EP.45 Tsholo sold her house, car , loan sharks to give over R200K to a boyfriend she had never met

[@madams___speaker]

Thank you for all the positive comments in support of our sister Tsholofelo. Please reach out to us if you can assist her in any way 🙏🏿🤍

[@humelelawitnesssambo1269]

Madam speaker when did the guest realize or how did she come to realization that she was being scammed she never told us that part?

[@buhlerobert2033]

I like how handle this interview ❤

[@madams___speaker]

@@buhlerobert2033 thank you 🙏🏿

[@natashakameeta4094]

@@humelelawitnesssambo1269p

[@leanosaku3775]

I’m judging you askies but I am🤦🏾‍♀️

[@nthabisengsithole3309]

I think what gave this beautiful woman the courage to tell her story so well is the empathy and respect Madam speaker showed throughout the interview ❤

[@madams___speaker]

Thank you 🙏🏿 ❤

[@ntsikimagengenene6280]

She s a good interviewer that one ..

[@madams___speaker]

@@ntsikimagengenene6280 thank you 🙏🏿

[@saimaakawa173]

We need courage not to make other people’s problems our problems especially when they are not our immediate family 😢

[@Blessed_for_life_2023]

And we all have relatives who are struggling, but not bothering us. Then u have an entitled stranger who wants to milk u of your hard earned money, yesssess. No way. We'd rather be single man.

[@lynettenene9218]

True

[@charmainewalker8627]

Even with family you have to be careful

[@tinalehutjo3545]

The fact that she couldn't share all this with anyone it shows that deep down she knew hore it was wrong but she was blinded by love 😭😭♥️

[@ananciataodindo7044]

Yes she knew it was wrong

[@lindakondo620]

As widows oral ladies if we just know that money can not buy love

[@lusandapretty6478]

Over of someone she has never met😮

[@NonhlanhlaVundhla]

Rule number 1. A man asks for money, even R5 run for the hills.

[@jabulilemlaka6253]

😂😂😂😂😂

[@magdelinebonoko398]

Its a giant red Flag for me.

[@NonhlanhlaVundhla]

@@jabulilemlaka6253 true even if it's transport money he gotto make a plan with his relatives and friends outthere😂😂😂😂😂 no woman must pay any man's bill, l could have told him to rot in that prison.

[@simcelilethikazi6157]

😂as for the hills

[@DM135__]

For me - it’s a man with too many problems when we’ve just met, giant red flag. No shade but why are you trying to date when you clearly need to take care of other business instead of focusing on me?

[@_Ninjawarrior]

Growing up in a generation where women are courageously sharing their experiences has instilled in me the importance of refraining from judgment and the value of learning from the mistakes of others.

[@proudlyafrican100]

Judge Judy (yes I still watch her😅) says “Before you borrow a man money, ask yourself if he doesn’t have friends, family, a mother or a father who’ve known him his whole life and love him. Why don’t they give him money?? Surely his mother loves him more than you” The moment he asks for money RUN he should have toooo much pride to come to you 😩🙃

[@sibongilemasombuka8154]

He can also ask his ''BANK or Employer'' for a LOAN ........ Yazi Love scamming ibuhlungu nje

[@nokwandasnell2638]

But you host talking too much let us hear her story

[@owaminguse8089]

True. You just met him he should be ashamed to ask you for money. Where are his people

[@KgomotsoPhetoe-j8m]

Exactly

[@Blessed_for_life_2023]

Absolutely girl. Judge Judy speaks life even with her 2 divorces, she's not ashamed. 😂

[@thokokgaje1869]

Yooh Tsholo I am so sorry you went through this. I rented your property for a few months in 2019 while I was renovating my house. You are such a sweet lady who loves her kids. God will fight this battle for you...

[@Blessed_for_life_2023]

She must pray hard and ask God to take charge. She will see.

[@paulinekhainza8131]

OMG 😲, that was very unfortunate my dear sister, may the Lord see you through this trying moment 🙏

[@KgolokiRatshabedi]

Rule number 1 ladies, if a man asks for money or has an emergency he must call his friends or siblings not girlfriend yoh.

[@charmainewalker8627]

Exactly

[@lailahbhana5449]

Especially a stranger no video calls and not even physcially dating just via the phone

[@suigeneris5193]

My natural response is to judge but this love scamming thing is so complex, anyone could fall victim to it. We take the lessons. Thank you for sharing your experience. I truly feel for you♥️

[@GodsFavourite2024]

Especially that they now use the spiritual aspect of manipulation

[@pfulu]

Remember she’s a single mother of three, so vulnerable coz she can still be lonely and longing for love again.

[@jabulilemlaka6253]

One things about the love scammers...they love boom the living hell out of you...and they 😢know their victims.

[@KoenaRapudi]

N forgetting we have other things to b judged of, we all have weakness.

[@Azizi7903W]

@@jabulilemlaka6253 I hear others say there's no way a normal person can fall for this, but they forget that these people have been doing this for quite some time and are masters, they do love bomb you, they learn your mannerisms & once they have you trusting them you are done for, anyone can fall for this trap. Con artists = Confidence artist, they gain your confidence

[@ajt8967]

Never give away money that you cannot afford to lose.

[@paleraluswinga]

I know that's right

[@loinamabande9666]

I learnt that th hard way

[@kalizabashonga1683]

That's what I keep saying

[@shamisochido1248]

Amen!

[@DeePie2024]

Dated a guy once - He asked me for money - Blocked him immediately....then his aunty phoned me because his heart was broken - I blocked her too and never looked back....haaaii! R1000.00 - That is a lot of KFC. LOL.

[@nqobilezondi4314]

😂😂😂 the aunt, bathong what kind of desperation is this family dealing with 😂😂😂

[@ZNMelowLeloNeka]

bablocke wena girl

[@Blessed_for_life_2023]

😂😅😅😂Kwaaaaaa....Kwaaaaaa as for the aunt, hey these scammers are daring neh! It's a syndicate, there's no aunt there 😅good girl

[@MorongoenyanaManyose]

@@nqobilezondi4314😂😂😂😂😂😭

[@jmuhlava1543]

Aunty might be wife these scammers 😅

[@Lungelo911]

I hope people (women) will watch without judging.

[@KoenaRapudi]

True

[@nomxhosapekani7966]

Only the immature will judge, but I learned that when we start to deliberately love ourselves and not feel selfish, it makes us less vulnerable. Single mothers have the tendency not to put themselves first. Most of us are even used by family members for years which is also a form of scamming. Single moms tend to project their love and empathy for their kids on others. The condition is called Helper's Syndrome in Nursing. It is a condition that one develops. I hope she and her kids get justice.

[@Lee_Nolo]

its easy to judge until you walk a mile of loneliness shoes. Sometimes thats why we do things like these. Some we're not scammed money but tie and other things .We saw red flags but ignored them because we dont want to lose our last resort.

[@SHE_Vigro]

I also had a boyfriend who always had money problems...that time i was still a student with NSFAS money😢😢..i used to send him but im glad i cut all ties with him now..i am free❤

[@sbc409]

You are me sis. Borrowed the guy my pocket money. At least we learnt the lessons before we had serious money

[@faithngcobo5507]

Madam Speaker is a good interviewer. She knows the right question to ask. She is humble. The sister was catfished. Love is a dangerous game.

[@MatshelisoJeff-z7n]

She is a great host 😊

[@mehlomakhuluhazel9813]

A big red flag is someone who gets you addicted to them then just vanish. They want you to panic and act hazy. Just run.

[@Siphosenkosi-z1x]

I'm a bad bad bad person. When a man asks for money, I just keep quiet!

[@LefaM32]

The person that did this knows you personally there is no way

[@theemapsmash]

Naah there are ppl called yahoo boys, they are love scammers, they pretend to love someone and make single ladies fall vulnerable to their fake love. They also use fake pictures, and they love using Facebook mostly are Nigerians behind the phone. Then start asking for money.

[@Alice15210]

Or the person is a sociopath. He made sure she was attached, cut contact to make her anxious about losing him and then hooked. There's a lot of them out there. I met one, it didn't work bcs the man got too demanding too soon, and i was broke too 😂😂😂 And he was a very angry dude. He scared the living ish out of me so I blocked him

[@JeanetMabena-ht2to]

True its someone close to her i suspect husbands family😢

[@victorianemavhulani2519]

Serious maybe some of us we stingy are can't even give a 100 & for me any guy becomes a boyfriend after dates 😢 i feel sorry for her .

[@dorahmokete218]

I was thinking of the same thing 😢

[@Zeelovezee]

Once a man mention money or data problems I block him immediately ill never

[@fariraimapiye9491]

I get offended when a man wants to worm himself into a woman's finances by crying for data or fuel money..red flags are always there from the beginning..TX fr such shows,our eyes are open!!

[@restykamya9062]

Me too, I don't allow to be the savior of pple...this lady must a giver naturally

[@HloiMollo]

Me. Too

[@Zeelovezee]

@@HloiMollo Run 🏃

[@qaqambafuzile5967]

Yhoo Maan I'm sure she's a giver . My stingy self my god 😢😢would find it so hard

[@masegomolefe9468]

Catfishing is very real I'm also been a victim..........and its tough to get back on your feet after being scammed but Modimo oteng ousie you will bounce back with the kids sending love and light 🙏

[@mzyvonnehangara7637]

A man who starts with liability so early in a relationship run plz

[@suigeneris5193]

It’s either you do two-part stories or you stop with the time limits. You cover stories that are incredibly important and sensitive, it’s very impolite to rush guests. I cringe every time a guest is stopped mid-sentence to talk about “we have a minute remaining etc”. Please.

[@asie_dudula]

Sana, the pits 😩

[@dineogenie]

Exactly!!

[@LuckyJudaz]

Orata dibata ..?..I mean you love other people's news .?😂

[@madams___speaker]

Unfortunately you’re going to have to work with what we have until we get what we want. We are using a studio where we are not the only clients there. Even with the two parts we’d still have to book the studio beforehand. Unless if someone is willing to donate an entire studio for us so That we don’t have time limits.

[@MadamThandi]

But madam you're the brand we basically watch you ..we're your community even if you can start your own podcast we will support! Di studio tsa batho dia tshwenya re bohela botlhoko ​@@madams___speaker

[@fiae2897]

These scammers are sleek, heartless, and void of any morals. Sadly, vulnerable men and women are easy targets. Ty ❤

[@tshubamargaretmaepa3135]

Never give or borrow man or anyone money, let them apply for a loan at bank. Sorry dear for being scammed. I think the scammers uses supernatural power to drag their victims. You are such an eye opener. Wish you a speed recovery emotionally and financially.

[@pfulu]

My 2cents advice is,Attend Single mothers seminar Mama . Or start single mothers seminar at your church , at your state of desperation and loneliness you will finds yourself contacting diseases . 😢

[@nthabisengtsotetsi824]

So true

[@Miss_mphosi]

I am so proud of ausi Tsholo...such a wonderful soul still smiling even after everything she went through...

[@madams___speaker]

🥺🤍

[@tshegotumelo]

I feel so sorry for her because she looks and sounds like a genuine person. Love and light mama ❤

[@nthabisengmoshana8589]

It’s easy to judge but I commend her for coming forth and sharing her story! She’s a good person, it’s unfortunate she was taken advantage of

[@Lungelo911]

Madam Speaker i wish you could do more of these love scam stories. This is more prevalent than we think, and the only way to stop it is for women to be AWARE!

[@madams___speaker]

@@Lungelo911 I will definitely do more. Thank you

[@lindiwedlamini551]

You may check Boldly Owami's podcast there are love scam stories as well

[@ericmduduzi4192]

Apart from everything, this is a good woman by far. I just feel pity that she fell on the wrong hands

[@zahmbuyisa576]

Plz be safe Madam Speaker and Guests. These love scams are a syndicate and they watch these videos and threaten who ever is trying to awaken their future victims. Great episode.

[@Blessed_for_life_2023]

But we're woke now. The foreigners are losing, i don't even respond once i hear the accent or see a name on Facebook. So, our Mzansi brothers are trying to catch up because they realized the foreigners monopolized the industry of scamming 😂😂

[@fhatukhosa189]

​@Blessed_for_life_2023 😂😂😂as for the acsent you killed me 😅

[@leojiji-e4x]

Rule number1, never give a man money if ur not even married, or u don't know his background, sometimes man can get married to u just to get ur pension money. Remember , us woman we r emotional beings, and man r not emotional beings, they don't care that much

[@Child_of_God.971]

Yoooh so sorry mama 😢.. these things are spiritual and we understand you were not yourself.. I commend your courage for speaking out. I pray that you get Justice 🤍.. Love&Light

[@Blessed_for_life_2023]

Even if she doesn't get physical justice, she must pray for spiritual justice, she will have the last laugh when that happens. And God will increase her abundantly and all that she lost will be forgotten. Anyway, it's just money that she'll regain 10 fold. What's key is her mental state.

[@maytshifularo5415]

I think the guy who scammed her is the same guy who tried to scam me as well. Everything is the same except to me he said he was based in Cape Town. To me he asked me if I would help him financially if his business was in trouble. He asked me if I'm prepared to take a 200 000 loan if he needed it urgently. I said hell no. I would never take a loan for someone I'm not married to. Mind you, all this money talk is happening on the very first day he is talking to me on messenger. He was very friendly but as soon as I said no I will not take a loan for him he got very angry. That was the end 😂😂😂😂. He didn't want me anymore because I refused with the loan 😂😂😂.

[@careerbuilder-guide1919]

Must start posting the scammers pictures so protect our woman and expose them.

[@madams___speaker]

The problem was, what if the pictures are not truly his since they never did a video call for her to confirm is the face matches the pictures 😢😢

[@lungilehlophe2437]

True, they could be using other people pictures (photoshop)

[@kitsontuli2713]

There are just way too many of them unfortunately.

[@nompumelelobuthelezi7949]

This people are very smart, they gut that scammed my friend made sure that he deleted all his pictures from my friends phone before he could vanish

[@Blessed_for_life_2023]

​@@madams___speakeryah, there's the problem. But a lesson learnt there. Do video calls with these potential scammer rubbish.

[@zamobubu912]

This woman really has a pure heart😢

[@Glm8]

I agree

[@connymontsho]

Too much.😢

[@juliamncube7551]

Haholo😢

[@lonagwegwe]

She is very nice , that is dangerous for her

[@tebozee4728]

Us born agains we have a pure heart.

[@Vv-fl2rm]

I always feel so heartbroken for the children of ladies like this. 😢honestlty speaking

[@catchupentertainment]

I'm struggling so much to finish listening to this video cause I'm overwhelmed with pain and anger. What I've noticed from these stories is that these scammers use some sort of spell or muthi because there is no way in your sober mind you can give away money to a length of taking loans or selling your assets just to give away to a stranger in the name of love. No ways. These people use 'something' just so that they can have total control of you, and you will never question anything. I'm so sorry you went through this.

[@BongokwakheMkhize]

I wanted to say exactly that because there’s no way , they’re definitely using something and they always target people with good hearts i guess

[@catchupentertainment]

@BongokwakheMkhize definitely. There's no way for a normal functioning person to just give away money like that to a total stranger. No ways. But it's sad. I think people should stay away from online dating honestly.. these stories are so painful to watch..

[@HloiMollo]

Me too. I feel like screaming

[@catchupentertainment]

@@HloiMollo I didn't finish watching the video the way I was so angry

[@rudzanikharivhe6294]

When I'm listening to her I have been saying this can never be me, but I have been holding my comment now I see why I ddnt say that therr is no way you can do this on your normal senses and do this all this.

[@tloumasonto]

Madam speaker you have no idea how much are helping me for bringing women who have gone through soo much, my eyes are open now about things that I was ignorent about

[@pontshoramafalo4483]

People are so judgmental and this can happen to any one who is in love, you will bounce back my sister ❤❤

[@judithorina9597]

This story is so upsetting

[@dineoseoke5758]

It makes me very angry😂

[@noxolosithole9140]

Extremely!!!

[@judithorina9597]

@dineoseoke5758 @@noxolosithole9140 It was so bad I was almost breathing fire😂

[@ThatoNhlapo-d3o]

Yoooooo very annoying

[@lindakondo620]

Extremely

[@cleodontina1]

Why were his problems automatically your responsibility within 2 weeks? You can't possibly love someone in 2 weeks.

[@TES-qf7du]

And they never met

[@nthabisengdlamini4971]

It all comes to lack of self love

[@joycengendo294]

It can never b me my kids first priority not a damn man whom I've never met jeeez

[@fruitypopwhickle6806]

A self respecting man would never ask you for a cent. Good men take pride in being providers.

[@busisiwemichelle5391]

Nje yazi

[@ginsu_pd]

This lady, God tried to save her so many times! From getting the signature wrong to the car getting rejected by a potential buyer

[@leonardmabunda69]

I concur with you

[@EmmahMtshwene]

So true but she was blinded by big thing called love

[@kitsontuli2713]

Such episodes should be shared as cautionary tales among friends, relatives, church, and friend groups. I'm sure that ALL of us have been approached; it's just that most of us ignore dm's and messages on social media, even among men and women we actually know!!! But some people really are vulnerable

[@Thembelihle_Zizo_Tshanda]

The most i ever lost emjolweni is R700 and i was sooo hurt i called the police on the guy. I cant imagine what its like loosing R200K . I'm so sorry this happened to you sisi.

[@BokangsWorld]

I got scammed R100 by a lady "selling" school bags. I was so hurt!!! I cant imagine R200k

[@slindoZ]

I borrowed a guy R50, and he never paid it, and I said never again.😢 I also can't imagine losing R200K

[@Tando31]

😂 what did the police do sis?

[@BokangsWorld]

@@Tando31 😂

[@Thembelihle_Zizo_Tshanda]

@Tando31 😂😂😂😂😂They told me to go to small claims court sooo I lost it because I have given him my transport money in Cash .😂😂😂 He scammed me 😢

[@naledindlovu976]

Scammers are so heartless💔💔💔...you tell them you don't have it, they will force you to get yourself into trouble over and over...mina I'm too stingy yaz & also I'm scared of borrowing money those scammers would kill me mos 😢 Sigh...another worry that I have is that she's never seen this guy facially yes just the voice how credible is that going to be 😞 what a sad story

[@mawandelulu838]

Nkosi yam' i hope and pray this women find healing.Nxese cc wam"

[@Vhushavhelo]

This story gave me so much anxiety. I’m really sorry that this happened to her.

[@catchupentertainment]

@@Vhushavhelo me too. I couldn't finish watching the video

[@naledindlovu976]

So sad hle

[@cleodontina1]

Love yourself to put yourself first! Dont ever allow yourself to get desperate because there are exploitative people out there waiting to use your desperation against you!!

[@UniverseBeauty-ff4eo]

💯

[@shataditswai2673]

I have been there my dear who are we to judge your. If you never been scammed don't because you will never know maybe tomorrow is you🤷‍♀️

[@peggymatlala2333]

Either I love money too much or I am too poor to offer money.

[@lebomadingoane4118]

Same here, hell no...

[@pfulu]

You are just like me, I love money too much.

[@iddashivolo5366]

Yoh. We are too kind. Just never give a man money.

[@honestgaorakwe8299]

me too hle

[@ThulieMayeza]

A man is a head of the family .meaning he must provide .Me don't even give a man even 50c. Last time I went with guy who was driving his scrap car.On the parking lodge he ask me R7 for parking. That moment instead iI just ask other people who were there for parking to assist him with r7 some were laughing. The white guy just gave him r20 than he has to go and ask a change to pay

[@Tlhogi_Nolo]

I swear he had something to do with your phone being hacked

[@madams___speaker]

Agreed 😢

[@ExploreLifeWithVee-eo4mp]

Women please start playing sport to keep occupied.

[@katlegosemela7878]

You've been hit by a smooth criminal. I am sure he never lost a wife, he just said it to mimic your pain so that you can relate and share a bond. Your loneliness created a room for him to maneuver, your kindness and empathetic nature made you the perfect victim. Sorry for your financial loss and please be careful people nowadays do not respect the qualities you have (kindness and Empathy) they label them as desperate and weak, they will not stop at anything to exploit them.

[@rachelmthimunye3463]

I was tried and tested with the same modus operandi. Thank God he didn’t win.

[@bolaajayi2442]

Thank God for you

[@dikeledimogobe5117]

This happened to someone I know. They hypothesized their victims that is why people don’t share

[@Blessed_for_life_2023]

They hypnotize

[@jabunxumalo2111]

We shared and were insulted for being victims of crime

[@bolaajayi2442]

Thank you for sharing your experience with me.... I truly wish, I came across this particular video clip early enough, I would have be so equipped and informed and not fall for the same scam that aslo caused me to loss my hard earned money and put me through emotional trauma. Am a Nigerian, it would interest you to know that same 419/scam patterns is been use here as well. Truelly, anybody could fall for these scams. Sister, I appreciate you so much for coming out to share your story with the world without fear of judgement nor minding those that would judge you on the comment section. You can't imagine the number of people your story would help / save. Thank you so much and God bless you richly.

[@BUHLEBUZILE]

Ay bandla😢 amadoda awasithandi sengibona kahle. It keeps showing up nje with every story shared here😔

[@gcinilekhumalo1994]

😢

[@kitsontuli2713]

They don't shem. And a lot of them have become gold diggers

[@yaneliswakhoza5901]

​@@kitsontuli2713they haven't they have been gold diggers doll 😢 yoh

[@lungilembuyisa8566]

Some of them I scammed everyday by people they call husbands.

[@Nogi_83]

You can say that again ,even family members who are saying they are tendepreneurs and entrepreneurs

[@Khethelo_]

Tell me about it. I was scammed throughout my marriage and I didn’t even realise it because I loved him. Yoh, thank God I’m out of there.

[@1ndz3980]

Wives as well mos?

[@Nogi_83]

@@1ndz3980 true hey

[@thandigwala4365]

Very true...a husband also can scam you..

[@maryanderson73]

I am so sorry for this lady. But I have never heard of a man scamming a woman ever having any good luck. The same goes for a woman!

[@Blessed_for_life_2023]

Nna, I'll go witchcraft gang route I'm telling you. Needles and all. I'll drive from NW to KZN to umhlabauyalingana, net vir daai ding! 😂😂

[@Nellynkosi03]

This story depressed me yaz.I am so upset

[@sibongilemasombuka8154]

Nagana scamming someone who just lost their husband ..ijooooo cruel nje😮...

[@candice23129]

People are cruel out there...😢

[@katlegomoremi2423]

Same guys tried me 4 years ago. I think I still have this cousin numbers, katlego. And the picture she thought it was him it's not him. But I put him in his place. I actually asked my friend who is an advocate to put them in their place. Can't be scammed by small boys.

[@lou-hellenphiri-eggers5299]

🥂🥂🥂

[@leslymarageni9201]

So only big boys can scam you ☹️?

[@khomotsokaye]

That scammer Katlego tried it with me as well. He was the instigator and tried to scam me using business deals, Sies.

[@lonagwegwe]

After listening to this story I just realized I am not a nice person 😢

[@thuliswahala3355]

Same here Sana yoh

[@SophieN17]

Me too 😢

[@MsHannahHT]

It's okay 😂 don't be nice

[@vinoliaboipelobee4712]

This episode is stressing me out as if it happened to me, these scammers know how to pick the really sweet victims ,that never see it coming. What makes it worse now is that our own South African brothers are doing it too. I hope that karma will deal with that tsotsi

[@LadyLe-z7o]

And they can smell a woman with money from the distance

[@HloiMollo]

Me too 😭

[@nozukojoseph2214]

​@@LadyLe-z7o and the one that thought you have money, the moment he finds out you are struggling yourself, that is when you see his true colours. Ubaleka ngenyawo zombini 😂😂😂

[@theemapsmash]

They are Yahoo boys, they take advantage of single vulnerable women. The poor lady in the video is a widow😢 and he took advantage of her by saying he's a widower as well nd has kids. It's such a shame.

[@bbm2116]

Believe me you Karma always does pay what is due to them

[@fariraimapiye9491]

Thanks for opening our eyes more.. Sorry that you had to lose such a large amount o money.

[@yangambatana8050]

Yho this money after money made me so anxious 😭😭😭

[@SunTravelNTours]

I promise you my stomach was in knots watching the episode 😢

[@missuniverse9582]

I know we are not supposed to judge but now i need to see a therapist myself because everytime she said ‘love i need money’ my anxiety levels increased,i have never been this anxious 😫😩😩😢😱

[@reneilwemorobe8204]

Her selling her car is where ivgot fuming 😭😭😭

[@ginsu_pd]

even the app refused with the limit 😅 God tried so hard shem

[@oneandonlyiris729]

Even the daughter didn't like the guy😭

[@TheodeciaMphuthi-qc5vl]

I grew up kuthiwa kunamasilamusi,I think that creature still exists😢strength to you my sister❤

[@mankhedimasha3697]

I met a lot of men on social media, immediately the mention something about money I run away. According to my research most of them are in jail.

[@thandigwala4365]

I think online dating is very dangerous Guys ..Becareful. Big lesson we learnt in this story.!😂😂

[@jabunxumalo2111]

Dating in general.. scammer's approved victims at the malls, airport and anywhere.

[@thobilemditshwa8799]

They usually say, "if it sounds too good to be true, it usually is" once anyone is overly nice and overly available, peel your eyeballs and do your due diligence. One day you will both laugh about it if it turns out you were just paranoid. Heal my sister, you are not the only one and unfortunately, you won't be the last.

[@Ladydee510]

It's sad how we need to reach a certain level of maturity before we wake up from this kind of scams

[@pfulu]

The problem is she seems to be so lonely 😞 and desperate for love again. She must attend single mothers seminars at church.

[@nomvulairene4177]

Because of this story m going to be stressed, yoooo pelo ya e bohloko 😭😭

[@mirenke2014]

We must have 1 person we trust to be able to talk to, I know is difficult because of fear of being judged. I'm really sorry for what she went through. This can actual happen to anyone.

[@GodsFavourite2024]

Or have support groups of whatsapp groups of other women who we can talk to, share pictures of the men we aren't sure of

[@mirenke2014]

I don't have that, I will like that. It's really rough out there. Women we really need each other

[@GodsFavourite2024]

​@@mirenke2014😢

[@phutisebidi9892]

This story is like so many on Dr Phils's show. This is mostly a Nigerian scam, so if this scammer is South African, then we are in danger gevaar, our brothers have become Yahoo boys😮

[@nozukojoseph2214]

​@@GodsFavourite2024 Something like what the ladies that "survived Joshua" did

[@MissCombs1511]

Yohh Sis, what a story! Having your good heart being taken advantage of. 😢 The lovebombing etc. that he did on you. You did not deserve ANY of this. God saw all of it, let Him deal with that devil His way. Vengeance is the Lord's.🙏🏾

[@essentials_45]

Have been there, u will wake up feeling like you're dreaming. Dont wish it on anyone All i can say is we must pray for God"s protection always. Love and light to u sisi❤

[@SweetTiny-m1u]

Patric Makua tried to scam me the same way he did to this lady he said the bail was R40000 i told the cousin that and the lawyer straight away that they are scammers they blocked me😮

[@mphokunene8220]

U were the luckiest

[@Dubiematic]

she only gave the guy all that money because she thought he was wealthy after being shown pictures in a mansion. She would not have given that money to a guy who openly declared to be not rich.

[@lunganikhubone]

Very true , In her mind this was business person who had money. If a person is wealthy they definitely have insurance or a lawyer or business partners. When they say love is blind. It a pity that everything revolve around money but revolvement must not occur premature. Two weeks is crazy. Even three months is crazy. A year is mybe. Three years of stable relationship we are talking especially if you have been hurt before. ⛔️⛔️⛔️⛔️⛔️⛔️⛔️⛔️⛔️Social Media is Dangerous⛔️⛔️⛔️⛔️⛔️⛔️⛔️⛔️⛔️⛔️

[@ZababaMalinga]

This story is soooo depressing 😢😢😢

[@norahmaleka-lt8uv]

Botlhoko 😢😢

[@nomakhosikoci2162]

Gone through the same trauma and scam by so called hubby, he manipulated me till divorce, till he got my pensions. Fear of being lonely can lead to all what u've just shared. ❤❤❤ don't worry most of us hv Gone Tru the same

[@reneilwemorobe8204]

"FEAR OF BEING LONELY " ..Thats it ❤

[@nombulelomoyo3708]

I dont trust social medias love . How can you love somebody whom you didnt see physically

[@kitsontuli2713]

Even real life!!! Men have turned into gold diggers. And they are everywhere!

[@tholakeleshezi8819]

My point exactly only few weeks you without seeing him you are going money

[@faithing88]

Heee bana! It's lack of self worth, self love, desperation also maybe. At her age falling inlove on social media giving someone money you never met 😮

[@bridgetmothomoholo4514]

Madam speaker, you are doing a great job ❤

[@madams___speaker]

@@bridgetmothomoholo4514 thank you 🥺🤍

[@masandefuzile2261]

This is another level of desperation.

[@ZNMelowLeloNeka]

this was a spiritual battle honestly. No way she gave away all her money like that, to a man she has never met.

[@palesalefera9729]

Very spiritual. I can totally relate to her story

[@abigailmolusi]

Someone I once met online got mad at me for googling them to verify their existence and made me apologize for doing so without their permission yet this is the world we live in. luckily I hate aggressive people so that was our last interaction.

[@jeremyexalted8572]

These guy's don't only play mind games but also cast a spell on their victims. That's why their intelligent victims go into dumb mode. 😏

[@dataracy]

True, reason to always be prayerful always

[@judyatoro9387]

I thought the same 😢😢

[@busisiwemichelle5391]

Thus what l thought there was a spell there there is no way

[@BaileBaloyi]

Spell how when they never met😢

[@jeremyexalted8572]

@BaileBaloyi your name sounds African, so I don't understand how you don't know that a spell or a hex does not need closeness of distance to be effective, but connection. I don't need to meet you to PRAY for you for instance.

[@Missy-1981-k2p]

The time she was getting the signatures wrong,the time she was crying not knowing why,God was speaking to you my sister. Its just that we realise when its very late. I went through almost the same thing in June also, all the way from Botswana. The guy was in Durban,he used the ancestral what what scam. The day I saw the money he claimed was millions and was instructed to go get loans so that we can be given millions was the last day I saw him. When I came back I made sure I told him that I know what he was trying to do. I couldnt say it while I was with him because I knew I was not safe. After seeing the millions I was turned off and didnt show any interest. I could tell that he was aware and was not happy,I could feel that he was planning something bad so I had to play along for my safety. After telling him that I knew he was a scammer he blocked me,a week later.

[@thoesibanda7769]

..but ladies ladies What re you saying? Now you were at the right position to expose the idiot.why not involve police since you know they are hunting on these cases?Botswana police i trust

[@Missy-1981-k2p]

@@thoesibanda7769 Unfortunately the place he claimed to be his house was rented and I dont beleive the names he gave were his. The ID copy he sent, was fake!

[@rudzanikharivhe6294]

Guys, lets share this things i have been watching Owami's podcast have been sharing it with my loved so that they should fall for this crap, listening to the date its recent we cannot still be going through this again as women....now im urging everyone who is watching pls share with your loved ones.

[@jabunxumalo2111]

True, every single woman should know about these scams

[@nokufasithole4914]

All the best my sister 😢 scammers are everywhere and always planning.

[@lyricking7035]

Madam speaker did a wonderful jobs no interruption no extra detail she let the lady tell her story fully❤❤❤

[@goodnessmitileni1120]

The signature problem and the scrapyard owner were a sign from God for her not to do it, but we often don't take those signs and do what we have set out to do, we only realize we were wrong and blind when we are out of the situation, May God cover her and her family, sending love to her, she has survived and she will be ok when time goes, yoh people are cruel out there, its the guy who hacked her shame, he was also tracking her

[@xolilezaca5717]

Madam speaker I enjoy how you allow your guests to flow witout interruptions you ask the right questions well done

[@alinampopza5671]

Once you mention money 💰 m transferring you to department of block 🚫

[@Athini_Myataza]

You're the best 👌🏽 That's the way it should be done.

[@amandamaraga5005]

I’m such a “What would they do if they didn’t know me?” Kind of person. I don’t bother myself with other people’s problems. Even my boyfriend knows he doesn’t have any problems that I will ever afford to fix.

[@lonkiesenthufhe9125]

I pray that we all reach a point where we can love genuinely without falling into desperation, where our need to love isn't exploited by those we intend to care for.

[@leratokganyago9192]

This was hard to watch 😢😢my body was boiling with anger and disbelief .....I hope to forgive yourself dear, iyoooo

[@entertainmentt.2435]

I'm taking notes to scam men

[@dineogenie]

😭

[@nwabisapbodlo3246]

You might be on to something 🤔🤔🤔

[@smartdiaries2372]

😂😂😂😂

[@deltaforce-50]

This can happen to anyone, I am glad I am broke and I have nothing that is scammable