Episode

In this intriguing podcast episode, the topic of love and betrayal takes center stage, prompting us to explore the complex dynamics that arise when the people we cherish deeply hurt us.
Idit Sharoni hosts her team of experts in order to shed a light on this topic. She begins with asking Alana Tokayer, a Marriage & Family Therapist and Program Specialist to describe what she notices with couples in the aftermath of infidelity grappling with this question.
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Alana sets the stage by highlighting the profound impact of betrayal when it comes from someone we consider our best friend, our everything.
As a therapist, Alana has witnessed couples grappling with the aftermath of infidelity, and the burning question always lingers: "How can someone who loves me betray me?" This inquiry lies at the heart of the episode, as it dives into the intricacies of understanding the coexistence of love and betrayal in modern relationships.
Alana is joined by a team of experts, including Yael Haklai-Neagu and Ana De la Cruz, both licensed Marriage & Family Therapists specializing in relationships and affair recovery. Together, they shed light on how partners can make sense of the painful dilemma caused by infidelity.
Throughout the episode, the team offers valuable insights and tips for coping with this conundrum, emphasizing the importance of questioning assumptions and challenging thought patterns that hinder healing. They discuss how love and betrayal can coexist, urging listeners to reconsider their perceptions of loyalty and love.
The episode concludes with three practical tips for healing after infidelity, shared by Alana, Ana, and Yael. These tips emphasize the significance of intentionality, open-mindedness, and reframing one's perspective to navigate the challenging journey of rebuilding trust and love after betrayal.
Listeners are left with a thought-provoking exploration of the complex interplay between love and betrayal in relationships. The episode encourages us to reevaluate our beliefs about loyalty, love, and the potential for healing and growth after experiencing infidelity. If you're seeking guidance on affair recovery or intrigued by the intricate dynamics of love and betrayal, this podcast episode promises valuable insights and a deeper understanding of these complex emotions.
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[@melodykubiak5850]

In my mind, the big question is What is Love? When we're in love with someone there is deep, true devotion and loyalty and CHERISHING. I know my husband loves me because of these things. I couldn't consider that he truly loved me without them.

[@shala604]

I really wish I could love him more than his mistakes and I think I would be able to rebuild except I'm just punishing myself every single day as I try to adjust to my partner now becoming a father again. We are both 48 years old. I don't want to have anymore children it's the time in life most plan for retirement. Not raising a baby for the next 18years. The affair partner now a permanent person in our lives and I'm given no choice once again over the toxic negativity interjecting my reality. He took my autonomy and destroyed my reality but didn't even tell me until the child was almost born ....I struggle with the feeling that his consequences include losing this connection. It was once in a lifetime connection. You don't get to disrespect something so monumentally and still get what you want. I think he must lose me, if not then what will have been learned ...he will just keep doing what he does ...because nothing really impactful happens as a result. I don't know how I can forget that I wanted a different life ...not this one he's proposing .. so I'm expected to just stay with him? He shit the bed I didn't ....why should I have to sit in his mess now with him until his karmic debt is paid .. no I don't think the universe wants that. I really question if I'm mentally unwell even considering the possibility of staying and navigating this shit sho

[@Jess-wk5jo]

My questions for you over affairs. 1 is it turth that Not every affair involves sex. ARE still affair or do people need sex for affair or cheating to happen ur not. 2 are you really sure it affair without having no no sex 3 What another ways to have affair or cheat on someone without having no sex .x. 4 is it turth that Cheating doesn't always have to involve sex or even talking about sex.

[@HMFIH]

Anything that is done in secret and kept from you is cheating.