Ep 127 - Why Men Cheat/ Return Of The Ick | ShxtsnGigs Podcast

[@taleahughes2197]

James be soooo pressed when he hears stories about treacherous women and then turn around talking bout some “Fanta, no ice”. Bro 😂😂😂

[@MsEmilyjess]

When a guy gets on a rollercoaster or theme park ride and puts his arms up before it sets off 🥲🤦🏼‍♀️😂

[@czarinagarcia3124]

That’s embarrassing lmao

[@hrosexo]

😂😂😂😂😂 before it sets off lmao

[@sed6657]

Girl 😭🤣 frfr

[@jessicagarcia9111]

When Fuhad said “THEY WILL DIVE AT YOU” the FACE James made omg 😭😭😭

[@TheKayleeanna]

James described an open relationship with water. Now he just needs to *TELL* water & find a bottle of water that *AGREES* with him having Fanta, tequila, etc. 🙃

[@iscavengersam]

With pineapple! Dont forget that! Sounds exotic as hell 😂

[@kikianyangwe5797]

as someone from california and hearing two brits talking about crip walking is KILLING MEEEE 😂😭

[@jaylawashington3162]

boiling down men hurting woman and manipulating and lying bc they want a different “drink” is crazy

[@CrtnyNicole]

Right?! Why can’t people just stay single or find someone who agrees to an open relationship? It’s really not that hard… they’d rather be out here creating trust issues and messing with people’s self-esteem

[@Nikki3times]

He's not. He's just giving a different perspective why men cheat just because.. alot of times as a woman we want answers and just because isnt Good enough.. this is what they mean so you can end your side of not knowing

[@jaylawashington3162]

@@Nikki3times no it seems like they were trying to come up with an excuse that made it seem okay as if that’s a good “reason” why men do it

[@intendedexpression6609]

​@@jaylawashington3162As the lady above said he isn't giving excuses to cheating hes providing an analogy since many women literally can't understand that a man can love a woman so deeply but still manage to cheat. And his act of cheating isn't an emotional action its purely lustful. Whilst it's almost impossible for a woman to cheat and not have some emotions for the man she cheats with or she cheats due to the diminishing interest of the man she cheats on

[@LyftraS]

@@CrtnyNicoleno its simple, women often want to be chased and don’t give you much in terms of attention (unless in a good relationship/marriage) so if one does and is attractive and is upfront and open its something that rarely happens and is hard to pass up that simple. Whether in a relationship or not. Now that ive said this please dont so the “all men are xyz” thing because thats where moral character comes into the picture and that various per person. Men and women.

[@netecrivernetecassassins2945]

The thing with cheating tho is having enough respect to limit your own impulses. It's natural but sacrificing these things proves your love and/or respect

[@daniellewootton3921]

I don't know about anyone else but I would absolutely love a full ick episode, the pigeon one fuckin KILLED me. Saying that, an hour just ain't long enough 🤣

[@shaquillephillips9277]

That would be awesome, but imagine a "What the Ick" segment in every ep🤯🤣

[@alim555abdul]

You'll do

[@destroyathedestroyer]

@@alim555abdul 🤨🤨

[@blueish_purple]

The ick ones are my favourites. That radio 1 ick killed me

[@ml07]

Love the water analogy, definitely will be using that here on out… but just keep the relationship open, do everyone a favor

[@kaitlintillman9456]

I know this episode is a couple months old, but having been cheated on by a man, Your analogy about why mean cheat does bring some clarity. Not saying that’s the only reason why he did what he did, but it does help make sense of it!

[@jqf284]

My man told me something similar about why he's cheated on me so many times throughout the years, however he demands that I never even consider cheating on him. But like I told him unlike you if I ever start to think about cheating I'll just leave no matter what because my love & respect for you is wayyy stronger than just wanting to fuck something different enough to cheat for no valid reason. We will be getting divorced.

[@ebonyoverload3009]

@@jqf284 Lol the clownery, these men want to cheat but can’t tolerate getting cheated on. Kick rocks.

[@aliciaw3347]

The cheating analogy is so true. It's not always some in depth reason for it, the simplicity of it is so MADDENING but true.

[@benekatabua4302]

What do you like to drink? Woh'ah What do you bathe in? Woh'ah Wake up in the morning thinking about woh'ah I can't go without woh'ah

[@mashelshairshah]

Lmaoo

[@sinsdiary7682]

Cheating is traumatic for most. Male or female and no reasoning behind it deserves the justification imo. If that’s how you view it why not just leave the relationship open?

[@jqf284]

Exactly 💯 I've got proof my husband is making plans to cheat on me today so currently I'm making plans to divorce 😅😅 because if you want to cheat just leave or I will it's nooo point I don't understand why people do that 😢

[@Rachel-ck8pe]

I hope you're doing ok 💕​@@jqf284

[@MikaHD]

Guys don't do that because they don't want there wife banging other guys it would kill them. Guys are torn between two things th desire to have variety and the intense want to not have their wife even touch another man

[@MikaHD]

If he left the relationship open (both ways) it would destroy him on the inside out. So he cheats. Btw I don't think it's right to cheat Im just telling you why it happens and why most guys would never have an open relationship

[@jqf284]

@@MikaHD I see what you're saying but that's selfish bullshit because just be single then if it'll destroy him but he doesn't care enough about how it'll destroy her more SMH 🙄 Not saying this to you particularly ofc just stating my opinion on that excuse because I've been told that before 😩

[@NaaaaYaaaa]

I absolutely lost it at “Fanta, no ice” 😂😂

[@idontknowwhattosay4863]

I be listening to the podcasts during work and i be cracking up so harddd

[@lukecasey5669]

I be

[@n.o.p.e140]

Same

[@fazormcghee7936]

5:55 "Fam... I owe the IRS money... U cannot just dash money in my account like that, I'm BEHIND, fam. U need to take it back, say it was a mistake and loan me the ting in cash" my nigga, words cannot express how hard I laughed at this shit 😂😂😂 I can't breath, fam

[@SoBashfulSoChi]

💯😂😂😂

[@TheFaro2011]

The relation LOL

[@hrosexo]

You two laughing together is just 👌🏻 😂

[@connordennis7111]

Bros I'm TELLING you now, I wore a full spiderman costume for Halloween to the club. The girls were LOVING my vibe for a change 🤣

[@Hfrenchmontana]

I'm so happy I'm watching this when I'm home from work because the way people would have looked at me laughing HYSTERICALLY at James and the birds would have been absurd 😂😂😂

[@eboniamos18]

James makes me so happy I’m not the only one terrified of birds 🤣🤣 people stay on my ass about it

[@BlackEagle3191]

🤣

[@ashleyboudreau8341]

I am absolutely fucking TERRIFIED of birds. The fact that people have birds as pets is the most bizarre thing to me, you have to be a sociopath imo

[@rivolverocelot3010]

I feel you man.....those magpie clips from Australia? Nope

[@marlica7]

I'm telling u birds where definitely created by the devil God wouldn't do that to us

[@Kmaryd2]

I was never afraid of birds until I went to Atlantic City and was chased by a seagull 😂😭 Those mfers are agressive!!

[@junji9934]

I don't think the cheating analogy makes sense just because so much goes into a relationship you can't boil it down to something so simple. relationships are so complex and if you are willing to throw away all the work the both of you put into it simply because you weren't thinking,, u shouldn't be in a relationship at all.

[@eemelirantala]

You lookin too much into it. The analogy was just about what men want sexually most of the time but still want something different sometimes.

[@KBubbie.]

So as a girl I can also just be adventurous and get a watermelon mojito instead of water. Water shouldn’t care, cause I’ll always be back, and I’ll no more care about anything else other then water. The analogy makes sense but it’s not an excuse, nor does it make it okay. You messed up and that’s your fault. 🤷🏽‍♀️

[@1980tiffani]

Basically what he’s saying is that men lack self control. If you know something is disruptive and could change your whole life and someone else’s life negatively (ppl break up and get over it) and none of that matters.. it’s called a lack of self control of what they are saying is true. Also, their explanation is more accepted by society because they think women are always emotional and think stuff through and so it “hurts more” when we cheat, while it’s just a lack of impulse control for them.. they just can’t control over themselves 🥴😂 btw, I think if this is true, they do lack self control. Stay single if this is the case.

[@alexandriaallen1261]

Facts cause I literally drink water all the time but if I want a different taste I put flavored powders in my water 😂😂😂 There’s literally no excuse or mindset of cheating you’re just selfish n careless

[@ebonyoverload3009]

@@eemelirantalathen stay single if you want to dabble here and there, just say you are a weak man who can’t control their urges. sounds like a waste man to me.

[@scottymma25]

James doing the Willie bounce dance and Fuhads reaction has to be the FUNNIEST thing I’ve seen in a long time I was howling for a solid 5 minutes no lie! Wouldn’t usually say this but I’m glad for TikTok as I come across on of their clips been on it ever since! Keep doing you thing fellas 😎👍

[@mrsf8471]

I've got my 4 year old in the shower and my new born chilling with me just found you off tiktok and I'm crying!

[@jenniferrose2360]

That’s how I found them too, finally eating my first meal of the day at one while my 7 month old tries to escape 😂

[@YoruichiDKugisaki]

lmaooo men lack self control and are just not to be trusted in general.. thank you for confirming that with your analogy

[@karlagonzalvez4703]

Rightttttt lol they're not all like that but Jesus that was disappointing. It's a funny lil comparison but to truly compare ppl you supposedly love as any object to justify cheating is just🙄🤦‍♀️

[@maisylynch7820]

i found your podcast off of tiktok i was cryingggg this is the best discovery of this month honestly

[@Iinlinyouforgotyourblingbling]

I'm biiiiiinging from Zimbabwe 🇿🇼 you're both really dope. I'm studying aaaand listening like I'm chilling behind the camera and working.

[@lebogangmoumakwe1475]

“ I’d have to volley” the pigeon lmao😭😭😭

[@cheezx3017]

Ick: when he goes to spit and its that sticky one and goes all over his chin and clothes 🤢🤣

[@abbiemartin1950]

“I would scurry like a tart” 😭

[@Horusthebetrayer]

James needs to be picked for the lead character for the remake to Alfred Hitchcock's The Birds. And Fuhad needs to cameo as a bird that constantly harasses James throughout the film at random times.

[@jammydodger6932]

Fuhad’s laugh 39:14 killed me😭😭😭

[@DoinMe]

Baby!! New York pigeons are GANGSTA! They don’t run! 😂

[@ToniaAlex13]

Grew up in Jamaica, and yes I remember that dancing era. Where we would be in front the TV on weekends learning those new dance

[@_TyrantRex]

Front garden? You'd be on the front NEWSPAPER! 😂😂😂 Fuhad bro!

[@akyla-mikorawanliss7478]

James's trim and tan is hitting different here ngl

[@allieroze278]

11:41 Shut up MAN! Don’t overthink take the money and say thank you 🙏 😂😂

[@duanes199]

James, your water analogy is amazing 😂😂😂

[@shanedavies9713]

Once again lads made my night!!! Got me literally folded in half 😂😂😂 funniest shit. GANG!

[@leighwills88]

Crying at James having to learn the willy bounce😅😅😅

[@benjconstant2838]

Ick: when she wears them tiny plasters for like the smallest of injuries.

[@klekkel139]

31:10 is from kevin hart is show. It's that bit that he pretends to be his grandpa, I think, and he shows how long it took him to take off driving.

[@Lovely-ry9do]

Love the drink analogy IF you can live with your women having a lovely sweet juicy cocktail here and there as well

[@Sophie-en6sl]

This is the one 😭

[@MóTee1]

Yep! Tall order😌

[@indigostvr]

💯

[@sunflwrceleste895]

That part!!

[@ml07]

Agreed, love me a Long Island Tea every now and then

[@davidbatres1257]

I’m crying my eyes out while stocking shelves in Whole Foods Market, listening to James talk about these fucking birds. Out here tryna get me fired

[@lilwittybitty1369]

birds thing: would be stuck in my room until whenever they decided to leave. calling animal control and locking my door. i would die of fear in any other scenario.

[@LawxRobinShipper]

I can’t believe James talked about Galactik Football!🥰🥰 I loved that show as child and I’m still upset they canceled it like that.

[@PuppP]

The finger thing is a reference to "American Psycho"

[@shxbzin]

Random: who's faster (in terms of sprinting) between Fuhad and James, since they both did athletics back in the day.

[@paullaflash5329]

Watching this a year later and it still hits!The cheating analogy is gold! Sometimes you just need Hennessy on the rocks...

[@Mari-pq2kj]

yeah but you risk losing water and he said “no one says you might lose water” but you know if you cheat ur hurting and gonna lose your partner

[@ivyb4351]

You guys are having me say the most rando stuff during my weight training sessions

[@fazormcghee7936]

Majority of women cheat to either upgrade or because they're unhappy in their current relationship. Majority of guys cheat for curiosity/ pleasure.

[@TheFaro2011]

Women cheat, over the dude. Men, because range

[@ancumilequluba288]

"Don't talk to me like that" Fuhad really the hubby😂😂😭😭

[@IAMXVE]

YES BROS!!!!! Happy Monday!!!

[@diamondjordan7225]

y’all should watch Kakegurui it’s a gambling anime. also the finger snap and finger guns thing is from Kevin Hart’s manager from one of his shows; Kevin clowns him about it.

[@ytsubber614]

That fanta analogy is basically in the bible, but the fanta is a dirty well

[@kingjermere]

Ping Pong the Animation was a banger you might like for a table tennis anime

[@muizzgoolam]

Hey guys . Fan from South Africa here . So a few years ago I’ve met up in a major accident, broke a lot of bones and was in a wheelchair for a while, I’m fully recovered and strong again.. in South Africa we have a government thing called “ROAD ACCIDENT FUND “ where the government pays you for loss of earnings and hospital fees and all other expenses related to the accident… so they’ve paid me out A LOT OF MILLIONS in South African RANDS obviously… anyway when that tax free money hit my account a few years after the accident, woke up that morning, told my lady that she doesn’t need to go to work that day because we’re rich now 🤣😂 , Louis Vuitton, Gucci and Range Rover had a great sale that day 🤣😂🤣😂💪🏼💪🏼💪🏼

[@Abongiler]

James😂😂😂 that dance!!!! I scrome! You are so annoying 😂😂😂😂

[@kathyjones1408]

Very good analogy. Water Vs Fanta! Hmmm! 😮 I get it! Good job! 😊👍🏽💙

[@shelliebxx]

Galactic football was a banger of a show 😂😂

[@angelkear1712]

Willie bounce toook me outtttt🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@nompumelelomasango2466]

😂😂😂i loved that Cheating explanation, it gave me a new perspective 😊

[@kadraali4270]

Love they’re trying to have a dating environment for viewers lol

[@kadraali4270]

I’d spend the money on my parents, siblings and then extended family members

[@ShawnieakaLadyC]

The gun fingers Fuhad did were from Kevin Harts stand up show Seriously Funny. He's talking about his manager Nate when he finally starts the car after taking ages for his checks and he does this move to Kev to signal he's ready to drive

[@jordydemeyere5029]

Thanks for this, it was breaking my mind! :) :)

[@MsCanditaBull]

Literally scrolled thru the comments so I wouldn't repeat it since I'm so late😂

[@Sheisbresilva]

Someone please tell me why James is deathly afraid of birds😂😂😂😂 I need a background story now!

[@moimeself1088]

Errr... bc birds??? 🤨 they're awful. They come into my house sometimes, crap everywhere, and when you try to get them out, they flap EVERYWHERE!!! I'm with James.

[@zenross11]

Gotta be my fave podcast, laugh too hard watching these 🤣

[@bandilenzimande5253]

"I do it autonomously", so like on purpose?😭🤣🤣

[@ishplussix]

5:23 nah this has me on the floor cuz I've noticed as well 😭😭😭

[@ashleyford9492]

Could you imagine if tictok was around when the late 90s and early 2000 Dancehall dances were on the scene...... 🔥

[@marshallbrissett207]

Bro the doggie was my DANCCCCE

[@QMWest]

14:00 yall should really watch ping pong the animation its like basically almost what you all were describing what you wanted

[@bosssub9216]

14:48 made me chuckle

[@Lilmoonpie2]

Those birds in the house?!? Absolutely not! 😭

[@tjc3254]

😂 sat there watching u on my phone (headphones on) and guy next to me looked like he could hear it lol 😅 *watching it* 😂

[@kevinabwao2721]

It's crazy watching this for the first time and knowing that the boys were gonna be able to retire their folks sooner rather than later and oh so much more.

[@raybaroodi3616]

"I'll die without her" 🤣

[@kaymusonda7200]

Best cheating analogy if I ever heard one 🤣🤣am vexed

[@TimTheEnchanter0]

Justification is not vindication - reducing women to commodities to excuse cheating is gross. May any who thinks this way always find love out of reach

[@miaarchibald3365]

With a FWB relationship.. you have to have a very strong friendship with very clear boundaries.. and you can do whatever you want.. if the friendship isn't strong or the boundaries aren't clear it goes wrong.

[@SofiaGarcia-jf4iq]

39:13 y’all icking about the J in fajita but don’t pronounce the T 😂 what do you mean fahi-ah 🤣

[@ereziovome8629]

Fuhad saying “naani??” 😂😂😂

[@ChanteCC246]

That why men cheat analogy was gold!

[@kaylerlee5387]

I am with James with dipping after seeing one bird. My sister went to work and before she did she told me a bird flew in but she didn't have time to chase it out. I was pissed the *fork off because how do you say that to me then leave me alone with the bird trapped in the house.

[@mrs.thomas-usmcwife5686]

The thing is, water is the basis for all of those other drinks. Water can easily become those if you just add a little flavor 😜

[@tyraokray9151]

31:15 I believe it’s from a Kevin’s hart stand up.

[@moonchild66]

Crying laughing 🤣🤣🤣🤣tik tok dances

[@naledi985]

so by that water analogy, can women cheat too, why are you enough for her but she isnt enough for you. rubbish analogy.

[@qianaberryman7236]

Great analogy!!

[@amybeelicious]

Omg has no one ever seen the old movie Birds? I'd have a whole panic attack thinking they were about to kill everyone

[@kadeesha2002]

Yup, seen it. Yeah if I see a bird bigger than a cardinal, I’m out, deuces. I don’t want that smoke. Unless it’s a hawk or eagle, I start asking God, “is it here to eat this groundhog, please say so.” Then the damn hawk looks at me and says “not today,” then I roll my eyes and go on bout my business 😂

[@johankkaliber8650]

The difference between casual and fwb is a High five or hug after😂

[@heatherdyer6844]

James,, how much $$$ to stay and fight the birds off?? 😂😂😂

[@dalisuadams5437]

Happy Monday!!!noticed yall don't post on pocket casts was hoping if yall can could post on other platforms too

[@kennakellon8852]

In James nightmare section, ain’t that the same kid who took over the plane for the drunk pilot?

[@roxystewart675]

new ick: your man sitting down with his family on his birthday opening presents 😐NAH

[@abigaelmusyoka4413]

By......sounds like he is loved plus it’s cute

[@abigaelmusyoka4413]

Why....explain

[@mehyeah2931]

Why you getting physical presents from your parents past 18? Just get money that’s way more useful

[@heiseili9279]

@@mehyeah2931 some ppl like the sht they get. 🙂

[@TheAmiz6]

31:12 it’s the wiggles 😂

[@marybutidk]

🎣 throwing bait out for Fuhad 🤣

[@Bethxfaithxx]

Best find yet

[@rachelliu1756]

this ep on spotify is literally 3 mins long, thought they skipped a whole episode 😭😭

[@masoodajouhaar673]

So cheating is okay mandam cause I fancy that fanta no ice 😂

[@jahova15]

Big fan, big shout from Ireland

[@Thelucky23]

I’m rewatching this and read a comment and was about to like it…. It was my comment…. 😅😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤦🏽‍♀️