Ep. 191 So Whiny Before w/ Susan Pinsky | Dr. Drew After Dark

[@heinzmad]

I was a troubled teenage girl 15 years ago. My parents responded like Dr. Drew suggests - therapy and treating me like an alcoholic (removing alcohol from the house, discipline, etc.). Things got worse, but I turned things around at 18. I am now a successful attorney with a family, and have a healthy relationship with alcohol and no addiction issues. Here are my thoughts, with the benefit of hindsight and several years of really good therapy: My childhood therapist listened and was compassionate, but she was not attuned to me and had a no tolerance attitude with drugs and alcohol. What I needed was for someone to validate my feelings, but they inadvertently did the opposite. Treating me like an addict only made me feel ashamed and alone, so I hid things from adults even more, which is where the real trouble began. It reinforced the thought that there was something wrong with me-VERY wrong-and did nothing to address the pain I was in, made me feel ashamed of the only coping mechanism I had and alone with those feelings, and did not offer an alternative. Whatever you do, my advice is to be mindful of your tone and approach. You can have a zero tolerance policy, but do it in a way that does not shame her. Find ways to speak to her that make her feel emotionally safe and validate her feelings. Joe Rogan’s podcast with Dr. Gabor Mate might be useful. And spend time with her, even if she’s doing things you don’t like. Don’t pull away-she needs you MORE now, not less.

[@danboyd6180]

Sounds like that is exactly what you needed not thinking you need validation. Searching for validation is still giving away power. You are the cause of all your problems

[@tylerhill2487]

Susan officially nudges Stifflers mom from 1st place gorgeous. Props Drew!

[@BPH55]

Bro. Agree. She’s a babe.

[@larrygraham4875]

Good one. Wish i would've thought of that

[@Lolalee73]

We need more time with Susan...it will get us ladies chiming in more !! Where are all my ladies at? !?! IM A PROUD YMH MOMMIE !!

[@dannyphantom1593]

Spam☝️☝️☝️

[@MaddDrEw]

I am concerned for you. Has Garth fed you this week?

[@trev047b]

Susan bringing the milk

[@GammaAuObsidian]

Right? She looks... Smart.

[@sentientcardboarddumpster7900]

Weirdo

[@nv3217]

Milk truck just arrived

[@YoMama9021]

Freak

[@danboyd6180]

She looks really smart

[@aust_barrett]

Lmao Susan telling us Drew got a Thickie 😂😂

[@brandonheape5933]

The passive aggressiveness when Susan said “so you saw her naked” 😂😂😂😂😂

[@dannyphantom1593]

Spam

[@hollycrain5523]

Drew and Susan are couple goals 💯💯💯

[@sentientcardboarddumpster7900]

Yes cant wait until I have a wife that immaculates me on air

[@ab-jf2re]

@@sentientcardboarddumpster7900 immaculates 😂😂 did you mean emasculate mommy?

[@MrSen4lifE]

@@sentientcardboarddumpster7900 If "your cock is perfect" feels like a woman is emasculating you, you should probably just switch teams

[@sentientcardboarddumpster7900]

@@ab-jf2re "you were so whiney"

[@jrawsadam]

@@ab-jf2re 😂😂😂immaculate

[@ohmanthatguy2443]

25:52 You can pretend to be whatever you want just don't expect others to pretend with you.

[@dannyphantom1593]

Spam

[@ihategarydiamond]

Dr. Drew and Susan need an Onlyfans. I would pay more than I'd like to admit to unleash those flappers.

[@TeddyBremmer]

And we know Drew hits it with his thickie.

[@PenumbralFigure]

Hell I'd be willing to pay $5 just to see Drew's thickie

[@zeroa69]

Id keep that video extra hi and tight

[@yourmomslvr5622]

Snail snails pronouns

[@acmb6763]

Unleash those flappers 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@lostsoul2184]

nadav's laughs should be saved in a jar

[@larrygraham4875]

I kno rght.😊

[@mandihollingsworth182]

Agreed 💯😂

[@breemee1234]

And stored in a basement.

[@smagala86]

His laugh is medicine

[@HeliNomadic]

I've always wondered how Enny feels about it.

[@OttersExist]

MORNING MOMMMIIIEEESS

[@osothick1]

Morning jeans🤗🤗

[@nema5215]

GOOD MORNING AND WATCH FOR WASPSES

[@zacharygrove4323]

Good morning Julia!

[@Lolalee73]

Mommies, jeans and Dr Hit..Mrs dr. Mommie Good day to our crazy FAMILY

[@prissymissyb]

I SIMP FOR SUSAN!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@michaelroth6975]

#simp4susan

[@unclemandragon5670]

She seems like the type of woman that would scratch your back if you asked and she would never half ass it. I too simp for Susan. 🫠

[@nickporta5635]

I love yall so much yall make people realize that they are not alone on so many things!!! Keepen em high and tight

[@Hungryhipoe]

I can’t believe dr drew tried to have adults sign a contract that they wouldn’t drink or have alcohol in their house 😂

[@dedHESHr]

It’s that he still seems to not get why it was declined across the board haha.

[@NathanCline12-21]

If you can't enforce your own rules in your own home do you really own it

[@britmcd]

I KNOW. 🤦 Just listened to that part and I had to scroll down for the comments lol. Nahhh shit the contracts didn't go over well 🤣

[@alicezta12]

Rightttt like gtfo 😂😂😂

[@Corkoth55]

Yes that was weird..

[@greenthumb8170]

Susan is the best. You know it's gonna be a good episode of anything YMH related when she's on!

[@BuckLax3]

Her episodes are always funny, but she just needs to slow down sometimes and let other people speak. Not sure if it's nerves or what, but it can be hard to follow because she talks over people too often. I want her to take an improv class and learn to share the space, cause in my opinion she would be even more killer.

[@lb8141]

The Goddess is back!!!!! Touch me through the fence Susan!!!

[@RDSwords]

Enny was astral projecting to another place at 35:53 hahahaha

[@maddieludzack2197]

I'm a female who has emailed and called in over a dozen times and never get on the show. Drew has to stop asking for women do they don't want to answer the questions

[@missalondrita]

Susan looking fantastic as always 🙌🏼 love the glasses

[@BruhCloudTv]

59:50 "So that's how you were f*ucking Drew?" -Enny 2022 🤣 bruh... 💀 💀 💀

[@wills242]

Drew having the Mrs. on has really grown on me! She’s used to egos but she brings a sense of reality and no one can bully her cuz she’s the dr’s mrs. interesting balance to the dynamic at times!

[@crimmins0613]

She’s definitely touched a camera thru the fence lol

[@Lolalee73]

I'd love to see that !! Susan is fun when she lets loose ^-"|□●○☆♤♡◇♧¿¡¤×/

[@trevorkenny]

That top on Susan is gonna make some telescopes.

[@bk138gt6]

Best guest you've had in awhile

[@mandihollingsworth182]

Susan I love it when your on. You and Drew are couple goals for sure. ❤️♥️🖖

[@JacobHazell]

Susan is a Real Ass Dude.

[@ryangreenwald3755]

"Finger Fitness" is pretty dope when you add lights to them its called gloving. ALL ravers already know

[@richardvasquez6746]

I hope when my wife and I are older we are still fucking like Dr Drew and Susan.

[@benwertman4801]

Touch my Friday through the fence!

[@iMcGeeClips]

WATCH FOR WASPES

[@eoinmccabe5369]

Christina and Susan need to do a pod together

[@Littlejaydaa]

Fav podcast right here!

[@MadCowMusic]

Names on the spines of books didn't even start until AFTER the printing press... wtf! Chad is such a typical modern professor lol

[@goudyfivecoats3789]

Yessss!!!! My favorite couple!!!

[@joshmyers1413]

Dr. Drew is the coolest snail male for having Susan back on. She’s definitely FGTRTD.

[@jayjason2517]

It's always fun when Susan comes on as a guest. It was funny when Drew got pissed off at Christina P for that baby tigers video.

[@deluxe4116]

Omg DR. Drew I’m so excited for your show!!

[@miketko]

never miss an ep. thanks Dr. Drew

[@oldyoungone]

one thing I've learned with these episodes is Susan has T higher than Drew, she is a bro, Drew needs to up his TRT dose.

[@Lolalee73]

I love their apparent HAPPINESS :=)

[@retroliftsprs]

@@Lolalee73 yeaaahhh but it's strange. Susan has bigger dude bro vibes than Drew. It's just weird.

[@ihategarydiamond]

Drew has a great point about alcohol. My ex girlfriend had the 'cool' mom who would provide her with endless alcohol and vapes. It seems cool until you have literally no control or responsibility over your life. Misery loves company.

[@raytrumble1994]

Can we please get Dan Cummins on the podcast!?!?

[@Nick-ds6oc]

SHOWBIZ!!

[@michaelpacheco1448]

Hail nimrod

[@WickedSpade]

Id prefer Hugh Janus

[@sleekpngn4050]

Yes!

[@AmericanArgonaut]

Susan’s probably the best guest that’s ever been on this show. Drew you’re a lucky man!

[@LukeH930]

Love Stalekracker! I hope he becomes a ymh regular.

[@deluxe4116]

Yeasssss Susan is here!!!! 🎉❤

[@mokoshpie]

Susan we love you, you are the queen of everything. Mom we all wished we had or a friend who will help to hide the body. Long live the Queen Susan!

[@ihategarydiamond]

It's like a snail. Susan killing it!

[@stunksmahoney4606]

I love how YMH has dragged these two classy professional people into their greasy muck. Susan is devolving into Push 🤣

[@zeroa69]

I prefer the term "evolved". Not only does she have way more comedic timing and presence then her first appearances but more importantly she revels more skin every time she comes in.... Push could probably train her too at least pull off a minute on kill tony.

[@frone17]

Susan we missed you 😂🎉

[@stain12450]

YES !!! Love Susan !!!!!! Love the glasses too

[@derekmoore1387]

Dr. Drew's PSA of the day: don't try to be a cool mom by serving booze to minors.

[@OhBoysPaintball]

I don’t think Drew or Susan know what water boarding is 😂

[@dreasmg]

Snail self wishes to pour a bottle of salt on snails head 🙋🏻‍♂️

[@artificefount9930]

I've seen people with the propensity toward addiction, where they were not trying to self-medicate, but self-obliterate. Unfortunately for many that are trying to fine-tune their system, ALL of the addiction protocols are geared towards the LCD, or those that use ANYTHING to not be themselves. I hope that in the future, we can be a bit more nuanced toward substances.

[@cafferacer]

This is hilarious. Adam is enjoying this bigtime

[@-Ricky_Spanish-]

Great episode. Susan has become so good she steals the show most of the time.

[@2mis2TL86]

YEEEEES Mrs Doctor Jeans 🎉

[@variaxi935]

Fantastic as always, Doc 🙏 VERY excited to eventually see your Kill Tony debut lol

[@ritae5316]

Love the glasses, Susan

[@navyxd4261]

Thats really just called a “taint” stand. We used to do it in the army on random things on 2010 🤣🤣

[@oBuLLzEyEo1013]

I came as soon as I saw Susan...

[@MadCowMusic]

I turned into a telescope.

[@notagainthishurts]

Susan bringing the Heavies.

[@richiesun9676]

Dr. Drew always a consumate professional. Susan, "I like em thicc"

[@amyhansen5785]

Love the glasses Susan! 🤓

[@jdub2100]

Susan trying to bring in the views with her big naturals🤣 Also, Drew asking all parents to not keep alcohol in their household is BIZARRE!! his poor kids were probably outcasts after that.

[@BillyBoggle]

Whole different show when she’s on, so great

[@schrippe24]

Drew’s look after the diaper comment😂😂

[@myztik5716]

I love the incredibly difficult and mentally exhausting conversations Susan is having around singular pronouns "I ran into Carrey at the supermarket. They're going to be coming over for dinner later tonight" "OMG I'm so confused right now, who are we talking about?"

[@myztik5716]

It's been used since the 18th century and used in heavy use for over a decade, you Victoria Secret model boomer lol. If some cool guy said 'she's coming to dinner' you'd ask who the fuck he's talking about too, because nobody starts a conversation with just a person's pronoun

[@3skin556]

I always wonder what these people call someone if they don't know their gender. "They went to the grocery store and then they went to their favorite restaurant" "Don't you me HE OR SHE sent to the groceries store and then HE OR SHE sent to HIS OR HER favorite restaurant "?

[@3skin556]

I don't even mean in a gender assuming way, I mean when you literally don't have the information. You've never seen them and no clue. We generally use "they" in that position now.

[@BaldHeadedManc]

@@3skin556 if I can't tell someone's gender, I avoid them.

[@TheKomar924]

I hope the show on Fox turns out good!!!

[@Lolalee73]

I'll watch it just for dr,drew didn't know about half the names.....sorry not sorry...I'm a YMH junkie now....

[@sentientcardboarddumpster7900]

44:00 dude is just bragging lmaooo

[@RE-om1up]

Yeah!! Mommies DO always come back! The Mommy Doc is so blessed to have Susan keeping his jeans high and tight

[@hom-sha-bom]

Enny is the original Rachel Dolezal

[@breemee1234]

Finally! Someone else noticed. 🦦🐾

[@earinvh]

Susan!!!!! Susan Susan Susan!!!!!

[@Aaron215Z]

Damn this episode is over a month old. Makes me sad how long YMH in general banks episodes instead of them being recent

[@GrayVMhan]

It's better to be banking in case shit hits and you can't record for a couple of weeks, but I get your point

[@satchelbagagee]

Doctor lives in cali and this studio is in Austin. So he comes and records a bunch of episodes at a times

[@user-cg1oh4iw4g]

Dr. Drew speaking over his wife is very funny 😂

[@slowj561]

SHOWING LOVE FROM PALM BEACH COUNTY FL

[@splouffy]

Susan got them thangs thangin.

[@cindyjo9093]

Gator is good. Cut in small pieces. Marinate in miilk.

[@jasongeary4331]

The opening segment regarding how dumb people on the Internet are can be summed up by a great George Carlin line. "Think about how stupid the average person is. Then remember that half of them are stupider than that"

[@breemee1234]

Kind of like how half of Enny's parents are white

[@enochherron1445]

She the best. Great pod

[@DefferJohn]

1:00:20 I'm from Denmark 🇩🇰 and it's *not* Danish they're speaking, it's sounds more like Dutch. ☺️🙏🏼

[@pacroon6142]

Yo! I'm a fellow Dane and you are 100% correct! It's definitely not Danish.

[@brysonjamison3388]

Need Susan on more often.

[@Kristins.kittens]

Susan is the best! She makes me laugh

[@Alex_MTG]

Lol, I think Susan is wearing her shirt backwards.

[@gracieeakins4567]

dr. drew needs to interview the Liver King!!

[@forrbyc1508]

OK! I see you Susan!

[@timbrawdy2249]

Nadav: “SHOW ME MURDER!”

[@Viralsmells]

With those doggy style leg cramps. If the magnesium doesn’t help the potassium might be the missing ingredient. I had leg cramps and pain and magnesium helped a little bit, but as soon as I supplemented with potassium, my legs weren’t so tense. Eat more taters and oranges, cuz it’s hot outside. Watch out for waspses everyone.

[@Popcorncedar]

I wish she’d talk over Drew more.

[@GreybeardNik]

She's saying "Damp Toilet Paper"

[@bobbo8u]

Susan "I like em thick" Pinsky

[@thewhitedread7572]

HAPPY JEWYEAR NATIV!!

[@Xxballin17xX]

If there is one thing I learned this episode is Drew over exaggerates everything lmao 🤣

[@susanpinsky2413]

no shit

[@SpykTheSpade]

Is it just me or does everyone on YMH look their best these days?!

[@thestraydog]

Dude especially Tommy Bunns, dude is looking fit these days. Bert however...

[@chaserz4201]

So if I make Escargot out of snail snails does that make me a murderer or a chef?

[@Debauchery_Tea]

28:11 hit the nail on the head. They hide behind acceptance, but they're really just seeking attention

[@viking5960]

Our favorite stripclub fanatic is back!!!!

[@rynesiemon3836]

In basic training if you got caught alone a “sniper” would get you and you needed to lay down until another battle buddy pair came and carried you off.

[@larrygraham4875]

She's awesome

[@linuscore]

Susan is spilling out of those clothes and just looking gorgeous

[@coreyhorrorandmore8545]

Good morning Julia ❤

[@tylerjcranford]

Stuffing an alligator tail with sausage is vile, not gonna lie. Stuffing a dead animal with the ground up dead body of another animal.