I was a troubled teenage girl 15 years ago. My parents responded like Dr. Drew suggests - therapy and treating me like an alcoholic (removing alcohol from the house, discipline, etc.). Things got worse, but I turned things around at 18. I am now a successful attorney with a family, and have a healthy relationship with alcohol and no addiction issues. Here are my thoughts, with the benefit of hindsight and several years of really good therapy: My childhood therapist listened and was compassionate, but she was not attuned to me and had a no tolerance attitude with drugs and alcohol. What I needed was for someone to validate my feelings, but they inadvertently did the opposite. Treating me like an addict only made me feel ashamed and alone, so I hid things from adults even more, which is where the real trouble began. It reinforced the thought that there was something wrong with me-VERY wrong-and did nothing to address the pain I was in, made me feel ashamed of the only coping mechanism I had and alone with those feelings, and did not offer an alternative. Whatever you do, my advice is to be mindful of your tone and approach. You can have a zero tolerance policy, but do it in a way that does not shame her. Find ways to speak to her that make her feel emotionally safe and validate her feelings. Joe Rogan’s podcast with Dr. Gabor Mate might be useful. And spend time with her, even if she’s doing things you don’t like. Don’t pull away-she needs you MORE now, not less.
@danboyd61802 жыл бұрын
Sounds like that is exactly what you needed not thinking you need validation. Searching for validation is still giving away power. You are the cause of all your problems
@tylerhill24872 жыл бұрын
Susan officially nudges Stifflers mom from 1st place gorgeous. Props Drew!
@BPH552 жыл бұрын
Bro. Agree. She’s a babe.
@larrygraham48752 жыл бұрын
Good one. Wish i would've thought of that
@Lolalee732 жыл бұрын
We need more time with Susan...it will get us ladies chiming in more !! Where are all my ladies at? !?! IM A PROUD YMH MOMMIE !!
@dannyphantom15932 жыл бұрын
Spam☝️☝️☝️
@MaddDrEw2 жыл бұрын
I am concerned for you. Has Garth fed you this week?
@trev047b2 жыл бұрын
Susan bringing the milk
@GammaAuObsidian2 жыл бұрын
Right? She looks... Smart.
@sentientcardboarddumpster79002 жыл бұрын
Weirdo
@nv32172 жыл бұрын
Milk truck just arrived
@YoMama90212 жыл бұрын
Freak
@danboyd61802 жыл бұрын
She looks really smart
@aust_barrett2 жыл бұрын
Lmao Susan telling us Drew got a Thickie 😂😂
@brandonheape59332 жыл бұрын
The passive aggressiveness when Susan said “so you saw her naked” 😂😂😂😂😂
@dannyphantom15932 жыл бұрын
Spam
@hollycrain55232 жыл бұрын
Drew and Susan are couple goals 💯💯💯
@sentientcardboarddumpster79002 жыл бұрын
Yes cant wait until I have a wife that immaculates me on air
@ab-jf2re2 жыл бұрын
@@sentientcardboarddumpster7900 immaculates 😂😂 did you mean emasculate mommy?
@MrSen4lifE2 жыл бұрын
@@sentientcardboarddumpster7900 If "your cock is perfect" feels like a woman is emasculating you, you should probably just switch teams
@sentientcardboarddumpster79002 жыл бұрын
@@ab-jf2re "you were so whiney"
@jrawsadam2 жыл бұрын
@@ab-jf2re 😂😂😂immaculate
@ohmanthatguy24432 жыл бұрын
25:52 You can pretend to be whatever you want just don't expect others to pretend with you.
@dannyphantom15932 жыл бұрын
Spam
@ihategarydiamond2 жыл бұрын
Dr. Drew and Susan need an Onlyfans. I would pay more than I'd like to admit to unleash those flappers.
@TeddyBremmer2 жыл бұрын
And we know Drew hits it with his thickie.
@PenumbralFigure2 жыл бұрын
Hell I'd be willing to pay $5 just to see Drew's thickie
@zeroa692 жыл бұрын
Id keep that video extra hi and tight
@yourmomslvr56222 жыл бұрын
Snail snails pronouns
@acmb67632 жыл бұрын
Unleash those flappers 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@lostsoul21842 жыл бұрын
nadav's laughs should be saved in a jar
@larrygraham48752 жыл бұрын
I kno rght.😊
@mandihollingsworth1822 жыл бұрын
Agreed 💯😂
@breemee12342 жыл бұрын
And stored in a basement.
@smagala862 жыл бұрын
His laugh is medicine
@HeliNomadic2 жыл бұрын
I've always wondered how Enny feels about it.
@OttersExist2 жыл бұрын
MORNING MOMMMIIIEEESS
@osothick12 жыл бұрын
Morning jeans🤗🤗
@nema52152 жыл бұрын
GOOD MORNING AND WATCH FOR WASPSES
@zacharygrove43232 жыл бұрын
Good morning Julia!
@Lolalee732 жыл бұрын
Mommies, jeans and Dr Hit..Mrs dr. Mommie Good day to our crazy FAMILY
@prissymissyb2 жыл бұрын
I SIMP FOR SUSAN!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
@michaelroth69752 жыл бұрын
#simp4susan
@unclemandragon56702 жыл бұрын
She seems like the type of woman that would scratch your back if you asked and she would never half ass it. I too simp for Susan. 🫠
@nickporta56352 жыл бұрын
I love yall so much yall make people realize that they are not alone on so many things!!! Keepen em high and tight
@Hungryhipoe2 жыл бұрын
I can’t believe dr drew tried to have adults sign a contract that they wouldn’t drink or have alcohol in their house 😂
@dedHESHr2 жыл бұрын
It’s that he still seems to not get why it was declined across the board haha.
@NathanCline12-212 жыл бұрын
If you can't enforce your own rules in your own home do you really own it
@britmcd2 жыл бұрын
I KNOW. 🤦 Just listened to that part and I had to scroll down for the comments lol. Nahhh shit the contracts didn't go over well 🤣
@alicezta122 жыл бұрын
Rightttt like gtfo 😂😂😂
@Corkoth552 жыл бұрын
Yes that was weird..
@greenthumb81702 жыл бұрын
Susan is the best. You know it's gonna be a good episode of anything YMH related when she's on!
@BuckLax32 жыл бұрын
Her episodes are always funny, but she just needs to slow down sometimes and let other people speak. Not sure if it's nerves or what, but it can be hard to follow because she talks over people too often. I want her to take an improv class and learn to share the space, cause in my opinion she would be even more killer.
@lb81412 жыл бұрын
The Goddess is back!!!!! Touch me through the fence Susan!!!
@RDSwords2 жыл бұрын
Enny was astral projecting to another place at 35:53 hahahaha
@maddieludzack21972 жыл бұрын
I'm a female who has emailed and called in over a dozen times and never get on the show. Drew has to stop asking for women do they don't want to answer the questions
@missalondrita2 жыл бұрын
Susan looking fantastic as always 🙌🏼 love the glasses
@BruhCloudTv2 жыл бұрын
59:50 "So that's how you were f*ucking Drew?" -Enny 2022 🤣 bruh... 💀 💀 💀
@wills2422 жыл бұрын
Drew having the Mrs. on has really grown on me! She’s used to egos but she brings a sense of reality and no one can bully her cuz she’s the dr’s mrs. interesting balance to the dynamic at times!
@crimmins06132 жыл бұрын
She’s definitely touched a camera thru the fence lol
@Lolalee732 жыл бұрын
I'd love to see that !! Susan is fun when she lets loose ^-"|□●○☆♤♡◇♧¿¡¤×/
@trevorkenny2 жыл бұрын
That top on Susan is gonna make some telescopes.
@bk138gt62 жыл бұрын
Best guest you've had in awhile
@mandihollingsworth1822 жыл бұрын
Susan I love it when your on. You and Drew are couple goals for sure. ❤️♥️🖖
@JacobHazell2 жыл бұрын
Susan is a Real Ass Dude.
@ryangreenwald37552 жыл бұрын
"Finger Fitness" is pretty dope when you add lights to them its called gloving. ALL ravers already know
@richardvasquez67462 жыл бұрын
I hope when my wife and I are older we are still fucking like Dr Drew and Susan.
@benwertman48012 жыл бұрын
Touch my Friday through the fence!
@iMcGeeClips2 жыл бұрын
WATCH FOR WASPES
@eoinmccabe53692 жыл бұрын
Christina and Susan need to do a pod together
@Littlejaydaa2 жыл бұрын
Fav podcast right here!
@MadCowMusic2 жыл бұрын
Names on the spines of books didn't even start until AFTER the printing press... wtf! Chad is such a typical modern professor lol
@goudyfivecoats37892 жыл бұрын
Yessss!!!! My favorite couple!!!
@joshmyers1413 Жыл бұрын
Dr. Drew is the coolest snail male for having Susan back on. She’s definitely FGTRTD.
@jayjason25172 жыл бұрын
It's always fun when Susan comes on as a guest. It was funny when Drew got pissed off at Christina P for that baby tigers video.
@deluxe41162 жыл бұрын
Omg DR. Drew I’m so excited for your show!!
@miketko2 жыл бұрын
never miss an ep. thanks Dr. Drew
@oldyoungone2 жыл бұрын
one thing I've learned with these episodes is Susan has T higher than Drew, she is a bro, Drew needs to up his TRT dose.
@Lolalee732 жыл бұрын
I love their apparent HAPPINESS :=)
@retroliftsprs2 жыл бұрын
@@Lolalee73 yeaaahhh but it's strange. Susan has bigger dude bro vibes than Drew. It's just weird.
@ihategarydiamond2 жыл бұрын
Drew has a great point about alcohol. My ex girlfriend had the 'cool' mom who would provide her with endless alcohol and vapes. It seems cool until you have literally no control or responsibility over your life. Misery loves company.
@raytrumble19942 жыл бұрын
Can we please get Dan Cummins on the podcast!?!?
@Nick-ds6oc2 жыл бұрын
SHOWBIZ!!
@michaelpacheco14482 жыл бұрын
Hail nimrod
@WickedSpade2 жыл бұрын
Id prefer Hugh Janus
@sleekpngn40502 жыл бұрын
Yes!
@AmericanArgonaut2 жыл бұрын
Susan’s probably the best guest that’s ever been on this show. Drew you’re a lucky man!
@LukeH9302 жыл бұрын
Love Stalekracker! I hope he becomes a ymh regular.
@deluxe41162 жыл бұрын
Yeasssss Susan is here!!!! 🎉❤
@mokoshpie2 жыл бұрын
Susan we love you, you are the queen of everything. Mom we all wished we had or a friend who will help to hide the body. Long live the Queen Susan!
@ihategarydiamond2 жыл бұрын
It's like a snail. Susan killing it!
@stunksmahoney46062 жыл бұрын
I love how YMH has dragged these two classy professional people into their greasy muck. Susan is devolving into Push 🤣
@zeroa692 жыл бұрын
I prefer the term "evolved". Not only does she have way more comedic timing and presence then her first appearances but more importantly she revels more skin every time she comes in.... Push could probably train her too at least pull off a minute on kill tony.
@frone172 жыл бұрын
Susan we missed you 😂🎉
@stain124502 жыл бұрын
YES !!! Love Susan !!!!!! Love the glasses too
@derekmoore13872 жыл бұрын
Dr. Drew's PSA of the day: don't try to be a cool mom by serving booze to minors.
@OhBoysPaintball2 жыл бұрын
I don’t think Drew or Susan know what water boarding is 😂
@dreasmg2 жыл бұрын
Snail self wishes to pour a bottle of salt on snails head 🙋🏻♂️
@artificefount99302 жыл бұрын
I've seen people with the propensity toward addiction, where they were not trying to self-medicate, but self-obliterate. Unfortunately for many that are trying to fine-tune their system, ALL of the addiction protocols are geared towards the LCD, or those that use ANYTHING to not be themselves. I hope that in the future, we can be a bit more nuanced toward substances.
@cafferacer2 жыл бұрын
This is hilarious. Adam is enjoying this bigtime
@-Ricky_Spanish-2 жыл бұрын
Great episode. Susan has become so good she steals the show most of the time.
@2mis2TL862 жыл бұрын
YEEEEES Mrs Doctor Jeans 🎉
@variaxi9352 жыл бұрын
Fantastic as always, Doc 🙏 VERY excited to eventually see your Kill Tony debut lol
@ritae53162 жыл бұрын
Love the glasses, Susan
@navyxd42612 жыл бұрын
Thats really just called a “taint” stand. We used to do it in the army on random things on 2010 🤣🤣
@oBuLLzEyEo10132 жыл бұрын
I came as soon as I saw Susan...
@MadCowMusic2 жыл бұрын
I turned into a telescope.
@notagainthishurts2 жыл бұрын
Susan bringing the Heavies.
@richiesun96762 жыл бұрын
Dr. Drew always a consumate professional. Susan, "I like em thicc"
@amyhansen5785 Жыл бұрын
Love the glasses Susan! 🤓
@jdub2100 Жыл бұрын
Susan trying to bring in the views with her big naturals🤣 Also, Drew asking all parents to not keep alcohol in their household is BIZARRE!! his poor kids were probably outcasts after that.
@BillyBoggle Жыл бұрын
Whole different show when she’s on, so great
@schrippe242 жыл бұрын
Drew’s look after the diaper comment😂😂
@myztik57162 жыл бұрын
I love the incredibly difficult and mentally exhausting conversations Susan is having around singular pronouns "I ran into Carrey at the supermarket. They're going to be coming over for dinner later tonight" "OMG I'm so confused right now, who are we talking about?"
@myztik57162 жыл бұрын
It's been used since the 18th century and used in heavy use for over a decade, you Victoria Secret model boomer lol. If some cool guy said 'she's coming to dinner' you'd ask who the fuck he's talking about too, because nobody starts a conversation with just a person's pronoun
@3skin5562 жыл бұрын
I always wonder what these people call someone if they don't know their gender. "They went to the grocery store and then they went to their favorite restaurant" "Don't you me HE OR SHE sent to the groceries store and then HE OR SHE sent to HIS OR HER favorite restaurant "?
@3skin5562 жыл бұрын
I don't even mean in a gender assuming way, I mean when you literally don't have the information. You've never seen them and no clue. We generally use "they" in that position now.
@BaldHeadedManc Жыл бұрын
@@3skin556 if I can't tell someone's gender, I avoid them.
@TheKomar9242 жыл бұрын
I hope the show on Fox turns out good!!!
@Lolalee732 жыл бұрын
I'll watch it just for dr,drew didn't know about half the names.....sorry not sorry...I'm a YMH junkie now....
@sentientcardboarddumpster79002 жыл бұрын
44:00 dude is just bragging lmaooo
@RE-om1up2 жыл бұрын
Yeah!! Mommies DO always come back! The Mommy Doc is so blessed to have Susan keeping his jeans high and tight
@hom-sha-bom2 жыл бұрын
Enny is the original Rachel Dolezal
@breemee12342 жыл бұрын
Finally! Someone else noticed. 🦦🐾
@earinvh2 жыл бұрын
Susan!!!!! Susan Susan Susan!!!!!
@Aaron215Z2 жыл бұрын
Damn this episode is over a month old. Makes me sad how long YMH in general banks episodes instead of them being recent
@GrayVMhan2 жыл бұрын
It's better to be banking in case shit hits and you can't record for a couple of weeks, but I get your point
@satchelbagagee2 жыл бұрын
Doctor lives in cali and this studio is in Austin. So he comes and records a bunch of episodes at a times
@user-cg1oh4iw4g2 жыл бұрын
Dr. Drew speaking over his wife is very funny 😂
@slowj5612 жыл бұрын
SHOWING LOVE FROM PALM BEACH COUNTY FL
@splouffy2 жыл бұрын
Susan got them thangs thangin.
@cindyjo9093 Жыл бұрын
Gator is good. Cut in small pieces. Marinate in miilk.
@jasongeary43312 жыл бұрын
The opening segment regarding how dumb people on the Internet are can be summed up by a great George Carlin line. "Think about how stupid the average person is. Then remember that half of them are stupider than that"
@breemee12342 жыл бұрын
Kind of like how half of Enny's parents are white
@enochherron14452 жыл бұрын
She the best. Great pod
@DefferJohn2 жыл бұрын
1:00:20 I'm from Denmark 🇩🇰 and it's *not* Danish they're speaking, it's sounds more like Dutch. ☺️🙏🏼
@pacroon61422 жыл бұрын
Yo! I'm a fellow Dane and you are 100% correct! It's definitely not Danish.
@brysonjamison33882 жыл бұрын
Need Susan on more often.
@Kristins.kittens2 жыл бұрын
Susan is the best! She makes me laugh
@Alex_MTG2 жыл бұрын
Lol, I think Susan is wearing her shirt backwards.
@gracieeakins45672 жыл бұрын
dr. drew needs to interview the Liver King!!
@forrbyc15082 жыл бұрын
OK! I see you Susan!
@timbrawdy22492 жыл бұрын
Nadav: “SHOW ME MURDER!”
@Viralsmells2 жыл бұрын
With those doggy style leg cramps. If the magnesium doesn’t help the potassium might be the missing ingredient. I had leg cramps and pain and magnesium helped a little bit, but as soon as I supplemented with potassium, my legs weren’t so tense. Eat more taters and oranges, cuz it’s hot outside. Watch out for waspses everyone.
@Popcorncedar2 жыл бұрын
I wish she’d talk over Drew more.
@GreybeardNik2 жыл бұрын
She's saying "Damp Toilet Paper"
@bobbo8u2 жыл бұрын
Susan "I like em thick" Pinsky
@thewhitedread75722 жыл бұрын
HAPPY JEWYEAR NATIV!!
@Xxballin17xX2 жыл бұрын
If there is one thing I learned this episode is Drew over exaggerates everything lmao 🤣
@susanpinsky24132 жыл бұрын
no shit
@SpykTheSpade2 жыл бұрын
Is it just me or does everyone on YMH look their best these days?!
@thestraydog2 жыл бұрын
Dude especially Tommy Bunns, dude is looking fit these days. Bert however...
@chaserz42012 жыл бұрын
So if I make Escargot out of snail snails does that make me a murderer or a chef?
@Debauchery_Tea Жыл бұрын
28:11 hit the nail on the head. They hide behind acceptance, but they're really just seeking attention
@viking59602 жыл бұрын
Our favorite stripclub fanatic is back!!!!
@rynesiemon38362 жыл бұрын
In basic training if you got caught alone a “sniper” would get you and you needed to lay down until another battle buddy pair came and carried you off.
@larrygraham48752 жыл бұрын
She's awesome
@linuscore2 жыл бұрын
Susan is spilling out of those clothes and just looking gorgeous
@coreyhorrorandmore85452 жыл бұрын
Good morning Julia ❤
@tylerjcranford Жыл бұрын
Stuffing an alligator tail with sausage is vile, not gonna lie. Stuffing a dead animal with the ground up dead body of another animal.