If I want to compete into a field that is very competitive; to get there I will need to be proactive to ask for projects and opportunities. Over past 2 years, I have been thinking: maybe the reason is my bosses/seniors not giving me opportunities. But now I realised maybe is my attitude, I don't like the feeling of competition. Maybe because of shame? worried of failure? I don't know. I am worried I can't handle the project? all sorts. Hence I can't step up to ask for opportunities. Hence stuck in this situation, I want to become a better person but I can't. Sounds very 矛盾。 I am stuck. Please enlighten me. been stuck for like 1 year plus. still can't get out of it.
@nancytsai5 жыл бұрын
If u already know being proactive is what’s require to get ahead and you haven’t been able to do it in the past year, that probably means you don’t fit in this company culture or you r just simply not motivated enough.
@suxin35 жыл бұрын
Ksnancy I m working in the UK. With a bunch of whites. That I can’t click with. Work wise I think I m okay, basic work. When it comes to standing out and competing. I struggle. I feel awkward inside and shut down, ignore their conversation as I m not interested. But I need to complete my training here. And I want to get into the field, complete the training and leave. Are there any advice how to be stronger- in order not to be the underdog, so I can stand out? I really don’t care about fitting in or not. Cause they r just colleagues anyway. Lol
@GiGi-ky7ej5 жыл бұрын
I hope you don’t mind, I want to give my 2 cents because I had this problem. Sometimes the problem is not you...it might be something very trivial and out of your control... like you said maybe the manager is Caucasian and you are not. It doesn’t make sense sometimes. Don’t beat yourself up and blame yourself. Good luck
@g481194 жыл бұрын
如果一年前看到這影片我應該就不會自己離職了 唉
@sophialai52125 жыл бұрын
可以請問今天佩戴的耳環在哪裡買的嗎?謝謝
@meimingqu64105 жыл бұрын
非常👍
@sarasa43024 жыл бұрын
👍
@MiniVivienne5 жыл бұрын
你說中了上班族的心聲啊啊啊啊啊啊
@esooll5 жыл бұрын
很受用
@skysmall56285 жыл бұрын
主管 跟同事真的是..
@aiw36185 жыл бұрын
手很多戲😂
@kikiwong312 жыл бұрын
校長好喜歡我,同事排挤我
@kenlelg3 жыл бұрын
上司聆聽你抱怨?還聽替你私生活解決煩惱?是我搞錯還是你搞錯啊?你連同事都說別妄想都交心,還妄想與主管交心?老實說主管都是結果論的人來,由其是待得越久的那批 old timer, 新上任的主管反而真的為了做好這份工作而會承擔起主管應有的責任,下屬事情做不好還會聽解釋,old seafood 都是你完成不了工作就是你的錯再多的解釋也是借口,好的主管無需也沒有意義聽你抱怨,他只要做好自己的工作不要老是結果論就已經是好上司,但職場上很多老烏上司都已經待得太久,連自己應該要要做的工作都早就忘記了,也不覺得自己這樣有問題