Escape | Domestic Violence Short Film

The last day of an abusive relationship and a mother's struggle to free her children from it.
Q/A with writer/director Alex Falconer & his Mum, Barbara Lashley: • Escape Q&A | Domestic ...
If you've been affected by the content of the film and need help contact one of the following helplines.
International:
www.childhelplineinternationa...
UK:
National Domestic Violence Helpline - 0808 2000 247
The Men’s Advice Line, for male domestic abuse survivors - 0808 801 0327
The Mix, free information and support for under 25s in the UK - 0808 808 4994
National LGBT+ Domestic Abuse Helpline - 0800 999 5428
USA:
24/7 helpline. Call 1-800-799-7233 or 1-800-787-3224 for TTY, or if you’re unable to speak safely, you can log onto thehotline.org or text LOVEIS to 22522.

[@alex-falconer]

When I put this film on KZbin, I never expected so many people to not only watch the film but share their personal stories of domestic violence and abuse. It takes a lot of courage to share your story and it's only by bringing domestic violence and abuse into the open that we'll begin to find ways to reduce and hopefully end it. It was a draining experience making a film about a pivotal moment in my childhood, however it was completely worth it if it has in some way helped raise awareness or let other survivors know they're not alone. Much love everyone, together we're stronger than when we're apart!

[@rev.run-this271]

Thank you for sharing. You’re amazing, we should start a revolution against abuse

[@lcalsky1875]

I’ve not going through Domestic abuse but Verbal abuse

[@justinp3931]

Its a powerful story with good acting and isnt beyond graphic but gets the point across...i think it was very well put together honestly. I was abused by a fmaily member (not my parents) and stories like this just need to get out there. I think you did quite well on it

[@JT-dj9vx]

Great work - very realistic portrayal. I've noticed a lot of children in the comments that are either currently suffering from abuse or have been therefore wondering if you can add this link to your dropdown description so children can find child line in various countries, it has many international charities for children to access support no matter where they live and thought it would be best for anyone watching this video to be able to access this. Many thanks. www.childhelplineinternational.org/child-helplines/child-helpline-network/

[@alexanderjosephpagan5422]

My Mom Was in A Domestic Voilence Relatoinship whith my Dad And she left him she was in a Domestic realoitnshp for 15 17 yrs

[@corinadanaeca4778]

What makes me mad is that people blame single moms for being single moms. But what else is she supposed to do? Stay?

[@josiewellss3868]

Your right a women has the right to do as she please

[@claudiaross2410]

Thank you for this.. I still hurt from leaving the bio dad but if I didn’t leave, he would’ve probably killed me.

[@chrishouston3566]

Obviously not dumb ass. When we talk about fatherless families we refer to women who make a conscious decision to raise there children alone for no reason other than personal preference.

[@sxbd5192]

But how do they get children then if they are single?

[@alexusjenkins5493]

As a women you can’t just give pussy to anybody let alone carry a child for them. Every man you date or assume is THE one? Don’t mean you have to put your life on the line and carry a child or multiple children for him

[@makai2783]

I feel bad for the oldest child also

[@maisie7202]

@blaine girma you are not trying to be rude that is your opinion and i agree 👍

[@honeystly_disgusting6393]

@blaine girma this is a story about abuse, you're meant to hate him

[@skb282]

@@honeystly_disgusting6393 lol ikr I was a bit confused about that comment 😅

[@gabrielpatton7787]

I bed that psycho dad will definitely get coal for Christmas he deserves it

[@blaineg107]

Same the dad was so rude to the oldest child who yells at her for no reason

[@kiaragriffin6594]

A lot of brutality in the 🌎 even in families. No wonder kids and adolescents go out doing horrible things. A childhood should be carefree and full of happiness.

[@angela.m7862]

But sadly this is the real world😔

[@elizabethfreer1948]

I sat on a board of directors for domestic abuse...listened to stories of beautiful intelligent women and their abusers..some of these men are prominent educated law enforcement officers and more..when we marry GOD puts a crown on our head..and when it’s desecrated HE GRIEVES! THEY WIl ALL FACE HIM..may he show no mercy..bless these women!

[@ericscott4035]

Precisely, Kiara! Bullying is always the wrong answer! Nobody wants that! Anger at people who love him or her provokes more anger! Those who get away with it shall be punished for their own sinful deeds. I have learned about it and you know why? Being a pet slave will not last any longer! It takes short! Yes, there are some parents who have been proud to be a bully and some parents do not. Parents! Listen up! You have been warned! Like this guy, you’re told the truth!

[@gia4616]

Kiara Griffin that can be a reason they feel suicidal :/

[@jadenkfrimpongboateng7649]

My dad was slapped my mum in face

[@sabah4123]

Children pay the highest price, shame on these so-called cowardly men. 😖

[@joegoldb1erg]

the beginning gave me so much anxiety

[@hannahpayne4091]

Pareeha K same my heart started racing, that sound was all too familiar

[@historyisthebest5831]

I felt very uncomfortable when the man was pretending to be kind and patient with the two small children, but he treats Macy and her wife so bad!

[@blaineg107]

Exactly I don’t think he loves Macy that much and his wife too

[@fthattrash]

@@blaineg107 He doesn't love anybody. It's a narcist. He's manipulativ. He wants the little kids to love him and hate mommy. That way he gains control. Power.

[@PAYDEN.D]

@@fthattrash yep I agree when I was younger My parents got an divorce and went separate and ways so we visted my dad But he kinda Went crazy stalked us and tried to break into our homes He stalked my mom Smashed he car window at night and punched her But my mom fought back She was reaching for her gun she shouldn’t Bc he started choking her My mom Beat him up Had my laying on the ground My mom was always a fighter so that’s why he snuck up on her at night and My mom was fighting in court Trying to keep us safe and get full custody After that The little time he had left He gave us WHATEVER we wanted so we can stay with him and make us thing my mom was a bad person It didn’t look happy to see Iam still young I’m 10 this happened 7 yrs ago And I stopped therapy 6 yrs ago I don’t speak to my father and he is Homeless now and I forgot my pass He doesn’t like us As he’s told us And I have a new sibling on his side And he has 6 kids but I only see 2 Bc there my I have 7 siblings any oldest brother was never his she had him before she had Us or met my father and yea My brother is in college now and I’m happy to say We’re on our way to richest And he’s poor

[@blaineg107]

@@fthattrash I agree

[@SL-vx5cg]

I Got Really Mad.

[@wellfrick250]

This is very touching and sadly this happens a lot and you wouldn't even know it

[@joaquinkakeewaykenny3275]

these domestic violence and these anti bullying videos make me wanna go hurt people in real life even at school

[@joaquinkakeewaykenny3275]

@Kevin Binder That isn't my real name

[@joaquinkakeewaykenny3275]

@Kevin Binder My name used to be "i am dead"

[@Valour-qh9ie]

Do these things happen in western nations too??

[@GRAHAMICVS]

@@Valour-qh9ie Everywhere.

[@brhtangon1731]

I’ve went through this as a child. I wasn’t abused. My my dad hit my mom a lot. I felt so bad for my mom. This caused severe anxiety and depression. I started self harm. But I’ve stopped. My mom has a new husband now. I don’t live with my mom anymore sadly. And idk where my dad is now. I pray for anyone who has to go through this

[@sar44qii69]

Are you okay now? I feel really bad, prayers for you 😩💌

[@aryana2509]

Brh Tangon this somethimes happens to me too😭😭

[@zolataylor8246]

Including me???

[@sleeptimenow8025]

How did it happen... like how did they end up getting split apart? We’re the police called or was there a divorce? Because I’m going through the same thing but isn’t if I should call the police or not because I know that nothings gonna happen if I just sit here and wait for it to get better so should I call the police next time there’s a bad argument?

[@urvashi9359]

@@sleeptimenow8025 well its not to discourage you or anything but in my case, the police did nothing. they just dismissed it saying its your family matter. and i understand that every country has different laws so maybe you should give it a try cause its actually better than doing nothing. i am happy that we are away from him now.

[@alyssaturney7962]

Very realistic of what happens. I'm glad you're showing how hard it is to leave.

[@gabrielpatton7787]

Father: Domestic Violence Abusive Hatred Mother: Compassion Nice Loving Caring

[@avabrotschul5599]

One of the most touching parts is when the mom is taking the plates she smiles that goes to show that a mom can do anything she still try’s to make her kids feel alright and it shows how strong she is and the courage it took for her leave

[@alyssamorini299]

I'm in fucking tears man, I never thought a film could explain something so well I too encountered growing up. Exactly the same.

[@valentinazanon5982]

I kinda feel bad for the man who played the father, because his character must have been obnoxious to interpret.

[@historyisthebest5831]

Yes me too.

[@theawesomegameguychannel4562]

@@historyisthebest5831 I have massive respect for him. Hes clearly the most talented actor and shows his talent through playing this character. Playing villans isn't easy but somebody had to do it.

[@everafter2611]

Lol yeah

[@DennisRay99]

@@theawesomegameguychannel4562 Yep, somebody had to play the *sshole.

[@davidowens5898]

He's an actor. It's a role. He gets paid. Don't feel bad.

[@rickyrickardo4913]

My heart goes out to People who actually went through shit like this. Just remember it wasn’t your fault, and you are very worthy of love. Regardless of what you think. The abuser is always the psychotic one. The abuser is the one who really hates himself or herself.

[@thebest-yt5px]

But victims must leave too or you are enabling the abuser it just gets worse until you end up dead

[@ladyrose7015]

Thank you so much God bless you for posting this comment I always thought it was my fault

[@jdbombshell6163]

This is touching because my mom was abused and I wish I could have done something to stop it

[@haileycarter875]

Did she die 😔✋

[@jacobrangel4914]

@@haileycarter875 jeez we know you can ask a better question than that.

[@user-qi5yl1od7r]

@@haileycarter875 such an insensitive comment

[@SimplyASweetHeart]

This sets off my PTSD so bad

[@boinkkadoink]

@thirstpolice u lack empathy

[@siberianXmustang]

thirstpolice asshole

[@Chirpingcherub]

thirstpolice it’s not as simple as that some people need to trigger themselves to make trauma feel normal and real to validate feelings

[@iamedyson]

This video brings me back flashbacks of my childhood.

[@rebeccamcnallyiiiuiiioothj6743]

Ditto, some people say that if a child is in another room than they don't know what's going on...crap. As a victim of physical and mental abuse as a child, not to mention seeing my mum being physically abused ( not by my biological father, who never was abusive at all & who's now been dead 12yrs, but it was her 2nd marriage to my 1st step dad where all the abuse came from. Thankfully mum divorced the sob when I was 13 and hasn't seen him since. Mum has been married to my second step dad for over 22 years and they are very happy). On a daily basis, I'm shocked that she survived...so proud and glad she did. I'm so sorry that you went through that. Anyone regardless of their gender/age should never accept being abused. It's a horrible feeling not being able to stop the abuse for 1. I couldn't stop it happening to my mum, and 2nd I'd be abused back. This was a realistic representation of domestic violence, however domestic violence effects everyone in the home including children. Please help stop all domestic violence, towards men, women and children. These sick sobs need to go to jail. I also believe there should be a domestic violence registrar that the person would be on for life; and would be accessible to the public. In the same vain as the sex offenders registrar, then should these people violate the domestic violence registrar; then they are immediately recalled back to prison. Just a thought....just me? I sincerely hope that you are in a much happier place now. Stay safe too :)

[@iamedyson]

@@rebeccamcnallyiiiuiiioothj6743 It humbles me to know someone is able to sympathize with me, but at the same time awful to discover someone else whose gone through that horrifying experience of domestic violence. 😢 Thank you for sharing your story and your blessing 🙏 ❤ I feel empowered by your words and I completely agree with you about these awful human beings returning or going to prison for their crimes against humanity.

[@rebeccamcnallyiiiuiiioothj6743]

@@iamedyson Thank you for your kind words & your very welcome. I'm so glad you feel empowered that's awesome and I too am humblef to find someone else whom has been able to share this horrific event in their lives...your so brave. Here's to ending domestic violence and all forms of abuse towards anyone be them adult/child. As said previously, I'm glad your in a happier and healthier state now. Remember you are good enough, strong enough, you are loved enough and you shall succeed. To quote back to the future "If you put your mind to it, you can accomplish anything". NEVER EVER LET ANYONE SAY, OR TELL YOU DIFFERENTLY. ❤ Take care 🙂 P.s. never stop feeling empowered.

[@stephiebagley211]

Aww the beginning. What a great big sister. Wow that kid felt betrayed

[@y.o.n.n.a692]

I had to go to school while my parents were like this they yell everday its so heartbreaking I fell bad for the kids and the mom

[@dominiquethomas7933]

This is why children grow up doing things like this because they think that is okay like if you agree

[@aldcpaigehylandlover]

Dominique Thomas stop trying to get likes

[@thebest-yt5px]

It is the responsibility to protect the children so even you are scared you have to do it

[@louisebillie8646]

You don't have to do it because it happened to you, you need to find a way to get help

[@atapada2403]

My dad just got divorced with my stepmother a fell months ago, he doesn't abuse me or my sister, but he's way really mean to us because of the stress.... I don't love him as much as i was a kid, it just has got really hard to look at his eyes and Smile at him.... Lord bless those who are reading the comments 💖

[@jewelhaines8842]

That man played that role REALLY well.😪

[@sentientsphere]

the scene at the dinner table is the thing that makes this whole film so accurate. The tension is always there and it grows and grows until it finally bursts. Normal, peaceful family dinners are not common for my family.

[@JT-dj9vx]

Yes so relatable the walking on eggshells silence and anxiety of the unexpected

[@asimghaffar8148]

I wonder what the food was they were eating? Kind of looked like slop.

[@haha-sb3yh]

I went through sexual abuse for about 6 years, started when I was 4 and ended when I was 10. I still live with my dad, I never talk to him, I ignore him and try to stay away from him, been depressed since I was 4, I'm 17 turning 18 in August 1st, hopefully no female goes through this kind of stuff 🙃

[@BratzRockAngels]

Everything is going to be just fine. I promise you, you are so brave and strong, I'm happy that you spoke up about this! May you be blessed with eternal love and light! 💜🌞🌷

[@victoriaibekwe8100]

God bless you honey!❤

[@issacrisisgoinon2621]

Sincerely Ashlyn bless your heart & spirit. I hope you get out of there soon & live a better life.

[@davidwacko6623]

dont say they cant get oput of it they can

[@santosfamily3019]

This made me cry. I know sorry doesn't help 😢but I'll pray for you😭💞💘

[@yatupbagra2176]

This story reminds me of my childud...... I can feel their pain 😥😥

[@bellella_6926]

Yatup Bagra I'm sorry you had those experiences

[@aleksandarvelinovski8697]

Yatup Bagra I am sorry dude. But I had the same childhood so I understand you.

[@valeriabonfio7020]

I'M REALLY SHOCKED TO HEAR THAT THERE IS SO MUCH VIOLENCE IN OUR HOUSEHOLDS, THE PLACE WHICH SHOULD BE THE SAFEST IN THE WORLD. IT'S SO AWFUL TERRIBLE!! OUR MAIN GOAL SHOULD BE TO FREE WOMEN AND CHILDREN FROM DOMESTIC VIOLENCE!!

[@sophiaquintana256]

0:03 The fact that this was based on a true story makes it sadder than it already is

[@carmenbarracks3615]

My mom was kicked, beaten and a Pepsi bottle shoved down her throat, the glass one actually, I were only 4 years old I still cried for my mom. Although it was years ago but I am still feeling the pain for her, I just cant seem to get over the abuse my mom suffered, one night after my dad beat her, she decided that enough was enough. She started to leave but he wouldn't let her.

[@xxfisherxxdonut7858]

Omg what happend? Is she okay now?

[@dawnfinch2836]

I pray she is safe and well now ❤

[@mnlight8308]

What happened to her? I hope shes doing okay

[@candycanecones1097]

I literally got teary eyes watching this! Those poor kids.

[@sunev24]

It took a while for me to get out of my abusive ex husband, and he got away from the crime he did. Even though there’s a strong evidence. This is really painful to watch cause it brings back all the memories

[@dreewebster3914]

Im glad your ok now

[@jeevigiri6832]

Dont wry sister. He ll pay off one day

[@SabeeraHausa]

I agree with you. It's excruciating. This is still a patriarchal society, and justice for women is scarce. Despite society claiming women do get justice, it's non-existent. I wish you every success and happiness, Venus Flores xx

[@soccerqueen9228]

Thank you for getting the message out. When this happens, the children and non-abuser need to unite just like this to get out of their horrid lives.

[@davidcolella9370]

I was a Police Officer in the nineties in Sussex. One day,I had to deal with a death message,a young man in his late twenties,had crashed his motorcycle and was killed. As is usual,I got all my information from the control room,made sure that it was correct as I was sure this was going to be devastating news for the family. I knocked on the door,very nervous,there’s no feeling like it. A woman came to the door and I asked her for her name,she confirmed she was the dead man’s wife and that he had indeed got a motorcycle. I broke the news to her and waited for the scream,the shouting and Ofcourse the complete devastation. Nothing happened,she just stared at me and asked me to repeat what I had said. I did so,she asked me if I was sure,I said that he would need to be identified but we were as sure as we could be. I could not believe it as she cried out and shouted” Thank god,he won’t be back,” she demanded that 8 come in and promptly phoned her mother and made me tell her the news over the phone. The next thing I heard was the phone go dead and five minutes later,a car speed up and come to halt outside. This lady and the wife then hugged each other and cried for several moments but......... They were not tears of sorrow..... they were tears of joy. You see,I had just told a woman who had suffered domestic violence and degrading abuse for several years,that her abuser would never be coming back. She apologised time and time again,but said many times that no one could ever imagine what it could be like,to suffer the trauma and pain for so long,only to be delivered from it. So sad that a woman and her family felt relieved at the death of a man and that this was far from a sad occasion but one where her life and he children’s lives would get better.

[@shoaibhaq8680]

Each week two women getting killed?... That's so sad

[@urmotivation7638]

This made me cry because it does happen to me on a daily basis.

[@jazyj3599]

ur motivation you should get help rn people like him are very dangerous and you could die plz tell someone who will help you or call the police

[@fortnitehacks383]

Hey,just wanted to see...if you're doing better?💓💓

[@janiya.m807]

This story is very sad but i hate that men who abused them

[@hannahgrace7038]

Pissed off

[@theeoneandonlyyy2471]

You don't even know him. Or how he actually is

[@Shunoh4ra]

Don't hate the guy, hate the character he played.

[@kevindiaz1319]

This was hard to watch. I was abused practically everyday from a father who thought it was right. To this day i want him in prison. But i have to wait to leave to the military and never see these people until court.

[@alex-falconer]

There is strength in sharing Kevin, build your support networks, never let them isolate you!

[@aarumathers9430]

Hey! Hope you're okay Stay strong everything is going to be alright

[@isabella169]

Me watching this and crying bc I've been through domestic abuse and how much I can relate

[@OnlyTheChronic]

DV topics are part of my everyday life. I write, research, & speak on it. I scour KZbin for videos like this and hands down, no questions... this one is THE BEST and it really hit me hard. I was holding my breath, my muscles tightened up, and I even shed a few tears and I've watched countless videos like this without batting an eye but this one is very different, it captured everything and left no detail uncovered. It really felt like I was witnessing a real escape and every actor/actress just totally nailed it every single second of this film. You could feel the rage and you could feel the fear. I must at least do an article on this and may even do a commentary on it if I can get your permission. I'm going to link back to it so my Readers can watch & subscribe. Standing ovation from me. Thank you so much for making this film.

[@alex-falconer]

Thanks so much for your comment, it's mind blowing to me that this little film of mine it still connecting with people so many years after I released it. More than happy for you to do a commentary on it! Thanks again for your kind words!

[@Cherry003_]

My dad is the same. He tortures my mom and blames her for everything. He used to abuse my brother as well even once he tried to actually kill him. My brother left home a few months ago and now my dad blames and abuses my mom even more. I wish i could stop this

[@aarumathers9430]

Hey? Are you okay?

[@EASY_Scenarios]

Call NSPCC

[@lovepower4899]

Call child protective services . Call the police . Tell your school, tell everyone so they can know and get help. Tell your mom to get out

[@HollyFayHolverson777]

Yes definitely get the word out about what a POS he is. There are 2 things you can do. (Oh, and don't count on the cops or criminal justice system to protect you because they likely WONT. Although you should call the police every time he hits your mom. Press charges If you can. This could come in handy because it will prove to the courts that abuse took place at the home. Report or no report, document everything. Note the time of day, the reason (or EXCUSE) your sperm donor hit your mom. For example, he was mad because dinner wasn't served on time. Or, he was mad because your mom dumped his "precious" bottle of whiskey down the kitchen sink. Or whatever sets off that hair trigger temper he's clueless on how to control. Then, describe the assault. I know it wont be pleasant but it's necessary if you want him to stop. I'm not gonna lie to you in that he won't stop on his own. And I'm truly sorry you have deal with a grown up who act more like an ill.mannered 3 year old. NO ONE DESERVES TO BE TERRORIZED OR BEATEN UP. If possible, catch it on camera (cell phones can record and allow the user to be inconspicuous. Do NOT let him catch you no matter what. Live footage is always best but it's okay if you document the info by hand. Just include as much detail as possible. What I'm about to say next is pretty extreme. You can choose to not take my suggestion. However, if it was me, I'd do it in a New York minute. You want him to stop, yes? Again, people like him almost never stop on their own. This, WILL stop him in his tracks. And NO MATTER WHAT THE COPS OR PROSECUTORS TRY TO FEED YOU, YOU CLAIM IT AS SELF DEFENSE FOR.YOUR MOM. Because you were convinced your sperm donor was going to kill your mom. The next time your dad has your mom down on the floor, you pick up a base ball bat, a 2 by 4 board, a poker for the fire place, a large rock or the nearest heavy object you can lift but still able to swing, and you imagine his head is a baseball and you're Babe Ruth about to hit that ball from the ball park to Central.Avenue or Times Square. In short, you bash his pathetic empty head in just as hard and as fast as you can. Dont just tap him because he'll retaliate and you both could wind up dead. Quietly sneak up behind him and just do it. I know it wont be easy but your dad will likely wind up killing your mom. Is that what you want? Your mom dead? You HAVE to be strong. Please. I was disturbed at the scenario that played in my mind by your comment. Again I'm so sorry you have to deal with such BS. Please do this because your mother's life deypends on it. You will all be in a much better place without him! No more having to witness that genetically challenged MONSTER who terrorizes everyone in your home. You can live, work and play in peace. I firmly believe NO FATHER is better than a TERRIBLE sperm donor (he's not a father, he's an evil ROTTEN TO-THE-?CORE misfit of science). Do call the cops (yeah I know they're pretty dang useless most of the time. They'd rather issue speeding tickets to little old ladies. A quick.side bar about cops. Over 40% of police officers physically abuse members of their own families. Google search Police officers and domestic violence and that info will appear. Those are facts). You will have to call the cops. Dont tell them anything other than you want to speak to attorney. They have to stop any interrogation they might want to conduct. DO NOT TALK TO THEM except to tell them you thought your dad was gonna kill your mom and that you were trying to protect her and nothing else. Because those interrogators have years of training and experience in the practice of deception. They will and can blatantly lie to you to get you to admit to things you never did and all kinds of crap. You DO NOT HAVE TO TALK TO THE POLICE WITHOUT an attorney being present. I've read several cases in which a juvenile injured or killed their abuser and they didn't spend but a day in jail. Just exercise your right to remain silent and it will be worth it. If you need to reach out to.me to keep.me posted on.your situation, you can reply to me on this thread. I'm here to help in any way I can. God bless you

[@Cherry003_]

Thanks everyone for caring… he’s gotten a lot better . I think he understood what he has been doing wrong. Im really glad you all cared this much

[@rosyperez5187]

I just experienced this minutes ago. My heart aches. I wish to grow the courage. I want to leave my marriage so bad

[@manyhats3846]

You will get the courage! Remember, you dont deserve abuse!!They love themselves more than they love their wives.(you ). Who says you deserve such abuse? Take care of yourself now! Be cautious how and when you go.Play dumb until the safest time comes to go.I remember our(children and I) escape. He went to the barn. Clockwork. He had no clue. It was a cold winter night.You need an alibi if they catch you.Something to stoke their ego,or their desires.

[@chuckyandandy7858]

To be very honest, if he was my father, I would probably be locked up now.

[@TommyElijahCabelloReal]

I went through this, but in reverse. Last day of an abusive relationship and a child's struggle to free my mom from it.

[@tizianarodriguez2896]

Very touching especially when youhave lived that situation in your own skin

[@lxndryn4936]

you can see her shoulders relax when he leaves the room

[@sampsonlittle7368]

As a Christian, whenever you are to leave, plead the Blood of Jesus over yourself and your children. Continue to plead the Blood as long as you are going to stay away from him.

[@rickardkaufman3988]

Please Stop Domestic Violence. Please. I don't want to hear any more incidents of abuse as I am sick and tired of how the victims are shamed and are forced to be in their relationship and I wish that Domestic Violence is eradicated.

[@elsadeshmukh97]

Would you help

[@peridotcipher2109]

We need spankings to be illegal too

[@alexmacleod3728]

@Richard Kaufman nice profile pic

[@saturniidmoff]

How unattainable. Not to be pessimistic but that never gonna happen.

[@aliezahjuarez1212]

Too bad you don't help youself use a gun and kill em

[@corrinalynlangdeaux3828]

Old memory 😥 came back😭😭

[@andreapatane4204]

Domestic violence isn't a pleasant thing to do at home and many places near you, because you may get hurt by someone you know and trust (e.g. 👪 members, friends, acquaintances, strangers, etc.). PLEASE program the Domestic Violence hotline in your ☎ at all times, everyone. I believe that everyone should listen to some songs that may ease up their pain of living with an abuser. 👍🏻 if you strongly agree.

[@maranatha8768]

never leave a child with an abuser, and do not leave when they are home.

[@regangerst7019]

There was a guy who was sexually harassing me and talking about me to his friends and it got really bad but my friend helped me get out of that situation.

[@isamay04]

Regan Gerst I glad your friend helped you no one knows what could of happened if it kept happening I’m so sorry you had to go through that ☹️

[@Usandthem31]

That's a good friend. A keeper.

[@santosfamily3019]

😔

[@JT-dj9vx]

I'm glad u have such a good friend and were able to get out 💛

[@holly4059]

As soon as the little boy buried his face in his hands....😭

[@frightbunnymare.]

I have kids but I don't hurt them.

[@shadowx2652]

I know just how they feel. First time seeing a father use a child as hostage. So glad they escaped

[@alinoorani7502]

this hit hard and it shouldn’t have...

[@googleuser1344]

This is so touching. I love the acting

[@jamilasmith9132]

I used to watch these all the time. But it feels too real when it happens to you for real.

[@reneebrady8389]

It feels so wrong to "like" a vid like this, but the message is powerful and heartbreaking. As i type this we are in the middle of a mandated quarantine lock down (I live in NY and we are in isolation for COVID-19) it's terrifying to think of those people dealing with abuse like this and now they have no escape, 24/7 stuck inside and the stress of unemployment, the fears and isolation is going to make everything so much worse...

[@alex-falconer]

Hi Renne, thanks for the kind words, it is indeed a scary time for all of us but particularly those who have no escape from domestic violence right now. More than ever we need solidarity, to check on our neighbours, to provide aid for the most vulnerable and most importantly to have empathy for one another. After this crisis we cannot got back to being a society of competition and separation, we must reimagine what is possible!

[@reneebrady8389]

@@alex-falconer So very true!

[@manyhats3846]

I love the hand SOS signal.Silent signal.You know, hand up, palm outward, thumb folds in ,then 4 fingers fold down. Neighbours, be vigilent!.Everybody has a share to take note,ect. Then take action for the abused! Be their voice!! Be their hero! Imagine its you wanting someone to rescue you. Just Imagine!!! Scarey,eh?

[@trashcan8672]

It's bad that I can relate to this story. It brought me tears.

[@brittanyr.k1731]

On one Christmas eve, my older brother beat my dad with a metal chair because he threw my mom into a dresser then through the bedroom door. I ran barefoot to the neighbors house with my other brother and called the police. He was tased in my front yard and arrested. (He got hooked on drugs from someone at work) I'm really nervous around men, because of that, and other events after. It really sucks that I can't open up to the opposite gender equally anymore.

[@alex-falconer]

Thanks for sharing Britt, I think there will always be that hesitancy around men, the important thing is to have people you can trust around you and to always be aware of the signs if someone is trying to control you. Be open, honest and connect with people, don't retreat, it makes you stronger everyday.

[@debbiemartin8422]

Too be honest my father always beat my mother in different ways..So I never could stay very long in a relationship!

[@bowlersinger]

Not all men are like that.

[@noni3697]

This is so sad ( i have the same dad )

[@galaxycharm_ash26ash4]

💙ur not alone💙

[@rock5955]

the anxiety when he entered the room tho

[@ps7372]

I love how she says to the son, “I promise I’ll come back for you”, because the dad totally won’t kill him while ur gone.

[@leanneheinemann3862]

I can relate to these stories. I grew up in a very abusive home. It breaks my heart. Did it scar me? Yes it did. I have serious mental health issues.

[@pipbaker7341]

Extremely moving to watch this. The effect it must have on the children......glad luke got back with his family xx

[@poggerscat5949]

If I was in the house and i turned 18, I would have him left on the spot!

[@makai2783]

So tough to watch, ty for this video it’s helping spread awareness

[@janetduncan87]

Some women don't make it out alive. I do hope they have the women's shelter there they do here. How can a person be so brutal? I'm glad the boy was reunited with her.

[@bobs1356]

This is terrible on kids, they get so scared and helpless.

[@marcellemccalla6325]

Wow. Really powerful.

[@maryriley6163]

My mother never escaped.

[@haileycarter875]

Sorry 😔✋

[@jenniemuller5341]

This was so touching. It was so good hey doesn’t this have more likes.

[@shaylapatten6586]

There was also a lot of drugs and domestic violence in my family between my mom and dad witch till this day hunts me and I have anxiety now

[@roahabdalla7585]

My aunt now with six kids 5 boys and 1 girl had to deal with this

[@arkellross7867]

My heart goes out them

[@lilhusky8756]

Bruh that dad literally looks like my algebra 1 teacher lol. But I’m not saying he’s mean he seriously look like him

[@a.2672]

my mom was in a abusive relationship with my dad when i was younger, although i didn't know what it was back then but i did know that it wasn't normal because i seen my best friends' parents being all lovey dovey with each other. with all that being said, my mom would have never been here if it wasn't for me and my crying for my dad to stop. when i seen the axe, i knew that he was going too far from before. i obviously told my two siblings who were 4 and 2 to go in our bedroom for JUST IN CASE it did happen. i was 7 and i didn't care about myself but my siblings' innocence. that day marked the most traumatizing experience in my life, i know i saved my mom but i always think the worst of what could have happened if i did go into the bedroom when my mom cried for me to go. i just hope that my two sisters don't remember that day.

[@katyknott6726]

what an amazingly made film

[@highwindsclarke2685]

My late father used to treat me like that. He did not recognize the law and he threatened to put me in a wheelchair. He was mentally unstable.

[@SkeleTre]

This one really got me. When I was a young lad, my sister and I would cower in fright at the sound of the garage door opening. Always hearing screaming downstairs when we were trying to sleep for school next morning. Mom would rush to take all the pots and pans out of the lower cupboards, just so we could hide. If she was away, we would scamper up to our rooms to avoid the belt lashings or be tossed into the "time out corner" just even for leaving a few things on the stairs to bring up. The verbal, mental, and physical abuse has only gotten worse over the years. He's 60 and I'm 28. I'm terrified to even sleep or shower, with this guy around. It's like walking as quietly as possible, on broken glass and egg shells. If I could add some of the utterly awful and vulgar things he says, I would. The other night, he threatened to thrash my face into a toilet. There are bruises from the times he's smashed me, even when I'm driving safely as the designated one. Then, everything is fine and dandy. Somehow the mood entirely flips, and we're having fun, playing games, laughing, etcetera. It's an absolute nightmare. He even said "I know it's sad, but I'm intentionally trying to make your life miserable to GET YOU TO MOVE ON." With much more curse words. But that prevents progress when there's this constant looming and controlling, aggressive bully breathing over your shoulder. The screaming, cursing, gaslighting, and much more... Judgements and complainints about the smallest things. Denying what he said moments after being spoken. I haven't slept in weeks. He even threatened to take the door off my room, when I'm peacefully working from home or minding my own business. There are several more horror stories that I don't want to think about. I just don't understand.

[@simple_injoy]

i know am late. Are you better now? i care

[@SkeleTre]

@@simple_injoy - Thank you for caring, it means a lot. I forgot writing this silly unnecessary essay, and usually never overdo comments, but things are tons better with family now. Safe in a music house with good buddies. Hope things are well with you too, much love!

[@simple_injoy]

@@SkeleTre thank you so much, and good to hear you are better! Best regards and luv (this is propably wierd translated haha)

[@chickenuggies333]

I'm sorry you had to go through that 😥 I was never abused but seeing reading all of these comments makes my heart hurt. You are worthy and loved. The people who have hurt you do not deserve you

[@chickenuggies333]

P.S please take care of yourself

[@adam2.075]

The dad is doing the best acting in this film.

[@mariancounsellor]

Parents are supposed to protect their children so they’re not exposed to violent, unsafe or negative environments. The mom isn’t to blame but the stress and trauma created by seeing their mom battered and bruised and experiencing their dad’s anger, as well as the tense atmosphere within the home, can’t be repaired when they become adults. It can lead to insecurity, lack of trust, anxiety and attachment issues.

[@charlenelawshea3404]

😡😠 Men like him make me so DAM sick. Evil baster so controlling, I wish my husband would treat me that way.

[@peridotcipher2109]

THATS why I’m kinda lesbian bi ace

[@saturniidmoff]

Wait you wish your husband would treat you like that. You weird

[@SL-vx5cg]

I Feel So Sorry For These Kids I Know Its Acting And The Acting In This Is Brillant Too. :(

[@magicmoonart]

I had that chime thing from the beginning! The one that plays somewhere over the rainbow. It was a mobile hook that had a little bunny on it

[@rumanavlog12]

This should be get more views,likes, comment

[@buckylovesplums_6731]

It has plenty

[@fortnitehacks383]

@@buckylovesplums_6731 now it does.

[@ragewontstop2234]

Amazing acting 😔😖 👏

[@TYE2020]

Subscribed keep on shining like u do follow where your heart goes 👍🏾 stay positive always be yourself

[@rainrowan4939]

Very well acted.

[@shrekisbae8467]

I can relate to this and it was posted on my birthday

[@spillingslowed1396]

I did not expect to be cry in the vedio it felt so real :'(

[@freedom2563]

It's sad how this happens in real life

[@christiancolarusso5835]

I mean my dads yelled at my mom once in a while but he would never put their hands on her no male should every put her hands on a female people like this should be imprisoned you should never hit a women

[@bryanne1545]

This man threw a effing banana. Smh😑

[@slaylmao1928]

This film was so incredible that I believed it. I hate the dad so much that’s how good the acting was in this film.

[@deirdrestewart4394]

Breaks my heart to watch this the effects by the abusers on women and children are beyond words now many years out of this damaging situation payed a big price for mentally physically and at the time my children suffered many psychological issues my family where failed over and over by services and to this day im trying to get some sort of justice back then my kids were taking away 2 of which now dead sent to mental health hospitals i spent 20years in and out of psychiatric hospitals NIRELAND now knowing what my issues were all about that they failed to recognise but if getting AWARENESS is something that needs to be circulated in what ever way to help others SOMETIMES YOU HAVE TO BREAK THE SILENCE ! NO MATTER WHO DOESN"T WANT TOO HEAR IT!

[@robbiesouthall8031]

This is very similar to the movie the burning bed.

[@pingupenguin1256]

my names Ivy so when I first heard him shout it I jumped

[@lanceelliott2504]

I was the one comforting my brother when my dad would go ballistic