girl with the wedding rules is the asshole. As a guest, I want EVERY detail/rule/extra info you can give me. I don’t think she was being rude she was just trying to make everything clear and be accommodating.

[@musicftw711]

JOY HAS SIX SISTERS?!?! HOLY GUACAMOLE!!

[@rush_amanda]

Lol I think I just watched 2 neurodivergent friends hanginging out. I felt in good company, a fun time 😊

[@chrissyzcreationz]

Family is who you keep close in life who always have each other's back in some way. People you share a bloodline with can be a relative or another member of your cord family. At 50 years old, I've also seen the people ebb & flow& come & go.

[@SophieSweetandSour]

For the AITA about the brother moving in with his sister and wanting a room to himself... Idk how it works outside of the USA, but we get to deduct office space from home so long as it's not multi-purpose, like someone cannot be living in that room for it to also be deductible. If she consolidates her offices, she might not be able to claim deductions as planned. He seems super entitled. Be grateful for the couch and work on getting your own place.

[@zntenn]

I know this is Uncensored but gurllll the language...wow! I enjoy the content so I watch anyway. Joy is adorable. Shes a keeper lol

[@playwithmeinsecondlife6129]

When you rent the owner is not allowed to impose guests on you. Even a plumber or electrician must schedule with you. I love you!

[@christaberry3375]

& personally i loved the wedding invite. I'm a stress type of person- i LOVE guidance to avoid upsetting anither person, especially on their wedding day? Yes please.

[@lilystanleylowe]

Regarding the guy whose ex gave him custody of their child in exchange for the dogs--I would let her take the dogs to a shelter, then I'd go adopt them.

[@pingidjit]

For the first one, the mother is not the asshole, but the place they were at definitely was. Bathrooms should be washed on a regular basis, this includes the baby change table. And I doubt that the literal crap on that change table was just from the last 15 minutes. But also, the parent/person who didn't try to clean up after their child exploded on the thing is an asshole too. Also, most places are assholes for only having one accessible stall. They cheap out, make the other stalls ridiculously tiny, don't think about the actual utilization of what they have built and are designed so poorly to be ineffective.

[@Frenziedgremlin]

Wrong wrong

[@MakeItMagical27]

My partner had to give up his room every time relatives came when he lived with his parents. He had a queen bed and his bedroom was in the basement. I felt bad for him even though he acted like it was no big deal. I think he’s happy that we live in our own place now and he doesn’t have to lose his room 😊

[@Lckween328]

The second story about the entitled brother demanding the extra room, sounded like Rachel’s ex 😬😅 like the grown ass adult got broken up and he had nothing cause the house was the gfs, and he had no savings or money

[@BC_Mina]

They frequently put the changing tables IN the accessible stall sooooo 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@ren9111]

As a full time wheelchair user, I’m conflicted about the first one. I don’t think op is the asshole though, because she didn’t really have another choice. The old lady however… she sounds like someone who would just use the accessible bathroom stall just because it’s bigger. I would never be that rude about someone else using that stall, even though it’s the only one I can use. However, I would like to ask that unless it’s an emergency that you don’t use the accessible stall because it takes disabled people longer to get on the tollet.

[@PrincessPeyten]

The girl being quiet was not wrong she gave her sister an explanation her sister should be grateful that she didn’t get cussed out😒😒😒

[@ej8116]

you should do more dog related aita with joy, i love seeing her perspective as a dog trainer

[@ankit8974]

A little cultural difference, for us if someone is visiting our home we will do the adjustment as it is our house and they are visiting so we make sure they feel comfortable, even if I’ve to give up my bedroom. Ofc this is for a short visit.

[@emmagould9912]

funny wedding story: when my aunt got married, she mostly went for the "no kids" rule with exception of her nieces and nephew and a few out of town guests who wouldn't have been able to attend if they couldn't bring their children (8 kids total). Three of us (me, my brother, and 1 cousin were in the wedding party. However, my great aunt that was at the wedding noticed there was children present at the wedding and stormed out FURIOUS and walked home because her grandchildren had not been invited. She had 9 grandchildren that were all from the area so were able to get babysitters for the night so no big deal to those parents, but the grandmother was so mad that she didn't even tell anyone she was leaving (including her own husband) and he stayed and partied the rest of the night after realizing she walked home lol

[@dawnmacleod2628]

Use a wipe to clean the changing table and put your mat on it, as a disabled person you have just said hold your pee. Well I can't hold my pee as a wheelchair user and don't want to use a dependable. I have had to wait loads to use a accessible toilet and many times have seen young people coming out of the toilet when the other toilets don't have anyone waiting. It's quite annoying.

[@madisonfortune-wv4yq]

been waiting for the next episode come out

[@GioBorsel]

I feel like those who commented the wedding post were a bunch of kids who have no clue how these events play out lmao

[@evelynmarie8515]

Sometimes the changing tables are in the accessible stall therefore it is for everyone to use im not saying it’s the whole purpose but still

[@tamishabritton3065]

To all the hate comments I’m disabled and she is just talking about a stall in a bathroom geez 🙄 people

[@cherry-or2rk]

I am too,sux that nobody sees this& prob just sit lonely edit& prob delete.Ppl throw cruel emojis... 🙏🏼nobody smells the sweet stench😂all that

[@carrieb1414]

For the wedding list one….the bride to be isn’t the a**hole. The list I’m all for. Cuz there are sucky people and they do those things the bride listed off to not do and what not. It’s the brides wedding. For me, I would choose the ceremony kid friendly, but the reception, not kid friendly. Bcuz my reception, I’m gonna have not kid friendly dancing and music. So 🤷‍♀️

[@bethrunkle76]

Pleasssssse do not use the accessible if you don't have to!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I have a mom with multiple medical issues some being mobility and incontinence!!!!!! I can not count the number of times i have had to help her get cleaned up because someone with no mobility issues or children were using that stall and she could not wait. Alot of times when we go to Wal-Mart there is a employee that comes out for the family🚼 / ♿ accessable bathroom in the back of the store, we have even gotten " there's a bathroom right over there" when they come out because we knocked a couple of time. You may not think its a big deal but to the people who can ONLY use that stall it is a big deal. Also by using that stall a person with a walker or wheelchair who uses a regular stall has to leave the wheelchair or walker outside in the way of everone else. So unless you can not hold it and you are about to pee your pants please, please, please do NOT use that stall if you do not have mobility issuse or a young child, baby &/or adult who needs your assistance .

[@morganfern29]

Does Joy have her own youtube channel if so what os the name of it? I love Joy’s laugh. It always makes me laugh when she starts laughing for any reason what so ever. Her laugh is infectious.

[@HaveHopeWithHope]

Sometimes the changing tables are in the accessible stalls so no it’s not wrong sometimes to it’s easier for a baby to be in a bigger area to change

[@ennismaggie7]

i just love joy

[@ashleedaly2566]

aww blaze boy is so cute ❤

[@ashleighcleaver9009]

Thank god I am not the only one with families who are entitled. So many of these things are so similar to what I have experienced from my family. I use to be a people pleaser with my family but once you put your foot down and things don't go their way bam out of your life it's so funny.

[@brittmosher4426]

,LOVE LOVE LOVE Joy!!

[@ashleighcleaver9009]

As for the wedding I relate to that. My older sisters last year I had to work around my family because my mum and sisters basically abused me verbally over phone cause it was easier for them if I got organised at my mums instead of my home however it is not okay for anyone who has to go through that. So unfortunately I did it to avoid more fam drama. The morning turned out well and my hubby got organised with his party at our home. Now I no longer have a relationship with my older sisters because my whole adult life they never pleased with my achievements and all over me on wedding night. Haha I'll tell ya life is so much better without them. As for the invites i was the same with the kid situation but I put it in a polite way and we had kids there but they took kids around outside area so that it went smoothly during vows.

[@kayyetea8848]

With the situation with the favor with the sister, the sister could have felt insecure or like a burden already and could have read the silence and comment about the things on their mind as confirmation of her feelings and felt rejected. This might be why she got upset. Their sibling doing the favor did nothing wrong. Their feelings are valid. You don’t always have to be on. It takes work to come to a place where you don’t feel the need for people helping you to be overly happy about it so you don’t feel like a burden. I would remind the sister to remember that if their sibling really didn’t want to be there or was being inconvenienced to communicate those feelings to you. If they don’t, there’s nothing you can do.

[@Preston-Lee]

I’m sorry Rachel, but no on the first story. Myself and others have bladder and kidney issues and are literally told by our doctors not to hold in our urine, so no, the lady couldn’t just simply hold it and wait or shouldn’t of had to. There’s no reason the mother couldn’t have set the table up right where the baby table that is already Mounted was so that they didn’t have to take up a stall. I will agree and say, though that the accessible stall is for visible and invisible disabilities.

[@allisondaugherty5963]

Indeed, and to add having had an incontinent parent in the past who I helped caretake for, adult diapers do not function like baby diapers. You're essentially asking that person to pee themselves when they're meant more for a little leakage.

[@pingidjit]

This is poor design of bathrooms though (or cheeping out as most do), and the establishments lack of keeping bathrooms clean. Its an unfortunate situation but not one the parent caused. Get mad at the right people. Not others poorly effected by the situation. There should be more than one accessible bathroom, but companies aren't legally required to offer more than one, so they don't. I bet that dirty change table hadn't been washed in days and that is a health code violation. Either staff being lazy, underpayed, or not enough staff hired/on shift. It all boils down to greedy companies. Not the mother who just wanted a clean space to change her child.

[@ankit8974]

Also the weeding thing, I remember my neighbour just spontaneously just decided to get ready for her wedding in my house, and we were more than happy to let her use our house. Again maybe just a cultural difference.

[@cleosworld9096]

Hold on that first one some times u can’t tell that ppl r disabled. Just by them walking two steps out a stain. Also wait 30 seconds wat if another disabled person was one in it you’d have to wait. Get over it.

[@marybree6719]

I'd like to see Jojo interviewing you and abbie - that'd be interesting!

[@michaelablair4689]

Idk if it’s only in the area I live but I’ve been in public bathrooms where the changing table was in the accessible stall.

[@wowsavannah]

Joy’s great!

[@andreanairvin7724]

I mean usually they are both accessible and family stalls and separate rooms they are generally for both anyway

[@kaitlynlee7070]

I don't always comment on your stuff, but I watch your channel a lot from my TV! However, while you and Joy were talking about the mother forcing her daughter out of her room so her cousins could stay triggered a memory of mine. My eldest sister was pregnant and was living in the family house back in 2014 with her husband. My brother and his boyfriend at the time and myself also lived there. My eldest sister had her best friend come and live with us for a few months until she found her own place, and my sister expected me to give up my room so her best friend could stay. I was forced out of my room and I slept on leather couches in the lounge for a whole month. I got really bad back pain from that. My sister was also very abusive and narcissistic and we haven't even talked in 3 years now, and I had no privacy and my sister didn't give a fuck. Eventually I told her that I'm moving back into my room because I don't deserve to sleep on the couch just because her bestie moved back. So her bestie ended up sleeping in the tiniest room in the house, but I got my room back. Thank fuck. Fuck entitled family members. Ask first, it goes a long way.

[@brooke225]

The assessable bathroom is not only allowed for people with disabilities. There’s no law that says someone without disabilities can’t go in there. I don’t use them because I don’t need them but if I had a baby to change and that was the cleanest option then hell ya, I would go in there and wouldn’t think twice about it because ANYONE is allowed to use the public bathroom stall

[@leotafaulkner8385]

Never change a baby on a changing table! Paramedics have had to remove people from the restrooms who do drugs on those, and it is very possible for your baby to OD from contact of those Drugs cause maintenance does not clean those changing tables very well.

[@kait8008S]

“100 percent”

[@chelsialynn]

i missed joy on this podcast

[@gracesmallwood3685]

Hi love your vids can’t wait to watch it ❤

[@lydiagray]

YES LOVE YOU GUYS

[@jenloves4260]

This is a good one.

[@ruthannmcgowan7467]

An accessible stall is only larger in size to accommodate a wheelchair or other device even a dog, so if that woman could use the other stall her knees where going to hurt regardless

[@aleamcnellis1470]

People who wouldn’t/potentially wouldn’t follow the basic rules for a wedding anyways, simply shouldn’t be invited. Making the lengthy list makes people feel like they aren’t trusted. A tad aggressive.

[@cameramanzoomit]

21:47...Mocking courtesy of a woman who has literally asked men to move heavy things for her. Irony?!

[@delaneykeller1389]

It was more that he assumed that was the reason why she said no to him having one of those rooms. Instead of her just not wanting to downsize her business for someone who she did not want living with her. That's why it deserved mocking.

[@just_megan_elle]

Thank you for pointing out the concept with adult tasks and adult respect! I think it's so common for parents to pull the "my house, my rules" shit when kids quite literally have no choice in the matter. Especially in this scenario when the child is paying bills. That notion absolutely does not apply. It's her house too, and doesn't deserve to be put out when someone else decides to have company over.

[@clearlyseverely3155]

Yeah, as soon as your kid is helping with rent or bills, it's not just your house, because if she didn't contribute they wouldn't be getting by.

[@just_megan_elle]

@@clearlyseverely3155 I mean even if the child wasn't paying the rent, they're still legally obligated to be there. There's no reason why they shouldn't be respected in a place that they are required to be. Just because they're smaller and younger doesn't mean that they still aren't human beings that deserve respect and basic decency.

[@pingidjit]

Even if the child wasn't helping with the bills she still wasn't the asshole imo. That is her space. Being voluntold by a parent to give up her private space isn't okay. Parents who act like their kids should be grateful for simply existing because of them, shouldn't be parents. When you have a child you signed up for clothing, sheltering, feeding, educating, and loving that child until they are capable of doing it themselves. That is the deal. Children, especially teenagers need access to privacy, just like any other human. To forcibly take that away, even temporarily, is gross. If the parent wanted the guests to have proper beds, give up their own first.

[@just_megan_elle]

@@pingidjit EXACTLY!!!

[@ashleighcleaver9009]

For example I didn't want people wearing white at my wedding I didn't put that on the invite but looking at wedding photos my step mum stood out a lot wearing white floral dress and I was like wow that's so wrong it is beyond me also i don't have the closest relationship with her either.

[@kathleencallicoat]

I'm handicap and moms are teaching kids it's ok.

[@gabbyminer9396]

kids cant hold it

[@kathleencallicoat]

There are many types of disabilities, and many need the safety bars. Many parents let the children play and take forever. It's a 4 month old can be changed anywhere. She had a changing pad

[@ameliatod1195]

danny needs to come back

[@alishaj2268]

I’m curious how much people charge to dog-sit? I’ve been told I undercharge and should up my prices. I usually do 40/day for one dog and 60/day for 2. Keep in mind most don’t want/ask me to walk them and they let me stay at their home for the entirety of the trip which is usually about a week. Can someone give me some input on this, TIA😊

[@someonesmom4369]

Joy is great can she co-host every week?

[@kathleencallicoat]

Some put changing table in them

[@EmilySpitfire]

I'm confused why she was able to put the diaper changing bag on the floor but not the changing table... both would be gross but one won't put disabled people in negative situations

[@SuperMusicalPassion1]

Yay joy

[@tamararamey5669]

It all depends on perspective. My nephew is in a wheelchair and has a hard time holding his urine (he waits to long)if someones in the only large stall then he will have accidents. Maybe not the ass hole but there are other solutions.

[@AlexisVanity]

Ppl lack common courtesy

[@heatherastbury4339]

Love you

[@vickytaylor9155]

As a disabled person, I get really get annoyed when able bodied people use our toilet/bathroom. If a toilet area is dirty, then report it to a staff member to sort it. We can’t use a normal stall. As a British person, your toilet stalls with the massive gap under the door would be illegal. I won’t travel to America because of your toilets/bathrooms.

[@melmoelmochelsea]

My problem with this thinking is a lot of people APPEAR able bodied & won't use the stall they actually need because they don't want people to be annoyed at them :(

[@DeathDragon5861]

I think if there is not anyone already waiting to use the stall then its fine, if they take an hour of course be annoyed but u dont get a free bathroom pass just for being handicapped, they aren't incapable of holding their bladder for 2 minutes (unless they are) and its already a low chance a disabled person would be actively waiting

[@pingidjit]

@@DeathDragon5861 Part of it is that it takes time for someone in a wheelchair to get on the toilet. Far longer than for abled persons to just pants down and sit. So they already have to 'hold it' for longer than the average person. Some also medically cannot hold it for health reasons. However, this means that there should be more than one accessible bathroom. Companies cheep out because they aren't required to have more than one legally. The fact that we, as a species, give such little care to the human requirement to expel waste is ridiculous. We need to demand better, for everyones sake.

[@JSandwich13]

Qatar a disabled person, yes she was tje asshole. No, I don't judge her for it, but this is the only stall disabled people can use and you take that away from them. This is one of those things where, its not really the mother's fault. Many places put baby changing in disabled toilets. They shouldnt do that. It means two people with competing needs both will need to use the space. It should be separate.

[@magdalena9917]

Hello

[@suomynonaanonymous]

Crap I always use the handicap unless someone is waiting for it...

[@delaneykeller1389]

Then if a disabled person comes in they have to wait for the only stall they are able to use comfortably while there's a whole row of open stalls that you could have used. The only time I use it is when I really gotta go and all the other stalls are full, and even then I get nervous

[@debbieebbiebobebbie]

Hey, I love you guys but please don’t speak for disabled people unless you’re disabled. 😅👍✨

[@virgilmcclendon5072]

😎😃😊😜😍😘💖🌹

[@LoveStrongerDistance]

1. The accessible bathroom...not an asshole. Im overweight and using the regular stalls makes it difficult to properly clean myself because of how small they are. Technically, not disabled, but I need it. For someone to use just because, yes annoying, but for those that NEED it for whatever reason, not an asshole. The older lady that approached her is the asshole. Calm down, Karen. 2. I get why youd rather be asked first, but its not like she made you sleep outside. Just be accomodating. Its only one night, if it were multiple nights, Id get it. Not an asshole, but not really a big deal in my eyes. 3. The bride to be is the asshole. How are you not going to ask permission to take over someones house?! 4. Its supposed to be temporary, so why should she uproot her surroundings to make a bedroom? AND it doesnt sound like hes going to pay for things?! Absolutely not! 5. If it doesn't work, it doesn't work. The woman is responsible for homing their dog. 6. I agree with Joys opinion. 7. All the sister had to do was ask for help. People arent mind readers and assume you can handle things unless otherwise said. Im the quiet one in situations and people take quietness for being in a bad mood. 8. Keyword, she "requested" they wear certain colors. Then, you cant EXPECT a child to be on perfect behavior. At the end of the day, its your wedding and you want things to go without a hitch, if people cant accept that, they don't need to be there. 9. Vacations are meant to be relaxing. Sharing a room is NOT relaxing.

[@voodoochild7533]

I consider having a child a disability. So the mother was right to use the handicapped stall.

[@Frenziedgremlin]

Are you high? Having a child is not a disability and you don’t get easy access just because you have a kid

[@voodoochild7533]

@@Frenziedgremlin Are *you* high? I’m being facetious!

[@cherry-or2rk]

Sooo..... I'm guessing you are crying for attention,according to all our replies are to teach you that both science, FYi babies are born both human and secondly, your lack of knowledge thank God you're just seeking attention make good choices and use protection,not kids