Some of us have spent most of our lives in church. And church talks about evil, references evil, and warns about evil, but they rarely explain evil. Combined with the religiosity of church some people become the perfect victims.

Some of us have spent most of our lives in church. And church talks about evil, references evil, and warns about evil, but they rarely explain evil. Combined with the religiosity of church some people become the perfect victims.

Definitely a ten, I just dropped out of the family, especially the narcissist twin,too much drama

So does occultism

I escaped mine last Wednesday but the police who was contacted by mother for me going no contact with her, found out where I live and the police contacted my landlord yesterday. Now I have alot of explaining to do unfortunately.

My brother is very manipulative and rude , he screams your shortcomings to the neighborhood...so you can be ashamed to interact with others."NEVER APOLOGIZES FOR HIS DISRESPECT" Then after things settle down he comes around acting like nothing happen. When you refuse to entertain him, he starts cursing you again. His deeds are evil.😢 Dr Hill I am so over this kind of behavior. I am mentally tired

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New subscriber , So glad your channel found me❤

People are dealing with the knots of their soul. And tortured souls have knots, but people don't want to heal the real dark stuff they just think people need medications. They need to get out of their social and mental entanglements that keep bringing them back to the dark night of the soul that creates tragic lives.

Excellent advice, so much needed, helps everyone. Older woman here, there were no names for these behaviours years ago. Thank you Tamara, your mam is a wise woman. ❤❤❤

Why am I always having to resubscribe to your channel 🤨

People look at me like I'm crazy when I say that my daughter is evil. I know her the best and she is just as bad and wicked and screwed up as her father. Her father is a covert narcissist and he groomed my daughter to disrespect and mistreat me. She has no conciounce of right and wrong, she is morally corrupt just like him. She is just a little mini, female version of her father.

❤ agree Tamara so many people are so self-entitled they're persistent I'm first attitude generally puts them at the back of the line if only they would realize that

How can a parent mistreat their own children cruel?

I've found out, from my experience, that the most evilest of people are the ones who have had the ability to manipulate others into believing they're the opposite of everything that is deemed 'evil'. Because of their charming, 'nice guy or gal' qualities, even shy and relatable, are always committing acts of evil and slithering undetected, because those same people they've conned would be the same ones to believe their innocence, without any shadow of a doubt. I have some relatives that behave under that guise, despite their very blatant, machiavellism characteristics. While others, such as myself, [who are empaths] get treated like the evil villain, even when we are really innocent of things, and have not done anything 'purposefully evil'. It's very weird how that works out.

Thanks Tamara appreciate you taking your time for us❤❤❤ having a strong detecting biosphere make weeding these people out of your life and not getting involved with them much easier and most people can realize

Can a person inherit the evil behavior of a parent?

Why do EVIL people pretend like they are so sweet?

I went no contact with my toxic family. I dont care if it means I get cut out of the inheritence. I can't live like this anymore, showing up for a group of people who make me feel so bad about myself. A group of people who have scapegoated me and kept me in a lower place of regard. Emotionally manipulative people. Not worth it. I don't even care about any money or wealth or anything, if it comes with those conditions.

Classical Cynicism is different. I'm talking about the School of Cynicism founded by Diogenes the Cynic. There are no themes of Machiavellianism, pessimism, need for dominance/authority/control or any sense of taking pleasure from others' suffering. There is a constant focus on ethical considerations (Classical Cynicism is, in a way, an examination of ethics). Classical Stoicism is directly descended from Classical Cynicism.

I say, people drive, the same way they live. It's very telling. The accident before work is a perfect example. I've seen it. Many blessings on your soul journey. Stay on your red road. Aho

I was taking notes!! Great talk, very informative ❤

Thank you so much Tamara. You are so warm and welcoming to us all. We feel the love you send us all around the world.

It is very very complicated to distinguish one type from another type for me......I tend to think IF the evilness is inside their mind and then manifests into their behaviour and it presents with a predictable and ongoing pattern....over many years and with all people around them ....that is an evil form......but if the behaviour may be somewhat evil.....and it's not consistent.....then that's a different type.

SO clear. KZbin chan here doing a great favor here, invaluable info. Raised by one, a true terror. Criminal mind married to a minister. Gaslighting, scheming, and labeling. Violent behind doors. Got away with everything. Many lost their lives around this one, they are vampires. I grew up in fear of this x ray interrogator. No contact is the only way in cases like this.

Especially online scammers.

Soooo timely that I found your channel! Please advise what to do during holidays. I always get quilted by the rescuer!

Angels Exist Too💞

What happens when this happens as a child and your parents emotionally neglect and abandon you and when you react as a teenager no one can see the estrangement and neglect and then your reaction is the problem. This happened to me. My mom contacted DCF and wanted me removed from the home. When removed I was put in jail due to conflict with my mother and then placed in dcf custody where I was placed in emergency youth shelter. Where I was bullied forced to take psychiatric medications and labeled as psychiatric illness with learning disabilities and mental problems. I couldn’t take anymore and refused to go back. My grandmothers took me in for 6 months and then I was placed again this time in a group home. When DCF filed for commitment and parental rights were terminated it was stated that my parents tried to get me the help I needed and loved me but due to my emotional, behavioral problems couldn’t maintain me in the home. I felt abandoned and rejected the more hurt I got the more I pushed back. Yet I was the problem not the family system and dysfunction , or the fact that my mother was mentally ill and was on several psychiatric medications and was hospitalized several times. No so much easier to blame me the teenager and my behavior. Because my parents sought help from professionals for me and treatment they were seen as good. But no one saw or felt when I was just handed off to different people but was emotionally abandoned and not allowed to be part of the family and excluded. None of the dumb professionals saw that. I my dcf record blamed me because all the professionals and diagnosis pointed to me. The people who were supposed to be on my side were on my parents side. No one believed me. No staff witnessed phone calls from my mother where I would hold the phone away from my ear as she would scream at me. But no she was seen as the victim. Shame on the state of Connecticut Department of Children and Families 1993-1998. Because my father worked in probation and my mother was a social worker for the New Britain court in the public defender’s office. Had DCf looked at the family history and saw that my mother came from an alcoholic home and my grandmother and her mother were running from my grandfather constantly moving from place to place in different parts of the country. My grandmother was emotionally cold and dismissive having her own trauma but not knowing how to deal with it and help wasn’t really available back then and was looked down upon. My mother projected her stuff onto me and forgot about me in the process and being there for me instead she had every test conducted on me, day treatment, individual and family therapy, medications , . No one saw what went on in the house and it was directed at me. So my sisters weren’t exhibiting the same behaviors

In case you missed it, here is my highly requested recent chat on the psychology of mind-games kzbin.infoPZixge8EAEo?si=uYYaGPxLeBJaQxBY.

Yes. Amen

I wanted to hear more

What scares me, petrifies me, is my kids will walk away from me,how i did my own family. But if they do, i will understand

A true example of a dark tetrid is the current crime case of Paul Ferguson and his mother, Shandra Vanderark .

The person was going behind my back as well I forgive the person then i was accused of what they were doing smh

Evil looks like a well adjusted intelligent adult following their dreams.

Yeah ive been accused of this back bitting there was never nothing that was told to me 😮i get blamed for everything when i attend the churches thats why i just left the church i am a survivor of child s.a. so i have discussions with so called friends and my conversations are twisted around by the mammies smh

Thank you jesus i found you

I put myself on the road so I could isolate and regain my dignity. I have been learning boundaries and gaining strength.

hello Tamara thank you you helped me retain sanity, self kindness & just water of the ducks back✌😊🥳 here's the deal my brothers went disconnect and the other just is real messed up. My Mom & I became best friends & business partners. . I Forgave my parents for inappropriate over discipline, my brothers did NOT. "get over it" forgive, we get our parents broken, we are all broken. LOVE before it's over

You're the Best Dr. Hill, everything you say is right on & truth telling. Thank You for your advice & wisdom.

By far you have the best content in the realm of psychology on U Tube, Tamara! Your ability to succinctly break down complex topics, as well as your compassionate nature is priceless. I always look forward to your weekly live stream and especially love when you breakdown the topic of evil. I’ve always felt that is what I experienced in certain relationships. The only other psychologist besides yourself I know that would acknowledge it was evil was Dr. M. Scott Peck “People of the Lie” a famous Psychologist who has passed. Your discussing and educating us on this topic of evil has been extremely validating for me because of the deep trauma, terror, and its effects on my life. I’ve been trying to make sense and put labels on what I always sensed was pure evil most of my life. You are a gem to me , I can’t thank you enough for your continued hard work and dedication to us all, Tamara 🙏❤️

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Sounds like a nut....Macadamia!!!! LOL

Tamara, would you consider a video on religious abuse and the impacts? Whenever someone mentions religion in response to healing, i experience such intense anger. I recognized my feelings are from personal experiences, so i internalize the aggression assuming their intentions are good. I wish there was more public knowledge on the topic so people would be mindful before saying such things.. Its inconsiderate and arrogant to think you have the answers to someones pain. Especially being raised whete religion is a tool of control, source of massive traumam, and reason for a persons trauma and isolation. Is there anythinf else ibcould do besides supressing my emotions? Recognizing its a personsl issue and telling myseld the person likely means well isn't helpful or affevtice for me.

Sadly, some of the “church people” I know have been some of the most judgemental & vicious people I’ve ever met. I steer clear of those types. They are a clique of hate (in some cases) for those who are different in some way. So much for being “good Christians.”

Growing up in an evil family blinds a person, laying the foundation of a future with more as its registered as normal, loving behaviour. People often say they married their spouses because they "feel like home", but no one considerates how that applies too those from evil homes. Sometimes the person will experience a trauma so profound that replicates childhood and it blows blinders off. Then the challenge lays internally with the cognitive dissonance, beyrayal blindness, denial. This is a chronic, wide-spread, lifelong, exhausting battle.