How To Be Kind To Yourself When People Are Not Nice To You | BK Shivani

In a world full of cruelty and selfishness, being kind to yourself is understandably difficult. It’s not easy to be kind to yourself when people are constantly bringing you down. The modern world has created a superficial image of itself submerged with selfishness and ego. Everyone wants to be materialistic and tend to themselves only. And in the process, harsh criticism always makes way for a person, resulting in low self-esteem, anxiety and doubts. Being content with what you are and what you have is the first step towards being kind. Allowing yourself to feel vulnerable and accept the flaws is also another kind thing you can always give to your soul. In this video, motivational speaker BK Shivani, also known as Sister Shivani tells us more about how to be kind to herself. Her thoughts and pieces of advice will help you realise why you need to value yourself more. Source: Brahma Kumaris
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[@luunguyenthuha2506]

Om Shanti! Grateful to Sister Shivani

[@prasadraopilli1764]

She is so calm and gentle.

[@lalanthipremawardhana9890]

Im so lucky to have someone like you in this life journey .Thank you so much sister .lm from SriLanka and always waiting for your videos. God bless you!

[@umapathykurgod3707]

Qaà😊

[@tanusreebhunia9465]

How cute she is with out any makeup ❤❤🙏🙏

[@vishalpawar7368]

True, she is natural beauty !

[@nirupathacker8923]

Truly a awesome message with a deep introspection ..thank you & God bless you .

[@rekhaprasad1220]

This is comes from a beautiful soul n she has that..❤

[@CW-nk2vd]

Who is she?

[@SSheriff49]

:). She kind to herself. Learn from her...

[@hartajanmol]

(At 18:55 min) - Take peoples words not their energy - Because we get affected by the energy of criticism, we may negate the valuable feedback :) - Something very important to practice for maintaining a happy state and remaining in the now. Be kind to yourself - Don't let the self-esteem be dependent on other people's opinion :)- Thank you for the many valuable insights in this video 🙏.

[@sukidhanoa119]

So on point ! Oh I've changed, my ego! When I stopped saying No and focusing on me. God bless you sister Shivani 🙏🏼❤️

[@subramanyampanoli386]

I whole heartedly welcome your valuable assets of wisdom to purify human nature to right way ,, Thank you

[@asifmuniruniverse7732]

Respected! Often time it is not easy to stop myself but now I'm used to and try to reply politely and with kindness

[@narendralabla8854]

Many many thanks SISTER,God bless you for ever.

[@harjinderflora2402]

Beautifully said ❤️🙏🙏

[@nakiguliagnes4103]

Very interesting Indeed. Thanks for your sharing

[@saroyo2687]

I really enjoyed this. Thank you.

[@slee6593]

God Bless😇

[@sarojininair2479]

Om Shanti sister🙏🏻🙏🏻. Thank you so much.

[@lataramooji5234]

Thank you for this lovely session. Self Introspection very much needed. It helped me a lot.

[@Vision_Of_Realities]

Om Shanti Om 🙏🌺🌟

[@sanjeevkhosla4928]

How true 💥💥💥

[@eirigh_suas]

Om shanti 🙏

[@mayadevi7572]

You are wonderful Didi. Love you so much ❤

[@deesticco1719]

Superb delivery ! Thank you Sister !🙏🏽

[@rj-qe3jv]

Thank you for sharing your wisdom and enlightening BK wish you would visit South Africa

[@antonettefernandes4095]

This very good to learn how to leave our live with the people we have to be humble our self thank you so much for giving us the advise

[@chandrasekar2692]

You speak well mam. Peace is being brought by you.

[@ruthbanon6049]

Indian society is one of the most conforming societies on earth. People there are almost totally dependent on social and family structures and encoraged to have homogeneous personalities. Try going against what your in-laws or relatives deem appropriate and you will be in big trouble. Only Japan is maybe worse. Sister Shavani is giving excellent advise but I doubt that people who live in Indian families will be able to take it on board.

[@TakJhalMishtiMB]

Om Shanti

[@rajibalakrishnan3764]

Very nice and interesting. Om shanti. God bless you.

[@GD-cr5um]

I tried all this but the more kind ur the more awful people were so i created boundaries. Imagine someone spoiling ypur name without u hurting them.

[@avantika_j26]

Sister/Brother , either a past karma is being settled or a new one is being created 😊

[@danishmahajan]

People have bullied me to death and they don't understand boundaries

[@GD-cr5um]

@@danishmahajan yeah we teach people how to treat us. Sadly in my case my mother bullied me and then I thought that was normalised behaviour. Follow Terri Cole she has changed my life on many levels

[@parnachattopadhyay5435]

Every moment and every time.

[@manzyism]

Thank you.

[@waulau8]

Namaste 🙏 Thank you

[@mousumibhattacharjee4461]

Thank you Sister good night Om Shanti

[@PranasaraAyurveda]

Thank you so much 💓

[@Sivaraman-vw6pu]

Super sister

[@poojakinger9071]

How can we be kind to people who repeat the same mistakes inspite of telling them not to do As simple as switch off the lights before leaving the house is not done inspite of telling again and again politely

[@parnachattopadhyay5435]

Yes. ❤

[@ranisharma8020]

Om Shanti ji didi ji thanku So mach God bless you dear didi ji namn humara ❤️🌹🌹🙏🙏🙏

[@wendyhamilton1347]

Om shanti give thanks to our creator

[@heemas4772]

When people are not nice, we don’t loose our mind, but we must answer wrong behaviour by correct argument or else people take advantage of your letting them go.

[@osheen529]

Respect ❤

[@KhushiKumari-vx9zz]

I need only myself to heal myself....10 -12:00

[@minakshiupadhye9969]

❤

[@kalu123]

Somthing good

[@xx21playerxx]

🕉️☮️🙏🏼

[@sarbjitsara7615]

She is goddess ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@huidromromiladevi8565]

How to behave when animals around us?

[@pritishukla6433]

Yes egostic. Humble i jusy cant work with you. An all that happen with me some people tried to said im that. Im egostiec

[@nadikajayarathna8167]

❤❤❤

[@cutelakshya17]

How can I live with the person 24hr who is mentally torturing me.

[@OmatiJaikaran]

Love

[@padmiabenayake1524]

🙏🙏🙏

[@gabar6541]

EVERYTHING IS GOOD Only thing is to understand I refering to CONCIOUSNESS and BRAIN mein working instrument😂

[@mkngani4718]

ஆனால் அந்த முயற்சி செய்து கொண்டார் என்பது குறித்து ஆய்வு செய்ய வேண்டும் என்ற எண்ணத்தில் தான். ஆனால் அவர் அதை. QAC ஒரு நாள் சர்வதேச அளவில் கலைஞர் கருணாநிதி கூறியுள்ளார். ஆனால் அந்த முயற்சி செய்து கொண்டார் என்பது குறித்து ஆய்வு செய்ய வேண்டும் என்ற எண்ணத்தில் தான் .ஆனால் அவர் அதை விட பெரிய அளவில் வெற்றி பெற்று முதல் இடத்தை தேர்வு செய்து அவர்களுக்கு ஒரு நாள் சர்வதேச அளவில் பல இடங்களில் வெற்றி பெற்றது. இந்த நடந்துள்ளது தலைமையில் நடைபெற்றது ஒரு நாள் சர்வதேச அளவில் பல இடங்களில்.தமிழகத்தில் கடந்த ஓய்வு பெற்ற பிறகு தான் இந்த மாதிரி எல்லாம். QAC ஒரு நாள் சர்வதேச அளவில் கலைஞர் கருணாநிதி தலைமையில் இன்று வரை அந்த வகையில் தான் கலைஞர் கருணாநிதி தான் காரணம் தமிழ் நாட்டில் இருந்து முறையாக DMK தமிழகத்தில் இருந்து MKS தமிழகத்தில் இருந்து வந்த DMK ஆட்சியில் இருந்த. Mks தமிழ் நாட்டில் இருந்து முறையாக இந்த முறை அவர் கலைஞர் கருணாநிதி தமிழ் மக்கள் மத்தியில் mks DMK தமிழ் மக்கள் மத்தியில் பெரும் வெற்றி பெற்ற இந்திய அணி வெற்றி பெற வேண்டும் என்ற கருத்தை பதிவு செய்து பார்க்க வேண்டும் என்ற.

[@ranjitsumati27]

Ms. Shivani: You are asking question what people around you wants most. In fact people every and particularly in lands like U.S. almost all of them want MONEY as they are mold into feeling and believing that MONEY can do, buy everything.....just everything...........

[@fayeamor1994]

I need rest, im tired very very tired

[@farooqbhat2436]

May I know her name

[@sushmasinha8054]

People are ungrateful they eat my food then they(Kavita Sinha) insult me, I made lunch for her, she ate, then we sat in her car,she said getup u stupid head,then she said , shame on her ,she smokes, I never smoked in my entire life, my husband Narendra sinha , who was driving her car smoked in college years,but she never said anything to him ,she was trying to wedge between me and my husband,she succeeded,and even went for driving lesson with my husband narendra,both came home at night in my house, ate dinner,then she ,her daughter whom I gave juice,her husband Abhay left, her son ate sour cream in my house,but when we went their home they didn’t gave anything to my daughter or my son 😢

[@Nayan_Dutta]

💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚💚

[@simonaetedgi]

Tfs you mam osume

[@nashrinhossain9267]

Ha nagis

[@yeveschenkotovarish4908]

What is ment by unattached observer

[@saleemakhtar9412]

MOODI IS UNKIND TO MUSLIMS!!!!!!!!

[@Divorcedhousemaid666]

Kindness 😂 Its too late when henious people revealed the value of kindness. Expect kindness from synical people is the most foolish thing.

[@Divorcedhousemaid666]

Exactly. Suvi' s huka.......where is ma the most amazing person in the world.

[@SureshKumar-ly2wp]

So cheap with lots of ad interruptions. Already they have huge money, but still greedy to money through ads. CHEAP ATTITUDE. It's contradicting the content.

[@sumedhgojanur1601]

P

[@misbahsandhu524]

cute you

[@kaluvamaddhusudhanrao8457]

People in tha you tube chanels talks negitive by shivaniji so cheap yuk shivani ji godes in tha earth spritual godes spritual heaven to day every one want hapy pease nise na dont atack in persinal nise na 😅😅😅

[@josephvendokaran3927]

Chor Company!

[@Ksvtjhyb7]

She assumes reincarnation is a fact.

[@saipappu9912]

Off all the good things she said, you only picked up this? 😅

[@Education-dw3pp]

So?

[@lifemomentums]

Me also know that’s a fact. 5-year old girl told us that she had a family before in Russia and told us all the details. She just pointed out on the map where she lived, how she died. Nuts

[@kheerosings2291]

I don’t like her Voice …...Something irritating.....

[@Youtube.com5it9960]

Your Speach Has Gladdened Me Very Much. So I love You. I Want to get you As a new freind. Iam Md lsrafil Haque. From Bangladesh.

[@antonettefernandes4095]

❤❤❤❤