I've struggled with porn most of my life, and I was out of control when I had multiple affairs during my 4-year marriage. We divorced a year and half ago now, and I'm still ashamed of myself because I felt like an addict, and I couldn't control myself. I know with the woman I pursued while I was married, it was physical lust that overtook me. Was it something that was missing from my relationship, perhaps, but instead of suggesting my wife did anything that led me to lying and cheating, I did what I did, and I have to face the responsibility for my actions. I'm on my way to healing and no longer being controlled by my urges.

I wouldn't say you have a problem...

Sadia, you are fucking awesome Thank you for helping us rationalize and simplify the uncertain concepts, these are valuable lessons in life that help us be better, self analyze, and be prepared... Keep it coming

I am absolutely loyal. I am overconfident .

I agree😅if they want to marry one more just let them😂Let them fool around n find out.

No we don’t

Disagree

Money

Is this Kim Kardashians or what??

This guy was born yesterday

We tell women what we want but most but not all women do not take us serious. We do not make enough money, we are not handsome like Brad Pitt. You have no problem in giving Chad and Tyrone attention. We men are tired and confused.

lol just asked him if he’s been cheated on

And Egypt will they end up in a good position??

Sadia, your perspective is illuminating!! Well done!! Your take away from the exchange shows your ability to learn and respect a dissenting point of view. Sadly Matthew sidestepped the question. Allow me to share my brief point of view. Why does a woman accept to live with a man and give him access to her body? Respect. She found a man worthy of her. Her joy is to give herself to him. And she will rebuff any man because she has one she loves and respects. And she will guard that respect with her life if possible. She will protect the "Yes" she said to him. But if she makes the decision to give herself to another man, if she is decides to give to another man what makes her relationship sacred , she has lost respect for her man.

"Life is like a box of chocolates. You never know which one's the best until you try them all..." ~ Forrest Hump

Love and value yourself and others will love and value you as well ! Excellent Advice

9:08 to 9:15. Marriage is not something that changes as a function of time. Marriage is an INSTITUTION. Marriage means many things, and among them, fidelity to one’s spouse, for the legitimacy of the offsprings cannot ever be in doubt. Marriage = Family. Family means welcoming Children. Anyone have a different set of values”?! Complete BS!!

Just watching him puts me to sleep.

Who's the lady in video with her?

Matthew is completely out of touch on this one. He just doesn’t get it.

"Need" is a strong word. Sex is just another drug. Use in moderation.

“Wealth makes you desirable but it doesn’t make you high value….high value is inaccessible”. NO ONE is talking about this and it could not be more true!

Good Looks, Good Looks, Good Looks!!!

Loyalty and accountability are kryptonite to women.

This guy debating is a simp. 😆 😂😂 he can’t make up his mind. He speaks confused. Shmdh

NO ! You don't know them at all.

Eve nauture aka their language= #Hypergamay Lol everything she just said basically incuded snd pertains to her as well.. so indated of inculding herself and saying "we" shes trying to justify the fact shes in the crab bucket as well so instead she speaking from a perspective where it comes off as "All women in General".... Never listen to words watch these women actions

She’s the best. ❤❤❤

She’s definitely cheating.

I'm 77 - No one has ever "desired" me !

Sadia speaking truths as always

I don’t think men who are cheating are necessarily afraid of their partners. It’s more like the situation they are in. They might love their wife and kids and not want to give up their family so they try to have both. It could also be for financial reasons that they don’t want to leave the relationship or marriage.

I love her, ❤She’s my Geru Love hearing her talk, very intelligent woman

If a man is not in control he's not a man

Sounds like reverse logic.

What we are BY NATURE is no longer relevant for me. What a person chooses to do now or has chosen to do or to become is what matters to me now because THAT is the person that I have to deal with now or choose to not to deal with anymore.

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I definitely learned from this and I do agree on her views. My last relationship I put in so much effort and tried my absolute best and still she left and cheated. I tried to make it work afterwards and now I see how foolish this was. Smh. Well lesson learned.

Well, that was pretty vicious. My sweet and married-virgin lady. Finest in her field.

I agree with Sadia. The guy is just babbling.

This is not true, people can change, i am proof of that....despise it...with a passion...people habe the ability to.change ..bc GOD..GIVES US THAT ABILITY......THAT IS PUTTING A LABEL ON SOMEONE FOR A MISTAKE FOR.LIFE..THATS UNGAIR..PEOPLE MAKE MISTAKES...

Stirring up drama for clicks and responses. Well done.

When you start getting haters you know you’re on the right path!! Ignore them! Haters will always try to rip down your tower because they can’t build their own! Well done you for exposing them! Hold your power! Keep smashing it out there! ❤

How on earth can a man have intimacy with an escort? You telling me you can be intimate with a man who smokes and has smelly cheese under his foreskin. You must be joking.😢

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Is there a gender difference?

But if the logic that cheating is about unmet sexual needs how can you also claim 'once a cheater always a cheater'? What if in the next relationship the needs ARE met??

Hey beautiful. What keeps me single is you are off the market. (Says me, this married guy). 😂😂😂

How to never get cheated on- do the work to learn your worth and walk away from that man. And Sadie sucks