Are 'Girls Trips' on Spring Break Okay When Married?

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[@infotechsailor]

Never let your woman go on girl trips. So glad my wife has zero interest in girls trips. It would be game over instantly.

[@TOCC50]

@@infotechsailormy girl just got arrested in Holland

[@WOHM8274]

You might as well call them “I’m bored with my husband so here’s my weekend to cheat and do whatever I want to do.”

[@demarcusds95]

Basically

[@chrisrose2690]

FACTS 👌!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@mizukagematt1186]

Exactly

[@SilviaLampa]

This pig literally encourages married men to cheat

[@highvaluegentleman.]

👏🏻

[@fishin4bogey]

Controlling...the excuse women use when they don't get their way. Also see abuse.

[@cloroxbleach118]

yup. the classic “my abusive ex boyfriend” always makes me giggle.

[@chrisrose2690]

BIG FACTS 👌!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@leninfernandez9279]

And narcicism

[@turbocobra]

@@leninfernandez9279 Dont forget "Toxic"

[@fhaze10]

I swear, 90% of my exes caller their ex bfs abusive. It's not a coincidence😂😂

[@3941602]

Most of the girls gone wild videos were filmed on spring break or mardi gras. There is no way a place for a married women to be by herself. Its all debauchery

[@fortpark-wd9sx]

And most of these videos were made by men that were encouraging these women. Men in general have to speak up against such practices.

[@shadowwolf9909]

I listen to a sports radio show, the hosts are far left, the worst of the bunch is the militant atheist. He said under no circumstances would he ever want his wife or daughters, one is a step daughter, go to New Orleans alone because of how dangerous it is. For a city to be that bad, that it can break through a male feminist's Cultural Marxism programming says a lot. They were just talking about it again the other day, and a regular guest, a guy, said he was going to cut through an alley as a shortcut to where he was heading, a police officer stopped him and told him to stay on the main streets.

[@tassosplatis2143]

Saying she wants to go on spring break with her friends is a polite way of saying she wants a divorce

[@chrisrose2690]

FACTS 👌!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@svalbard01]

She's getting some pipe laid!

[@mizukagematt1186]

Exactly buddy will learn soon enough

[@audie-cashstack-uk4881]

At Easter time to couldn't make it up satanic behavior at Easter time tells you everything you ned to know

[@hanzbrixx]

For the streets.

[@PepeToTheMooon]

My friends wife always wants to take a trip to Miami every 6 months with her girls. Then when she comes back, he tells me she’s never in the mood. All I do is nod my head. Can’t wake up people who want to be asleep.

[@ManfromHell83]

Every 6 months !?!? SMACK to your friend

[@STARFIGHT88]

She gotta wait for that thing to stretch back to normal....at least somewhat 😅

[@chrisdacrisis4670]

​@@STARFIGHT88Yeah dude. Diego & Tyrone prolly tearin her cooter up.

[@thetruthhurts131]

Of course she isn't in the mood. Chad and Tyrone got her exhausted.

[@Ascension_3030]

Probably wants to make sure that if she gets pregnant by the men that are raw dogging her, she doesnt confuse the pregnancy with her beta husbands

[@maia3420]

If your wife has a friends circle that suggests an all girl’s trip, she needs a new circle of friends immediately. And if she gives you a hard time about it, even if she complies, you need a new wife.

[@personnesenki4521]

Exactly. Those women are bad influences.

[@JRRob3wn]

They’ll pressure her to cheat too, instead of pulling her out of a dicey situation they’ll be egging her on in the club.

[@SKBottom]

Agreed. Even if she complies, you know where her heart is. She'll just start to try and find ways to sneak.

[@Aryankingz]

That's what I call keeping it 💯 , no long talking

[@simonize251]

“You need a new wife” FOH Not needing a wife in the first place is the mindset to strive for

[@nickpeluso7511]

If a woman uses shaming language i instantly lose respect for her. Im out

[@rickyhay]

So the kids lose their daddy? The guy does sound overly controlling.

[@highvaluegentleman.]

👏🏻

[@harrymills2770]

​@@rickyhay Hopefully, and I think in most cases, the immaturity of a woman who would speak to her man in such a way would reveal itself before it got so far as having kids together. I'm the kind of guy who would ghost any woman who thought it was a good idea to try to manipulate me in that way, with or without kids. It's not like I'm stuck on principle. It would just shut me down towards her and make me leave. I'll discuss anything, but I won't argue, and I won't stick around to be belittled by anyone. I grew up arguing. I'm good at arguing. I hate arguing.

[@harrymills2770]

@@rickyhay I agree the guy sounds overly controlling. But remember, they're taking the woman's version of what was said. I don't think it's unreasonable to express a little hesitancy, but the way he reportedly worded it, it definitely sounded authoritarian, rather than "Try to see my side," which might be a better tack.

[@Epsilon514]

My ex wife went on a girl's trip....she came back with souvenirs and ch!amidiya....I got the ultimate gift...my life back.

[@edmahonejr.9364]

Are you serious

[@Epsilon514]

@@edmahonejr.9364 Unfortunately yes

[@0ccam5Raz0r]

We guys try to make it sound like we walked away happy, but I bet that stung like hell.

[@oskarkarrera]

Brody fuk it its a LIFE xperience Man

[@infotechsailor]

Damn. Bro this is why you say NO and never allow it.

[@ericbailey9549]

She calls it a shotgun wedding and now wants to party without baggage. Sounds like she wants to get stuffed.

[@TexasLonghornRanch]

This is the correct interpretation. Just because she’s with other married women does not mean they won’t cover for each other.

[@hammertyme8392]

​@@TexasLonghornRanch Being with other married women only proofs the point even more.

[@jasong5094]

The fact that after he told her no, she turns right around and puts their business on the internet for a bunch of strangers to critique is extremely disrespectful.

[@mayorofthenonsense]

I would guess that the manner in which he said ‘no’ was probably a little too passive, because in her mind the issue is still open for debate. If he was resolute and firm in what he said, the chances that she would be talking about it on the internet are pretty much zero.

[@muskokamike127]

there's a series called "women posting L's" and it's crazy how many do it.

[@ivanantov5017]

Couldn't have said it better, lol. You nailed it.

[@3radHill]

I highly recommend if you ever see a group of ladies out or on vacation together to pay close attention to how they act. Your's isn't any better.

[@ahnla38]

I can confirm! I was on vacation on playa del Carmen, then we create a group of party guys... then a group of bachelorettes arrive,. and we were all drunk and dancing... I ask them what does they have done until now, and then asked if they have done something crazy, which they said no, nothing... and they behavior changes like: mmm wwhy e have not done anything wrong... next night, the fiancee fucked the chad of the party group.

[@ChristopherSeaDawg]

After being married for 1 year, my wife came to me and said our friend Sharon won a trip for two to Hawaii all expenses paid for 7 days. Sharon’s husband is a doctor and has commitments so he can’t go. She asked if I minded if she went? Of course I said yes. If was the other way around I wouldn’t expect her to not agree on me going. Two weeks after she got home, she told me that they both had an affair in Hawaii. I told her immediately that we’re done. Got my stuff and left. We were living in her rented house. Never looked back. Glad we didn’t have children. That really hurt me, but I got over it and currently have a great marriage of 19 years.

[@ryanlynch290]

Did you let Sharon's husband know?

[@squadgeman3247]

There are three entities in the relationship: The man The woman The relationship A relationship is like a corporation. The man wants to protect the relationship; the woman wants to risk the relationship. If you care about something, you don't expose it to unnecessary risk.

[@gd515051]

When you’re married with kids, the man and woman no longer exist as singular entities. It’s all about the family.

[@squadgeman3247]

@@gd515051Yes, this is the theory. Finding a woman who accepts this in more than just words, that is the difficulty. And it takes a community of like minded people to encourage and enforce this.

[@tonyRadaM]

@@gd515051 no, you are still a man and she is still a man, no matter the situation.

[@iankaplan6590]

The relationship has to come first. If people did that we wouldn't get these silly questions about girls trips all the time.

[@jurassicthunder]

​@@gd515051well he's making a point that it COULD be like this for either side. (mostly women)

[@Dan_Tactics]

This ties in directly with "he's just a friend".

[@EduardoRodrigues-ce4dh]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@brucesmith9144]

Just their “beard.”

[@jonsandstrom2356]

An all married girls trip on spring break. Gee what could go wrong with that! Even the fact she was willing to go is a huge red flag.

[@ourinterestingtymes]

When you get married it is important to have a lifestyle and engage in activities that are consistent with that vocation. After I got married, I stopped going to bars and attending most parties because my focus was now my wife, my children and my home.

[@Dweeble233]

Nothing wrong with the occasional boys night out. Just keep it reasonable.

[@muskokamike127]

and what's wrong with couples parties? that's a little ridiculous. When I was in a 5 yr relationship and living with a woman at least once or twice a month we went to dinner parties with other couples or weekends away etc. Have dinner, break out the wine, and play couples games like pictionary or charades or ?

[@Dweeble233]

@@muskokamike127 i live in a small neighborhood. The amount of cheating that originates in couple "friend" groups is insane...

[@muskokamike127]

@@Dweeble233 does it happen? yes. I also had a close group of friends and no cheating went on at all. Know why? we were truly friends, not facebook friends. Bros before hoes.

[@havik9517]

"You're jealous, insecure, and controlling!" Womanese translation- " you don't let me cheat in peace."

[@billthebutcher6873]

Prison is being in a relationship with any modern women. I've been in Prison for 6 years now, and no end of sentence in sight. Now that's frustration.

[@TonyTruthRx]

You could leave. I just did after 18 years and I’m happy as a duck in water.

[@WolfStory]

@@TonyTruthRx Not so easy when you live in a state that totally favors females AND there's children involved.

[@jarrodhayne560]

I’m leaving after 6 years, as a man we just need to do it on our own. Women will always be supported and told they are right and pure, as men we will always be demonised even if we have done nothing wrong. I’m not telling anyone, just leaving, otherwise I will end up dead dealing with this screaming and manipulating

[@0ccam5Raz0r]

​@TonyTruthRx I'm happy too, but let's be honest, initially it's very painful.

[@AZBADBOYz]

If you don't have kids, it's not worth "trying to make it work." Hit the door running, it's actually much easier than staying, especially after the first year is under you.

[@jonsalt3241]

Don't overlook the age difference gentlemen, he's 5 years younger, she is wearing the pants and controlling her boy.

[@InvestgoldUK]

And a teacher, clues are there. Sounds like he’s growing up fast though

[@MrSilverfish12]

@@InvestgoldUK the fact that he´s already told her not to go is a good sign. But again this is the problem with dating older women, they´ve been running the carousel for so long it´s like being signed to the Lakers but you gotta wear their used Jerseys from the 80´s.

[@masterblaster1502]

Every married fee male wears the pants. Any male emasculated/blue pill/delusional enough to get on a knee and sign a gyno kuk contract has lost his way and the respect/attraction of his owner.

[@saturn580]

"I've raised my two kids and deserve a break!" Sends them to daycare. 🤣

[@TheBigdutchster]

Want a singles life style? Be single. Never, ever, marry an older woman.

[@ThePft10]

Louder!!! For those in the back.

[@lockyp204]

Just never marry

[@squadgeman3247]

He is neither controlling nor insecure. She wants to eat her cake and have it, too. Having some foresight and common sense is good. It is important to avoid temptation. This is not a bad thing. It's the same shaming nonsense of "You don't trust me, and want me to sign a prenup! How dare you!" Don't be a fool.

[@MJA5]

He’s whining like a lil *itch. 😅

[@fugu4163]

If a woman ever say that i dont trust her then i always respond with that she is correct because i dont.

[@robcarley7506]

I've been working in clubs and night life since 05, I've done door work (bouncer) and staff and the stuff I have seen and you're spot on Rich.

[@MrSilverfish12]

Bro me too! When I did floor watch at a nightclub I saw people getting nasty with randoms only to come in the next week with their LTR and all looking like a respectable power couple lol. I´ve seen dudes and gals who I knew were getting married that weekend playing up with ex´s and what not, even the Christian trad con people were getting wild. We truly live in a degenerate society.

[@ThePft10]

Her even wanting to do that, gave me all the answers I needed.

[@lockyp204]

Pretty much. Relationship on the rocks from there.

[@jurassicthunder]

the moment she just ASKS the question is the moment an ice would be dropped in my vein. I already lost her mentally.

[@3941602]

Plus too old for spring break. Chad will be there fer sure

[@johnsmith-kt7ef]

Im currently mid 30s, when we used to do buddy party trips, 30 year old range were easiest to land especially when they were on girls trips.

[@tonyRadaM]

Just the fact that she wants to go means: - You, as her man, haven't set clear boundaries on her behavior and your expectations and rules - She doesn't respect you and is not afraid to lose you, and is willing to risk it all for a girls' trip - She perceives you as a weak man - She is not fully commited to you and your family. She probably doesn't feel geniune desire for you - She misses her party years and wants to relive some of that(Chad included probably) while you wait at home This is SO bad, that is actually grounds for separation and divorce, even if she doesn't go to the trip. That's how bad this is

[@muskokamike127]

You're giving women too much credit. that all may be true BUT remember: most modern day women are large children with that mindset. She may fully intend to just "lay on the beach" and be dumb enough to convince herself that that is all it is. But as adults (men) we KNOW what happens on these trips. Think of a child, they'll eat a whole tub of ice cream and 3/4 of the cake not thinking about the consequences until they're up all night barfing. Women are no different.

[@masterblaster1502]

Any male who enters gynokuk contract on his knees has already lost. It's cute when married husbandcels see some RP content online then think they can somehow regain "frame" after being owned in the kuk contract. Of course every married fee male sees her s!mp servant nice guy beta wallet as a clown.

[@fugu4163]

Girls nights out are actually your woman are cheating on you nights out. If your girlfriend or wife ever suggests something like this then dump her ASAP.

[@anistristan1202]

If only men thought the way you do. Most problems with women would go away. No simping means less women hoeing around.

[@namelastname8872]

Can't exactly "dump" your wife tho. Massive financial issue and kids involved...

[@fortpark-wd9sx]

Same rule applies for "gentlemen's outings". 😊😊

[@user-od4yc8gp3c]

​Incorrect. Don't automatically assume that something that applies to women automatically applies to men just because you don't like hearing the truth. You learned nothing while watching this channel. Just another clueless clown. ​@@fortpark-wd9sx

[@HPL5P]

Keep the old school coming.

[@mikeanthony7847]

My friend went on a trip with three married women to Vegas. He woke up drunk, passed out two of the married women were getting pounded out by two different dudes at the same time the things that go down on girls trips. The fact that you’re a grown adult wife and mother of your children even desires to go on a girls trip is huge red flags that is high school shit. Controlling Insecure the two shaming tactics that they use to flip it on you as if you were the flawed one.

[@jimmycampbell78]

Sounds like a great night! 🤣

[@chrisrose2690]

FACTS 👌!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@BrianWaller-qe7gr]

Lived in Vegas for 21 years. Trust me I’ve seen plenty of married people in town for conventions and events. I know I’ve hooked up with a couple of women from out of town, had no idea if they were married or not but their in town to let loose .

[@FigGolf]

Girls trips are covers for trips with Jodi. Jodi is in the mix somehow or a random Jodi will have his way with her during the trip. Her girlfriends will cover for her.

[@chrisrose2690]

FACTS 👌!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[@user-FUCKYOU18]

That ALWAYS happens

[@MrSilverfish12]

The girlfriends also use this as blackmail ammo against their friends. If you´ve ever seen a highly manipulative girl work her group of friends, she will often get them to do the most degenerate things while she sits back steady sipping her drink. Then when one of her flock play up she can just go "I´m telling Jerry about that time" etc

[@terrodar19]

This would be an automatic no. She should never even consider it without bringing her husband at the very least. red flag right there

[@willleslie2745]

Women who think you're their best option would never even want to consider going to spring break with their girls. They just dont.

[@davidlmatteson]

Oh yea, come to florida, especially destin on spring break. Crab island baby!

[@toothdecay2465]

"It is an unfortunate state of affairs today that these conversations even need to exist." Sums up the whole video beautifully. That a married woman doesn't know that a spring break trip without her husband is a bad idea reveals a lot about the era we live in and its problems.

[@TKnuckles333]

If you grew up with good, solid parents, then you know if it’s right, or not. Ask yourself “Is this something my mother would have done?”. If the answer is NO, then there you go. You have your answer.

[@thomasmulhall4873]

I have attended one bachelor party. Stayed for dinner, and when the idiots became loud, I left. Never went to another one. Better, productive things to do. There should be no bachelor nor bachelorette parties. The Sacrament of marriage is a holy union and commitment before God. Rehearsal dinner: fine. Absolutely no to girls' vacations. Her duty is to her husband and children. That vow was made before God. This is why we had the dowry system.

[@JRRob3wn]

Agree.

[@loseerich493]

I ended up taking care of a bunch of drunk friend idiots at my own bachelor party. Never went to another one since & that's been a # of decades ago now.

[@bjkarana]

people should just be in church all day.

[@lynnflynn5591]

As a woman with old-fashioned Christian values, I totally agree that marriage is a Sacrament - a Holy promise of fidelity made before God. For that reason, I believe an occasional religious retreat should be acceptable in marriages. Some retreats are same sex, some co-ed, some are with married couples, but I've never observed any "hanky panky" at the Retreat House! 😮

[@Diaz-fc2op]

Let her go, hire a private investigator to check while she’s away if she she cheats record everything and then divorce her and keep custody of the kids

[@justincase9471]

Just assume that she will cheat and get the divorce papers ready for when she comes back.

[@thedalillama]

​@@justincase9471Both parties need the proof to call it quits. If you don't have it, she worm her way out of it.

[@guderian7795]

That is what I suggested. The husbands could share the cost and hire a local (vacation destination) private investigator.

[@rickyhay]

So the kids lose a parent? The bloke needs to grow up and not be so insecure.

[@Theprospectcutz]

@@rickyhaysimp beta male

[@miguelsantos-cd9tu]

Asking if it's okay for wives to go on girls trips is like telling women it's okay for husbands not to provide for their wives's lifestyles.

[@leninfernandez9279]

Since women gets lots of attention and proposals when they are alone and specially drinking, to level the field is the same if a man goes to a brothel “just to have a drink”, it might be true but it’s incredibly suspicious and far from respectful

[@ConcernedResident_GiantStack]

Girl at my office is overweight and 50, but still dresses like shes in college. Her husband is a succesful, good looking guy. She talks about leaving him or how it was a mistake to get married, saying she shouldve stuck with her 1st husband, but he treats her really good. And this is a nice lady in every other way. Just amazing.

[@Dweeble233]

She wants to relive her days before marriage. The "joy" of being slammed by randoms. And then come back leaking to the security of home. You'd be a fool to allow it.

[@georice81]

Obviously she prioritizes her trip over her husband and her marriage which she is wiling to wound. She doesn't care about him and is beginning to show her true colors. That marriage is in trouble.

[@Ascension_3030]

before i got into a committed relationship with my now wife, I told her " No Girls Nights out, No Girls Trips". SHe didnt like it, but i told her those are my boundaries, and if she doesnt agree, she can pack her stuff up and leave. She hasnt brought either up since and its been years, she knows better. Guys, please set your boundaries before you commit. She will respect you for it. If you believe women are loyal to their nopn present men on nights out or trips, you live in lala land.

[@fortpark-wd9sx]

Agree. Furthermore the men should apply the same rules to themselves. As a man nearing 50, the amount of mental gymnastics I have heard for the past 30 years, especially from the boomer generation men, is truly amazing. Despite all the talk about strong independent women, most women in relationships tend to get their standards from their men. If women are going to girls nights' out or trips, it's usually because their men are doing something similar.

[@historiqueafricaine]

@@fortpark-wd9sx 💯💯💯

[@TonyTruthRx]

We all know what happens on spring break.

[@Tamar-sz8ox]

The answer is YES , it depends on the purpose of the trip and the intent eg go to NYC to see an old college friend , walk Central Park, go see a show, visit to a museum . Do a yoga retreat in the mountains 🏔 or go camping and bird watching

[@gavinsmith9022]

I'm English and even i know she going to get her back blown out on her US spring break lol.

[@michaeltobias6351]

My golden rule when determining if the behavior or actions are appropriate or not are this. If I would not be comfortable with my significant other doing it, then I should not be doing it myself.

[@tomobedlam9045]

As a bartender, I've met married women on "girls' trips." They complain about their marriages to me or any other guy that'll listen. They ALWAYS leave with men. Dudes, there is only one reason why women go on girl's trips.

[@fortpark-wd9sx]

Good day, from my understanding, these encounters tend to take place at built up places where women are more likely to be covered much more than bikinis. Bars and pubs are more likely to be located some distance from the beachfront where it is not so acceptable to be walking around in bikinis. One possible reason is that women feel more secure in these encounters if they are covered in more clothing. If these encounters occur when these women are in bikinis, these women are likely to end the encounter as quickly as possible.

[@SummerSolsticeSon4203]

Thank you for that advice.

[@jasonfulton2382]

Halfway through your book Rich. You're insight is spot on!

[@thefobiddenbookshelf7560]

Insane. Married women spring break trips at the beach without husbands present with boozing are screwing around trips. Vacations are for spouses and kids TOGETHER.

[@wandle1234]

You are so right ! Thank you for all you do my brother.

[@AristoCat-h6h]

Destin Florida Is a wild place to party for a single women. Between Panama City Beach and the Navy Base. Is crazy during spring break

[@mayorofthenonsense]

I’ve been in an LTR for about 3.5 years now, and naturally these sorts of questions came up a lot at the beginning. All the usual stuff; wanting to hang out with guy friends, weekends away with party people, spontaneous road trips etc etc. These things are basically challenges to your authority as a man, but once you put them down swiftly a few times, they tend not to come up again. She will definitely test you to see if you mean it, but if you remain calm and demonstrate your willingness to walk away, the drama tends to be over pretty quickly. In my case I didn’t even get the accusations or guilt tripping or any of that stuff at all. There were a couple instances within the first 18 months or so where she tested the boundaries again to see what would happen, but these were put down swiftly and firmly, and they didn’t come up again.

[@ItalNico]

Weird, a posted a detailed comment about how married women used to chase after me during meditation retreats and it got deleted. Three of them during one trip alone...ah well.

[@user-od4yc8gp3c]

Why did he delete your comment?

[@learhaynes1002]

Shout out to you Rich quoting Kevin Samuels. Thanks, I listen to the both of you. RIP Godfather.

[@Guitar157]

Love this guys brutal honesty

[@JujuBerry]

Bro you are speaking absolute facts 🔥😤

[@e.s.mcdaniel7716]

Fellas, it's very simple...married or not, you can't control what she does, what she wears, where she goes, etc. However, you CAN control what you do in response to things she does that she knows you don't approve of. It's called respect and she either has it for you or she doesn't. Set your boundaries, enforce your boundaries and give her all the leeway she needs to show you who she really is. Ignore the shaming tactics because the more she employs them, the more impure her intentions are for her trip. Their strategy is to create such a fuss and engage in such a fight, that you will concede and let her do what she was going to do anyway. DON'T WASTE YOUR TIME FIGHTING! Just make it clear that when she returns, you will be gone. Give her the clear conscience she needs to go do what she's going to do, and in turn, you get to move on free of her B.S. and blatant disrespect. With that all that said, the exact same thing goes for guys trips. We know what those entail, don't be that little boy who thinks it's okay for you but not for her...that's how you lose respect as a man and become just another primitive chump that makes the rest of us look bad.

[@GP-gt4bo]

💯

[@TexasLonghornRanch]

She’s going to the beach on spring break, seeking attention and validation. She’s gonna be surrounded by college age men. She can be gone for a couple hours to his hotel room and nobody would notice.

[@lockyp204]

Don’t get married guys. The difference is the boys will be going on a golf weekend, motorbikes, fishing or of the such. Women hanging out together on the beach at spring break. Yeah what are they up to? We know. You can rest assured. One or all those women will cheat in some capacity

[@BrianWaller-qe7gr]

Absolutely not if you value your relationship. She’s free to choose what she wants more this relationship or that girls trip. If she goes the relationship is hereby terminated.

[@adnb268]

Tell her if you decide to go, it's over. If she still makes that decision, you're better off without her.

[@hammertyme8392]

If my wife even brought up the subject of a girls trip, my relationship with her would be over.

[@tman0582]

The news in the USA just had two moms who took a cruise to the Caribbean, the two moms where on the news crying because someone spiked their drinks and woke up to being fertilized. The question why 2 moms alone on a cruise -did they just have fun and regret what they did and now say they were drugged. Something doesn’t make sense.

[@SummerSolsticeSon4203]

Sounds like a can of BS to me. They just got caught sleeping with black guys.

[@hawlikd]

I did Spring Break in 1984 in Ft. Lauderdale, during grade 12. It was so much fun . . .

[@highvaluegentleman.]

Leading the way as usual Rich 👏🏻

[@semecristian]

965 of us are here. no dislikes so far at all. says something. not even 1. in 10k views. bruh. veru true. im sending this to whom needs to see this.

[@jaysantiago5737]

Keep up with the content.....Extremely interesting

[@scratch57]

this woman is like the employee who walks off to take a break in the first 2hrs of the workday, and acts incredulous that you expect them to wait for lunch.

[@brianbard3410]

It's the wanting to do it, where the problem is. A woman 👩 shouldn't want to do this, if she does ,there already is a problem.

[@yukimasaheppe]

What an excellent parable ❤. I also think twice about parking my car some spots 💪

[@Elblue408]

Listen and learn my brothers. A wise man learns from other people's mistakes.

[@paulskopic5844]

This marriage has run it's course and well be over in 2 -3 years.

[@JRRob3wn]

We’ll be reading in the newspaper about how she was sleeping with one of her students.

[@andreirusu6998]

Yep sounds this is the type of guy "this guy will do" when the nightclub lights came on. I seen genuine desire before, no woman goes on a girls trip if genuine desire exists.

[@adammarshall4576]

If you got married, kids etc, well doing stuff outside the family just means you’re going to get plowed, doesn’t matter if the husband or the wife. When the cat’s away it will play.!!!

[@paulmcallister8948]

Jesus it looks cold there mate! 😶‍🌫️🤒🫣

[@muskokamike127]

My last gf came to me one day and asked me if I could drive her to the airport as she wanted to go on a trip to cuba with a gf. First I was a little shocked that she had the gall to ask so I just stared at her. Note: it's a 2 hr trip 1 way from where we live to the airport. They have bus service direct from the local bus station to the airport. Then I said "ok, I'll drive you, and when I drop you off and kiss you goodbye it will be the last time you see me" Wha wha what? WHY? 1) because you adamantly refuse to even take a weekend trip with me anywhere (long story as to why) 2) because you are supposedly in a committed relationship with me, 2 women going to cuba is not appropriate. (her gf is single). "oh it's not like that, we just want to go and get some sun and relax around the resort" Yeah is booze included? yes are their going to be single men around? yes. Booze + men = fucking. She didn't end up going but even her asking took our relationship down a few notches. That was a sign of her narcissism/self absorption which became more and more apparent as time passed.

[@gillroygarlic3616]

Good job. She kinda exposed herself with that line.

[@KoolAidMan7981]

I watch for Rich’s spring break sound effects

[@trishfitzpatrick2066]

Girls, if hubby isn't your best friend, you're doing it wrong.

[@roninatlanta]

You can almost hear these women's private conversation... "We're going to the 'Redneck Riviera' during Spring Break! Without our hubbies! We're gonna.. 'let it all hangout! ' Hey, you let your wife or female significant other go to the 'Redneck Riviera' i.e., Panama City, Sandestin, Destin and Ft. Walton during Spring Break then you're some special kind of stupid.

[@saltyabcdef3202]

Those women are looking for Chad at the foam cannon party.

[@olanderdecastro52]

Rich, Every woman settles because almost no woman can have her first choice. Last I checked, Brad Pitt, George Clooney and Thor (Chris Hemsworth) are all taken. These are the types of first choices of modern women. Since 100% of women cannot all have 4% of men, 96% of women will have to, by default, settle.

[@InvestgoldUK]

There’s a reason it’s called settling DOWN

[@robchurch881]

Since 95 percent of women don't qualify for the top 5 percent of men, they aren't settling. The only woman who truly settles is the woman who does qualify for the top 5 percent but chooses a man of lower quality.

[@demarcusds95]

@@robchurch881 facts being entitled is what they deal with. Outside of sex and looks, they have nothing to offer. They guy is the one that usually settle

[@MikeG82]

Brad Pitt got dumped multiple times, even when they get their first choice they still find reasons to dump him

[@ardentglazier2867]

Pretty telling that she didn't ask herself if she thought it'd be ok if her hubby stuck her with the sprogs while he went off to 'spring break' with mixed bunch of married men / bachelors. I bet then the line would be something like "having to do all the work / stuck with the 'women's work' etc., etc.". Some may 'say' they're okay with it, but then balk when faced with it. Part of being married is to avoid not just the opportunity but also the appearance of impropriety. Pence Rule applies.

[@mayorofthenonsense]

Agreed. As a man in an LTR, I have told my woman of the importance in respecting the institution of the relationship - but that goes for me too. I know what alcohol does, and so I would not put myself in a situation with a bunch of alcohol and lots of available women. I know what I’m like, I know what alcohol does, and it would just be a dumb thing for me to do.

[@fortpark-wd9sx]

@@mayorofthenonsense Nice to hear common sense stuff from you. 😊😊

[@wiseonwords]

There's a recent story about 2 married women who went on a cruise to the Bahamas and on the last day claimed to have been graped by hotel workers. Later, the hotel produced video evidence showing the women cavorting with the same hotel workers they claim graped them. Very interesting story.

[@thesandero2454]

Yes she can. As a single lady. We all know what happens there during spring break.

[@rnmain]

I thought spring break trips were for college kids. Not married women with kids.

[@allangilfoil1648]

The maturity isn't there anymore, adult children.

[@dacawone]

Girl's trips are never ok. Any guy who is familiar with "DancingBear" knows girl's trips, weekends and bachelorette parties are a no-no. They all get sausage.

[@LatimusChadimus]

I did a paper back in college on the 7th forms of abuse and controlling would fall under the category of isolation, and if she has access to the internet as well as a cell phone to talk to people outside of the house, there is no isolation which means there is no abuse in the controlling aspect. We all know this is called having boundaries because she's not helpless if she's able to go out and party and do things that make her not wufe-material

[@inquisitor4635]

The moment she brought a private relationship issue to the internet is the moment the marriage ended.

[@orangehair2518]

If she does go on the trip, the husband should hire a private detective to follow her around.

[@loseerich493]

Naw, if you have to do that, it's already over. Take the divorce court beating at that time & move on. In the end it will be worth it compared to living a life of hell until she decides to bail. At least in this scenario the guy picks the time of the divorce proceeding vs being 'surprised' by her executing it later on.

[@lockeddownboxing9904]

No, he should be meeting with the best attorneys he can afford before shit hits the fan and she claims for a divorce.

[@loseerich493]

Depends where you live. Where I live the courts do not look at all (zero) who 'caused' the divorce petition. Cheating etc does not factor in to the divorce court proceedings. So, spending vast sums of money on PI's & dragging out the divorce via expensive attorneys only enriches the PI's & lawyers. Then State law divvies things up financially. Very very little can be 'won' by a side in divorce court here. I hate to say it, but getting married or living with someone in common law arrangement & having kids in the mix is a BAD deal downstream, it really is. @user-jl8yy5ir7s

[@user-rf3cn2ou3x]

When i was a young stud i used to love bowling league weekend, deer season, and girl getaway weekends, if they were married i liked it better, they always went home to the husband.

[@hibernian87]

What sucks the most if she's still willing to go against you is that you have no other recourse but separation - which essentially breaks up your family. Her even suggesting it raises alarm bells. Its no wonder men don't want to get married anymore.

[@rudi5139]

It is what it is. Stick to your principles, even if it‘s hard.

[@jamespropane369]

32 and she wants to go to spring break still where there's a bunch of college kids and she thinks that's not weird. The answer is no and the fact that she even wants to do that means their marriage is done.

[@jacksquat4140]

Yep! 🎯🎯🎯

[@Scrappygymrat]

She clearly does not have burning desire for her husband, my gf can hardly go to work without me and wouldn't dream about going on vacation without me being with her

[@TsunamiWebster]

" right now , that is happening, in the moment, " enjoy the moment.

[@LA-wv7gf]

Spring break, once you're a wife/husband and parent is about family vacation. A wife of small kids certainly can have a break with friends like a spa day and lunch out. In return, a husband might enjoy a day out fishing, hunting etc. The concept of traveling with female friends for 'Spring Break' and being away from the family for several days to light her hair on fire is suspect. I'm a woman saying this...

[@PaleHrseRydinBumer]

A “girls” only trip to Destin FL for spring break… Not just NO, but f**k NO.

[@dlbutler]

"Are 'Girls Trips' on Spring Break Okay When Married?" No. Saved everyone 12 minutes. You're welcome.

[@sandramartin9784]

Turn the tables and have stag week? I bet most of these women would turn into raging, fire-breathing monsters.

[@MoltenMetalGod7]

If you have to ask this question you are overdue for a divorce.

[@davemustachio2734]

I am a successful entrepreneur and have built a six figure a year drain cleaning and plumbing business. I am trying not to brag up myself but I have a lot of beautiful hit on me and I have noticed the women who hit on me most are the ones who’s husband can’t fix anything and has a dead end job with no motivation to improve himself. I am 6’4” with a masculine build and a deep voice and women like love it. I am married and have a hot wife so I’m not going to wander but I know I have options. My recommendation to men is do something great. I built my business with nothing and have success. Like Rich says. Women don’t care about your struggles. They wait at the finish and pick the winner.

[@dang75790]

Lol troll