ESCAPE THE FRIENDZONE WITH HOT GIRLS

[@sadiapsychology]

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[@TheBigExclusive]

If you want to escape the Friendzone, then just date a different girl. The original girl will get jealous and upset.

haha so true just took a neighbor girl out to a food truck fair she kept talking about her boy friends ect and once we arrived at the fair I friend zoned her and moved on women at the fair great day

[@biggerbitcoin5126]

Only works if the new girl is hotter or on par

[@Luk-ne2wb]

​@@biggerbitcoin5126why would you date someone not atractive anyway?

[@PhoneNHe]

hit the nail

[@dishenharilal4437]

Absolutely! Never beg someone to be with you.

[@Disashisoul]

"You should lose attraction to a woman who's not attracted to you." THANK YOU FOR SAYING THIS SADIA! Guys, have some self RESPECT! (Ladies too haha)

[@FargoFinal]

Yes, this I needed this too.. 'I could change her' yeh thats so stupid and then we fall for the delusion of 'the long game' and waste our time

[@jinnantonix4570]

One step further to this is to accept the friendship anyway and use it to find more women who ARE into you. Spin plates. Let the cream rise to the top. Eventually a woman will choose you, and when it is right it will be obvious.

[@nightmareTomek]

Bs. "You should lose attraction to a woman who's not attracted to you." means don't be a creep. And "men desexualize themselves" is exactly the opposite statement. They go into the friendzone willingly, because otherwise they find themselves in the creep zone or as an offender. Only those men that have the permission to show sexual interest actually do it. Seriously, Sadia... and people eat up everything she says, just unbelievable.

[@Disashisoul]

@@nightmareTomek No, it means people, both men and women, should have some self-esteem. If someone consistently finds me unattractive or shows me that they don't want me, at some point it's in my mental and emotional interest to understand that they really might not be (and probably aren't) the person for me. And it would likely be wiser and more mentally healthy for me to seek out a connection with someone who reciprocates back my affection, or at least shows me that their door is open for me in some way.

[@jinnantonix4570]

@@nightmareTomek Forced to be a friend so you are not a creep? That's BS. Who cares what she thinks? If she isn't attracted, and she isn't going to be a friend (without effort), then have some self respect and just walk away.

[@jessebradford7130]

To not be in friendzone, DON'T ACT LIKE YOU'RE HER FRIEND!

[@ArneAsada69]

Avoid the friendzone by only going on dates with females who show high level of enthusiasm for you. Ignore all the rest. They are a drain on your mental and emotional capacity. Save yourself for girls who are grateful towards you.

[@marioleclerc4566]

I agree with Sadia be friend with women even if you are attracted to. As Sadia says you could learn a lot from her. And also, you get to know her much better cause you got a bigger and better picture of who she really is. Last, if you keep the friendship or accept friendzoned you may realize that attraction fades away for romantic relationship. So men have as many women friends as you can and enjoy the journey!

[@LaLaBlahBlahh]

It’s definitely possible to escape the friend zone. Several people in my life are in relationships that started when the guy was very friendzoned.

[@Leahmindbodysoul]

I love how blunt you are sadia you make me laugh but only because its so true in what you say. Love it! Thanx for making me smile

[@jimarger8533]

I welcomed the friend zone from my girl 41 yrs ago and once or twice since as she has from me. Now... We're each other's best friends which at 75 & 76 is great.

[@cactusjackhausen8508]

Is she your wife/partner?

[@ryryk6977]

If she wanna friendzone you block her

[@flaviovms]

These 2 dudes really extracted Sadia's best.

[@nightmareTomek]

Sadia talks bs from minute 0:30

[@dend1]

Part of self respect is to move on after the girl isn't feeling you. Don't overly attach to someone whos actions don't merit attachment. This isn’t hollywood. Sure you may have been less than perfect, but the girl likely has personal reasons why she isn't feeling you on top of everything else. Tragedy of some women is that they sometimes can't get themsleves out of the friendzone between them and other men who may be good for them. Her loss, tons of women out there , if you can't move on then this has more to do with your personal psychology overselling her to yourself

[@DrMortezaChalak]

well said. They give compliments the same way as a email would do that. I have seen it happen

[@Tonyextreme27]

There’s no real way of escaping of the Friendzone.

[@conniethehoarder]

? friendzone just means the person has ulterior motives, there are friends who actually enjoy each others' company bc they're fun or interesting or they're good people

[@cactusjackhausen8508]

Did she really just say "I'm very good at friendzoning myself to the point where my male friends just can't sexualise me" and believe it? Does she own a mirror? Does she know men?

[@philjones5555]

everybody wants what they don't have.

[@andrewrice9383]

It’s pretty straightforward, if you wanna be friends, just be friends, and then if you want to be romantic just start being romantic. It’s pretty straightforward, don’t really get it. it’s just basic assertiveness and sense of self, very simple. I can concede that it can be hard, simple but hard.

[@StillYearZero]

With enough exes to fill most of Texas I’m starting to miss the friendzone. Hanging out without the drama has its perks.

[@musicbrazilian7065]

Men have mom issues also my ex told me his mother was mean to him. He could not care for my safety he was literally a user, I got rid of him.

[@dend1]

I can attest to becoming friends with a girl I like, and the more I get to know her, the more I notice some incompatibility. The mind still wants to sweep it away for the experience to see if the fantasy I hold around her is real, but at the same time I'm overall less attracted than I was to begin with. TLDR Male sex drive is still willing to see for itself what her truth is in bed, but I'm overall less excited about the total package and would need convincing to think as highly of her as I once did. I would probably not want more than a friend's with benefits situation unless she changed her flaws at this point, where as before I was all in for a relationship

[@b9479]

It's simple, if a woman doesn't like you, like you like her, leave her alone, she doesn't owe you and you don't owe her anything

[@defiantrascal6214]

What if she friendzones you but you win the lottery? Most women would change their mind, no problem.

[@_bigmoneyscheme_6556]

But you didn’t win the lottery, did you? 😂😂😂

[@nightmareTomek]

@@Shinobi802 as if she weren't anway?

[@cactusjackhausen8508]

Because they find access to resources attractive. Would be the same if Sarah plain & tall suddenly turned up with a curvaceous body. You would be more attracted to her than before....that's the same thing that happens to women when a man has money. It's hardwired

[@unavailablerightnow6792]

What podcast was she on, Where can i find full episode. Thanks ❤❤

[@whitneywilliams317]

Im in the friend zone it doesn't bother me 🤷🏾‍♂️. Because once another girl enters the picture, you out friend zone and dont even know it. Jealousy and competition will start between the homegirl and the girl your courting. Thats a fact.

[@dwightrgibsonjr81385]

Strong Pull Through

[@adrianD4]

you don't get it. A man will never speak to a girl unless he finds her attractive, otherwise you are invisible and annoying when you keep talking to us. As she said, you'll get a bit of insight on how women think, but make no mistake, they will never be a long term friend, so if you have no experience stick around for a while, get some insights and move on, stop wasting time around women that you are not sexually involved with, they will drag you down just like porn does.

[@alyzak.8997]

caveman

[@mrhuss4939]

Nowadays if a guy compliments her it’s wrong. It’s only right if he is at least rated 8/10. Otherwise men get called creeps. Let’s be real here.

[@FargoFinal]

Yup , even if you are considered to be in the top 20%, you've established some sort of connection or know her ..One little comment she finds wrong, ill intended and you're out.

[@fritz1990]

Reality says, women are lost it's time to leave them behind.

[@stldogcash]

“Oh god damn you look great today” 😂

[@maxhung69]

rhumbnail much better. you are very pretty without the photoshop.

[@Cameron-j4d]

Sadia, if you tell your male friends you wanna sleep with them they won’t say no.. ok do not fool us

[@nicolasbravo-camino488]

Can only be friends with a girl I have NO attraction to. Period

[@TearsoftheSun218]

This was good ❤

[@snowman9642]

Just be patient, you’ll be next in line.

[@tarigel-kithiri6619]

Thx God for creating us also man n woman....

[@ProsperbutThrive]

Can someone help me with this one... I have a friend, we started hanging out more after i broke up with my last ex. After being around her for a few weeks, i started liking her. So, we had a conversation and i told jer that j was developing a crush on her. After that conversation, i was pretty much rejected. Now, we still spoke and hang out after that mainly because we are each others accountability partner (we have similar goals so were helping each other reach there). Now that was all in January of 2024. As time went by, we hanged out more and more, she would being me food coming over to my place as well, even when she would ask me if id want anything, id tell her no and she would still surprise me with something, ect. Now, a few weeks ago, she asked me this question "hey, remember when at the being you had feelings for me? What would you do if it actually went through" now, i was so caught of guard! I didnt even have a proper answer, i just told her "i dont really know because i never thought of it going that far because nothing never happened" now idk, i wanna believe now she may have developed feelings for me, but im just confused. Someone please help me out on this

[@onlyone2948]

The monetary system is one big challenge. People often talk about older men marrying younger women. In my youth, I had experience with older women to be skeptical of that wisdom. From a young age, I had the sex drive, and other matters, but not the money. Women want a man with financial means, emotional support, sexual support, and more. It is not always easy to have it all. Calculus and physics were among my high school courses. Though I was accepted for industrial engineering by both universities that I applied to, it seemed wise to go into the military first. Frankly, much of basic training was enjoyable, particularly the obstacle course, marching, and throwing the hand grenade.

[@NicholasVaccariello-pr2cg]

I friend zoned you Jasmine….. you gotta try to get out….

[@brandenicole7]

Why do ppl even have a problem w rejection.. I encourage it to some degree..

[@cactusjackhausen8508]

Rejection = abandonment Abandonment = death

[@pkmnchampionryan8870]

Just to walk away and say no

[@bricelegendnducho]

A true man will know that and move on from that attraction because thats just the first love even,

[@ablemedia8763]

U r not anomaly. Confess your love to them and see. Seriously.

[@mysterio1570]

I can see women getting a lot of Male friends, than vice versa. Men want women for physical affection needs. Women want the conversations and attention. At this stage of my life. I have about 4 female friends and thats it. The rest are aquintances.

[@franknada8235]

My bro has some daddy issues. He from time to time hit mum because she was confrontational to his behaviour (born of his traumas. Coping mechanisms.) which was bad but she too made things worse. It ended in divorce, he most at fault but she too. So my bro got stuck in seeing dad as a villain and became a big simp. His wife has kind of control over his emotions and he won't easily see when she's the reason to problems, especially externally, so he will lash out on others about things that actually are unnecessary problems that she created because she's simple and emotional. This deeply affects relations outside their relationship. He wouldn't be able to walk away and she lacks respect in many ways. I could tell him about it but his simpyness creates a boundary that triggers cognitive dissonance so he won't listen. Dad's been dead since our teen years so interaction with him isnt even possible. Hopefully he figures out one day how he has put some women on pedestals and simps so much. I got over the mum&dad thing as soon as I grew up.

[@FargoFinal]

What this guy want's to say is .. 'Guys are friends with girls that they find attractive' with that said yeah she could be cold, neurodivergent, knows her quirky or weird side of her but if he finds her attractive he'd still wants her or keep the fire up to the day cracks are showing to swoop in hahah.

[@TarekTarek-ws4ql]

My gosh.....she has answers for everything .....full or certitude... What does miss Sadia achieve in her life?.... Let me Guess .... A rich husband? An alpha mâle?

[@nightmareTomek]

OMG that already doesn't start well. Men desexualize themselves because if they show sexual interest in a girl that isn't reciprocating, they avoid the friendzone just to get into the creepzone or even an offender. Sadia sugarcoats this. So much for being a Dr.

[@Dollaupt]

Just give her compliments every now & then but also keep your distance but when you are around her make sure you flirt that’s how you stay out the friend Zone cause even if she wanted to put you there your actions is showing her you not looking for a friend she gonna go with it or she not

[@1tavell]

Factse right there also u telling a girl u like they hair is just have the swag to play with it flick it cause the way u say things matter I've learned the hard way

[@Luk-ne2wb]

Sadia, I love your work and your podcasts but I have a question. What is the alternative to porn? What a single man can do to in order to live normally (without insane obsession of sex)? How should we keep our standards about quality of women withour porn? For many, it is the only reasonable way to fullfil the desire for sex, without compromizing on real men standards and entertaining wrong women? How can we limit our libido otherwise? BTW: There were experiments where a woman was injected male-dose of testosteron for a day and her libido automatically doubbled or even quadrupled.

[@photographyenthusiast9941]

There are women with sex drives that are equal to or which exceed the sex drives of men. They manage without sleeping around or watching porn. Part of the reason the sex drive was made so intense was to inspire us to seek out marriage partners, and those same sex drives would be intense enough to serve as the glue keeping couples together. Seek first the Kingdom of God and all these things will added to you….absolutely. Interesting though is that our sex drives can be utilized for other purposes…and no doubt can push us to work toward goals and on ourselves in order to nab someone. Most people want the rewards with little effort….hence porn and promiscuity. Keeping yourself busy and your mind occupied helps immensely. If you were on a diet but you allowed yourself a slice of cake every night, you’d quickly realize that even that would be too much temptation ruining your efforts. It’s sometimes better to tuck desires away until the appropriate time meets you.

[@markuswunsch]

Honestly if I didn't end up in the friendzone then women were gold-diggers, so I finally turned to professionals as they're more honest than the average woman... screw that whole dating thing...

[@VitoCorleone8]

Ironic, this psychologist believes she is/was the anomaly when it came to having “friends” of the opposite sex. How is her POV and reasoning so sound on a host of other issues but yet she sounds like every other attractive woman in the world on male “friends”. It’s hilarious that someone that deals in this as a way of life, still falls for that illusion. If a man wants to be a woman’s friends he wants her either sexually or romantically which means it isn’t a true friendship. The man is lying in wait for an opportunity. Period! Women accept this, learn this.

[@anamericanman]

I am in the friendzone with some three to eight XX at any given time, and I have X with ALL of them.

[@sherinrahim7700]

I love u sister ❤

[@jaytan915]

I tend to think men can avoid being friendzoned by having the courage not to pretend they are totally platonic when they are not. If you make time to be around her, talk to her, try to hold her hand, stare into her eyes when she talks and introduce her to your mother, then your only danger is to be turned down. Agreed with Sadia on another issue which I paraphrase, an uninterested woman should be a turnoff for a healthy man. Maybe it can work this way. A man should be working hard to be the best whatever he wants to be, improve things and make the future better. Along the way, some girls will show some interest in your effort and progress. Accept a nice girl into your life and start a family with her.

[@spartanghost9713]

💯💯💯💯

[@umaralvi2746]

Allow me to offer a piece of advice to you all: if genuine happiness is your ultimate goal, focus on one aspect at a time. Men are wired to concentrate on a single task, so avoid multitasking. If you're prioritizing women, you might compromise your personal growth and development, including your career. Instead, establish a stable career and wait until you're at least 25. By then, you'll be ready to find a quality partner to share your life with." Or, in a more concise and elegant form: "Focus on one thing at a time to achieve true happiness. Prioritize personal growth and development, including your career, before seeking a meaningful relationship. Wait until you're established and ready, around age 25, to find a quality partner to share your life with.

[@zaraelizabeth9253]

I don’t think men and women can be friends. It’s a risky situation

[@Leoo117]

I notice you have some things correct, and some things completely wrong. You did well until you recommended a man to keep the woman he likes as a friend. That's wrong and it would be a disingenuous friendship. You gave this advice because you don't fully understand how attraction works for women. The correct thing to do is to let her know that you are not interested in friendship because you like her romantically, so she can give you a call if she changes her mind, then if she does call, the man makes a date. You've personally never experienced your attraction go up for a man you've friendzoned because you hadn't met a man you've friendzoned with the courage to walk away from a woman he likes and who is also direct and decisive. I'm telling you this so that you don't mislead men on what to do in the friendzone situation. You say there is no hope, but there is always hope if the man learns to be congruent with what he truly wants and is a mature adult about it. Also, men only get friendzoned because they act more feminine than the woman by not being fully honest with the friendship vibe they put out. So you had that part right.

[@Peaceful_waters]

Everyone is programmed oneway or another

[@andreatorluemke4982]

And therapy. Two years of weekly therapy with a bad ass therapist will heal almost anything amen❤

[@Iowkxy]

The chick spits game like water bro damn

[@quietmind33]

The Gods are perfect, but they envy us humans. It‘s because we are flawed and mortal. Our love is momentary. And everything is more beautiful and precious when it is momentary and doomed to end. Someday you will come to appreciate that our love was true and beautiful. And when it ended, it was never more beautiful. Because to lose a good thing makes it more beautiful than ever. You know darling? When you became involved with someone else, you quite possibly took a step down. Had you stayed involved with me, we could have made the gods jealous. Perhaps thats why we broke apart. The gods are envious after all of a love so passionate and electric and caring, because in the perfect flawless and immortal love of the gods, they lose the beauty of what we had. I loved the existence you bestowed upon me and I saw my destiny in your eyes. I closed my eyes and felt our hearts come together and I never felt more certain of anything. How deeply in love I must have been? How engulfed in beauty? All thats left for me to say is thank you, for it seems our love is as free as it is momentary. I will never forget you because our love pissed of those perfect gods and electrified me to become a better person

[@quietmind33]

You made me a god

[@tarigel-kithiri6619]

The road to lgbt is very wide these days....careful people

[@mariomalmanza]

that's easy...become a millionaire....another way is become a billionaire... Its that easy.... hahahaha!!! She just doesn't wanna say that cause it would reveal really how easy women are around millionaires

[@333333joshua]

I wonder if I favor women. I liked being around attractive women mostly, and I wasn't vary interested in hanging out with guys

[@tarigel-kithiri6619]

The road to lgbt

[@davidfuturissimo467]

How much of a loser should you be to be friends with a chick that's not into you instead of just going to talk to the next 15 girls that day 💀

[@ACMR6297]

I think this is a miss from Sadia and I think it stems from the fact she can’t fully appreciate the anguish a lot of guys suffer when they’re not sexually selected by their love interest. Just think it’s weird that she recommends accepting being friends early on the video when people don’t want that. Also strange how she compared women being friendzoned too because they are too passive; it doesn’t make the whole friendzoning thing okay but she makes it seem like a justification. Last quarter of the video she saves herself though with some excellent advice. Legit thought she was doing mental gymnastics for most of the videos or just out of reality.

[@neilus]

I dont even make it to the friendzone LOL

[@Blueblackngold]

No

[@kendrick_eyan_otega1159]

That guy keeps cutting her short

[@marcin3136]

This has always been my biggest problem and I still don't know how to do it... How do you get into this "friend zone"? And what's there? Do you talk to women about shopping? :D

[@nightmareTomek]

No, it's about being born in the top 20% or not.

[@marcin3136]

I guess you didn't understand the joke... Women want to be with me, and even if they were my friends for a very short time, they quickly didn't want to be anymore. That's why I don't have any female friends anymore (it ALWAYS ended in bed and "they wanted something more from me"). Why fool yourself that a miracle will happen this time? It won't happen... I'm in 0,001% ;))) Ciaooo...

[@nightmareTomek]

@@marcin3136 And you really thought the arrogance wasn't obvious in your first comment? Well, why fool yourself (it was obvious, very much so indeed).

[@marcin3136]

@@nightmareTomek All right ;))) You don't have to be jealous... ;) Narcissus? :D Ciaoooo....

[@nightmareTomek]

@@marcin3136 No, it's fine. I'm just tired of the amount of bs I'm hearing and seeing today. Ciao.

[@maxhung69]

i watched the full interview. these guys aren't attractive (looks 5-6) but you pandered to them. this sends the wrong message to other men that they're better looking than they really are. I am huge fan because your values are so similar to mine (I grew up catholic). please be honest in your videos n interviews.

[@KarandusHarkness]

SADIA SO DAMN FINE 😩

[@MrZola1234]

Her ideas on porn omare goofy wrong.

[@oliverhaar2168]

✌🏻

[@JAYWRITE-h3e]

❤❤❤❤ 1:06 ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 1:14 ❤❤❤❤sadia way to much knowledge 😂😂😂 ask her harder questions make her sweat please 😂😂😂❤❤ 1:50 one indicator 😂😂😂 educational knowledge answers 2:11 its 😮over 😂😂😂 2:17 men wake up😮 2:25 sadia ❤❤❤❤ to much facts 2:36 ❤❤❤❤

[@JAYWRITE-h3e]

Sadia ❤❤❤❤🎉🎉🎉🎉

[@thetruthrenegade]

You get out of the Friend Zone by Not giving a "F".... Just like I don't give a "F" about this conversation......

[@gabrielpacana8596]

You can't be in the friendzone if you were never wanted by women.

[@TheBoujeeHippie]

Sadia speaking truth for every woman nothing you can do. no. bahaha

[@BLUECNOTE2024_REALONE]

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