EP 32 Chanel Swartz on surviving a narcissist who turned her life upside down in 1 month

[@starrjohnson1327]

God bless this woman. I've dealt with a man who was broke. He fooled me at first. He was a gentleman and very romantic. Once he knew where I lived he snapped. When I tried to leave him he would threaten me. My relationship with God was my only saving grace. I listened to my gut instincts. I was stalked by this man for a year but he never touched me. I feel for this woman. 😢

[@t.smoabi8947]

As long as you don't scream "DANGER" No one would help you.Disclose the situation as early as possible so that even if he attacks or your hurt by coincidence "WE WILL KNOW WHO FOLLOWED YOU"Many women up till today DIE IN SILENCE

[@thebaddie391]

I think one day we need a psychologist to tell us exactly what a narcissist is because sometimes i feel that the narcissist term is wildly and losely used when people are rapists, murderers and criminals. Sometimes a person is not just a narcissist they are a criminals, murderers and sociopaths and psychopaths.

[@maphindydube8353]

@thebaddie391 search DoctorRamani make time listen to her videos

[@Alegria-Alegria]

I fully agree, the term is loosely used now.

[@irenezezekwa6511]

True this not a narcissist being disbribed here its a murderer a big criminal ,a sociopath and psychopath as you said

[@irenezezekwa6511]

She literally couldn't say out what this man do for a living ,he is an armed robber and murderer that is all

[@OnwabileLuphalule]

I think you guys should look up narcissists

[@zaahidahsnyman5000]

I am so proud of you Chanel,I definitely would love to attend your event and also would be honoured to wear that T shirt.Please share more details on where to purchase. You are a phenomenal woman and I want you to continue sharing your story!

[@Enelo2015]

Sad story. May God continue to protect you. Madam speaker, I love your attire.

[@simphiwer8970]

I'm glad she survived. Never meet any abuser alone. Don't go see them. Don't even unblock them. Don't talk to them. Sad story

[@africanbrowny]

💯 No Contact

[@MatodziMash]

Wish you all the best Chanel, God is with you my dear, I love you❤

[@Unstoppablegoddess726]

That's why we live in a messed up society, because so many mothers condone their kids wrong doings..

[@mauddiananongwedle9314]

I can relate to your story, am actually in that situation. Applied for protection order, has a pending case of assault against him. Blocked him everywhere, can't believe that I ever loved him or he ever loved me.

[@Savebygrace-it]

A narcissist doesn't need a week to date you before his true colours start showing. A certain lady was burn alive by a boyfriend of 2 months she later died so please be careful ladies who you dating because the world is full of monsters. Be very careful rather be single and happy than be miserable or dead even. A a lot of women and men have died at the hands of abusers. 😢😢😢 Pay attention guys don't ignore the maroon flags. You live once people

[@roseannbarrows5266]

Love and Light ❤️❤️ I can imagine how traumitizing this is 💗💗

[@khanyiezimbili6383]

Madam Speaker❤❤❤❤ that outfit❤❤❤❤❤

[@prizvinyam8356]

Described my ex . I have 2 kids to him. He was insulting of all my accomplishments. He belittled him. He lies about everything and he has made the school believe untrue things about myself. He was and is still abusing me via our kids. He also lied about social services which it has been revealed that no information was given or received about me. The schools are not good because they didn’t contact social services themselves to verify about me. It was witnessed by a friend of mine him verbally abusing me and insulting me in front of the kids. He’s causing psychological distress to the kids. My children talk to me and are scared of him.

[@Here-for-comments1023]

Glory to the Most High God. He's a Parent who blew His Spirit in our nostrils. He fearfully and wonderfully made you. After that He came and died for you. Not only that, He went through hell so that you don't. Not only that, He still interceding for you on the right hand of His throne on a daily... Your Farther is jealous and He will consume anything that troubles you He knows the plans He has for you Sister. Plans of good. Plans for your future. Life is your portion

[@eleanorapril7229]

I love your content keep it up 😍😍😍

[@NhlakaZondi]

What a beautiful woman with a heart of gold 💛

[@tebogomangena7381]

Many of women went through similar problems.

[@JosephineJumokeFlourishHH]

Story of many women all over the world... When you see the indicators, move please... So they dont play God in your life 🧬... God bless.

[@nkosinathingwenya6162]

Ms Swartz Please shout to the top of your voice the victory God has given you as a survivor of Gender Based Violence & Femicide. Just talk about GBV & Femicide. Just talk about GBV & Femicide. Just talk about GBV & Femicide Many women need to hear the voice of Pure Gold. Job 23:10

[@Savebygrace-it]

I have heard of a married guy with stab wounds all over his body and he believes he deserves them because he was naughty and cheating on his wife or even squandering family finances. 10 to 15 cm stab wounds from the wife and he still justifies that he was a bad man and deserved all that. He is still married to the same woman and he is a changed man. Please someone explain to me what does it take to live through such abuse and still praise the wife guys please explain l find it hard to understand that a grown man will take all that and stay in that marriage. 😮😮😮

[@shyletlupa5453]

I can relate to this lady's story cause I once dated someone like that back in high school this guy never wanted me to break up with him, he was so manipulative. I always found myself going back to him and he was a serial cheat and didn't want me to cheat at all until I finally called it quits and he used my current boyfriend to lure me to where he was just to beat me up for dating someone 😂I thank God that he's finally out of my life

[@sharonshiba8460]

I was in a similar situation but I thank God i left for good,I also kept going back 😏

[@rachelandrews5746]

He was intimidating her. Did you get him arrested after all

[@bontlemosiane]

The severe depression you feel after cutting ties with a narcissist is unbearable - It’s what is characterised as a TRAUMA BOND

[@Here-for-comments1023]

Providing for other is actually a covenant with His. He will provide so you can provide for His beloved people that He sends you to

[@rachelandrews5746]

Do you think he was always like this with his other girlfriens

[@Alegria-Alegria]

That guy is a psychopath.

[@Vusani-M]

Nice studio

[@zintlemtulu1715]

Patiently waiting

[@spm9130]

I have always said it and I will repeat it here: there’s no cure for narcissism! Look at Nabal, Nebuchadnessar, Jezebel, etc. in the Bible to understand how God dealt with them!

[@refioenale3768]

Shw looks like Buhle Samuels 😍

[@MatodziMash]

Madam Speaker, you look so beautiful😊 ❤

[@uendjizuva9863]

Yoh I'm in tbe UK waiting 50 minutes left joh

[@olgaanyokwu3555]

Where in the UK, I'm in south east London. Big up to this channel ❤🤝

[@pulengphatedi8153]

😮😢iyooooo, iyoooo, iyooooo😮

[@shorneandrews2247]

Brave ❤

[@TFNTSHANGASE]

You so cute Madam speaker ❤

[@tinyikosharon8996]

Yhoo I was once in a relationship where I could be beaten but still lied to people why I had blue eyes 😂eish that guy was an animal coz he was nice in front of person and also my family thought I was the one who was always wrong,have you ever been bitten and forced to sleep with after the bitting...8 years in a abusitionship yhooo thats was hell

[@Luoisemike]

Bad story be blessed

[@prizvinyam8356]

Described my ex . I have 2 kids to him. He was insulting of all my accomplishments. He belittled him. He lies about everything and he has made the school believe untrue things about myself. He was and is still abusing me via our kids. He also lied about social services which it has been revealed that no information was given or received about me. The schools are not good because they didn’t contact social services themselves to verify about me. It was witnessed by a friend of mine him verbally abusing me and insulting me in front of the kids. He’s causing psychological distress to the kids. My children talk to me and are scared of him.