Ep. 388: Good Dad, Bad Dad

[@mere9736]

i love mandii and thinks she's hilarious and well-meaning, but she simply cannot speak outside of her own perspective. she lets her own trauma with her dad, men, etc. color every single conversation. i understand providing your perspective, but be able to speak outside of it too. this is just bad podcasting at this point and it's so glaringly obvious. just because you had a bad relationship with your dad, doesn't mean a good parent can't exist! good parents and perfect parents aren't the same - which is exactly why perfect and good are 2 different words.

[@yellowisme]

Agreed. There's a lot of projection going on there.

[@kianahughes7373]

I feel like Mandii is conflating “good” parent with “perfect” parent. Because you absolutely can be a good parent but you’ll never be perfect.

[@tayemchsband2]

@@kianahughes7373That’s my girl but she was conflating a lot this episode!

[@Ciaraphyzzle]

Trauma. Probably why the reason she doesn’t want to have kids.

[@ToDaMaxxx]

She projects a lot of her shit onto the pod. To be doing this for so long I often wonder why she hasn't changed this part of her podding style

[@Cami_CC]

Totally agree.

[@josephtuman9985]

Agreed 💯

[@ajayyy928]

Weezy is just more emotionally intelligent than Mandii and it’s as simple as that. Probably the root of all their issues.

[@EthanAmorReacts]

I just came from mandiis live but i think its a little hypocritical to say a gay man cant give straight couples advice but you also said on your live that you can give advice on parenting even though you dont have kids. Its very picky and choosey and a little ignorant even with the excuse of saying it from a childs point of view because i could just say that my advice for a straight couple is just coming from my view as someone in a relationship in general.

[@MandiiBTV]

I NEVER said I could GIVE advice on parenting. Ya'll do not listen and comprehension skills lack. -M

[@EthanAmorReacts]

@@MandiiBTV I mean I can say the same to you with half of your arguments. YOU don’t LISTEN you just speak OVER people without COMPREHENDING.

[@Naz.o444]

Exactly the fundamentals of relationships and making them last are the same in both gay and straight relationships

[@jannieorange6110]

Episode was cool and all but Id really love to hear your take on Andrew Schultz and Alexx Media (who you all work with intimately, at least Weezy) joking and laughing about Black women and their negative presence/impact in relationships.

[@smome777]

I want to hear what they have to say but not realllyyyyyy..........I feel like it's going to come down to "we know him in real life so we don't care". I love these ladies but like what can they truly say about what happened like..........now I know how Alexx feels about black women and these women being biracial is never lost on me......I think sometimes we need to take in the entire picture and just take it as it is........ Again.....I love them downnnnnnn, but they brought Vinny from Jersey Shore on the pod and he mentioned Italian NYers racism as "cute racism" and they also laughed.......so yeah........ Just have to see it as what it is and what the "capacity" is.....I know what I can & CANNOT get from them. *shrugs*

[@amandar8699]

They will probably bring it up on Patreon

[@cvstaff22]

I agree with Weezy, we definitely need more content on healthy fatherhood

[@toniedwards6700]

Mandii just be talking 😂😂😂😂

[@cheriebelfon6878]

For the first time I agree with what everybody says she can’t see pass her option lol love her to pieces tho 😂

[@sharettayoung872]

It never seems to me that Mandi actually listen to the question or details of things outside of sex. You don't need to know the definition of an "active dad" to know what an active parent is. And comparing the amount of time you put into your children and a side chick is wild! She gives off the vibe as long as I'm taken care of Idc what you are outside of our relationship.

[@lillylanae]

“As long as we don’t argue.” The end of the podcast “wrap it up then” 😭

[@Sykobabi]

If you’re spending that much bread on a dating coach, it’s with marriage (or life partner) in mind…not something casual that you’ve been doing for free anyways. Ngl, Mandi I love you but sometimes it seems like u just wanna debate for sport lol

[@roundjuan]

yea i think i’m officially tapped out of this pod. mandii’s ignorance is just too much for me.

[@Cami_CC]

Trying to compare autism with pedophilia is insanely WILD. Autism is NOT a sickness; Pedophilia IS a sickness and a crime. It's gross to put them in the same sentence.

[@NateAnthonyTO]

I feel like I understood her intent. The words could be misconstrued, but I don't believe she meant it negatively, more so that both things are not nuerotypical and are/need to be treated with their own criteria..

[@smome777]

That's not what she was trying to say. Think about it less as a "sickness" and more as, this is how their brain is wired. & you can't rewire someone's brain if they are born to function in that way. Nature v. Nurture can be debated with pedophilia however, there are many victims who don't turn around to victimize others. I don't think they are "created". Both of these categories of humans are born the way they are on a neurological basis. All that to say.......don't think of the comparison in a negative way, think more critically than that. ❤

[@Cami_CC]

@@smome777 Thank you for this. I appreciate your feedback. I can and do think critically, but I still disagree ... and that's okay.

[@ISR223]

@Cami_CC Thank you! Definitely gave that moment major side eye

[@smome777]

@@Cami_CC I agree that it's okay 👍🏾

[@elexis3728]

The aesthetics of the room is niiiice! The different shades of tan and gold with the two of them wearing black is a vibe. Everything looks really good. Ok, now back to listening.

[@Mary-op2lm]

mandi is weird for debating that man’s marriage based on legality that’s soooo sus

[@Mary-op2lm]

also the way she’s saying homosexual

[@MandiiBTV]

I didn't DEBATE it. I asked a question. Idc idc -M

[@naturalllysadie]

I agree

[@Naz.o444]

But she loves effing men

[@KarterChanelle]

Wow mandiii but u didn't say none of this to him when he was on the show tho!! smh.... LOL YOU KNEWW BETTERRRRR!!!

[@CurtisHoosier-xj6cv]

Facts...

[@crybabykermit8651]

That part!

[@nataliamwinzi9321]

Right, she should have asked him when he was on the show

[@KrystynGreen]

Weezy’s fits are always tea

[@tsahyecloud6604]

Mandi saying she can’t take advice from a homosexual on dating is crazy . They date men and so does she . They may be more qualified . You can learn something from any one .

[@maishesbeautiful]

as a PANSEXUAL/bisexual Woman. i agree completely with her, if im in a “heterosexual relationship” im not getting advice on someone who wouldn’t know the lifestyle of a heterosexual man

[@DatKat28]

I do tooo.. homosexual male has a total different mind than a heterosexual male. ​@@maishesbeautiful

[@maishesbeautiful]

@@DatKat28 everyone is acting so appalled. he has no idea the romantic lifestyle of a heterosexual man. yes they can give advice on everything else.. man to man. but the ROMANTIC relationship dynamics are vastly different.

[@aprilshowers3331]

Very true, Mandi’s Autism comment was wild too🤦🏽‍♀️

[@ChristalJ]

@@maishesbeautiful You think gay men don’t know the lifestyle of heterosexual men? 😂

[@nancerod7193]

I think comparing a psychotherapist with phd degree to a dating coach should be different conversations. A dating coach should be judged on their success for their customers and therapist on how well is their interventions & message.

[@chelsim7398]

Agreed!!

[@AC_Wells]

A Radiation Oncologist is not required to have cancer to provide treatment to patients. This perspective overlooks the significance of knowledge as the fundamental basis for comprehending any subject. Knowledge essentially comprises shared experiences passed on from one individual to another. Knowledge is power when wielded with care.

[@katarinaskinner1704]

Spending quality meaningful time to connect with your kids is a big part of active parenting.

[@mariangeldiaz3235]

I stop liking Mandy more and more each episode. Her energy is ugly, and why didn’t she say any of that while the guest was there?! Therapy hasn’t helped her one bit. Just take Mandy out the equation, Weezy is a MUCH more pleasant personality and host!!

[@Brandonforever21608]

100%

[@KarterChanelle]

She KNEWWWWW anwar would have readddd her downnnnnn!!! She was scared

[@yellow54321]

@@KarterChanellehahaha! I said the same thing. She knew not to play with him in his face lol

[@KarterChanelle]

@@yellow54321 frienddddd she KNEWWWWWWWWW!!!!! She talk all that smack but was on his heels when he was present.. & now this! Chilleee she’s so transparent!

[@iAmBeauty-]

Whoah! Idm majority of your comment but the “therapy hasn’t helped her one bit”. That’s for her to truly give an answer and yoUR on EP 388 and just now not liking her much??… go back 388 episodes and lmk what u Really think 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@MsSmith-kh8bc]

I disagree with Mandii that there aren’t any good parents. I’m friends with some amazing mothers…. I also did agree on the dating advice from Anwar. He gave some great advice on boundaries that I think would’ve saved me a lot of wasted time had I known better. I don’t think you necessarily have to have direct lived experience to witness something and advise on a better way. I think we should be open to learning instead of shutting things down at hello.

[@patchjohn1986]

Mandii acting like she ain't got that Florida accent is crazy lmao. Also, love that Eddin's back. I never wanted him to leave

[@patrickarnold3000]

Got too defensive at the end ! cringe worthy

[@latoiwalk]

Anwar gave some great advice from a "dating coach" perspective. He's a person. He has dated. And I doubt you guys would have had him on the show if he had a failing rate of people he has helped. So saying he's a gay man so I wouldn't take advice from his is wild. Also there isn't a such thing as a perfect parent. Most parents are doing the best they can anyway with the resources they have. But you can be a good parent and have some failures just like you can be a "bad parent" and have some good moments.

[@ceelove7092]

You CAN be a good parent , Mandi confused .

[@dbarnes93]

I listen to Whoreible every week for the unapologetic insight outside the cisgender heteronormative hellscape we all live in. Mandii has always been loud, proud, and a voice for this space… but this week? I’m disappointed. 😔 Why dismiss someone’s entire work just because their sexuality doesn’t align with yours? Hasn’t she always celebrated and enjoyed the queer community? She’s literally praised queer folks for the way they handle relationships with high integrity. So, why switch up now? And can we talk about how defensive she got when Weezy (btw, LOVE you downnnn!! Let’s be besties lol) asked perfectly valid questions? This episode was tough to watch, especially for a solo ep. I get that she likes to fully form her opinions before diving into a topic, but Mandii-pick a side! Queer people aren’t just here for your pleasure, boo… we’ve got full lives too.

[@ayoshekinah4674]

Perfectly worded. Last sentence, 10/10!!

[@mm0llss]

She’s not dismissing it, she’s saying it doesn’t work for her. His accreditation still stands, just not with her. & let’s not act like the queer community isn’t critical or in some cases don’t mess with certain groups/“types”

[@chelsea3845]

Mandii is queer too but I agree with what you’re saying

[@taycharlese]

@@mm0llsswhat she’s doing and been doing don’t work for her either lmao she’s never been in a healthy relationship. Ever

[@mayraysann7480]

I grew up in household with two parents but the absenteeism for my father was well noted. As an immigrant dad similar to Mandi’s he was physically present for lots of the big things but emotionally was completely removed.

[@pumpkinsouffle17]

Autism is not a "sickness"...

[@aprilshowers3331]

Right! Mandi please educate yourself, that comment was very offensive

[@ToDaMaxxx]

Mandii acting like she aint the one starting "beefs" is hilarious. She usually does it with herself. You're the common denominator, sweetie. Honestly, grow the hell up. She started all of them

[@MandiiBTV]

There is no BEEFS! Lmao. Hilarious you know NOTHING. Now scram -M

[@KarterChanelle]

@@ToDaMaxxx preachhhhh!!!!

[@axa5005]

I was dumbfounded when she said that 😂 She can’t really believe that, she’s trolling.

[@Naz.o444]

Yeah this seemed like she was coming for his whole career smh

[@talia2766]

Great conversations today! Especially the parent convo. My son’s dad and I live in different states and I always considered him an active dad. He saw him minimum once a month and on school breaks. We recently switched roles so my son lives with him full time and the mom guilt is toughhh. I never once thought his dad didn’t do enough but now that the roles are reversed I’m constantly trying to make sure I’m doing enough and a lot of times that comes out financially bc it’s the easiest way for me to “show up” with us being 7 hours apart. Idk how any of this will affect him as an adult but we’re both just doing our best! No good or bad, just parents

[@YahyaYT_10]

Im I the only person who sees that Mandi has difficulties articulating her point in a way the audience can receive and understand where she’s coming from, if I’m not mistaken she has expressed this concern on a patreon episode. I see she gets dealt with pretty harsh in the comment section a lot and I honestly believe we should be more cautious in how we give our critic cause some are down right attacks! Also she has the right to have her opinion, she has the right to choose and that’s that. That doesn’t mean anti anybody necessarily yall just love to speculate and pile on her. Love you Mandi 🩵 all the way from France, you got it girl!

[@ccc_330]

I agree that Mandii often struggles to articulate her thoughts AND the comments usually pile on her for it. I have a friend like Mandii who struggles to articulate her thoughts and feelings so I try to be patient and ask for clarification. I also remind her words mean things.

[@YahyaYT_10]

@@ccc_330 I also honestly feel Weezy eggs on and it almost seems vicious. Mandi disagrees and she’ll keep going on and on and on when Mandi has clearly stated her opinion period! It’s annoying and I’ve noticed people rarely address her and how she comes across with the way she be going on and on on what she thinks without failing to realise to respect other peoples perspective.

[@ccc_330]

@@YahyaYT_10 Weezy for sure does. She does it to Mandii and some guest.

[@Deedanyel]

I agree 100%

[@Suziee_Suee]

For someone with a degree, “has worked in corporate“ & claims to be so intelligent, I don’t understand why she can’t articulate herself correctly. Viewers would give mandi grace on her expression of opinion if she knew how to respond in the way that wasn’t so fucking naïve, negative & also just blatantly diabolical like she sounds like Trump sometimes.

[@Brandonforever21608]

Mandii's opinion on anything is null & void.

[@angelxbath]

I would love a solo show from Weezy

[@shaksmartmurals8212]

😂 nah we need Mandi to be toxic and balance out the energy

[@axa5005]

I’ve been wanting Solo Weezy too. She has great insight.

[@ajayyy928]

It’s sad that she thinks Whoreible is nothing without Mandii when in reality that’s all we want 😭

[@axa5005]

@@ajayyy928 that’s not what she said but k. lol

[@srianna0416]

Their chemistry is unmatched!!

[@mattj8511]

Weezy look fine af with the braces.

[@jenniferacevedo2541]

They are both BEAUTIFUL women! 💕

[@srianna0416]

I love it when Weezy makes Mandi laugh.

[@Lind419]

Some ppl really view gay ppl as “others” and only see them in a sexual sense and that’s sad.

[@ToDaMaxxx]

One of these 2 people are those people as well.

[@CauseImBella]

I really don’t think she does. I think it’s just her preference . Just like a black person wanting a black therapist because they can relate more than a different race therapist. Maybe her wording was off, but I don’t think she ment it in a harmful way.

[@Lind419]

I think the problem is that she’s misunderstanding what a dating coach does. She seems to think it's like getting advice from a friend, but dating coaches focus on helping YOU grow. She mentioned something like 'What do gay men know about heterosexual dating if they’re on Jack’d or Grindr,' which sounded off to me. He’s not there to give tricks to make someone fall for you; it’s about improving yourself and your mindset so you’re better prepared for dating.

[@CauseImBella]

@@Lind419 but some of his advice is tricks and tips

[@CauseImBella]

@@Lind419 but I do hear you, Mandi is a sexual being and I think she is viewing it from a sexual place But also still hurt from her previous relationship. I know I hated men after my break up and was negative about everything. She has a lot of healing to do still

[@niknikky]

30 seconds in and I'm already crying at the Eddin shade 😂

[@shaksmartmurals8212]

Mandi talking crazy again lol

[@horaceursul217]

Mandi be roasting the guests once they aint there , LMAO I cannot !

[@MandiiBTV]

We both have done this. -M

[@Peachpocket415]

Everyone is entitled to their own opinions, but why is Mandii always so combative.

[@Naz.o444]

It’s so ironic and funny that mandii thinks a gay man can’t speak on a heterosexual relationship while she spoke on being a good parent. She doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want any and she went in depth about being a good parent and the thought process parents have. I do think Mandii is misunderstood many times but sometimes she’s not and this is the case she doesn’t think about how what she saying sounds like or how it could come across. It’s also interesting to think the fundamentals of a relationship differ for gay or straight relationships

[@jona-]

I had this long ass comment about homophobia but I deleted it bc fuck it, it’s not important. This podcast is not queer-inclusive enough for me. Maybe I’m too young or too gay for this but I’m good on it 😭

[@WynterB00]

I think if you paying a dating coach to get you into a relationship the goal is marriage. Also I’d take advice from anwar but idk about the doctor cause she doesn’t give relationship advice. She’s more of an individual counselor

[@micahdaniels5446]

On the episode Anwar literally went into the fact he’s BISEXUAL

[@talia2766]

If I remember correctly I think he says that he’s never been in a relationship with a woman tho. Only sexually

[@janaemiller1554]

@@talia2766 Oh, like Mandii?

[@chelsim7398]

@@janaemiller1554 :))))))

[@talia2766]

@@janaemiller1554 yes like Mandii. My point is that him being bisexual doesn’t matter bc her point still stands that he doesn’t have experience being in a heterosexual relationship

[@Rs-rq9fd]

Her response to Anwar seems to hypersexualize gay men, which is interesting because her preference is gay/trans pxrn. At the end of the day, RELATING (whether for lifestyle, dating, marriage) is a universal experience that everyone can teach us about. Anwar is not for her because his audience has different goals than she does, his sexuality is not responsible for that distinction

[@Oyinb358]

Mandi screaming “bukkake” and then motioning to weezy Lmaooo!!!

[@WarmRegardsQ]

Mandi … momma you literally finger pop, STRAP down & eat men’s booties just as the gay relationship expert does … many heterosexual black men would consider that gay so why again can’t he give relationship advice when yall like the same kinda men 🤔 also your experience growing up w ur dad doesn’t mean men can’t provide AND be physically AND emotionally present. ANY MAN who can’t do these things are not active fathers 😵‍💫 we needa raise our expectations about this shiii because the kids are suffering!!! Also I love yall - both of your opinions always suprise me and keeps the podcast fresh.

[@Naz.o444]

Your first point!!!! 🗣️

[@AshlieJermaine]

I have so much to comment on. First, Weezy, and her braces....girl, I've been there. Wax is definitely helpful to protect your lips and cheeks while you slob a knob. Second, I agree that sending money does NOT make you an active parent. That's all my father cared about. He couldn't WAIT to stop paying child support, but didn't care about how his kids were actually doing. I don't necessarily wish that I'd spent more time with him growing up; I wish he'd wanted to spend time with us. On the flip side, my mother was very active, but I still don't consider her a good mother. She wasn't active in the ways I really needed, but I do think she did the best she could with what she had. Third, I sort of agree with Mandi about Anwar.....sort of. While it is a bit strange for a gay man to be giving straight women dating advice, it's coming from the perspective OF A MAN. Men know how men think, and so he's telling women what they should do to get the results they want. Hell, Steve Harvey did it with his book "Act Like a Woman, Think Like a Man".

[@melisab.6906]

I love how you guys talk from both of your sides, makes the convo so good !

[@shawndyson5007]

I like the conversation around fatherhood brings out a different perspective

[@tayemchsband2]

Mandi Mandi Mandi.. your thoughts surrounding Gay men giving hetro women advice is ignorant in many ways!

[@iyanawilson3199]

That's what i said but oh well

[@JerseyBoy489]

She has a right her opinion here, I've seen gay men give odd advice to women they like the same men.

[@iyanawilson3199]

@JerseyBoy489 And we have a right to ours so what now?

[@JerseyBoy489]

@iyanawilson3199 no shit. But saying she is ignorant says more about your knowledge

[@YahyaYT_10]

Then why criticise her for the same thing, THATS THE WHOLE POINT. it’s called hypocrisy. Y’all always so harsh on Mandy Gosh

[@muhammad2150]

Haven't finished the episode yet but i LOVE the solo episodes

[@syckindahead]

Same

[@NiciMartin2024]

Mandii saying she doesn't have a Florida accent 😭😂

[@muffymariah2889]

I’m ready for this tour next year🥰

[@MakeupLova14]

You can’t be a good parent ???!!😂😂😂 Mandii talking crazy

[@tewoh12ify]

The Energy in the first 10 seconds 🔥🔥😩

[@nayssa]

Yay Edin is back!!

[@m_-ph4bt]

I think I get what Mandii was trying to say but there are definitely plenty of good parents out there. Parents that are super involved and kind and patient, help there kid explore, let them figure out for themselves who they are, guide them without cruelty, nurture their interests, etc. And no you cant be a good dad making babies with a bunch of kids with multiple women

[@chelsim7398]

This episode was triggering from the beginning from the Punch to R word to Parenting to Partners. I could tell by Mandii's body language she was triggered by the end of the episode. Her body froze up. And let's just recognize that and give Mandii grace and hopefully she is continuing to work on it in therapy.

[@ringgold1212]

They do realize that the body changes as you get older depending on how you live genetics can extend the good looks but after the looks fade then there has to be something underneath if you're only basing your relationships on looks then you probably have a problem

[@marissamoore6033]

As a parent to an autistic 3 yo. Mandi has lost me as a supporter. I am furious that you just compared those two things to one another.

[@MorgieeBear_Dont4getDaBear]

I have a brother who has autism and I understood that Mandii was using it as an analogy or sharing the similarity of the two being something neurodivergent. And that’s it. I don’t think she had any ill intent just couldn’t find the words for saying that pedophilia is something that isn’t curable because it’s a mental illness.

[@Brandonforever21608]

She doesn't think before she speaks at all.

[@channy1038]

It takes more than money to be a parent, it is not possible to be a present parent with that many kids scattered in that many places. Also stop intentionally creating broken homes! Yes it happens but why would you intentionally do that to a child. My child's father may not have been a great partner but he's a great dad, there isn't a football match he misses, not a parents evening, not a school event and anything his son calls here's there, travels from a different city every week for his footballs games no matter what ungodly time in the morning it is. He's there emotionally, physically and financially that's a parent. Unless it's due to work so army , military ect that's different.

[@JerseyBoy489]

Your contradicted your point in the last sentence

[@channy1038]

@@JerseyBoy489 military families and are completely different, we are not about to lump ppl serving their country in with this mess

[@JerseyBoy489]

@channy1038 guess what? Their are shitty ppl in military 😮 suprise

[@sollunaystars]

I agree with Mandi. I’m less inclined to seek dating advice from anyone but definitely not from someone whose relationships don’t match my goals nor has a foundation for understanding my needs. More dating advice should be given to men.

[@Naz.o444]

Can you elaborate how a gay couples needs are different compared to a straight couple pls

[@MightyPessimist]

Y’all did not even wait until 2 minutes into the video???🤣🤣

[@angiebae8125]

how active you are is a direct reflection of how effective you are as a parent If you are not there you cannot be as effective or impactful good or bad Not being there can exacerbate how prone your child can be to suffering from you not being there If you are not there 24 seven with a child you are not as active as you can be and you are going to be less effective as you could be That's just how it is

[@GabrielleAlston-kn3ef]

I think at the end of the day.. everything is circumstantial. Nobody can tell a son or daughter what a good dad looks like to them. What I want from my dad is going to look different than what you would want from yours. The same with the relationship advice.. my moto is never take advice from someone you wouldn’t switch places with. Period. If you don’t have what i want no degree, relationship, divorce, whatever will convince me because the proof is in the pudding. I love both of you girls, thank you for doing what you do. I hope you see this 💕!

[@kimsmith6480]

I don’t think sexuality matters when giving advice on dating. We can learn something you don’t have to take the advice either. Anwar been in field for 15 years and had success stories plus he is a man at end of day so I disagree with Mandi on this one.

[@Bb.oro91]

Mandi def maturing the way she ending the pod, they both clearly felt differently and she didn’t get loud disrespectful or interrupt. She let weezy speak and when weezy brought it back to Mandi. She just stated she stated how she felt and that’s it. Growth 👏🏽

[@myaofmars]

I adore Lena as a mom and a genuine person I would love yall to have her as a guest

[@Acheyforreal]

An active parent is very subjective. I’m a single mom, child lives with me, dad is in another state. I used to say we co-parent but someone made me realize, I parent and just relay information to him on how the parenting is going. He does step in with certain things because how our child is she need tough love from a man to listen lol. Also I will say when we did live together he was a majority “inactively present”; think the dad just sitting on the watching the game but the kids on the floor playing and there’s little to no interaction.

[@ashleyydeniece]

Ion think Weezy really understands the games absent fathers play with their children you can’t be excited until you see consistency w/ the fathers actions of showing up being present & active

[@jadhirarivera5745]

Welcome back Eddin!!!

[@milanjordan5192]

Speaking on the question of parenting... truly parenting is very 50/50 as per the result you might be trying to ascertain for your children. The best way I believe parenting should start is knowing your children. What works for one, might not work for the other child. However, parenting should include participation, guiding, discipline, and communication.

[@BayouDon30]

I just love y’all! Can’t wait to see yall live again 🥹❤️

[@asialasha]

12:52 I thought I was the only one!! I need a translator to talk to the fine men in Florida 😂😭😂😭 SIR HUHHHH

[@alanarose4055]

Weezy def rubbed Mandii wrong with the “this is my show moment” it went downhill from there.

[@WillWillion]

Mandii was talking so crazy this episode I had to leave a comment. And I am now seeing similar opinions here too lol. Love her tho 😂

[@jamarr7315]

I believe certain advice regarding a relationship can be given from any sexuality. I’m gay, but would still take relationship advice from someone straight. Good advice is good advice.

[@mm0llss]

Do what works for you and will help you sleep amazing at night. It doesn’t have to make sense to anyone else. Also, don’t talk down on what others prefer.. try to be a good person. SIMPLE. Y’all are both right!

[@RayenTheLibra]

Mandi definitely felt a lil invalidated and attacked at the end (not saying that’s what happened at all) and she got real defensive and decided to shut down before she got LOUD

[@arielletheefairytale]

“Girl no you didn’t”

[@a.m97]

I hope that Mandiii continues to grow and heal through all that she experiences. It seems like her trauma crowds her ability to see a situation past her own experiences. She also seemed a bit off during the middle to end of today’s episode. I know she’s probably tired or may have had some personal things going on behind the scenes. Peace and positivity to all the hardworking/talented people that play a hand in creating this podcast for us, despite the ups and downs they may be experiencing. Let’s remember we can provide constructive criticism while also giving grace.

[@TheSuirad]

And female predators still aren't taken seriously.

[@ccc_330]

Children are not the same, even if they have the same parents. That said, a good and active parent is someone who recognizes what their individual kid(s) need emotionally, physically, educationally, etc. and adjust accordingly to meet the child where they are. As for Weezy saying the goal post is moving for men, it’s an excuse. Men encounter new things, expectations, etc. on their jobs and figure it out so why can’t they figure it out when it comes to romantic relationships and parenting? They can but choose not too! (I’m generalizing and recognize this does not apply to all men)

[@james2kids]

This one of their best episode 👏👏👏

[@lola.whodini]

And call out creepy “ aunties” too. I know a person who keeps being to touchy and rubby with my preteen son . And as a little child the same. I been fending her off and i dont really like whens shes around. Saw her recently and stood between her and my son because he was clearly uncomfortable. ❌Creepy adults period❌

[@rachelfurman553]

I’m 100% agreeing w Mandii takes lately 😤

[@kaileik7595]

weezy continuously proves why she as a person is a space!!! At this point I hope she doesn't sink because of her cohost

[@syckindahead]

Mandii had me rollin out the gate "he needed a job!!!"😂😂😂

[@misscraze4036]

For yearssssss Mandi has always said her dad wasn’t shit and he wasn’t around…which one?!

[@KarterChanelle]

Righttttt! And now he was there every other weekend, got her the best gifts worked hard… I’m so confused!

[@chelsim7398]

"Let's be very clear" We cannot put humans in the categories of "perfect" parents, partners, etc. because we are not. The whole goal of life is to make decisions, some great, some fail and using that to improve and inspire others. Anwar and Dr. Bryant are doing that and using this to support other people achieving the things they want and being the people they desire to be. Why even have a conversation about who's better??? They are both great! And there's PLENTY of evidence. Do not discredit each professional, if you choose to not take the advice and stay single. That's your choice :)

[@Mr_Darius0070]

@50:00 it takes a life time to learn..it's never enough..dive deep to see why (K.S.) became a mentor and Hero.ijs

[@brittanidavis4877]

The way Mandi pointed at Weezy & said boococky😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@GirthstavoReyes]

Mandi want to come from a single parent household so bad

[@MandiiBTV]

excuse me? that was literally my experience. smh! How many brain cells do you have? -M

[@KarterChanelle]

Right.. like.. first he’s not there and now he was there every other weekend, got the best gifts, worked hard.. like.. stfu and be grateful !

[@KarterChanelle]

@@MandiiBTVyeah maybe u don’t remember how bad he was and now he was there every other weekend, got u the best gifts, worked hard… chilleeee STFU! Be grateful!

[@nicnoe]

lol.. “ I don’t sound like them”. Sounded like them. Sorry lol😂😂

[@mariamedina-mo9bm]

21:15 Weezy face took me 😂😂😂

[@Nene-hl4bn]

Plenty people pay dating coaches simply to enter into relationships and not necessarily marriage. There are a myriad of reasons why these people haven’t been able to enter into a relationship but they exist. Similarly with matchmakers, not everyone using that service is specifically looking to marry their match.

[@AmandazzWorldd]

I feel Mandi . It’s the same reason we choose black therapists vs white because they are not going to be able to relate in the same scale. Or why we choose a woman obgyn then a man ( again this is your preference) but I’m not having a man tell me about my body . The delivery may not be the best but I get what she’s saying .

[@laceygraham6619]

Okaaaaay bracezzzz "I also hav these new braces i shouldmt have been reading a nrw article" lolllll