ESCALATING DRAMA: HIGH CONFLICT EXPLODES INTO CHAOS AND COMPLEX PTSD

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Күн бұрын

High conflict families can cause complex PTSD in some members.
Backbiting, manipulation or triangulation, intimidation and lies, deception, or experiencing cliques within the family, can all lead to relational trauma or complex PTSD.
Most people believe that complex PTSD is ONLY the result of a specific and one time traumatic experience -- such as sexual abuse -- that is hard to escape from.
But the reality is that complex PTSD can also be the result of years upon years of family turmoil, abuse, neglect, high conflict, and mistreatment.
In this video, I discuss how family related complex PTSD can lead to years of symptoms, relationship problems, and barriers in your life.
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DISCUSSED IN THIS VIDEO:
0:00 intro
1:44 relationships become difficult over time
3:02 past experience within a dysfunctional and high conflict family
4:42 WHAT YOU ARE LIKELY TO SEE IN YOURSELF
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@universallyauthentic9562 2 ай бұрын

Being betrayed by the one person I thought I could trust (the woman who birthed me), has led me to not want any type of personal relationship with anyone but the Divine Source of my Soul’s Creation. My entire birth family are detached, immature and emotionally unavailable. By the way…those frames look sooo good on you.

@reg8297 2 ай бұрын

My family was the same

@reg8297 2 ай бұрын

To this day I'm 50 years of age I'm barely able to cope I can barely breathe I feel constant defeat terror loss after loss denial of loving relationships I just don't know how to heal I'm lying in bed as I type this barely able to breathe feeling intense rage towards my mother and her sorry does nothing the wounds are so deep

@mac-ju5ot 2 ай бұрын

As the kids in my fostercare use to say," Save the drama for your mamma". It's why I stayed working with them as long as I could.

@plumedescaraibes4536 9 күн бұрын

Thank you very much. I can totally relate to what you said in this video. I'm 33 and I'm struggling with complex trauma. lived with a very disfunctional family in which i was put in a role of a mediator very young so I feel like my childhood was robbed to me. I can barely remember what happened to me but I feel very strong emotions sometimes. So weird... Now I feel so exhausted that I'm taking medication. It's so true when you said that it can be more difficult to deal with all these memories as you grow older. Sometimes I'm struggling getting out of bed, I procrastinate a lot feeling totally hopeless. Don't know how to cope with all the piece of the puzzle that I find every single time I see my therapist. Life is so though for people who have complex ptsd. Everything is a struggle for us. It really feels like a rough path with brambles all over the place.

@RashadRoss-cv2pu 2 ай бұрын

Great work keep it up 💪🏾🙏🏾

@TherapistTamaraHill 2 ай бұрын

Thank you😊 💯

@Andronicus2007 2 ай бұрын

Thank you Tamara for sharing your knowledge with us all and being a caring person as always!

@TherapistTamaraHill 2 ай бұрын

🤗❤Thank you! And you're welcome. It truly is my pleasure. Glad to have you on the channel.

@taliajournee212 2 ай бұрын

Wow, another great video! I had no ideal the brain changed in the way that you can feel more when you are older. This is exactly what I've been going through. I see where the issues in my family of origin directly linked to how I see myself. Also, the way I relate to my siblings has totally changed. This should be spoken about more. Thank you Tamara.

@calebereid 2 ай бұрын

Thank you for this content, it is huge. I have definitely been avoiding and pushing healing away.

@emmjay551 Ай бұрын

Thank you for that opening. Its true, its true, i barried things so deep it came up like flash backs 20 years later, i struggled to recognize face and push through but im still hanging on by a thread trying to claw my way out. Its insufferable.

@TherapistTamaraHill Ай бұрын

Yes, you're welcome. It's important indeed. I'm sorry you are going through this.

@illuminationgoddess3 2 ай бұрын

I’m attempting righteous anger but my natural state keeps over riding.

@Andronicus2007 2 ай бұрын

I'm not sure if I really relate to trauma getting harder as I get older. For me, as a child or teen, I didn't know it was abuse, I internalized a lot of blame (with parents encouragement to do so). As I got older, I started to realize what was going on. At first this realization was difficult, painful. But after Many years the pain has dulled to some degree. Any trauma I experience as a 50 year old now, I don't take so hard anymore- I've been there. I know now how to make boundaries, nurture myself (and others). My self esteem is pretty good these days, it was very low due to abuse age 7 until I was in my 40s. Am I the only one who feels this way? Am I just kidding myself? I don't think so. For me the trauma of childhood/teen years is still with me to some extent, but it's better than it used to be.

@dalehamon4295 2 ай бұрын

Hi everyone

@Mindset973 2 ай бұрын

tamara, you are the truth and nothing but blessing your way!!!

@TherapistTamaraHill 2 ай бұрын

💖🙏thank you so much. Amen and I receive. Blessings from God for you too!

@fairygurl9269 2 ай бұрын

Thank You ✌️

@TherapistTamaraHill 2 ай бұрын

You're welcome 😊

@peterstaker3230 2 ай бұрын

This video was very informative! Thank you! Do you have any tips on healing CPTSD?

@TherapistTamaraHill 2 ай бұрын

You're welcome!! Thanks for watching.And I might post some this coming week.

@ShepherdsTable1156 2 ай бұрын

Great video, I saw your other videos on stalking and would like to know if you could do videos on ex coworkers stalking and why they cant move on in life and stalk every where the person will go like shopping, doctors office, and just about any where the person being stalk may go. The person being stalked could care less about them, have no concern of them only that they are secretly showing up in their lives with other people also they have incorporated to stalk, secretly violating privacy, once at previous job and still trying to do the same after a period of over four years. Not being someone ever to have had any relationship at all only a previous coworker.

@NickieBryantCakeArtistYT Ай бұрын

Would love to hear more about dark relationships

@atomz1154 2 ай бұрын

A carryover from yesterday’s content, can you please use psychopaths/psychopathy as an example in today’s video?

@shaunhamer4262 2 ай бұрын

Hi Tamara ❤

@TherapistTamaraHill 2 ай бұрын

Hi Shaun Hammer! Thanks for watching!

@DamienBender Ай бұрын

Can you do a video going into the topic of slander in a family?

@paultusun48 2 ай бұрын

❤

@TheWannabmodel 9 күн бұрын

How do I cut off my sister but still be allowed into my nephew's life? Me and my sister haven't been the same since 2022 after a big argument. We cool again then blew up again last week as she gets defensive about certain topics. This isnt the first time and I'm tired of off and on. She used to keep him away when upset but allows me to play with him when I visit my mom's. My fear is once she leaves out of state or enters a relationship, she wont let visits happen. How do I prepare...