Why She Broke All Her Rules for Me

In my book, The Unplugged Alpha, I talked about how women will break rules for an alpha, and make them for a beta. Here's the full story...
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[@benjaminadams_]

‘People do the right things with the wrong people, and the wrong things with the right people’ - Orion Taraban 🙏

[@honor9lite1337]

Right for who? Wrong for who? -Bathroom's wall Quote

[@aaronvalure178]

Orion doesn't miss

[@JudahForeverKingdom1727]

Some women have skeletons in their closets, some are undertakers

[@egogeo]

Orion!

[@IFBBJacked]

I almost spit out my food laughing when you followed up all women have skeletons in the closet with "some have graveyards"🤣Never heard that one before, but it is awesome and hits home 💪🏻

[@The82bstewart]

Yeah and some have graveyards as big as Arlington cemetary..😂

[@PepeDeezNutz]

💀💀💀

[@JudahForeverKingdom1727]

thats the nasty truth bro

[@ThePaigeMa5ter]

It’s common sense tho, once one dates enough women you learn A LOT (80/20) are absolutely unavailable for anything more than pump and dump (wrap your Willie)

[@fjorddenierbear4832]

They don't have graveyards, they have the Parisian crypts. A funking mausoleum that holds their entire bodycount. Not visible to the eye, hence a mausoleum. (that said, of course a "graveyard" is a more useful word to use spontaneously, since mausoleum is not a common word, etc.)

[@ackbuilder8262]

If a woman calls 3 months later after your date telling you thanks for the advise, I found my man and my love - she is not doing it in good faith. It’s a form of revenge on you for discarding or ghosting her. Don’t look at it as warm hearted polite expression.

[@bedroo222222]

Just like when she says "let's bang in the bathroom " . She was clearly being sarcastic. She was definitely gonna make him wait.

[@gregw9783]

Yeah. It is a see......you missed out on the chance of life.......me me me !

[@troysmith5749]

he should have responded with a text that said "is this the fat chick with the moustache who wanted to have sex in the porta potty?"

[@AM-ko4pi]

It also means he left enough of an impression on her to try and get a reaction out of him

[@petermartin9494]

Imagine how she felt when he was completely indifferent and did not even remember her.

[@jamesg1974a]

If she “breaks rules” for you, she broke them for someone else too.

[@imdannymartins]

Not Always!

[@u2b83]

+2 for Not Always. Example1: v-card, Example2: strong beliefs and certain upbringing (usually results in #1). I should note, this is very rare these days. I'm going to throw out a number on the order of 1:10000

[@johnathonlutz5427]

@@imdannymartinsnot all not all not all but most🤷🏼‍♂️

[@bsib5021]

Depends. If you know you are worth breaking rules for then it good, if you are not, then that's a bad sign

[@kenofken9458]

I only choose women who don't have rules.

[@dwocelot6913]

If she texted you months later when she was 'in love' it wasn't to thank you for your sage advice.

[@Antody]

Ye, it's more like "I'm fine without you" type of message, but still. He definitely stayed in her head, as she did in his.

[@dwocelot6913]

@@Antody No, I think she was fishing to see if he was available. Think about it: she's 'in love' with some other dude, yet texts some guy she went on one date with, months later. Why does she even still have his number? She's checking his availability

[@ivanvidas1659]

​@@dwocelot6913 exactley. Very doubtful that it was out of gratitude. She was still thinkin bout him and her ego couldnt let it go, she had to kick him cuz' he cancled her

[@ratheeshrajendran2660]

@@dwocelot6913 definitely! They were searching for options or someone else there in the social media or something. When she comes back that means you are taken granted and will be in the future so avoid to reclaim your life. Never listen to their bs reasons.

[@michaelregan427]

She probably did meet someone, but did enjoy hanging out and figured she had nothing to lose.

[@joewalsh4685]

I was told I should be thankful that I hadn't caught an STD, from a woman I dated for 2 years when we split up, unbelievable. I am better off on my own. It's messy out there guys.

[@juniorgod321]

Which STD?

[@mrxiong2567]

Because she was also sleeping with 10 other guys?

[@steveb5331]

@@juniorgod321 Funk 49

[@rickdangerous5606]

There's no scientific evidence that diseases of viral origin exist not to even mention they can't prove scientificallt that an illness is transmitted via sexual activity from an unwell person to a well person. So let's start getting our facts straight. Society lied to you about men and women and rich explains this... you've been lied to also about viral Diseases. You think they can lie about one thing but it's impossible to lie about health?

[@boxelder9147]

​@@mrxiong2567yeah, did she tell you this?

[@IFBBJacked]

Coming from a guy who has always made sure to weed out right from the very beginning with any woman that I've met over the years whether or not she sees me as Chad and will break her rules for me, guys listen, women are craving the guy that will come along who they will want to break their rules for. Every single woman is hardwired no matter how stubborn or stuck in her ways she is to break her rules when she comes across a guy who she sees as Chad or Tyrone. When you meet a woman, the only thing you should be doing is vetting whether or not she is the type of woman that's going to break her rules for you. If she is that woman, you're going to figure it out very quickly because she is going to be on her best behavior trying not to lose you and even walking on eggshells. She's also going to do things for you right away that are indicators of high interest, always saying afterward that she "doesn't normally do this for anyone else right away", but the truth is, she will do it for any guy who comes along that she sees as Chad or Tyrone. Women only pursue Chad or Tyrone, and will only ever give their best to him, and that could have been any number of guys before you, so don't go thinking you're special. Just enjoy the ride while you're in the honeymoon phase and it's your turn, because the time will come when the honeymoon phase ends, she will start treating you differently, and you will never get that treatment again.

[@ivanr4300]

Excellent!!

[@bedadays1763]

I can tell a strange tale my side.Two different women one can to my town and we smashed in an hour while she was on her period and the date was poorly planned my side. The other did the wait move as Rich described.I later found out she let some guy smash same day (this was a relationship that went long distance).I had very sharp words for her and she spent big money to see me.During the course of the relationship I saw that sage girl go freak mode on me,take a sunburn for me ,buy me items and send me money.That second case is puzzling.But I never got over her being that guys fast fun and the relationship ended on bad terms.

[@marvin95]

So, how to become a Chad?...

[@AW-zy1kw]

@@marvin95Ya either are or you aren’t 🤷🏻‍♂️

[@IFBBJacked]

@@marvin95 fitness, belief, energy, and attitude.

[@Jagshemasher]

I found it somewhat amusing that you were talking about the restaurant that has waitresses that are 10's right as you drove past a Chuck-E-Cheese.

[@alphonzo5812]

😂

[@taridean]

😂😂😂 Thought the same seeing it.

[@RAMZAVFX]

The rat casino 😂

[@jonbuehler2429]

Rich, I’ve been following you since 2021, and have always found your advice to be on target. I wish I had come across your wisdom years ago. However, in the last three years, by following what you say on the channel, and have written in your book, I have had no problem with any woman. Boundaries without apology keeps them in line. More stories like this, from the drivers seat, are excellent!

[@bedadays1763]

What are your boundaries mate? I will also add if a woman does start to like you, she will not take pride in her past when you call her out on it because imo I think she likes being that girlfriend and sees herself as that and when you show disdain its the equivalent of a company making fortunes and the stock dropping over night because of a scandal

[@alexanderepler3200]

Rich, been listening to your content for a while. Always love these stories- please upload more stories like this.

[@howiesfunware]

Love these stories. I've heard you talk about this story before but always enjoy hearing it again.

[@RafaelTorrez-zc3wl]

The top side selfies! Whenever I see those I automatically know they are trying to hide their weight or awkward body type..

[@gregw9783]

Yep, if it is the only photo they show. Funny how they are serial offenders of deceptive conduct. Like most of us will not be smart enough to work out the score. Or hope we are desperate enough not to walk away. It is a poor strategy.

[@MJKW24]

I like your stories. Makes you seem more down-to-earth. Keep 'em coming.

[@subes5873]

Yes bring on more stories like that!

[@pinnacle1717]

When she messaged you months later, (keeping in mind that you had turned her down) she still couldn’t get that out of her head all that time, so she had to write & let you know that some other dude wanted her & she’s with him now. Her need to be desired has been fulfilled! They have these needs, it’s like always getting the last word in. Can’t help themselves. In these scenarios, I always write back “who is this” just so that get the message clear they they were never saved into my contact list & also to let them know how insignificant they are to my life. Contacting after months & months, what a crock, they should be embarrassed doing that. Get some self esteem Missy, if a man turns you down, you should never contact him again!

[@petermartin9494]

Great story. Indifference is a powerful thing.

[@stonesfan285]

Yup I have experienced this. Do not choose women who don't choose you. It's a very sad reality but you will be better off following it.

[@edwinbz9889]

I met my girl at work. She made the first move on me and we are 2 years in our relationship and i have not seen 1 red flag!! Shes still infatuated with me and never never says no when its time to tango. She has never disrespected me. Im 32 and shes 28.

[@Slynell1]

Congrats

[@jeffhedrich3551]

Do your friends see red flags?

[@solutions553]

Hope the best for you...!

[@bigstv15]

Sounds like she had genuine desire and respects you. Don't ever get too comfortable or think that she won't find another man attractive etc stay focused and congrats 🎉

[@mattmullenix]

always good stuff Rich

[@Stew357]

Great story and advice, as always. Ty Rich.

[@ShockAndAwePod]

The restaurant is either Moxie's or Joey's FOR SURE 🤣🤣... Brilliant move.

[@troyvan6952]

Hooters

[@haythamthabit42]

@@troyvan6952I think hooters is an american company

[@KiwiFights]

@@troyvan6952obviously not hooters 😂😂

[@KiwiFights]

I was thinking moxies LOL

[@moeghotme5498]

Maybe cactus club

[@LassieFarm]

More stories yes please

[@docjoe999]

I agree. Story and message go better together. Also, I think you should have more goals than rules, and guys have rules too and break them for the right woman:)

[@Smooth-Operator1]

110% top value my Dear Brother. Keep going and adding more Value for the younger men. Old skool londoner Uk.

[@joe-pw7lc]

this is one of your best vids. very helpful thanks rich.

[@occasionalfeelgood23]

Women always lie about their age, with almost zero exceptions. I'm an experienced online dater, and I pretty much just count on it.

[@BrianWaller-qe7gr]

But don’t you dare claim you’re 6’0 when you’re 5’10 smh

[@judgedredd8876]

I too lie sometimes, I had 47 yrs old (down from 55 with 2 kids) some women didn't buy it, most did, and then I met a Colombian girl, we started talking and videochatting, I discovered she was also lying trying to attract a sugar daddy, her profile had 25 yrs old (up from 19) 😱

[@occasionalfeelgood23]

@@BrianWaller-qe7gr haha, well, I’m lucky in that I’m 6’3”, but I can only imagine.

[@joshuafranken2030]

My wife lies to our kids about her age.

[@pinnacle1717]

Women lie about EVERYTHING. 🤣

[@EmmanuelAgyapong-jn6ue]

Yeah, I remember that story, you've mentioned an Amazonian that wanted to take you to the restroom and you rejected her.

[@js3602]

Just read that chapter and reference in Rich's book last night!

[@nikosfarma5643]

Nice story, nicely told. Thank you. I AL eager to hear more. Resprct.

[@tubu1ar86]

The thing that's missing from this is just real love, from both sides. None of the game stuff matters when you have love, if you have to play games to get through the first phase of the date it's not going to last anyway. We all need to start genuinely caring and loving one another, there is the only answer .

[@katemiller7874]

Agreed. These fellas will never find true love with games. Plenty good folks out there

[@tubu1ar86]

@@katemiller7874 agreed both Fellas and Dame's

[@nitromancer6460]

It’s a shock to women when a guy turns her down. It sounds like she panicked after being turned down and she got on the first train leaving the station when she realized that there were not too many more tickets available to her.

[@makenocommento-kj4gq]

@nitromancer, you are 100% correct mate, women are used to telling men to get lost and Finish a relationship, but the more men value themselves the better chance of a quality relationship

[@J.Braxton]

Rich’s neighbor the accountant-probably a great golfer-HUGE ass

[@cameronmccormick89]

Goofy pants too, for sure.

[@chrisandrews759]

Meet me on the 9th green at 9.

[@kodiakgriz2296]

I love the 'drive time' wisdom!

[@dwighthayles1226]

Women HATE that we have this information. My only question is are we still the minority amongst men knowing this?

[@igbokwenu4934]

Yes we are the minority. Id venture as to say at AT MOST 20% of Normie males Understand, approve and will use this info. The rest are FOOD for these women.

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

I would say men with this knowledge are in the minority.

[@troyvan6952]

"Any time desire is negotiated, it automatically it automatically creates obligated compliance, and this leads to resentment." A quote from the book and for the ages.. thank you Rich Cooper.

[@mizukagematt1186]

If someone plays mind games they don’t love. you they view you as a puppet for entertainment 🤷🏽‍♂️💯

[@johnmorelli3775]

Good story and would love to hear more.

[@InstrumentalMangmnt]

Moxies is the spot

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

I think it's Hooters.

[@KM-om1dy]

Rich, seriously thank you for teaching us how to avoid a train wreck and showing us how to avoid a runaway train. Thank you!!

[@carlrice8614]

Brother, thank you! I wish I had found your site years ago. Much respect for being the "Man's Man". Solid advice and education!

[@jdally9872]

MOAR stories like this

[@ThePaigeMa5ter]

Love the car rundown back to basics

[@Cloxxki]

I don't take a woman to any place for a first date but I'll start keeping track of such places. I've not been catfished or meaningfully to lied about height either. I stopped dating without a call before as well, it helps.

[@t28mcd]

Rich's preferred height range is really not too picky, 5'2" to 5'9" covers about 95% of women. 😂

[@ThePaigeMa5ter]

Maybe in Canada and US. Down in Mexico and Asia he’s outside a lot of their range. Good call for Canada tho

[@t28mcd]

​@@ThePaigeMa5tergood point, geography plays a big part on this one.

[@americandissident9062]

@@ThePaigeMa5terMexico is a third world nightmare. I would t go looking for a woman in Somalia either.

[@ThePaigeMa5ter]

@@americandissident9062 no it’s not

[@corystovall3544]

Rich is great at his work. He essentially sees the same scenarios every day and has become adept at handling each one in their own unique way. We can only hope more men see his content. For we all know, weak men are on that conveyor belt every day. I, for one, speak personally on that.

[@ChefMiguelValdez]

If I recall correctly the lounge Rich is talking about is inside Moxies at East Beaver Creek. (The Old Stomping Ground)

[@Ace.0.0.0.]

Good things happen when you are 1) polite, honest, & direct. And 2) your words & actions ALIGN. Have reasonable boundaries and the spine to enforce them. Do this by either standing your ground or walking away, as the situation requires. People are walking billboards. Everything that you say and do shows people who you are.

[@wildcasa9714]

We want MORE stories!

[@ebanluland3571]

5'8 is 6 foot in women code when describing themself

[@G4rr3ttDix0n]

This is true, lol. It’s odd how they seem to do the opposite in that regard as men do

[@Cloxxki]

I've never seen that. We use centimeters here and women are rarely off at all.

[@mistahozzy]

Facts and the age 27

[@ebanluland3571]

@@mistahozzy 27=34

[@MT-yx5cu]

Stop it.Women are not ashamed of their height 😂. You are either reaching or projecting.

[@christopherfritz3840]

"She had MAN HANDS.." 😉

[@ramz7887]

🐎 🐴 🎠

[@johnlivia3603]

Great advice

[@ngocdungtranho683]

I keep looking at your surrounding as your car passes by and of course hearing your voice

[@joannegibson-lucas3791]

I guess I am a cougar. I married a younger man when I was 39; we had a daughter when I was 41. We've been married for 30 years. Still best friends and lovers. Life is good.

[@3ormore660]

Interesting. Did you have a lot of sex partners prior ?

[@snorttroll4379]

Hpw does one fuck past 60? Doesnt it get to bw too nasty? Btw. Check out aubrey de grey

[@jurassicthunder]

​@@3ormore660it's like asking if water was still wet back then.

[@MT-yx5cu]

​@@3ormore660why does it matter?

[@3ormore660]

@@MT-yx5cu oh just curious .

[@jameshorton7654]

Yes I'd love to hear more dating stories Rich was married 32yrs so I'm new to dating

[@user-kh3nz9lb2k]

Dude, you should make a video on how you grew and care for that beard...... its dope

[@joffrecueva4961]

Yes. More stories ritch

[@Spanglish360Academy]

Pure gold- I ll try this out ahahhaha

[@hablabamosa]

Honestly, once you've experienced desire from women, you become a bit indifferent to it. Better to find one woman who complements your life well and then focus on other things in life. Dating around is a waste of time.

[@ivanlebedinskiy4145]

I thought I'm the only one who goes this way. All these people saying things like "I've gone through a lot of dates", "I spin plates, having a lot of sex" - who are they trying to impress? Most of the time you deal with boring fools. Even if she is in a good shape, sex is average, at best. At worst, you feel like you just f@#*^d a plank of wood. Exceptions, that is, the women who can keep a meaningful conversation for more than a minute and can provide a really good experience in bed, are very rare.

[@u2b83]

Check ur privilege man lol Reality is most guys don't have your scenario. They'll try it for decade, two decades, ...at some point they want more sx than just 2-4x a year. If everything is working, keep going blue pill. If it ain't broke no need to fix it lol

[@fallout3nice]

Ok, but the difficult thing is not finding this woman. Difficult part is keeping her and maintaining her high interest all the time.

[@niallk9336]

@@fallout3nice If you have that mindset, it's already over.

[@fallout3nice]

@@niallk9336 I think I understand where you are coming from - treating women with scarcity mindset does not work. However what I am saying is that it is relatively easy to enter relationship with a woman but the real work begins after the initial high excitement phase ends. At least this is my experience.

[@shanea9613]

Hi Rich. Can you do a walk around review on the cars. This (S5?) and is the other an SQ5? Can inspire a few of the boys

[@mikkischuk3634]

Yes, please dig more stories from the “archive”

[@haythamthabit42]

Got me on “nice figures, nice curves almost like a coke bottle” nearly made me spit out what I was drinking lol

[@alexj1897]

Good stuff, Rich.

[@Logan24855]

“I was born at night, not last night” 😂😂

[@pursue513]

Cool story, Bro

[@kanesmith585]

Great dating story, what woman say and do is always amusing.

[@Stevel_]

I kept picturing Jennifer Coolidge 😂

[@harlzberg6068]

In Winnipeg we have "Earl's Girl's", walk through the frame, if you fit you have a job

[@andreasp.tavelis]

Unlock the archive !

[@ManOfAdventure2011]

The Keg 😅

[@o0oStillWeRiseo0o]

Twin Peaks at least thats what we have in the states

[@gd515051]

That’s what I was thinking. Great spot.

[@niallfitzpatrick6568]

That restaurant is a real Hoot alright 😉

[@NinjaWarhol]

Just because you have a No Trespassing sign on your property doesn't mean no one can get in.

[@seandilallo8718]

The restaurant was probably either the Keg or Moxie's.

[@MrMerajjio]

Earls? Cactus Club?

[@seandilallo8718]

@@MrMerajjio Never been, but I guess I should check them out. 😄

[@troyvan6952]

Hooters?

[@MeEncantaKiley]

Tilted kilt?

[@WatchingTheWorldGoRound]

Hooters on Adelaide st.

[@MrDKdeka]

LOL That's how I save people number too. 1st name/last name + profession.

[@neejazzey]

Yep did like the story more stories would be cool

[@pinnacle1717]

Haha, good advice Rich, if you’re not interested in them, you might as well get some material for the channel out of them. 😂

[@wm1231]

Hooters, of course

[@clarkkent6927]

I'm happy for her

[@Xonid1]

I'm 5 foot 8 inches and tall women ring my bell.

[@secfeed6987]

Great story, some good lessons there. Thanks for sharing. Didn't sound like a good woman, I can see she is coming from a bad place to begin with. Once they start making demands, they already have issues.

[@chrisewers8951]

Yup Earls is my thoughts

[@mmx583]

…and then everybody in the restaurant stood up and applauded. True story!

[@elev8menscoaching]

Good rule of thumb that I learned is to only go out with women on dating apps who post full body pictures, that way there's nothing to hide

[@mehrdaddamghani5909]

Restaurant chain is definitely Joey or Moxies lol.

[@arikristenko]

I like stories like this. I've met some women who were in relationship,married or just women who had a lot of rules. But when I showed them that I wasn't particularly interested, the rules were broken for me. From one situation to another, even she is married, has children, etc. It's funny and seems like it doesn't make sence because if you like her, now she has some rules for you. Why it works like this?

[@stevenlechner]

More!!!!!

[@SphinctersForever]

"Kinda like a Coke bottle"... HAHAHA! I love it!

[@biffbifford402]

As long as it’s not the two liter size!

[@sbfabtfc1]

​@@biffbifford402 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@Stticka]

Im 6'2 and im the exact same way... i end up thinking like "wtf r u doing up here ??" ---yes, more stories rich.

[@jacoblynch9862]

Gentlemen, I would like to remind every man years ago there was a study done and found that most women know within the first minute of meeting a man if she is going to be willing to sleep with him or not I will repeat that they already have it made up in their mind within the first minute of meeting you if they’re willing to sleep with you or not This is what the study found. This would also explain why she makes all these rules and then will break them for certain men.

[@anthonys6100]

Moxies, definitely Moxies is the restaurant he's talking about!

[@PepeDeezNutz]

Lol

[@balancer182]

Sounds like you are the first man in her life to actually challenge her, and it was enough to shake her to the core. And yes I would be very interested in more stories, because a clear example is worth more than a storeroom of definitions.

[@PappaAlvaro]

When is your podcast coming?

[@grgmj1980]

Looks like the streets of Oregon

[@osbonoam]

Jack Astor's

[@anthonygriffin6652]

I know this restaurant , it’s called Hooters 😅

[@thedemonthrone3463]

Sounds a lot like Cactus Club, but I'm in BC. Not sure if that franchise is country-wide.

[@davidminassian9953]

More stories rich, i like that stuff

[@slowedandreverbed323]

Was thinking the Keg or Moxie's.

[@kimmorrison9169]

Throw us the stories Rich

[@basketofpuppys]

I went on Amazon and got me one of those Jackets you are wearing they are nice and look Cool