EP.64 Dineo on Fearing for her life and her children’s lives as threats to un-alive them continues

[@gugulethumathe1262]

Thanks

[@momomoe4346]

Leaving after the first incident 👏🏽👏🏽I’m so proud of her, it’s very rare

[@MichelMabona]

True😢

[@dorcramps6779d]

😢true

[@pulengphatedi8153]

I'm so disappointed with the taxi driver that did not protect Dineo😢😢

[@reflioekheswa6314]

The3 taxi driver is that type of person as well hence he didn't do anything

[@tebogoragimana7502]

I grew up in Lebowakgomo GA Mphahlele.....it tracks. Sad but true

[@Tshepho_yamodimo_seloya]

I went to high school with Dineo and she always had a strong character.... As I man myself I'm truly ashamed. I'm praying for you

[@LuMalobane-ig9ix]

Very true hey

[@MissCombs1511]

Heavenly Father, this is your daughter, those are Your babies. This is not Your plan. Take Your vengeance on this demon Jehovah. Let all the demons who abuse Your children know that this is Your world which You multiplied with Your children whom are fearfully and wonderfully made, in Your image. You are love, You are forgiveness. Thath'indawo yakho Nkosi! Amen.

[@mpumelelo526]

Amen🙌🙌

[@moredikgale7389]

Amen 🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@poetic7304]

Amen

[@londiwexaba8905]

Amen💛🕯🙏

[@nondumisof]

Amen

[@confidenceponagatso5060]

I like the fact that she didn’t wait to be physically abused morethan one time 🙏 well done my sister. And big ups to your supportive family ❤️❤️❤️‍🩹 and the fact that you’re independent, that’s why you survived. You couldn’t stay just because you’re not financially stable. I’ve learned a lot from you ❤️❤️

[@FaithFab639]

TRUE because if she could have stayed longer, for more then surely she wouldn't be here to tell this story

[@hlamalanibaloyi-jele3897]

I applaud you, my daughter. Some of us parents endured this in silence. This is the time, the time is now!

[@kymseshea]

😢 Sorry

[@tabisamlata]

She's so beautiful ❤️🤗🙌🥰

[@KoketsoManamela-55]

Justice for Dineo ✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽✊🏽

[@PatriciaMokwana]

Dineo you are so beautiful.I like your fighting spirit.Don't let this monster get away with what he did to you.

[@vumbhonirebeccashikuhele1853]

More Strength to you Dineo, i left the first time it happened to me and it was the best decision i ever made for myself and my child ❤ i am also so grateful for the support of family

[@smallgirlBigGod-b8u]

WOMANDLA

[@shirleymokwena-l4e]

Imagine preserved yourself for a monster sending love ,protection and healing to you and your kids❤

[@constancefaithful1451]

😢 😢 😭 💔

[@magdelinemowasa8841]

Thanks!

[@ginah-maph9974]

Dineo is so well spoken, she narrates her story very well

[@mollytlhaku8882]

she's so beautiful, like Karabo Mokoena hle...Karabo was just lighter. May the Lord protect her and the kids

[@QueenDee1207]

Im so woried abt her more esp that 100% sure that he know where shes working .our police r really failing us 💔 may you find justice my sister .take heart

[@jabulilejabs80]

I pray God covers her and the kids hle🙏🏽🥺

[@NomvulaIrene]

MEN NOT ALL MEN, Mara how can you say that to a woman seeing her that she is in danger... Yoooo taxi driver,God please forgive him because it's obvious le yena taxi driver ke ABUSER, THANK GOD DINEO THAT YOU ARE ALIVE

[@dinnydee9198]

Yoh.. That got my knees shaking.. ☹️☹️

[@ntokozopetunia8716]

The taxi driver is also an abuser ,that's how you see them

[@PorshyNila]

That's the recent story. Big up to you for narrating it so calmly.

[@Grace-yr5oe]

God saved you my dear he will continue protecting all of you, I'm sending love and hugs ❤️🙏

[@mukoniramuvhundu9728]

I am so proud of you Ms Dineo . You did justice to yourself and your kids . I feel that she should also change the kids school next year to protect them from him

[@nchabelengfrancina1641]

The way you calmly narrating the situation Neo!!! May God protect and guide you babe

[@dimphomrmaake4397]

The strength you get from your kids, it’s unmatched.

[@rhullysithole8179]

I can relate. I pray for your safety, Dineo❤❤

[@gugulethunyoni4398]

45:12 this is powerful. The moment you put the children first, you have won. I know a lady who left a very long and abusive marriage because the kids were grown up enough to want to protect her. Girls waking up in the middle of the night to check up on their mother. Make sure she is still okay. And alive. That is when she got the strength to flee, file for a divorce and not look back.

[@Gugu_Nka]

She is beautiful ❤️😍 I thank God that you have a very supportive family... We should really count our blessings

[@BusisiweButhelezi-v5n]

I'm so proud of you my dear it tooks me 15 years to leave my abusive baby daddy may the good Lord protects you and your little ones from this monster ❤

[@roselinetlema5783]

Yooh Sisi Deneo, I have been through the same, same same situation. Its been two years now since i survived a narcissist and 2yrs celibate. Same as he was attending a case when i met him of his previous wife and another wife is no where to be found, who knows what happened?I am forever grateful to God and sending love and peace to you. Justice for Deneo

[@akhonavuma2379]

The common thing I see in our stories is that they usually ALREADY HAVE recorded GBV history. Either we ignore it during the honeymoon phase or we find out too late. Doing a criminal history check is important, it's a pity POPIA restricts us from such.

[@busisiwemahlangu9417]

I agree she is effortlessly gorgeous

[@sibongisenisakhele3114]

What a brave woman! Thank you for sharing your story. We are learning and developing

[@Thebe-td3zu]

That taxi driver. Men always choose each other. Right or wrong yet they say we don’t hope each other accountable

[@hendrinahaikwiyu8149]

True, how could the taxi driver not help, weird

[@lethabomohlala1206]

He is a monster that one. Am sure he is also an abuser 😮

[@kalizabashonga1683]

😮 I'm shocked... Even if I don't know the story I will separate the 2 parties cause this is seriously dangerous

[@FaithFab639]

He is probably an abuser himself

[@akhonavuma2379]

It's actually a norm. They do leave you to be harmed. But not only them, even other random or community people. The mentality is of "it's your business" is plenty. I was failed by neighbours, then passing-by drivers, then taxi driver and passengers, while he was looking for me. It took desperate measures to get help... God bless their hearts.

[@tebogomangena7381]

The family knows him.They were releaved you stayed with him.I know families like this

[@kelebogiletladi2783]

So true… 😢

[@nozukojoseph2214]

It is so unfortunate that what ever worse he can do, his lawyers can plead "temporal insanity". May the good Lord keep you & your loved ones in the shadow of HIS wings

[@TebohoMonyamane]

It is so sad😢women are suffering like this in the hands of men who once claimed they love them,,,I pray for ur safety sis❤very emotional episode 😢 💔

[@OleratoMonyaki]

I'm happy that she survived ♥️.I've been there I know how it feels to live in fear ,always remember that God is with you and He will protect you always.

[@nomsamtsweni9851]

There's God for us all who protect us in every area of our lives your journey God show up,and fight for you and overcome the power of darkness,you a royal priesthood Dineo you are loved from above.....

[@msngema1380]

She is not safe, I am worried…what can be done? Yho😢

[@TshegoKekana05]

It’s very scary actually

[@MantjuteMakhalemele]

Dineo dear, it's so painful to listen to your story. We thank God that you are still alive, despite the gravity of what you went through 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 What pains me more is the fact that your daughter is aware of the abuse you suffered from her father 😥😥😥 I'm glad that you and your kids. I did the same. It started with verbal abuse and the first strike of physical abuse, I opened a case and left him. It was during Women's month in August. I have since then been at peace. Years later I found someone who is God sent and I'm enjoying my relationship. Nine years later, I'm still happy. No insults, no beatings, but peace May God protect you from that man who is a danger to you and the kids, to himself and anyone who would dare challenge him. We love you Sis. Madame Speaker, kudos to your calm demeanor and allowing your guests to narrate their story with interrupting them. My prayer goes to you and many other women who suffer the hands of their partners. My Sisters, leave and make your story known to your family or someone for moral and extra support 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@lesegopase4539]

What a beautiful woman.. so sorry she has to go through all that. Strength to you Dineo.

[@jabunxumalo2111]

Dineo is beautiful, we pray for God's protection over your life.

[@sinazom9010]

Taxi driver is another abuser….

[@02112Kea]

And to our beatiful Dineo God has already started fighting for you.He loves you so much and praying for you and your kids❤❤❤

[@mabreegie]

Dineo you are strong, courageous God blesss you & keep you safe

[@SiyabongaNgwenya-yi1mb]

There are many of us out there living that life,we are scared of walking away cos this monster will come after my kids n family

[@ladymilemaile1396]

Please get a Protection Order

[@maseolisekoati1374]

Helek I took this emotionally so much that my BP started doing the prrrrr, I am so sorry Dineo for what you went through

[@lungileDladla-g8l]

Yoooh cc you are beautiful ❤may you find healing and protection

[@anneanne4321]

Earlier this year you commented on a tiktok video that you’re planning a way out, I can believe when you saying you’ve been planning the exit plan. I wish you healing and a peaceful life❤️

[@nellymathibe2069]

In cases like these SAPS must deviate from their processes, this guy must be kept away from the public. He is a danger to himself and everyone. There's evidence but he can't be put away bcoz of a docket, when someone dies is it fair to say we couldn't protect the victims bcoz of a docket. No one cares, at least someone should have driven to appel to pick up the docket in the 16 days of activism nogal. It is so disappointing, tbe system perpetuates this kind of behavior.

[@Missfab86]

The families can’t encourage arrest because they know many of themselves are abusers and would need to be arrested first

It's a pity it's not only Saps failing us, it's the Justice system as a whole. I remember I was attacked n strangled by someone I know but he was not aware that he is attacking someone who knows him, it was a hectic year for me as he had his gangster goons threatening me to drop the charges. I lived my life in a matchbox... I was shocked when I got to summon the Parole Board Director n the answers she gave me with her Board members. The guy is now free

[@mbalyie8766]

She is so Gorgeous, I am afraid if the monster isn't arrested n not find her, he might hurt her family member to get to her...😢😢😢

[@revothomas9343]

It’s scary because he will find her way to her work place, car parking or stalking her,wish she can relocate to other places.

[@dipuolekay]

Ooh Dineo u deserve justice fight girl and get psychological help sesi the trauma it still Raw but sending you love and hugs but that mgulugudu must be arrested MARATO FELA DEAR

[@mahlodinorah487]

How abt if we start requesting fr a copy of our dockets these days?

[@blessed3236]

Yes that is wisdom

[@ThokoSelahle-bj7sr]

Oh beautiful lady may God protect you and the kids.

[@MatshelisoJeff-z7n]

Hai hai if koloi is moving at high speed never pull HB bona etlawa koloi but in her case i get it but nje nje don't

[@Whatsgucci]

She’s stunning!😍

[@motlatleagnes6205]

I am proud of you Dineo for speaking up...❤.

[@shirleymokwena-l4e]

Yoo Dineo you are soo beautiful ❤, you did not deserve it,not even a single women deserve it 😢😢😢That man is a monster 😢😢

[@AlphinaRaseboya]

Justice for Dineo and other victims we a sick and tired SAPS do you dam job man thank you madam speaker we love and appreciate your podcast 🎉❤❤

[@carolinekwenda8960]

She is a fighter, keep fighting sister 💪

[@teekay543]

Psychosis ndi tshipengo (for lack of better description in Tshivenda language). Ndi vhulwadze ha muhumbulo. Can't he get admitted at Weskoppies?

[@vinolialindt5234]

😅 true

[@BLewanika]

Hai le wena😂😂

[@muthupheirolivhuwa6439]

That’s true thou in English is a loss of contact with reality usually is a sign of major mental illness such as schizophrenia 😂

[@nobuhlentombela5437]

Can the office give her time to work from home till that monster is locked up coz uthi the guy recently came into her work place to threaten her even more..

[@n_mahlambi]

Abantu abanje bafuna inkabi!🤞🏽

[@ntlotlisenglebitsa8153]

Honestly!!

[@karaboraphela]

That taxi driver should also be arrested coz wtf!

[@marthamokete2013]

Love and light mtase.❤ May the Lord see you through the healing process.❤❤❤ Otherwise, I'm proud that you're standing up for yourself. 😊

[@preciousbiya5733]

I can relate fully. Thank God we're still alive to tell the stories

[@moomemasete4196]

He really resented her 😢 he has low self esteem. So glad she managed to get out 🙏🏿

[@akhonavuma2379]

In his version of things, he does not resent her. Hence his mother would say "she'll come back when she's calm.". He gave his version of true love and affection. Which he believes IS a reality, the "demons" are making him do the harmful acts. So there's a chance he'll plead insanity.

[@missjones9737]

I really wish women wouldnt bekezela.From the time someone doesnt treat you well just leave.The time he verbally abuses you leave.Thats not love.From the time she had the first baby she should not have stayed.Ladies the man disrespects his own mother, your family and you still want to say my hubby, aghh no man.Him taking her virginity is not an excuse And his medical condition is not an excuse either .Some men are jealous of women the more you put up with him the more he will do. Am so glad our beautiful sis survived and left.Thank you also for being brave enough to tell your story🙏🙏.You are a survivor. SAPS needs to do better.

[@reneilwemorobe8204]

When i thought she was going to say the taxi driver saved her😢😢😮😮...Yhooo my jaws Dropped...

[@lesedimarthavanessasetlhar3738]

I pray that God gives me the strength to walk away like you did. As you narrated the story, it’s like you are reciting mine. Just that it hasn’t been physical yet. May I not wait until it is, cause maybe I won’t survive 😭😭😭😭

[@VeronicaLetwala]

I just have flash backs of what was happening to you that day my child please be strong and thanx to your mom who has been there for you

[@amandlangceba4514]

Love the fact we are exposing missing dockets sooner than later

[@buhlemaduma995]

Big up sister D, l stayed with the monster for 19years being abused, madam speaker how can l get hold of you l need help from you my story is a bit different l am not ready to talk bt l need help l lost myself throught the process bt l am happy this is the 24th month out of the relationship l sometimes breakdown l still need help before l find myself doing the same mistake

[@rirhandzusambo]

An empowered women right there ❤

[@kgothatsoramodisetsi2632]

Love and light to you my sweetheart. Stay strong for the sake of the kids. Xoxo❤

[@cathrinenkadimeng8062]

😢😢my home gal God loves you 💕 💗 sending light ✨️ 💖

[@nolwazidlamini908]

She is beautiful in and out❤May God be always with you and ur kids❤you are a strong woman cc Dineo

[@dipuokgaphola1493]

Dineo you are an amazing person ,you didn’t deserve this at all .I wish you light baby .

[@hamiltonmatlala1173]

Dineo, this is very serious my sister and the police must act fast on him and make sure you are safe at all time. This guy needs help and I understand his the father of your kids and your first love. He needs to get help and forget about you. I pray that The Lord God Almighty protect you from him and heal him as well.

[@Nosiphozondi1324]

These abusive men are very lucky, they always get beautiful women, dear I speak the protection of God upon your life and your children

[@thandigloria8710]

This is making me Cry.

[@veemagonono434]

I believe that “a ke tswenyi batho” we went to the same high school ko Northern Academy and honestly speaking she was very shy,chilled, reserved and very respectful. She doest deserve to go through all this. JusticeforDineo

[@vinolialindt5234]

What an unfortunate situation, your first ever, your baby daddy, Kanti he's a monster.

[@lethabomohlala1206]

Justice for Dineo

[@felicitymaphiri]

The fact that his stil outside scares me I scare for dineo s life Kodwa SA

[@kharislifestyle467]

Love you babe ❤ such an inspiration...acting on the issue in time and fighting for the safety of your kids.❤

[@lufunoadelaide-l8r]

That taxi driver is so evil

[@Lsgworx]

He probably abuses women too

[@Lsgworx]

He probably abuses women too

[@Lsgworx]

He probably abuses women too

[@CeeMotsoeneng]

Dineo has to find a transfer if it is possible. She is not safe at all. If she can, leave the job and go hide in a whole different province, not Limpopo and not Gauteng.

[@NomvulaIrene]

Yoooooo a Psychosis patient cannot drink alcohol, after drinking he or she will cause so much drama, ALCOHOL NOT ALLOWED

[@greenettmacheke98]

This was very emotional... I'm so sorry she went through this..

[@felicitymaphiri]

True sis khanyi south Africa police service Der failing us big tym and it's very sad xem

[@GodsFavourite2024]

Can the company perhaps transfere her to another town or province? Also, where is this man staying now?

[@felicitymaphiri]

She's beautiful xem very beautiful

[@dorissmatshete7636]

This is so sad what a beautiful girl,I don't know what is happening with SA men

[@eunicemokhitli5737]

I'm so sorry for what happened to you and your kids. Empa tshepa thapelo molimo oteng. So my dear baleka before you die. 😭😭

[@nomsachironda9624]

Our justice system is very weak,terrible, usless mxm 🇿🇦🚮🚶‍♀️‍➡️🚶‍♀️‍➡️

[@lebogangmokwape33]

Painful part we must voice out to get justice

[@MariaMolapisi-oy1nf]

Wa bona when you pray gore please show me a sign. Modimo o tla go bontsha sign geh!

[@FaithFab639]

Lol true eii!!!

[@yaneliswakhoza5901]

One prayer that gets answered very fast

[@nkhen_c357]

Emotional abuse goes deeper......Words are a weapon

[@starjune416]

Narsssist yho thanks for choosing yourself wena dineo😢😢let’s love ourselves and put ourselves First Ladies

[@shyieletty]

I’m so proud of her for leaving and I really hope she got justice and I hope she gets the help she deserves