Ep 320: The Gospel of Dating

ShaMarian and Nia discuss what they were taught about dating and how they’ve had to unlearn what they were taught.
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[@keilaquinones912]

Im so glad Im listening to the aunties in my early 20s. 😅❤

[@iamjayatucker]

This!

[@Trinity-br4zh]

In my teens for me 😭👏🏾

[@marshiamaningi2271]

Me too ❤😅

[@valariecooper3039]

I’m glad you are too! Cause I wish someone had told me when I was younger

[@jagy4186]

“Make them 🥷 reach” 😂

[@ashleylewis6347]

“Make them who??”😭😭

[@jtblessed78]

I KNOW THATS RIGHT 🤣🤣🤣

[@DMMOVIES-ty8pk]

Seeing this at 26😂. Hope it's not late

[@lizrodriguez3625]

Titilations 24:7 "You have to be out of reach if they're outta pocket." 🙌🏼👏🏼

[@erianajames5948]

The way y’all were talking to y’all niece(me) through and through!!! Auntie Sham got me allllllll the way together when she held her hands out and started SPEAKING. As a mid-20 young woman I needed this more than I ever thought. Thanks Aunties 💕

[@khanyisiledlamini4085]

I remember that book. I’m 28 but I think it was recommended by the pastor during the dating series he did when I was in varsity/college so I spent most of my 20s single. It’s only now that I’m starting to put myself out there (I’m an introvert) and seeing that the brothers be knowing the word but not living it out 👀

[@vlogwithcass]

Longer episodes ✋🏾.

[@kekeindi]

These ladies are my people. I finally have found someone with a similar experience as mine through this podcast/video. I was in that era with Josh Harris book " I kissed Dating Goodbye" . At church they always told us God will bring "the one " because " true love waits ". They also told us how modesty was the hottest and how we need to wear our purity rings and one day "the one" will give us the real thing(now in retrospect it is funny how all of the onus for being pure was only put on the girls and the women). Some girls were even forced to make promises to their fathers that they would be virgins unti 'the one " comes along . For years and decades I followed this doctrine. Well turns out God was NOT checking for this black girl's love life at all. True love was not waiting . I was waiting and waiting and waiting and waiting. Turns out there was no "the one " . Now I am starring down the barrel of a lifetime of lonliness never to marry, never to bear children, never to have meaningful intimacy .

[@yourfavoriteauntiespod]

🥹🥹🥹

[@jagy4186]

As soon as I saw the title I knew it’s finna be a ki and a Word 😂

[@yourfavoriteauntiespod]

A kiiiiiiiiiiiii honey !

[@melissapierre-louis9418]

The lyric break out never disappoints

[@jocobyjunious3518]

Okay I’m not even finished with this episode yet but I resonated with so much of what yall are saying. I’m 31 and for the last couple of years I’ve been being pruned by God and hyper focused on him. & that’s awesome and amazing but the other day I told myself, “self you gots to go OUT. Go to an Astros game. Remember that you enjoy listening to neo soul.” Because for a while I was growing so much in God but just forgetting about the other aspects of me. & I thank God for my pruning season. I needed it because baby I used to be a wild one 😂 but I’m starting to realize there has to be balance. I can still be a woman of God and yes I can leave my house and have fun!

[@daniellekirby2253]

Girl my lifeeee as of now! But glory to God for the pruning season cause you can now go outside with a different mindset 🙌🏾

[@jocobyjunious3518]

Yes ma'am! Definitely outside now with a different mindset.@@daniellekirby2253

[@officialjamia]

35:22 I’m down for longer content! This was a great! ☠️🙀🤕

[@DerraeNicole]

Found this clip on TikTok and decided to subscribe on KZbin! I’ll be turning 30 in 2024 and looking forward to gaining the wisdom you ladies have to offer 🥰

[@ritamcclendon9961]

First episode 😮🔐🎙️💡

[@BrittanyBanks]

As I was listening to this episode I knew the Holy Spirit was speaking to me because I sho be in the house. Also, being a beautiful 22-year-old but I act like an old lady😅and being on fire for God. I need to get out and have fun even if It's by myself. I think sometimes I let myself and others stop me from having the fun I know I need and deserve. I enjoyed this episode!!!!

[@kanijustkani8691]

Found this channel a day ago and it is helping to restore my faith. Love you aunties

[@yourfavoriteauntiespod]

Glory to God!

[@km7890km]

👀🌾🧐 I can’t find a tumble weed. So I’m over here thinking. 😂😅 thank you for this episode.

[@waz-up331]

When I tell y’all God put this episode in my life on time for the right reason ! Wow thank y’all we need young/mature sober minded woman like y’all’s … and this is just the truth it’s so much different coming from y’all than a more matured woman in life !! We love them too, but y’all’s ministry is highly needed and appreciated for y’all’s target audience 💕 Thank yall!!

[@ladyphenom84]

This is one of my top 3 fave episodes! You both keep it soooo real…thank you 🥹God bless ya

[@jemima2748]

Part 3 please 🥰 (pls we want longer epsss) I absolutely love you two - very stunning ladies. You’re both so in sync! Listening from the UK 🫶🏾

[@ItsME-cw7ji]

THE WAY YALL HELPED ME TODAY!!!!!!! Thank you aunties from your YT neice ❤

[@rebeccabazz]

Everything said was on point especially being raised in the church !

[@LifeWithKash.]

I’m glad I’m taking y’all advice as a young woman in her 20s and learning from my past mistakes. Getting all this knowledge made me realize baby you’re not ready. I’m enjoying my life right now but get prepared when it is time to be in the relationship I deserve. May God bless you Aunties keep spitting game your niece is listening and doing the work 🥰🙏🏽💞💞.

[@Trinity-br4zh]

I love y’all sm yall truly are my aunties y’all give us the spiritual and natural sides of things n keep it real 🤍‼️

[@yourfavoriteauntiespod]

We love you so much 🫶🏾

[@latifahwrites84]

I talked to a guy yesterday for the first time. This man said let’s do an icebreaker with questions. One question had to be of a sexual nature. I should’ve known…he was inviting me over to eat, talk, and cuddle. Bye Sir!

[@edwiniafreeman6659]

I remember that book 😮 "I kissed 💋 dating goodbye 👋." I came from that era too 😂 good god help us

[@deasiatruesdale7112]

TT Nia did the auntie reach. Preach TT Sham, the nieces need to hear it 😂

[@chamekajones1324]

Good episode! 💔💔🙏

[@shotofchaunasei]

Then:🤡🎢🙄 Now:🦋

[@MilaE]

Y’all are blessing me. I’m so glad I found this page.

[@kelseymichellle]

I love y’all! Wish I had aunties like this growing up! Better late than never! Hey KZbin aunties 😊

[@julianbrown555]

I still love the slip up near the end! 😂😂❤️ THAT THING WAS REAL!

[@avonlovers09]

I just found this POD...and when I tell you... this a gem!!!! #lovethis KEEP GOING!!

[@destineemenyoungg]

This episode was so good ! 🗑️🆘😂

[@yourfavoriteauntiespod]

Not 🆘 🤣🤣🤣

[@lisabinder7189]

I am new to your podcast and I love it! Thank you for graphic tee, been there!!

[@sashae23]

I just discovered you two today, I can see I’m at the right place ❣️💯🖤

[@iamgabriellenicole]

This episode was SO GOOD!!💀🤣 🚮🫠🏳️🆘

[@ttrenishe]

I’m so glad yall are doing these podcasts because when I say I NEEDED THIS in my 20s whew child!!! NEEDED IT!!!

[@akilahwilliams4752]

Wow! I just came across one of your shorts and had to watch the episode.. New subbie

[@MSval7399]

I love y’all. 1st of all, that abstinence repellent took me out. 2nd, thank you for all you said because I’ve been struggling and the church people who are married or in relationships always hit me with the cliche… you know what they are. This was refreshing to say the least.

[@carolinereed4394]

I am just convicted through this whole episode :-)

[@ALGlove22]

This was such a good episode. I can relate so much. I love y’all for being so real. ❤❤

[@QuincyKGrace]

Are y'all in my bushes??? Because this episode was literally @ me haha Current Dating: 👀❓🚫

[@shantaberry24]

Part 3!!!!!!! Bring it on!!!❤❤❤❤

[@keishamay904]

Listen!!!!! This episode was like y'all were telling my life story. Purity culture had me not going on my first date until I was 28.....chile

[@yourfavoriteauntiespod]

Whew chile

[@dannellb87]

I love watching yall. This was one of my favorite episodes ❤

[@sibilowusu4376]

Please more content❤❤❤

[@GKSQD]

That’s me! I don’t let up on these men quick to move around if ya not on the up & up. It’s kept me from so much mess 🙌🏽. I recently met someone I feel connected to like never before w/anyone else so much so I’m like 👀👀 2024 💍👰🏽‍♀️

[@thelovelymissmonica1938]

The way this video tickled me 😅😅😅

[@iridianmonge1373]

I need a part 3 !! Thank you Aunties !!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻👕🤣

[@Marionthomeson]

This my emoji “😩😩😩😩” it’s hard dating especially because it seems like every man my age isn’t wanting what I want.

[@Ladyofvirtue247]

I LOVE YALL!!

[@athenaac185]

This was great I love yal aunties!!! ❤️

[@jocobyjunious3518]

Past Dating history: 🗑️🚮🎢 Current Dating Life: 👀💀…

[@TheGreyWallTalk]

Listen this episode blessed me!!! Past Relationship: 🤥 Current Dating Life: 👷🏾‍♂️🧱

[@thaliesigaraille]

Listen aunties, I watched the whole thing lol. Y’all was asking for a lot

[@tequila9149]

The wayyyyy I needed this

[@ddavis7135]

Love this had a couple of laughs because I could relate. 🤡🎪🤹.. 🦁🐅🐻 oh my

[@beaupei944]

Wait I loved Nia so much lol more of her personality is coming out and I absolutely love that. Come on friend!

[@khailaprather]

Love yal sooo much. It hit home everytime 👏🏽👏🏽

[@MyahMason-i5s]

I wish I would’ve found y’all two years ago because mannnn y’all are on fire!!

[@elisascott1881]

Love your podcast, this was a what I needed to hear.

[@idesignz426]

Bless UPS! Good Morning 🌄🌞 You Both are 2 BEAUTIFUL SISTAHS!👑👑😘🥰😍 !;)PEACE

[@Blue-zw6wl]

I love these videos! Watching/listening to your podcast is the highlight of my week. These videos have helped me grow emotionally, spiritually and mentally and I am forever thankful. You both are absolute gems and I am so thankful God placed this podcast in my life! Love you both Auntie Sham and Nia! ❤

[@yourfavoriteauntiespod]

We love you too Blue🫶🏾

[@jadawhite4971]

I wish someone had told me this when I was in my early 20s. Now I’m pushing 30, and I realize how much I’ve missed out by trying to be Jesus Jr.

[@K45arina]

“By the very elect!” Two minutes in and I’m already cackling 😂🙏🏼💛

[@favorite_brownie]

First time watching. Great episode!

[@tamyahurry8235]

dating life before :🤡🤡🤡 Now :❓❓❓Thank you guys so much for this episode 💗

[@yourfavoriteauntiespod]

🫂🫂🫂

[@kirabopauline7205]

This was sooo good!!! Thank you Aunties!🎉

[@mellow_kween]

35:27 aunties didnt give us that testimony 🥹

[@TrueSugar]

I see myself in all of this.

[@latela14]

This was ON TIME! 👏🏾🙌🏾

[@niqueauxthe1]

Omg! I feel so seen and heard! This video is me all the way from beginning to end! Wow! Thank you! I love y’all!

[@trulytiera]

I have been beating myself up for having fun. I’m 10 minutes in and crying. Yall are amazing! I needed this! 👏🏾👏🏾🧡

[@natashaadams8195]

New subbie here, I definitely loved this conversation and I’m here for the longer episodes 🥰 Past dating in a nutshell 🥴🥴🥴🗑️

[@MelissaBryant-f9c]

I’m sooooo glad to have stumbled upon this podcast ! you ladies are great ❤

[@meggyj7659]

This episode was good baby. Blessed me!

[@KelliBJackson]

This was so GOOD 😩

[@shareenladd1048]

This was so good!

[@kenyajuelene]

Love yall and the pod❤

[@angelkeener4665]

I love my aunties

[@nijaawells8425]

I’m so glad I found yall ❤️ I loved this episode

[@alexisnorthington1628]

Current dating: 🌵🌵🌵 Loved the episode!!! ❤️

[@mariahgunn7101]

Definitely needed this episode ❤ love the honesty

[@amar912]

Speaking my truth 😅😅😅

[@Sweetalicelynn]

35:46 I made it to the end but let me tell yall. Im 35 and recently divorced and back on the dating scene, and it is ghetto. But I wish someone would have told me this in my 20s instead of just settling for what I thought was love. 😢😮😅😊

[@Withlovedenisha]

First time watching this podcast. I love my new Aunties ❤🥰

[@yourfavoriteauntiespod]

We love you right back

[@GlosssyBoss]

I love y’all 😭

[@ClarisaMann09]

❤ y’all are always on point

[@yourfavoriteauntiespod]

PERIODT

[@LovingAsChristDoes]

Omg loved!! I was wondering if we email you guys a question are you able to answer in one of your videos?

[@yourfavoriteauntiespod]

Possibly, we have a Patreon and we take their questions first so if you’d like to join the family here’s the link Patreon.com/yourfavoriteaunties

[@morgs3364]

First time watching and yeahhh baby I’m hooked. Hello! Lol

[@yourfavoriteauntiespod]

🪝🪝🪝

[@Fvrgus]

Past dating life: 😳😵‍💫🏃🏾‍♀️ Current:

[@incoleworld528]

This was great! Thank y’all! I definitely struggle with the flirting and knowing when a man is trying to talk to me! 🌵🗒️

[@SamiriaaJanelle]

Baby🤣🤣🤣🤣 yall are meeeeee . Current😐🤣🌵🌚🙏🏾

[@latoyaterry5274]

I love this

[@lashunhouston7964]

How I feel about going into dating 🫣🤷🏾‍♀️😬😅

[@Amarisg93]

Hahaha my fave friggin episode

[@The_Elm_Tree]

Longer video consideration yessssss aunties!!!🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 We will be in there allllll the way through 🥳🥳

[@Dr.AmyDavis]

Huh!! 😂 Love it ❤

[@christeec1918]

Expose them!!

[@GraceTieko]

Great episode and my emojis are 😅🙃🙏🏾