ENTITLED WOMEN

[@sadiapsychology]

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[@lifeisabeginning]

6-1, 38, make 500k a year, in shape, was living in Los Angeles, now I’m living abroad, these women in the usa are done

[@shantiharris2996]

I'm 53yo, Californian, married an Indonesian woman. It's like night and day.

[@CommandoMaster]

6'1'' doesn't mean sh1t.

[@stevemann1299]

Right make sense. You make a ridiculous income. So you are obviously a millionaire already. Wherever you live women are attracted TO MONEY. Let's keep it real. So don't be thinking whether you got a woman IN NEW YORK or BRAZIL a major part of their attraction to you isn't your money. Just don't be that naive....

[@lifeisabeginning]

@@stevemann1299 ok explain this then - the girl im dating right now in colombia (mind you im fluent in spanish), I approached her on the street, we went to a cafe for our first date where I spent $3 on her. Money?

[@stevemann1299]

@@lifeisabeginning You are a millionaire. And you are worried about dropping her $100 on a meal. Make that make sense. You are either extremely tight or lying. In case nobody told ya bub. You arent taking a penny of that money with you when you croak. And in a place like Colombia where alot of sex tourists are getting attacked some even killed. That could happen sooner rather than later.

[@maGnetar333]

I am a software consultant. 6'1, fit and easy going. Mortgage paid off and financially secure. Never married, no kids. From my extensive dating experience, average looking women can attract high quality men. All that's required to offset the average looks.....HUMILITY, understated confidence, above average intelligence (immune to peer pressure) and a sprinkling of tradional values. That end result can make any average looking woman much more attractive than the 1% super attractive women.

[@stellabellat]

Damn! wanna date? 😅

[@mann8098]

Humility is scarce among women, especially Western modern women. Great comment. I agree completely.

[@ALTheFreeMan]

Totally agree. Average guys can’t get average women because the average women are going after the attractive guys.

[@rabinraj15]

Agreed! Wisdom very well explained... Thx mate 🫡

[@WoodDemonX]

Most likely your boring. What exactly does a software consultant do?

[@linalg10]

“Top Woman Don’t compromise! If they do compromise, they’ll punish you for it!” Heavy lesson there😮

[@girlgoneverde287]

Punishment?

[@linalg10]

@@girlgoneverde287 Punishment, in the form of infidelity, withholding sex (using sex as a weapon), going silent for long periods of time, openly flirting with other guys, being very cold towards you ie. Turning ur dream relationship into a nightmare.

[@gaiusbaltar8915]

The thing is though almost nobody ever wants to compromise. A compromise is always a bad deal. What you want is a solution where you complement each other, where you have a win-win deal. This is more easily seen in a business example. Imagine that you're providing a service to a big magazine. They can't pay you handsomly, but they can make your business their coverstory for the month. Win-win. You providing your service doesn't cost you much to offer and they running a coverstory doesn't cost them much to offer, but both is highly valuable to the other party. That's how you want every relationship to be. You want to be in a situation in which both sides are offering each other things that don't cost them much to do so, but that are highly valuable to the other side. It's like that example when one partner is really into fitness and the other is really into how fit you look. Boom. That's a win-win.

[@brightchin]

@@linalg10 very true

[@zsoltlaszlo5893]

Everyone has a good idea of why women are entitled. Knowing the reason does not make it acceptable. Don't be entitled, it's disgusting.

[@adg8269]

“top women… if they compromise they'll punish you for it” Women in general will show passive aggressive behaviors if they compromised with you, like public or private ridicule, harsh or subtle criticism, or exclusion with family, friends coworkers , leading to shame and embarrassment of being with that man. That’s why becoming your best version and find with someone who admires you is key.

[@awsambdaman]

Unfortunately I’ve seen a lot of relationships like this. Woman settles for man and then clearly doesn’t respect him. It’s impossible to hide and is the guy really even happier for “dating up” if it comes with disrespect and lack of genuine attraction? Probably not

[@spartanghost9713]

You just described my Father/Mother relationship. Its sad to see my dad that way, yeah it just makes me angry to see him being disrespected...

[@agm5424]

The problem is that all relationships are about compromise. You can't leave with another human being without giving up something you like and giving the other something they like. If one isn't humble enough to accept compromise then they don't belong in a relationship.

[@cornwallismorgan874]

"Stop looking for unicorn behavior if you're not a unicorn." Sad when 'unicorn behavior' is simply having good morals, respecting and valuing people, and wanting a healthy, happy, stable relationship.

[@stevemann1299]

Yes but she is right. I know men who are out of shape. And expect Halle Berry. Not gonna happen.

[@StimParavane]

Women crave emotional drama.

[@cristobal.ashton]

good or bad unfortunately

[@StimParavane]

@@cristobal.ashton Took me a long time to realise this.

[@chriselectric1116]

I have a sister,, a FUCKING DRAMA QUEEN, I DO NOT KNOW HOW THIS GUY, HER HUSBAND, PUTS UP WITH HER,. I NEVER MET HIM, NEVER WENT TO THE WEDDING, I REALLY LOST MY SISTER, SHE IS A COMPLETE HEADACHE FOR ANY GUY,. SO VERY SAD...

[@vltruan]

The reality for me is I am an average 5’-8” guy, average income, no debt. Home that is paid off, and yes I’d rather be alone than be with an overweight single mother. She is correct.

[@jrbknyc8785]

I’m 37, 5’8 average blue collar union job , never married, no kids. Extremely fit, do CrossFit, have done martial arts for years, ripped, physically strong , bald but have a handsome face, travelled all over the world , and I have no luck in dating and I def don’t want a left wing feminist or an entitled single mom who wants me to take on her family. I’ve just given up I’ve been single my entire 30s

[@dreamchaser6381]

@@jrbknyc8785 bald and 5'8 part destroyed your chances at life. You need to get leg lengthening to get to at least 6 feet tall. And after that get a hairpiece. But you are already old.

[@omnissiah7247]

@@dreamchaser6381 I'm everything he said but 6ft with a full head of hair, it's not a whole lot better. A leg lengthening surgery isn't going to magically make women less toxic.

[@dreamchaser6381]

@@omnissiah7247 Oh believe me it will buddy. I was 5'9 exaxtly 3 years ago. I was getting mixed signalz and was half successful. Now I am 6'1 with 2 surgeries. I also use small height insoles to give me another 1 inch. So I am a solid 6'2. And for the last year i increased my bodybuilding workout intensitiy quite a lot so I look totally normal with broad shoulders at 6'2. And Now at 27 years old women are thirsting and making the first move. So they definitely ''less toxic''. Their toxicity levels depend on your physical characteristics as a man. But I also have a model tier face. I did some modelling at Armani italia junior. I should mention that.

[@jrbknyc8785]

@@dreamchaser6381 nah I’m just finding fulfillment in other things. Church, jiu jitsu , CrossFit competitions I have had sex with conventionally attractive women. Not tons, but I got lucky a few times in my life. Sure the experiences were few and far in between but I have had sex with women that most guys on the street would say to each other “she’s pretty hot”. And it was fun for the time that it was. But I no longer have the will power to try and pull that off anymore. A lot of it was sheer luck and being in the right place at the right time but I don’t want to deal with the immense effort to try and do that anymore . Especially for single moms that hate men or gold diggers or narcissists . Just not worth it. Haven’t had sex in like two years and it’s not the end of the world unless you think fulfilling sexual desires is the only thing worth pursuing in life

[@jragon9215]

The only thing this confirms is that a dog is a better companion then a women, well done ladies and feminism.

[@gumdeo]

Better morals as well.

[@brianmeen2158]

I can definitely understand how the average guy that struggles to attract women would just not even bother trying after taking this on.. I agree with Sadia 100%

[@jragon9215]

@@brianmeen2158 I don’t like bad risky and risky investments and I’m smart enough to recognize that a women that can take everything you have through divorce, alimony, and child support in a biased court with biased laws a bad and risky investment.

[@johncrow5552]

Diamonds are a girls best friend. A dog is a mans best friend. Says it all doesn't it?

[@OrthoLou]

I hope you're not doing weird peanut butter stuff...

[@jamiefernandes7593]

Life is so much life simpler and purer when you don’t put pressure on yourself to be with a women. Invest in your hobbies, they will always be there for you. A women might not. If you have accepted that you are not fussed about marriage or children then you’ve cracked it! Acceptance is freedom.

[@ArizonaAirspace]

Why? Because weak men, rich ugly men, old rich men spoil them and their adulations at any beautiful women. Very few men try to find out women’s character which has nothing to do with her beauty. A beautiful women could have a beautiful character also but few and far between. Doesn’t mean a plain women have good character either. Every woman is different, individually.

[@spartanghost9713]

💯💯💯💯

[@feuryie]

oh unfortunately the physical has a lot to do with their personality and unfortunately the more beautiful they are outwardly the more hideous they are inwardly. it's not true for all but in my experience, the prettier, the more manipulative, selfish, entitled said person is.

[@ArizonaAirspace]

@@feuryie Not necessarily. Young girls today are ruined by social media because pretty ones gets enormous amount of self validation from weak ugly men. However, that does not all beautiful women are selfish and ugly inside. I’ve met two beautiful girls this year alone who are not only beautiful outside but very sweet inside. Are they little bit selfish? Yes a little but that’s not limited to beautiful women. Ugly women and men can be very selfish too.

[@feuryie]

@@ArizonaAirspace there's always exceptions to the rule. but i have yet to meet a beautiful person on the outside who is equal to that inwardly. but i will agree, women use social media for validation and want to look like... well plastic. tried to tell one that she looked pretty without all the clown make up but she just kept caking it on to look like the clown shows drowning in it. sighs.

[@BMC_377]

I’m not in denial about what I can get, I just want a woman who isn’t fat!

[@garymalone547]

Good luck with that. Make women fit again.

[@brianmihlfeith7135]

This….i feel so bad for you younger guys. I’m old and out of the market (divorced with two kids) but I really worry for my son’s options. 80% of women at age 18 are OBESE. That means that he’s only got 20% of women to choose from. And from that 20%, how many are feminists? It sucks. I’m already preparing him to open his eyes to a foreign wife as an option. These days all men ask for is “Please don’t be fat” and “please don’t be a feminist.” In my high school of 500 kids, we had ONE fat girl and zero feminists. I had a lot of options.

[@theredsamurai]

@@garymalone547 MWFA

[@jimh527]

Buy a plane ticket to Moscow. 😃

[@amangoyal923]

Is that Edward Allan Poe?

[@Lemonysnicket201]

The mental gymnastics men are expected to do to please modern women are just bonkers.

[@brianmeen2158]

Agree and Most rational men that sit back and weigh the pros and cons would logically choose to not bother with relationships. Casual dating and hookups? Yes but long term relationships? Nope

[@bastianogr4960]

Yes. And the big question is: What are men getting in return? Can there really ever be a fair balance?

[@emergentform1188]

Yea this is sickening, it quickly gets to the point where the milk isn't worth the rent and maintenance on the cow.

[@alexanderthehammer5146]

She doesn't seem to understand why being " mean" to women works.

[@chriselectric1116]

its really a waste of our time. go for 4-5,s its more enjoyable, I have been with wealthy women and off the street women, sex was fun, but, neither gave me what I wanted.

[@HadalsameTV]

Even if u listen her u realize that you can never understand wt women want. If you lov her she will hate u, but if u don't love her she will hate u too anyway.

[@edwardsanchez3708]

Exactly. That's what no one ever understands. You always have to keep doing something only for it to eventually backfire on you

[@Boababa-fn3mr]

So never take them too seriously

[@0xshikhar]

😂😂😂 cant agree more

[@PaulBlacklock]

To understand women read The Rational Male book series. All 5 books.

[@NoMoreNarc]

It takes a great man to love/ accept/value a great woman, a high value woman won't be easily influenced by trends, others and money, but she still needs to feel femenine and looked after. Money should never dictate the value of a person man or woman

[@michaelhorner6804]

Bingo !

[@dtybur10]

Feelings matter, so does honesty, humility, and self-awareness. Every relationship is transactional. It is supposed to be the more you give, the more you get. Somehow, the emotional prioritization, skews every other aspect of the male / female relationship. Ingratitude, and acting as if you are entitled to all of the gifts, and none of the graciousness, and acceptance of not always getting every last thing you so greedily want. As a former husband, and boyfriend, I can say that if she is grateful, and sincere, I will move Heaven and Earth, to accommodate. When I ceaslessly endured their nit picking, fault finding, and to absolutely never be satisfied with any effort whatsoever........... Done. Never going back. Living like the Sisyphus, pushing the stone up the mountain, and finding myself at the bottom, only to realize my efforts, will never accomplish anything lasting beyond her next snide remark.

[@chriselectric1116]

THIS IS THE WORLD WE LIVE IN TODAY,..THEY ALL THINK THEY ARE WORTH IT.

[@thewrestlingroom410]

This is gold. Gold. There is so much wisdom here...very uncommon. Much of it is hard truth...hard to swallow by many, but it is reality. We have to live in reality, not in a world that we wish existed. As we teach parents: You must parent the child you HAVE, not the child you WISH YOU HAD.

[@sabinelichtenberger1685]

Yes ❤

[@ryanskyy]

Bless you Sadia. I gave up porn and masterbating and it transformed my dating life and mental health. Your take on how porn leads to voluntary solitude and the excuses are spot on. I found my spiritual health grew after quitting and I could really see clearly the evil forces. pornography preys on the man’s spirit.

[@thepragmatist]

Completely agree. All the best to you.

[@AgisVision]

Really happy for you , glad you choose life 😊😊

[@edwardsanchez3708]

They could say the same thing about social media and the damage it has caused to women and society, but again no accountability for women and the way the world it is shaping the world today

[@mattfm101]

Its been a tool of war used by Israel.

[@JacobHINDI]

Appreciate many of your insights Sadia and much of this makes sense. My experience tells me there are no hard and fast rules except that many people these days get bored and start comparing their relationship to some fictitious fairytale and their family of origin may not have been stable. 🙏

[@nody31]

Chasing a TOP WOMAN appears to be akin to digging around in cat litter trying to find something worthwhile!

[@brianmeen2158]

Sadia is great and speaks the truth - she needs to do a tour and speak at every high school in the country and inform these boys and girls in these issues.

[@ClassicCarCustodians]

This is a US and Dubai issue. Scandinavia is NOT like this. You get the hottest women with just a cup of coffee. If they like you, they like you.

[@andreatorluemke4982]

All Women in my experience know that there are good men out there.

[@spartanghost9713]

But they often don't choose them.

[@alexdavila1356]

Of course. That's why they're willing to wait a very very very very very VERY very very.... very long time for one...

[@spartanghost9713]

@@alexdavila1356 Lol exactly, when they are done being pumped & dumped !

[@stevemann1299]

Not all women are whores Mr. Don't judge all by your narrow mindset.

[@jdcharlie]

If there is no customer, there will be no business. The issue is truly the subscribers not just the OF content creator

[@champfisk5613]

The creator is just exploiting a void in society. Alas those men in the position to be in that group of consumers may not see another viable alternative

[@davida.taylor8444]

@@champfisk5613 Yea, I agree with your sentiment even if I don't condone the behavior. To me, the very high demand for online porn content is indicative of a deeper issue with society of which this is a symptom. If the family structure was strong and men and women's needs were more prone to being met in healthy ways, would unhealthy ways of meeting those needs be in as high demand? Again, not condoning the behavior at all, just providing a little pushback to Sadia's comments about blaming the customer 100%.

[@gumdeo]

@@davida.taylor8444 Sadia is the perfect example of hypoagency.

[@onlyone2948]

A woman in another department once said that people are a mess. I found it amusing, and the best definition for people. 😃😄

[@squeakytoyrecords1702]

@Sadia Psychology To your point about shaming and holding OF subscribers accountable. I recently read a report published by OF. In it they stated 90% of their paying customers are married men. Based on this claim, It would seem the epidemic is of sexless marriages from my perspective. Could you tell me what you think is the reason 90% of paying subscribers on OF are married rather than single men?

[@melenico4512]

I would say minimum 90% of women are average. I understand men look at women's beauty but it is what is out there. This gets even harder for women over 30. Yes they can all get sexual attention but relationship attention is very different. Also a very good point about self control.

[@stevemann1299]

That depends on the EYE of the beholder. I judge a woman's attractiveness by what she does to me downstairs. I have looked at super models and they do NOTHING. And men like you would sell your soul for them. Then I will see a woman and the way she is. The way she moves. And the way she wants me, is far sexier. Than any super model who is often too cold and in love with themselves. To truly give to anyone else..

[@andrewstewart9063]

Following the Onlyfans logic... the drug dealer isn't the problem the users are.

[@jadenc5]

Basic economics isnt it? If theres a demand someone will fill it. Create a lonelyness epidemic and you can sell a lot more porn, create poverty you can sell a lot more drugs. As long as people are willing to escape their problems rather than face them there will be a demand, cause it all boils down to escapism, and someone will fill the demand as long as its profitable.

[@Glyn23]

I don’t use only fans, but if I can get what I want for a couple of dollars, why not. I bought the ex a house.

[@M3NZOTUBE]

Not all logic is transferable to different scenarios. Like yourself, I definitely would not agree that this logic applies to the issue on drugs. However, on the topic of onlyfans I do agree with Sadia, purely because as men it is on us to lead by example. Too many men are lead by what is in between women’s legs. If we collectively made the decision as men to stop watching such content, producers of it would have no audience. Sure women/producers have their part to play in all of this, but I don’t believe as men we should sit around waiting for them to take accountability. After all, we could be waiting for a very long time lol.

[@lisao6928]

Without the users, there's be no dealers is what she's saying. I think both are in the wrong, but there it's basic supply and demand is the point she is trying to make.

[@normangoldstuck8107]

It's perfectly logical. In the Swedish model buying sex is a crime and selling isn't. Only the John's are charged. Many countries are adopting this.

[@davelightsaber1621]

“top women don’t compromise” …dam…that’s real .

[@Boababa-fn3mr]

And yet they do... it's not even true

[@v9b23j]

Evolutionary biology significantly influences a woman's choice of a man, favoring traits that indicate healthy genes and the potential for successful offspring. Financial stability ensures provision, pro-social behavior indicates protection, and physically masculine characteristics (e.g., strong jawline, muscular body, large shoulder-to-hip ratio, and taller height) signal good genetic health. On the otherhand, women with large eyes, a small chin, and full lips (traits indicating youth and fertility) are considered attractive to men as they signal healthy genes and reproductive potential. Studies also show that the ideal waist-to-hip ratio (WHR) for pre-menopausal women, from a male perspective, is between 0.67 and 0.8. This preference is believed to be a cognitive adaptation, as a woman's WHR provides information about her age, health, and fertility.

[@spartanghost9713]

💯💯💯💯

[@Boababa-fn3mr]

Ev psych is just a theory. Don't invest too deeply in it.

[@davida.taylor8444]

And that WHR is constant across cultures and time and so isn't a social construct that can be influenced and removed or changed.

[@bobbyhollowayiii4684]

I can listen to her talk all day it’s so informative and soothing.

[@simjam1980]

Blaming the men for women doing only fans is like drug dealers blaming the addicts... absurd the lack of accountability!

[@KO-bt2fx]

Yea it is the addicts fault. The lack of logic in these takes is astounding. The market is always the issue not the supply

[@simjam1980]

@@KO-bt2fx so the drug dealer has no choice but to sell drugs because addicts want drugs? Riiiighht.

[@KO-bt2fx]

@@simjam1980 nope that person is at fault but if there is no market no dealers

[@stevemann1299]

​@@KO-bt2fx Exactly that. Everything in life is supply and demand.

[@stevemann1299]

If men had control of their sex drive. And cut only fans models dead tomorrow. What happens to the only fans models?

[@marioleclerc4566]

Men do not engaged with entitled women. They don't work on themselves and don't make compromise. More and more women feel that way nowadays even just average ladies. They are not pleasant long term partner to be with. Date wholesome one that loves you. That should be your most important criteria not beauty. Once lust is over, you discover who you are dating. It's not going to give you great sex by itself. Beauty is way overrated. Men you are entitled to quality lady period.

[@TheKCaryer]

So as a man all you have to be is a rock star so she is constantly enthralled and not divorce grape you

[@Jch833]

Women aren’t completely happy with their man unless they look up to him to a certain extent.

[@bertrandrussell894]

And yet even if they fo they see always looking to trade up

[@rickclark7508]

I cut zero slack to the men subscribing to only fans and such but to say that the content creators are Justified and the men are the real problem is like saying the drug addicts are the real problem and the dealers are understandable because they have a profit motive. I would have expected better from Sadia.

[@SeniorAdrian]

word

[@moviesfan5513]

Why would you expect a social media women to empathize with average men ?

[@WarrenDavies20]

To be able to have a conversation with you, digging into and unpacking some of those points that are both realities and, misconceptions. There are plenty of hard truths however, I would say that there are limitations that one can personally fully understand and appreciate when you are the opposite sex.. Case in point, the beginning of the testosterone driven urge that a 14/15yr old boy experiences which leads him to down the path of nude female content (digital porn, magazines, etc) is extremely strong and, I believe it takes an understanding and invested home environment along with an early appreciation of the need for self development, discipline, personal standards etc, that will indicate that adolescent boy's best chance of growing into a 'healthy' man. One point you touched on also seems to confirm the other reality, that content developers (majority female) see the money they can earn and are focused on that outcome, while the men satisfy their need for sexual (not solely) pleasure seeking outcomes. There are many paths with which one could split off into and explore further but, amazing content and insights Sadia.

[@genocidelves]

Its like old 4chan green text from like 20 years ago. Find a woman who loves you more than you love her and hold on to that.

[@jonb4722]

Yes or just be lucky. That really helps too

[@benyamin7363]

Keep spinning plates lads

[@TheBeatle49]

I am very average looking. I have been with some absolute stunners. There are women who are attracted to intelligence and creativity.

[@karenc.9298]

Love your content Sadia and Mark

[@tcp1623]

Thank you for being truthful

[@Laceon1]

This lady based. Need more like her.

[@cozyandahalle]

Someone needs to give Sadia a hardball interview. It sounds as if she is advocating polygamy. The happiest women are those in competition for the attention of the man. How many managers of harems is she consulting for? What is her personal experience with polygamy and what is her attitude towards it?

[@joshuastanaland7099]

Top women don't compromise which is true but average women think they are top women.

[@Nordic_Sky]

Exactly. In southern California, where I live, 4s think they are 9s. They end up alone and bitter.

[@Boababa-fn3mr]

They do compromise, because the mythical perfect men they demand don't exist

[@andrewrice9383]

@@Boababa-fn3mr right, I don’t think I’ve ever seen a so-called perfect woman. My definition of that would be 10 out of 10 in almost every metric simultaneously. All physical attributes, emotional intelligence, intent to do good, resilience to stress, genetics for long life, delayed gratification ability, information processing ability, mental models and ways of representing the world, creativity, compatibility, and chemistry with my particular personality. I think the odds of that are more than one in 10 billion. Might even be 1 trillion or higher.

[@keiichiiino-c3c]

They are entitled because, people make and put them in that position

[@MenelausMO]

I wonder what a Socrates or a Plato or an Epictetus would say about all this? In what universe is being beautiful a mark of good character? Alcibiades ring any bells? I wonder what the ancient philosophers would say about this idea that acting entitled is acceptable. All this manipulation and getting people to submit and "High Value men" programs? Socrates was dirt poor but thousands of years later hes one of the highest value men in all of western civilization. I guess the point is what is the point of playing this game when the reward is a "beautiful" woman who has the character of a tyrant, the entitlement of an Aphrodite, or a Helen, and is so lacking in self knowledge that she needs to be constantly entertained?

[@rasmasyean]

Half the stuff this girl says seems to be some sort of BS geared toward the idea of shallow relationships depicted in Hollywood. It seems to me that RL relations ships mostly revolve around compatibility. Yes...attractiveness DOES help, but never have I met anyone who uses that as some sort of "scale" to compare themselves to "who they have access to as an equivalent value romance asset" or whatever she keeps regurgitating.

[@YellvisOurboysonFordatra]

“Why are women entitled?” - the woman who needs a double alpha to handle her, 2k24

[@lugaritzbrown2250]

Shortness DOESNT make men less attractive.

[@allstartuber]

Not at all. I've seen quite a bit of women leave taller guys who were nice dudes for shorter guys that had a higher level of confidence. So it makes me believe that confidence does win height in most cases once it's evident

[@skepticalbutopen4620]

It does to many women. Especially if those women are taller than the man. Not always, but most women want a taller man.

[@mauricecarreno82]

Correct, actually the best weapons are Confidence, Trigger emotions and be the leader by building the ladder below you.

[@lugaritzbrown2250]

@@skepticalbutopen4620 it's what they say but to me attraction is more intrinsic....you can be the tallest man around but if you display a certain type of vybe you become a turn-off.

[@skepticalbutopen4620]

@@lugaritzbrown2250 well that’s obvious. I’m talking about on average. Most women want their man taller than them. That’s just a fact.

[@larrywestra9305]

This lady is so beautiful. She seems to care for the dynamic of both men and women.

[@youtubeone2231]

Sadia nailed it 💯❤

[@sherrymsri]

As a fairly attractive independent woman, I've always tried not to use my looks to manipulate men. I've tried to treat them with respect and be understanding towards them. However, I often see them being intimidated by me or as soon as I start showing interest or emotions they back off. Maybe I am the problem but I really don't understand how we went from a society where men were the breadwinners and had to take on the entire responsibility for their families to what we are witnessing today. Men who want all the benefits that come with new feminism but at the same time get intimidated by independent women and would rather be alone, than dealing with the challenges of a real relationship.

[@JolPil]

They reject you because they are NOT truly attracted to you! If they truly wanted you, all the intimidation will burn off with the fire of raw manly desire. A desire you have obviously NEVER experienced.

[@sherrymsri]

@@JolPil You're completely WRONG! I've always been desired by men. They've all been attracted to me, both physically and intellectually ... They just can't handle dealing with a powerful woman and the responsibilities that come with being in a relationship. And I have been in long-term relationships before, you don't know me or my experiences so your comment here is irrelevant.

[@gauravbhan]

I don’t see any benefits of modern feminism, and so, I am not sure what is there in it that I would want to enjoy.

[@surferscollective613]

You haven't explained your point clearly. If it is that men dont do hypergamy, correct for most.

[@awsambdaman]

Men may be nervous to approach you because of looks but I’ve never seen a man actually be intimidated by a high earning woman. Because income isn’t really a factor for men.

[@userdbldip83]

I like the way you look within that background set. And I personally longe to move and evolve and be me and what I too bring to the relationship.

[@cnote3580]

What she says about the opposite sex liking each other is correct

[@emilphoryew9436]

Dating elderly women are the best. They're the most kind, pleasant and loyal. I'm a 45 man with a 72 year old woman. I am reading this is becoming a more common trend because young woman's immaturity, expectations and entitlement are unreasonable.

[@vasilisavirovka7499]

Woman just as friends can defintly also be entitled towards each other.

[@awsambdaman]

Yeah my wife had a friend like that. She hurt her and I feel bad cause my wife is such a giver and that girl was a complete taker

[@vasilisavirovka7499]

@@awsambdaman That is why strong boundaries towards people in general also girls and woman are so important, I believe!

[@BecomingaQueen]

She is such a Queen! 👑

[@carl_anderson9315]

A valid point to consider is that that those young-beautiful-entitled women who are at the top of the dating chain are in apparence the “top shelf” because they’re the ones men look after the most. But I consider they’re mostly damaged goods because of their entitlement. Their beauty, youth and huge ego are a horrible combination that should be avoided, because those women have no empathy or respect for others. The best women I have encountered in my life are mature psychologically and emotionally, and young mentally, with plans, dreams and a bright future to build no matter their age, they care about others, respect their selves and value high quality men, without discriminating those who are not at her level.

[@Nordic_Sky]

In southern California, 4s think they are 9s. It's ridiculous. The real 9-10s want sports and rock stars. I know lots of tall, good looking, rich, highly educated guys who are with women who are WAY below them. It's not balanced at all.

[@brandonmitchell6351]

My secret to getting a woman to like you more is this: once you get her, continue to strive for big goals and achieve. Cause if you do you’ll show her that you’re a winner and women will be afraid to leave

[@willhustle25]

I've seen a few videos of Sadia takes on relationships and I sort of agree/disagree with her take on her take from 3:34 - 4:30. At some point these same attractive women may be able to be entitled they want to be but the problem is that those women age just like anyone else. An attractive woman in her mid 30s probably isn't going to pull the same guys as she did 10 yrs earlier. There are younger women who turn 18, 19, 20, 21, etc., everyday. The same women who were entitled in they younger years and kept turning down men and didn't want to settle down eventually end up regretting it.

[@emerald10005]

Sadia, you state that being a woman producing onlyfans stuff is really bad for their ego and mental health multiple times and then you go on to say that you condone it... why? You can understand the reasoning behind something without needing to justify it. Seeing as you are fully aware of the mental health effects behind this it just makes no sense to me I also don't understand how you cannot condone men subscribing to something you understand and condone women producing... how can you just blame the subscriber and not the producer? If the men are the real issue in society in this regard then isn't the producer also at fault for producing this? It's like being fine with pornstars voluntarily producing porn or drug dealers selling drugs but holding only the drug victim accountable or the porn addict. Both parties always should be held accountable, no?

[@spartanghost9713]

💯💯💯💯

[@awsambdaman]

If she’s said that then that’s a really dumb take on her part

[@M3NZOTUBE]

I think you make some great points and agree the producers are part of the problem too. The only reason why I side with Sadia’s views on this topic is because as men, we are meant to be leaders, something lacking massively in society these days. A large part of leading, is leading by example. If collectively as men we made the decision to stop consuming such content, the producer (women) would have no audience.

[@awsambdaman]

M3NZOTUBE I absolutely agree. Men are the leaders. If there’s a change in culture it will be because men decided for it to happen. We have so much more power than we think. But that also doesn’t mean that women are completely absolved of their responsibility. They can still behave badly and it doesn’t mean they get off scot free

[@spartanghost9713]

@@M3NZOTUBE So true.

[@SeniorAdrian]

I'm sorry, but your reasoning is wrong. The content creators on Onlyfans are also to blame. The whole system is to blame. You cant say drug dealers are not to blame and only the consumers are. Look at social media addiction. Both creators and consumers are to blame.

[@TO8]

Yeah but the truth is, if women are going based solely on looks and viewed as "top women" her looks will fade and what is she left with? Men don't care about a woman's salary, unless he's lazy and wants to mooch off her, but her value doesn't mean much. If she's beautiful, 10/10, she's also delusional to assume I deserve the same things like she did when she was in her teens, 20s, 30s or even 40s. I'm not saying a woman who's 50 and loses some of her youthful beauty is worthless because I don't view women like that. If a guy is 5'7, she's right, there will be women and girls who will cringe and say, no thank you. However, not all women or girls are like that and I do believe -- hard work, kindness, confidence goes along way. Problem is, many women and girls are looking for perfection and at times that can be unrealistic. If she wants the perfect guy who's 10/10 why wouldn't the guy just think, when I have aged well like a fine well and im still valuable more then her. It's guys or men like that who will dump that woman for someone younger and that's also the cold hard reality for women as well, it goes both ways.

[@willek1335]

I would be a bit concerned if I was a male OF consumer and a client of hers, and she can't understand what's going on. While I'm not consuming any OF, I think it's as simple as doing the same cost-benefit analysis for men, as she does with women. While I personally don't subscribe to this, I can understand why a guy looks at the initiators of divorce, consequences, and then judge that it's not worth it. Besides, a study I read a while back, women at the bottom will outsource what they need from several men. Women at the top will find all they desire in one man. What man would voluntarily share a woman with several men walking in and out of her life? I thus suspect Sadia is either pretending she doesn't know, to get guys like me to comment, or lack wisdom. In either case, I feel like a fool for remaining a subscriber. Unsubscribed.

[@m.bustock5265]

What is your age?

[@willek1335]

​@@m.bustock5265 Mature enough to recognize that when an individual attempt to take an argument to a personal level, they show you that you have the upper hand, and that they're going to come off worse.

[@brentrollins]

Sadia: "The subscribers are the epidemic" ... SO, you're saying the "DRUG DEALER" ISN'T the problem --- the DRUG ADDICT IS. SMH.

[@amorosogombe9650]

I cannot understand how anyone can pay for only fans. Unbelievable. But I think some of those men are so rich they don't care about $10K for dirt.

[@GermanTaffer]

Men throw their lives away for 5 seconds of excitement.

[@amorosogombe9650]

@@GermanTaffer Ain't that the truth.

[@champfisk5613]

Only fans has subscriptions, you don’t have to be rich to use it

[@brianmeen2158]

@@amorosogombe9650 I’ve seen data that show at least half of the guys that pay for OF are married. I can only imagine how that marriage is going lol. But yeah, when I think of the many men paying for OF my soul hurts. What’s worse is they are mostly paying for women to pay attention to them. Pathetic

[@1.618Golden]

Please explain one thing to men, this will help more than anything else. Just explain this one thing please: Women. That is all, please explain that. Nothing women do make any kind of sense, even to other women. So please explain that.

[@vettie]

Chaos is the absence of order.

[@sheknows9704]

it doesnt make sense because you are looking at things logically. Try and understand people by understanding them emotionally. You will understand both men and women. Go read the art of seduction by Robert Greene.

[@awsambdaman]

There isn’t really a “secret” to women. I guess if there’s anything I’ve learned: she needs to feel like she’s dating up, she needs to feel listened to (most of the time don’t try to solve her problems), help out around the house if both of yall are working. And also you as the man need to be the leader. That’s about what I’ve learned so far

[@hyliux]

"One regards women as deep - why? Because one never discovers any bottom to them. Women are not even shallow." - Friedrich Nietzsche, beyond good and evil. Woman are the embodiment of samsara. Of the circle of life. uberboyo made a good video on that. You're welcome

[@lalaurienne]

In much of American culture, average women tend not to find average men attractive and prefer to dabble in relationships or to remain alone. An increasing number of average American men are finding love and committed relationships abroad, primarily, for now, in the Philippines. But we're talking about a materialistic, spiritually destitute culture of ego-driven, unsustainable values. Relationships between men and women await the coming economic collapse and impoverishment of much of the West. Mutual need for survival may, ironically, restore a measure of humility to today's iinsanity. Those four or five village girls will look awfully good, and those girls may once again value the guys they can realistically partner with.

[@YuniS772]

99% of women that I know would not care about the high and I am 5,7“ and I never cared. I think it‘s his Character and charisma that matters. ❤

[@naimasophie]

That you know. Most important words here

[@alexdavila1356]

Congrats. 99% of the women I know do care.

[@davidwollenberg1758]

Well I agree with her I like Filipina women because they like blonde hair blue-eyed guys a lot of them. A lot of Filipino women are ruling to work really hard at a relationship the good ones and their a little bit jealous which shows they care about you. As long as they don't take it too far. The man needs to be the sun in the relationship the woman needs to revolve around the sun

[@devildog3799]

I thank you, you hit a nerve when I was in a debauchery stage for months in Brazil. I was just scrolling and never had heard of you. I cleaned up all the addition non sense - going on 6 months and back in the States. Not easy but it’s possible to control your impulses. One impulsive behavior creates another. Hard to wake up and realize i associated and dated nothing but impulsive alcoholics and addicts for decades. Just like me! Self reflect and get some discipline fellas.

[@TEKTAR-7]

The entitlement attitude doesn’t work as she gets older and by the time she is that age it’s pretty hard to change and life will get hard for her. I would rather take a 7/10 with good character than a 10/10 with an entitled attitude any day.

[@chewonthisfishing]

I trained for many years to get my black belt in Jiu jitsu. Many times my wife would be jealous of the effort I put in to accomplish that goal. Even though she received time after and the training was a direct benefit to her. However she modeled for many years and I always supported her in going on casting calls and other modeling jobs.

[@shtanna]

Very common for guys who train a lot and are married or in serious relationships. Hope you are still training.

[@chewonthisfishing]

@@shtanna sure thing now it’s time to give back to all the up and comers

[@enrico.alaggia]

Should be 1% entitle women It actually is 99.999999999999999% Good luck to all of us

[@spartanghost9713]

😂😂😂💯💯💯💯

[@awsambdaman]

Vote with your feet, ignore entitled women and praise humble women

[@davida.taylor8444]

@@awsambdaman Yea, I agree with that. I've often thought that we live in a Cinderella world where there are many more entitled and ostentatious step-sisters of bad character while the lowly, humble, and likeable Cinderella's really are few and far between. I really do think that for both sexes, training in discipline and character is sorely lacking. Sadia is right that we all need better practice in self-control.

[@latinhero1818]

There’s a lot of men who are that lonely. And many of them were likely exposed to porn by women very much like the women they see now at a very young age. Many of them came from single mothers too so it’s not like they had a lot going for them going for them in that department. Not that it excuses them from trying to improve themselves. Which is why I’m not buying her deflection from these only fans models. No. You cannot claim “equality” and simultaneously deny your moral agency or culpability. And to be perfectly honest, I don’t think she believes in equality either. Or rather, she believes in it if/when it benefits her.

[@TomFox1]

Looks matter if your emotionally weak and entitled. The heart and looks matter, both.

[@0xshikhar]

Thats true - she should like you more. Then only it works. So be with women who approaches you :)

[@YGabi333]

The sad thing is like I am very beautiful black woman but I never acted entitled! Even dated man that couldnt give me nothing. The one I didnt like the most told me I didnt know my worth. I guess not! That was even because I didnt but like I saw you other video about beautiful people how they got treated, and that is why I started to question myself. So thank you for that eyeopening video! But bow with alll this knowlegde, I am going to rise my standards very high and be less available for nonsense. Btw I do have an unicorn tatoo for like 35 years hahaha

[@surferscollective613]

Geez bros. Simple life and stick to your mission, the woman will come and add value to your life. A woman is someone to give your love to...she isnt your mission. And a mission doesnt need to be money based. First rule of magic....know thyself.

[@spartanghost9713]

💯💯💯💯

[@Goddessctata]

Men need affirmation and sex Women need love and affection Why do we complicate things?

[@Zckwarriar2009zi]

There we go. Men are all eyes. Looks is what matter, specially in Dubai and third world countries.

[@Vadderax]

Content creaters and there subscribers go hand to hand in a cycle. if its anyone's fault. It the men that justify to subscribe to there desires of women. And women that desire to justify the money from men. It is a hard habit, and cycle to break. In order to break this. It would take something to dramatically happen to society that would be more than likely bad ti happen in this world than something good to happen. It would be a culture shock to how people live. What it would be can vary depending on the circumstances and stiuation.

[@spartanghost9713]

💯💯💯💯

[@johncrow5552]

Diamonds are a girls best friend. A dog is a mans best friend. Says it all doesn't it?

[@Housestationlive]

that sucks. life sucks. have a good day anyway.

[@spartan6005]

So when you get board of her becoming boring she dumps you get new girl friend

[@joedimaggio3687]

I love you, Sadia.

[@JoeL91939]

Sure, I could spend more time in the gym. Sure, I could have made better career choices. What is the exercise for height?

[@MikePhillips-x6m]

Probably find women who think they are the most entiled are celebrities and senior managers working for large companies. Reason for this is media and online community are constantly telling these women how amazing they are!:

[@Yosef_Maharat]

Thanks!

[@gabrielasofia4816]

11:22 I think this phrase is extremly biased. I think she is kind of insulting 'average' men and women. Entitlement depends on many factors, not just beauty. It could be money, fame, status. I have to report this comment.

[@defiantrascal6214]

What do you mean by:"the storms we are about to face"?

[@ALTheFreeMan]

Metaverse, AI, Neura-Link, etc….if we think adult content is a problem now, we ain’t seen nothin yet!

[@WallaceAhtone-sq6ty]

​@@ALTheFreeManAI girlfriends will spell doom for most of the population. Combine this with open borders, automation, promotion of other social changes. It will be Armageddon for the society that has already been.

[@megsley]

7:44 thank you for saying this - men get so hypocritical about this shit sometimes its exhausting.

[@mc80466]

The logic you used to say it’s justifiable that a woman would want to do OF to make money but morally bad that men would pay for it seems backwards when applied to other industries. For example, we generally hold drug dealers more accountable than drug users. We wouldn’t say it’s understandable someone selling heroin just wants to make some money but those pathetic heroin addicts need to control themselves better.

[@michaelgreco1175]

I agree with a lot of things Sadia said, but I can't agree with her when she says that wntitlement is reserved for the 1% girl. That's such a turn off

[@libertyloveslife5602]

One suggestion to women: cook! Have a hot meal for your man when he comes home. Men! Bring food home on a Thursday when she’s tired.also my rabbi also says eat an apple in the car on the way home (for anyone) so you don’t come home hangry 😂

[@FBICPS]

Most people have a job not a career

[@melenico4512]

The career is an illusion to sell you a package.

[@magicsinglez]

I thought we just called each other entitled, on the left and right, because we’re confused.

[@xFersureMatt]

I cant get a women to like me for more than a week. This would be impossible for me to keep her interested.

[@brianmeen2158]

Damn are these women you are dating very attractive? Are you pursuing them Endlessly ? Are they showing genuine interest in from the beginning? If they aren’t then it’s going to be very difficult to maintain her attraction