Entourage Tells The Bride That She Looks Pregnant In Mermaid Dress | Say Yes To The Dress UK

[@aliahathirahazmijaludin2336]

Can we appreciate how enthusiastic the translator sounded? She literally delivered the message very clearly and precisely to represent what the bride had said in terms of emotion and intonation! The bride looks so amazing in the last dress and kudos to Zoey for trying her very best to respect the budget and learnt the least sign language for this special bride!

[@JoyfulOrb]

She has an EXCELLENT Interpreter, and I love that the bridal consultant knows how to pay attention to the signer and not the woman speaking for her!

[@strawlaberry493]

I concur

[@stephanieyee9784]

I agree. The interpreter was great and I'm pleased Zoe took the time to learn some sign language too. It made the appointment more intimate and inclusive.

[@rubyrayrenteria5053]

Yes it almost seemed like she was talking

[@Kittykatkatt]

I kind of loved how Zoe tried her best to communicate with the bride, even though there was an interpreter present. This just shows her professionalism so well!

[@naomicoles8513]

I was thinking the same thing

[@byroniroyes3011]

Yes! Zoe kept looking at the bride even when the interpreter was speaking, didn't make it a 3 way convo

[@cmca23]

I loved that she learned how to say her name and "are you saying yes to the dress", so sweet!! As well as speaking clearly throughout so the bride could lipread. So professional! Love her

[@jemmaj2919]

Absolutely love Zoe, she's a sweetheart, she deserves Gok😍 for a boss not David 😑

[@thekingsdaughter4233]

@@jemmaj2919 but Gok already is lovely on his own. David needs the assistant. ;-)

[@soleilsun3346]

i love the consultant here she's tryna do sign language to communicate with the lovely bride.

[@gracen4914]

So glad someone said it!!

[@LynAtkinson22]

Yes I was very impressed by that too. Thought that was great!

[@aroiamal278]

yeeeeeeeees I wanted to say the same things, she looked soooo kiind 🥺♥

[@aliceslade2556]

I want to learn sign language because we have a deaf client at my work (I'm a vet tech). My school only holds the class if there are enough sign ups though so I might have to find something outside of the school. At any rate, one of the doctors and I have taken to writing back and forth with him. Moral of the story? Really everything else was irrelevant and the point is LEARN SIGN LANGUAGE BECAUSE NOT ENOUGH PEOPLE KNOW IT AND YOU MAY FIND YOURSELF NEEDING IT SOMEDAY.

[@bts_world8259]

She's so pretty and nice

[@TotallyAwesomeMcknz]

I’m so glad that they didn’t try and push her budget and stayed respectful of it

[@ayadiwata]

They tried it on the first two dresses

[@Esellajessica]

I'm always seeing that!

[@marthafinn8622]

999p opp p[p]+]]

[@sophietheresehautenauve]

Not with a TV crew around ;)

[@saanyanaseem2712]

Yeah they pushed a grandma to pay 2600k -_-

[@sadiahussain3958]

*Loving the title without mentioning her disability* yes these are positive acts i need in 2020.

[@shanji15]

But you just did ...grrrr

[@aerial0cereza24]

Period!

[@marlajean1715]

If only the comments section could follow suit

[@justjaein]

Ikr! I’m so happy it wasn’t DEAF GIRL GOES WEDDING DRESS SHOPPING

[@logiclanguagelearningFrench]

So why did you just refer to it as such?

[@myrina6509]

3:06 When they start with "I don't want to be rude but..." you know that they WILL be rude

[@jemmaj2919]

Yup, "if u don't want to be rude, how about you keep your mouth shut?" Simple.

[@MsJubjubbird]

@@jemmaj2919 She brought them to get their opinions. They gave it. I'd rather for my wedding dress they be honest than tell me I look great when I don't

[@rayajayce2034]

I would have been grateful for the honestly. She was right. The dress did make her lower abdomen look.. very round.

[@jemmaj2919]

@@MsJubjubbird is it difficult to say "not flattering"? "not the one"... "you can do better"... Being rude isn't the only way to communicate your honest opinion. Honesty doesn't equate to rude.

[@snowbird1381]

They were right though. I wouldn’t say pregnant. But that dress wasn’t for her.

[@katebenik9086]

I love that they didn’t just market this video as “deaf girl tries on wedding dresses.” It always pisses me off when shows do that because something like that shouldn’t be her only character trait. It’s like saying blonde girl tries on wedding dresses or 5’10 girl tries on wedding dresses. It just doesn’t matter

[@maitri4196]

Andd that is soo nott this channel! I usually find the titles offensive!

[@B888-h2o]

Agreed. And plus I was barely focused on her deafness through the entire video. Her personality is very animated , you can understand her just by her face expressions

[@windsofmarchjourneyperrytr2823]

I'd think it would help someone feeling unlovable because of it, myself...

[@skilletdestroyer]

They do have a video title about a bride who was 5’10 dress shopping tho

[@alifiyabatterywala4481]

I don't understand why people believe in bad luck my heart broke when she started crying in the third dress cause she loved it so much and she looked absolutely stunning..

[@dietotaku]

i've never heard of pearls being bad luck either, why the hell are heirloom pearls even a thing then?!

[@thekingsdaughter4233]

@@dietotaku wear them any day you like, just not as a bride on your wedding day. That's the tradition/"superstition" I heard.

[@snowbird1381]

dietotaku apparently pearls resemble tears and sorrow about the couples relationship.

[@yaellevondrauen4009]

Hello... In Germany they say, that each pearl is a tear that a bride will cry while she's married

[@kerrystone7375]

@@thekingsdaughter4233 I guess I've been lucky then, I wore pearls on my wedding day, they were on my dress and dotted around my veil as well. That was 23 years ago, still married to the same man and I wear a fresh water pearl bracelet, it's one of my favourite peices of jewellery. My birthstone is opal, which is said to be a source of bad luck as well. I'm not at all concerned wearing them as I believe luck is either on one's side or it's not. Sometimes bad stuff happens to good people and I really don't think it is because of choice in jewellery. 😊

[@xine91468]

Why, WHY would the mother mention “bad luck” when her daughter clearly loved that dress. Geez.

[@kellygallison2583]

I know seriously

[@Manjulasweet]

She even called her pregnant rude lady

[@KCPurtell]

Manjula A I think she was honest and pearls has always being know to bring tears! Your mother with true integrity of course will be always most honest! The last dress fitted her best but the pearls would put me off too!

[@jlammetje]

Manjula A that was not the mom though

[@michellestella7477]

@@KCPurtell "...has always been known to bring tears?" You realise that's superstition, not a fact, right?!

[@skitty449]

I love that the consultant treats the bride like anyone else, while also being considerate of her possible accommodations and needs. Excellent customer service I would say!

[@yvettebasson1243]

I love Zoë. She is always so bubbly abs supportive.

[@rebekahtapia5694]

Yesss . (P.S:I love you’re profile picture)

[@eatpoop696969]

this comment is pretty demeaning. how incredible it is to treat this woman like "anyone else" lmao how brave and kind

[@skitty449]

I didn’t mean for it to come across as demeaning. I work with people with special needs. Sometimes people with special needs feel left-out of things and feel like they are not worthy of the same love as anyone else. The assistant really showed her she could be loved and cared for like anyone else should be on their bridal appointment. Like a princess. That’s what I meant.

[@rebekahtapia5694]

S Kitty exactly, I’m a special needs teacher. Sometimes my kids get angry when people treat them differently. They just want to be treated like a normal kid. They want to fit in and have friends like all of us. That’s what she meant, sometimes people trying to “help them” just end up hurting them because they treat them like animals instead of people. Everyone should be treated with respect and having been born different doesn’t mean you need to do everything for them or treat them like a pet, thadts what she was trying to say.

[@patriciaopoku5925]

She looks stunning in the dress. Am also happy her budget wasn't exceeded. Am sure "say yes to the dress UK" is reading the comments on their posts lol....

[@justjaein]

lollll I mean yeah this show was filmed a few years ago but yeah they tend to go over

[@SmileyFace123Lolz]

@@justjaein I've thought of this before! 🤔 I think they are probably posting clips that won't piss off viewers anymore. 😂

[@caitlinnoonan4309]

never tell a woman that they look pregnant NEVER

[@Gymtoshi]

Thank you! I can’t believe I had to scroll so far down to find this comment >_

[@still_not_terry324]

Neverrrrrr

[@tastx3142]

Unfortunately, the way that the dress cut in under her abdomen accentuated her midsection. Would fat be any better way to say than pregnant? The cut wasn’t flattering on that first dress. If you can’t be honest with how you look in the mirror, don’t bring real friends who are honest in their opinion. Some people are blunter than others.

[@Gymtoshi]

TAS TX they could have just said they didn’t think it was flattering and she could find one that suited her body better

[@mishka_bear]

It happened on my wedding haha. I was wearing a very simple dress, which wasn't too flattering (we didn't have much money), and a girl I know congratulated me on both the wedding and the pregnancy! I tried to be gentle when I explained it was only the wedding but internally I was laughing so hard. Poor girl was mortified - she honestly had the best intentions at heart.

[@sherryme3810]

i love how they don't make it about her disability. i love this show more and more. it's about a bride and that is how she is treated :3

[@ang5798]

Yes me too, at no moment was the translator in the picture or focus, always in the background or not visible. I'm happy to see that they were talking to the BRIDE, not to the speaker. It's so silly to say all this but it made me glad that this thing wasn't crushed

[@sherryme3810]

@@ang5798 me, too. it's really good to see how they are improving as a show

[@titaniadioxide6133]

Just so you know, the Deaf community does not consider being Deaf or Hard of Hearing a disability. Unless the individual describes it as such, you shouldn’t either. The more appropriate version of your comment would just replace “disability” with “Deafness” to avoid that connotation.

[@sherryme3810]

@@titaniadioxide6133 oh that's good to know. thank you very much :)

[@rachelknight3433]

as a part of this community myself, I’ve also had a few people refer to it as a hearing difference which i love because tbh, that’s all it really is! we hear differently from other people☺️👌🏻

[@akankshapatial075]

*something goes wrong in their marriage* Mum: I warned you about the pearls

[@anshumomagic17]

Yeah exactly.. Ppl should avoid mentioning such stupid taboos to anyone..🤦‍♀️ Like even if something goes wrong at any point of time in her married life, she's gonna feel maybe the pearls are causing this 🥴

[@Rhianalanthula]

At my friend's house warming party about 2 months before her wedding, her grandfather kept saying an old rhyme: Change the name and not the letter, marry for worse and not fir better. Miss R became Mrs R, is still married 23 years later!

[@jessicaellina3878]

My mother always said that pearls bring tears. I have some ( gifts) but l never wear them....

[@JessyingAround]

🤣🤣

[@michelehenne2477]

@@jessicaellina3878 goodness, wear your pearls! 💜

[@KTKaute]

I didn't like the first two dresses and started to get worried for her. Then the third one came out and.....Wow!!! She looks incredible 😶

[@Scampergirl]

Right? It fit her perfectly!

[@danielleking262]

Agreed!!!!!

[@belladonnacrow5775]

as a deaf person, i always get so happy whenever theres disability representation and no one has a negative attitude. people tend to get quite annoyed when they have to sign and see the deaf individual lip reading, so its nice to see them being so kind

[@danielleking262]

I think because David wasn't there for the consultation, or else he probably would've gotten annoyed 😄

[@piperlee4213]

This bride is absolutely gorgeous and seems like the most kind hearted soul ever 💕💕💕

[@floofyisland6805]

Yes!

[@rivertam7827]

Pearls are only supposed to be bad luck if they're in a string with no other gems or jewels. Probably a marketing tactic from jewellers to get people to buy diamond and pearl necklaces lol

[@karenhampton804]

I've never heard of this about pearls before. I have heard it about Opal, though, if it's not your birthstone...lucky for me, it IS...and my late Mom's was Pearl (June), so I've got a couple of Pearl pieces from her. This young lady looked stunning in the dress she chose & I'm so glad her mom stepped up & encouraged her.

[@thekingsdaughter4233]

@@jlp2061 not sure about the "when", but it seems to depend on the culture, like so many traditions. This one here, then in Germany, in Mexico, and Czech Republic as I learned from the comments.

[@Smiling-1982]

Bad luck😂😂😂

[@kerrystone7375]

@@karenhampton804 Hey there! Opal is also my birthstone as well, I do love white opal especially. And I also had pearls on my wedding dress and veil when I got married. I've never heard anything about pearls being bad luck either, but I agree I've heard people say stuff about opals. I've also been married 23 years, still going great too! I guess bad luck can happen to anyone, probably not because of a choice of jewellery. 😊

[@karenhampton804]

@@kerrystone7375 Hi Kerry.......I, too had pearls on my wedding dress & on the crown of my veil....in 1973. And, we're still stuck with each other...😁 And, I never met an Opal I didn't love...even as a child....my husband surprised me on vacation for our 25th anniversary with a custom made huge Australian Opal ring...we were at the Grand Canyon...he thought it would distracted me from the fact that I hate heights...and the desert. It did not....but I love him & the ring. We're hoping to make it to Ireland & the UK for our anniversary next year.... places we BOTH want to be....Guinness, Jameson's & all....provided we can all be allowed to travel again. 😊☘️ And, anyone still wants Americans 😣

[@madeleinefrommeyer2909]

i love that the consultant is directly talking to the bride rather than talking and primarily looking at the interpreter. it makes someone feel appreciated and heard

[@Dopa_mineDog]

Wait they had a blingy dress under 1000? Then why were they saying more bling more budget for the other brides? 🤔

[@dianaahakim2001]

Madhavika Nair I mean it depends. Some use real crystals. Maybe this one is made with fake crystals, as far as my fashion knowledge goes.

[@dalilarocha4562]

Fake Crystals/Pearls are Cheaper than REAL Bling. Plus some fabrics are hard to make with bling

[@AniWatX]

Hi, Madhavika, The bling is glued on rather than stitched on the less expensive dresses. I think she looks beautiful in the dress she chose and you would never know it’s a less expensive one. 😊

[@wendysteele4508]

It could also be a discontinued style, a sample clearance dress, or a canceled order dress...which might have originally cost significantly more.

[@lilyjane570]

@@AniWatX thank you I was so curious about this. I wonder if the bling will eventually fall off the cheaper dress or age worse because it seems worth the price cut for sure but there must be a reason people go for the higher price tag.

[@anaanyapoddar3634]

I’m so glad they respected her and didn’t put her disability in the title of the video to get more views

[@emma-imlivewithcam869]

🧡💕

[@ROSE-ku1pz]

Her waist really did look tiny in the third dress! That’s what I would care most about

[@victoriaf.74]

There are ways, and there are ways. The rude comment was not necessary, how about “it doesn’t do you justice”. In the end, she chose the best dress.

[@td8333]

eh, people would still moan about that too. whenever someone in the bridal party gives even the tiniest opinion, people in this comment section freak out like "omg shut up, it's not your wedding, quit trying to control her!!!"

[@monkey93xf]

The bride didn’t really react much to it, because the deaf community is really blunt. If you noticed her mom made a very disgusted face before her description. It’s just how we communicate

[@caseynivans7885]

some people can actually handle the truth

[@amm6569]

THIS is what I want to see. The normalization of people who are differently-abled than the status quo without a huge fuss on the disability. Halfway through I forgot she was even deaf and watching the sign language seemed normal to me. Not saying I'm minimizing her challenges but just that she quickly appeared to fit right in with everything else. Good for her for living life to the largest.

[@griffinsonjupiter]

just letting you know that as a disabled person, most disabled people prefer the term "disabled" to "differently-abled". disability is not inherently bad, it just "is" , and by avoiding the word disabled, it further stigmatizes disabilities. this isn't meant as an attack! I promise, i just thought I'd let you know.

[@hayleyferguson3346]

@@griffinsonjupiter as someone with deaf friends, they don't consider themselves "disabled" at all, just speaking a different language. I was also trained as a school educator to use "differently-abled" (here in Canada) whether that's correct or not. Thanks for sharing your point of view and what term you prefer.

[@kdragon713]

I love how understanding they are of her disability. The last dressed looked amazing on her and bellow budget!

[@hollyg2374]

Who would say that, she looks beautiful. I wish the best for her.

[@farihasiddiqui]

How rude! She should have just said I dont like it. But no. She went ahead and she looked like pregnant! How very rude! 😑😑

[@caole88]

I completely agree!!

[@mochimochi7669]

All she had to say was “It’s a bit unflattering.” Wording, people.

[@EyeconicLaura]

Hella disappointing that they even have a deaf person on the show yet still have no captions on their videos

[@thekingsdaughter4233]

I can hear, but tried to understand the signing. All I could tell that what she signed is very different from what I learned (ASL). :-( So, not enough. Yes, captions would have been the logical thing. And now I wonder who gave Zoe her name? :-) In sign language, that is. I was told that one doesn't get to pick for oneself.

[@arielhorseman1104]

@@thekingsdaughter4233 BSL, is British Sign language. I am a hearing person too but grew up learning ASL. In the eighth grade I found out the British sign VERY differently from us. Their Alphabet and numbers use two hands as well as a lot of their words. That is why you don't understand it.

[@thekingsdaughter4233]

@@arielhorseman1104 our teacher told us about cultural differences in sign languages, using the sign for "to work" as an example (agrarian vs industrial societies). The German sign for "to save, economize" seems to be, "to vote" in ASL! I was a bit shocked and dismayed, I guess, to see that it's so VERY different- doesn't even compare to the differences in the spoken English language. Teacher said the basics would be universal. Huh. - I did recognize the sign for, "name". And that was about it. :-(

[@は私です彼の名前]

At least the bride was signing.

[@melissacoviello2886]

Yes I am very disappointed that captions are regularly available on this channel, but specifically for this one. You’d think with how well the shop did accommodating her that they could have captions. I’m HOH and even I struggle without captions.

[@shruthitnair7924]

Pearls are bad luck!! 🙄 Oh really ! You just had to spoil her moment and make her cry

[@ang5798]

She is a full adult and handled it well 😂

[@hmsims3]

Pearls are bad luck??? Since when? Lol. Brides have been wearing pearls forever

[@thekingsdaughter4233]

Cultural thing, maybe. I do not know if great-grandma was still around to be there (and be worried to see this); but my own great-grandmother and grandmother would have said/felt the same about pearls and weddings. That was about (genuine) pearl necklaces and earrings, though, I think - not sure if those that are surely faux ones would even count. ;-)

[@lisasargent2841]

How could a mother say that to her daughter that "grandma will say pearls are bad luck." Then mom back pedals & says "Oh grandma will love it!!!" The mom has problems with her owm mother but leave your young, darling, daughter that's alot more mature than you out of your messed up life.

[@ThePimmy11]

They can maybe avoid it if she isn't paying for the dress herself. It's like with jade - considered good luck if gifted to you and bad luck if bought for yourself.

[@melaniescott8204]

less than £1000?! She looked gorgeous, and more beautiful in that dress than ones that I've seen on these shows costing many times more (think Pinina Tornai nightmares)

[@yvettebasson1243]

Pnina is a synonym for tacky.

[@mimivb87]

I adore this consultant. She is such a lovely woman. So friendly and genuinely excited about her job, the dresses, and making the brides happy. ❤️

[@pheurbelvls3710]

Cheers to the bridal shop for having an interpreter and the consultant for knowing some sign language. 💚💚

[@llodeka]

I'd guess the interpreter came with the bride. At least that's how it usually goes :) but I loved the consultant for learning basic BSL signs!

[@maddiewhatever441]

@Xcuze I wouldn't be surprised in a luxury store like this they might hire someone to please a customer lol.

[@junimondify]

Goldsmiths also have a saying that goes "Every pearl on the wedding day is a tear in the marriage". I always like to add "But who says no to happy tears?"

[@emilyesnyman]

Yes!

[@ScorpioBZ4]

That phrase to me also sounds like you can’t throw money at a relationship to make it work? Like the brides that have these crazy elaborate weddings but the relationship isn’t solid. That’s how I interpret it

[@sherrynevis-baltzer734]

This is why I believe you need to think before you speak. She is stunning in that gown. Instead of superstitious nonsense build her confidence up.

[@tejebrown]

Every woman in my family has worn my grandmother's pearls and of 9 of us theft is only 1 divorce. I was the last to wear them and have been married 12 years.

[@junimondify]

@@ScorpioBZ4 It originated in the shape of the pearl which resembles a tear and because the men diving for the pearls often never came back, resulting in tears from their families. But the elaborate weddings for a relationship the couple does not work for is definitely a trend right now!

[@Katemio]

Can we talk about how fricking beautiful and gorgeous Zoe Lucioni is? Because every time I just adore her beauty and style. So classy, very fifties/sixties but yet so modern and elegant.

[@donworry6473]

I agree but it's not about Zoe.

[@YourDailyDoseofJillish]

"The pearls are bad luck" good news luck isn't real.

[@justjaein]

I mean luck is real but the concept of something giving someone bad luck isn’t real ur right

[@jasmin-yb2ut]

@@justjaein for muslims there is no 'luck' it is all written what's happening so we don't really use the term 'luckily' etc. 😅 just saying haha

[@YourDailyDoseofJillish]

@@justjaein I'm a Christian and so the idea of luck isn't supported through my faith or through science for that matter

[@kerrystone7375]

@@YourDailyDoseofJillish I agree with you on that. I wore pearls on my wedding day and that was 23 years ago, still married to the same man. I do believe people can create good luck with the way they think, treat others, and generally live their lives. Good and bad luck can't be created by a choice of jewellery. I believe it's more about karma. Sometimes things can turn full circle and life rewards us depending on how we live and treat others. Or life can really suck just for no real reason. That's the reality of being alive.

[@Ririkrd]

@@jasmin-yb2ut depends on the country you live in my country is Muslim too and everytime someone sneeze they said its a sign of luck or if an owl fly around the house its a bad luck

[@ShelbyZealand]

Pearls are bad luck?!? Wth? Seriously? Is this a culture thing or just a random superstition? I've never heard of this anywhere. Seems like they'd be good luck.

[@thekingsdaughter4233]

I'm from Germany, and especially perhaps in the North, pearls for a bride were a big NO. I'm inching towards 50, and that's what I heard growing up. It's because somehow, pearls are/were associated with _tears,_ and the saying was that a bride who wears pearls will cry a lot in her marriage. I kind of forgot about it- I got married in another country/culture and my earrings and necklace had pearls. I like to think that I cried no more than average, though; and we are getting close to 18 years of marriage ! ;-)

[@hmsims3]

The King's Daughter this is so interesting! In the States, brides wear pearls all the time!

[@thekingsdaughter4233]

@@hmsims3 I got married in the States, and my sweet mother-in-law offered me her pearls for the "something borrowed". ;-) :-D My own jewelry actually had pearls in them - I did EVERYTHING wrong from my cultural heritage point of view - my dress was off-white (like milk), I wore pearls and had flowers in my hair instead of myrtle. But here we are, still married after almost 18 years! :-)

[@thekingsdaughter4233]

@Leonie it might be a Northern thing. Richtung Nordsee (oder auch Ostsee). Fischerdörfer und so. Or maybe, time has washed it away by now. I'm getting close to 50, and am from a rural area in Lower Saxony. But the times, they are a-changing... and have for a while; even there. My great-grandmothers and grandmothers would have said the same thing.

[@lenka156]

It's not just german thing. In Czechoslovakia existed this phrase too. But I think - we should not believe it. It's like when the black cat crosses your road...

[@rushanthidesilva5844]

Oh this consultant trying so hard to speak in sign language ❤️❤️❤️ this is beautiful to see 🤩

[@hey_richard_this_is_tony]

Zoe is such a great consultant.

[@captainteeko4579]

Mom: pearls r bad luck.... this is not the outcome I wanted *THEN WHY DID U SAY IT WTF*

[@Katie-vg3jn]

UK: £1000 is very reasonable and gets you a gorgeous dress and plenty of options US: don't you dare step into a bridal shop with less than $3000-5000 or you'll have three options and they'll all look like your grandma's couch

[@Hamstergirl71]

Not really true. I got a very pretty dress for $699 and I’m plus size as well. There were plenty of beautiful dresses in my size.

[@michelehenne2477]

Well, at Lori's anyway, that is what you get.

[@gem2148]

What an absolute pure soul, bless her heart & her marriage 💖

[@patperrieryogawithatwist557]

Love that there was an interpreter there, and that the consultant spoke directly to the bride. Good job!

[@serendipityshopnyc]

The entourage wasn't wrong about the first dress, and the third one definitely suited her to a tee.

[@sarahbrown9774]

Stunning and even more amazing the consultant's respect for the budget!!!!

[@user-ariella]

Oh my god her entourage is mean!!! She’s beautiful in that dress

[@ang5798]

They were honest and she reacted reasonably so the result was good 😊

[@thekingsdaughter4233]

I never tried on a "mermaid dress", and from this show I learned not even to bother (I do have a mommy tummy after c-section). If one has not a trim, flat stomach, one will look... yes, pregnant. I notice my own tummy only from a side view. Sometimes, it takes an honest friend to say what everyone else is thinking, so it can be fixed.

[@jemmaj2919]

@@thekingsdaughter4233 can u fix it? Would that 'honest' friend make a difference in ur will to change it? Will ur friend pay for the fix? If the answer is no to all, u really don't need that friend, no one needs a friend that sits there picking out their flaws.

[@thekingsdaughter4233]

@@jemmaj2919 easiest fix? Choose a different dress. One that actually flatters. If you are dead set- shapewear. Industrial strength. I keep hearing both, "If you can't say something nice..." AND, when nobody said anything, "Gosh, who let her be seen like that? Has she no friends to tell her that... 'Friends don't let friends wear...' ...". Well, which is it to be? Can't have it both ways. Who's a better friend? Someone who never says what you don't want to hear? Or someone who brings up what _can_ and _should_ be changed? Her tummy _did_ look big in that dress which she may not have noticed in full frontal view, but everyone else did. She didn't even want a "mermaid" dress to begin with! Fix: different style of dress. Try one size up. Shape wear. Or simply... a different style of dress. Which she did, and so much the better.

[@jemmaj2919]

@@thekingsdaughter4233 but ur friend doesn't need to tell you "you look pregnant"? That's not an honest friend, that's a rude one. You can easily say "it doesn't flatter you, A-line will look better" that's also true but it doesn't pick on your flaws, doesn't dig into your self-consciousness, yet it achieves the same goal

[@LaSopRAWna]

she made the right choice...very flattering on her figure, sparkly and looks beautiful!!! the second dress looked awful with the dropped waist. i'm glad they forgot about the pearls being bad luck. nonsense!

[@The_Abaddon_69]

She looked lovely in that dress, they’re just haters

[@RavingPandaSkittlez]

Genuinely the best translator I’ve seen imo

[@ceciliarodriguez7184]

In my culture, the bride avoids wearing pearls on her wedding day because they are like tears. But hey, it's 2020 so let's move forward. She looks wonderful!

[@mommynab]

Thanks for explaining that, never heard of it.

[@thekingsdaughter4233]

I'm German, and that's what I heard, too.

[@hmsims3]

I can’t get over this. I’d never heard of it! I always associate pearls with bridal. So interesting

[@bliss6495]

Zoe is my fave consultant. She is always considerate to brides.

[@coolbreezess1]

Shouldn't they pull out the last dress first... its in the budget, its blingy and its big.. everything she asked for...

[@marlajean1715]

It's a process

[@melaniescott8204]

Would make boring tv

[@anweshamohanty1124]

In these shows, the dresses that are less costly actually look way better and more beautiful. Loved this episode.

[@mara2624]

I'm happy she ended up with a dress that suits her . Congratulations

[@Picachki]

She looks so beautiful! As soon as I saw her in it and saw how well it fit her and how happy she was, I knew. It’s weird to me how her loved ones don’t realize how much she loves it right away and that they should be supportive!

[@nandanasaikia3696]

This consultant is too beautiful!

[@angelajulia740]

i love how zoe still making signs language and making eye contact with the bride

[@disha4613]

*I don't know why people say that I don't want to be rude and say something that really break someone heart* 🤷 She could have said in a good way like u look lil chubby from stomach. She is beautiful girl... N look beautiful in that dress ❤️😍... Plz girls don't say anything like this to other it really hurts.... 😕😕

[@MsJubjubbird]

Saying someone is chubby is worse. It implies that they're fat. Saying they look pregnant means it's the style of the dress. They're just being honest to be helpful

[@disha4613]

@@MsJubjubbird who said u chubby means fat ( it's having a moderate amount of fat in some areas ) even if it means fat.. it is better then saying someone that u look like u r pregnant... Btw I wrote lil (Little) chubby ( from stomach arean in this dress ) Don't go soo deep

[@mariahetszaz8567]

@@disha4613 No it is NOT better. It is worse.

[@Snarkulous]

How would "u look lil chubby from the stomach" be any better than you look pregnant

[@caole88]

myra choudhary exactly!! Who wants to hear you look pregnant and you’re not. You immediately think I look fat! I rather hear a little chubby.

[@heidicook2739]

She looks beautiful in the last dress. And lots of brides wear pearls.

[@savannahs8914]

The consultant's deaf etiquette is great. She always looks at the bride. I think she knows someone deaf or has been around the community because hearing people naturally want to look at whoever is making noise/talking

[@prettyoranges4582]

The consultant is the sweetest and definitely knows how to do her job.. Very bright and smart. The bride is absolutely stunning and the gown suits her so much❤

[@shereecollins7569]

This was a great episode. I'm so glad the mom stated that it was her dress and her choice. I'm also impressed that the bridal consultant used sign language. 😊

[@mandamorris7934]

She's ADORABLE!! Well done... she's floating on cloud nine, and I send wishes for every happiness! And mum... well done as well. Your stating it's her day, her wedding... that is so precious and supportive. Big hugs...

[@glenicecrease5115]

It’s OK because you can be sure they are not real pearls, just plastic. She looked FANTASTIC.

[@vedhika5874]

I like the way there is the interaction coz they understood the FEELINGS not anything else!

[@scorpio.stellium]

i love how there’s no subtitles so that the bride can’t even watch her episode😐

[@penguinZ85]

She is adorable. I love how emotive she is.

[@carolmk3114]

Zoe the consultant is always amazing. I absolutely adore her.

[@arrib528]

That bride is gorgeous, she's so natural and just absolutely stunning.

[@shalapartap5708]

Why on earth would u make hear cry telling hear pearls are bad luck she looked absolutely gorgeous

[@doulos214]

Shala Partap yes - what a foolish, ridiculous, and heartless thing to say!

[@JH-dc3nr]

Who knows, but what if that was just the mother thinking about the grandma because she missed her and she saw the pearls and said the first thing that was connected to grandma? A kind of brain fart? ;)

[@annmarie6675]

Props to the consultant!! How awesome that she knew how to sign. That dress always looks great on everyone. I love it.

[@ms.mittensmeowmeow7573]

Grandma would say the pearls were bad luck 5 minutes later - Grandma would love it The way she rolled her eyes lol

[@gib_shmercy]

zoey signing a bit to the bride just made this all the more wholesome, ive always wanted to learn to sign

[@ericabenham2496]

Same here I know 4 words in sign language but I wish I knew more, 1 of my friends does sign language and taught me 2 of them.

[@Caffeinatedsoul00]

I hated momma at pearl being bad luck and then I loved her when she agreed leaving behind her believes

[@samanthabond3113]

That dress was made for her!! She looked beautiful, and you can tell she felt beautiful! Good for her for standing up for her dress, she knew it the right dress!

[@katyayiniraje2429]

She's such a cute bride.. may God bless her

[@Kisozriel]

I rarely cry during these episodes and I simply lost it with this one. The cut and style of the dress looked amazing on her and she looked SO happy. 💗💗

[@cassie.G]

Zoe is just the cutest consultant ever. 💗

[@kimberlythermond7993]

Her personality is so cute.

[@glassie6733]

God bless her, she's stunning 😇 & I can tell she has a heart of solid gold 💛 looks like a very happy young woman 😌

[@joanbroad3528]

Pearls are timeless, classic and simply beautiful! Follow your heart and don’t listen to the doubters xxx

[@mymistake1385]

The dress is stuning and she looked beautiful

[@AsBeautiful471]

I have watched many episodes of Say Yes The Dress, but this is the Best and my Most Favourite and #1 is this one. This is close to my heart because my child is deaf. Everything about this episode is Beautiful!! Thank-you to the family for sharing these precious moments.

[@bellarose894]

I love that the title didn’t even mention the disability in the title, it really shows that it’s about the bride and not her disability

[@maggiec.6871]

It's so awesome that the consultant was not staring at the interpreter and instead just looked at the bride the entire time.

[@MGongopadhyay]

What an amazing spirit!!! God Bless her...

[@frostbytesavage9291]

Love the translator. She definitely gave you a feel of what’s being signed with emotion

[@prachigg8917]

Thank you for giving her gown under her budget😍

[@ellasmommy9278]

I love the dress and translator. Was it me, or was the consultant Zoe signing too? That's awesome

[@vanillathunder11559]

Obviously grandma is dead and therefore doesnt care one ioda about Pearl's on her dress lol

[@HoneyBee-fd9nm]

I have seen so many videos of this consultant zoe.. she is the loveliest and soo down to earth 🥺❤️

[@Lulu212x]

I don't understand people!! You saw your daughter finally so happy with a dress, why on earth you try to stuffed her head and broke her heart with ridicules things like that!! And who's said that pearls is a bad luck?! Duh!!

[@thekingsdaughter4233]

It's a cultural thing, it seems.

[@jessicacronin3364]

I love the consultant she tried her hardest to do sign language and she also stayed in budget 🥰

[@edisophean2698]

She is beautiful and the dress fits her perfectly

[@75fordham]

By far the prettiest and most flattering dress!! Bride had perfect instincts.

[@srushtikulkarni7817]

Thank god they didn't try to market this episode on she being differently-abled

[@thekingsdaughter4233]

She needed an interpreter, but that's all. A bride in a wheelchair may have special requirements for her dress compared with one who walks, and then there was one who is a "little person" and needed a dress that fit her size, but this bride needed nothing different. So no call for making this a big deal.

[@hypnowizard9337]

But the comments did😤

[@KellyBKuhns41803]

She's a pretty woman. I love the ASL/HOH/Deaf representation, and the interpreter did phenomenal.

[@jaynezayas2491]

sometimes you gotta call shit out tho, because as her friends and family, she’d be the one to hate them when she saw her wedding pictures and saw the gut hanging out and wonder why they didn’t say anything.

[@sarfycrave4760]

Exactly! I too would prefer someone who truly means well with their brutal honesty. They care about her and want her to look her best!

[@jessicaellina3878]

It could have been better put " looks a bit tight round the middle.. how does it feel?"

[@danniellabeckford8451]

Not everyone has the same insecurities. Sometimes in the name of being “blunt” we impose our own insecurities on people who would otherwise be happy.

[@elizabethsteen581]

I want just wanna squeeze this consultant!! She is lovely and made this bride feel amazing!

[@Edmfairyy]

Even her body language changed when she signs u can tel SHE loved it 😍😍

[@sharidana.9681]

I love how the bride signs you can tell she is bursting with personality❤ she is adorable!